How a Sex Party Actually Works | Informer

[@VICE]

WATCH NEXT: “I Would Imagine Bodies Burning In the Water”, a Shell Insider Speaks Out - kzbin.info/www/bejne/q3XYonyIhM2qkJI

[@katananana]

diddy

[@jackalproductions4629]

diddy?

[@isaid1218]

Bodies burn literally in Hell in the end, so no imagination will be required then.

[@annalisa14]

@@isaid1218 Hell is right here. On earth 🌍

[@cheyennealvis8284]

Look up Isaac Kappy and you’ll learn everything about these people.

[@truthseeker9945]

When I go to a party I just end up eating cake in the corner and talking to strangers about my holiday plans.

[@milascave2]

A lot of people do.

[@theonlychild4719]

Much better

[@christinemerritt974]

That’s my preference for a party. Food and drinks and wholesome small talk. Some laughter.

[@khweziza5397]

Oh yay! You're so virtuous!

[@christinemerritt974]

@@khweziza5397 yes. It feels good to not need to wear a rubber mask when I want to talk about my lifestyle.

[@hangoutwithme346]

‘It’s a space where people can really convince themselves that they are ok with things that they are not.’ Interesting observation.

[@athens31415]

Self-Gaslighting.

[@kubli365]

sounds like polyamorous youtube

[@ManuMiAS]

uh sounds like church and real life

[@rainbowodysseybyjonlion]

Sounds like forcing yourself into wickedness for the sake of public approval even if you feel bad about it. Ive felt this with sexual partners in the past. Truly sickening and anti humane.

[@athens31415]

@@rainbowodysseybyjonlion I suspect the "public" in "public approval" are groups of sociopaths and their ilk that these people associate with to make themselves feel better. Some people are desperate to "keep up with the Joneses", even if the Joneses are crooks and psychos. It's terrible. It's like being in a Cult.

[@rafadydkiemmacha7543]

This is what you become when you have too much. You can't appreciate anything that's not extreme anymore. It's actually sad, because the worth comes from how we perceive it. People who are happy having little are the luckiest ones.

[@combattheoutlawstar8441]

Well said

[@silvia-c7n]

indeed, this is a horror scene for anyone with a normal basic human compass, apparently its lacking in this person,...

[@cbrouma8014]

Yes its called desensitization and its used on the general public every day through t v and movies that why most people have no emotional response to shocking events anymore

[@Xinjiekou_新街口_Station]

@@cbrouma8014 Need to RESET.

[@edwardochavez1072]

Desensitized: I've pretty much done everything under the sun with women (NO KIDS: however you define)6, even get beaten, that thought of finding someone to live and accompany through the rest of our lives HORRIFIES me. I'm 43

[@melmel7881]

Imagine the STDs being passed around , both sexually and spiritually. Be safe out there.

[@Pllayer064]

They'd probably get sued and shut down if they don't require a paper from the clinic from their clients

[@JohnGaltShadow]

@@Pllayer064 in my experience and knowledge, they don’t require that

[@algore4u]

​@@Pllayer064 I've been to multiple sex parties before as an observer. They definitely don't check that ever

[@MCorrigan]

​@@Pllayer064😂 I don't know where you're from, but in The UK swinger clubs don't ask for any proof of clear STD's. They sell condoms, and also recommend you bring your own, but that's it.

[@AC-nw8cq]

Doxypep is out now. Reduces STDs transmission rates as much as 50% for syphilis and gono, and 88% for chlamydia.

[@reallyhappenings5597]

I'd rather walk on the beach with someone I love

[@fortniteplayer2798]

Then get tf outta here 😂

[@KatharinaK117]

❤

[@user-vl2mf5sy4b]

These parties happen!!!!!

[@Newyorkburger1111]

@@fortniteplayer2798”fortnite player” bro go do your homework 😂😂😂😂😂

[@fortniteplayer2798]

@@Newyorkburger1111 I already finished it! 😝

[@offthegrid01]

I've known a number of swingers in my life. From my observations, they have been either sex/porn addicts or extremely broken individuals.

[@TheSmartLawyer]

Democrats

[@simonesirois9653]

Trump

[@FOXYNYLA]

Dysfunctional or partners who don’t want to have sex with their spouse anymore.

[@goodmorningsundaymorning4533]

Broken, diseased, and empty. NPC's with no moral compass.

[@voosum]

Yes.

[@Yoshimetzen]

Honestly, just sounds like a lot of effort for hedonism

[@PresidentKamalaHarris.]

Yeah like the Japanese culture isn’t known for that. You hypocrite

[@m.w.1759]

We can only hope

[@dorobo81]

then it's not hedonism, all this sounds pretty awful.

[@neoxyte]

I'm happy just having one partner to give all my love to. These people seem genuinely unhappy.

[@SPINNINGMYWHEELS777]

it's not effort for the bored zionist elite that produce this garbage. he didn't mention the children involved.

[@ZekeBriarcliff]

Every swinger I've known was about as attractive as the average employee at the DMV. They tend to have dull personalities and a real needy energy about them.

[@WiLLy2xs]

No lies detected 😂 I know two ✌ couples that use to be in these clubs and they asked me and my partner at the time if we were interested and it was a big no. I definitely would've been the one losing out in the situation.

[@NoahNobody]

Yep same here. Some ugly couple wanting to get my wife interested. @@WiLLy2xs

[@cmh9932]

Agreed most if not all people that I've met in those lifestyles we're old unattractive with off-putting personalities. It probably has to do with where I live though. Florida is where America's old people go to live their best life before they die. The Villages being a perfect example not the only example however, it's everywhere.

