Valkyrae TALKS about her TOXIC past relationship

[@tiarnabananaz]

I’m glad rae got out of the toxic cycle of breaking up and rekindling with him! She’s in a much better place in every way now.

[@LinkoLankao]

she wont date u bro, cry louder

[@tiarnabananaz]

@@LinkoLankao ....i have a bf? lmao

[@LinkoLankao]

@@tiarnabananaz gay ?

[@yeeaahboii1634]

@@LinkoLankao one look at the username, you can tell its a woman lol

[@LinkoLankao]

@@yeeaahboii1634wow u assuming genders now ?

[@dstnyvrsn4806]

It’s crazy when you’re in such a toxic relationship you don’t realize it at the time and think it’s normal and when it’s finally over it just makes you sad how you didn’t realize how bad it really was

[@leilani2258]

What's really sad is being able to see these red flags from an outsider POV and being like 'she should have left long time ago', but when you are actually going THROUGH it - in the eye of the storm. It's hard to realize when to walk away. Glad Rae is doing better now.❤

[@lgr28]

I love that rae is giving so much grace to this person who clearly hurt her a lot during a pretty difficult period in her life

[@jhervis_]

It sounds so toxic, sorry you had to go through that.. a partner that really loves you has your best interest at heart and would celebrate your wins with you and help you up when you're down not tear you down because you're succeeding more than them. I am so glad you are past that now ❤

[@conigonzalez5486]

It's a little crazy bc if Soni would have been a nicer or a more caring person he would probably gained more viewers and a following from Rae's fanbase, there is a huge amount of creators that people have met bc of their partners, and they get bigger together, but I guess jelousy always makes a person your rival instead of a oportunity or support

[@harana-]

This! I was thinking why don’t they just get big together?

[@vip5hawol-deehirota]

was about to comment this, so true smh welp

[@rossrolex]

Exactly he always rubbed me the wrong way. Rae was def blinded by love. There’s a reason why he never grew a bigger audience, he can’t seem to realize that tho. It’s HIM.

[@Jaztene]

I feel like it was obvious that he was jealous of her. After their breakups, Rae would still support him but he never showed her the same support.

[@Brandonv2518]

I agree, they def could have grown together. I'm not against believing that he was jealous, but he has stated that "we wanted different things" rather than blaming her for so and so. Definitely need to have both sides of the story for a lot of this but oh well

[@celestric]

Damn jealousy is a hell of a drug, huh? Imagine being jealous of your partner’s success.

[@oz5150]

Crazy that she tells everyone she couldnt give him what he wanted because of her career and she wasnt going to sacrafice it for her relationship. And all you thought of was “damn jealousy”. Yeah id be bummed too if my girls successes was being shipped with other male streamers knowing she has a bf and still shipping them and from that growing big. Dont get me wrong Rae is a fabulous streamer, but lets not act like being close to OTV and pokimane at the right time as your breaking up with your Boyfriend didnt help a little. But you know thats like all other otv and friends story, well the attractive women of the group. Rae starts hanging around Myth, gets some shipping, starts hanging out with OTV during Fortnite, breaks up with Michael and signs to 100thieves, blows up. Fuslie is engaged to Edison, hanging out with OTV and Fed, everyone turns on Fed gets massive exposure from that, joins 100thives and ends engagement with Edison.. and grows massively. Quaterjade dating her bf Lan, she goes to streamer camp meets other streamers and OTV. Egos other girls in Fed minecraft server, has a big fight with fuslie but still ships herself with Fed and grows her stream thru that.. breaks up with her BF and later starts dating Masayoshi another similar sized streamer and uses the friend group to grow. Tinakitten dating Jummychu for years, joins among us crew and meets Corpse, and Dream people.. end relation with Jummy as shes blowing up. They all just break up with their bf so they all have a chance at growing their career. Seems like a solid formula, be hot, have other friends in the space to play games and if youre dating someone, break up with them

[@awsomeagentcageblad305]

Lets not victim blame here​@@oz5150

[@vladimirpetrov7530]

Shut up, you weirdo ​@@oz5150

[@sarqli]

​@@oz5150Not once has valkyrae condoned shipping her with other streamers. It's insane behaviour to blame her for that and it's even more insane to minimize her success to be the result of shipping her with other streamers

[@tomjones8962]

@@oz5150 he was the one that broke up with her multiple times. she was the one who kept going back to him and wanting to make things work. it was only until their final break up did she go to therapy to deal with her co-dependency.

