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What The Pho

What The Pho

2 жыл бұрын

Another reaction video about love and dating in Vietnam. Are you excited? I am haha because I'm Vietnamese, so I'm excited and curious to see how it's like to date a Vietnamese girl. You will learn some tips when dating a Vietnamese girl at the end of this video, so don't forget to watch until the end.
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@ThatRascalMerlin
@ThatRascalMerlin 2 жыл бұрын
THIS is exactly what I was talking about in an earlier comment when I said that since you have lived in the west, you can "translate" Vietnamese customs (and their differences from the west) SO WELL, and I really love how you do it! Your vlogs are great!
@Simshady888
@Simshady888 2 жыл бұрын
Great video! Thanks for sharing it! I watch all your videos! Good job Van!
@BigDogsRUSS
@BigDogsRUSS 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Van! Very entertaining, and your actors did a great job! 😀
@latinomalenurse
@latinomalenurse 2 жыл бұрын
Hi, I am admiring your work, yes absolutely give us a video about courting and dating/marrying Vietnamese ladies please! Keep up the good work!
@bonniejrobinson2819
@bonniejrobinson2819 Жыл бұрын
I have a Vietnamese daughter-in-law. She is so very sweet to me. When she and her two children moved here. It was a great change for all of us. Still learning after two years. Whatever you can share sure would be a big help to us all.
@supanfrancis
@supanfrancis 2 жыл бұрын
A very insightful video 🙂🎥 Love your work! 😁❤👍
@user-bj9fh7rm3u
@user-bj9fh7rm3u 5 ай бұрын
Thanks! Love the content. Just visited HCMC and love it. My fiancé lives there. Be back in March ❤❤❤
@pepesmart
@pepesmart 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this funny, but very informative video. This is not just interesting in terms of dating, but also insights into Vietnamese thought, culture and social expectations.
@WhatThePho
@WhatThePho 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching!
@sriyonosupriyadi2790
@sriyonosupriyadi2790 2 жыл бұрын
@@WhatThePho what is your position in vietnam?
@AsimAli-yd1yf
@AsimAli-yd1yf 4 ай бұрын
Hi bautiful
@dennislewis4886
@dennislewis4886 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Van, thank you for opening up my eyes to your beautiful people and its culture, Vietnam is am amazing country, utile your next video, take care and stay safe.
@datfier2678
@datfier2678 2 жыл бұрын
Until 168hrs then..
@frankb1
@frankb1 2 жыл бұрын
This was fun to watch.
@zak6957
@zak6957 2 жыл бұрын
So funny and I concur with your advice. I definitely think that my absolute love of Vietnamese food helped me overcome my language barriers when meeting my fiancé family. Bun Cha is love in a bowl…and my working in medicine helped also..🤣🤣
@WhatThePho
@WhatThePho 2 жыл бұрын
Haha that's great!!
@patience8884
@patience8884 2 жыл бұрын
Are you in nursing, a physician, PA, NP, surgeon? I am curious of the medical opportunities in Vietnam.
@siraulu1
@siraulu1 2 жыл бұрын
I have been Married to my wonderful Vietnamese wife for 20 years. Now the roles are reversed as we have been living in America for 10 of those years. My wife has taken on the Western culture, and I still use the Vietnamese culture lol and I am American. We are always laughing at the role reversals!! BUT when I was in Vietnam I most definitely respected and followed all of the culture when dating my wife and with interactions with her family. Her family treated me as one of their own and still do. Watching your videos truly makes me appreciate my wife so much more!!
@dashcamjourney4599
@dashcamjourney4599 2 жыл бұрын
Happy wife happy life!! Good man
@giannilyanicks1718
@giannilyanicks1718 4 ай бұрын
disgusting.
@bradjenkins932
@bradjenkins932 Ай бұрын
That's sad
@lightsoulja
@lightsoulja 2 жыл бұрын
I really learned a lot. Very cool video.
@glenroylindo3672
@glenroylindo3672 2 жыл бұрын
I like that little skit with the young lady introducing her boyfriend to her parents. I watched it twice and laugh so hard. Very good.