[@tomondiek2839]

most women in their 40s clinging onto youth

[@ZekeBriarcliff]

@@cmh9932 Florida is America's syphilitic wang, after all... ;)

[@miramiraseoul]

Who’s here after the P’diddy case??

[@TannerGoated]

P Diddy is innocent another Rich man black trying get brung down smh just like they MJ and bill Cosby 🤦🏻‍♂️

[@nataliee.237]

🌚🌝

[@CHUTlYA]

Ryan Garcia was right

[@TylerCSmith-fs2nu]

Lol me but may God bless these poor souls may he break them free from the temptation of thr devil may he flee from righteousness an may wickedness flee from sinners may sinners repent an change from this lifestyle

[@Djoga100]

you came to the wrong place, they don't talk about children here

[@jeansherwood2428]

One of the best vacations I ever had was to Birmingham. No orgies or sex involved, but lots else to do, some lovely art, aquarium, pen museum.

[@hswonderX]

Lmao

[@gdimond2060]

Congrats lol

[@Leckyinx]

Okay? Ahah

[@Pllayer064]

My best vacation was not going to Birmingham.

[@iwanfishz9]

I thought Birmingham was a shithole and everyone that live in it woke up daily feeling piss off

[@AwokenEntertainment]

this is a lifestyle that I'm happy to know very little about..

[@jamess6719]

Well you sound boring

[@reybeltran1209]

​@@fundifferent1Your sexualized brain just can't imagine watching a KZbin video without touching yourself lol

[@jackalope_hunter]

@@jamess6719 butthurt old swinger detected

[@jackalope_hunter]

@@fundifferent1 found the 60 year old snowflake

[@g.h.7661]

@@fundifferent1😂😂😂

[@melanieporter9607]

There’s a difference between being “sexually open” and being a true sex addict…

[@Maria-EU]

100%

[@Jake66564]

Talking about that woman who was uncomfortable knowing her partner was next to her with someone else is pretty sad. Power to people genuinely enjoying it, but it seems like many folks are just traumatizing themselves

[@perseusrex614]

she felt sad..... as she was under someone else "playing". what a dumbarse...

[@michaelmcfadden1622]

Can't be good for you mentally

[@maximilianomadrigal6661]

I mean wasn't that person literally having sex with someone else at the exact same moment? That was a laughable example

[@paparoach007]

@@maximilianomadrigal6661 the girl was having sex with someone else at the exact same moment but from what it sounds like she wasn't enjoying the experience but also watching her boyfriend railing another bird in front of her probably made her feel even worse. Like my uncle used to say (he was a heavy swinger back in his days) "swingers clubs are meant for single people, not for couple's therapy" lmao and it's so true. I hear it time and time again of couples fighting or breaking up because they wanted to experience other ways of exciting themselves sexually and it all goes tits up (pun intended ironically) on their first experience. I've personally been to a few when I was single and it was a lot of fun and it healed me from my break up with my ex because she cheated on my 3 times with people we knew for years the smelly cow.

[@becky2235]

​@paparoach007 sorry she done that to you. Love youre user name though lol

[@livinagoodlife]

I’ve got zero desire to mix with the kind of people that are into this

[@Alexxx492]

No less risky than modern hook-up culture 😅

[@livinagoodlife]

@@Alexxx492 it’s not about risk. It’s the general sleaziness of it. At least with hookups there is generally some conversation leading into it than just making eye contact with someone and gesturing for their dick to enter you

[@clericaltotalitarian]

@@Alexxx492 That is also gross and should also be illegal.

[@Alexxx492]

@@clericaltotalitarian Yeah, adults shouldn't be able to have sex with other adults!!! Hahaha

[@clericaltotalitarian]

@@Alexxx492 Not that, i said hook-up culture.

[@yoshifarm]

im sorry ik this is a serious video. but i swear on my life i got an ad for the diddy documentary before this.

[@vibemasterkorosu2469]

Full Diddy

[@danielletopping2763]

Brought to you by Baby Oil!

[@msimon6808]

@@danielletopping2763 And Big Oil!!! Think of the rigs.

[@torgo_]

This sounds like something from a nightmare.

[@Erica-cf1xb]

The monkey life is a nightmare where they are the hero coming to save the day by jumping into the freak off. But she didn't mean to. Lol

[@stoiccrane4259]

@@Erica-cf1xb I mean, religious texts call this type of behavior wicked for a reason. In their own eyes these people think they're good and upright but in reality their ways are twisted.

[@g.h.7661]

@@Erica-cf1xbis this english

[@jamminjoe44]

Someone elses nightmare, is another persons paradise.

[@BedroomBull]

@@stoiccrane4259 Not true. In esoteric traditions sex orgies are permitted. In any event, If you can control someones sex drive, you control their whole life.

[@JoeNielsen44]

I cant begin to imagine the STINK of those "get togethers". 🤢🤮

[@EvySurvived]

Whatever you do don't sit on the furniture

[@godrules3596]

Ass juice, body odor and fish smell 🤮😂😂😂

[@tenorly]

A late friend of mine, who worked for Hugh Hefner in New York in around 1966-70 (and attended a number of his orgies), said the same thing. And that the men with small wieners (usually the majority) would sometimes become hostile if they saw you were packing.

[@doriangray7723]

Right! And all the Christians are targeting homosexual sin. Sexual immorality abounds and we need to call all sin out, so that the sinner might repent and know Christ and not perish.