[@ViviGaming]

My ex broke up with me whenever it was convenient for him too... On and off for two years. Then with my new bf, I told him day 1 that if he dumps me, I'm gone. Not doing the traumatic on and off bs again. We're married now.

[@metro04]

Aw so happy for u! Gives me hope lol

[@inaee2661]

How long did it take him to propose?

[@Hannah-rv7tp]

VIVI! love ur channel, so happy for you

[@Chili2.0]

"My ex was living with trainwrecks and mitch jones" Oh no baby girl 💀

[@arting6539]

exactly what i thought lol

[@thecoolgamerkid]

Train ain't bad?

[@trayvixk4642]

This is a perfect example of "I didn't change when I got famous. The people around me changed". It's a BTS quote but totally relatable. It's sad but sometimes relationships/friendshps that started out amazing just change when one person becomes super successful.

[@chacoshokoboi1487]

❤❤❤

[@aliciamoon9816]

18:00 I hope Rae knows that this is a completely valid reaction to being treated so abhorrently by a partner who is supposed to love you. I can completely relate to that type of cycle, and I'm glad she's in a place now where she's decided that if respect isn't being served, she isn't eating at the table. When you get to that place, it's incredibly liberating. Having that self love and self respect for yourself is so important.

[@marshewwo]

happy she’s opening up about this we love u rae

[@lizg.m8231]

Well @ least she's OUT of that toxic relationship, never though about the one I had but thinking about it now how did I put up with this person for 5yrs, but also understand because that was me till enough was enough. I'm glad that she's happy & who ever she dates can make her happy & she knows what she wants& deserves. ❤

[@L3thalBones]

Imagine having Valkyrae be smitten with you and fucking that up... multiple times. I'd end it all.

[@bobbie3191]

I remember when I'd have to turn the stream off because she would play Fortnite with him, and he would be insanely toxic to her and actually be mad irl. It was too sad watching her try to laugh it off for chat.

[@moses095]

Right and its still uploaded to her vods to. People saw it

[@El_Verdulero_98]

Now the line "I want what they have" has a lot more sense, damn.

[@breakfastglitter]

I’m sorry but she gave him way too many chances. If someone dumped me the day before I left to go take care of my sick dad. It’s over for real don’t even reach out to me.

[@barbzwired]

until you're in a relationship like this you wont understand.. its truly easier said than done .

[@nadiabell6985]

She thought she was in love

[@sechabatheletsane9784]

​@@barbzwired nah nah. Some of us have lines written in the sand. Unfortunately Rae didn't have that, probably due to being young. But for some us, shit like that is a wrap.

[@andyyy_cs2]

​@@sechabatheletsane9784She was pushing 30 already, ffs

[@sechabatheletsane9784]

@@andyyy_cs2 ay I don't know how young/old she was. Lol. She said she was young.

[@babthew]

I don't want to be that guy, but I feel like gta rp was a good way for Rae and Leslie to have some fun when they each had a rough patch in 2021.

[@Duaa0.2]

Gta started at the end of 2023 and rae was already in a good place and much healthier life than ever idk what u’re talking about

[@Valkqap]

They're talking about 3.0 bro​@@Duaa0.2

[@YsRam916]

@@Duaa0.2she played in 2021, what are YOU taking about?

