Why we DISAPPEARED from social media and what's going on with Vanlife Sagas NOW?

[@JeccaSee]

Dom - it is so very good to see your smile again. Life has ups and downs and, I feel, it is we who owe you the apology. I am sorry if your relationship with us made things harder to figure out those ups and downs between you and Marie. I had a monster grin when you said you are all safe and healthy, am so very proud of Marie for working through her PhD, and got teary eyes knowing you were letting us in to the most private part of your lives. I am also proud of you for taking care of yourself and stepping away when it was necessary. It is exciting to see what you have in store for us...and somehow, you really did make me feel like I was in the room with you. Well done. 💙

[@fishroro9719]

Could you explain to me why I owe an apology? Or who is we? And why would anyone owe an apology? I don‘t really understand.

[@JeccaSee]

@@fishroro9719 thank you for bringing my attention back to my comment. I originally typed from my heart trying to quickly convey my thoughts without going on for too long. Something I had hoped was obvious is that this is the internet and I don't ~ actually ~ speak for everyone when saying "we"... however I made an assumption I was not the only one with the thoughts of pity for those who have chosen to share their lives through KZbin and thousands of strangers. Fish Roro, I don't know you or your internet presence, so I will not assume, but ask - have you ever been in an intimate relationship that is having troubles and have to ask yourselves "but what will our viewers think?" It is that question, which had to have gone through both Dom and Marie's mind at least once is why I apologized. Do I think I did any personal harm to either of them, no. But by choosing to step away from social media Dom and Marie didn't personally harm any of us either...so they don't owe us an apology. That message was already being conveyed to Dom through other comments so I didn't feel the need to repeat it. In the same vein - in the sense if expediency I also used the word "proud" incorrectly. Pride in someone indicates a sense of ownership in their accomplishments. I was not personally responsible for Marie's amazing work on her doctorate program, nor on Dom's choice to protect his mental health and step away from social media. The word I should have used in my original post is "impressed" since I am sincerely impressed with both Dom and Marie for being the amazingly healthy and strong humans they are, in both body and spirit. Thank you for asking a sincere question and giving me an opportunity to better express my thoughts.

[@manondeslauriers2645]

@@JeccaSee Cannot agree more. Very well said. I attempted a similar message in French, just posted. I feel I need to fix it now. Your choice of words is excellent and I feel that 'we' is appropriate.

[@susanbrown5878]

@@JeccaSee you shouldn't have had to explain yourself. Your words were heartfelt and kind and beautiful. I really felt for Dom having to share the uncomfortable message himself.

[@leroysmith8203]

@@susanbrown5878 🤓👍🏼

[@NinaThoren]

No apology needed, you don't owe us anything, you are people too and life happens :) Have really missed you though

[@LaurBeth]

I can’t imagine how hard it is to share so personally with the world. We’ve missed you, we love you, and wish you both nothing but the absolute best. Thank you for being you.

[@vickiesweitzer8625]

Awh Dom, what a difficult, heartfelt video. KZbin is such a strange form of entertainment where creators are so exposed, sharing so much of themselves. It is so difficult to go through the life chapters you and Marie went through, and are going through, and to have the world watching has to be so much added pressure. Please continue to be kind to yourself and return on your own terms in your own time. Be well. Be happy.

[@manondeslauriers2645]

Well put Vickie

[@Vanwives]

What a very brave and genuine message. Much love to the both of you 💛

[@ruthanderson1758]

This is sad to hear that things haven't worked out with you and Marie - I could hear the emotion in your voice and see it on your face. This video shows the type of man you are when you are able to bare your soul in such a public way. I wish you both all the best moving forward. 💔💔💔

[@patriciacarter4227]

Huge hugs to you both. The tears in your eyes when you spoke of Marie and the respect and love you have for her speaks highly of your character. Will watch wherever your future takes you!

[@hilaryscott2642]

We love you as people. No apologies ever necessary. 💕💕

[@legojenn]

I've seen your van around town and figured that you'd post when you had something to say. Self-care matters and it's best done without an audience. Take care of yourselves.

