How to Avoid Red Flags in Spousal Selection | Podcast with Dr. Kanwal Kaisser & Raja Zia Ul Haq

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Excellent Channel maa sha Allaah .............. it is the need of the hour !

[@UrduFreeQuranEducation]

Thanks and welcome

[@mrsasad1114]

Jazakallah Khair for this topic.I am a mum of four grown up kids.The first one is a girl and Alhamdolliah got married this year.My son has his Nikkah in the coming days Alhamdolliah.I still have two more to go.But I completely agree it's extremely hard to find good spouses for your children particularly when living in the west.Finding practicing Muslims as spouses for your children must be the priority to ensure our Deen flourishes in the coming generation

[@Adamspredictions]

May Allah bless you and your children. Just spend time in their upbringing and leave the rest to Allah SWT

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ربنا هب لنا من أزواجنا وذرياتنا قرة أعين واجعلنا للمتقين اماما آمين ❤

[@shaziyashaikh3126]

This video is exact and perfect how i want to be my future mehram!!! I am frm Mumbai, India.. had hard time in my past 4’mnthts of marriage with mamma’s boy and he destroy my life with all cheat and betray.. now i am moved on seeking for marriage..remember me in your prayers🤲🏼 youth club is best grow more❤️

[@hussainshah2790]

Keep praying.. inshallah you'll find good one. Peace and love from a Kashmiri brother.

[@Arsalan1-2]

Salam sister. May Allah bless you with a righteous spouse. Just some advice don't take it personal but it's not right to talk bad about someone.

[@askmohammed7724]

Mine one papa pari has destroyed my life within 10 days of marriage and seeked divorce

[@finelwords]

Crux is study and follow our Prophet SAW to the end of our possibilities. The only solution to everything.

[@syed.jr.]

This video has lifetime worth of experience. May Allah bless all the speakers and non speakers who came together to make this happen. ❤

[@HamzaMahmood1261]

MashAllah great and very helpful for youngsters who are unmarried and want to get marry

[@RizwanSaifi-sj7ji]

Kya madad Hui aapki Zara mukhtasaran bateiyn

[@mahmoodkhalid5903]

This video is very important for parents and also boys and girls that wants to married with a good person.

[@mdsamichowdhury919]

Advice from these videos is actually real education which helps people in their practical life. Keep in mind, 'Education' is everywhere. Textbook attitude se hi yeh sab bathe bhi suna toh,sach me zindegi khubsurat hoga.

[@awais_rajput_313]

AoA. I Neither comment below any clip Nor watch such a long video. But I love Islamic content and watch full podcast. Litterly amazing based on true facts and figures. Keep it up the good work. Learnt a lot of knowledge. Thanks ❤

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I watched the complete video. جَزَاك ٱللَّٰهُ خَيْرًا for the podcast.

[@Always_in_top]

Thankyou for great podcast

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Bohat zabardast program Ma Sha Allah....Allah kare ye sb baten samajh aayn ham sbko جزاك الله خير

[@aniyakhan5867]

I do feel like bht sare points ko mazeed smjhne ki need h Shadi mai sb se brh k agar doubts hain to aap Jankari krwane k sth sth istikhara p bhrosa rkhain beshak Allah ko gaib ka ilm h 2nd lrka or lrki dono ko smjhna chahaye shadi ka mtlb kia h agar apne kisi ko qubool kia h yo usk ache or burai k sth qubool kia h to apne andar itna patience rkhain k.isko nibhaske Hmare society mai ye routine bnta jaraha h k srf good qualities hngi to acha h insane wrna nai Bhaie lrka lrki should have to compromise on many things ,nobody is perfect tbhi shadi chlti h

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اللّٰھُمَّ اِنْي اَسَٔلُك زَوْجَاًصَالِحاً فِي الْدُنْيا وَالْآخِرَة❤

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Ameen

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Yh dua kis Nabi ki h

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My beloved ustazah afshan khalid❤❤❤

[@abeera2theworld]

Watching this for a second time quite helpful thank you Jazak'Allah khair!