[@northernking2604]

Ewww

[@mau345]

As a big introvert, knowing people do this for “fun” is bonkers to me. Hell na

[@redzula5665]

So it's basically like playing a sick game of twister but after your done you are covered in body fluids with a stranger loose pubic hairs tangled with your owns.

[@PresidentKamalaHarris.]

And?

[@arfriedman4577]

These people that do this don't mind it. They're having a good time.

[@jsbmx2039]

So gross

[@vivalapita8484]

...that's......that's the point

[@heymansowhat]

​@@PresidentKamalaHarris. And well you will most likely have a std, even if condoms are used. Things like gonorrhea, syphilis, chlamydia, HPV can all be transferred very easy even wearing condoms, also from oral/kissing/saliva. Not to mention there is no test or cure for HPV and can cause cancer.

[@SIGSEGV1337]

i think the correct term is 'superspreader event'

[@PresidentKamalaHarris.]

Yup popularized by unmasked trump rallies

[@ursulatroxler7428]

I agree

[@handlemonium]

Happening to be a carrier of COVID would make it even more so xD :P

[@SIGSEGV1337]

@@handlemonium imagine getting gonorrhea, herpes, covid and the flu in the same day

[@pymrhap]

​@@handlemoniumcovid is probably one of the least concern

[@sairax132]

This sounds like. really demonic and satanistic experience....

[@swampsprite9]

Satan isn't real.They just sound mentally sick.

[@kbanghart]

I think you're describing a Trump rally

[@proseyootoob]

@@kbanghartI can’t think of anything bad that’s ever happened at a Trump really except the CIA (now a bunch of atheist f at lezzies and pha ggitz) trying to shoot him but God averted it. I remember that. There’s even an everlasting photo of it. I can’t remember anything bad at a Kamala or Joe rally because they’ve never had one nor could they. Let me know if you need any more help figuring out reality. Will E Braun.

[@jackward770]

@@kbanghart How is that remotely relevent.

[@kbanghart]

@@jackward770 because Trump is demonic. Duh.

[@froogsleegs]

yeah I love swinging. it's [describes trauma, abuse and discomfort for six minutes]

[@youtubeillegallydeletesacc1525]

Lol.

[@doingtime20]

I've no doubt in my mind some of the saddest people attend these 'parties'. Kindoff like that Black Mirror episode where people in a club try hard to feel anything through hedonism.

[@Markussiemens658]

absolutly my thoughts bud

[@Unmaleable]

Typically women in their 40s whose husband have erectile dysfunction. I'm with a married 47 year old chick now that admitted it to me. I have hard suspicions she's a swinger. Because of the locations she goes for vacation. She also likes going on cruises which are filled with swingers. Stay away from chicks that like going on cruises without you.

[@mystrugle900]

100% people with major self esteem issues, personality disorders, drug problems and depression.

[@khanabychkova5265]

What episode is this?

[@doingtime20]

@@khanabychkova5265 San Junipero if I'm not mistaken.

[@tonrobert3391]

“Childhood trauma subtly shapes and manifests in profound ways throughout adulthood, leaving lasting impressions that ripple through our lives.”

[@GoonerBuller]

The mask wasn't for disguise. She just came straight from the club... Edit: she

[@j.a.pimentel7265]

you mean she

[@galaxsee]

You can see it's a woman

[@austinbaer5559]

@@galaxseeyou mean a gay man?

[@galaxsee]

@@austinbaer5559 no, no, woman for sure. You can see the moves. And what she says also. No man would say things like this.

[@ahsanaslam9718]

It’s a she

[@CosplayHeroUnite]

I used to be with someone who was very much into that scene. They said they were polyamorous (and I am not, they said they were going to be exclusive to me), but they continued to go to kink clubs and pressure me to go with them all the time because it’s their lifestyle and I should partake into things they like. I was never comfortable with the idea of “sharing”, being touched by others, or watching others do things. I feel as though in those situations, it is not “Don’t knock it if you hadn’t tried it”. That doesn’t apply here. Long story short, they came back home one night and got de dressed for bed, and They were COVERED in bite marks, hickies, and they smelt like other people (that particular sweaty smell that’s mixed with other stuff). They told me they wouldn’t, and they did. I packed my bags a week after and moved away I found out the caught HSV and are still going to those clubs to this day. So I dodged a major bullet. Some clubs done check for STDs and people don’t care…

[@Farieclau]

I broke up with my polyamorous ex 2 years ago. He was constantly seeing girls for sex we went on holiday and he’ll browse tinder trying to score a girl for us to have a threesome. He even brought one girl home while I was there and I could hear everything in the other room. I had to break up with him didn’t want to but it had me feeling unloved.

[@Silvermoonscorpion]

Your first red flag was that you both were incompatible and yet, you manged to convince yourself it could work. Why? You hurt you more than they did by not trusting yourself.

[@jmwmusic]

I’m curious, did this person have any STDs going to these conventions a lot?

[@alexandratrethewey7465]

@@Silvermoonscorpionhit the nail on the head. They both fucked up by thinking it could work. Also HSV could be cold sores which majority of the population have even if they’re asymptomatic (and most of the population aren’t swingers….)

[@kbanghart]

​@@SilvermoonscorpionAnd they still dodged a bullet as they said.

[@bLAH829]

Coming from a person who can’t grasp the concept of DTF lifestyle, I don’t know why but when I hear stories like these I feel so much better about myself. I feel like we should protect our integrity at all costs and it’s one thing we have complete control over because otherwise… how could you feel good inside and able to have “love & peace” within yourself, be able to close your eyes and go to sleep without feeling like scum? Integrity means a lot, it’s tied to your reputation.. but anyway.

