Vauv Kaus Niam Tais Ti Txha Nkaus 2/07/23

[@PM-oe5mk]

When you realize that someone, whether it's family or friend, is using you and you don't put a stop to it, then you have no one to blame but yourself! You can be a good person without being a doormat! Unfortunately, too many good people allow themselves to be others' doormats (and bank accounts like in this story)! I only have two sons but both (still only 15 & 11 as of this writing) are told they must grow up to EARN their own money and not depend on us because we will NOT be their bank accounts! If we give them any money, it's because we CHOOSE to give it as a gift. If they ever need a loan, that's what a bank is for! If you don't teach your children to be responsible for themselves, they will always rely on you for everything!

[@kayang3898]

Nay... Txiv neej mus ua nyab los yeej ib yam thiab tiag.

[@yangthao5242]

Let's not be so hard on this grandmother. She has lived a hard life. Not able to have kids is very hard, but to have and only to lose them is even harder. And of course, surviving the war through fear, famine, and destitute is beyond any of our imagination (for those that had never really seen war). The core issue here is that respect, love, and care was missing or misunderstood. (It is this case in most immigrant and first generation Hmong families.) The young needs to see the old, and the old needs accept new changes from the young. It is just the natural dynamics of changing times. When desire is let loose without balance, things will go astray and decency forgotten. Give time to thoughts and never lose sight of what is good in you life.

[@ginamoua9989]

Ntxhais los ruam Niam los ruam….🤦🏻‍♀️

[@hliyang5676]

Agree

[@colleenchan9872]

Oh pab neb khuv xim neb cov nyiaj kawg os! Tau cov vauv dag noj dag haus li ko mas yeej ntxim ntxhub kawg os!

[@ntujtshiab1826]

Wow, cas yuav txaus tusiab ua luaj li os tus me niam tais aw😢😢😢

[@hlixyooj8179]

Just because you have a savings doesn’t mean you’re a bank. That money you spent many years collecting. Do not give it away to anyone, including your loved ones. The bank is there for that. If they don’t qualify, then whatever shit they want to do should not be done. If they can’t even put down payment on a house, who’s to say they will be able to keep up with the mortgage?

[@baoyang6462]

Wow kev npam raug rau vauv lawm tiag xav noj luag tug ces yeej kawg tau kev npam xwb MAs .

[@vickyvang80]

There's always the word no means no

[@kalayawang4171]

Blame on your daughter not being strong enough to protect you, you grandma don’t worry one day ALL KARMA will catch him ALL. Just keep praying HARD for him!!!!

[@suzannechang6704]

Tuan fab kis teb tuaj mloog koj tham neej neeg dab neeg lawm os Jenny aw !!!

[@ljvue]

Auntie was taken advantage of. What a sleaze ball.

[@whatheck6797]

Your vauv know your weak spot. It’s you that haven’t figured that out yet.

[@philadelphialor732]

The guilty will not go unpunished.

[@CloverStarz]

I would love to have a kind mother in law. You owe him nothing he supposed to ask his own parents for borrowing money, not from you. He is nothing but a stranger, if one day he leaves your daughter he becomes nothing to you, an ungrateful bastard!

[@lunayang7612]

Ca ni. Ntshaw2 kev hlub e yuav kev rhuav li ko os, hlub2 nej cov lau

[@mayslee2011]

Jenny, it was nice to meet you in LA Crosse. My aunt will be forever missed.

[@jennyvang2021]

Yes…so nice meeting you too. Thanks ❤

[@ntsaisliasvaj2053]

When tasting food is true you need to use a separate spoon for sure

[@maytuekue9997]

Tim kj thiab kj tu ntxhaig ruag daug kj tu ntxhaig ua g niam nw g ti thaiv kj kj lo muaj nyiaj xob qhiag vau ruam daug thiaj mag vau kau li kau Dib

[@xaiher9236]

ua koj tsaug lau niam tai aw ca yuav hai tau ntshav siab ua luaj li lau 🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪

[@mosvaj1385]

Vuag! 30 ,000. That’s a lot of money to me.