[@safiullahparvezmemon8669]

MaashaAllah very informative and useful talk i have learned many things from this. May Allah give you reward for delivering this podcast JazakAllah

[@RajputKarachi-c4x]

Very useful topic . Youth should learn from your discussions & experience

[@alilaiqat6557]

Thanks thanks thanks mujy isi chizn ki zarort thi allhumdullilah mujy mery sab sowalat ky jawab mil gy thanks thanks Thanks ❤❤❤❤

[@Shahid-oz2vc]

A well needed podcast. Thank you very much.

[@rizwanktk5539]

Guys I'm telling u with my experience " don't fall for beauty i repeat don't" ur top priority should be maturity and sense of humor with an average looks.

[@mufeezbinbilal8795]

Deen must be the top priority, which brings lots of khair and blessings

[@rizwanktk5539]

@mufeezbinbilal8795 of course deen must be there.

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🤣🤣🤣

[@aqsaaslam2275]

Totally agree.. ❤..Deen, his ikhlaaq and maturity level.. Usually men with average look are very good and responsible.. While good looking men prove a big red flag😢

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[@Khizarjehangir.]

This video tells wether you should get married or not or are you eligible or not

[@maryah_s]

What an amazing and the most needed discussion it was!

[@SarahTaylor-r4j]

very very nice and informatic podcast and such an inspiration please bring more such content

[@zainiqbal7721]

The topic is good but the discussion is floating randomly. In my opinion this has to be structured properly. Overall i appreciate the effort

[@waniyasalman1846]

It was a beautiful and profoundly done podcast sister. Way to go!

[@muslima518]

raja bhai is role model

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Every boy should learn from good role model of society

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Nabi sallallahu alaihi wasallam

[@masrathbegum6309]

Jazakallah khair for gave good knowledge of life i really thankful to all

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Jazakillah khair Dr. Sahiba..Raia Zia Sahiba..Alhuda Astaza.very informativ discussion.

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Make more podcasts like this

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Alhamdulilah alhamdulilah, this video makes me subscribe to this channel and turn the bell icon for all videos ❤ keep it going mam .

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Great topic and discussion according to Islamic and social aspects

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Ma sha Allah very informative ❤❤❤❤❤

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❤Ma Sha Allah 🌹 jazakallah u khair ❤ustazah Afshan khalid ko podcast main dekhna bohut bohut bohut acha laga ❤❤❤

[@sabaeman481]

Very helpful ❤❤thank you for this topic .. everybody should know this..

[@wartabu4814]

Very informative podcast.. MashaAllah.. Lots of love from Kashmir

[@abeersaba3689]

Very helpful for unmarried people

[@abidaallauddin526]

Allah mera wali hy more than enough ❤

[@ruqiyaarshad3745]

1:26:34 so true the demand of dowry is making marriage difficult as well. May Allah protect us from all harm in marriages.

[@RizwanSaifi-sj7ji]

Zara apni demand dekhi h

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Allah talla hum subko naik hidayat dyn or Naik Saleh Shareek e Hayat Ata kryn Aameen 🤲🏻✨

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Love to see a woman doing a podcast....❤️

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Kyu?

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Jazakillah ❤ It's very well

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Jazak Allah khair ever best video

[@syed.jr.]

Allahumma barik❤️

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Very informative podcast Jazak Allahu Khair

[@learningstrength9105]

Thank you so much for this information.

[@sairakhan584]

Very informative mam😅♥️ Jazakillah khairan kasira...

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My respectful teacher Ustaza Afshan khalid glad to see her

[@Zarahussain_x]

Barakallahu feek🌸 The video is lengthy, but I’m glad that you covered the most part brilliantly :)💗

[@UrduFreeQuranEducation]

Glad you liked it

[@SilentLion01]

Jazakallah hu khairan kaseer

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Har insan ko Rab NY sopr mean hi bnaia he sab ak jesy he Allah ki nazr me

[@rabiayousuf7318]

Nice and cleared podcast

[@Dummbledore]

Intelligent discussion! Loved it! But here I have got a genuine question. Can we talk with our potential spouse face to face in privacy? If yes, doesn't it become like a date and Where to draw the boundary while chatting/tryna know the other person before nikkah.

