VERY IMPORTANT UPDATE - MUST WATCH - Whitney Sews

[@deborahanderson200]

Dear Whitney, Your videos are a GIFT, not an obligation. You don't owe any of us anything! I found your site a couple of years ago and have thoroughly enjoyed watching and learning from you. You have a special talent for teaching, and you connect with people on such a comfortable level. I'm a disabled, retired Grandma, and I have been sewing since I was 9 or 10 years old, but I still learn from you. You are delightful! It's especially a pleasure to see the items you sew for your children, husband, and yourself. I've truly enjoyed seeing them y'all "model" items you've made. Your first priority must always be yourself and your family. Please know that most of us have been where you are, and we know the pressures of trying to juggle too much at once. I'm actually very proud of you for slowing things down on your KZbin channel! I think it's wonderful that you're stepping back. Like myself, I imagine that a lot of your loyal viewers haven't seen all of your content over the years. So, while it was nice looking forward to what you would post each Wednesday, I (and others, I'm sure) can catch up on watching your older videos. Enjoy your LIFE! I'm glad that your family is so important to you, as they should be! I'm glad that you're focusing on the activities that bring you joy. Once KZbin became a chore, it's time to replace it with something that makes you smile and doesn't bring you stress. Remember, we are loyal viewers, but we are essentially strangers. Yes, we love your videos, but YOU and your family are your real life. Soak up this time with them. My children have been grown and gone from home for decades! I have grandchildren from 22 down to newborn, so I'm old enough to reminisce on the times you are living now! It's fleeting! Don't waste a single moment of it! Sew what you enjoy sewing, and play with your daughters, and "date" your husband! Not posting a video every week will give us all something to look forward to whenever you get around to it, and in the meantime, we can watch your older videos knowing that you and your husband are parenting your girls. Play, Whitney! Enjoy life! God bless you!

[@sandnort]

I started sewing 2 years ago at the age of 60 never sewed before that in my life You have been such a blessing to me and your videos have given me a passion for sewing You helped me sew things that I never thought possible You have to take time for you You are wonderful Thank you so much for all you do,you are appreciated

[@danadewey9405]

Way to go!

[@kimmoore3091]

I am 63 and want to make some bears.Very basic skills

[@blacksweettee]

I don't care if you post a video once month or whenever, I will still watch it. You and your family comes first. Take as much time you need. I am still here for you. Peace and Love!🥰❤️

[@feliciafriesen]

Priorities. Admirable when people put their family first. ❤❤❤

[@CheleBoxy]

Witney honey, we TOTALLY respect what you need to do to take care of *YOU* & your FAMILY. Please know we are here for you as well. If I need a dose of Whitney, I'll simply go check your playlists. ❤ u Whitney❗

[@eileen6794]

"God works in mysterious ways" as they say. Your website crash brought you to realize you need a break. You have been so generous with your time and with sharing your skills. You have to take care of yourself before you can give to others. We've all been there. I know your loyal followers appreciate your honesty and I for one am selfishly happy that you're not walking away. Embrace and enjoy the time you keep for yourself, your family and your friends!

[@cherylmurray9868]

You and family comes first...always!! Im sure many of us will still be here whenever you are!!Xoxo 😘

[@rosiedavid76]

After recently losing my dad and regretting not spending as much time as I could with him...Make your family a priority. We will gladly support your channel either way.

[@helenlouise1737]

I can't say much more than everyone else has. Post when you can, when your notification comes I'll definitely watch. I've gratefully learned many things from you & made several items. You have worked HARD & need a big break. Family first always, good mental health always, take care of yourself always. I'm a LOT older than you & don't regret a single moment of sharing good family time. Thanks Whitney for all you have done!

[@marieacuna2207]

Aww nicely well said. 😉

[@Charmedbyashley]

I'm right there with you girl!! this year i had to just skip halloween entirely because there just isnt enough hours in the day as a youtuber :( you chose right, your loyal subscribers will be here when you come back.

[@AdiarraS]

This is the reason I can't bring myself to sew for profit. Sewing is my zen, and if I don't have that, I'm a crazy person. I don't want to lose that mojo. That said, everyone gets burned out and I think it's great you are slowing down so you aren't miserable. I know you love sewing and the community, but we all get burned out. Also, I love cosplay, and I look forward to seeing what you make, even if there isn't a tutorial for all of it. I hope you find your mojo again, and that your personal projects re-inspire you, not because I selfishly want you to post every week, but because you would be happy in whatever you did, no matter how often you posted. =) Lots of love to you & the fam!