@erikgeorge3770
@erikgeorge3770 2 жыл бұрын
🤗❤️🤗 thank you for the video ... informative and entertaining
@porkepik32
@porkepik32 2 жыл бұрын
I can relate to most of these things even dating being older (46 and her 43). Saving face, respecting her family and using the right names (chu,ong,co,...), Leading even if she is a leader in her job. Only thing I see is public display affection (not in front of her family) has been ok. I m sure that her parents still expect me to marry her at some point (I do even if its our 2nd marriage). And yes the first time I met her parents it was at a restaurant and her dad seemed super distant (her mom much more open , long distance relationship doesn't help feeling secure) . Her Dad feeds me now though loll bringing me food or drinks when i m in vn . Lucky me I love nuoc mam :)
@phuongnguyenha3291
@phuongnguyenha3291 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Van. I learn lots when watching your videos♥️ Can you make a video what Vietnamese people do on Moon festival?
@WhatThePho
@WhatThePho 2 жыл бұрын
Yes of course :))
@time2livelife
@time2livelife 2 жыл бұрын
My mom who is Vietnamese was so confused when I got together with my current boyfriend because he was taking me on dates every weekend. She was like… “What’s in it for you?” He handled it well and said, “I get to eat too.” It makes me feel better to know it was more of a cultural thing and not that my mom doesn’t understand why he’d go out with me specifically 😂.
@theraymond84
@theraymond84 Жыл бұрын
A nice time.
@chrishamlin5863
@chrishamlin5863 2 жыл бұрын
As an American man who moved to Vietnam nearly 3 years ago, I just want to say that it was like I had died and gone to heaven when I discovered the dating scene in Vietnam. Vietnamese women are beautiful, charming, delightful, respectful and, unlike American women, they don't hate men. I found getting dates as easy as getting wet in the rain, and I'm not talking about "paid dates" (if you want that then go to Thailand). No need for dating sites, and I avoided the bars. I found amazing young women eager to talk to me everywhere I went. Eventually, I found the woman of my dreams and we got married. I am now happier than I ever thought possible and I have no plans to ever return to America. So, if you're thinking about dating a Vietnamese woman, I say GO FOR IT!
@bboomermike2126
@bboomermike2126 2 жыл бұрын
I discovered Vietnamese women in 1970. My biggest mistake in life was not marrying a Vietnamese woman when I was a young man and wasting 50 years of my life on American women.
@chrishamlin5863
@chrishamlin5863 2 жыл бұрын
@@bboomermike2126 I hear you man. American women SAY they want men who are kind, sensitive, supportive and genuinely concerned with their happiness. This is a big lie. Men like that will have their hearts broken by American women who will then conspire with the courts to take them for everything they have. Vietnamese women, on the other hand, truly appreciate men who genuinely care about them and respond in kind. I'm sure you have discovered by now that once you capture the heart of a Vietnamese woman, she will dedicate herself to you for life. That is why so many men who come to Vietnam end up marrying a Vietnamese woman.
@bboomermike2126
@bboomermike2126 2 жыл бұрын
@@chrishamlin5863 I agree 100%. Kind, sensitive, supportive, nice guys come in last. Bad boys make out.
@HaiPham-yn8fm
@HaiPham-yn8fm 2 жыл бұрын
Vietnamese women are good because they are been well trained by Vietnamese man
@marklanfier8287
@marklanfier8287 2 жыл бұрын
I would love to meet a Vietnamese woman & merry her. They are so beautiful. For real.
@donb.puryearjr.8699
@donb.puryearjr.8699 Жыл бұрын
This was a very interesting video, thank you for sharing. I have been most interested in the Vietnamese culture since having the pleasure of meeting a family in america. I have had to pleasure of being around this family for over 20 years. They have actually suggested that I travel with them to the West Coast to meet their parents. So any additional information when meeting someone who is of the Elder culture would be most helpful.
@epicarnoldtravels
@epicarnoldtravels Жыл бұрын
Very interesting video please make more videos about the dating culture in Vietnam. I enjoy videos about interracial dating!