[@LorigamiVan]

Big heartfelt mama bear hug coming your way.

[@terris7842]

You don’t owe us anything. We just tag along for the ride. Life gets in the way sometimes and social media is all a bit overwhelming and fake. Thank you for being real. Wish you both happiness and success.

[@bikewithkim]

We love you Dom!

[@vanlifesagas]

Love you too! :) Will do my best to make it fun!

[@travelwithtmc]

Dom & Marie, I've got nothing but respect for you both. I can't imagine sharing that much of myself online and all that comes with it. You're both awesome (from what I can tell in your videos and our brief chats) and wish you two nothing but the best in everything you do. Keep taking care of yourselves as you see best. You don't owe us anything. Health is the most important thing in life - in every sense of the word. Sending love and support your way as you move through these tough times.

[@allisonsherman7231]

Love you guys. You can only do what feels natural. Whatever the path, all of the very best ❤️❤️🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@vantastic_explorers1285]

Can see you are struggling. Sending all the love and good wishes your way. Can't wait to see the next chapter ❤️

[@kellypoulos8702]

Thank you for honest transparency, I can only imagine how difficult that is when you’re under a bit of a microscope….. Much luck to you in your new adventure and the next season of life!

[@djpWilson]

Glad to see you back! I will miss Marie, but I think we all understand - and at the end of the day, you need to live your own life. :)

[@vanlifesagas]

Thanks! We will all miss Marie, quite honestly!

[@lesliemyrick4755]

Seeing you was that favorite human moment when you see an old friend and take the time to catch up. You know, those friends we have that with them time means nothing. Thanks Dom, so good to see you again!

[@crynolyn]

Was just wondering about you earlier today. You don't owe anyone an apology, life happens. Thank you for the update, hugs

[@hal1971]

Thank you Dom for the update and Yellowspeed to you ;)

[@vanlifesagas]

Let’s make some t-shirts with Yellowspeed.

[@lizdwyer2737]

Forgot to add… Definition “Saga: a long, involved story, account, or series of incidents.” Yours continues. ❤️

[@kathyakadragonflysmiles301]

As I listen my message to you is we care about you. We enjoy getting glimpses into your fun and adventures. Take time when ever you need it. My overall comment is Respect. I respect you for how you explained your absence. It was honest and real. Be kind to yourself.

[@hilaryscott2642]

We missed you!

[@gibletthevan1694]

You never need to apologise to us Dom. sending you both hugs and look forward to seeing you again soon x

[@merenwen75]

No apologies needed Dom. Can''t wait to see your next step. Much love!

[@SandVan]

Hello from Australia 🇦🇺😀welcome back to KZbin mate🤩🚐looking forward to seeing all that rock and roll and silliness and French lessons back again😀👏👏👏👏

[@MooreDoing]

Unnecessary apology accepted. I’ve missed you both. Very sorry that chapter is closed. I truly enjoyed watching two people having fun and most often being an apparent match. No matter the channel subject or format, I’m here to share in real experiences and observe people exploring their passion. Just be you and do nothing more. Goofy Dom, sad Dom, singing Dom, Vandom (see what I did there?)… give me Dom

[@vanlifesagas]

Vandom. Hahaha. Will take this wise advice. Thanks for being there!!!

[@BookItTravel]

KZbin is a wild beast. Starting any business as a couple is hard. Sharing your story as a couple with the world is next level. No apology or explanation needed. Appreciate the openness!

[@marychoppins8140]

While I appreciate the apology and transparency, it’s not needed Dom. Taking time away from the camera to focus on yourself or new endeavors is always a good thing. It’s lovely to see your face again, but do what feels good for you. Your KZbin family will still be here. ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@suepersinger7247]

Dom, I’m so sorry things didn’t work out. I can see how difficult this video was for you to put this out. I hope you can heal from this. It was nice to see your and your smile. I can’t wait to see what content you put out. Keep smiling and moving forward.

