Vaginal Dryness and how to overcome it.

[@susantomes6721]

Thank you so much for all this information. I have learnt things that I wish I had known 20 years ago, it would have saved me so much pain and discomfort. You are such a kind, beautiful and sympathetic Doctor. How I wish you were mine. ❤️

[@LizTiddington]

I'm 33, no kids, no cancer, I've been suffering with this for about 3 years. The nurses at my GP changed my contraceptive to try to help - coming off the pill made it way worse. I've told multiple doctors, but they're not interested! They just don't want to investigate the cause.

[@rp44477]

Hi. I don't recall if she mentioned "VFit Plus." It emits near infrared & red light therapy that you can use on the inside & outside. This is the only thing that has helped me. You can get it online or you can also get this treatment through a doc, it's called "ThermiVa", but this runs about $3,000 for three (30) mins sessions & it lasts about a yr. For those on a budget like me, I bought "Vfit Plus" online for about $400. Use it approx 3 times a week, (15 - 20) mins sessions. I've had mine about 4 years & it's helped me so much! Look up their reviews online. Hope this helps...

[@JHKCreations]

Thanks for this. This is very helpful. I got hysterectomy at 30 yrs old and having issues. It affects me emotionally. Knowing that there are things I can do to help my symptoms is really encouraging. It makes me feel better. Thanks a lot.😊

[@oneidagonzalez5325]

Simple Joys Home Cheers for the Video clip! Sorry for chiming in, I am interested in your thoughts. Have you researched - Ceyilliam Ceysaiah Removal (should be on google have a look)? It is a great one off guide for understanding the mental trick to increase your sexual stamina minus the normal expense. Ive heard some awesome things about it and my buddy after many years got great success with it.

[@JHKCreations]

@@oneidagonzalez5325 thanks for sharing.I'd definitely check that out.😊♥️

[@Average_Ohio_Citizen_]

I was researching 'Dry hair problems' and this vid randomly came up. Certainly not what I was expecting (although interesting). I'm sorry to hear that this happens to you ladies 😢

[@agbemelemorrison3124]

Am 18 years and am suffering from virgina dryness

[@pamelamarcelo9311]

Same, do you use anything for the dryness ?

[@mdaze9753]

I wish people would stop referring to this VERY common ailment as "sensitive". Menopause has made women feel shameful and it shouldn't. Women comprise 50% of the population. We will all experience menopause and it's symptoms. Please stop using words that perpetuate old stereo types. Empower us and work to make HRT accessible to all women.

[@mochamagic1000]

You're an absolute marvel Dr Renee, please keep these videos coming. Also thanks to Sam (Pixiwoo) for sending me here!

[@DrRenee]

Hey Juliet. What a lovely comment! Thank you. And thanks Sam, who is also a marvel! Thanks for subscribing, let me know if there is a topic you need covering and help me spread the word! Thanks again. Renee

[@christinebeaudin4551]

I agree. No shame in symptoms from menopause. I suffered for a few years thinking it was something else. Relieved its simply vaginal atrophy and I am using an Estring. What a miracle. Within 24 hours the symptoms are almost all gone. Slight cramping first day but I'm thrilled that I can get on with life as boring as it is...lol

[@puffymuffin9064]

What is estring

[@christinebeaudin4551]

@@puffymuffin9064 Estring is a slow releasing estrogen ring which you insert and keep it for three months. This has been a game changer for me. There is no need to be uncomfortable talking about this. It's a natural part of aging.

[@puffymuffin9064]

@@christinebeaudin4551 oh ok never heard about this did you get it from your Dr..not sure if this is in the UK all new to me....were you low on estrogen if so did effect your water works at all please let me know...

[@christinebeaudin4551]

@@puffymuffin9064 yes it is with a prescription. Got a 2 year renewal. It was a game changer for me.

[@candisbar524]

Thank you for this important information!

[@DrRenee]

It’s a pleasure.

[@mavismajeran1343]

thank you Dr.Renee for this very informative video..I wish it could help me for I was too devastated about my menopausal symptoms..