[@PH-ThailanD]

npam loj heev tsw tau tuag sai2 yuav nyob txom nyem nruav😂😂😂

[@tvang8]

I can’t say I feel sorry for you because you really wanted a son and you got a son. Who’s to say a son will love you

[@maivang6987]

Tus me niam tais tsis txhob ruam2 es yuav hlub2 tus me vauv cia koj cov nyiaj nyob es thaum laus2 lawm es tsis yuav tub kis faus yus li os cia yus cov nyiaj mam faus yus xwb mog . es txhob hlub lawm os mog .es yus hlub yus tus kheej zoo dua mog .

[@tusneegzoohlub7724]

Vauv xyob txhiaj ces zoo li no ntag lau…..

[@tusiabmoua9169]

Zoo kawg, vim vauv siab phem2 thiaj tau txaus kev puam tsuaj!

[@missysmart8620]

Lesson learned. To anyone who’s spouse or love one passed away, don’t ever make any drastic decisions until a year or two. I see so many mistakes from people who made sudden changes like this vivncaus.

[@northshorelight35]

We need to start giving names. Jenny shouldn’t but the real author should come post the name.

[@ahthao1664]

Neb ob niam tub ces ruam ib yam xwb os.

[@BB01138]

Omg. Had to listen to this story in speed 1.5x ! Dont be so stupid, grandma/mom! Ruam thiab thiab. Feel sorry for the mom , but the daughter did not see any red flags!!

[@msjtworld8815]

So sad for grandma. But.... 1) Your son in law got bad heart 2) You spoil him too much the moment he married your daughter...always get what he wants 3) A recipe for disaster 4) Thank you for the lesson

[@isabellexiong227]

Neeg siab phem yeej yuav npham xwb

[@leechang1814]

What comes around goes around. It's easy to use (OPM) other people's money!

[@isabellexiong227]

Poj nqaib tsuam pas nqe os niam tais ntshua m yus vaut rog ces yog koj ntas

[@poggersrus1802]

That's why you can not trust anyone!!! You did it to yourself, sister for believing and trusting your sil by giving to him one after another. That is terrible. He did it to you so many times and yet you still gave it to him. He never loved your daughter. She should have divorced him long time again. So just forget about the money it is lost.

[@Doodoo578]

Gheesh..i hate these type of passive people...why do you care about him....gheesh...sick of these passive people..

[@charlielor9877]

Kev txais nyiaj. Them qhov qub mam txais qhov tshiab thiaj yog nawj niam tais, tus vauv ko siab phem lim hiam ntuj yeej yuav muab dam caj dab tuag mus ua qab ke luag xwb.

[@charlesher.9508]

Txhob tu siab os vauv yeej yuav npam xwb mas. Cas yuav muab nyiaj ntau2 rau koj tus vauv liam no os. Cov neeg phem2 no dag koj tus ua niam mas yuav npam kom tuag xwb.

[@itsmaichee]

Don’t worry, he sounds like he doesn’t know how to save money anyways so he’ll be broke in no time. I hope you and your daughter the best.

[@miabhlub63]

You got taken advantage of...vuav dag noj dag haus..yeej yuav npam.

[@buaher9912]

Ruam li koj tes Ka Liam mas koj tes yog npua xwb os

[@chiliayang5832]

Niam Tais hmoob cas yuav ruam ua luaj li nas 😮

[@diannaxiong693]

Tabsis koj tib tsi tau foom los tib npam lawm os yom...Yeej muaj ib tus tswv saib ntsoov peb txoj kev ua neej nyob hauv lub qab ntuj no nawb nws yeej muaj ib tus los ua rau yus xwb os.

[@lukemoua9027]

Kuv ntseeg tau tias nws raug npam lawm.....yuav tsis tau noj ntev nyob tsis pe tsawg xyoo ntxiv

[@nkaujneebthoj9657]

Kuv muaj ib tug txiv hluas coj tus xeeb ceem ko nkawd cov credit card coj mus charge txhua daim tiv tsheej tog nuj nqis , kuv cia li nyoo cov txiv neej uas tsis muaj hlwb li lawm thiab

[@MsBL32]

Omg people, if you have money, put it in your own damn name!!! What is wrong with these people!!! You can write a will to pass it on to your beneficiary. Ugh, so frustrating.

[@kermoua6883]

Karma comes get your vau! He takes all your money but doesn’t love your daughter!

[@angielo06]

$50,000 xwb tsis kav ntev os. You as the mom must put a stop for giving him money. But tus mi niam tais aw, kev npam yeej yuav raws cuag nws xwb2 os mog.