[@TheDailyEgg]

@@Duaa0.2 wait you're telling me you didn't know gta existed before 4.0??? No wonder people were going crazy for chattercups, they didn't know Ray Mond had a whole 2 years in the city before that

[@Duaa0.2]

@@TheDailyEgg dude 3.0 gta rp was the most toxic game she played in that period of time and don’t give gta credit for that she puts in the work and learned from her past experience its not gta. And yes i forgot about 3.0 idk how lol

[@jesseire666]

You couldn't pay me enough money in the world to go back to my early 20s/20s in general. Chatters if you're in your 20s and struggling pls know it is an absolute sh*t show but you will find yourself and it will get better!!!! ❤

[@sohu0297]

seems like the person she’s seeing now makes her happy good for her

[@sohu0297]

i don’t mean this in any weird way btw😭

[@Jack-zt8fk]

@@awesamlol2lmao

[@pame-3157]

​@@awesamlol2they have never said they're together? Why do ppl assume they are, until they say it, we don't know

[@panche1287]

⁠@@pame-3157Agreed! She’s also said the viewers don’t have permission to talk about her current personal relationships. I feel like whether you believe it or not, her reason for not talking about her love life anymore is entirely valid and people should respect that.

[@Blazetheuser]

@@pame-3157 in a video during halloween she said "i can see you whole dick through those tight pants" when hasan was trying to try on an outfit. You think she would just randomly say that if she was not dating him?

[@alyxsorrentino3970]

I was here for all of these backgrounds 😅

[@moses095]

I watched soni the beginning of 2022-23 or during the time Rae was living at the otv house(aka during the time they finally ended) and during his stream he kept crying(actual tears cam off) about her if you look at some of his insta pics the captions are about her. people were trolling him and calling him out everytime he mentioned her and he banned them. The thing is listening to both sides.. i realize soni lied about a bunch of shit. Rae took her time to speak as about him while he made it out to make her look like the bad guy. Saying she called him a bum because he grew his hair out yada yada. Always said the bad things she did for months never held his self accountable. Im glad rae healed and moved on.

[@moses095]

Before anyone comments. I posted this because i saw a comment saying rae is the only one speaking about him. Im not defending her but yall not lying on the homie like that 😂😂. I was on soni viewer for 1-2 years.

[@vonckjordy]

​@@moses095i never really watched his streams. But i did used to follow him on Twitter. And he always looked like someone who blamed other people for his own mistakes...

[@moses095]

@@vonckjordy yes he did. He spent one whole stream talking about tate and how he would or is never like him but rae just outted it all

[@7sn_kw6818]

What did he say about her??

[@linadams1965]

Yes I’ve followed him for some time too. He talks about her all the time still in sub tweets. It’s sad. He needs to grow on his own and move on.

[@scintilliance5665]

its so nice of Rae to even be so empathetic about him when he was such a shitty human being. incompatibility wasn't even an issue. he was just the most terrible human being ever. imagine expecting your girlfriend to cook for you every night. what a manchild. watching Rae back then was so telling that she was going through so much behind the scenes with such a shithole of a person.

[@linadams1965]

@@scintilliance5665 you can tell by his tweets now that he hasn’t changed. On his burner twitter he’d say he wanted a big titty girlfriend to be obsessed with him and make him food. He’s got his priorities all fucked.

[@josephcanche8744]

You dont know the whole story lol

[@Porschapls]

You're right, we don't. ​But I think there's nothing wrong with giving people the benefit of the doubt? @josephcanche8744

[@PhoebeLio]

@@Porschaplshe’s not talking about giving Rae the benefit of the doubt he’s talking about not assuming her ex is a bad person

[@Kaladin0622]

You’re calling him a “shitty human being” while probably doing shitty things as well. Stop judging others from relationships that YOU aren’t apart of. Fucking parasocial weirdo

[@ZippoMan18]

When I first found Rae's channel back in 2017 she was with Sonii! I had no idea their relationship was that bad! I did find out later that he was an anti-vaxxer and just a person that she didn't need to be with. Love or so called "love" makes you do wild stuff sometimes!! I remember the Fortnite duos they played together and it usually was a struggle but it made for some funny content at the time. I am glad she has moved way beyond that relationship!

[@itscrossfaded]

nothing wrong with being anti-vaxx

[@ZippoMan18]

@@itscrossfaded surely!

