Update On My Helper Who Poured Poisonous Liquid In My Stanley

[@victorioussisters3307]

Bona ninja, it’s different strokes for different folks!!!! I’m also mother of 4 too with a full time nanny and a helper. Kids home schooling, dad self employed with an office at home, in a nutshell we’re all home 24/7 but there’s no way I’ll be phenduking all day long, never! Just do you Queen!

[@gracedrosie5127]

absolutely ,

[@cheranehlahla]

Even the Proverbs 31 woman has servants, we can work smart.

[@lii277]

Right?!!!!! Like why should we do things we don't want to, this is why some of work to make money and still want more money, so we can live comfortably.

[@LM-he7eb]

I am single & childfree. I don't have a helper. because I don't work anymore. When I get back to working, and living alone in a 1 bedroom apartment; Guess what??? I will have a helper.

[@relosikwane9644]

I’m so with you on getting a helper. For me, it’s also about convenience. If I can have someone take these duties off my hands then why not? Hope you find someone good to help you again 🙏🏾

[@lillianrakobela5957]

I just want to remind you not to take everything people do/ say to heart. This person hurt you in ways no one should ever have to experience. Please focus on yourself and your well-being-you deserve so much better. ❤.

[@dineomametja3277]

My mom had a helper while unemployed when I was a baby. We grew up with a helper all our lives. I also can't go without one. I can do all domestic work but I just don't want to exhaust myself like that.

[@dumisilebambo855]

My baby don’t worry you cannot please everybody What are they thinking your life was in danger Not treating her well does it warrant / justify her to poison you ?? These helpers some of them are vile ,hun don’t take it to heart Get well soon mtanami Mama signing in from UK

[@mskaynew1607]

6:00 I know exactly what you mean Owamie! Glad you're 💯 okay now. Congrats on your winnings mami, well done!!! Ignore the bitter nunjus!!! They'll forever talk negatively regardless of what you do... Just be careful on the helpers, some can be cruel & heartless out there and have boundaries, it is really a struggle having a hectic schedule & also having to take care of your household

[@-Natefo-]

Unrelated but some people like to glorify struggle shem. Even the “makoti duties”, they don’t care about the work being done but how it’s done. It’s tiring.☹️

[@VhoTurnDoor]

Yes. It's like they want your soul. And see you suffer. You can ask an unemployed lady or Gent in the village to assist you with some things and they will still say you're being disrespectful and not doing your duties as a Makoti.

[@bubblysparkles1]

Was your helper not maybe cleaning your Stanley for you? I poisoning someone by cleaning detergents does not make sense to me they smell and most probably have a bitter taste

[@LumkaJwara]

She lied about how she put the domestos through the straw I don't trust anything she says.

[@elvisndlovu1232]

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[@thebusinessstrategistbw816]

I grew up without any helper at home. I refuse to work 23 hours a day and will therefore always have a helper

[@Elizabeth-vu1tb]

I still can’t believe that there are people out there that still think having a helper as a black woman is wrong!. My sister; even if you can slave with 6 kids etc.. never use your breath to ever speak down on another person. If a person can ask your kids NOW if they want to be you; they will also say NO‼️ seeing their mom be a robot isn’t CUTE. Slaving around even taking your stress out on them instead of just asking for help( if you can afford it) isn’t cute!

[@JandineKatieMahoney]

My mother wax a single mother and she needed that so here I am 33 and always have a helper. Im sorry I can't even iron 😂😂😂 I can cook but cleaning isn't my strength so I glad to have a helper!! 2025 let's create JOBS!!

[@mzansisoapiereviewroastand613]

Clicked So fast, I really enjoy your story times more than Di Celebs❤❤❤

[@makhosimafu8885]

You and me both my Ninja , I am blessed to be a blessing to others , the wage they get it is also help putting food on thier table. and besides yoh!! I cant I wantt spotless place after work so I can do that by myself when I also work. the good thing I know how to clean and do all house chore but I hey I choose not to. andiphakeme futhi ngikhathele.

[@lii277]

Yoh!! Girl, some of us are not about that life of doing chores for ourselves, please! ✋🏿 Owamie, I am you, and you are me...I ain't doing nothing shebooboo, I'm even looking for a chef now cos hai ngeke sheeeeeemmm

[@wendyphillips9891]

Looking snazzy as always Owamie❤️🔥😊

[@lulamalemoen5500]

Yes Owami, there's nothing wrong. We also grew up with helpers, yet I've gone for years without one and at some point I had 2. So to each their own. You have tge right to talk about your experiences. What that helper did was nonsense.

