Life before and After Marriage | The 11th Hour | Episode 8

Intro 00:00 - 0:48
‌Maturity 0:49 -5:52
‌Selection of Spouse 5:53 - 30:32
‌Qualities 30:33 - 38:42
‌Personality 38:43 - 43:39
‌Sharing Feelings 43:50-51:28
‌Topics to Discuss Before Marriage 51:29 - 1:02:43
‌Don't discuss Mistakes of Spouses 1:02:44 - 1:07:50
‌Slight Efforts 1:07:51 - 1:18:27
‌Qualities 1:18:28 - 1:23:46
‌Cause of Divorce 1:23:47 - 1:25:14
‌Wducation 1:25:15 - 1:37:00
‌Advice 1:37:01-1:45:13
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[@poeticjustice3406]

The female speaker is so mature, such an amazing personality, Allah huma barik❤

[@AdnanHassan1995]

Indeed She is, Name (Respected Mam: Sara Asif)

[@SkyMonkeyLing]

​​@@AdnanHassan1995is she Ex Liberal ? Any professor or speaker ? Cause she isn't a random lady....(the way she deliver message without disruption isn't possible for non-speakers)

[@honeygul92042]

The female speaker is really awesome.❤

[@missmateen]

​@@SkyMonkeyLingshe is a speaker at youth club you can find more of her videos on yt

[@SkyMonkeyLing]

@@missmateen ok sister

[@AdnanHassan1995]

Umarried People may like my comment to show solidarity 👍, Hope we all get Nikkahfied soon😃, InshaAllah. 💞

[@BajwaGm2]

InshahAllah ❤

[@zainabtahreem1118]

Always use the word In Sha Allah...it will be beneficial for you 😊

[@zainshafiq1923]

​@@zainabtahreem1118InshaALLAH

[@muhammadjawwad4863]

May Allah bless you with the best spouse.

[@AdnanHassan1995]

@@zainabtahreem1118 InshaAllah.

[@AdnanKhan-xq4kh]

Still unmarried, honestly this topics make me kind of blush 😅 May Allah swt grant us all a righteous and beautiful spouse, ameen ❤

[@Ayla40902]

Ameen

[@muhammadjawwad4863]

May Allah bless you with the best spouse. Ameen

[@AdnanKhan-xq4kh]

@@muhammadjawwad4863 jazakallah brother 🙏💯

[@zamilpasha]

Ameen

[@Ribabe97]

Marriage fav topic of unmarried people 🌚😂

[@rababahmed9578]

😂

[@mariyamaheen4805]

😂

[@Aadil_Aadil]

No❎ Es Intention se nhi aate bhn podcast ko sunne hum 🙂

[@dominator88175]

😂😂❤

[@user-xp7uy8in7v]

Qk shadi society ka satoon hy Isley it's very important to get knowledge about it.

[@EarnwithMadiha]

At first I thought the female speaker is a teenager😅but then after few minutes I get that she has kids😅mashallah tabarakallah❤

[@ummiroma8944]

😂😂 same

[@ulfatasif991]

Me too 😂

[@ulfatasif991]

Me too 😂

[@Tumbler054]

And her kids are also married😂

[@gouharansari4461]

Vote for : how to focus and concentrate in taraweeh podcast 😢😢 If you agree with me 🤝🤝🤝 So hit the the like button 👇👇

[@yt-lb5qc]

Brother i think it is a simple question and we don't want to waste precious time in this topic... The answer is that you should know the tarjuma(translation) of Quran it is the only thing that makes you focused in taraweeh.

[@muslima518]

Brother listen translation of Quran jb Allah k importance smj ati jaegu tb khusho barhta jaega namaz me may Allah help you and me also watching raja bhai tafseer helps a lot on youth club chanle

[@user42576]

During taraveeh i started thinking when was i born what i used to do in my childhood , why a friend of mine luqman left me at age of 5 , i used to be rude , i was really bad at maths etc etc 😢

[@SkyMonkeyLing]

🤣🤣🤣 simple.... Repeat the recitation in your mind. Also try to choose a good Hafiz who has a beautiful Recitation.