[@SewRena]

Cheryl Land same

[@Smileypooh590]

I have sewn for 18 years. The last 11 years more frequent and there are many times I buy fabric I like with a project in mind and it takes me months or years before I get to it. Spending time with my family comes before my love for sewing. Keeping up a website/business is difficult with a family. You have to love what you making to keep up what you doing and when you feel obligated to do something you loose the love for it for a while. We love you and we all understand you family and your love for what you do comes 1st. ❤️❤️❤️

[@Patti-1962]

I just feel proud that you are making this decision. I am a retired professional musician, but decided to stop performing when my boys were born. I kept hearing in my head, "Live a simpler life, make more time for family." I am just looking forward watching your videos whenever you feel like you have time to make them~ You will be missed!

[@glang4657]

You're family comes FIRST. They need you. God bless you.

[@karinnehavard-thomas1136]

WE LOVE YOU! Every one of your viewers love you and the content you produce and we will be happy with how ever much content you are HAPPY to produce. I tried an online selling business recently and it only lasted 3 weeks as I quickly realised it was taking up so much of my time that I was not crafting at all and it was negatively affecting my mental health. I was snappy and horrible to my children and my husband because I wasn't happy. I put a stop to it and got my sewing machine out. You enjoy doing the same. Enjoy feeling the weight lifted and just BE HAPPY with your family and get used to your sewing room without the camera ❤❤❤

[@apl1515]

I have watched you for many years now and if I can speak for other viewers, I have to say WE LOVE YOU! I think most viewers if they’re like me, will be very happy to see your videos if they come once a week or once a month or however long you want to post. I am not a cosplayer but I am a creative and I’d LOVE love LOVE to see what you’re creating and that doesn’t mean I need a full tutorial from those types of videos you share about your cosplay content... it’s fun to see how people create but that doesn’t mean we necessarily need a full explanation. Inspiration doesn’t have to be full detailed information :) I am totally interested in how people create and when I see something unusual or creative I find that in itself interesting. So, be well and be happy and i pray you feel unburdened and free to create. God bless you 💗 btw I have had many burnouts that have lasted varying amounts of time, it can be discouraging when they last long but I have to think that God is doing something, shifting and changing my focus to hopefully something better that He wants for my life

[@paulaneary7877]

Darling Whitney, I know I commented already but I just GOTTA say- the longer I heard you talk, the more I knew you were making a good decision for yourself. i think it really came across when you were talking about the pair of dungaries you were making and you wore them and liked them so much. I think women are caregivers by nature and often push their needs and wants aside for others. Happy for you, and if you have a moment of doubt, just read some of the comments below, we are all proud of you, and continue to trust yourself in the future! You are awesome!

[@Jpudgy5]

You've helped me and a lot of other people here, once a week, once a month, once year we'll be here to watch and learn. Your little girls are growing fast. Take time for them and Jeremiah and yourself. Love & peace.

[@laurenvanderloos7676]

This season of life with our children is so short, and you have every right to take a step back/slow down and enjoy your children and husband. I hope you can get back to enjoying sewing and get all those projects you want and more done.

[@WhateverHunterLiz]

I love your videos! I’ve made all your bags and quilts. Your videos are so easy to watch and learn from. I think you are a great teacher Whitney. Thank you for sharing your feelings with us. I understand. I’m not going anywhere. I still go back often and rewatch your old videos too. You take care of yourself and family!

[@REDUNICORNKNIGHT]

Hello Whitney, you don't need to worry if you about posting video's every week because you and your family come first, your girls are only young once and you want to be able to spend time with them while you can. You have inspired me over the last few years since I started watching your channel, you need to take some time to spend doing things that make you and your family happy. I will still be here to watch your video's when you post them even if it is only every once a month or even longer. Pray that you and your family have a blessed day and that you will enjoy the time with your family.

[@CrochetwithClare]

EVERYTHING you just said is how I felt last November! I have not made a tutorial since and I have discovered myself, sorted out my anxiety and feel so much better You do what you need to do, you know the world wont end if you don't make a tutorial ....took me a long to realize that. People will be ok if they don't get a tutorial I love your videos and will continue to enjoy them no matter what your schedule and so many other people will do the same

[@maryanncarreon4868]

Whitney, Thank you for all your episodes of DIY sewing, My mother and I watched your videos for years, she passed a year ago, so watching your videos now I like to think she is with me watching you too. If your feeling overwhelmed, take time for yourself and post videos on your terms, your the best! Thank you again for all you have given to the youtube universe and best wishes to you and your family.