[@ChrisW228]

Above all, I would hope that viewers realize that you are real people, with real lives, real challenges, real issues. You aren’t actors paid to put out a sit-com weekly. It’s a weird phenomena that allows people to feel like friends with people we’ve never met, but that’s where I am with you (and Marie). As with any friends, I only want what’s best for both of you… and I’m not going anywhere. :)

[@Infrawgnito]

Hang in there, Dom! Looking forward to following you in your new journey. As with all friends, no apologies needed. We are here for you!

[@jenniferhawkins4289]

1) so glad you’re both okay!!! 2) thank you for openly sharing your life with people who don’t share their lives with you in the same way. Thank you for honoring the “relationship” that exists through the screen. 3) it’s so nice to see y’all tackling life’s inevitable changes in a healthy way. Processing, adjusting, and moving forward. Looking forward to seeing where you each go from here, whatever of your lives you’re willing to share! 💛

[@mariannereno8501]

Be happy, live your life. No worries Dom! Moving forward... Yay! Don't go away... 🌈💖 See you next week!

[@thealee3157]

Anything you do we will love and laugh. Please keep up making our days so much better.

[@billmilner9772]

Good to see you again. Friends stand by friends - we are all still here. Bon courage a vous deux.

[@vanlifesagas]

Merci!

[@adelebrydges6318]

Sharing your life with thousands of people is not easy task, especially duting times of transition and it's a brave thing to speak so candidly too. Kudos for showing up. All the best to you and Marie for you next chapters.

[@thisisthewaybus]

Dom my friend can I just say something about what you said about people letting you know what they think of your new videos and if they don't like it then you would figure out what else you can do. Do it for YOU. The thing with any kind of art whether it's visual, digital, writing etc, it's YOUR representation of the things YOU like to see. It's subjective. I worked for over 30 years in an industry where I had to be a people pleaser and honestly it's not worth it. I'm almost 50 and only just figuring that out. Don't be like me 🤦‍♀️

[@tracymac1111]

Could not agree more. 👏🏻👏🏻

[@isabelmendi3973]

You have been missed, it’s nice to see your doing well, no apologies, breakups are tough. Looking forward to see, what you do next. Wish the best for Marie . Your parents are so much fun, good your staying close to home.

[@Kitty-id9dd]

Dom, huge respect to you, Marie as well. Big hugs💜💜💜

[@RA-tj8lv]

LIFE HAPPENS and you deserve your space and privacy! That's all. Good to see you 🙂 😊

[@MrsShopieR]

Parfois il est facile d’idéaliser la vie des gens qu’on suit sur les réseaux, car il est normal de ne montrer que les bons côtés des choses; les beaux paysages, les belles rencontres, les bons côtés de l’aventure. Même si on est conscient qu’il y a un autre revers à la médaille c’est parfois facile de l’oublier. Ton vidéo était parfait, tout dans la simplicité sans artifices, tu nous apparaît sincère et surtout humain. Après plusieurs années à suivre la chaîne, je me sentais presque votre amie (même si vous ne me connaissez pas lol) et oui ton vidéo m’a fait l’effet de prendre des nouvelles de mes amis. Tellement que j’aurais eu le goût de te faire un gros câlin à la fin. Peut importe la suite je serai à l’écoute pour les moments drôles tout comme les moments plus triste et empreint de sincérité. Après tout, c’est ça une amie 😉

[@vanlifesagas]

Haha, oui, on se sent comme ça aussi quand on lit les commentaires à chaque semaine. Et puis parfois, on finit par se rencontrer et c'est toujours super agréable et naturel. On trouvera le temps de se croiser un moment donné. Ça va être le fun.

[@ColleenMooreCO]

Dom! Life is hard. Relationships are hard. Living on a stage is hard. Having your life and relationship on a stage is nearly impossible for most people. I am so sad that you are hurting. I hope that time will help you both heal and move on. I love so much of the look and feel of your videos and so much of that is YOU and your creativity. An energetic personality is attractive and magnetic but it isn't the only thing. I can't wait to see you next videos. I hope you find joy and happiness on the journey.