[@Faraaz.Writes]

​@@user42576bro we shouldnt think of these things either atleast we can try to listen the recitation so that we can understand some words or ayats of Quran.

[@mairanoor7182]

I just got married 3 months ago and I'm facing all the problems that have been discussed in the podcast..May ALLAH help me and all other married women and girls❤

[@AnnaQ-cm9vl]

May Allah make it easy for you Try praying tahajjud 🤍

[@nabilaharoon449]

Ameen

[@iramshehzad9549]

Seek ALLAS HELP

[@samirafatima8022]

I'm practicing Muslim and praying for my pious spouse from last two Ramazan in every salah ...May Allah accept my dua

[@amnamah.4216]

Sara asif ne ek lecture diya tha aj se 3 saal pehle hamare madarse main woh alfaz aj tak mjhe yad meri beti us time 6 years k thi aur use bhi aj tak yad hain aur tb se bhot hijab karne ka shoq paida hoa Alhamdulilah love to see har

[@islamicword2184]

Kia bat thi wo kindly mention

[@sidraferoze3474]

Following

[@naveedbuttbutt6329]

What's the words?

[@Waleedak537]

Where

[@shariyabhat7566]

The women speaker is talking about realities of marriage. She is speaking out on behalf of thousands of women. Women is leaving everything for the sake of marriage. People should understand her plight and don't give her tough time. May Allah guide all women folk in right direction.

[@kehfilwara1692]

Aameen

[@harunrashid-zn3lm]

true brother. Culture has done so dirty to a women's role in society. It has almost demolished islamic rights of her and made it so difficult to live peacefully.

[@Jamesbond_00775]

Yeh ek Naya hi trend shuru hogaya hai 10-15 saal se ki women is leaving everything for the family kya yeh 15 saal pehle nahi hota tha kya jab toh women nahi bolti thi yeh sab kyunki unko pata hai har ladki ko independent hone ki zarurat nahi hai warne family system hi khatam ho jayega jaise Aaj ho raha hai with this so called education jisko Deen sikhne se zyada importance Diya ja raha hai...

[@AnnaQ-cm9vl]

@@Jamesbond_00775 asl islamic system mai,mard bhi apne maa baap ke ghar se apna ghar banata tha, donun independenly nayi zindagi start krte the, Nowadays,people get a maid in the name of "wife" and keep her in the feet of his mother to serve her, IT'S NOT HER BLOODY JOB,HOW UNEMPATHETIC MEN CAN BE I DON'T CARE OR ANY ONE RIGHT NOW DOESN'T CARE 10-15 SAAL PEHLE KYA HOTA THA,JO BHI HOTA THA, DOESN'T MEAN SAHI HOTA THA,1400 SAAL WOMEN WERE BURRIED ALIVE, DOESN'T MEAN TAB B HOTA THA TO AB BHI HONA CHAHIE EDUCATION DOESN'T DESTROY FAMILY SYSTEM RATHER FEMINISM DOES,SIMILARLY MISOGYNY DOES,FEMINISM WAS THE RESULT OF YEARS OF MISOGYNY SO STOP THIS NONSENSE AND BE A LITTLE EMPATHETIC

[@shermeentajammal352]

The female instructor is MashAllah very Mature and intellectual. The way she is justifying the rights of both male and female is best Allhumaa bariq Laha Best podcats

[@IloveIslam367]

She's soooooooo intelligent, I'm amazed. ماشاءاللہ

[@rashidmehmood1298]

Im in germany from last 9 years and still trying hard to found a religious wife and in pakistan people have very big expectations 😢Allah helps me to find my wife which make my life in dunya best and easy jannah

[@aunabbasx35]

Maybe your Expectations are Unreal and Maybe you are Expecting a Perfect Wife. You should see a religious woman but there might be some comprise

[@rashidmehmood1298]

