Ua Lawyer Ntse Dhau Thiaj Tau Ua Yawg Nrauj 6/12/24

[@m.muaslis6902]

I really wished you didn't have that mindset of "oh my son is a son so he's staying with his dad..." like, cmon! He's your son... should have fought hard for your son.

[@xiameevang9131]

Yes, agree with you. Now her son is going to raised up speaking so blunt like his dad and family.😅

[@xayxiong1061]

Agreed! You’re stupid for letting go of your son like you’re A** didn’t hurt.

[@maytuekue9997]

Kj tu txiv siab phe lu hiam hee nw xoj li nw niam neeg ruam nreb

[@lalalalalalalala4264]

@@xiameevang9131 Exactly. People like her shouldn't have kids. She's also at fault.

[@CCha-N]

Lawyers are trained to lie at all costs.

[@seyangphoojywg5571]

So true to that, I haven't seen any honest lawyer nor do I want to study law.

[@user-wu5ul8eq9f]

100% true.

[@Shoua608]

You should’ve hired a PI to prove adultery and file for alimony. After all, you supported him through school.

[@xayxiong1061]

Too stupid!

[@ylt4072]

Agreed. I don't think the bar would look too kindly on an attorney committing adultery. He probably would have been suspended for period and lost his job

[@lalalalalalalala4264]

He treated her so badly but wanted to stay. No one forced her to stay in a unhealthy marriage.

[@xiameevang9131]

She wants to be Mrs. Lawyer but can’t take his blunts and cruelty.

[@tvang8]

Most Hmong lawyer don’t make good money. We Hmong not same level as other races yet. Not good enough to make the big bucks yet. If your spouse doesn’t sleep with you, they sleeping with someone else. Shoulda kept your son and get child support

[@lukemoua9027]

Nom colonel poob ras rau nplog teb lawm , cov colonel poj colonel ces tuaj mus ua qhe xwb os

[@bleubird2023]

Until he pass the bar exam he can be a lawyer. Claiming to be a lawyer while in school is call a poster. He already broke the first ethic of law.

[@MonaLisa-de4cp]

You mean he can't be a lawyer until he passes the bar exam. You also mean, "imposter " not poster.

[@daimnploojgamer6941]

Niam tais jenny aw kuv mas nyiam mloog koj cov neej neeg tshaj li os mloog txhuas zaj koj tso tawm plaw li os yog cov hais cov dab me ntsi ntawv ce kuv thiaj tsi tshua mloog vim kuv tsi tshua tau luag mloog xwb os..❤

[@yengyang9783]

Congratulations to your brother.

[@user-xk4on9wh7h]

Nothing compares to a mother’s love!! Wish you took your son with you

[@444902720xv]

These kind of lawyer or individual with mindset like your husband are just an example of trashy people. Luag hu ua hais tias ruam tsab ntse.

[@xeevang3907]

I know a local Hmong lawyer, but his wife, who isn't a lawyer, would attack other Hmong people who question or mention anything about her husband when people can't contact his law firm office for update cases. She started using all kinds of these big law terminologies to scare off these "regular" Hmong people on social media saying they violated this and that rights. Definitely a cocky wife and probably lost a lot of Hmong community support for her husband law firm. No thanks, Beech! 😂

[@McBride999]

@@xeevang3907tell us who it is so we don’t bring them business.

[@kellyramirez7389]

Never leave your child behind.

[@Leevang6727]

Tuaj koom koj os

[@pajlisyaj1716]

Ntuj aw cov nom tim ub ces thaum tuaj rau thaib ces lawv cov nom twb poob rau Mekong tag lawm os,

[@maylovang1880]

Tsis hais poj niam los txiv yeej muaj ib co coj li no os mog yeej tsis muaj leej twg hloov tau li nawb

[@kaher9238]

You don’t need a man like that. He should love you for who you are. In this case, better to leave him now.