[@lindarussell9379]

Wow! You work so hard for everyone!! You do an Amazing job!! That is so much pressure!! Do what is healthy and happy for you and your family. They come first. We appreciate all you have shared and blessed us with. ❤️🙏🏻

[@AngelReneeToday]

You be happy. I enjoy the chit chat videos and the holiday stuff. I look back at your old videos but I have really upped my sewing game. So I rarely make a new project unless I really want it. YOU deserve to create whatever you want when ever you want. Thank you for the best videos and tutorials. It's like having a friend that shares my hobbies.

[@MaryLynnHurstRiley]

You are correct in taking the time "you need" for yourself and your family. You have been a blessing and an inspiration to me and to your many subscribers. Changing your posting times and giving comments on patterns sounds like a needed change for you. You are correct when you say that the girls are only young once, enjoy this time and give them hugs from me. We love you Whitney. We'll look forward to your next video update whenever that is.

[@beckyezra1]

it absolutely ok whitney, we love you, family come first. if you insist you can do video like raw footage, no aditing etc. we love you dear. make your life happy for you that is the most important!!!!

[@janetsonsteng2421]

You go girl! Take care and I will be here to watch your videos whenever they come out. Thank you for the update.

[@kaybutcher5719]

Family is such a treasure and you are soo right. Your children will be grown before you can blink your eyes and there are no do-overs with them. Take care.

[@angelakopesec9592]

I am so incredibly proud of you! Children are only children for awhile. We will still be here following sharing in your life and celebrating your growth and refreshing. It is okay to take a rest! I’ve learned so much from you and I’m excited to see what you do with your new techniques that you learn! Much love to you and your family!

[@Beautyonthebrain_]

Good for you Whitney. You do come first. Take care of yourself, your kids, your family, we will be here supporting you whenever you decide to post.

[@hotfootsue]

Oh Whitney, you have a wonderful presence here, have a very nice way about you and exce llent communication/orator. Whatever content you choose to share with us... is good with us! You are simply experiencing the joys of growing a family, precious times:) I do notice significantly less video/blog content over the last couple yrs and way more Instagram content, simply for speed/ease of sharing. I'll still be here and thank you kindly for everything. Wishing you good health and wellness as always:) xo

[@ladonnamcalister1310]

You are awesome! Priorities and putting your family first is the right thing to do for your self and to bring balance and happiness to you and your family’s lives! You will still be inspiring us and we have 10 years of videos to watch and learn also!❤️🥰

[@KatieCooksandCrafts]

The same thing happened with my on my own channel. I was pouring so much into my channel, and I was getting so much enjoyment from it. I couldn't imagine not posting regularly. I pushed through mini burn outs, getting back into a groove was always reassuring that YT was, in fact, worth all the hard work and sacrifice. One day I skipped going out with my family to finish a video. It's sounds bad like I was ignoring my family but everyone needs time to pursue passions, and time alone. I was actually looking forward to having the house quiet and working on something I was passionate about without interruption. I had camera trouble and ended up spending the whole time messing with my camera and didn't get the recipe made, let alone the video. I was pretty disappointed. When my family came home and I told my husband what happened he asked me what upset me more, not making the recipe or not making the video. Because I can still make the recipe. It really opened my eyes and sort of instantly changed my view of YT. I was first passionate about cooking and crochet and YT was just a vehicle for sharing that passion. Somehow YT inched up the priority list. It's almost crazy how it inched up right past the thing it was originally meant to showcase. People will always say "family first" and "we understand you need to step back from YT" buts it's a very odd feeling from the inside. Because yes, duh, family is first, until you find yourself regularly editing videos at 3am and you realize you've been doing it for years and your like "what?!" I totally get it. Making videos hits all the same creative dopamine triggers that crafty people love PLUS the social media dopamine feedback loop, that is designed on purpose to keep us like hamsters on a wheel. But we are not hamsters. Trapped in a system that makes other people money at the expense of our happiness. This is all from a place of love and no judgement. I hope you can see that. For what it's worth, it has become really hard for me to post anything anymore. Still waiting for the spark to return but not holding my breath.