@aunabbasx35 No one is perfect, brother, and I have only one expectation just simply religious and I think every Muslim like that 🤔

[@romaskitchen...cookingwith2445]

​@@rashidmehmood1298try to find in India as well

[@hinakhanhinakhan5590]

Salam...... Bilkul hum b AK acha lrka dhund rahy hain apni sis k Liye to agr ap waqy e serious Hain to bat agy barha sakty hain

[@user-sz3oq6ie9u]

یا رحمت للعالمین صلی اللہ علیک وسلم حضور نظر کرم فرمائے مجھ پر روزانہ 1000 times

[@daily_chuckles]

im 16 and im trying my best to get back on deen and feel the love of Allah not just praying to Allah out of fear, i like someone and i told my parents they liked her too but they said im not financially stable enough i tried to convince them alot but they didnt listen and the girl is also scared to talk to her parents cuz they're against early marriages so we decided not to talk to each other for the next 2 years until then i have to try my best to become financially stable in order to get her, even if the nikkah doesnt happen then i know Allah has something way better planned for me. ( a message for the teens who like someone )

[@munamnoor835]

Thank you for inviting Sara Asif! Missed her words of wisdom so much. Jazak Allah khair

[@hnaaz1869]

Unmarried still watching.🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳

[@naughtynotes474]

I think more than 50% of us are single😂

[@BasitKhan-so8sh]

@@naughtynotes474 true..... true 💯😅

[@pocketrocket1019]

Abba nhi man Raha 😢😅

[@arshad5850]

​@@pocketrocket1019 to bhag k shadi kar

[@HibaGull12]

Yes 😅

[@moinjogezai]

Alhamdulillah got engaged to protect my eman and planning to get married as simple as I can, May Allah give me himat to go against the norm

[@alishbaayeshmaqsood3142]

Abu saaad and Muhammed.E is major missing for me 😭

[@user42576]

. They know who to invite according to the topic. Focus on the essence not people 🙏🙏

[@SyedMohad-xy1sn]

muhammad ali is a gentlemen he only talks to the point

[@alisaqib6460]

Kya hua un koi?

[@user-yu2gd8hd9s]

please a podcast on “ways to stop wanting everyone to know how pious i am”

[@fatimahyasir9960]

Build self esteem it will stop u wanting it

[@CookingShorts-2024]

Yes wallahi

[@MuhammadUsman-cs2fw]

Assalamualaikum For the first time in my life, I have seen a girl talking in such a balanced manner. Allah jaza e khair ata kare ...

[@reesakhan2048]

رمضان میں روزانہ کی بنیاد پر ان اقساط کو دیکھنا بہت اچھا ہے، اس سے اسلام کے بارے میں ہمارے علم میں اضافہ ہوتا ہے۔ ۔ جزاک اللہ یوتھ کلب اس کو ہمارے ساتھ شیئر کرنے کے لیے۔

[@user-qy2tk1sz6d]

I am a teenager and was living in delusions but this podcast changes me. It motivates me to work on my character and habits before getting married. Jazakallah ✨,May Allah give you its reward 💖

[@yusrasiddiqui1146]

Female speaker is absolutely right. First and foremost point level of maturity

[@harramgraphics]

this female wallah her talking style and give us advices like amazing thank you so much for this video.. litterly we need this

[@ayeshakaleem8711]

What an absolute gem Sarah Baji is. She has a solution for all the problems MashaAllah. Around 1 hour 7mins, brother Muhammad Ali asked such a legit question that should a wife leave a husband who is irresponsible and her answer just blew my mind! Thank you so much for this lecture. JazakaAllah khair kaseeran to the entire team.

[@Taqwatalks59]

Unmarried Like karo

[@WAKEUPLIONS]

Ham unmarried hi ye lecs dekhtay rhtay hain 😅or soochtay hain ky ham spouse ky sath acha karin gye but jin married logon ko sunana chahiye wo suntay nhi ye lecs 😢😅

[@___imtabrez_02]

Thanku tauha bhai jaan apke wajah se ajj maine haram relationship Allah ke liye chhor diya 😥😥 ya Allah meri sari gunahe maaf kr dena 😭😭

[@muhammadjawwad4863]

May Allah forgive you and bless you with the best spouse.

