Managing and dealing with the challenges when owning two properties in the city and in the rural areas in South Africa. Tips on how to manage and maintain both for your benefit.
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@pulengramaema24506 ай бұрын
Sis V. I have started building in the rural 10 months now, and it has been financially and emotionally tiring. I thought I was the only one going through all those troubles since I am young and female. I have been paying double the amount for literally everything because I trusted some people. I was explored to the core. I wanted to give up at some point because I am hardly home in SA to do everything myself. My friend told me hore ho thata ho haha motse and I should be patient and that's the only reason I am still hanging in there
@R1M1r1m16 ай бұрын
The saying that good help is hard to find is so true!
@bhekiziqubu23436 ай бұрын
Ms V, you are touching the nerve, especially when I remember that I was working and living in Jo'burg and trying to build a house upcountry/rural KwaZulu at the same time. Personally I had to give up as I lost so much in resources; let alone trying to commute between KZN and Jo'burg. Now I am retired and have started from scratch. It is not nice at all. Your content is 👌
@VelileLifestyleDecorTV6 ай бұрын
My husband and I nearly gave up too because it was one problem after another. We decided to visit our homestead every two weeks so that our presence can be felt and things got better. We are hoping people won’t take advantage of the fact we are away from country. Good luck with everything and I am happy you are working on your homestead. Let’s share information. 🙏🏾❤️
@motalaneref56506 ай бұрын
Great advice as always. I love your videos my dear ❤️ keep up the good work. South Africa is a beautiful country ❤️
@soulrebel20066 ай бұрын
Very powerful video. I always view your videos as not real estate land kind of videos but more spiritual and motivational. Happiness and contentment along with the connection to our higher power is hugely important. Thanks so much and continue with the powerful videos (we are so lucky) !!
@VelileLifestyleDecorTV6 ай бұрын
Thank you so much. Yes, my content is about inspiring and motivating others. I try hard to be the living example of what others may like to achieve and don’t know how. I love and appreciate you. 🙏🏾❤️
@HighlyFavoured0746 ай бұрын
Hi Vee. Im so sorry for the challenges you had to endure. We love our villages but people can take advantage of you not being ever present in your house. We love you cc ❤
@ReaonGroup6 ай бұрын
This is so true cc, I have no clue what is going on with our people. Mina I always say many of us in SA we need to undergo de-worming process. Perhaps by doing so immunity will recover to think, do and produce positivity.
@thembikunene45314 ай бұрын
So so true South Africa 🇿🇦🇿🇦is very beautiful, and so as it's people r friendly and have a good heart. All the best 🙏😴💞❤️⚘️🌺🍁🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦
@gracemartha-123 ай бұрын
I understand your frustration cc,I too have a livestock farm and the house in the city,we just need trustworthy and experienced employees to hv a peace of mind
@thulanincobela58786 ай бұрын
Eish - Life’s challenges always come from the people you trust the most. Well done to you and your husband on the American gig. 💐💐💐
@zeldamabaso96766 ай бұрын
Hi Velile, thank you so much for the information and advises. We also went through the same with our lives stock ended up selling everything because we are in the city and we've decided to go next year to settle in the rural.
@phumlamyataza85276 ай бұрын
Enjoying your vlog from South Africa. It's a pleasure to be part of your community.
@BookOfAsaph6 ай бұрын
Thaayu Thaayu These videos are more helpful than u think 🙏🏾 I'll be reaching out to u VERY soon✊🏾
@mahlubonkemakunga33156 ай бұрын
I enjoy this blog, sisi. We are also facing similar issues as siblings, a rural family homestead, and lives in the urban/city context. Balance is a challenge, thanks for the insights.
@ntebo_sa6 ай бұрын
Wow sis V, so sweet of your son to wash the car, I am so proud of you for not giving up on maintaining and growing your homestead despite the challenges.Both your homes are beautiful I love the animal care ❤️Thanks for sharing, I'd love to hear your take on building while living abroad
@VelileLifestyleDecorTV6 ай бұрын
Thank you Ntebo. Yes he helps a lot and even cooks. I will cover that topic thank you. 🙏🏾❤️
@arnoldmutanga27486 ай бұрын
Hi Vee we missed you you don't kno how much I look forward to ur weekly vlogs, hope you are going to make more before you go back
@BulelwaJacobs-e7w6 ай бұрын
Vee, your channel is very inspiring. Apologies for your loss
@eunyphila8076 ай бұрын
You are very Good when coming to Interior Decoration. I really like it keep it up Girl we are learning a lot from you ❤❤❤ Yes we need to face our challenges and try to achieve that big dreams of balancing our City life and rural areas, its true its not easy but lets all push forward ❤🙏❤
@papafox246 ай бұрын
Thanks!