[@elainejudd4892]

Katie Cooks and Crafts - My husband says "Things start for one reason, and continue for another." That always makes me think about the "why" of things. I was building a business until I realized I have money, but no life. Life is better. Sounds like you are offering Whitney the voice of experience. And wisdom.

[@thesewingbratt966]

👋"HI !!" 👋 ADVICE: I formally worked at Directv in El Segundo, CA. The company one day had a Corporate meeting. The advice the CEO gave was: "In order to take care of DirecTV you have a couple things to do first. First you take care of yourself after you take care of yourself THEN you take care of your family. Once you take care of yourself and your family THEN you could take care everybody else!" You're no good to anyone if you are not taking care of yourself first." These are words that I have found to live by. Don't live life stressing you're way too young and beautiful. Do it because you enjoy it and not because of stress and pressure. 😊😉❤

[@andrewtopple6163]

Thank you for all you have done. It has been so very helpful to my wife and is much appreciated. Best wishes to you and your family for the future.

[@wildwoodholler]

I have been watching your videos for a very long time, and I've wondered how you managed to post every week. I'll miss your weekly videos but think it's great that you are taking time for your family and yourself. Enjoy every moment with your husband and kids....those are THE most important things. And enjoy working on all those projects you've had on the back burner for so long!

[@Penguinandpear]

Such a powerful, honest and truthful video that needed to be said. I dont have young children anymore but I do have chronic illness so can relate to not being able to do it all. I do wish people realised how much hard work videos are, esp sewalongs. I also rely on ad revenue to get by, it's not easy. Glad to hear you're not disappearing. Sorry about your website. I've given up on mine since youtube took off for me as I cant fit it all in but I'd like to get it going again.

[@giselahedz]

Take care of yourself and your family. They are your life. Your craft is only a part of it. I will be here to watch whenever you post. Besides, you have content that I go back to for inspiration and information all the time. Thank you for sharing your craft!

[@ragdollyally]

I’ve just had to do the same thing Whitney. It’s absolutely the right thing to do if things have taken over your life and you’ve lost control of how much it takes from you. Enjoy your family and thank you for all the wonderful videos you’ve made that are free for everyone to enjoy. Happy sewing, happy family, happy YOU xx

[@ellenrush9233]

Have to do what is best for you and your family. Will miss your tutorials. Be bless and no worries 😉❤️🙏

[@sm1lerno1]

I've not watched this video on purpose until I've been ready to sit down and listen to you as I knew it would be a biggie. You have been a massive inspiration to me, and when I got back into sewing 4 years ago, your tutorials were my best friend, so thank you for that. I absolutely get where you're coming from. Family must come first. Kids are not kids long enough to let the time go unnoticed. Life is short and happiness is a must. You actually sound positive in this video, and I love that. All the best Whitney, I'll still look out for any videos when you do post. Big hugs to you. X

[@bethanyabood9500]

It's okay Whitney. I've enjoyed seeing your face and getting inspiration for years. But I understand enjoy your family have some fun! We love you! #happysewing to you

[@johannaduck7264]

I discovered you during my surgery recovering in the last months. Your challenge to sew my stash was the best thing I could find, it was someway in my mind, but you turned it into words and challenge! The ideas in your FaceBook group are great inspirations for me! Your sincerity and honesty on the start of the challenge made me decide to go on work (only now my health allows me to sew again).During the process, I loved your each time more, and today you my admiration for you explodes of joy and happyness seeing you to choose you and your family on the highest level of priority. I can find other persons to inspire me, but your kids can´t find another mother special like you! God bless your decision and your life! Johanna, a brazilian ladybug!

[@thatssewlacey3480]

You’ve given so much of yourself and to us, it’s free. We are thankful for any tiny bit of knowledge you’ve given us, without us asking! You’ve helped so many people learn and grow (I literally use your memory bear video monthly) for no cost to us. You need to take care of yourself and we are so thankful for anything you’ve ever taught us!!! ❤️❤️

[@tinyandcharming]

Honestly I would like to see worklogs of the cosplays - not necessarily a tutorial but even if you filmed a timelapse and did a voiceover later that'd be great (if you could find a way to do it without worrying about the camera shutting off). There are lots of cosplayers who do this and sometimes it's just nice to have in the background. Alternatively you could even livestream it. Another idea would be to make the costumes/projects and then do a breakdown of them. Show the details, how it goes together and stuff like that which a lot of cosplayers do on their channels. You'd inadvertently be helping people because they might see how you did something and apply that to a costume of their own later. I've been following your channel for a very long time, and I would really like to see you do passion projects and seeing you get excited about them - a girl can only make so many bags before feeling stuck, and I think I speak for everyone when I say we want to see you happy and enjoying sewing.

