Absolutely not true, westerners are not any different. Couples keep trying to change each other, that’s one of the reason the divorce rate is so high. Couples that married a long time always said the secret sauce to a long lasting marriage is compromise, compromise, more compromise etc….work on it.
Thanks so much Fang Jie. I learn a lot from you. Just share with you the thoughts. You've achived a lot. Now, at the end of the year, during holiday time, maybe it's time to celebrate, to enjoy? The whole families are close to each other, maybe you and Wang Zi could take some vacation? That refreshment would lift us up, maybe it also shifts our perspective a bit. Thanks for all.