[@Puuws]

dignity more them integrity but yes agree, these people are long numb to shame

[@doctorfresh3856]

Or maybe "these people" don't think like you and don't care or see things like shame the way you do. They just want to do what they want and not be judged for it. 🤷

[@bLAH829]

@ You do you then. Don’t let my opinion of such people bother ya.

[@762mm7]

People are free to do as they please but I guarantee these practices catch up with you and leave you broken

[@NattyByNature-]

Thank you!

[@Erica-cf1xb]

Who gonna catch them if everyone is wearing a white mask? That's snitching and against the rules.

[@guillaumem9953]

*will…

[@krisgrym]

Broken?why?

[@dlilinger]

@@krisgrymbecause it shameful and not good for your mental and physical health.

[@Henchman_Holding_Wrench]

2:55 Perhaps "itch" wasn't the best word to use in such a topic. LOL

[@zaakzaakk3280]

Its actually very accurate

[@paparoach007]

I thought that as well lmao. When she said "I got an itch" I thought I bet you f*cking have xD

[@maloneaqua]

Ya that’s when the color grading changed for me

[@stoiccrane4259]

@@maloneaqua A slave to sexual impulse. Like a dog barking at a car.

[@JudgeyJudgeyable]

Yup the story did not go in the direction I expected

[@LukaMav15]

This is what I call a soul-destroying activity. You go in and you don’t come out the same. A big part of your soul dies.

[@heilerko9349]

Thinking you live a fulfilling life but in actuality it's a hollow existence

[@MarcusSandoval-kx2th]

No it ain't 😡

[@deargodwhy9718]

​@@MarcusSandoval-kx2thDamn Elmo you scary. I'm shitting myself in fear

[@KaileyArmstrong-po8wv]

Hurts, doesn’t it.

[@thelamergamer1894]

@@KaileyArmstrong-po8wv What? Shitting himself in fear?

[@rune.theocracy]

@@MarcusSandoval-kx2th damn who set your ass on fire elmo 😭

[@justonemori]

I, at 21, had the opportunity to take a free cruise with a couple buds. There was literally dozens of offers to swing. Every single person was at least double our age, some triple. The smiles on the husbands faces while they talked about it was some of the creepiest stuff ever. Some of the wives had the persona of lets get this over with to make him happy and get on with our lives. Looking back it was hilarious.

[@theNash619]

So how was the swinging?

[@wayfaringstranger8430]

Where do we sign up, don't be stingy.

[@iLoveTheBamx]

​@@wayfaringstranger8430hedonism cruise. You're welcome.

[@iLoveTheBamx]

​@@wayfaringstranger8430also look up any lifestyle resort or lifestyle cruise.

[@adamsmith1813]

Lmao what cruise line?

[@CoreyRiley-kg7pj]

Here to hear about these “freak off’s”

[@BartholomewFrederickTheThird]

Diddy party

[@irimiaradu-silviu5764]

"Eyes Wide Shut" was a documentary. Change my mind.

[@kenofken9458]

That movie was silly AF to those of us in the actual swinging lifestyle.

[@rexwoodard793]

@@kenofken9458was it super immaculate?

[@LuigioMacchio777]

Yes, a documentary about pedoelite, not swingers

[@sableann4255]

about the folks in D C

[@Silvermoonscorpion]

​@@kenofken9458and out of it.. 😊

[@SquareTableDegenerates]

2:30 Imagine putting "Orgy Monitor" on a job app😂

[@92bagder]

Sound hilarious I imagine a referee with a whistle tossing yellow or red flags

[@The_Quaalude]

Where do I apply ⁉️

[@PresidentKamalaHarris.]

@@92bagderif you showed up to one of those parties I’m sure we would laugh you out the room

[@PresidentKamalaHarris.]

@@The_Quaaludeare you promoting harmful substances in your username?

[@meterano7]

@@PresidentKamalaHarris. yes

[@TheMetallicSharpie]

The irony that this was the chillest one - way more chill than "rich kids volunteering", flight attendants, and hotel managers.

[@starzintheskyz4477]

I've had many opportunities to join a group orgy but have never had the desire to act on it. To me sex is a spiritual experience that should be respected and shared with your soulmate or twin flame. I think it would be spiritual exhausting sharing your partner with so many other people, and then taking on their energy afterwards. I think people who are non-monogamous end up forgetting how to have that true connection with their primary partner, cause sex is so tainted, and that's the only dynamic of a relationship they have is just based around sex.

[@kenofken9458]

I've had many opportunities to join in a group orgy too. And I took every single one of them!🤣😁

[@nellieshoals]

This would just apply to swingers, not all non-monogamous people.

[@kenofken9458]

True, although there is considerable overlap these days. Plenty of us who have poly relationships also participate in swinging.

[@chrispekel5709]

I'd love to do it but I'm too self conscious about my small man boobs, which I have despite not really being particularly overweight (I need to lose about 5kg apparently), so I'll never do it

[@nothinbutms]

losing connection with self through the process too?

[@Frank_Nemo]

I searched KZbin for a 3D printed Stanley Cup and this popped up in my feed!

[@handlemonium]

That's what I would bring to the club.

[@Jenjin1313]

😂😂😂😂

[@Cloudnine2024]

Some videos are pushed into your feed because of paid promotion. VICE is paying to get this video to show up in everyone's feed from a certain age, geographic region, etc.

[@theonlinecrunch7874]

it pooped up?

