Used for Her Money

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Judge Mathis

Judge Mathis

Күн бұрын

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@chawklitWarrior
@chawklitWarrior 2 жыл бұрын
He sounds like the type to go to church…to PREY…not PRAY. I guarantee he shows up for the food and free giveaways
@wildfiregirl1556
@wildfiregirl1556 2 жыл бұрын
Lmao facts.
@spirituality1126
@spirituality1126 2 жыл бұрын
Prey right
@1010QUEEN7
@1010QUEEN7 2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@B1FORLIFE
@B1FORLIFE 2 жыл бұрын
👏🏿👏🏿
@cclem5836
@cclem5836 Жыл бұрын
You said it best! Facts!
@nerotenore
@nerotenore 2 жыл бұрын
Don't use your mother's death as a pass/excuse to treat people any kind of way once you're done using them up.
@blackspider1405
@blackspider1405 Жыл бұрын
for real... he's pathetic
@willietimpson6659
@willietimpson6659 Жыл бұрын
This knuckle head makes it hard for good men like me but I still don't understand why beautiful women like her navigate to these deadbeat users and abusers but want even give a good decent man a conversation
@tomswill9189
@tomswill9189 Жыл бұрын
Facts
@siehop88
@siehop88 2 жыл бұрын
Rule #1 - don’t let a man borrow no money period
@my.0224
@my.0224 2 жыл бұрын
Periodt!!
@staceywilliams1863
@staceywilliams1863 2 жыл бұрын
Simple!
@cc3956
@cc3956 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely correct, I truly played myself I was dating a Nigerian, he got me good…. I should’ve took him to court, but he will be dealt with by the universe.
@palo5959
@palo5959 Жыл бұрын
Don’t mess up the game
@tedra6455
@tedra6455 Жыл бұрын
Exactly. It erks me when a man/male ask a female for money or anything. Get you own. Unless he's your husband.
@meekashabazz6135
@meekashabazz6135 2 жыл бұрын
Ewww I had a man like that. Asked me for $1500 to flip. Said he’d giv me 1500 plus 3,000. I blocked his crazy bum ass too.
@leahvance2806
@leahvance2806 2 жыл бұрын
Ahaaaaaaaa🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 "flip" haha
@thinkglobalactlocal4898
@thinkglobalactlocal4898 18 күн бұрын
Had a few DRY BEGGAR chics, self proclaimed Divas but dry begged jus like jm said.. ** Fake wanna b Sophisticated chics b scheming,scamming,plotting, & Pocket Watching.😂
@scottrogue946
@scottrogue946 2 жыл бұрын
This is what happens when you extend grace to people who don’t deserve it. She shouldn’t of reached out at all. None of her concern
@stophavingkidsoutofwedlock2981
@stophavingkidsoutofwedlock2981 2 жыл бұрын
She's saw a good looking dude but still decided to be involved with it after everyone try to warn her.... She let her lust block her logic and reason that's why she got played
@GreekYogurtGranola
@GreekYogurtGranola 2 жыл бұрын
So true Scott.
@drelex9845
@drelex9845 2 жыл бұрын
He most definitely used her lol
@magicworld3242
@magicworld3242 2 жыл бұрын
@Scott Rogue, Stop being ridiculous. You shouldn't extend grace to people, just because you expect something in return. Then you're not really extending anything at all. She's a full grown woman. She's not a victim.
@glenncurley680
@glenncurley680 2 жыл бұрын
She was lonely, he was grieving. People confuse sex for love.
@ElderSlimm
@ElderSlimm 2 жыл бұрын
The defendant sounds pathetic. Brothers if you borrow money from a woman just pay her back.
@jasonmoses7785
@jasonmoses7785 2 жыл бұрын
Vice versa. Tired of the double standards
@mrglass311
@mrglass311 2 жыл бұрын
How about just don't borrow money from a woman.
@KaiserShield
@KaiserShield 2 жыл бұрын
Just woman?
@Proverbspsalms
@Proverbspsalms 2 жыл бұрын
No! Women stop giving money to men. Problem solved!
@misterbee66
@misterbee66 2 жыл бұрын
Seriously.
@BOSSLADY-cu8vs
@BOSSLADY-cu8vs 2 жыл бұрын
He said he was grieving...I guess that $600 PlayStation was supposed to help get him through the mourning process 🤔
@GreekYogurtGranola
@GreekYogurtGranola 2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@niatoolit
@niatoolit 2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@alajuwonhiggins8865
@alajuwonhiggins8865 2 жыл бұрын
It can. Word up. Playing my ps5 helps me deal with stress.
@urss31
@urss31 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly 🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂
@queencharlibee1991
@queencharlibee1991 2 жыл бұрын
Gaming takes you out of reality tbh. 🤷🏽‍♀️ Soo ... Yea, it'll take his mind off it alot.