@martingarcia3787
@martingarcia3787 2 жыл бұрын
Very informative. And interesting..having a Vietnamese wife in the near future sounds nice 👌
@wowfactor9773
@wowfactor9773 2 жыл бұрын
this is pretty much true and can relate to my case....first time i was in Da Nang for a business trip and met a girl. Next day, she introduced me to her parents and we had a great dinner at restaurant near My Khe beach. I came back to US and faced busy work reality. And i missed and didn't respond her text right away probably got her anxiety high caused our relationship ended. However, she still text me as a friend and which is good. Anyhow, in life, we have to choose one thing first, career or family? Hopefully, i could settle it one day and Da Nang is always in my heart. Thanks for the video!
@jealoussphynx4152
@jealoussphynx4152 2 жыл бұрын
This person has a great sense of humor
@GaryTM
@GaryTM 2 жыл бұрын
I can agree with most of these traits as a general rule of thumb, though do think how much these traits actually play out solely depends on the individual/family like most countries. I'm British and my wife is Vietnamese and we live in Da Nang. Though her father is more traditional, the family in general are all pretty laid back and insist I don't worry too much about the formalities and traditions as they understand I'm foreign. Though I do try at specific gatherings, (still struggle with all the family pronouns when saying hello though :)) The 'saving face' trait in Vietnam is quite an important topic, and could probably be a whole video on its own. It is interesting and to a degree I can understand and agree with the general concept, but there are often situations however where I've also seen it can be used as a way for someone to not own up to their mistakes/errors/bad behaviour or accept them when pointed out, which in a way has it's own set of social problems I think. It's not uncommon that I've witnessed locals lose their temper and overreact or create dangerous situations due to the stigma of 'losing face' (be that on the street on while driving), rather than just take ownership, apologise, learn from it, and move on. Admittedly it can happen anywhere, but does seem 'losing face' has a much bigger impact here on peoples behaviour during confrontations (especially on the roads from personal experience) so being very aware/mindful of your approach as a foreigner in particular can make all the difference between a calm resolution, or a car/van driver chasing after you and trying to mow you down out of rage over a disagreement ;)
@buckroo8424
@buckroo8424 2 жыл бұрын
Great post! I have lived in China many years and now might go live in Vietnam. I’m American and married a Chinese woman. I found at work in China or interacting that Chinese (some) will go beyond “saving face” to just out right lying! For many Asian people “losing face “ is beyond comprehension to them and I know this to be especially true in China 🇨🇳. It actually effected my marriage to where later I had to divorce my Chinese wife. It became unbearable, but I would still love to meet someone in my life.
@mariatu3204
@mariatu3204 2 жыл бұрын
'losing face' (be that on the street on while driving), rather than just take ownership, apologise, learn from it, and move on ==> correct
@americanandpinay
@americanandpinay Жыл бұрын
My asawa used saving face often in the beginning our relationship when she was embarrassed and didn't want to accept responsibility for small things. Two of our five arguments in all of these years are due to this. I eventually was taught by her father that it was better off for me to own up to her mistakes and shortcomings and let her deal with me being angry at home with her so so that she would learn from my pain and heartache over the situation. Same outcome, just I am using the Asian way of getting there. I certainly don't allow it to bother me for no more than a day when she does something and I can Tampo just as good as she can. It was her father who actually told me to do this method of dealing with my wife and daughters.
@giannilyanicks1718
@giannilyanicks1718 4 ай бұрын
stupid life.
@vipervanityofficial4148
@vipervanityofficial4148 2 жыл бұрын
It’s a win for me, I love all of those customs and traits.
@SrSaraviaMusic
@SrSaraviaMusic 2 жыл бұрын
Nice reaction video.I like how you give a broader perspective on what goes on...I've heard that VN girls tend to be very jealous(it also happens here)
@darrellhandbury6330
@darrellhandbury6330 2 жыл бұрын
I would have loved to started watching your KZbin videos a year or two sooner. Before I started going out with my (now) wife. I had to learn everything the ward way.
@clanaj1335
@clanaj1335 2 жыл бұрын
Yes more dating/relationship videos
@djsweetdaddy3215
@djsweetdaddy3215 2 жыл бұрын
This is spot on!!! 😂😂
@chadjeansonne5094
@chadjeansonne5094 2 жыл бұрын
Very informative ! Good video . Wish i was drinking tea or coffee and visiting with you . You are so beautiful .
2 жыл бұрын
You'r so cute. I love watching your videos, Van!