[@chiliayang5832]

Peb cov niam txiv hais tias ntxhais mas hlub yus tshaj kuv tsis ntseeg li os ntxhais vauv tsuas hlub yus thaum yus ua taus noj thiab yus muaj nyiaj xwb os😢

[@npauhmoob4746]

TUS MI NIAM TAIS AW, KOJ TSIS MUAJ MENYUAM COOB ES KOJ THIAJ HLUB2 KOJ TUS MI NTXHAIS ES MUAB KOJ TXOJSIA KHUA NKAUS RAU NWS XWB OS, KOJ NIAG VAUV DEV NTAWM NPAM KOM TXAUS.. THOV HLUB2 KOJ TUS KHEEJ OS MOG.

[@maiyang3659]

Nyuag txiv dev Liam ntawd cia kom txom nyem Nyob nrog kev npam mus kom txog nws hnub tuag. Cas yuav lim hiam tas npaum li. Siab phem li ntawd thiaj muaj mob kom tsis txhob tau lub neej ua nrog nws yus me niam nkauj mos ab, tiam no mas ntuj yeej txawj feeb ntxim ncaj2 li lawm hos, ua tiag maj yeej yuav tau sau xwb hos

[@MonaLisa-de4cp]

Niam tais aw....ua cas koj yuav siab zoo thiab hlub nkawv tag npaum na? Koj muab hlub dhau lawm. Niag vauv dab ntawd, thaum tsi tau lawm ces muab nws pov rau tom tsev laus xwb nawb. Niag ntsej muag ntxim ntxub ntawd es ua cas tseem pub tsev rau nyob thiab naw? Cia seb nws puas tuag ua ntej koj es thiaj tau mejntsiv nyiaj tshav ntuj los them koj rov qab os. Nrauj lawm ces zoo lawm thiab os. Ua cas tsi nrauj thaum ub es seb koj puas tau ib tug vauv zoo es hlub hlub koj. Pab koj chim siab kawg os, tais.

[@kuvxwb11]

Niag vuav no tsis yog neeg zoo. Nws dag koj tau 160k lawm.

[@Hmoob-LisTsuamYeej]

Vauv lie eat lie drink is too smart for niam tais and ntxhais.. 😅😂😂

[@kaciewanh1986]

Mloog tsis taus zaj no li o.. muaj 1 tug ntxhais xwb los ua tsis taus niam tiv thaiv tsis tau neb 2 tug laus. Tim ntxhais tsis hlub neb tas2, vaud thiaj kaus neb ti txha.

[@brandonblaine7585]

his two friends will see their karma soon that they come to lie to her to get 50,000 for her son in law do business, but they just go f---k around in Laos.

[@82Brightstar]

Ib yam li hais Rau Cov neeg laus ua pub nyiaj ntau dhau Rau tub hluas ntxhais hluas hmoob nplog…. Yus nros yus ruam!! 🤣🤣

[@diannaxiong693]

Cov tib neeg es pluag tsab muaj li tus ko mas sim neej no nkawv khwv tuag los yeej khaws tsi tau mog...Tsi txhob ntseeg leej twg yooj yim mas cas koj yuav ruam ua luaj li niam tais aw...Tabsis yeej muaj tseeb li koj tus txiv hais thiab es yuav tsum txhob sim zaub siv yus tsab dhiav los sim li ntawd yeej tsi huv tiag mog.

[@meemeeh33]

Why does your son in law come to you for money like you are a bank? And why do you keep giving it to him?!!! You want love, love yourself. Don't expect it from anyone, including your kids!

[@mosvaj1385]

Nws siab phem heev. T Wb ntxub2 koj tabsis ho muaj ntsej muag kaus koj Nyiaj thiab.