[@Leevang6727]

Sib pab sib txhawb nawb Viv ncaus

[@diannaxiong693]

Peb cov poj niam yuav tsum nco ntsoov noj los noj me me xwb es thiaj li tsi nce nce phaus os tus niam tsev aw.

[@ItsYou2]

There those secret audio recording u should've have got one for the house and his car.

[@kondiminoi4333]

They said uv tsis tuag tabsi uv mas tuag thiag os! Physical abuse is not harmful than verbal abuse because it dramatically damages you from within and destroys your spirit. SMH!

[@xayxiong1061]

So true!

[@miabhlub63]

Lawyer nyob qhov twg. Qhia kom peb paub es thiaj peb thiaj hire.

[@xuexiong4431]

Kawm txawj xwb tsis ntshe! Neeg ntshe tsis hais lus li no. 😂

[@kevinher4010]

Hmoob ces yeej khav theeb vim li no thiaj tsis muaj kev haum xeeb ntag laus.

[@michaelf2700]

Neeg ruam tsab ntse mas hais lus nyuaj tshaj plaws. He may be book smart but got nothing else. Niam pog los ntxhais nom quav dev. Why would u leave ur son with that monster? Do u want ur son to grow up like that monster? U should have fought for custody.

[@maivue284]

Tib co neeg high C-L-A-S-E. Hehehe…too funny..

[@Tasaneee]

That’s Verbal abuse, abuse is abuse even when it’s not physical.

[@chiliayang5832]

Oh yo cas yuav pab koj tu siab ua luaj li nas tus txiv dev zoo li koj ces tso tseg zoo dua thaum tseem hluas xwb

[@hmonggirlvang3052]

Honestly, a RPh is more respected in the community than a lawyer 😂

[@McBride999]

Hoyo niag txiv dev ntsa ntse thiab Niam pog ces lawm hu ua low CLAss/ low clace ib yam lis pog Sandra kiag mas.

[@PM-oe5mk]

Your ex-husband was a total scumbag! You really should have hired a professional PI to prove his infidelity. Sounded like you had someone follow him, but it doesn't sound like it was done by a professional PI. On top of that, you should have fought for your son! You gave him up and now he's going to grow up being raised to be a scumbag like his father! You shouldn't have feared your ex just because he's a lawyer because a scumbag of a lawyer can be taken down by another lawyer! If you were smarter, you would've won custody of your son, child support, AND alimony! Your ex's family is FAR from high class, their behaviors are those from the gutters instead!

[@Tay3257]

Ladies, take care of yourself and watch what you take in. Despite what you have been told, FAT IS NOT IN.

[@gynnsworld]

Once a man have a change of heart he won’t care anymore. He’s been cheating on you smh

[@yinglee8513]

Tej tus lawyer coj li no yog cov kawm tas lawyer los tsis muaj hauj lwm ua, tsis muaj neeg siv…

[@xayxiong1061]

Yog mas!

[@khashinglor3177]

Wondering how good looking this pompous lawyer looks like??? Probably no different than how he described his wife also. I wouldn't hire this person-- too arrogant. Again old soldier parents from Loas are nothing-- why these parents still living off of their old family fame from the mountains. Plus the community needs to stop putting these docs & lawyers on a pedestal. Without the community --they have NO jobs. Be humble & remember where you came from.

[@chiliayang5832]

Ntuj aw cas koj tseem nyiam tus tub es niam pog coj li no thiab nas sister kuv ua hluas nkauj nyob yog kuv hnov tus niam pog heev xwb kuv yeej tso tseg kiag xwb

[@user-eo1os8gy7u]

Me too

[@meganxiong3324]

Tus txiv khav theeb li no ces muab peg nyiab xwb cov txiv neej khav theeb ces ntxub kom txog hnub tuag kiag muab nws lawm dab kiag ntxub tshaj plaws

[@mailor1380]

Khav theeb thiab tsab ntse tiag tiag.