[@___imtabrez_02]

@@sawerakhalid6853 haa bro Allah paak se tauba krte rahenge wo bhot meharban hai tauba ko bhot pasand krta h ekdin to tauba kubul kar hi lega

[@___imtabrez_02]

@@muhammadjawwad4863 ameen 😪

[@zamilpasha]

Whoever leaves something for the sake of Allah SWT, Allah will replace it with something better.

[@___imtabrez_02]

@@zamilpasha haa bro bas mai yahi soch ke Allah swt par twakkul kr ke ye sab chhora may Allah blessed me

[@zobiaahmedkhan6786]

It's so good to see these episodes on daily basis , it increase our knowledge about Islam .my fav thing in ramadan . JAZAK ALLAH YOUTH club for sharing this with us .

[@arizaamin4452]

The way they raising both man and women standard....... May Allah give us good spouse ❤

[@kehfilwara1692]

Aameen May Allah, Al Qadeer, bless us with a man who stands on our Standards. May we fulfil the halal and right standards of our future spouse as well.

[@AjuneKhan-ut4iv]

What a session. I think Allah just directly guided me to this session because I am currently suffering from these issues. Jazak’ALLAH to YouthClub!

[@sleep-jz1dn]

What a podcast mannn hats offf. Giving practical solutions n advices. Every married and unmarried person should watch it

[@mdsameer8684]

1) Mother (Maa should not feel insecured even though u married). You have to express yourself self 2) What I am supposed to give to the better half? My Contribution in a relationship is also very important

[@daniyaqaisar3295]

👏🏼

[@MohsinKhan-tu5lx]

Best session ever! Much needed jazak Allah The lady is new to me but she is 💯

[@MarryOnChain]

Marriage is a sacred bond between two individuals, a union of hearts and souls. A wedding is a celebration of love, a joyous occasion where families and friends come together to witness the unity of two people. It marks the beginning of a new chapter filled with love, commitment, and shared dreams.

[@Ashtaaaa]

Sara asif mam first i didnt recognized her without spectacles..😂 But lit i quit my haram relationship because of her one video platonic relationship in 2021.alhamdulillah May allah swt give u ajr ❤

[@irfanhussain-xl7vz]

I think an unmarried persona should write these questions. Even I think I will repeat this lecture and write a full conversation. It's really an important lecture.

[@shifashafqat1620]

Having the perspective of such an intelligent woman on the podcast was a very good addition ❤

[@AyeshaArshad-xo9or]

What a brilliant lady. I usually don't impress with anyone but she made me her fan. MashaaAllah May Allah bless her.

[@Sarosh943]

It was really valuable and worthy of alot of appreciation podcast. Really inspired by the lady MaashaaAllah. She's very balanced matured and graceful and very nice speaker.

[@hafsahassan7874]

Ma sha Allah answered all my questions which I used to think about. Very very thought provoking talk. Enjoyed a lot. Keep doing the good work👍

[@muskanshaikh-wv7ow]

Thank you ap ka bohot bohot sukriya meri Life bohot badalgi hai apki vajah se

[@zamilpasha]

SubhanAllah...by seeing the thumbnail i really got excited 😂😂 #shaadi ...🎉❤

[@Trenddy.treasures]

Same❤😂

[@Tryagain1.2Msubscribers56vedio]

Me too fav topic teenager 😅

[@tehreemtahir9498]

😂

[@zamilpasha]

@@Trenddy.treasures 😂

[@honeygul92042]

Amazing lecture again,🪄 You are the ray of hope for youth in the darkness of world. jazakAllah 💚

[@khizramaqsood7206]

Much needed podcast… jazakAllah u khair May Allah bless you for this much needed much

[@Deen_over_Duniya786]

This podcast was much needed. JazakAllah jazakAllah

[@RH-ll1tu]

Really appreciate sister Sara on the platform since long. Looking forward for more. She have such a impactful voice.