[@mermaidmemoirs]

Same here

[@martarose2559]

I just found you 12/2023. I’ve been sewing for 60+ years, but I have learned some things from you. You take care of yourself. We’ll stick with you!

[@anneo3754]

I have been watching your videos for a couple of years now and have learned a lot about sewing. Take some time for yourself and family. If you feel like you need to post a video maybe do a rerun series of your favorite ones.

[@BratBustersParenting]

This is about personal growth: opting for private validation from loved ones rather than public validation from strangers. KZbin is just business ... that's it.

[@sherryflintosh6964]

Family is always first!! You do what you need to do!! I will still be tuning in whenever you are on!!

[@jaynerice6693]

awww...you do you girl! I'm in a struggle now too. so many projects I want to do but learning a new trade for financial support is dominating my time. so I get it! You've given so much of your time for us to watch these helpful videos and make learning to sew awesome! Thank you so very much for that!! Happy Sewing Days to you! Enjoy that family time because kids seriously grow fast!! We love you!! I mean...look at all these supporting comments!! WE LOVE YOU! Now Go Do You Girl!!

[@viclpz04]

I recently ran into your videos and am glad I did, I am not so good at sewing but was able to make a very nice bag thanks to you, once I move my sewing machine it takes me hours to just do a simple project so I understand you perfectly, I sew because I feel good creating something, I hope you feel better about your time off and your family should always be a priority, as others have mentioned we will support your decision, God bless you

[@daviskathi1233]

Do what ever you need to do for you and your family,you all come first!! I'm one that already knows how to sew and have been doing so for over 60 years.But i still watch you as i'm so impressed with someone your age doing so well in this field.So many young people i know ,don't venture into doing much of anything,besides chatting/playing on their phones,and i mean no offence to any youngsters out there.So as i said.i'm impressed with what you do and will tune in when ever and if you put up new videos.Best of luck to you in whatever you do,i'll keep you all in my thoughts and prayers.

[@marisah5724]

You have given so much and I am completely aware of how much work this requires. Post whenever you like. It is your channel and we are grateful for anything you feel like sharing. Wishing you happiness and thank you so much for everything.

[@gymerin]

Go create for yourself! Im sure you will be so much more refreshed when you decide to film again. Put you and your family first!💞💞

[@karenraabis5296]

My daughter is like you. Maybe even me, you put a lot of pressure on yourself. We appreciate that you share your talents with us. Take care of you and we will be here when you can.

[@helenshukla1126]

I totally understand that you need time for yourself and your family. I have enjoyed each and every video you have posted. Thank you so much. I have been working for close to 30 years in the IT field and I started sewing about 9 years ago - only when I had the time (and I love sewing). So "me time" is so so important. Enjoy that and see you whenever. :)

[@kacibeaty2001]

Do put family first and enjoy time for yourself. I'll be happy to watch your videos whenever you feel like doing one but I will be so happy knowing you are doing things that make you and your family have the life you want and deserve. Thank you for all the videos you've done and for just being a blessing in this world. Take care, laugh and follow your heart.

[@rsislandcrafts]

Ten years is a long time as a KZbinr. I know we say It all the time but there truly is a lot of behind the scenes work that goes into running a successful KZbin channel. That time has to come from somewhere. You’ve given so much to the sewing community over the past 10 years that you’ve more than earned some time off for yourself and your family. Do the things that bring you joy. We have 10 years worth of videos and tutorials that we can watch or rewatch.

[@ginmol53]

I'm actually surprised that this didn't come sooner. You have two small children who you want to home school and of course have family time. You have touched all of our lives - you are so appreciated - you are so wonderful - you need to have family time as well as time for yourself. Thank you for all that you do - I know it's a tough job. If you have to scale back on your priorities - that's what you have to do!! We will still be here whenever you have the opportunity to reach out to us again - so, don't stress over it - make sure you have fun in your life. Life is way too short to spend all of it working and not having fun. :-) :-) :-) :-)

[@prettysimplemusic]

We love you and support your decision to put your life first before our KZbin enjoyment!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@sarahf4768]

I totally get it, burnout stinks. Don't worry, we will all still be here and look forward to seeing the projects that you are excited about! Take your time and enjoy doing what you want to do!