[@Islamifypro]

It should in the presence of a mehram,

[@nauxsi]

In theory you could go out to a social place, cafe, restaurant etc... your brother/father sitting a table or two away. That would meet the criteria of you having some privacy to speak without offending religious sensibility. Similar thing can be achieved at home as well if the house is big enough.

[@ZunairaAslam-ph5bc]

If you are mature enough to know boundaries for him and yourself

[@Dummbledore]

@@ZunairaAslam-ph5bc Situations like these are highly subjective. There's a whole spectrum of what people deem as acceptable. Relying on one's own consciousness is a terrible idea. So, it becomes essential to know what Islam dictates.

[@sidra077]

One of the best podcast..🌸

[@ummemaan123]

Last point by Ms Afsha, very practical and sensible.

[@sanji546]

Great talk please bring more bring joint family k azaab

[@hashirmoghal]

Everyone should listen

[@ZunairaAslam-ph5bc]

Great discussion

[@sherozkhan2069]

Listening this beautiful Islamic conversation because, I m also looking a partner for myself a girl practicing Muslim, family oriented, done any Islamic education, person with pure heart, should be sincere, caring & loving with good moral values.

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From which city u belong?

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1:19:55 "Main saara din inko interview dayti rehti hon" 😂

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Jazakallah Khair youth club walo

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Thanks a lot ❤

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Amazing Podcast Alhumdulilah ❤️

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Jazak Allah khair kaseeera..for this worthwhile discussion ☺

[@ummemaan123]

Nice point from Brother at the end. Thinking of long term focus on Jannah.

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Jazak allah for this podcast!

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Healthy conversation ❤

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Jazakallah very informative discussion

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Best podcast discussing all the sides 👏

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Very very helpful jazakallah khairan❤❤❤

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Riskty walk aunties par bhi video banaeyn Tak media ko idea ho k kitny toxic rishty lagany waly kesy business chala rahy hain

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Amazing podcast ♥️

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Superb Podcast.

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Jazakumullahu Khairan!

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If Allah is your wali more love everything is in your feet.

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Khamoshi ka matalab bhi qubool hota hai? Wah

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Allah is forever.....💋

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Very informative talk

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Very nice effort from yyou all x

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MashaAllah great discussion ❤ Voice quality should be improved

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This life is a test, it's never to be 💯 perfect, every girl has to compromise

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Favourite topic of Pakistanis

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Best reminder ❤

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Usefull...

[@SilentLion01]

Unless the purpose and vision and mission are aligned with each other life would become pathless that's why only conflict arises i think

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A man or woman who had multiple past relationships are they considered fit for marriage past must not be disclosed but it's a important factor in these times

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Love is a respect 💗

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58:59 best part

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Daftar se ja kr bhi puch liya wahan se ok ki report mili. Ghr main ja kr mil bhi liya Lkn baad main biwi ke sath kesa saluq hou iski koi guarantee nhi hai Ghr waloun ke sath larkoun ka ikhlaq buhy acha hota hai or biwi ke sath totally opposite

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sahi kaha

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Lovely podcast

[@spreaddeen2423]

This was vey nice podcast but we should clear these things k Engagement k bad ladke se bat karna to sharii tor par na jayaz h q k wo na mehram hai .R investigations ki zimmedari parents ki hoti hai r ye khod free hokar bacho k hatmai namahram ladke ka no. pakda date hai jisse najane kitne mahino salo bad ki hone ka riwaj hamari society mai ban gya hai. We are stuck in these issues due to because we leave our deen.

[@anonymousanonymous8092]

Agar ladke mein sab theek hai but bohot convincing hai ke apni baat ko manwane ki poori koshish karta hai agar che ke samne wala na mane to kya karein?

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Good work

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JazakAllah