[@mehmoodabutt6663]

Very informative with so much basic knowledge about our daily family life. Jzaak Allah Khair 👍🏻

[@Aadil_Aadil]

Lot's of love From MEWAT HARYANA (India)🇮🇳🇮🇳 Mera dream bhi yhi inshaallah ek din main bhi aesa hi banuga

[@AmjadAli-kl4rx]

A real man will offer you marriage ❤ A loser will offer you Zina 💔

[@yt-lb5qc]

subhanallah dilemma of society ... Islam made the marriage the easiest thing to do and we made it the hardest.

[@ayeshajaved6178]

The woman speaker is so well spoken and balanced. Totally enjoyed her thoughts and input

[@noorulainkhan9671]

It was a long podcast but every second was worth listening to. It encompassed majority of the issues prevailed in our society today. Loved the approach of "Sara apa", she is filled with wisdom and grace, tabarak Allah. Jazak'Allah khair. May Allah bless you all. And may Allah give us the ability to raise righteous sons and daughters who will be an asset for the ummah.

[@user-ev4no5xo9e]

mashaAllah mashaAllah..the podcast was literallly superb.! the female speaker justified everything so clearly

[@rakhee_aisha]

V important Topic Jazakh Allah Khair Tuaha Beta May Allah bless you 🤲🏻

[@islamsavelives]

Jzak Allah kher ❤ itni khubsurat baten ki MashaAllah Allah pak apko jzà den or hmen amal krny ki tofeeq Ameen Suma ameen

[@mahnoorather3695]

Really needed this at the moment. Alhamdulilah

[@Sirat-al_Mustaqim]

Thanks for inviting Ms.Asif...

[@Dreamer-ou5qo]

JazakAllah Khair for this amazing podcast. this is very beneficial for us...May Allah bless u.

[@IslamMeripehchan620]

اللّٰہ پاک ہم سب کی جائز دعائیں قبول فرمائے اور ہمارے گناہ معاف فرمائے ❤

[@reefaqreeda8664]

The way I saw Sara apa and got excited is beyond explaining... But once again what an amazing session "Maza agaya" I was just thinking about why don't people make podcasts on these topics and this came ❤❤❤❤

[@laiba9559]

Please tell me her full name

[@humnajawaid3446]

@@laiba9559her name is Sara Asif... she delivers lectures at all ilm institute in Karachi.

[@bioticsbyrimsha440]

​@@laiba9559 her full name is sara Asif.

[@mairaabid1294]

Sara Asif ​@@laiba9559

[@mahxre]

The most needed topic jazakallah ❤

[@mehadmushtaq3504]

Such a beautiful and one of the best podcast ever I see where I got The point of both sides It literally change my mindset Thank you

[@the_ashhar]

This is a gem podcast

[@Nishahussain12]

Mashallah mai kb se sara asif ke lecture ka wait kr rhi thi finally aa gyi

[@Doffy_999]

That was a really nice and informative podcast JazakAllah Tuaha Ibn Jalil Muhammad Ali and Sara Asif 🤍❤💙

[@TravelWithAli125]

Alhamdulillah Very informative Podcast INSHA ALLAH i Wish Allah All These Word's Always Keep In My Mind

[@user-sd2ym4dx6y]

Subhanallah... Starting is amazing ❤❤❤❤❤❤... Main content!!!!!!!!

[@salmannaseer3163]

Wallah Amazed to see her. That's really a paradigm shift the most mature women i have seen Ma Sha ALLAH.

[@Missrana330]

I was missing her, thanks for inviting

[@IftikharAhmad-tq1hd]

One of the best, and lovely podcast😊 Allah hamy en sab batoo pr amalpiraa banaly.