[@madeleincoetzee5636]

Whitney, just take a break. You don't need to post so much. Your fans will understand. Why don't you just post what and when you want to. We will understand... Greetings from South Africa... Take all the time you need. It must be fun when it's not fun then you will know... I agree when fun is gone take a break. You need it.

[@jeanninej224]

Whitney I’m glad you are able step back and do what you need to do for yourself and your family. I just recently picked up sewing again and came across your channel. I had no idea you’ve been doing this for ten years! Breathe and relax for a while. We’ll be here when you’re ready.

[@casasdecampochacrawasi1155]

Hi Whitney. I have been following you for many years, almost the 10 and a half that you have been making videos. During this time, I have lived in Spain, the United States and Peru (my country) and I have always looked for time to follow your projects and do some of them. I have also become a mother in this period, in my case of 3 cute boys (the two oldest are contemporaries with your two girls). Like you, I have evolved professionally and definitely having a family completely disrupts our schedules, our priorities and the way we do things. Many times we forget ourselves, and when we become aware of it, the best thing we can do is to canalize the course of our life and DO WHAT IT PASSIONS US IN THE WAY WE LIKE IT. Do not do things to please others, to meet deadlines. The deadlines are a second phase. The first phase is planning and this should be in complete harmony with what makes us feel full, feel good about ourselves. You cannot transmit that enormous positive energy that you always project if you feel that you are running out. I admire your strength for sharing this video with your community and I wish you the best in this new direction that your communication with us, your followers, will take. When it makes you happy, I will be happy to see your new videos. My admiration for being the strong woman you are.

[@kathygilleyhelms4675]

You’re absolutely making the right decisions! Life flies by and the kids are grown and gone before you turn around so whatever you do don’t miss that! You have enough step by step videos that people can watch. Enjoy your life and your family, only you can do this. You’ll still have us watching...we didn’t even realize how much goes into making videos and have taken it for granted. 💕🙏🏻

[@barbyq10]

Whitney, the bottom line is that your family and you should always come first. I really do appreciate all that I have learned from you, but I don't want to learn anything at the expense of the true happiness of you and your family! Life is short and before you know it, your children will be older and will leave to go live their lives (as they should). So, go enjoy your time, your family and do what you can and when you can!!

[@cj6337]

Oh Whitney. Good for you. Taking care of yourself is so important. Thanks for speaking up being a voice for me to tell myself the same thing, Thanks for being an inspiration and I wish you the very best in all your future endeavors on an off camera. CJ :)

[@govidgordana2293]

You a wonderful person, take all the time you need❤️there is plenty of videos for us to learn from. All the best to you and your family 🤗

[@BeautifulThingscraftandsewing]

"My dishes are clean, thats nice" Oh bless you Whitney. Your babies will be adults before you know it. Sod the house and make the most of them. Post when you want to post and enjoy the process. You don't need the pennies so enjoy your family, your hobbies and just be you. The people that matter will still be there for you whether you post once a week or once a month. Yes that algorithm matters but all they want is consitency. Aim for once a month or fortnightly and if you film more, let it stack up so you are ahead of 'your' schedule. xx

[@ksharpe8137]

Your family SHOULD be your number one priority! Thank God you realized that before the kids were grown. I’ve loved watching your videos over the years and I’ve learned so much from them. God bless you and your precious family. ❤️

[@chrisa4925]

Enjoy sewing for your family and yourself!!! Thank you for a huge collection of videos to watch!

[@DebTallbroad]

I'm sad to hear that you have been feeling that way. Please do what is best for you and your family! We love you but want you to be happy!! 💗

[@debrasummerfield8795]

I want to thank you for all you have already shared with us all. You taught me to sew girl! I appreciate and respect your decision. Enjoy your time. You are right..if it doesn't make ya happy why do it!

[@kimberlyturner520]

Sounds like to me that you are growing and blooming. Sweetheart, we all have "stepping stones" in our lives where we figure out what matters most to us and yes you and your family needs to come first. Take care of you and yours first! These changes are beautiful and natural and part of our journeys. Don't feel bad about these changes. Enjoy your journey and be happy💛

[@lorrainepoulter6837]

You go girl , I am 67 years old my name is Lorraine I live in Australia and I have learnt so much from watching your videos i am a self taught sewer and make more mistakes then successes' i admire you for what you do may you have more time too spend with your children life is short i have had six heart attacks and a triple bypass my children have there own families they don' talk to me anymore so may god bless you and your family.