[@DarrenDizz]

Things happen. It’s ok. Glad to see you and hear your moving foreword.

[@taylorgreenfield7463]

Dom ❤️ there are no words. C’est parfait. Merci. Hugs for your continued healing…you are a gem. Please remember that.

[@vanlifesagas]

I will take your hug with a smile on my face! Thank you for your nice comment.

[@debbydhill]

Missed you! Be well, gratitude for what you gave us and looking forward to what may come.

[@LRC5555]

Totally still watching, Dom!!! Hugs!!!! Eyes forward, friend!

[@katechip7256]

What a difficult video to make Dom. thank you for being so open and honest. Take care of you xxx

[@catherineletendre55]

Bonjour Dom; c'est vrai qu'une disparition si soudaine soulevait des questions et merci de nous revenir. L'adaptabilité est une grande force qui prend son temps. Bonne suite!

[@LifeontheBlacktop]

Glad to see you're back! Heather and I were just talking about you guys last week and wondering where you went. Do your thing Dom, we'll watch it!

[@Terraducky]

Hi Dom. This looked very difficult for you to film. Sharing your story was brave! I , probably like all your viewers, love you both and only wish you the best in moving forward. Whatever you post in the future I will be sure to watch. Hoping you both are living your best lives, whether you are onscreen or off. PS: I loved seeing that big smile of yours! Thanks for the update!

[@timvannoord396]

Keep pushing on...I think it's very wise that you're starting the next chapter in your backyard, rather than embarking on some huge cross-country road trip. We often overlook so much of the delights that surround us everyday...starting with an exploration of "home" is a way of seeing what we tend to overlook because have grown accustomed to it.

[@vanlifesagas]

Exacatly. And my backyard isn’t a boring one. You’ll see!

[@angiewylie1141]

Hi Dom, I've missed you and your funny French lessons! As I was browsing KZbin, I took a chance that you had begun posting again and my face lit up when I saw you had. Glad to hear that both of you are in good health. We all experience ups and downs in our lives and sometimes we have to retreat to a safe place to make ourselves whole again. Those that love you will always be there to welcome you back with open arms and encourage you in all your endeavors. Looking forward to your next adventure.

[@vanlifesagas]

Thank you for being there still! I’m glad I could put a smile on your face! Can’t wait to share more with you!

[@susanbowen3536]

Glad to hear from you. Hugs to you and Marie both! Just be yourself, do not feel like you have to be "on" all the time. Love to see more of your home area and Canada in general. And can't wait for the French lessons.

[@indiarobinson8751]

Life and relationships are our biggest challenges. Your relationship with us is solid as long as you continue to care, which is the best part of you ~ your heart. Bless you and take care today and always. 🙏

[@rrichards1694]

Yeay Dom! Great to see you. We’ve missed you. Thank you for returning and we look forward to seeing more of you in the future 🙌😘

[@lizdwyer2737]

It’s gonna’ be OK. We’re here when you’re ready Dom!

[@itsshannoncouchman]

Life is tough- take it as it is! We appreciate everything you both have shared on all platforms in the past, and whatever comes in the future! Good to see you again! Xx- Shann

[@Yogijoflow]

Thank you for the apologies, it’s appreciated. I like it when you’re more serious like today, i like this mixte of fun and serious tone. Wish you the best for both of you. Life is life, impermanent and I’m very happy to see you back!

[@vanlifesagas]

I’ll try to keep a good balance with the fun and the seriousness! It’s a good idea.

[@sharonabel7221]

So glad to see you on here again. And while no apology was ever required, your honesty is much much appreciated and greatly admired. I feel like I did when Sonny and Cher or The Civil Wars ended their relationships but want to say that you already have a permanent place in the heart and your KZbin followers are all likely wishing you the best as I am. And what a great idea to explore your area of Quebec…..that will be amazing to follow and I’m looking forward to following and learning from a fellow traveller. Xo hugs

[@vanlifesagas]

Thanks Sharon! I felt it was the least I could do to share this with you. And I'm pretty sure you'll like Quebec, at least my part of Quebec. Let me know if you like it next Sunday.