[@mosvaj1385]

Tus niam tais, qhov tseeb ces cov laus ces 1 co yeej laus lawm , noj los yeej noj txheej ntuas li minyuam baby lawm , hos tes yeej tsis nco ntxuav los muaj , los yog yeej 1 nyuag yaug tes xwb los muaj. Tabsis 1 co niag hluas los yeej ua tib yam li thiab. Yuav ua noj twb tsis ntxuav tes, hos ua noj los ke ua ke kov lub phone. Cov nyiam2 Aub ces kov2 Aub los cia li ua zaub ua mov noj twb tsis ntxuav tes, ke ua kev kov Aub, ke noj ke pub Aub noj mas qias neeg tib yam, ib tug txhob hais 1 tug. Cov hluas zoo li no ua tau yus haj yam tsis xav noj thiab. Kuv tus kheej pom cov hluas ua noj es ke ua ke kov lub phone thiab ke ua ke Mus kov lawv cov Aub ces kuv yeej tsis xav noj thiab yeej tsis noj tib yam es yus tsis yog lawv niam ces lawv qias2 yus os .

[@Shoua608]

Tus neeg uas xav kaus koj ces txawm yog ntxhais, vauv, tub, thiab nyab los nws yeej yuav kaus. Koj muab tus vauv ntawd hlub dhau lawm thaum nws tsis xav tau koj lawm ces kawg zoo li no xwb mas. Thaum koj twb pom tau tias vauv kaus koj xwb tab sis koj tseem muab nyiaj rau vauv tas mav thiab ces tim koj. Koj tus ntxhais neb ces ruam dhau lawm koj tej nyiaj tsis muaj chaw tso. Tus vauv siab phem no npam tiag. Zoo heev .

[@Peter123969]

Tus vauv no tsis paub cai kiag li. Kuv niam, kuv txiv yug kuv nrog rau kuv niam tais thiab yawm txiv, kuv yeej tsis muaj lub peev xwm yuav mus taij los yog qiv nyiaj li os. Tus vauv no tsis yog txiv neej yuav los tab cuab tab yim. Nws yog ib tug loser xwb.

[@xiameevang9131]

Siab siab phem es thiaj npam ntag mas.

[@chouxiong206]

Es txais 1-2 zaug tsis them rov qab ces tsis tas yuav txais2 rau niag vauv liam ntawv lawm xwb mas es yus hlub nws los nws twb tsis hlub yus thiab hlub yus niag ntxhais li es pheej yuav muab 1 zaug tag los 1 zaug dua li neb 2 niam tub yeej npwb zog lawm es niag vauv dev lim hiam ntawv thiaj pheej muab neb kaus noj kaus haus haus xwb ntag. Li cas los niag vauv dev ntawv tshuav koj nqi ntau heev txawm saum neej no thiab nruab dab los nws yeej them tsis tag li os neeg siab phem li niag vauv dev ntawv na thiab yeej tim koj tus ntxhais ua tsis taus niam es nws niag txiv thiaj li tsis hlub tsis hwm koj ua niam

[@amazinggrace8136]

That’s what happens when you: live with your adult married children. Bad money management and enabling irresponsible adults. Ps. there’s a difference btn nice and naive.

[@toosay200]

Tim koj tus ntxhais tsis txawj hlub koj ntag mas niam tias! Yog koj tus VajPaj hlub koj ces nws twb muaj niag txiv dev nrauj lawm ntxov, tabsis nws tseem nrog thaub siv koj thiab. Vim koj muaj nkawv hlub dhuas lawm, koj cias li ua nkawv lub Bank. Koj muaj nyiaj pau kev hlub yuam kev.

[@maryly09]

He's totally taking advantage of being your son rather than son-in-law. And I'm sure your daughter is in on some of it too. She didn't even defend u or protect u from her husband's scams. And u, grandma, are too stubborn. U have too much money that u have no place to put and that's why u continued to give money to your "son" despite the numerous red flags and excuses afrer excuses.

[@dialo1307]

Koj tus vauv es dag ib zaug tas ib zaug dua los koj tseem ntseeg thiab ces muab xav hais tias tej zaum tiam tas los koj tshuav nws nqi no xwb os

[@hmongsiabzoo]

Ua cas tu me niam tais aws cas koj yuav ruam ua luaj li nas. Koj cov nyiaj ces tseg cias es lwm hnub koj pais paj tawg lag mam muas rau koj tus ntxhais mas.

[@geuct3091]

Yuav vauv khwb nyiab xwb ne. Tus ntxhais los level li nws xwb. Pab tsis tau

[@vangyang4118]

Both your daughter and son-in-law using you..