@Ange_D
@Ange_D 2 жыл бұрын
See....he figured she was a sucker...cause the first time he would've asked me for 💰, I'm letting him kno I'm broke and matter of fact, I need to borrow sum money, too 😂
@claudiah2563
@claudiah2563 2 жыл бұрын
I have a friend who is always dry begging. I just pretend I don't hear it and I start complaining how stuff is expensive and I have to be careful about my finances, I can't wait for my next pay cheque, I can't afford to go out, etc. With these people, you have to strike 1st with your own broke ass story.
@blackreacher
@blackreacher 2 жыл бұрын
I was a guy who lived off women, dated older women and a lot of them pay to play. However, I started life off in on a decent track, got sidetracked into a culture that I had left as a teen/young man, so I had a base to get back to. Point is, I earn over 100k net per year now and most bm can get it together too. I'm able to help a woman, help us to live a comfortable lifestyle and this is a challenge believe me, if you're a bm like me looking for a bw. A lot of y'all are lost in media, worldly imo and we don't connect spiritually.
@BOSSLADY-cu8vs
@BOSSLADY-cu8vs 2 жыл бұрын
@@claudiah2563 I had a Cousin like that, we grew up together I just had to cut her completely off...always begging. She's the same person be talking about people are jealous of her and what she has. She was living with a man but you want to come try to borrow money from me.The last straw was when I was in a Rollover Crash I was in ICU for a month and then my grandmother passed away two days after my crash, soon as I got out of The Hospital, guess who start hanging around asking did I have insurance when I had my wreck.. I'm glad her ass is out of my life it's been 7 years of Pure Non Begging Bliss 👏🏾
@carlpotter007
@carlpotter007 2 жыл бұрын
This dude was so trifling that the judge didn’t waste his energy cussing him out. The judge just let him talk himself into the hole and just let the dirt fall on him. It was magical! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@yannapretty121
@yannapretty121 2 жыл бұрын
MY BROTHER AND I BUSTED UP A FEW DUDES ABOUT TRYING TO STRONG ARM OUR SISTERS WITH THE WOO WOO GAME!!!! AN ASS KICKING WAS OUR APPROACH TO PAYBACK!!!
@janinelew2483
@janinelew2483 Жыл бұрын
@@yannapretty121 I wish I had brothers.
@yannapretty121
@yannapretty121 Жыл бұрын
But You Do!!!! They are all around you. ☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️
@wileyjohnson5681
@wileyjohnson5681 Жыл бұрын
​@@janinelew2483 Explain?
@yannapretty121
@yannapretty121 Жыл бұрын
@@wileyjohnson5681BUT.. BUT. YOU... YOU. DO... DO.
@meeka7067
@meeka7067 2 жыл бұрын
Forced a relationship 😂 sir come on . He sound ridiculous. You dry begged for money
@misterbee66
@misterbee66 2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely.
@philophilosopher7149
@philophilosopher7149 2 жыл бұрын
Meeka...
@tom11zz884
@tom11zz884 2 жыл бұрын
She forced him to try to like her
@mitulu74
@mitulu74 2 жыл бұрын
Lmaoo its dry begging at its finest
@ursulaquickfallbaynes2350
@ursulaquickfallbaynes2350 2 жыл бұрын
She's too beautiful for him!! Don't know what she saw in him!!!
@mssharelltiahna1169
@mssharelltiahna1169 2 жыл бұрын
She seen that he was vulnerable from Grief & tried to play wifey to him to be in a relationship. He seen that she was desperate for a relationship & used her & hid behind “well you say you wanna be there for me in my time of need right?” Pretty much guilt tripping her. They both wrong if you ask me
@Corduroy66
@Corduroy66 2 жыл бұрын
EXACTLY!🤣
@mssharelltiahna1169
@mssharelltiahna1169 2 жыл бұрын
@kofi E no that’s called a bum. Especially when you gotta act like it’s a loan, say you’ll give it back & guilt trip the woman (about your deceased mother) to give it to you. Ain’t NOTHING “playa” about that.
@BOSSLADY-cu8vs
@BOSSLADY-cu8vs 2 жыл бұрын
@@mssharelltiahna1169 Right, that was just talk,he had no intention on paying her back. He figured he'd have her so in love with him she would just forget the loan
@author_tiffany_dionne
@author_tiffany_dionne 2 жыл бұрын
@@mssharelltiahna1169 Seeing an opportunity to show a man you can be a good woman to him isn’t wrong. She was naïve and lacked wisdom, but not malicious.
@Sheherhis
@Sheherhis 2 жыл бұрын
Its no law against wanting to be a man's women and wanting to be there for him. That doesn't give him the right to try to milk her because he's grieving or he's a womanizer. Some men are like that they see a women as a ticket to access to money and things.
@SamuelsReview
@SamuelsReview 2 жыл бұрын
How many times is he going to repeat himself? 😂 She... She... She had an agenda Yo Honor and I... I ... I was... GREIVING 😏
@NyleveRenee
@NyleveRenee 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly!!!