[@Brandonv2518]

@@ZippoMan18what sucks is hearing a side of the story and going with the worst. I agree, toxic relationship forsure, Anti-vaxxer doesnt really describe it. He's stated having auto-immune issues as being one of the main reasons he did not get vaccinated. It is recommended for ppl who have certain types of issues to not expose themselves to it Again, the main point is that this happened so long ago at this point and we've all only heard one side of the story. not taking anything away from Rae, I 1000% agree with leaving toxicity

[@ZippoMan18]

@@Brandonv2518 yeah true we never hear his side. It would be nice to hear his thoughts.

[@moses095]

@@Brandonv2518nah hes been spilling it since she lived with otv. And hes continuingly doing it now from tweets to insta pic titles to stories on insta. And more recently it was posted but deleted of him sharing to his community their sex life and whose shes slept with

[@LavenderBreeze47]

I'm so glad she's out of the relationship. She deserves someone who will love her, respect, and support her. She seems much happier now ❤

[@ddeewwyy_]

One of those instances where its easier said than done. Glad Rae got out of that toxic relationship.

[@zoedenae]

Oh this makes me so sad 😢 No one deserves that kind of treatment by someone they love.

[@eresfunny]

to the hate comments, shut up , and let people talk

[@joshuaaudu1096]

Who ever runs this channel, you’re doing a great job Keep it up

[@dyvonmilleriii9079]

This

[@angiem7936]

I didn’t know who he was until I googled him right now. And when i saw his hair i screamed

[@mayahart1045]

who is it???

[@angiem7936]

@@mayahart1045 Sonii

[@hazelinterlude]

@@mayahart1045sonii

[@euphoric5998]

@@mayahart1045Look up Valkyrae & Micheal // Sonii, that’s her ex… he was a decent sized content creator, but he was nowhere near Rae’s caliber, hence the jealousy stuff she hints at throughout the video.

[@jet-fury]

Valkyrae pod yay. Everyone getting one

[@xgu4642]

The squeaky intro perked up all my dogs lmao

[@malibooo]

I actually think if she wrote a book about her life it would hit the best seller list

[@linadams1965]

What’s sad is he hasn’t grown at all with his career. Still living with his parents. Jealousy is truly a disease. If he wasn’t jealous I’m sure Rae could’ve helped him grow. But dude is so full of himself.

[@Ba-Lak-Ee]

Some relationships will bring out the worst of both partners. People want very different things sometimes and if there is no middle ground it can get nasty. It doesn't mean either side is a BAD person. They're just not compatible.

[@panana127]

15:39 to any woman (or man) who needs to hear this

[@BrittanyChoate-us7jj]

I love this video I love seeing the growth it’s really true you never stop growing ❤ I love to see someone grow into a strong person that only needs the love of there self to know that there ok…so proud of you!

[@yasyfizeyd5988]

Her ex's having a very baaaaad commitment problem and i feel bad for Rae cause she deserved someone who will stay commited to her

[@desteny1393]

Wow anti vaxxer that wanted her to cook every night that was also jealous of her succès 😭 why was she with him

[@DioceseofKalookan-kt4nq]

Love is blind and stupid 😂

[@ChopStixLoL]

He happened to be very physically attractive to figure

[@bradgarrett7159]

Seems like you have never been in love with someone...

[@milescollins1764]

@@ChopStixLoL I was going to say, "Well have you seen the guy?"

[@desteny1393]

@@milescollins1764 he was not even that attractive 💀

Imagine requiring your SO to cook EVERY NIGHT when they have a demanding career. Especially if they DON’T WANT TO COOK. Like... Get a LIFE dude. Learn to cook yourself if you want a fresh meal every night. And I realize that DEFINITELY wasn't the most egregious thing he did. Glad she's away from that toxic cesspool of a human.

[@mariamj817]

her saying she prioritizes work makes sense why shes with hasan now. they're very similar in that aspect. I wish nothing but the best for them

[@SelsabilHafidi]

Hein?? They're dating?

[@Armiel]

​@@SelsabilHafidi speculated, but it's hella obvious atp

[@chou5056]

They are not dating. Nothing is confirmed

[@AA01532]

@@SelsabilHafidithey’re not dating, people who don’t go outside who are extremely parasocial keep talking about that bs.