[@Leira6267]

When my mom had a maid, she only allowed her to clean the house, clothes and everything else. Cooking was a NOOOOO! Dont fogert what our grandmas used to tell us dont accept food from starngers. But we still gullible and think we know better. Smh Owamie glad you are feeling better. Just becareful who you let in & protect your space. Sometimes being too kind, others take that as a weakness because of zealous..

[@Getty_chaoke]

Not maid

[@nontobekoncube8450]

She can still put muti in your house so no point made there

[@malebs8332]

Owamie, most of the time people project, so don't take everything we say, my sister. Some comments may be hurtful, but always remember that people are just projecting. And yes, there are some that would tell the painful truth. It's a matter of being able to sieve.

[@noctanal9269]

You have a helper because you can afford it. Nothing is wrong with that.

[@MoshimaMoroaswi-l4v]

No she poisonous her

[@sweetbertharwabizi7049]

My dear, you are very understanding and civil. I personally would take her to the police station and have her investigated because that is endangering someone’s life! Especially she knows your home and everything! I would even tip the neighbour where she is working! Yoh, I am savage and wouldn’t tolerate that because trying to poison me is a crime!

[@monalisakaetano8083]

Lesson learnt is whenever we get helpers in the house we should have cameras around that record everything they do then use it as evidence to get them arrested or take legal action

[@RELAXLAB-z8g]

I grew up having a helper so even now am having a helper in my house not because i cant do it but am creating a job for someone else to put food on the table. Dont mind those people because they cant afford to have helpers Umuntu akenze into ejabulisa yena ngemali yakhe! Why u did not open a case for ur helper?

[@Barb7707]

"I can cook I can clean and do all of that but I don't want to"💅Once I hit my 30s I want to be at this stage 👏

[@mbunguzintle6600]

I believe you on the part of having problems with helpers when you nice to them . I had my fair share to a point where by I'm scarred now to get another one. Lapho ndiyamdinga ninani. From December I took a break now I'm supposed to be looking ☹

[@mtt-h4m]

That is true, having a big heart is draining. That is why I’ve resorted to not engaging with people because I’m to empathetic.

[@candice23129]

I feel you...helpers sometimes take "employers" who are good to them forgranted.

[@HLCondos]

As soon as I 🛬touch down in 🇧🇼, I’ve got two helpers waiting for me at the airport because this jack-of-all-trades and part-time gas station attendant pro is officially over it! Life in the snow has me juggling more hats than a circus clown-time to delegate, exhale, and pretend I have it together! So Shibubu you by all means hire many helpers, do you

[@tshedzasibanda102]

Helpers who act like this mostly.they are treated like dogs .I am a helper thank God that I am born again,I once worked for another family the lady was not throwing away the pads she just left them by the floor for me to pick them up.she gave me the cup and the plate that I was using it was staying under the sink with cats food and dog .one day I cried how can she give me slice of bread that she ate half .so the truth is when I listened to your story kwami I am very sorry to say this they was misunderstanding between two of you and if u treat a human being nicely she will never do such unless she is sick.

[@Ethel-q6g]

Thank you my sister you said it all , some bosses treat their maids like thrash.sometimes you must put yourself in someone's shoes and ask yourself how will I feel if um treated this way

[@JandineKatieMahoney]

It's a job I don't think people see it like that sometimes!! Glad you good 👍💯

[@LM-he7eb]

People don't see them as domestic workers. They look at them as "helpers".

[@S24-x1u]

True Owami, people should do as they please. I believe in 2 helpers and a chef. People judge but....bite me😂

[@queenzeelately]

There’s someone I know who tried to unalive themselves and they used the same ingredient you accidentally ingested (domestos). Long story short… they survived and weeks later they had a very bad acne like breakout. So maybe this could be related to that. Angazi

[@nthabisengmasia8988]

Owamie we love you soo much❤❤❤❤. We want to see your face, especially your laughter and facial expression when you laugh is the best to watch

[@FundiswaMaqhula]

Haybo sana! Why must you do the house chores if you can pay someone to do it! People are so cruel to their lives shame. Me too I do even hire someone for other house chores. Treat yourself kindly Owamie. Bayabhuda laba. You deserve the best gal.