[@handlemonium]

@@theonlinecrunch7874Well I bet there's definitely poop involved sometimes......unintentionally 😏

[@johnwatson3948]

I remember a reality show a few years ago where rapper Ice Cube was walking through some dark empty rooms where a sex party had taken place, and commented: “could sure use an air-freshener in here”.

[@乂]

I've always been curious about the dynamics of swinger parties. It's fascinating to see different perspectives and experiences.

[@Alexxx492]

You should check out the FetLife life style groups if you're interested

[@Ameraca]

how you got 6 mil

[@BillyJack85]

Yea sin is super interesting

[@penewoldahh]

​@@chris64kbots cant make a question like this on a video like this without much human interaction

[@penewoldahh]

Smart gadgets warehouse

[@chasti5754]

It just makes me feel sick and sad and I want to cry. It is not about what is normal or not, it is about people changing value of love and intimacy to value of unlimited sex... hard to put my thoughts together, but it feels and sounds wrong.

[@kenofken9458]

There's a very easy solution to your dilemma: Don't get involved with it if it's not your thing.

[@drwho9319]

@@kenofken9458there’s a better solution, making this illegal to avoid issues.

[@goodcompany6494]

@@kenofken9458 Gee, such sage advice. AKA no sh*t. 🙄

[@lugi25]

​@@kenofken9458gross. Why bother commenting and trying to defend this abomination

[@DoubleGigaNiga]

exactly

[@Nirrini]

Who’s here after Diddy?

[@n9nesoldecodes642]

Theres literally a few ppl we can all think of who: 1. outright own super yachts 2. can book the fanciest of hotels np (and do weird things in those rooms...yuck) 3. Frequent Sex Parties $75K/year (minimum) 4. Also are mega rich + have publically "clean" images Vice does a great job shedding light on the more lascivious versions of life and the folks w/ money that frequent those sides.

[@paparoach007]

Sexual experiences like swinging/swingers clubs have been happening for millennia, sex was a very popular commodity back in the days of the Roman Empire, Victorian Era etc.. because it allowed the poorer people in societies to earn a living. These days mainly in America sex has become far too expensive and more dangerous. In Amsterdam's Red Light District it used to be around $80-$120, now it's at $180-350 depending on where you go. Sex is a natural thing for us to do and appreciate but these days all of it has changed and not in a good way.

[@stoiccrane4259]

@@paparoach007 It's people who perverted it.

[@missbraindamage]

​@stoiccrane4259 people "perverted" swinging?? Pretty sure it was already perverted 😂

[@RisetoStrength]

@@paparoach007 I'm afraid your way of looking at it is false. There are consequences to women that enjoy sex, and rewards for men that do the same.

[@getfreemazes]

thank you for that ancient goat-enjoyer wisdom

[@TonyStark-ld6nq]

Finally!!!!!! After a longtime VICE is back again, with it's "INFORMER" series.

[@partysmoke]

It’s a reupload

[@aubreytraverse.]

damn @@partysmoke

[@loveiswhatmattersmost7572]

This is why God burned the city of Sodom and Gomorrah. People had take a look around and realize that we're living in the end times and repent of their sins because God isn't playing around anymore. Those still living in sin will be left behind and conditions will be horrific.

[@msimon6808]

I believe he burned those cities because of the child abuse that caused the deviance. If he was punishing the victims - that is wrong.

[@loveiswhatmattersmost7572]

@ God would never punish a victim.

[@Bitingsherbertlemons]

Amen❤.

[@NateSmith87]

There are no boundaries effectively through communication in these areas. Too many conflicting parts, people, emotions, mind state..etc. just like these polygamous relationships. Always conflicts in those relationships. Jealously, spite, manipulation, greed, anger...all the worst emotions come out and that's how people get hurt for seeking pleasure with strangers.

[@Alexxx492]

Polyamory is about breaking down the walls we've built around sex and romance and finally understanding how wide-ranging and encompassing our relationships truly are.

[@DianaRivea]

100% agree

[@monicaa2176]

That’s what you think. For others it’s a safe space practicing what they want in a safe environment

[@JohnnyBoyDaily]

As someone who’s a decently attractive and has been approached for said “parties” I can honestly say that sounds like an absolute horrid time and nothing I wanna be apart of.. a bunch of effort just to defile yourself

[@sableann4255]

same, I actually had a 'friend' and her husband (which he's somewhat famous) won't say who he is.....hint that they were swingers, and hinted at asking if was, um, awkward

[@JohnnyBoyDaily]

@@sableann4255 yeh eff that noise

[@rorri2372]

Lust is the worst thing in the entire world

[@Puuws]

its not but I get what you mean

[@Ujemaima]

No, greed is.

[@bee7237]

Eyes wide shut

[@PresidentKamalaHarris.]

Fiction movie with fake settings. Conspiracy theory

[@newsystem420]

Movie based on a true events💀

[@komradestahlin8795]

Was just thinking about that

[@PabloVelasco-hr3ko]

Epstiens case begs to differ, plus the following cover up on clientele@@PresidentKamalaHarris.

[@jgotti2042]

Only difference is that Eyes wide shut was a pedo thing with reference to underage kids.

[@mondogecko3279]

Just imagine the smell after awhile😳

[@PresidentKamalaHarris.]

Like a gym or any other place with large body of people. Try going to a GameStop or anime convention.

[@Zach0451]

@@PresidentKamalaHarris. You've never had sex have you

[@CornPopWazABadDude]

🤢🤮

[@oohweeoohwee9222]

@@PresidentKamalaHarris. Lol

[@PresidentKamalaHarris.]

@@oohweeoohwee9222same with trump rallies

[@VonBettie]

It’s interesting that this is an informer episode; sounds like a normal weekend here in Portland. But the inner workings are interesting! We have many public and private swinger / play party venues.