@shelocsher2396
@shelocsher2396 2 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@GangstaBoo7
@GangstaBoo7 2 жыл бұрын
No seriously, I even yelled WE GET IT 😂😂😂 kept talking in circles
@Fannyyyyy_
@Fannyyyyy_ 2 жыл бұрын
@@GangstaBoo7 you got meee goingggg in circlesssssss lmao 😅🤣😅🤣😂😂😂😂
@BelieveInGOD1113
@BelieveInGOD1113 2 жыл бұрын
*grieving🙂👍🏽
@Renrens-LionessofJudah
@Renrens-LionessofJudah 2 жыл бұрын
He is one of those men who in their 50's, 60's wanting to settle down but looking for a woman to take care of them after they have all these multiple health issues, broke and alone. They die alone because of how they use, mistreat people in their prime years.
@higher_pwr8178
@higher_pwr8178 2 жыл бұрын
As the saying goes, an old fool was once a young fool.
@chick-fil-agal2264
@chick-fil-agal2264 2 жыл бұрын
Right on, got 2 files across the street from me, n a friend's ex in the making
@higher_pwr8178
@higher_pwr8178 2 жыл бұрын
@@chick-fil-agal2264 Be helpful, but be smart. I say this because you can't tell a fool a damn thing because they know everything.
@monicabrock7121
@monicabrock7121 2 жыл бұрын
Girl!!!! Who else sees this??? Bums
@FaithandNova
@FaithandNova 2 жыл бұрын
That's the truth and he'll find a desperate woman who will take him in 🤦🏽‍♀️
@cecee_x3391
@cecee_x3391 2 жыл бұрын
He’s so manipulative and pathetic, glad she got her money! Don’t go back sis!
@bcjones181131
@bcjones181131 2 жыл бұрын
You can tell how they talked after court she still likes him alot. They'll be texting each other in the parking lot 🙄 😆
@blessedgal6901
@blessedgal6901 2 жыл бұрын
The best way to beat a user at their “dry begging” game is the second you start talking to them, state all the bills you have to pay and mention how expensive things are now, then at the end ask them how they are doing. They will be hesitant to ask you for anything.
@kikiisnotpressed5830
@kikiisnotpressed5830 2 жыл бұрын
Right and if not there's your answer right there. No good.
@kikiisnotpressed5830
@kikiisnotpressed5830 2 жыл бұрын
Eéchj
@NewlifeNewbeginnings2
@NewlifeNewbeginnings2 2 жыл бұрын
Lol great advice, thanks!!
@msjones3245
@msjones3245 2 жыл бұрын
😂 facts
@staceywilliams1863
@staceywilliams1863 2 жыл бұрын
What you doing all that for?! It’s just NO MFER! I ain’t got shit for ya! Y’all too nice wit the cat n mouse bs! 😅
@disneystargirl101
@disneystargirl101 2 жыл бұрын
A man begging for money is shameless and pathetic. You're working 12 to 16 hour shifts and trying to guilt trip a woman to get you something to eat?
@gabrielleelliott500
@gabrielleelliott500 Жыл бұрын
Yeah he need to go back to the streets
@tedra6455
@tedra6455 Жыл бұрын
So sorry! He should of been embarrassed. Asking a women to feed him.
@kayshawnsimmons5585
@kayshawnsimmons5585 4 ай бұрын
He has NO Shame. I bet his mother was mothering him up to her passing😒😑
@TiffanyNina
@TiffanyNina 2 жыл бұрын
He reminds me of a boy I used to date when I was younger... as soon as they start asking for money run ladies. I know he probably putting it down cause that’s what they do but it’s not worth it 😂😂😂
@stophavingkidsoutofwedlock2981
@stophavingkidsoutofwedlock2981 2 жыл бұрын
She didn't care about the Warner signs because this brother is good looking... She let her sexual lust blind her.... The reason why black women are struggled because they let good looking dudes bamboozled them and when black women feel stupid they want to take me to court to try and sue
@TiffanyNina
@TiffanyNina 2 жыл бұрын
@@stophavingkidsoutofwedlock2981 he’s not all that lol... I guarantee she came out of pocket because of that D 😂
@milanC4659
@milanC4659 2 жыл бұрын
LoL 🤣🤣 smh !!!
@wildfiregirl1556
@wildfiregirl1556 2 жыл бұрын
Not that much putting it down in the world blessings.