[@EsterTashiya]

You’re right. What you eat affects your cycle, I’m in agreement. Food is a major factor, just like weather etc.

[@elvisndlovu1232]

Within shibhubhu......just to sign in...I watch tomorrow

[@Isha-zr8pu]

Thank God you are okay, for someone you trust in your own home, that’s totally wrong on every level. Please don’t let her come back to your house again. From 🇬🇧

[@LumkaJwara]

You know your body the best ❤

[@gugunjakazi9509]

Yoo I’m glad I watched u are so funny ninja lami 😂😂😂

[@Mosebo-z3x]

I ve been having a helper for the past 18 years and its good for me cause i have a lot of thing that i do

[@grizzlytrigger6339]

My nannies left and died at their homes just a month of leaving me,so pray harder. They used to complain why not taking their dinner, I used to make sure I don't eat their food mmh

[@VhoTurnDoor]

Why would someone be worried about you not eating their food? Gqwirhy.

[@LethoHali]

Only jealousy would shame someone for having a helper! That’s so childish 🙄

[@lutendomakhokha1562]

Hello owamie ndikhou rengisa dzi perfumes for vhafumakadzi n vhanna ndikhou humbela u sapotiwa

[@thandekalubisi7267]

🌹🌹🌹 with you get another helper

[@asiphileni8949]

I share the same, I have cut on my spend for clothes and other fun things just to ensure that I can afford my aunty all the time. I can cut on take aways however not the assistance for thourough cleaning and washing. Its part of my vitamin's. I am not even from a home that had a helper however we share chores in the house.

[@mamotonarosemoloi7770]

U don't have to be apologetic about how u choose to live ur life. For heaven's sake we ha very a high rate of unemployment . U are helping some1 with their family when u actually hire some1 to be ur helper. Ppl just like complaining . I cant afford to have a helper and I know I need it... but why must I take my bitterness because I can't have a helper on u.

[@SaltieBW]

Yoh yoh topic.

[@princessm9530]

It's really true that when you are too nice to the helper they start thinking you're a fool 😊😊😊😊 talking from experience ❤❤

[@LucySekhobo]

Am glad you're ok Owamie,i want a job ,but i don't like cats and dogs ,❤

[@NeoNeoza]

Glad you are ok Owamie

[@mapuseletsomareka4385]

Please find another helper you will see people are not the same don't like to people good lack My Sister ❤️

[@elvisndlovu1232]

Subscribe, like, comment, share and again comment 😂🎉

[@sulezinyembezigqeba]

❤

[@Vickymackay]

yes we just straight forward

[@AfroCrownsRuthie]

Mna I hate house duties but I don't trust someone doing it for me. For now I'm as long as I still have strength I will clean for myself.

[@queenvhutshilo820]

I am glad you are ok dear❤

[@Manifester661]

My digestive system is very much connected to my reproductive system, if I eat certain foods with pungent smell, the smell does manifest itself on all my sweat glands. And also if you know about vaginal yeast infections, those can be worsened by your diet.

[@Deeepuo]

Ninja signing in✌️

[@disekomotsepe]

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[@thandomzolo7649]

Ninja checking in💞💞💞

[@GertrudeMoyo-nt1st]

I'm happy you are okay , thank God I worked for you and l left without any misunderstanding

[@marthanepolo4148]

Helpers hate nice people, they take advantage of you. They love working for people that mistreat them

[@tanniamahamati7737]

Weirdly all the comments are from madams....wow...who will speak for the helpers who suffer in the hands of madam....😢

[@neomalete5832]

I can’t imagine not working so that I can pay for convenience asoze My goal to work is so I can pay for anything that makes me life a bit easy yohh

[@maritawanazw]

People who don't understand us who grew up with helpers are impractical and backward in my own opinion. We are humans, we get tired and we get busy too. Maids have always been there for a reason!

[@sbuyilezondo2783]

Owami hle how to dm u

[@pemmytshikovhele9671]

That true what u eat affect ur cycle

[@User-g5g3f]

Owami how can i apply for that job i need a job... Can i be your helper when you ready.

[@antonattachihombori9561]

Good luck.