@KaufmanD9988
@KaufmanD9988 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for posting! Although my GF is Thai, I see a lot similarities in the culture. She has a Visa and can visit here more often. Usually anything that causes stress, is me being a bit goofy and her staying along cultural teachings. Definitely helped seeing the "too clingy" sketch, something I'm not use to.
@kippsguitar6539
@kippsguitar6539 2 жыл бұрын
thailand is nothing like vietnam and differs in so many ways
@Budismo7917
@Budismo7917 2 жыл бұрын
its funny the mix of different ideas and culture.I think in thailand they have that saving face culture too
@navinbhalani5505
@navinbhalani5505 2 жыл бұрын
Nice condirions to know about a date in vietnam
@RustyNail5856
@RustyNail5856 Жыл бұрын
Loved the your video, i wish i was younger , i would to go to Vietnam , it look so beautiful.
@2BuiThanhBinh
@2BuiThanhBinh Жыл бұрын
🍷
@Bob31415
@Bob31415 2 жыл бұрын
Really superb video. BTW Van=Eye Candy.
@jalabi99
@jalabi99 2 жыл бұрын
6:42 That Chinese commercial was so funny!
@seanobrien2306
@seanobrien2306 Жыл бұрын
Hi Van Vu..., A ( wise ) man would watch and listen to this video... two or three times... I think... I will watch and listen carefully to this video two times... Then maybe within a week to 10 days..., watch the video again... Excellent video and very informative, especially for a man and learn more about the Vietnamese culture, customs, and dating a beautiful Vietnamese woman... Awesome video, and thank you for sharing the video... * Don't forget to ( respect and honor ) the Vietnamese Parents... Bright, intelligent, and attractive... Mike in Montana :)
@jerrynam
@jerrynam 2 жыл бұрын
Great information.
@huyzombiev4614
@huyzombiev4614 2 жыл бұрын
just two days away is the real time when i get married to my current girlfriend. We have been in love with each other for over 8 year, exactly when we got into a hight school . So I hope this covit 19 pandemic will disappear so soon, Thanks so much for your fantastic video, through this video , I can acquire a lot of precious experience of getting married as well as the way I should do when I go on a date with my wife ^^
@VietAmThuc
@VietAmThuc 2 жыл бұрын
So helpful and interested video sharing, dear friend. Have nice day!
@klmh1964
@klmh1964 2 жыл бұрын
This is toooooo funny 🤣 Wish I knew these “rules” when I was younger 🥰
@Garamiri
@Garamiri Жыл бұрын
Haha was very funny the man in the restaurant with the girl and her parents. Lol
@melfordsolomon8244
@melfordsolomon8244 2 жыл бұрын
I have been amazed by Vietnam since I was a kid. It's now time to go visit there and maybe find a nice girl. Hope they open up to foreigners soon
@kevinward7498
@kevinward7498 2 жыл бұрын
I've always been especially attracted to Asian women and not long ago I discovered Vietnamese women seem to be my favorite. My Tam and other singers, all the ladies building awesome things in the jungle and other vietnamese ladies I know of impress me with their beauty, abilities, and nice personalities. If you see My Tam tell her I love her. 💘 🥰
@suhaceyhunar3694
@suhaceyhunar3694 2 жыл бұрын
6:54 that was so funny 😂
@jphardwick53
@jphardwick53 2 жыл бұрын
Yes I totally like this being I'll be with my Vietnamese girlfriend hope soon after all this pandemic. Yes more like this please Van
@tesss2053
@tesss2053 2 жыл бұрын
The commercial is so funny
@scogginsscoggins
@scogginsscoggins 2 жыл бұрын
Great video
@Emerald214
@Emerald214 2 жыл бұрын
I laughed a lot and facepalmed at the part "She's thinking marriage potential". Interesting video!
@drewcorry5056
@drewcorry5056 2 жыл бұрын
Enjoyed Video
@phamman88
@phamman88 2 жыл бұрын
Im a viet kieu that lived in Vietnam for several years and even i was confused about the girls and the dating etiquettes there
@patrickpepper412
@patrickpepper412 Жыл бұрын
I love this video the best. Very funny and informative. Keep the great content coming.