[@user-wu5ul8eq9f]

Cov tub, ntxhais noob nom yeej khavtheeb li ntawd.

[@chiliayang5832]

Peb tsis ntshaw tub lov yawj vim muaj plhus npaum li no ntag

[@billyher8600]

Lawyer Moob Asmeskas tsi yuav ua haujlwm os Moob. Luas yuav Los luag ntiav nyiaj tsawg2 xwb.

[@mosvaj1385]

Koj niag txiv yuav ua lawyer no tsis tsim nyog ua lawyer. Nws tsis paub cai. Nws tsis muaj respect hais lus. Nws tsis hlub koj. Yog nws hlub koj, nws tsis hais cov lus ruam2 li no rau koj.

[@TranquillityJungle-ob4jz]

Hauv ntiaj teb no tsuas ntshaw pojniam rog xwb, tus nyiam pojniam yuag ces hlwb rwj dhau lawm.

[@maivlee82]

This is why I never use and support Hmong lawyers. They just aren't there yet with other folks. I don't even use them for car accidents. No offense....seen it with others...the end result is so sad barely a settlement. Gurl....you need to move on and find someone who will make you happy. There are guys out there who like a thick full woman.

[@npaujlis-angel8889]

He's not a smart lawyer don't give him that much credit. He's just a narcissist raised by another narcissist. So entitled but I will never give up on my son.

[@ylt4072]

I wouldn't put it past your ex-MIL orchastrating the whole divorce. You shouldn't have gave up your son. Hope he does not resent you in the future

[@TranquillityJungle-ob4jz]

Peb cov no mas ntshaw tus maum npua noj mov ntau2 xwb lau. Nws ruam dhau lawm os.

[@colleenchan9872]

Yeap hmoob mas ib feem mas khav khav theeb li koj nig txiv kawg! Tabsis twb ua tsis tau abtsi os! Twb muaj ib txhia hmoob lam kawm tau degree los twb xeem tsis tau license hais plaub thiab os! Yog yus nyob level siab li cas ces yuav cov ntawv xwb os😊

[@xeevang3907]

I dont care what kind of career anyone holds. That's their personal preference, goal, or success. However, your husband is a narcissist, egotistical conceited, and cocky person whatsoever, period. Seemed like his interest to become a lawyer is to benefit his best interest only and gaslight people with his knowledge of the law. I agreed with your siblings that he is a dangerous person of heart and actions. Also, I wouldn't want a conceited mother in law like that, too. She isn't the one holding that colonel title herself to be judging other people (there are people who would just give themselves the credits of hi-class decendents but have done nothing & hold no personal valuable title in society). I knew she'll also be a problem from the beginning. Her parenting/motherhood role also impacts one of the many factors how her son is the way he is in society. Be grateful you dodged your whole life into such a family earlier on in your marriage. Let karma does its magical work. Someone who loves you truly would love you for who you are inside out despite the figure in shapes and size or occupation you hold.

[@maimoua1371]

Cas nej cov hmong mojlibkas es tus menyuam kawm mus ua apolo tau ua kauslaus nees 6 meskas los nej yeej g xam tsuas khav tib qhov ua dr thiab lawyers xwb mad thiaj muaj ntsej muag .thov pauv kev xav kev khav theeb thiab lau

[@elisely5353]

Hmoob mas ntshaw lub be NOM, NOOB NOM thiab COLONEL no tshaj plaws tsis twb poob pog tim ntug deb naab khoom lawm na ! Tsis paub txaj muag li lau ! Thiab ntshaw kom lawv hu mus zaum pem rooj tshaj plaws…tsis yog hais tias kawm tau daim diplom LAWYER es Txawm automatically tau nyiaj ntau 2 poob cuag los nag saum ntuj los xwb ov, cov hmoob OG 75 no tseem poob qab deb o…

[@leejmuam1]

Your ex-husband has such attitudes from his mother. Since you left your son to be raised by such narcissist MIL, he will be a replicate of your ex and his mother. Your ex is not all mighty, he khav theeb and koj ruam zog lawm xwb. Txhob ntshaw 2 cov txiv tsab ntse no ne, paub lawm lau.