[@cbrad-eo6nt]

Treating sex this way shares a lot of parallels with shooting up larger and larger methamphetamine doses because the dose you used to take is dull like water.

[@aiojcxs0932czxlkm]

detox every now and then

[@the_whetherman]

The combination of the mask, the tone of the informer’s voice, their accent, and speaking cadence/rhythm that makes this audio totally incomprehensible to me. There’s nothing wrong with their voice; it’s the combination of factors that makes them sound like Charlie Brown’s teacher.

[@stefanostokatlidis4861]

The voice is intentionally messed up in order not to like it. This is feminism for you.

[@veritas4364]

@@stefanostokatlidis4861 WTF

[@Edis12121]

​@@stefanostokatlidis4861 whaat?😂

[@missbraindamage]

​@@stefanostokatlidis4861what 😂

[@NotMaxr3fund]

​@@stefanostokatlidis4861 Bro???

[@jonathancasillas218]

When you have no objective morality you can justify doing horrible acts in the name of living your best life

[@kenofken9458]

We see that with JD Vance every day.

[@Puuws]

this isnt about morals so much when you watch consent and safety but dignity is def at stake I feel

[@SneakyG59]

the image randomly turning into negative with part of what he said in big font became increasingly funny when it emphasized things like "WHOLE RESORTS" and "UNWANTED 24/7 SEX" lmao.

[@chrispekel5709]

It's a she

[@biancawilloughby9980]

I just found the whole thing boring.

[@-Opiate-]

To each their own i suppose, but all of this is fucking disgusting honestly. Not to mention the emotional damage and baggage that inevitably ensues for people engaging in this sort of sexual promiscuity and debauchery.

[@stoiccrane4259]

Yes, brother. A twisted degradation of life for cheap thrills and dopamine spikes. Imagine all of the good these people could actually direct their attention and resources to instead of living to disperse their own filth and fluid among strangers. Especially the hyper-affluent with the material wealth of nations. To whom much is given much is expected and they fall so erroneously short of the mark. Existing for ego instead of the All. We all have our struggles with vice and temptation but they relish in theirs!

[@-Opiate-]

@@stoiccrane4259 well spoken. Yes, I have had many many many struggles myself. We all suffer from one sort of temptation or another. Drugs are one thing for sure, but physically mixing bodily fluids with strangers let alone multiple strangers at once is beyond the pale imo. All else is arguably a personal issue or struggle but the entire sex for sexs' sake is nasty af. At least with drugs the high lasts longer I suppose but all of these sexual deviants and "free lovers" are all such broken people, not that I don't understand and empathize to a degree but damn, an "orgy pile"?????!!!!!! WTF. If someone thinks that's OK and an acceptable risk etc than there isn't anything I could say that would help them pull their head out of their ass. The most intimate and physically personal thing you could do or share with someone and these nasty fuckers act like young rabbits.......ughhhhhh no thanks.

[@silentserenitys7102]

It seems cultish and just disgusting

[@sableann4255]

agree.

[@cs0779533]

i agree. stds. and also just the fuckery it does to the mind.

[@eastafrika728]

Swinging is the right space to feel inadequate about yourself and uselessly chase after validation.

[@dontbanmebrodontbanme5403]

As an unattractive black man, this clearly won't be something available to me and I"m actually ok with that. I don't like having sex with random people because I'd be worried the whole time if I'm getting an STD. No thanks.

[@lesleybrown1583]

Its also soul destroying ,as you create soul ties that fragment your own ,also with all the people they have slept with also! You have been saved!

[@ranjanbiswas3233]

This guy just experienced the Diddy freak offs.

[@watchingitallhere]

Sound engineer really did their thing here.

[@Diablo-3323]

This sounds like those Hollywood mansion parties that are often talked about.

[@neledemeulemeester754]

The thing with swinging is : you know where it starts but you have NOOOOO clue where it will end and you lose more and more of your core personality if you ask me because it stretches your boundaries that much

[@OB.x]

"What's the password" "Oooooooorrrrrggggggggy."

[@g.h.7661]

Dude, don’t embarrass yourself, they changed it to “orgy pile”

[@blakfisk4077]

Great always sunny reference

[@tylerw.5458]

“Oh I come here for the free snacks”

[@robelsac]

Didn’t realize how upset this topic would make people in the comments. Considering how many awful things this series has covered, this is fairly benign.

[@MAURGASM]

i can’t believe 99% of people don’t know what a sex party is lol. i go to one once a month. it’s a wonderful and respectful (or at least should be and is the kind that i go to) experience to escape reality for a night.

[@Likorys888]

That's just average orgy with adults, while what elites do is more f*cked up things like pedo stuff mixed with zoo and cannibal stuff

[@sd-11-11-sd]

Very sad and dark times for the world.

[@NWer-c5u]

You should read up on what the Romans and Greeks were into, this is nothing new.

[@chrispekel5709]

This sort of thing has always existed, and it's not common. What is actually sad and widespread is...well, just watch or read Vice. It's a problem and it's everywhere. Society is sick. Up means down now

[@Warsie]

​@bigguyCI-hn9nzhe is. The Romans had giant orgies for saturnalia

[@Ekam-Sat]

Kali yuga...

[@trollingimperialist9930]

@@NWer-c5u Actually this is a misconception. If you read the laws and statutes during those times you would come across pretty sexually conservative laws and customs. Same thing with laws mocking and castrating homosexuals.