@VelileLifestyleDecorTV6 ай бұрын
Thank you so much. I appreciate you. 🙏🏾❤️
@marthaditlopo2296 ай бұрын
Thanks for always giving us good advices
@VelileLifestyleDecorTV6 ай бұрын
🙏🏾❤️
@mmmotives74526 ай бұрын
Welcome back to Mzansi Sìs Velile.
@vuyokazikutshwa31596 ай бұрын
Thanks Velie
@kwazingcobo54306 ай бұрын
Inspiring
@mamakalami6 ай бұрын
Inyama...😢😢😢 I used to go to Noord butchery and get the best and freshest meat. I miss home bathong
@christianramashia2426 ай бұрын
Thanks sister. I just subscribe now
@VelileLifestyleDecorTV6 ай бұрын
Thank you so much and welcome to the family. 🙏🏾❤️
@brendakhoza87046 ай бұрын
Ubusela bubhokile.. Bathatha kukhona abantu imbuzi.. It's the current serious issue in our erea...
@Bamidele-ee8ch5 ай бұрын
Did u perform ukubekwa to acquire land? Do you have a PTO certificate or title deed? Do you have to follow a building code or property rates?
@nonhlanhlandimande22446 ай бұрын
Pls can you journey with us next time to rural farming or business ❤😂
@nonhlanhlandimande22446 ай бұрын
Mina nje ngendwa I need something fresh and new from you now,explore other avenues,but not same same moves,be unpredictable❤❤❤😂😂🤗
@nkululekongcoya11236 ай бұрын
I wish to be in contact with yourself regarding rural development in progress
@mfanafuthindebele72056 ай бұрын
Hi Ms Vee, please share your homestead location or Isigodi... I am interested on building my wife and children a home in rural areas. We both don't have a place called home. My plan is to join you on this journey. Thank you
@nomthandazokheswa53816 ай бұрын
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@TheHuny856 ай бұрын
You are teaching me a lot before i get married to my American
@GoitsemodimoBerniceDikgale6 ай бұрын
Hello my sister we miss you ❤
@lydiaikaneng7196 ай бұрын
I am enjoying that lifestyle, except for the stress of theft from family you relied on, workers and farm neighbours buying your things stolen by your worker/family residing at the farm.
@VelileLifestyleDecorTV6 ай бұрын
They once stole my generator and the people they were trying to sell to reported them and we got it back. Sometimes there are good people and bad people. 🙏🏾❤️
@paulwalterbadze47896 ай бұрын
I thought its only in Zim where family members can rip you off😢😢
@Tuminkie6 ай бұрын
It happens all over Africa
@africaneagle73976 ай бұрын
I think it happens all over the world , if you become more successful than your family members.😢😢 The green-eyed monster (jealousy) knows no boundaries. However, Africa has a bigger problem, because it has bigger challenges.
@GQdlamini90826 ай бұрын
Stay strong, family ❤❤
@JimmyShongwe-fj5ct6 ай бұрын
Beautiful flowers Sisi but I think you need to work on your flower arrangement technique 😂
@VelileLifestyleDecorTV6 ай бұрын
😂😂 I wanted something green to work with the big yellow ones. 😂😂🙏🏾❤️
@Sello_216 ай бұрын
I am 22 years old but I'm always here watching your videos and I must say im learning a lot about adulthood... Thank you so much for doing this. 👍
@VelileLifestyleDecorTV6 ай бұрын
I am happy you are here and getting all the wisdom you can get at your age. I love and appreciate you. 🙏🏾❤️
@johannesmfolori99026 ай бұрын
hi my sister I m so sorry for u God bless you and your family Jesus name
@VelileLifestyleDecorTV6 ай бұрын
Amen. 🙏🏾❤️
@PrimroseNkonki6 ай бұрын
Sorry my dear❤
@wande56086 ай бұрын
Hi V…. I’m insipired… I myself having lived in New York an recently came back … if you don’t mind please share your email or number I want to speak to you please thanks so much … my hubby and I are proud of you