@JJthelonelybullinasia
@JJthelonelybullinasia Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video. I'm looking to move to Vietnam, either HCMC or Da Nang. I would love to learn more about dating in Vietnam.
@Vietnam_Chr0nicles
@Vietnam_Chr0nicles Жыл бұрын
I have a youtube channel dedicated to moving to Vietnam with detailed steps and stories on what it is like. From TEFL to job hunting.
@JJthelonelybullinasia
@JJthelonelybullinasia Жыл бұрын
@@Vietnam_Chr0nicles I started a KZbin channel in May. JJ the Lonely Bull in Asia. We should get together sometime and collaborate.
@Vietnam_Chr0nicles
@Vietnam_Chr0nicles Жыл бұрын
@@JJthelonelybullinasia I would love that. No joke. Connections are everything here
@Vietnam_Chr0nicles
@Vietnam_Chr0nicles Жыл бұрын
@@JJthelonelybullinasia just sub'd to you
@guyh9992
@guyh9992 2 жыл бұрын
I thought he was going to take exception to everyone dipping their food into the same bowl of fish sauce. It was called "Double Dipping" on Seinfeld.
@toddhayes3506
@toddhayes3506 2 жыл бұрын
Great Job 👍
@WanderEats
@WanderEats 2 жыл бұрын
One thing for sure Van... you will have ZERO problems getting a date I'm pretty sure :D
@alancrane9762
@alancrane9762 2 жыл бұрын
how come?
@datfier2678
@datfier2678 2 жыл бұрын
This comment is so tight
@shyguygc1755
@shyguygc1755 2 жыл бұрын
I am IN.
@jamesloggins7773
@jamesloggins7773 2 жыл бұрын
My Vietnamese friends say if you want to seriously date a Vietnamese woman, you must first win the heart of the family. Also, this may be unique to my experience or true in general that if you give her an expensive bouquet she will say “that’s sweet, but next time just give me the money”. One last observation, when you propose, never surprise her with a ring you bought. She prefers to take her Mom to their favorite quality jewelry store and pick out the ring you will purchase.
@roberth1889
@roberth1889 2 жыл бұрын
thanks Van, I think middle & northerner more strict than southern ... in general man should be able to provide financial support for his family and he & she should walk together on the path of life
@WhatThePho
@WhatThePho 2 жыл бұрын
True that :))
@NaTi-fz3cn
@NaTi-fz3cn 2 жыл бұрын
I’m from VietNam, that’s great to hear
@Genesis--me8ud
@Genesis--me8ud Жыл бұрын
Right on - get to the point reality is that needs a good job and bread winner despite looks
@belindaphan465
@belindaphan465 2 жыл бұрын
Can you do a skin care routine? Your skin look soooo great
@dominichill1492
@dominichill1492 2 жыл бұрын
If I was in Vietnam, I would want to take you out on a date. Good special reaction video from you sweetheart.
@tabathubathu8012
@tabathubathu8012 2 жыл бұрын
Rất giỏi giang ngưỡng mộ em ❤
@GordyaZarrinkhat
@GordyaZarrinkhat 2 жыл бұрын
Vietnamese women are the gems of Asia and I have every intention of dating and definitely wouldn't mind marrying one 😍 Also Van from Vietnam is so beautiful 😁🇻🇳❤️
@philipnguyen3107
@philipnguyen3107 2 жыл бұрын
You need to prepare to marry not only her but the whole family. Good luck.
@GordyaZarrinkhat
@GordyaZarrinkhat 2 жыл бұрын
@Philip Nguyễn challenge accepted...I also come a heavily family orientated background 😎
@philipnguyen3107
@philipnguyen3107 2 жыл бұрын
@@GordyaZarrinkhat it is wonderful you are a caring, loving and thoughtful person. I wish you all the best. Vietnamese girls are the most sensitive people in the world. I always have to be careful with my words sadly I still could not handle the double personalities after all these years .One wrong word you are done. Southern girls are more straight forward. Northern girls can be very stimulating like Vuvan and girls from Heu middle of vietnam can be so romantic and daring. Different strokes for different folks. Take your time meet different girls from different regions then you can be sure . Always remember you are the captain of your life. Enjoy VN.