[@DrRenee]

Its a pleasure. I'm sorry you were devastated by your symptoms. They are treatable. Have a look at the menopause VLOG for some ideas

[@imhereforyou5541]

I'm 21 and have this issue! And this happens Everytime,😪

[@evempozende2286]

Same😭

[@Bear-jr3ei]

use it or lose it!

[@zarabibi5023]

Can someone help? I just need help with Vaginal Dryness because its affecting me so much mentally. I was on the Depo for about 1 year, then stopped it November last year and I just lost all my sex libido and absolutely no vaginal wetness, just complete dryness so matter how much foreplay and love I did with my partner, lubricants didn't help apart from friction, burning, stinging everytime, I was in a lot of pain. I haven't had sex since January this year. Doctor's given me Sylk vaginal moisturiser which I didn't notice. Can you please help me? Or will I ever feel like a woman again ? I am only 29. There isn't anything I haven't tried... 🥺😥😢

[@RadiantSilverlighter]

I can lick it for you. If you think that will help.

[@rp44477]

Hi. I don't recall if she mentioned "VFit Plus." It emits near infrared & red light therapy that you can use on the inside & outside. This is the only thing that has helped me. You can get it online or you can also get this treatment through a doc, it's called "ThermiVa", but this runs about $3,000 for three (30) mins sessions & it lasts about a yr. For those on a budget like me, I bought "Vfit Plus" online for about $400. Use it approx 3 times a week, (15 - 20) mins sessions. I've had mine about 4 years & it's helped me so much! Look up their reviews online. Hope this helps...

[@tonifoster1835]

Try going on the contraceptive pill, this should correct your estrogen, ask for a referral to a GYN

[@clairejevron6146]

I m 42 and I m in the menopause, I have been given femostine 10 tablets. No medical reasons, just cannot understand why this has happened so early. I had a smear a few weeks ago and wow it hurt, I was in tears afterwards.

[@DrRenee]

Oh I'm sorry to hear this Claire. There is no answer. Its is often genetic but sometimes not. I would say that you need some vaginal oestrogen as well as HRT which will ensure that you can have smears without pain and enjoy sex if you want to. Have a watch of my vaginal dryness VLOG with Jane Lewis and perhaps join her facebook group "vaginal atrophy' which is a closed safe space to speak to women going through the same thing.R x

[@clairejevron6146]

Dr Renee Thank you for the advise. I ve only been taking the tablets for two weeks but the migraines and nausea are starting to upset me, I don’t normally suffer with either. I m not sure whether I need to stop the tablets? I did ask if it could have a patch but the doctor couldn’t find anything available with the shortages. I had the same symptoms when I was using the contraceptive pills about 15years ago, had to stop taking it.

[@DrRenee]

@@clairejevron6146 I'm afraid you need to speak to your doctor for individual advice. The alternative to patches is oestrogel and utrogestan, both are available. Advice from the BMS is to use transdermal HRT for women with migraine.

[@Germatti13489]

I know what you mean. I have Sjogren's syndrome which along with being 60 has made sex impossible.

[@rp44477]

Hi. I don't recall if she mentioned "VFit Plus." It emits near infrared & red light therapy that you can use on the inside & outside. This is the only thing that has helped me. You can get it online or you can also get this treatment through a doc, it's called "ThermiVa", but this runs about $3,000 for three (30) mins sessions & it lasts about a yr. For those on a budget like me, I bought "Vfit Plus" online for about $400. Use it approx 3 times a week, (15 - 20) mins sessions. I've had mine about 4 years & it's helped me so much! Look up their reviews online. Hope this helps...

[@gardeniagonzalez3059]

Dr Renee I'm 59 and I had my uterus remove in my early 40s. Since than I have avoided sex because of how painful it is and the fear. I've tried lubricant and it doesn't seem to help. My husband and I separated because of the strain menopause has put on our marriage. I feel useless as a woman. I've talked to my doctor an get little or no answers, because they just want to move on to the next patient.