@kgames1748
@kgames1748 Жыл бұрын
"Just can't think until I get that bill paid" 🤣🤣 that's a good one 🤣
@kgames1748
@kgames1748 Жыл бұрын
@@MrModusOne 🤣🤣
@josephwilliams2006
@josephwilliams2006 2 жыл бұрын
Well you shouldn't have eaten the food. 😂😂😂
@ericastout4552
@ericastout4552 2 жыл бұрын
He made a fool of himself
@kayshawnsimmons5585
@kayshawnsimmons5585 2 жыл бұрын
Yup🤡🤛🏿😹😹😹
@blackkingyoung
@blackkingyoung 2 жыл бұрын
You a ,lie lol
@majik31401
@majik31401 2 жыл бұрын
THATS GOOD SHE MADE HIM SIGN PROMISSORY NOTE AND KEPT HIS TEXTS
@kayshawnsimmons5585
@kayshawnsimmons5585 2 жыл бұрын
@@majik31401 gotta have witnesses or receipts
@velishajohnson9011
@velishajohnson9011 2 жыл бұрын
Judge is a trip. Got me crying laughing 😂
@ShineForlyn777
@ShineForlyn777 2 жыл бұрын
😁
@kgames1748
@kgames1748 Жыл бұрын
He be on it 🤣💪🏿
@marqueldeaneee
@marqueldeaneee 2 жыл бұрын
I understand he lost his mom and was grieving but wasn’t grieving too hard to not ask for money stop asking for money if you are so upset
@BOSSLADY-cu8vs
@BOSSLADY-cu8vs 2 жыл бұрын
I hate to say it but I'm just going to keep it 100.. He probably put his Mama through Hell..... I'm sure he hit her up for money all the time too... I doubt he sent her on that Cruise, His Character speaks VOLUMES... I'm sure he's worried his mother some awful, Rest In Peace Moms
@PaulineWatts-vf8dx
@PaulineWatts-vf8dx 2 жыл бұрын
@@BOSSLADY-cu8vs 🎯
@lilliewalker3126
@lilliewalker3126 2 жыл бұрын
He tried to buy his love but it backfired on her
@FaithandNova
@FaithandNova 2 жыл бұрын
@@BOSSLADY-cu8vs he probably also lied about paying for his mother trip
@sylviabranch4201
@sylviabranch4201 2 жыл бұрын
@BOSS LADY yes a momma 's boy
@msholliday3935
@msholliday3935 2 жыл бұрын
You always gonna be doing too much for someone who don’t want you.
@juliajewels4035
@juliajewels4035 2 жыл бұрын
Facts....things always have a way or revealing itself, even if we dont acknowledge it.
@BigBecky25
@BigBecky25 Жыл бұрын
💯💯💯
@taquitarattler
@taquitarattler Жыл бұрын
That part!
@tedra6455
@tedra6455 Жыл бұрын
Not really. If you have self esteem you won't.
@highlander666
@highlander666 2 жыл бұрын
It's hard to be sympathetic for her situation, she knew he was trash and proceeded to get involved with him anyway 🤷🏼‍♀️
@nataliemscrzysxycoolharris
@nataliemscrzysxycoolharris 2 жыл бұрын
You said it for me.
@montewilson9567
@montewilson9567 2 жыл бұрын
From minus day one 🤦🏽‍♂️
@adrianprince7266
@adrianprince7266 2 жыл бұрын
Funny because when I say it everyone seems to take issue. Nothing but hypocrites...I've been saying it all along
@heyrobertcarter1
@heyrobertcarter1 2 жыл бұрын
Ouch!!!!
@magicworld3242
@magicworld3242 2 жыл бұрын
You attract who you are. So, if he's trash. So is she 🤷
@peacefaith560
@peacefaith560 2 жыл бұрын
so his cousin warned you and you still dated him lol !!
@carlajones8741
@carlajones8741 2 жыл бұрын
I'm stingy with my money and don't lend money...
@sylviabranch4201
@sylviabranch4201 2 жыл бұрын
Me either
@clarkwinters8299
@clarkwinters8299 2 жыл бұрын
I’m glad she got to see him early and able to get away from him before she was to far in it giving him money
@_MoneyMike_
@_MoneyMike_ 2 жыл бұрын
I mean it’s her fault lol
@FaithandNova
@FaithandNova 2 жыл бұрын
She knew he was a womanizer she put herself in that position to get played
@JM_HUh
@JM_HUh Жыл бұрын
It’s funny how the men will accept money, a place to stay, cars, & gifts but the woman wanting an actual relationship is where they draw the line 🙄🙄🙄🙄
@annat9582
@annat9582 Жыл бұрын
Bc that’s what parasites do they suck and drain but never replenish
@ryandixon7604
@ryandixon7604 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 yeah its called being a playa
@JM_HUh
@JM_HUh Жыл бұрын
@@ryandixon7604 a “playa” don’t need a woman to sponsor his life, that’s a BUM 😂
@karendorsey4780
@karendorsey4780 2 жыл бұрын
He was trifling! She was too nice! He took advantage of her! Said she was asking too much of him! But he took everything she gave him! Just shameful!
@kayshawnsimmons5585
@kayshawnsimmons5585 4 ай бұрын
it was to much money or food. He didn't turn nothing down. He took full advantage
@becky9231
@becky9231 2 жыл бұрын
It's amazing how men / women will accept, food, clothes, money, cars, trips, housing, etc..But when they want to escape the relationship it goes into to the court system..🙄🤔🥺
@_MoneyMike_
@_MoneyMike_ 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@yannapretty121
@yannapretty121 2 жыл бұрын
AND, WHAT LESSONS, HAVE YOU LEARNED, IN YOUR GREAT EXPERIENCES, OF SUCH ??? I NEED YOUR HELP?!!!!
