Penuel Explains Why He No Longer Maintains Some of His Children | Zola Mbatha

[@nkanyisogumede6718]

As much as it's not your fault... I hear you my brother... we also go through similar things. I just hope you consider to get married first before you have another child. If you don't believe in marriage that is fine just don't have children.

[@LawChatsWithMadeline]

Facts!

[@leloodyssey]

“I’m constantly working on myself” I love that. I think that in the black community we too comfortable with perpetuating the same toxic cycles and we are unwilling to change and be better versions of ourselves. Our idea of self development is based on material success. I enjoy listening to you and your brother, I like how you think. It encourages open mindedness and free thinking.

[@bonisilecembi3998]

Im learning a lot from these podcast my Man.

[@thebemotsoane963]

People used to attack penual on socials calling him a useless father.now it looks like the narrative is changing because penuel keeps speaking about this issue and he doesn't mind being judged hypocrisy of this generation is on another level

[@moekoathahane7866]

Thank you for this video abuti. You’ve given a voice to our concerns and bringing to light issues people don’t want to talk about. I relate to this weaponizing of children personally. Let’s detail both sides of this coin

[@polelomotaung2909]

How do you maintain these kids bro? How do you make the money cause you are always saying there is no money in podcasts? Innocent question not intending to attack you in anyway.

[@Bingley33]

It would be ideal to assume he had a life before podcasts and he may also do various things outside this and he makes enough to support his desires

[@fanelembusie8801]

I like the questioning 🙏🏻 I always don’t understand why people always angry here

[@cozmicrahop9415]

This girl is super smart

[@thedigitalawakening887]

She’s clear

[@acceptinglife6491]

And very articulate 😍

[@TysonBatista]

Thank you so much my brother for this information, I'm going through the exact same situation you're talking about particularly the 11 years with your baby mother.

[@TysonBatista]

Penuel my brother it has been a long time wishing you guys on podcasts can start talking about this topic. Enough is enough kids needs to have the freedom.

[@nicetimeswithmymomandfamil6121]

Oh Penuel, this fight is dirty and is one that requires strength from God to fight it through...im glad to see you explaining in peace...

[@sirizihindula]

it will take a loooong way for Pen to understand that having a child with someone doesn’t stop at mutual agreement. I hope one day he gets the memo and stop promoting single motherhood

[@toppykgothatso3306]

Yeah but according to him he told all the mothers his situation;I can't just blame Pen the mother's are also wrong here. You knew Abuti Pen wanted to live like but yet you agreed to be with him and when reality hits you, you want to be a victim. HOW??

[@sirizihindula]

@ you’re right, the women are also to blame but mostly Pen, as someone who was allegedly “raised by a single mother” he should have known better I mean he has the experience at first hand. These women should have never impregnated themselves i understand he doesn’t agree with the idea of marriage but committing to one partner should have saved him all the pain. I think men should learn to deal with their pain jumping from one woman to another won’t heal the childhood trauma until you take the necessary steps 1. acknowledging that you have trauma is the first step towards healing 2. seek professional help I hope the kids know each other and their mothers get along, if not, we should be looking at another complicated generation and then we say black people don’t unite it starts in our families the sooner we realise that the better Peniel is a smart man but not as smart when it comes to family dynamics.

[@emilychabedi4215]

Penuel’s words: “I don’t want to see her suffer I just want to see my child” I felt those words🥹. All I hope for this man is for him to have a 2025 n a forever were he will see all his kids and have a healthy cooperating relationship with all the mothers of his children. He suffered a lot maan 🥹💔especially the 11 years battle just breaks my heart honestly 🥹.

[@TzaboChakuze-vp7os]

These two could be the south Africa's next couple... state sponsored wedding!

[@thedigitalawakening887]

😂 I saw that smile from her around 8th minute

[@siphokaziluzipho4197]

He is Ursula's guy marn......

[@acceptinglife6491]

@@siphokaziluzipho4197 nah Ursula ngoka Penson😂

[@siphokaziluzipho4197]

@@acceptinglife6491 hahaha, have you seen the chemistry between those two♥️♥️.

[@thedigitalawakening887]

@@acceptinglife6491 🤣🤣🤣 umgosi ola wow

[@Makhelwane]

Interesting story about the 11yr mom. Just reminds me of someone i met 14yrs ago. She used to tell me that her daughter, who's living with her mother (grandmother)... she made for her mother who was living alone. This kept on bothering me...i think. Worse that the father was absent. Someday when she was telling the story, i asked if the father knew she was making a baby for her mother. She said "No". For me, it was a dealbreaker & broke up.

[@Penuelism]

@@Makhelwane this means a lot. Thank you for sharing. Damn 💔

[@Makhelwane]

​@@Penuelismmost welcome. Keep strength

[@cathlisSekgaphola]

Listening to this narrative for the 3rd time on different episodes, i get the courage to comment since I feel the pain too. its directly talking to me I even got tired of trying and fighting for me being there. I tried to get my baby mom to listen, maybe will see things differently since its all about the kids. she's not interested. Even making thing worse to even cut me off the kids that love me whole heartedly.

[@tshepangharrison2021]

Stop talking shit my guy, own up and be a man. Be a MAN... you can make them, take care of them!

[@fanelembusie8801]

Which shit did he speak?

[@reabetsweimanmoabi7911]

But he said all his kids were planned..... so why isn't he supporting his plan?

[@xolanimtshali2098]

Uyislima wena

[@cozmicrahop9415]

10 kinutes left turned into 20... shout out

[@bzo195]

No matter how.many times penuel tells his story, still have to blame him as the man. A man's greatest characteristic is self control....if men show self control there will be less single moms in the world

[@mvelimolata2968]

Having the child with someone doesn't necessarily mean marriage

[@mvelimolata2968]

And it's not the bad thing to have kids

[@reabetsweimanmoabi7911]

When you have kids out of wedlock ----- what a mess.....

[@TzaboChakuze-vp7os]

Bru'ver Penuel. Would you consider a vasectomy? Or do you see yourself having more kids

[@Thandiwe-k2x]

😂😂 im sorry this is kinda funny

[@bandileauthor1877]

😅😅😅

[@yangasidziya3245]

Uyageza wena 🤣

[@splineMerl]

When you complain about your baby mama drama as a man, it kinda looks lame. That's why many die inside.

[@manero7634]

So you expect men to bottle all their emotions? Yoh, must be tough being man

[@charlesub1457]

First to view, first to like and first to comment

[@olgaanyokwu3555]

And first to say nothing impactful 😢

[@Demru_1]

❤️‍🩹 As a man I always listen to men's pain first. One reality of ultimate truths is that we can't live without each other and we love our women. Can we at least respect each other and listen before speaking, judging and drawing to conclusions too early. We just don't talk out our problems and when we respond it's not nice. Let's start talking and GBV will go down Anyway, Who is and who is not a marriage material.... but wait a minute, what is marriage material?