[@matlhatsi3486]

R u the helper?​@@antonattachihombori9561

[@mtt-h4m]

Owamie is that merch? The bucket hat?🥹🥹🥹

[@whatsmynamenoturbusiness8283]

Hi Owami .. what reference check did you do helper? Do you even have a copy of their ID? People are letting strangers in their homes to clean and look after their kids .. this is irresponsible

[@lulamah430]

I grew up with a helper at home. I've moved out and the only reason why I do not have one is because I do not afford, otherwise I believe in the convenience of having one and directing your time/energy elsewhere

[@dineogee110]

Uploading Sunday at night is crazy but we are here mam 😊😅

[@sikhomsebi4476]

First to leave a comment😂 🎉

[@mohanuoamira285]

Pray for next one my sis

[@TemangcamaneMaseko-nn5xb]

Hi cc Owamie i desparetely need a job

[@qinisekandwandwa2878]

Ppl want you to hire help, pay them large sums of money nd always keep quiet even if the helper is wrong nd just walk on eggshells in ur own space in fear of ppl saying u ill treating her. Who’s there to speak out for the victim bosses who are being ill treated by their helpers nd yet a large chunk of ur salary is going towards this person. Some even come to steal ur clothes unprovoked, others not fulfilling their duties, others always moping around like u did something to them nd when u ask them they say nothing is wrong, others don’t come back after an out weekend nd don’t bother telling u they won’t be back so u can look for someone else nd u out here looking unstable to ur bosses coz u always say my helper just left nd have to have to be absent from work until u find another one. Who speaks up for us? Let’s not pretend as if all these helpers are good ppl with good intentions, some are just pure evil and others start being jealous of things u have thinking that you don’t have struggles, others take ur panties to witch u for ur man nd so forth. Kuningi nd ppl are not talking abt these nd just want to jump on how bosses are ill treating their helpers hence their bad behaviour is excused

[@Mosebo-z3x]

But the helpers issue is no longer something to feel bad about,many people are now doing it and have been doing it long ago

[@VhoTurnDoor]

Home duties take a lot of time Owamie. They are unrecognised and unappreciated form of labour. If you can use your time to make more money by avoiding to do house chores, go ahead and hire someone to help you out. Never feel ashamed.

[@LethoHali]

I wonder why mum of 4 mentioned she has no helper 🤔 .

[@-Natefo-]

Hmmm, you’re onto something yaz. Maybe she wishes she could get one but circumstances (husband or finances maybe) won’t allow.

[@VhoTurnDoor]

She has made being a Mbokodo a personality. And then expects others to do so too.

[@Lady_Una]

I am also a mother of 3 and no helper. I like my peace and my space and I don't want anyone influencing my children. And stories I hear about nannies is scary!!

[@-Natefo-]

@@Lady_Una that’s another way to look at it.

[@Mosebo-z3x]

Wish we hear the helper's side of the story hey...2 sides of the story is always better hey

[@monalisakaetano8083]

Your helper should be behind bars for attempted murder

[@LethoHali]

In that story time I felt you were too nice and patient. The comment you are addressing now… needed to be ignored lol. It’s unfounded.

[@PearlsDiary05]

Ngila nami in 5 min

[@kholiswathomas1807]

I need a job owamie

[@Till_slip]

But y are U being judged for getting a Helper... Ain't you creating jobs?

[@VhoTurnDoor]

One thing about black people? They will project and wanna extend their values on other people. If you know how to take care of yourself, then you suddenly feel like you're too busy to do so and can now afford assistance, why not?

[@fikilesibongile3472]

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[@Godsgrace-qd1sm]

I don't blame the maid for doing that how can you make someone work on 24 December while she should be home preparing salads and braai meat for Christmas. And you seem like the nagging type the kind of managers people don't like at work. Even companies knows to close 20 December for people to go home and rest.

[@pudding3012]

We need to find that helper and hear her side of the story...owamie is a liar,youre not a nice person thats why youre alone

[@OwamieEntertainment]

Go hunt

[@BlackRose-rk7zs]

You just wake up to conclude something you have no idea about huh? & even write about it?? Sad.

[@pudding3012]

@@BlackRose-rk7zs do you have a proof that everything she says is true?

[@BlackRose-rk7zs]

@@pudding3012 no hence I don’t pass harsh judgement, unlike yourself.