@chrisdownes7881
@chrisdownes7881 2 жыл бұрын
Mr.Emmett:"She was too overwhelming".😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣 Judge Mathis:"She was overbearing".😂
@ahmaniwesley3316
@ahmaniwesley3316 2 жыл бұрын
Lmao he’s talking in circles… gave me a headache 😂😂😂
@carlwest.9057
@carlwest.9057 2 жыл бұрын
Even thought she knew he was a womanizer she still tried to be with him, so there shouldn't been any surprises. I'm happy she got some sense, but money will make anyone have sense when they start to go broke when they give too much. "If it don't make money, it don't make sense"
@traceyjackson4470
@traceyjackson4470 2 жыл бұрын
Well Alrighty Then…PREACH!
@nawgee
@nawgee 2 жыл бұрын
Bro used his moms passing as his defense to his trifling ways. . .sorry excuse for a man right here
@jamingjohnson2275
@jamingjohnson2275 2 жыл бұрын
He is doing a lot of talking and ain't saying anything. Sad....
@BOSSLADY-cu8vs
@BOSSLADY-cu8vs 2 жыл бұрын
Let me tell my story.... Still don't know the story
@misterbee66
@misterbee66 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly.
@memaw3510
@memaw3510 2 жыл бұрын
I made this mistake before. Cut off a user. That's why I'm single. I hate when people take advantage of your kindness.
@aprila6628
@aprila6628 2 жыл бұрын
If he say ",like I said I was grieving about my momma" 1 MO Dang Time!! 🤦🏽‍♀ smh a damn shame.
@shesuniqueinherownwaybenja7647
@shesuniqueinherownwaybenja7647 2 жыл бұрын
He’s RIDICULOUS, but so is she. Because her friends, which is his cousins WARNED her about him. But yet she had to see for herself 😏
@prettywingslife
@prettywingslife 2 жыл бұрын
She said once his cousins told her about him she broke it off. It was years later that his mom passed that she offered her condolences because she empathized with him. He saw it as an opportunity.
@supremeclientele1356
@supremeclientele1356 2 жыл бұрын
I promise y’all Uncle JM put me on dry-begging! I can spot it a mile away now…I stop it before it even happens! Thank you Uncle JM! 🙌🏾😘
@chrissymb1695
@chrissymb1695 2 жыл бұрын
The plaintiffs face expressions 🤣 and he keeps smiling when she explains that he used her !
@wadilotus
@wadilotus 2 жыл бұрын
I hope she's looking goofy from shame
@bmoney6939
@bmoney6939 2 жыл бұрын
N pay them back with extra
@allymaree8812
@allymaree8812 2 жыл бұрын
I wanted to ask who is raising these sorry men..... but had to remember single mothers are! Including myself, & hopefully my young son will turn out upstanding despite the circumstances I brought him into.
@cheyb2257
@cheyb2257 2 жыл бұрын
The problem is the fathers willingly bring absent in the children’s lives we need to get married first before we have any man’s children
@nene7544
@nene7544 2 жыл бұрын
he sure can … try and try hard for positive grown men to be in his life… no grown boys
@allymaree8812
@allymaree8812 2 жыл бұрын
@Ne Ne I'm working hard to keep my kid from being that black male statistic, as I was raised with college-educated parents, still married 40+ years still to this day.
@allymaree8812
@allymaree8812 2 жыл бұрын
@Chey B I wish I coulda made better decisions 😔 for his sake. I didn't know his dad would be such a coward, but I'm far from that & will make sure my child has access to everything beneficial to his success 🙌🏾 I'm claiming it 😊🤗
@Proverbspsalms
@Proverbspsalms 2 жыл бұрын
@@cheyb2257 it’s not always the man. Stop
@BVaxter
@BVaxter 2 жыл бұрын
Typical sad part is women will see this and still mess with his sorry behind.
@BOSSLADY-cu8vs
@BOSSLADY-cu8vs 2 жыл бұрын
This Is True🤦🏾‍♀️
@misterbee66
@misterbee66 2 жыл бұрын
Definitely. Unfortunately.
@rosej5029
@rosej5029 2 жыл бұрын
At least w/this one he's handsome so I can understand compared 2 the trolls in past episodes.
@ericakane6388
@ericakane6388 2 жыл бұрын
I hope she gained some self esteem from This experience, so she won’t settle for another dusty ass ninja again
@SamuelsReview
@SamuelsReview 2 жыл бұрын
JM: Do you have any evidence???? D: 🤔 THE TRUTH! Me: 😂😂😂😂 Where did they get him from?