[@DrRenee]

Gardenia I am so saddened to read this. You can be treated and helped. It will take time to rebuild the tissues and get you there so be patient. Please go to your GP and tell them that you need vagifem pessaries up to 5x a week PLUS ovestin vaginal cream 3x a week. If they will only start with one, get the ovestin cream because your tissues will be too dry and depleted for the vagifem. If they say no; demand a referral to urogynae and quote me. Please read Jane Lewis's book "my menopausal vagina" and join her facebook group 'vaginal atrophy'; you will find that you are not alone by a long shot. Believe me that women in their 70's have successfully reached the point of restarting sexual relationships; you can too. You are not a failure as a woman, you have been failed by your doctors. Good luck.

[@DrRenee]

You are also not too late to consider HRT as well as the vaginal oestrogens.

[@gardeniagonzalez3059]

@@DrRenee Thank you so much! I will make an appointment right away. Your video and your response has brighten my day. Have a Happy New Year.

[@rp44477]

Hi. I don't recall if she mentioned "VFit Plus." It emits near infrared & red light therapy that you can use on the inside & outside. This is the only thing that has helped me. You can get it online or you can also get this treatment through a doc, it's called "ThermiVa", but this runs about $3,000 for three (30) mins sessions & it lasts about a yr. For those on a budget like me, I bought "Vfit Plus" online for about $400. Use it approx 3 times a week, (15 - 20) mins sessions. I've had mine about 4 years & it's helped me so much! Look up their reviews online. Hope this helps...

[@marykcherry]

Great information thanks so much

[@DrRenee]

You are so welcome!

[@chocolatekisses849]

Ky liquid beads helps.....

[@mikeemacaldo2302]

Dr Renee thanks for the great advise,my wife is 55yrs old and im 43yrs old and I love her so much.What is the best lubricant for sex my wife is a diabetic?

[@DrRenee]

Hi. What a lovely coment about your wide. thats great to hear. The choice of lubricant is a really personal one Mikee and trying a few and seeing what you prefer is the way. However to give you a help, her is a website with some suggestions for menopausal women. Hope that helps and thanks for watching. www.menopause.org/for-women/sexual-health-menopause-online/effective-treatments-for-sexual-problems/vaginal-and-vulvar-comfort-lubricants-moisturizers-and-low-dose-vaginal-estrogen

[@rupalisingla1506]

Can you mention about efficacy of Vagisil wash and external gel for vaginal Dryness ? Available on amazon

[@rupalisingla1506]

Thank you for nice explanation and treatment options

[@mariamanjie3715]

Hello I'm 20 and I have vaginal dryness

[@dorothybeveridge3133]

They have said it’s not a prolapse. I don’t think I will get to hospital because of the virus here. I think I’ll just have to insist on an examination. They have said no to it so far . I don’t think we have a menapause clinic here . I’m in Scotland, near Dundee. They will probably all be closed with this covid . Thankyou so far . I’ll just have to bare with it for the time being . Maybe another month of estrogen pessories will help ? I just don’t know ? Very debilitating. Thankyou for your guidance. I think you are in America?? Different from Scotland. 🤞❤️

[@DrRenee]

They can’t possibly know it isn’t a prolapse without examining you!

[@dorothybeveridge3133]

@@DrRenee I don’t have anything outward to see. Could it be internal?

[@DrRenee]

Totally. Only the very worst grade of prolapse do so to the outside, but there are various degrees inside. So yes!

[@therealguttastunna]

I'm 18 years of age and I have experience bleeding during sex. I do not have a yeast infection. I do not feel any pain, itching or burning at all. Is this normal?

[@DrRenee]

Please see a GP or a sexual health clinic as this needs investigating.