[@sumbleumair2483]

Sara mam ki awaz etni methi hai k dil kerta hai sunty jao subhanAllah MashAllah love u sara mam ❤❤❤❤

[@waseemakram1911]

Bhai , please just focus on the content only . I know you respect Mam , but we should not appreciate opposite genders beauty or anything that is naturally attractive ( like voice) to man.

[@maansiddiqui7010]

Sara asif takes my heart today. Mash Allah ma'am i truly respect & appreciate

[@umayvlogs7892]

What a podcast!!!! Very informative ❤️

[@Maryamm.]

Wow what a wonderful session Allahumma Barik, Allah Amal krne ki toufeq de aur ap se qabool faramaye 🤲🏼❤️

[@Fatima-jg6hq]

Mohammad Ali bhai is a gem. 🤌🏻 May Allah swt bless him with all the happiness ✨ loads of duas 🇮🇳

[@nabaomer5245]

Mashallah so well spoken and such a healthy discussion constructive discussion! May Allah bless you all

[@BeyondRealism.]

Whenever Ali bhai smile or laugh I feel like laughing too😊. Allah humma Barik

[@sulemansajjad8878]

Wonderful podcast 😊 Thank you Stay blessed 😊😊

[@SyedMohad-xy1sn]

Really happy to see muhammad ali sir in 11 hour he is truly a gentlemen

[@user-xb6rp8ih4b]

Wonderful Masha'Allaaah.... This sister.... Literally she is amazing..😊

[@user-lq2yc6me2k]

Assalam o Alaikum Tuaha bhai Such a productive topic...Jazaq Allah to all of you plz make a podcast on home schooling as well.

[@shuibgour4185]

Assalamualaikum apke podcasts bhut hi ache lgte h mashallah love from India ❤

[@Studentofknowledge-rq5fs]

سبحان الله!!! 🥀 These podcasts covers the preparatory courses of marriage very profoundly ❤❤❤

[@taniafawad1808]

I love to listen saraasif i have an honour to listen het live as well and m.ali bhai and tauha bhai u always give. Words of wisdom may Allah bless u all .

[@nas8r567]

more people need to hear this 🙌

[@ShahzebNaik]

Thanks to the youth club and Tuaha Bhai,❤ may Allah bless you and all people who made it possible for this learning to be on this platform.

[@aspirant9634]

Thank you so much, such a valuable podcast 🥹🥹🥹🥹

[@devatrii]

Mashallah great podcast.. may Allah bless all of you

[@rizwanashaikhmohd1910]

I just love her MashaAllah har baat ki kya baat kahi hai Sara ji ne❤

[@absdiary2223]

InshaAllah Apni future k sath beth kr apki ye video dekhuga... ;)

[@Aimenkay]

One of the bestest episode❤️❤️❤️

[@Meenosdiary007]

So nice to see her After "being her lecture of youth club" I just loved Sara Asif ❤ her voice & way of talking is just Mashallah BarakAllah ❤❤

[@Insanitywithme]

What a intellectual podcast Ma Sha Allah ❤️🥹

[@SuperPiziy]

Amazing session, Ma sha Allah. Please make a podcast on " MENTAL HEALTH IN ISLAM " ❤

[@shefanjahan3306]

She is back after sooooo long!

[@attiakabeer1991]

الحمد للہ I just want to thank ALLAAH ALMIGHTY for giving us such people. جزاکم اللّٰہ خیرا کثیرا

[@ummekulsoom2867]

Masha Allah fruitful experiences & guidance u have conveyed for us. Mam sara Asif is mind-blowing personality for Muslim women grooming.

[@wwentertainmenttv5027]

Exactly, being vulnerable, most of the time becomes your weakness.

[@Habiba3693]

Wonderful podcast MashAllah I listen her (SARA APPA)first time but I learnt alot from this podcast inshallah I will apply these advices in my life where needed.❤

[@nomaansidd9820]

Mashallah the content and stage both are amazing

[@siddiqamaqsud3704]

Sarah appa amazing as always. Love her point of views n the way she put them forward. MashaAllah.