[@ljvue]

If it was a woman lawyer doing all of this gas lighting, the women audience would be in support of her “independence.”

[@chouxiong206]

Tsis muaj 1 tug poj niam twg es yug me nyuam tag es yuav tsis txawj puv tsis txawj hloov li os yog tias koj niag txiv dev lim hiam ntawv xav yuav 1 tug poj niam es cev yiag txias nrog nraim nws ces muab qhov quav qhov zis saws tsis txhob xya me nyuam kiag li mas thiaj li tau lub cev yiag txias nawb . Hos hais txog koj niag niam pog na teb chaws no luag muaj luag nom tswv lawm na Hmoob lub niag npe nom kos los nees kos los nyuj tsis tseem ceeb tsis muaj nuj nqis dabtsi li lawm na es nim yuav muab tej niag npe qub2 puag sim tim nplog teb los khav pab txaj muag dhau lawm

[@xiameevang9131]

If you can’t take the bluntness of his speaking then don’t married him. Because a person who is so blunt, speaking honest from the heart. We don’t have hidden agenda.

[@MrsKervang]

But you can be honest without being an a$$ 😒...in your day to day life, one should speak with empathy. Don't speak to everyone like you're in a courthouse.

[@daisyvue]

He's not blunt. He's a conniving and shallow man.

[@msgnay6193]

Anyone who brags their book smart self to everyone is a straight up ntsej muag ruam. Respect is earned by how humble and kind a high educated person is. Being blunt and rude is no excuse for how bittered someone is with their life.

[@Shoua608]

Narcissistic personality by the way he talks about everyone else….her brother only getting a Pharmacist Degree, his nephew only getting his law enforcement degree, etc. He thinks he’s the best of everyone else! Ruam tsab ntse.

[@Shoua608]

Tus niam pog thiab tus tub no sib phim ua niam tub tshaj cas lub noob yuav poob tsis deb ntawm tsob ntoo kiag. Nws cov noob nom twb poob tim ntug dej Mekong tas lawm ntxov. This guy is jealous of anyone better than him and he can’t stand others being better. He has to belittled others to make himself feel good.

[@NtxhaisHmoobUSA]

Hluas hluas es mob ncauj plab heev ua luaj os me ntxhais aw. Txiv dev lawyer dev kawm Tom roob khib nyhiab los xwb siv lus phem lim hiam tshaj plaws xwb.

[@NtxhaisHmoobUSA]

Txiv lawyer hais lus phem siv lus khib nyhiab siv lus kuas quav iab

[@hlubyang4072]

Tu neeg coj li koj tu txiv lawyer ko ua pes tsawg rooj plaub lo swb tag nhro vim nws tsis yog neeg ntse vim tawm xwb

[@user-pg9tj9tw5b]

He didn't say anything that isn't true. He wants a skinny girl. Most men do. The parents and relatives are not going to change his feelings. He said hurtful things that are true. The solution is...lose weight. You can still eat, just eat healthier foods and exercise. Don't blame someone for falling out of love with you. He just did. Fat is not healthy. Thank him later when you are skinny and healthy.

[@yerher538]

Kaus laus man kaus laus dees kaus laus nyuj meej mom quav dev has no respect bad manners. Ntxim ntxub tshaj muaj2 nplus khav2 theeb tsis muaj leejtwg hwm thiab qhuas. Ntses ruam ntses lim hiam tiag2 😢

[@moa-maioutdooradventures483]

Glad you divorce him. I hate families with that mindset that they're better then others.