[@dorothybeveridge3133]

Thankyou. I have asked my doctor for a vaginal examination to see how I look down below but he says I don’t need one ! I feel like I’m sitting on a lump . Doctor says to use Vaseline fairly thickly which I do but not getting rid of symptoms. Can you explain why I feel I’m sitting on a lump & will the estrogen pessories get rid of it please . Thankyou for answering me . I’m getting know where with my doctor.( have spoken to 4 different doctors) x

[@drrenee1300]

Vasaline is actually not very good for VA and makes it worse often. You may have a prolapse and vaginal oestrogen will help to a degree but it sounds like you do need an examination so please go back to your GP; insist on a vaginal examination and if they refuse, insist on a referral to menopause clinic.

[@dlanigant9386]

Does flaxseed oil, and replen help with vaginal dryness/ lack of lubricantion

[@puffymuffin9064]

Hi My bladder shows Low estrogen I don't like putting tablets in is there anything else I can moisten with mine thank you

[@pigmentedpiff2336]

Had hysterectomy at 15 menopause every sense it’s terrible

[@AnnetteMurphyger]

Should you wash yourself with a flannel down in that area.

[@DrRenee]

Sorry I missed this question. So the answer is yes a flannel is fine but gently and nothing but water.

[@AnnetteMurphyger]

Very honest.

[@Germatti13489]

I have Sjogren's syndrome which causes additional drying along with being over 60. I believe I have vulvodynia. Sex is impossible because it rips the skin.

[@DrRenee]

You could ask your doctor to try both vagifem and ovestin cream to be used vaginally.

[@MeekaFayetima]

Natural is the best way to go , especially maca root www.etsy.com/listing/764567570/menopause-vagina-dry-moisture-wet-vagina

[@lenorepaletta9267]

Pernell13489 Also look into Sally K norton on the effects on oxolates in the diet being a huge cause of the pain.

[@janethammonds4367]

What kind of moisturizer can I buy?

[@hopecampbell2016]

Good info

[@kayhall4742]

dr. Renee I have been to do my gynecologist since October I have been using estradiol compounded started out just a little a day I still have Major pain it's like a throbbing in my vagina it hurts most time of the evening I also have pressure in my vagina I had to move the estradiol up I have been using up to 2 gram a night and now he has me on medicine for BV but you didn't test to see if I had I've been on it before I haven't been sexual active for 6 years I have Interstitial cystitis but it's not that it's in my vagina what can I do

[@lilolmecj]

Kay Hall check out the research on CBD (marijuana) for interstitial cystitis, it is interesting. I do not have IC, but I am very sensitive to bladder urges, and often feel the need to void when there is not much urine in my bladder. The CBD products help a lot for me.

[@AnnetteMurphyger]

Can pads for blader weakness cause irritation? If the pads are too wide in the side.

[@DrRenee]

Annette Murphy I guess that’s a complex reply. Being post menopausal and not using oestrogen will likely lead to vaginal dryness and anything can then irritate or worse more easily including pads. Menopause will also worsen incontinence. Have you consider an oestrogen cream/vaginally pessaries.

[@dorothybeveridge3133]

Hi . I’m 72years old . My doctor has given me oestrogen pessories for burning. I have used it for one week every night & then twice a week. I’m on my 7th week but still very uncomfortable. Please help me .

[@drrenee1300]

Hi Dorothy. You can ask your GP to add ovestin cream to the vagifem. You can use this up to 3x a week and this often works better than the pessary because it can be used both internally and around the outside. It can be used in addition to the vagifem and if your GP is not sure please ask them to speak to someone at gynae. This is a debilitating condition and if not treated fully can lead to UTI's and even sepsis.

[@All_About_Now.By_Remya]

which is the best moisturizer for dryness. I'm 24.

[@piaerikaoftana7266]

me too im 24 i have pcos i experience vaginal dryness. 2months and until now

[@karenkeeling5228]

hi my name is karen and i was told yesterday by my gp that i have atrophic vaginitis, now partly it could be possible its that but can that make me have 2 episodes of sepsis due to uti infections and just had another uti for the third time in 10 months and 3 times taken co amoxeclav tablets i am very drained after it all, and desperatly need some help. i have been given oestrogen creams which was too comfortable to use and i have just been given the pessary which i dont want to use because of side effects so please can you tell me if theres anything natural i can use with no oestrogen in it and also is can you tell if this diagnosis i have been given the reason for my uti infections. many thanks.