[@Wisea60]

Whitney, you have used your time, talents, and abilities to share with us and we all appreciate it! Enjoy and spend time with you and your family!!

[@MusicaAngela]

Follow your heart Whitney! You've given us SO much, do what is best for you and your family.

[@KarifyIt]

I love you, Whitney! Seriously, time moves so fast and the kids grow up too fast (speaking from experience since my kids are grown),take the time for you and your family! I love your videos and your instructions and seeing your pretty face, but when everything is said and done, what will matter is the memories you made with your family and also taking time to do the projects that you want to do without the added business pressure. As Ferris Bueller said: "Life moves pretty fast. If you don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it."

[@christinenewell4587]

When you are a busy person it's HARD TO SAY NO to 'things'....... The saying 'when you want something done for you ASK A BUSY PERSON' is VERY TRUE. But you have to learn to say NO to certain things. I'm 71, recovering from a stroke and have HAD TO SAY NO to certain things!!!! Thank God for his hand upon me on that awful day so I can still sew, knit, bake a good cake etc:). My speech is taking time and I'm not without problems but what I'm trying to say is....... Slow down, don't move too fast....you've got to make to this journey last😘. Making fun costumes for your family is MEGA NICE, so this tells you what is good for you. IF YOU ARE HAPPY👏👏👏👏👏THEN I'M HAPPY TOO.

[@krisscramer]

I only recently found you when I was searching for a tutorial on making a fabric basket. Your instructions were so awesome. Straight to the point and in less than 10 minutes I learned something new in an easy to understand tutorial. Now I found this video and I feel for you! That feeling of commitment and hard work over 10-1/2 years, the overwhelming feeling of starting over, and the realization that you need time for you and your family. Step back and enjoy what you love the most! Your new prospective will guide you and you will find the balance that works. Best wishes!!

[@victoriacarswell3097]

Yippee for you. It is true that if what you do no longer makes you happy you become miserable. When you post it is nice to see joy and excitment and it is sad to see you cry. This though is a common trauma of working Moms to realize that you have given so much to work that you neglect your husband, children and my goodness the home. You fortunately are in a self employed type of situation to give your family more time while they are still young and I say, Do It! We will be here. Not going anywhere. Work on those things for your husband and yourself and we will see when you feel you want to share. I think you should plan a bubble bath for this weekend. You deserve it.

[@virginiaanthony8599]

I have been sewing for over 60 years. There have been times I have had to take time off. I am new to viewing your videos and have enjoyed them. You do need to take time for your family . I hope you enjoy your much needed time off.

[@denisebendickson8593]

Your family is the MOST IMPORTANT in our life and you need to do what you have to that makes you guys happy. You have given 10 years of your life to others and now its time to take time for you. We all love everything you have given all of us. My hat is off to you. When your kids are little it might have been a little easier but when they get older and are into other things it gets harder and harder. You need to make yourself happy and your family happy. I did learn to sew from you when i started my journey of sewing crafty things this past year and i so appreciate you and all you have done. I loved your videos because you are one of the few who make videos from start to finish and axrually show your work step by step. I am a visual learner and i need those videos and it has given me confidence to continue to my journey. I so appreciate you making these videos. You go an enjoy your costume making and your family adventures that are in store for you. Costume making is not silly and if it is what your famlly loves do it. Post some pictures of your costumes when they are done. would love to see them... We love you and want you to be happy and enjoy what you are doing. DO NOT FEEL BAD, Cant wait to see you again in whatever you have time to share with us..

[@brendak5486]

Oh Sweetheart! You deserve to put you and your family first - no matter what! Live life with joy and happiness! I love the part when you talked about your priorities and pleasing others by doing what was expected of you, but not doing what you actually wanted to do to make yourself happy. I work for one of our Government offices and right now I'm considered an essential employee that has to work but my DH is not, so he is at home everyday, alone. With our continuing Covid-19 Virus, his many health issues does not allow him to leave home very often and we are terrified that I will bring the virus in to him, even though we take every precaution. Unfortunately, I am the only one that does my job and I've felt the pressure from my Directors by going in to work, because they've made me feel like it was a priority. Your video has opened my eyes and made me realize that my husband is my priority - not my job. I've been thinking for a while about telling them that I just can't do it anymore, but haven't taken that final step yet. Your words of wisdom have made me see how wrong I've been and I'm so very thankful to have 'found you' this evening. You have been a real blessing and it truly touched my heart. Prayers for you and your family .