@nyjahbrand1466
@nyjahbrand1466 2 жыл бұрын
Women loose all common sense behind a man. I’m happy I’m in my 20s learning my lessons even if it’s the hard way, I refuse to be in my 30s and 40s having a grown man say I pressured him into a relationship or a having casual sex with a man.
@Godsbutterfly4923
@Godsbutterfly4923 2 жыл бұрын
That's right! Keep up the good work! -Jesus loves all and wants to save all! Romans 10:9-10✌️
@kikiisnotpressed5830
@kikiisnotpressed5830 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly, you got this sis! To me, it's all a measure of self love which promotes self worth. You always have to remember that you are worth the best you can get out of life. You learned younger than me, for some of us it takes a little more time and mishaps along the way.
@staceywilliams1863
@staceywilliams1863 2 жыл бұрын
Not all women, baby! I’m cold as ice! 😂
@RacieRain
@RacieRain Жыл бұрын
20-year-olds become old fools. Run in the opposite direction at any sign of foolishness. There are plenty good men out there. Amen
@MUTTLEYSWOMAN
@MUTTLEYSWOMAN Жыл бұрын
I'm in my 50's and I've never done any of the things these women do to learn any lessons like this. I was never the gf/bf type of girl in my teens so I wasn't really interested in dating a lot. I'm still not. I had 1 bf. We married when I was 18. He was 23. He died when I was 28. We had been married 10 years. I'm 53 and I've never remarried nor dated anyone else. I don't date by choice and I am a beautiful black woman with a nice figure. That's never been an issue. Just never been interested in it like that. I'm not opposed to it but My life is peaceful without it. I raised my 2 daughters without going out with anyone for 12 years. My husband was an exceptional man and I didn't even realize that he really almost doesn't even exist anymore. 😂😂😂 The way I hear women complaining about whats on the dating scene is horrendous.!! 😅😅 I changed my career to cyber security Management several years ago and focused on that part of my life. I continue to try and demonstrate to my daughters the power of being self sufficient and truly independent. However independence does not mean you don't want relationship but you just learn to weigh out how you want to live.
@michellelogan9177
@michellelogan9177 2 жыл бұрын
This grown boy was using her like it was his mama. This grown girl knowingly step to the mama position. Ladies never give a bf money 💰 for his bills and livelihood.
@sylviabranch4201
@sylviabranch4201 2 жыл бұрын
I agree
@theriawilliams818
@theriawilliams818 2 жыл бұрын
Some people never change.When he opened his mouth it all came out..
@ME-vb6pq
@ME-vb6pq 2 жыл бұрын
He sounds like a whole bum talking about she’s harassing him for asking for her money. Wow. I would not be proud of my son acting like that at all. He should change his ways out of respect for his deceased mother and himself. That’s embarrassing and the young lady needs to get herself some esteem. I’ve bn a fool for love too but she couldn’t have even loved him that fast. Sometimes we as women can do a lot just to try to prove to a man that we are the one he should be with, but if we step bk and gather ourselves we realize he may not be the one we should be with in the first place. Take your time ladies and heal whatever causes those feelings of being incomplete. Most times it’s daddy issues. Don’t ever prove yourself to anybody until you’ve first proven yourself to YOU. ❤️🙏🏽 *Somebody done told this joker he’s fine that’s the problem. 😂
@BOSSLADY-cu8vs
@BOSSLADY-cu8vs 2 жыл бұрын
Low-key I think that was part of the sympathy game, his mother may have went on a cruise to Jamaica but I doubt he paid for it
@ME-vb6pq
@ME-vb6pq 2 жыл бұрын
@@BOSSLADY-cu8vsYou make an excellent point! I’m with you on that. He sure doesn’t sound like somebody who woulda paid for a trip to Jamaica or anywhere else! 😂
@edwinagray4373
@edwinagray4373 2 жыл бұрын
Oh no, they take care of moms. Bet he didn't pay too much to get her back to US.
@RealLadi228
@RealLadi228 2 жыл бұрын
Giving men money shouldn't even feel right its just as bad as a man asking a woman for money!
@AceDramaBeats
@AceDramaBeats Жыл бұрын
I disagree, in a relationship both people look out for each other.
@viviandufe2247
@viviandufe2247 Жыл бұрын
no lies told
@RealLadi228
@RealLadi228 Жыл бұрын
@@AceDramaBeats Key word "Relationship" "Commitment" These dating streets are communism😭
@lornepatterson1393
@lornepatterson1393 2 жыл бұрын
Just a month ain't together.
@Papersquishyqueen123
@Papersquishyqueen123 2 жыл бұрын
“No I’m not finished and umm”🤣🤣🤣
@EnlightenedandElite
@EnlightenedandElite Ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@maesams6212
@maesams6212 2 жыл бұрын
If a guy asks for $ , even 1 time... be leary! I believe that she was overbearing! But he shouldn't ask for $.
@jasonmoses7785
@jasonmoses7785 2 жыл бұрын
Everybody need help sometimes. No matter the gender. Get that out your head.