[@maddiejung974]

@@AA01532 Ur delusional, they've been dating for years lmao. She literally just vacationed with his family.

[@beemax2014]

cooking every night as a GIRL FRIEND is insane lol

[@LovelyBeachCoast-us1ec]

it’s not though smh 🤦

[@Mrbluefire95]

Dating in your own career field can lead to issues like this. If you can find a partner who does something different than you, then do it.

[@Forthewin-sv4qd]

Mom I'm famous! (I'm the one who posted the background battle post 😅)

[@natalieloves13]

13:13 "I can fix him, no really, I can" - Taylor Swift

[@moonpriestess2274]

Rae wisdom 👏💜🌙👌 I agree.

[@dyvonmilleriii9079]

Miss the among us era, can’t believe it’s been 4 years

[@Ohkayy_yy]

8:44 was the best, most aesthetic and cozy She should at least get a fake room version of that room designed like ludwig and qt does with their set ups

[@tweetyericsson]

Ah yes, the ball tanning enthusiast.

[@DreadfulEmo]

Is the aforementioned podcast out yet?

[@marineromoney5294]

when he tweeted about not being anti-vax in 2021 and rae replied w "im sorry :c" only for her now to say that he was LOL hope shes doing much better

[@y0kiddyz1]

Jealousy of the significant other is wildddddd

[@ganjelaaa5312]

What podcast is she referring to?

[@spitfirelast8761]

Always remember folks, there's always a different story from both sides. ☺ ☺

[@uso_Jus2SmooTh94]

I thought Michael would of been that guy that was more of an understanding person for Rae. He seemed cool when i met him. I've watched Rae even right before they hooked up in i believe beginning of 2016 or late 2015. I might be wrong can't remember exactly. But I've watched her lifes ups and downs, trials evolving into the woman you see today. It was like witnessing a real life reality show sort of speak 😄 She's so strong and I'll forever be a supporter of her. Even if i disappear from the internet or this world ppl like her ill always have their back. Rae is a real one for sure.

[@sunachill]

I remember he would always comment provocative comments on her twitter pics tryna get back 😂

[@bballsniper]

whats the name of the podcast she keeps referencing

[@_Nicolatte]

her future podcast. Not officially out yet but she'll announce when it will be.

[@TyeCozMusic]

I remember watching Rae bea the Dark Souls games to maybe 200-300 viewers. Time really flies.

[@Mansters]

is she talking about sonny

[@aneekbhadra]

Yes

[@violetmoon141]

bro FUMBLED

[@bradgarrett7159]

He didn't fumble - She just isn't the right person for him.

[@shinigamishinji6430]

@@bradgarrett7159 he fumbled hard. she was simping for him. all he had to do was not be a pos.

[@bradgarrett7159]

@@shinigamishinji6430 He wants someone who will cook every night... That's not Rae. And, like she said, he had standards that she didn't fall into but another girl will. It's not fumbling when you two just aren't meant to be together - the worst thing you can do is change yourself to fit the mold someone wants you to fit. The older you get, the more you understand that.

[@belleslovinit]

He wants a mommy​@@bradgarrett7159

[@GoldBlackLotus]

​@bradgarrett7159 then why does he still subtweet her

[@kingcrohn9839]

Imagine being with her before her career blew up and then not supporting her career pathetic

[@Nico-lx6tg]

who is she doing a podcast with?

[@notreally5255]

The usual story when the woman is more successful than her partner and then they lose their minds. It's so pathetic

[@wetwater788]

What podcast

[@Leafgreen2]

Damn those plants probs needed some sunlight cooped up in the corner there 😂

[@maxatoni]

Cheating on her is actually crazy on a number of levels

[@Makberries]

Wait she mentioned a podcast, what is she talking about? Does she have her own podcast?

[@cine-nw8tb]

she will have later this year with a co host

[@user-zh8dr1qt1s]

She has a podcast?

[@cyliemyrus]

She talking about Sonny?

