Venus - Saturn aspects in synastry and the potential for abuse in relationships(Astrology)

[@SammyJ96]

16:55 Hmmm...I always admire your deep psychological depth . My Venus square my partner's Saturn, andvibwas told by said partner that they're afraid to tell me I'm beautiful. Because I might think " better than than them." Quite something . I didn't take it personal, because I saw it before they said it. I just embraced the person,and them know I understand. I love astrology and psychology.

[@AstroMartine]

wow, thank you for sharing, that is very on point.

[@SammyJ96]

17:51 TRUE ! Because if I didn't have a HEALTHY dose of self esteem, I could see how I'd be affected in that department.

[@sabrinarae4835]

I really appreciate you taking about the Mars/Venus conjunction, I knew there was more I was missing about that and I see it a lot for some reason. My ex had this in Virgo, and he absolutely loved violence in many ways. Not towards me, but it was disturbing nonetheless.

[@AstroMartine]

Thank you for sharing!

[@Jennie-yolan]

Good video! I remember i was Saturn in 2 of my relationships 1 was square the other was opposite and i couldn’t stand the sight of em talking to another woman it destroyed me & made me feel like slapping them lol. With the square i out grew him & found him to be very immature, the opposition we are still friends but i can’t stand to see him flirt with someone. Also the rapper cardi b & offset has this placement

[@Lilac.Affairs]

Unfortunatly i have experienced this in my last relationship. I already have Saturn Conjuct Venus in Dhanista in my first house in the birthchart, and his Saturn conjucted my Saturn and Venus. It's exactly all what you said.

[@AstroMartine]

hugs, I'm sorry to hear that.

[@alakane2183]

Simply have Venus with Saturn in my natal chart, and honestly, I'm not even used to warm human interactions, despite being able to be friendly and all. Keep (polite) distance from all, because attachment = suffering in my experience time and time again, and in case somebody would all of a sudden be completely humane towards me, I would probably freak out and run myself😅 Is it sad? I guess so, especially for non-Saturnians (or folks who otherwise don't have challenging aspects with the heavy hitter planets), but it is what it is (said solemnly while staring into the distance in their isolated Saturnian cave 💀...)

[@AstroMartine]

Hugs

[@sonofhibbs4425]

I have Saturn in the 7th (chart ruler) and I’m the same way. I have this Saturn square Venus aspect in synastry with a love interest. I am Saturn, they are Venus. Despite awesome numerous great synastry aspects, I left because of fears- which, granted, may or may not have been legit. I just couldn’t tell and I’m super suspicious whenever someone is loving towards me. Just one way how Saturn ruins things. 😭 Back in my Saturnian cave too. ‘’Attachment=suffering’’ is true even from within the Saturnian cave of safety and solitude.

[@DaysofOurLives2005]

This is very true for me and my relationship (I’m Venus and he’s Saturn). We have a 15 year age gap. We also have Sun square Pluto double whammy and my Mars square his Pluto. By far the most intense, destructive, depressing, binding relationship I’ve ever had. We also have a child together and I fear him witnessing our fights and the toxic dynamic. My boyfriend is very controlling of me and withholds affection and love when he feels slighted in some way… he told me when we first met I was the most beautiful woman he’s ever seen along with other very nice compliments but as our relationship progressed, he’s become more critical of my looks and personality (although I know it’s only to bring me down)

[@AstroMartine]

thank you for sharing your experience :) .But maybe taking some distance would be good

[@SammyJ96]

30:26 Thank you! Astrology is truly not all peaches and cream.

[@AstroMartine]

:)

[@riviews]

I experienced the opposition in a relationship before 😣. Thanks for the explanation and spreading awareness, please do more videos about the abuse topic in the future 🌹❤

[@AstroMartine]

I will, I also did some other videos on abuse in relationships, you can find them in my relationship playlist.

[@NumilyMiu]

My Saturn/Pluto conjunct his Venus in Libra, this is definitely the glue of our situationship, which is also quite free and unstable. In composite we have Sun/Venus/Mars/Mercury conjunction square Saturn/Uranus conjunction. He told me once that he feels me as the one having a backbone. I’m 8 years older than him (though I have a feeling that he is older than me). Mainly, I’m the one directing this connection. I had some controlling tendencies in the beginning, but I let it go. It’s easy, because we have also much Uranus and Jupiter between us. We are both esthetically inclined, like harmony in relationships and he boosts my inner sense of beauty and confidence. The theme of fear has been there, it is mixed with Plutonian shadow vibe, as Pluto is involved in this conjunction (and it is the co-ruler of my Scorpio Asc), and we also have his Pluto/Mars conjunct my Asc and square me Venus.🔥😅 He is afraid that I need him only for sex. There are generally some fears around dark side, manipulating, using each other. I think, my exalted Saturn and his Venus in domicile harmonise this conjunction, also my maturity and conscious attitude. And this conjunction itself is working for stabilising our synastry and relationship.

[@AstroMartine]

thank you for sharing

[@Reeshaplease]

This is all strange, my boyfriend and I have Venus opp Saturn. I’m Saturn. He’s 6 years older than me. His Venus conjunct my ascendant 2 degrees & his Venus sits in my first house. He definitely down plays my beauty. 😂

[@AstroMartine]

that's not nice of him

[@SammyJ96]

Thanks Martine.

[@AstroMartine]

you're welcome :)

[@kujjitafari8509]

If the woman is the Saturn and the guy is the Venus in this conjunction then she will/ can break his heart. Because she isn't happy and the relationship is too much work for her to be happy.

[@AstroMartine]

not necessarily

[@r0seguard7]

Do you consider planets in each other's houses relevant in synastry ? For example, someone's Saturn falling in the partner's 8th house, will this have any influence or should we stick to planetary aspects

[@DaysofOurLives2005]

Houses are equally as important

[@AstroMartine]

I do consider planetary overlays, too. but this video is not about that.

[@JRT-zh5sb]

Is this worse if i have Venus in Libra in my 2nd house and he has Saturn in Libra in conjunct?😢

[@JRT-zh5sb]

He also has Mars in conjunct with my Venus

[@AstroMartine]

based on these, not better or worse