[@gwennbaldwin5901]

I’m glad you both are healthy, and although I missed the videos, we were never owed them or your relationship. Please enjoy your next chapters and cherish the love and laughter you both deserve.

[@maryprimeau4032]

Glad you let us know that you and the family are OK. Looking forward to next week!

[@racheljoyordillo5145]

We will still support both of you for whatever makes you at peace and happy! Hugs! 🤗

[@emmamendez6230]

Good to see you back Dom. Thank you for your candid explanation, looking forward to what you bring to the channel in the future.

[@jenns366]

Glad to see your face. And very glad you both are ok. That’s what is most important. ♥️🙏

[@rachelcdebaca7398]

Looking forward to experiencing the unique adventures of Dom!

[@bleedinginspiration]

you dont owe any of us anything. sending you both so much love

[@DavidMSA]

Hi Dom, thank you for being back on the (social media) track!

[@rhodagambler5611]

Big love to you and Marie. Love that you're back. We missed you!

[@agnesf2659]

Dom, we love Marie and don't forget we love you very much!

[@TheCathyrogers]

Thanks for coming back! Missed you. I know your future shows will be great.

[@healthpowerbites9618]

Hey Dom - whatever you do next we are right behind you! You are not alone brother - Keep going ❤

[@jwjustinwatkins]

Thanks for sharing, Dom. We all love you and we'll see you next week 😎 Great to see you smile through this change.

[@DenKennyGut]

Oh boy, I wasn't expecting anything like that, even though some small little sounds in between the lines were giving a hint sth might not be fitting a 100 percent. Dom and Marie, you both gave so much to us, thank you!!! And for sure your van videos were the best I've ever seen, what a vantertainment on highest level! Will get my vanlife saga sweater out of the wardrobe and wear it today in honour... See you soon on the channel Dom and keep a stiff upper lip

[@vanlifesagas]

That’s so nice of you!!! I’ll be sending prayers your way! Haha! :)

[@deroamingjamaidian2843]

Sorry to hear about Marie, the tone in your video was very different and totally understandable. Glad you are back and thanks for explaining the hiatus. Looking forward to your future videos and French lessons.

[@ml-dz9ww]

Happy to hear you are healthy and/or healing. Here for the content of you doubling down on French lessons and teaching us about your slice of Canada. Cheers to you and your family (which is code for your mom and dad are video gold)!

[@gypsybelle4757]

Wishing you the best, peace and healing going forward. You don’t owe us anything. I am happy to hear no one had passed away. As a nurse, I often worry for those kinds of things.

[@melindamarie6139]

I was so worried...I don't do IG so I never know anything. Don't feel bad life happens. I'm so sorry, I can tell this was hard for you. Looking forward to future vids n ur next chapter. God bless u n it'll get easier. I had to end a 16 year marriage n it was not easy but it's the best thing n I'm soooo much better now!!! Virtual hugs Dom...u got this! ✌🏼💙 Also....u r 100000% right about less time on the phone!!!!!! IMO social media etc has become like 80% of our current world problems!!! I have NO social media except KZbin n thank God!!!! We alllll need to put our phones away n get out in nature n converse w each other face to face!!! 🧡

[@robiny1823]

I'm sorry you're hurting 😔 and hope you will find joy as you learn to navigate this new phase of your life. Despite what some viewers might think, you don't actually owe us anything, so please don't feel like you need to apologize for taking care of yourself first. That said, it was truly good to see you again and to know that you're ok, and I actually enjoyed meeting "serious Dom." It's always fun to see "silly Dom," but I hope you'll feel comfortable sharing the more thoughtful, serious side of yourself with us once in a while as well. And I'd love to see some of the less-known areas you mentioned, such as Pontiac. Be well and take care.

[@vanlifesagas]

Thanks for the comment on the serious Dom. We will need it for the upcoming adventures anyways! It’s a good occasion to practise being a better communicator I believe! :)

[@robiny1823]

@@vanlifesagas I think "serious Dom" is an articulate man who has interesting things to say. I look forward to hearing your thoughts as you share your upcoming adventures.