@maesams6212
@maesams6212 2 жыл бұрын
@@jasonmoses7785 No, get borrowing out of your LAME head! Learn to be a man!
@TruckerActivity2
@TruckerActivity2 2 жыл бұрын
Right she wasn’t to overbearing to get money from?
@jasonmoses7785
@jasonmoses7785 2 жыл бұрын
@@maesams6212 well Im sure you either old ASF with a name like Mae and stuck in your ways so I Kno u single and have been since your 20's .. u can keep your change im sure what every man says that comes your way. You are a headache to society and to yourself.
@jasonmoses7785
@jasonmoses7785 2 жыл бұрын
@@TruckerActivity2 Naw not at all. He should have known what comes with the GIVING if he wasn't tryna pay back. shyt noone wants to just give an not receive anything back of substance whether it's loyalty and being thankful by paying back. So he played himself and so did she by entertaining the thought of buying a grown ass man a game system. Lol
@Fannyyyyy_
@Fannyyyyy_ 2 жыл бұрын
Judge Mathis: Do you have evidence sir🙄 Defendant: THE TRUUF I JUST THREW MY PHONE 🤳😂🤣😭
@TheCinComedy
@TheCinComedy 2 жыл бұрын
anybody that lean over the table like that is guilty
@dollarperlike4087
@dollarperlike4087 2 жыл бұрын
My Brother…..be a MAN!
@blackreacher
@blackreacher 2 жыл бұрын
No doubt
@Soulful_Journey99
@Soulful_Journey99 2 жыл бұрын
LESSON 101: NEVER....Lend nor Give 💰to anyone you are NOT #Married to, including Fiancées!💡👀🚫
@blackreacher
@blackreacher 2 жыл бұрын
Haha yeah right. Most of these women are paying for penis, basically tricks. It's the only way a feminist can get a dude
@BOSSLADY-cu8vs
@BOSSLADY-cu8vs 2 жыл бұрын
Or Cook Thanksgiving Dinners 🦃
@Larbear_1887
@Larbear_1887 2 жыл бұрын
A begging man is such a turn-off. The first time he fixed his lips to ask me can he borrow something would've been his last. He most definitely took advantage of her.
@dameinparker7636
@dameinparker7636 2 жыл бұрын
He should get into the middle of the street with a sign saying I'm broke
@RellieMoBB
@RellieMoBB 2 жыл бұрын
His family gave her a fair warning
@nikkif9873
@nikkif9873 2 жыл бұрын
He is hilarious 😂😂😂😂😂😂 what evidence do you have???? THA TRUTH
@BestLifeBagLady
@BestLifeBagLady 2 жыл бұрын
She thought she could trauma bond but he was focused on his 1st bond 💔💔💔
@blackkingyoung
@blackkingyoung Жыл бұрын
Thank you ❤️ Ilol I see alot of women on theses comments going in on me 😂
@bakeembakeem
@bakeembakeem 2 жыл бұрын
She knew he was a womanizer, and yet she continually gave to him🤔
@VocallyYours3
@VocallyYours3 2 жыл бұрын
He played himself.🤦🏽‍♂️
@SiimplyAngie7088
@SiimplyAngie7088 2 жыл бұрын
Lady no one can use you if your the one that’s dishing out, you wanted a relationship and he didn’t now your scorned! ❌❌❌❌
@scores718
@scores718 2 жыл бұрын
Cooking for him was lovely gift. That's it. One gesture. She needs women's group support.
@kevindavis2187
@kevindavis2187 2 жыл бұрын
HE DEFINITELY USED HER, BUT SHE KNEW EXACTLY WHAT TYPE OF GUY HE WAS FROM DAY 1, SO I DON'T FEEL SORRY FOR HER .
@gabrielar9611
@gabrielar9611 2 жыл бұрын
No good deed goes unpunished. He wishes she still hit him up, he look hungry asf
@Cyclonefn3
@Cyclonefn3 2 жыл бұрын
I can’t fathom ever asking a woman for money. That’s Weak Any way You put it.
@Fairwayqueeno345.
@Fairwayqueeno345. 2 жыл бұрын
Never give a man money, unless he is your husband and you help one another. ( Who paid for his suit and tie).
@AceDramaBeats
@AceDramaBeats Жыл бұрын
Never give a woman money, unless she is your wife and you help one another. That's a great lesson, too many men out here being used for money.
@jimdpiazza6270
@jimdpiazza6270 2 жыл бұрын
The guy's a liar and he twists the truth. I feel terrible for her having to meet him. Hopefully she has met an honest guy because that's what she deserves. She appears to be an extremely nice lady honest. He's probably in jail.
@Crooklon
@Crooklon 2 жыл бұрын
He is straight doo doo
@leyahruizdeloreto6420
@leyahruizdeloreto6420 2 жыл бұрын
I bet she was a body to lay next to, an ATM , a restaurant that delivers, but relationship!?? People just love to use others up and give nothing in return, but she's a fool! I know she has children to care for, that's their money!