[@g.h.7661]

“Urethral sounding and medical stuff.” The combination of terror & morbid curiousity of what “medical stuff” could possibly refer to 💀

[@ForgeMasterXXL]

I would just like to point out that Dominants and Sadists in the BDSM community are not sexual sadists who get off solely on hurting their partner. Consent is a huge issue for everyone in the community, we only exist as a community by respecting each other and having informed consent and the constant right for the submissive to withdraw consent. Don’t tarnish us all with the same brush just because we are kinky, play safe and have a great day.

[@ItsPierceMoore]

Agree 100%. This video is inflammatory misinformation aiming to extract the reactions we're seeing in the comments. So infuriating.

[@universeiswatching5914]

​@piercemoore4402 this who video seems like a big misinformation! Swing parties seem super fun if it's safe and consensual so why being against it!? Every person has a different experience

[@msmith220]

The person said consent was taken more seriously in the bdsm/ kink parties than the heteronormative ones.

[@silvia-c7n]

you mean consent, or manipulating people to behave like pigs!

[@BrisRawHairCo]

Not all swingers are kinky or into bdsm though. Poly and bdsm isn’t the same

[@Bariom_dome]

I like sex, but this makes it gross to me

[@TwinTyphoons]

I like money i like sex 🎉

[@fundifferent1]

Then don't do it. Keep watching videos about it and writing "eww" in the comments.

[@Bariom_dome]

@@fundifferent1 I meant sex parties with strangers of unknown origins and health status. And most likely, unsavory sexual prowess. That's the gross part.

[@adk5997]

@@fundifferent1 it’s gross. Old bored people wanting to get it on. And sex addicts. It’s ew

[@talltrees358]

Some sickos in the world.

[@mindfulstoic3095]

Clearly, but hey, "you should not judge" lol

[@bitchesgonbebitchesluvthemhoes]

this is so tame compared to the other vids vice has made lmao

[@Ekam-Sat]

@@mindfulstoic3095 That's true. Bible says it.

[@lugi25]

True. Some people have no soul. To me at least, how can you look at yourself in the mirror after doing this.

[@IriaChannel]

The background music is super annoying. Trying to make this so ominous and scary, when it's just someone talking about going to swinger parties.

[@danielletopping2763]

In a way it is. A bunch of people degrading themselves and most likely catching stds like they're pokemon.

[@edwardmulholland7912]

It’s all out there - good and bad, all I can say is be careful. It’s a minefield out there.

[@OKFrax-ys2op]

Not much different from Sodom and Gomorrah.

[@justajokemayne5589]

Anyone going back to this after the whole P. Diddy mess?

[@alloverdaplace2043]

Why do ominous music! And vibe 🤣

[@SimonAtkinson3314]

Show me a journalistic video without it !! 🤣. And this one with a sort of 'latest James Bond set & villain ' aesthetics... at least 50% of journalistic videos are actually 'nothing creatively dressed as drama'.

[@Copper_Heart]

​@@SimonAtkinson3314the music fits the scene perfectly. Mysterious and yet cautiously inviting.

[@remixisthis]

Need some stock ukelele music to lighten up the vibe

[@chicofrijoles]

@@remixisthis 🤣

[@bleakaf]

​@@remixisthis😂😂😂

[@stacya1094]

Omg urethral what??? Ouch omg my jaw dropped and I out loud said WHATTT

[@simpindulgence6384]

A smooth and properly lubed insertion feels good. The instrument used is typically made of stainless steel or silicone.

[@ArranVid]

@@simpindulgence6384 You do you

[@Hi-Phi]

"Living his best life". Apparently.

[@tilebreakers]

Every guy simultaneously felt a terrible pain in their crotch area after hearing that, for sure

[@stacya1094]

@@tilebreakers I felt the pain too and I'm not a guy, it sounded soo painful

[@aubreytraverse.]

I missed these Keep them coming!

[@Invixnlty]

Half way through the video and iam already half dead, this woman knows EVERYTHING wtf

[@MidTierVillain]

I’m so old fashion, I can’t get comfortable with one person to have a one night stand.. I have to know you, feel your sincerity, if the energy is genuine.. I want to have a conversation that stimulates not only your mind, but mine the most. I need a person to be happy with me, to enjoy the intimacy- I can NOT just mess around with randos, or a hook up, I’m not wired like that. Maybe that’s due to many other issues, like trust, and I feed off others energy.. I like to see ppl comfortable, and enjoying who I am personally. I could not go to a party like this, it’ll be too intimidating, my anxiety would be bonkers, plus I’d be so horrified by the aggressive nature of ppl so free willing to do that in front of me. I’m not judging anyone who’s into this, and at times I envy ppl who can just be free, secure, and exhibitionism.. I’m just not that person, so I find this very intriguing on an emotional level, because I can’t do it.. my brain is wired that I need to truly trust & know a person before anything intimate.

[@MargoKms]

There's nothing to envy. Those people are dead inside desperately trying to feel something. That stuff is demonic

[@Visionery1]

As someone who contracted Herpes from his first girlfriend, I would hate to know what one can pick up here. You'll definitely get your money's worth.

[@fundifferent1]

Why do people frame getting stds as something that was done to them? You had unprotected sex just like she did at one point. it's not her fault.

[@stoiccrane4259]

A cocktail in a room. A club brewery of infection.

[@clericaltotalitarian]

@@fundifferent1 It's literally her fault then...

[@ArranVid]

I got Herpes from the woman I lost my virginity to...that was 10 years ago.

[@stoiccrane4259]

Sounds like a fun time. She still in your life by any chance?