[@DrRenee]

karen keeling Yes, this can definitely cause UTI’s and I’m afraid the only solution is vaginal oestrogen.

[@maryjlovesmee3034]

Hi Dr.Renee, I'm 20 years old and suffer from vaginal dryness, it started right after I started birth control, I hate having sex because it hurts even with lubricant and causes tears down there, I don't know what to do, I've been to two gynecologist and they said I have to live with this. This has mad me depressed and I have no idea what to do

[@DrRenee]

Jazmin Martinez Hi Jazmin. I am so sorry to hear this. Have you stopped the pill? If not I would. If you have already it may be worth trying g an oestrogen cream. Your doctor can prescribe this. There may be a psychological element now because of the trauma. So if none of the above help, speaking to a counsellor specialising in sexual dysfunction is another idea. I hope you get it sorted. Dr Renée

[@maryjlovesmee3034]

Dr Renee Thank you so much for replying! And I have the implant rod in my arm but I am planning to take it out because it has caused a lot of problems, but thank you again, I will speak to my doctor about this! ❤

[@DrRenee]

Ah, the implant could be the cause as well as COCP. Yes, have it taken out and then see if things improve. It may take a while and in the meantime you could try the suggestions above. Good luck. Dr Renée

[@darrickadukes4046]

I have lupus

[@zanelesiya7082]

I have a problem is virginal dryness um 24 and have yeast infection too need help please

[@glynnispitcher3602]

maybe ur root CHARKAS is close. get crystals four ur root CHARKAS

[@jashaehall154]

Or check your sugar level

[@shahnazsonia1557]

Hi Dr. I'm Dr. Sonia(Dental surgeon) .we are newly married couple but suffering sexual intercourse for dryness of vagina.pls give me a suggest .

[@jeanlockmiller9422]

Hello Doctor thank you for your advice I’m 63 yrs old I’m having vaginal irritation 2 days after sex I think because of dryness what I will do it’s pain when I wash it with water during shower and sometime during urination if the urine touch the irritation part .

[@rp44477]

Hi. I don't recall if she mentioned "VFit Plus." It emits near infrared & red light therapy that you can use on the inside & outside. This is the only thing that has helped me. You can get it online or you can also get this treatment through a doc, it's called "ThermiVa", but this runs about $3,000 for three (30) mins sessions & it lasts about a yr. For those on a budget like me, I bought "Vfit Plus" online for about $400. Use it approx 3 times a week, (15 - 20) mins sessions. I've had mine about 4 years & it's helped me so much! Look up their reviews online. Hope this helps...

[@sagechronicles5081]

What if you can't take estrogen and have been put on progesterone birth control to help with Endo symptoms... What could I ask my doctor for to help increase my natural lubrication.. I'm 36

[@DrRenee]

Yes oil based lubricants are good. However, there is almost no one who can’t have a final oestradiol. If a GP has told you that, they may not be correct.

[@DrRenee]

Also vaginal laser works very well but without oestrogen it will deteriorate again.

[@sagechronicles5081]

@@DrRenee thank you so much.. I'm going to look into that

[@yasmineatr621]

Thank you so much doctor. But what is the best type of lubricant that doesn't effect the sperms.. I mean if I want to become pregnant

[@DrRenee]

Yasmine ATR It’s a personal choice and Any that have no spermicidal element in them will be fine.

[@AnnetteMurphyger]

I think I have vaginal dryness and I 'm definitely menopausal. Horrible and very irritating.

[@DrRenee]

I'm sorry to hear that Annette. There is no evidence that HRT causes weight gain but menopause definitely does. Also, as we age our metabolism changes and so some women associate this and the weight gain with HRT but there are plenty of women who feel so much better on HRT that they are able to be more active and keep themselves fit and healthier.