[@poggersrus1802]

Fathers will not love the child as much as you the mother. You should not be ashamed of yourself, how you look as long as you love yourself. It is better off to leave an @$$ as your ex. Wish you did not have a mind set like Hmoob people back in '75. As a mother you should have taken your son with you and get pay for child support.

[@msgnay6193]

This foo is only book smart, not street smart. Street smart is common sense and clearly his mom and him are severly lacking. Should've, would've save yourself some headache.

[@lalalalalalalala4264]

I hate how Hmong people always make themselves out to be so important. It's embarrassing. Touger statue - even though he got killed for punani Payengxa day - Only made it to top 16 due to Hmong vote Sunisa - Olympic winner now everyone will know Hmong Hmong lawyers and Hmong Doctor day! (Okay I made this one up) Hmong Day

[@kondiminoi4333]

Txiv neeg zoo li no xwb tsis thas yuav ntxov nrauj ntxov zoo thiaj li tsis tau lig rau yus!! Cov txiv neej zoo li no yeej tsis hlub yus xav kom yus take care nws xwb, nws Pom 1 way street. Nws tsuas pom nws tus kheej xwb!! Tsom tom tsab ntse lawyer qhuav dev!! Over abuse kev cais, kawg only siv los ua hauj lwm xwb txob coj los siv rau neeg. We see where he get his cocky qhuav dej from, nws niam ntag! Ruam tshaj!

[@82Brightstar]

This guy is so uneducated & ignorant! A pharmacist is just as prestigious as being an MD. And the same pay!! But honestly I think pharmacist Is a waaaay better job than MD & lawyer! Pharmacists are the ones who truly don’t have to do the dirty work! I’m so happy to see so many of our youth graduating with pharmacy degrees

[@chaoxiong2150]

It's just what you want to do with your life that's it.

[@chaoxiong2150]

At the end it's all about money.

[@tongyang6314]

Oyo....cas twb tsis tau tiav los yuav khav theeb ua luaj li os.....khav npaum li ko xyov kawm tas puas muaj neeg ntiav thiab. Koj niag txiv ko khav theeb dhau lawm tsis yuav los haj yam zoo. Niag khav theeb tsab ntse li koj niag qub txiv ces xyov puas muaj poj niam xqv yuav li thiab lau, niag cej pwm qias2 neeg.

[@tubhmoobhmoob2944]

Cov niag coj li koj tus txiv koj hais ko tsis yog ntse, tseem ruam tshaj npua lawm thiab thiaj hais lus tsis haum leej twg

[@mlee6150]

I agreed with your husband. You can’t let go of yourself. You kept using excuses to not lose weight.

[@kayouexiong8360]

She has a medical condition that makes it difficult for her to lose/maintain weight. Have some sympathy. Even if that was the case, there’s other ways to deal with it other than demoralizing and humiliating her by calling her names.

[@mlee6150]

@@kayouexiong8360 I’m not saying that what her husband is doing is right. All I’m saying is that you can still lose weight with thyroid issues or health issues. My patients with thyroid issues are capable of losing weight through lifestyle changes. I can understand if she has no mobility.

[@mlee6150]

@@kayouexiong8360I’m not saying that what the husband said or done was right. All I’m saying is that she should take care of herself. I have patients with thyroid or medical issues who are very capable of losing weight with lifestyle change. I can understand if she has no mobility.

[@qaibhmongvaj]

It’s true tho. You gotta be attractive to your spouse. Don’t get fat. Take care of yourself. 😂

[@tublojleebfaabkis1900]

Lawyer ruam txiv colonel niam colonais ruam peb teb chaws tim no peb tsis kkkk txog, cov noob liam noob phem li no ces ntxov nrauj ntxov zoo ntxov nrauj ntxov zoo xwb,

[@chiliayang5832]

Oh yo cas yuav pab koj tu siab ua luaj li nas tus txiv dev zoo li koj ces tso tseg zoo dua thaum tseem hluas xwb