[@casual9435]

After every AND BEFORE THAT my anxiety 📈

[@cro4891]

Do we know who is the guy? I don't know much about the lore

[@waveybreeze7814]

Pretty sure she’s talking abt Sonii judging by the timeframe of who she was seeing before and during covid

[@LockeyThirteenYuuYA]

Son!!. On & off relationship + antivaxxer + made other people get covid not just Rae.

[@LockeyThirteenYuuYA]

Son!!. Ex on and off relationship + antivaxxer + made other people get covid etc.

[@cro4891]

@waveybreeze7814 sonii?! Fr! Since I knew Rae in the back of my mind that they broke up and its done.

[@Armiel]

Yeah considering she says it was for the past 5 years seems like it was him

[@MK_2023.]

Lets be honest, Sonii’s ego is so big he doesn’t make an effort to think about anyone but himself. The man is toxic as shit. I’ve been watching Rachell from the very early GameStop days when she took care of little Ollie, the chunky cat 😅 What a journey.

[@Mattex456]

She doesn't want you lil bro

[@MK_2023.]

@@Mattex456 dude, she doesn't know any of us exist, including you haha! Just be happy.

[@GoldMineYT]

Damn I think that was the SonyDigital era?

[@NoSkilLzZ24]

I think the reason she gave him way to many chances is because she on a couple times has said she like the "bad boys" so hopefully she has learned that its not worth dating people like that because its a huge mental pain.

[@steff162]

As someone who's also been with the same situation as you are before. Your ex is just a toxic shit person in general and i don't think its just because he's young or both of you are.

[@ralphcarino5672]

is this sonii

[@aneekbhadra]

IS she talking about SONII?

[@marymouabeauty1307]

Omg I remember this

[@whimsicalhana]

i guess qt for the pod

[@donnovynxiong4737]

Imagine fumbling Rae, mf def crying to this day 😊

[@arago90]

i am like 95% sure the podcast is absolutely not happening lol, she always drops things in the middle

[@Lana.a_]

it’s 99% happening she’ll just repeat herself lol

[@run8196]

She said she paid for the studio already, kinda hard to back out at that point

[@ZxChrono]

Whoever your ex is really fumbled hardcore. I can’t imagine breaking up 5 times with anyone, once is bad enough. If he really loved you he could have made it work out, be more supportive of your success and not jealous of it.

[@DigitalMicks]

What podcast she's talking about? And who is that ex?

[@trek7985]

18:59 But those wants or needs can be address by your spouse when we care this wants and needs in the marriage ,overtime that’s what we called growth

[@geolex4560]

glad she had it in her to prioritize her career overall though. so many ambitious women end up getting f'ed over by men who want house wives and end up in a worse position

[@lilla7386]

She’s talking about her ex sonny

[@WhiteStain87]

Talking about her ex for no reason

[@catr1226]

He fumbled so hard. That’s a pity

[@chou5056]

What did sonii do to her???

[@tomarmstrong9367]

It’s wild because Sonii is actually a likeable streamer and good vibes but he only plays WoW so he’d never get that large amount of success. They truly just didn’t match. If he was expecting an ambitious girl in Rae to be a stay at home gf for him it never would work. The antivaxx thing is very fair because that creates so many conflicts in any future medical or kid convos. I hope they don’t harbour ill feeling they are good hearted people, their needs and paths just weren’t aligned.

[@yuginub]

Crazy how he put people health at risk. I remember when he allegedly got people sick including lily.

[@mtownz6215]

5 years off and on . She must love pain.

[@Farfetch_]

No cap on a stack

[@chittardhar8861]

i m ready to cook every time, if my girl is that successful and good

[@angelodacosta7655]

Fuckin Sonii XD Imagine a roided up gym guy who also was a Wow pvp-er being anti-vaxxer and breaking up with a girl who is about to go and take care of her dad with cancer. Who would have thunk it.

[@caitreenerz]

Imagine fumbling valkyrae

[@raisanbu6865]

How you fumble rae 😭😭

[@twitch_tv_pat]

maybe shes talking about some one else , i'm guessing she's talking about Soni D ?

[@nowayVII]

[@natalieloves13]

I am GLAD your ex is gone