[@barbarariley3488]

Annette Murphy My doc put me on Vagifem suppositories it helped

[@karenkeeling5228]

hi annette glad that the vagifem worked for you but did they give you any pain at all

[@MeekaFayetima]

Annette Murphy Natural is the best way to go , especially maca root www.etsy.com/listing/764567570/menopause-vagina-dry-moisture-wet-vagina

[@youmiegee5695]

How can i overcome this problem? About these dryness problem.

[@DrRenee]

Youmie Arsheneo Hi Youmie. If you watch the video there are many suggestions within there.

[@RaselMolla]

how i cure from dryness

[@birajane542]

Iam 27 it was my first time to mastbba t i saw blood and I dry all the time what can use

[@rp44477]

Hi. I don't recall if she mentioned "VFit Plus." It emits near infrared & red light therapy that you can use on the inside & outside. This is the only thing that has helped me. You can get it online or you can also get this treatment through a doc, it's called "ThermiVa", but this runs about $3,000 for three (30) mins sessions & it lasts about a yr. For those on a budget like me, I bought "Vfit Plus" online for about $400. Use it approx 3 times a week, (15 - 20) mins sessions. I've had mine about 4 years & it's helped me so much! Look up their reviews online. Hope this helps...

[@AnnetteMurphyger]

Does HRT treatment make you fat and/or cause you to put on weight?

[@karenbaumgartel6077]

I have heard that women who start HRT in the perimenopause actually someone's lose weight!

[@trudycarmichael6050]

Yes, I put on 7kgs in the space of three

[@dianacruze1825]

Dr Renee ❣️thanks for the amazing video!!Dr I suffer from very late orgsm and dryness within 7/8 minutes of sex..I'm 26 given birth in mar 2019 ..and have defeciency in vitamin D otherwise everything okay.will be waiting for your reply. Thanks 😊

[@karinamachadoescobar20]

Great Video clip! Excuse me for chiming in, I am interested in your opinion. Have you tried - Ceyilliam Ceysaiah Removal (google it)? It is a smashing one of a kind guide for understanding the mental trick to increase your sexual stamina without the normal expense. Ive heard some amazing things about it and my work colleague after many years got astronomical results with it.

[@t.t.5195]

Peri /post / menopausal symptoms of dryness are there natural remedies please? Creams / lubricants? Names

[@drrenee1300]

We discuss them in this video and the one i do with Jane Lewis, have a watch of that. There are too many for me to mention here I'm afraid. However as a start point, YES products are very good. I wold just add that oestradiol is the most natural product available in terms of what is missing.

[@t.t.5195]

@@drrenee1300 thank you Dr. Since my partial hysterectomy so much has changed which the doctor though did awesome job just seemed not to know what I should do afterwards. Now 2 years later .. I just wanna get better.

[@mustansirabintefarukpritha4754]

Dr Renee I am 25 years and suffering from vaginal dryness that's why during intercourse me and my husband also feen pain in stead of feeling exotic. what can I do to overcome this horrible problem?? pls suggest me...I am in great problem dr. and I want to clear that I can't clearly understand your speaking because for me you r so much fluent speaker and I am not native speaker pls help me..... thank in advance

[@sweetpeace5]

MUSTANSIRA BINTE FARUK PRITHA Can you turn on captions? (click 3 dots in upper right corner) Watch & learn

[@brendawood6712]

Please, not on line ! This is private! Not going to watch

[@DrRenee]

All you needed to do was pass by, no one is forced to watch. But you will see, from 84,000 views, the comments are overwhelmingly grateful to have the resource. So I will continue to leave this for those who need the information that so many women don’t get because talking about such things used to be taboo.

[@Faithfullfertilitytv]

This was very helpful. Thanks

[@traceylindsay3573]

Hi Does anyone know if does Renee have an email address please ?

[@karenkeeling5228]

hi i was wondering the same thing, have you had any luck with renees email address mass please. many thanks karen.

[@JohnDoe-mw9zs]

You are gorgeous 🥰 😘🔥