[@Cre8tivediva]

Life happens. As others have said we love you both. And no matter the content or whoever is here, we are here too. Thank you for jumping on. I have the 🔔 on when you're ready.

[@truthlovenow]

Your raw honesty feels very genuine and it is endearing. Well done.

[@tbuss6944]

Welcome back. As a person who has encountered a series of massive transitions as well the last few months...big hugs to both of you. Good to have the channel back and looking forward to the music and laughs.

[@heikeschimanski7624]

Great to have you back, Dom! I think there's not enough Lego in your background, though ... 😁🤘🤘🤘

[@FERRYKANA]

Truth is what missing in social media. Thanks for being one..

[@roxanneide4987]

You owe no one an apology Dom. I often wondered how you guys were doing but knew you would need some time away to adjust your new way of living. Take all the time you need! We will be waiting for you when you are ready. You do whatever will make you happy. We'll watch anything you you want to post. Good to see your face my friend. 💙

[@vanlifesagas]

Thanks Roxann. I think it’s essential we do not take this job too seriously. You guys keep reminding me of this!

[@reneehowdy7673]

It’s nice that you took some time away from social media while going through a big life change. We’ll all be here when you’re ready to return. Much love to you, Marie and your families.

[@li-nickels]

It's cool, this side of you is good too, don't always have to be funny or crazy, just be yourself.

[@LilyWasHereMB]

Gave the video a thumbs up not because I like hearing what you had to say, but because I know how hard it was for you to say it. It was a Vanlife Saga, and the old folks wished them well You could see that Dom did truly love the mademoiselle And now the young monsieur and madame have said Au Revoir to the KZbin bell, "C'est la vie", say the old folks, it goes to show you never can tell

[@marilynwhaley1913]

We are all here for you.. and looking forward with you.. and when your smile and eyes are happy again ... see you next time!💕

[@annehammett7802]

Life happens. I have missed seeing you, but look forward to the next chapter.

[@Yannispawn]

I’ve never met serious, somber Dom before but I like him as well. 😁 All the best. Glad to see you back.

[@robertgiancola]

Glad to hear the channel will continue! Sorry to hear things didn't work out!

[@TjaVanBuuren]

Aww buddy, that was raw 💚 Everything will be ok, nothing in this life is meant to be permanent - the Saga continues 💚

[@bcuzhugs]

positive energy and health and happiness for you and Marie

[@colleenbalch328]

HI DOM!!! Very good to see you. No apologies needed, just really good to know you're ok. Sad to know that you're not in touch with each other only because you are both great people. Sending you a lot of love, Dom. Change is hard and loss is hard. You will come through this and joy will be your everyday companion again, even when Marie isn't. Looking forward to learning about your part of Quebec and finding out what the journey will be.

[@JM-me1vh]

Dom anyone whom speaks so kindly is assured happiness and you will find a future of joy. We’re cheering you on. I often play your Spotify music channel just for fun and it brings smiles to my family and friends.

[@alreynolds3510]

Thank you, Thank you for your update. Difficult message for you and us who have so enjoyed your channel. At 72 years of life experience, there will be many twists and turns in your life. Was thinking of you last week when preparing dinner for our Independence Day celebration in the US. Made your "Pasta Pesto" recipe dish as part of our cook out. It was great!! Will continue to follow you. Thank you for all your hard work in creating your contact. Great to hear from you.

[@aleciaking1688]

Hey man, everyone deserves a break now and then. Glad to hear alls well. No one died! See ya soon

[@vanlifesagas]

Thanks Alecia!

[@cloudrabbit3181]

No apologies needed Dom! I missed your videos, always looking forward to what you're up to even with solo van life --- looking forward to the rock and roll too! Hope you're doing well!

[@lauriehinchey4340]

Lovely to see you again Dom, I look forward to watching what you and your friend’s get up to in the coming weeks!😊