[@pamelabagwell4190]

We will take you whenever we can get you!! Your face lights up when you talk about your family and doing things for yourself! Go for it! Your family grows so fast and priorities definitely change. You will never regret the time invested in your family. Thank you for all you have done to encourage us!

[@maryandrulewicz4981]

I appreciate you sharing your faith and all your hard work. I love sewing projects. Thank you and God bless you!

[@sewgatormomm]

You do you! Life's too short to stress about this. There are so many of your videos out there for people to catch up on and learn/enjoy. If you never put out another video, you've accomplished and contributed so much and should be proud of it.

[@Jgiu8909]

This is why I never want to turn my sewing into a job. I feel like I wouldn't enjoy it as much anymore. Good for you for realizing you need to step back.

[@Autsom57]

Whitney, love all your videos. You are a wise woman to make your family first. I did that 30 yrs ago and my family loves me for it. When ever you have a video I will watch. Blessings upon blessings to you and your family.

[@GrammaPatriot]

Thank you so much for the time you take to put a video up for us. I got exhausted just listening to what all you have to do to post a video! Just know that we viewers do appreciate you. I have learned a lot from you and others here on YT, and just enjoy doing so. God bless you and please do whatever is in your heart.

[@TheAAdele05]

I think that KZbin serviced it's purpose for you at the time you needed it to. It's great that you realized you are able to, and needed to shift your priorities to you and your family. This is a VERY important journey in your life! EMBRACE IT! I am happy for you!❤️. I am literally a new follower of yours and will continue to be! BLESSINGS! 😊

[@SusanSelk]

Everyone needs to recharge. No hurry Whitney.

[@nskkhan]

Your family, your health/sanity and your happiness comes first.. I have learnt a lot from your videos.. About 9 years ago I started having pain in my lower back and my leg.. I was diagnosed with slipped discs.. while being treated for that I couldn’t work and was stuck at home.. I found your channel and started sewing.. Bought myself a sewing machine and made soo many of your projects as gifts for family.. 3 years ago I was diagnosed with AS (Ankylosing Spondylitis).. Life has changed.. I’m now a disabled person and I can’t do a normal job.. so my hobbies have now become my work.. And all your hard work has helped me soo much.. It’s time for you to put yourself first.. To put your family first.. Post when you can post.. I will follow you on Instagram and look forward to your happy family photos and you personal project photos.. Thank you Soo soo soo much for being an inspiration and for all your hard work.. Will be praying for your happiness, health and peace of mind.. Love from London UK 🥰😘😍 Nadia xxx

[@emmymiester60]

You've done so much and brought so many people together and it's time for a break! We love you and will always be here to support you ❤

[@carolyngethings]

My darling girl.. You popped up on my feed for the first time today and I watched your video. As a beginner, I love watching videos/tutorials from experienced sewists. You all have so much to teach me but I don't expect this at the expense of your family time, 'your time' and your love of life! I look forward to watching your back catalogue and will be truly grateful for any future videos. It seems you are not alone in this field as several others I subscribe to have decided to get more of a balance between KZbin life and real life! And that's fine....absolutely fine. I'm 62yrs old and a retired nurse and one thing I have learned is that time is very precious. Allow yourself to enjoy it. Every moment.

[@denisej4522]

You expressed yourself so well, Whitney. Your authenticity is such a gift. Thanks for the wisdom you shared. I'm glad you're able to make choices that better support your priorities at this stage of your life. We'll be here whenever you return!

[@elainejudd4892]

It takes courage to change. You are a lovely person, and you have taught this older lady a thing or two about sewing! I love your content, but you are wise to recognize it is time to make changes. Those children don't stay children for very long. Youth is fleeting, and family life won't wait. (Ask me how I know.) I took a few moments to read comments and it looks to me like your community loves you and wants what is best for you. Post when you feel inspired to post, and let the rest take care of itself. Go. Enjoy that family! God bless!

[@maryannnewsham7714]

Whitney you spoke from the heart and we all understand and respect what you're choosing to do. You and your family need to come first. When you're ready to make a new tutorial I'll be here to go and watch it. Hugs and prayers to you.

[@SusieCowan]

I’ve just now found your channel and love your teaching HOWEVER, you and your family are first! Your children will be grown and gone sooner than you’d like. Then if you want to spend time doing this you can…..until grandchildren come along! Be happy!!