[@MsPangY]

He's Using You For Money Because He Knows His Parent's Don't Have The Money You Have & That's How You Know People Don't Love You; Is Money! That's All They Need From You & It's Not Love!! The Real Reason Is You Kept On Giving It To Him & He Thinks He Is Your Son Like He Said But I Rather Let Him Hate Me Then Me Suffering! Don't Love Anyone Who Just Wants Money!! I Understand, You Love Em Because You Don't Have Son's or Other Kids & You Think It's Love But The Truth Is "HE IS USING YOU BIG TIME." He Knows You Will Give Him Money ... If You Don't Give Him Money, He Gets Mad & When He Needs The Money; He Is Nice To You!! Don't Ask Your Daughter If It's Okay For You To Give Him Money To Go To Laos, He's Going To Cheat On Her ... You Have No Right To Ask Your Daughter! That's His Problem & Not Yours ... People Can't Lie To Me & I Will Always Not Help People Who Lie & Just Want Money!! I Won't Help Anyone But My Kids If They Mean Me No Good!!

[@Tay3257]

I'm very curious as to what " style " of writing that uses caps at the beginning of every word?

[@isabellexiong227]

Niam tshuam cas koj ntshua yam Tim koj pog laus txhob tu siab muaj ib nub yuav npam

[@chouyang3197]

Cas loj yuav muaj nyiaj siv Tsis txawj Tag li naj? Es koj ho ua hauj lwm dab tsi es yuav muaj nyiaj ua luaj? Koj tus txiv life insurance los os? Thiab cas yuav Siab zoo ua luaj naj?

[@panhiathao7538]

Txhob lees txais tus neeg npam rov los ua yus leg

[@NtxhaisHmoobUSA]

Niam tais aw koj muaj koj tib tug ntxhais xwb es kav tsij txhawb ho. Kuv 4 leej tub yug 9 leej me xeeb ntxwv kuv tus txiv wb hu plig loj loj ib tug yeej yog $4000 los mas. Tseem ntas nyab tabsis. Kuv cov tub yuav tsev wb pab ib khub tub nyab $20000. Ho kuv cov me ntxhais 2 tug wb yeej hlub hlub txhawb txhawb tshaj vim yus hlub hlub lawv heev.

[@tsimeegvue1131]

Do you have anymore daughters? I need a mother in law like you.

[@ouradventuresnspecialmoments]

Did you not listen from the beginning? This daughter is her only child! That's the sad part...

[@yengyang9783]

Koj niag vauv ntawv mas ntshe yuav npam xwb li lau.

[@musibsim2151]

Lawv aw! Nco ntsoov hais tias tamsim no txawm yog kiag koj tus tub los yeej tsis ntseeg li lawm vim koj tus tub los muaj ib tug nyab nyob sab tov hos tus ntxhais los muaj tus vauv sab tov thiab yeej tsis work li nawb

[@chaovang4022]

Siab phem li koj tus Vauv yawm saub tsis tau pub tuag nws tseem yuav mob tsim txom mas nws mam tuag

[@NtxhaisHmoobUSA]

Sister Jenny aw Nyab Xaiv Suav Xiong yog koj tus tus nyab los ?

[@jennyvang2021]

Aws…,Yog kawg os ❤

[@NtxhaisHmoobUSA]

@@jennyvang2021 auv koj yog tub Xaiv Suav Muam los ? Koj yog ntxhais xeem Xyooj los. Zoo kawg os nawb

[@sunnygirl973]

Yog kuv ces ib tug vauv tawg deb tawg cawv es muaj mob xwb ces kuv thub lab lis os. Koj ruam zog lawm os.

[@poggersrus1802]

Never depend on your children to live on. Save and use all that money to live by yourself and enjoy life instead of living and being used by other people like your sil, sister. Your daughter should take you and leave her cheating husband and divorce his @$$. He is not a good husband and sil to the both of you. Hopefully karma gets him. Sister, stop giving your money away to a liar and a cheater.

[@goodlife916]

This story sounds so dumb. Cant finish listening to it.

[@whiteranger3836]

Vauv is a spoiled brat

[@lukemoua9027]

Koj thiab koj tus tus ntxhais neb mas ruam tshaj plaws

[@kanetoews7747]

Tus txiv. Liam tag npaum no ces muab nrauj kiag xwb mas. Ntuj es cas yuav ruam ua luaj li os