@tracypayne8790
@tracypayne8790 2 жыл бұрын
YEP .
@kgames1748
@kgames1748 Жыл бұрын
That stupid look on his face when judge Mathis said good then you can pay that money 🤣🤣💪🏿💪🏿
@neshamojanay9423
@neshamojanay9423 Жыл бұрын
Ikr 😅😂
@vainbeautyconcepts
@vainbeautyconcepts 2 жыл бұрын
Not she came with a motive😑 Nah he came with a motive🤦🏾‍♀️
@cheryljohnson1632
@cheryljohnson1632 2 жыл бұрын
My mom got me@ 10 yrs old, borrowing dish liquid from ‘good’ neighbors , she went ‘off! Don’t borrow, don’t loan, don’t co-sign, don’t move w nobody, don’t-let my sons move in , God bless the child that’s got his own, thank you
@TheQueenrevolution
@TheQueenrevolution 2 жыл бұрын
I hate to see a sorry azz man. She came with an agenda but he begging the whole time.
@sofantastic35
@sofantastic35 Жыл бұрын
Eew that is a turn off for a man to be begging like that
@SheilaTrueLove
@SheilaTrueLove 2 жыл бұрын
Any woman who give men money don't deserve to get anything back. Stop being so desperate and thristy and you wouldn't find yourself in these predicaments.
@SupaNatural28
@SupaNatural28 2 жыл бұрын
GAME OVER BRAH!!!!!!!! You Stuttering Brah YOU LOST!!!!!!!
@venicesmith4525
@venicesmith4525 2 жыл бұрын
A real grown dummy, girl bye!! She tried to purchase him
@blackreacher
@blackreacher 2 жыл бұрын
Truth. You appear to be very attractive to me
@lesliebrown9844
@lesliebrown9844 Жыл бұрын
If a man ask you for money...RUN...he doesn't care about you he's using you
@misterbee66
@misterbee66 2 жыл бұрын
He cannot explain himself.
@terriwilliams4803
@terriwilliams4803 2 жыл бұрын
Welp, she was told by HIS own people, what he was, so, its a lesson learned. Its 2022, and any woman still giving men money, she is desperate and just plain stupid.
@josephBC3652
@josephBC3652 2 жыл бұрын
Not the Church!!! Damn,
@veevee4461
@veevee4461 9 ай бұрын
That man didn't want to pay no money.
@patriciagarvin7564
@patriciagarvin7564 2 жыл бұрын
I love you judge you're so funny I watch you for a very long time I don't do nothing until you go off then I start my day
@Sunshine134chick
@Sunshine134chick 2 жыл бұрын
Nothing but a scrub 😂
@andreaidesalvo9738
@andreaidesalvo9738 2 жыл бұрын
Been there done that as the saying goes! It is a bitter lesson to learn when the time comes that the woman realizes WHAT A FOOL she has been!! Sad all the way around this should just say LATER FOR HIM and move the heck on and never LOOK BACK!!!
@jadeacampbell5206
@jadeacampbell5206 2 жыл бұрын
You didn’t want to cry on her shoulder. You wanted her money
@genocidemoose9293
@genocidemoose9293 2 жыл бұрын
I’m grieving for his mama too.😭😭😭😭😒
@lunacy3
@lunacy3 Жыл бұрын
The bold face lies he spewed were crazy
@dimelaschey3748
@dimelaschey3748 2 жыл бұрын
He was even draining Judge Mathis 😂😂😂😂😂
@justsobrandi1142
@justsobrandi1142 2 жыл бұрын
Straight dry begging and giving excuses. So in order for her to help him she had to pay his bills. 😂
@goodwillloveyou2133
@goodwillloveyou2133 2 жыл бұрын
You’ve any evidence sir Plaintiff: 🗣 The truth My ass : 😂😂😂😂😂😂😭
@jennyvanniekerk9600
@jennyvanniekerk9600 10 ай бұрын
I guess he grabbed the gifts and scoffed down the food.
@melindawilson4470
@melindawilson4470 2 жыл бұрын
His family warned you . Please listen they handed you the red flag . Take heed
@annettealexander5672
@annettealexander5672 13 күн бұрын
I'm 63 years old and I've never given a many any money.
@lorenzolyde5746
@lorenzolyde5746 2 жыл бұрын
She’s suing him for $370? She just want to see this man again.
@foreverfavored729
@foreverfavored729 2 жыл бұрын
😂😂 Exactly
@bmoney6939
@bmoney6939 2 жыл бұрын
They probaly slept together after they left the courtroom
@Lynntheintuitive
@Lynntheintuitive Жыл бұрын
You can tell with the controlling thing that she is that but he never thought that she would take him to court.
@areacode228
@areacode228 2 жыл бұрын
My rule is not to buy me anything for a year aside from dinner and vice versa. I don’t understand this much begging from a man!
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