[@RelaxingNewsStories]

SUGGESTION: I would love to hear a voice actress/actor over these testimonies, it would make it easier to watch/hear. Just a suggestion.

[@topofthemornintoya]

why?

[@doppelthay7562]

This whole thing with Diddy make this make so much sense now...

[@9395gb]

This is also a Jeffrey Epstein and Mike Rubin thing allegedly.

[@iLoveTheBamx]

This is honest and i appreciate that.

[@laharyl]

Informer is back!

[@zappababe8577]

I can quite understand why they don't allow single men to attend without a female partner - otherwise it would just be a wall-to-wall sausage fest! I can just imagine a single guy coming along to a swinger's party and expecting to have a great time with loads of different women, only to find when he gets there that the only people attending are single guys just the same as him!

[@richardsackler7627]

In this day and age with so many std's some of which are fatal I'd be hard press to attend one of these parties.

[@fccthe3813]

Can this video finally convince people that a swinger relationship is not the way to go?

[@fccthe3813]

Having sex with other people while also having a romantic partner is not what anyone should want in a relationship

[@kenofken9458]

Only the incels and religious types who already were sour on it before they hit the play button.

[@migerrancan554]

​@fccthe3813 I don't know how u can be mad at peope who are having sex for fun its not like they are hurting anyone, it's not a relationship ship, there should be nsa

[@fccthe3813]

@@migerrancan554 I just find it to be weird and it’s okay as a sexual preference just not something you’d wanna share with a partner in a serious relationship

[@fccthe3813]

@@migerrancan554 if you have a wife or a husband would you want to share that person with another? just so your partner can have the freedom to do so?

[@vedanthhonavarkar2256]

Man this is recommending me after Pdiddy was arrested

[@Robboned]

I think that this person is talking about my place of employment.

[@TheSmartLawyer]

The White House?

[@aellalee4767]

I don't know what kind of parties this person has been to. Definitely not my experience. The first party I went to was super welcoming. You get bracelets in different colours that meam how you want to be approached or if being approached is welcome at all. Anyone does something without consent the bouncers kick them out and they're banned. I don't know who's planning these parties this person went to, but they don't sound like people who really live by the spirit of kink of doing what you want (where consent is key).

[@silvia-c7n]

you mean to say there is anything with spirit involved? You are delusional

[@aellalee4767]

@@silvia-c7n says a person who's never been 🙄 Safe kink spaces are real. It's a huge part of where people actually learn about and popularize safe sex practices, particularly consent. Kink culture is all about consent first over anything. Which is 100% the difference between sex and assault.

[@Puuws]

I think if you are part of a youngher generation and go to a big organised dance event, where there is also sex but good vibes, thats very diffrent they rural small old age get togethers. The whole energy is different. She mentions kink and queer things are better in vibe, youngher generations are more about concent, communication ect

[@aellalee4767]

@Puuws all the events I went to were 60% or more older crowd. However, it was in the second largest hub in my country and the main place in the whole country to be queer friendly. I can see it being different in some smaller spaces or in countries that don't value equality/equitable rights.

[@jenniferelyse5134]

I loved this interview. I found the voice very hard to understand though and had to read the subtitles for most of it (like 90%).

[@arsalanjameel4666]

Y’all need God

[@noegonzalez6555]

There's nothing sinful going on here

[@LilbertricarGomezcastrum]

There is ​@@noegonzalez6555

[@rikkithomas9384]

Amen 🎉Ashàe

[@HTrntrs]

Absolutely brother,

[@Nataliagonzalezhuelva]

Exactly

[@joelwillis2043]

The people doing this are never as attractive as you imagine.

[@kenofken9458]

And yet they're getting plenty, and you aren't. That must be a real bite in the arse....

[@maxjohnson1758]

​@@kenofken9458 You do have a point, there. Dang. 😅

[@DineshSeju04]

4ra having Finch as an ambassador adds a layer of trust and class to their events pure quality

[@Slim_T_ODB]

Wait, so every part of being a swinger isn't great and perfect?😵

[@mystrugle900]

There is no way on earth this behaviour can be considered psychologically normal. It's just like some total malfunction in the human brain, the same way some people's brains reward them for killing someone. People say 'it's harmless, it's a safe environment' - but the bottom line is, a lot of people in those kinds of environments are most likely suffering from psychological problems (I know this from meeting people who participate in this kind of stuff) and it's sad that it's just enabled by one another. If you respect people and have empathy, you simply would not participate in this kind of stuff because you know the potential damage you care causing. It'll be full of narcissists and people with personality disorders.

[@maxjohnson1758]

Biologically speaking, males will fight, often to the death, to keep other males from mating with their female. There is something clinically wrong with people who have lost this biological imperative. There is no way they are "normal" in every way, they just happen to be swingers.

[@Puuws]

it usually is, some youngher versions of this are better bc empahty is much more intact

[@Favriscius]

Sounds like a perfectly healthy group of people, definitely no underlying traumas behind these life choices.

[@strayargus9382]

Man I would be so paranoid of getting disease lol. These people are reckless and brave at the same time.

[@Erica-cf1xb]

Can't get sick if you been sick. Some are super spreaders for a reason.

[@stoiccrane4259]

Without the brave part.

[@bifstryker9738]

Yeah I would be in there with a full body condom on, way too germ phobic

[@chrispekel5709]

I was pretty promiscous when I was younger, and often careless and I never caught anything. I wouldn't be worried about sex clubs at all as everyone must use condoms

[@krisgrym]

​@@chrispekel5709sure mate sure 😂

[@knowthetruth0316]

Watching cause Puffy