@piplupempoleon4225
@piplupempoleon4225 10 ай бұрын
​@@GordyaZarrinkhatcough cough religion, most vietnamese don't want to become Islam, they have faith in folk religion ,Buddhism and taoism
@InfinittraksMusicGroup
@InfinittraksMusicGroup 2 жыл бұрын
Another great video Van very insightful about your culture but the Chinese commercial 😂😂😂😂😂
@thegamethemovie9605
@thegamethemovie9605 2 жыл бұрын
Some lovely Vietnamese people in my church. Not trying to date. But glad to learn that I haven't inadvertently been treading poorly over cultural lines! (Dude, must find some that play Catan!)
@davidcraddock8329
@davidcraddock8329 2 жыл бұрын
that was fun
@paulz6491
@paulz6491 2 жыл бұрын
Great video, did you link the original video that you were reacting to?
@WhatThePho
@WhatThePho 2 жыл бұрын
Oh yes, thank you for reminding, I'll do it right now
@paulz6491
@paulz6491 2 жыл бұрын
@@WhatThePho Thanks 😊
@darrellhandbury1661
@darrellhandbury1661 2 жыл бұрын
So Pho where where you and your videos this time last year. When I was dating my "now Vietnamese wife"?
@kevinkanter2537
@kevinkanter2537 2 жыл бұрын
ohhh - making the point --- brings out the Mercedes car fob & the accordion of 'platinum' credit cards --- oh so funny --- yep, good manners only go so far ....... BUT you won't be able to get to know the family without them and a conversational ability including listening ---- and a certain sense of calm and appreciation. I've gotten to know people in only 3 or 4 countries but those are my takeaways -- similar to what you are saying. Thanks.
@yaznPLO
@yaznPLO 2 жыл бұрын
Cool I love it
@lucasbarefski351
@lucasbarefski351 2 жыл бұрын
My girlfriend LOVES boba without boba( so it’s basically milk tea) we once walked 4 km just to have one. I mean we can take a grab but this way we can talk more😅
@hoctheravada
@hoctheravada 2 жыл бұрын
So cute
@WhatThePho
@WhatThePho 2 жыл бұрын
Aw!! lucky girl 😍
@CentralHighland
@CentralHighland 2 жыл бұрын
You should talk about "yellow fever" in another video, it's a big problem of foreigners who's living in Vietnam.
@Feudorkannabro
@Feudorkannabro 2 жыл бұрын
Yup. I wanna see that video too. I also notice many western men living in Asia having misogynist worldview
@DaveEPie
@DaveEPie 2 жыл бұрын
@@Feudorkannabro we have yellow fever because 90% of the western women are gross. Started acting like little ho- ho’s about 1965 and never looked back
@rabbitnp8342
@rabbitnp8342 2 жыл бұрын
YEp total facts and they are FEMININE =:0
@YesuAiNimen
@YesuAiNimen 2 жыл бұрын
"Yellow fever" is just another way to try to hang derogatory labels on someone who has a preference (which they have EVERY RIGHT to have). If you're going to use dumbass phrases like "yellow fever" why don't you just say what you really mean which is white men shouldn't be allowed to like, date, marry or be with Asian women. How racist!!!!! Imagine coming up with a derogatory name for a guy who prefers other guys or something like that? No on dares do that in this day and age.
@YesuAiNimen
@YesuAiNimen 2 жыл бұрын
@@Feudorkannabro Another butthurt misandrist (yup, I get to use words like that too!) who just can't handle the fact that some white men have a preference.
@STARFLEETC0MMAND
@STARFLEETC0MMAND 2 жыл бұрын
Video Request: Age gap relationship in Vietnam (older man with young women) ???
@bboomermike2126
@bboomermike2126 2 жыл бұрын
I don't have most of those issues because my fiance and myself are the oldest in the family.
@rayjasso6943
@rayjasso6943 2 жыл бұрын
More! Please!
@jimgorycki4013
@jimgorycki4013 2 жыл бұрын
I had a "dating" experience when I was in college. As in "want to go out on a date" and then there's saving face. We were good friends though. BTW her roommate told me about the dating / marriage thing (facepalm lol). Bottom line is that women from Southeast Asia want an ambitious guy who is successful (money and career), polite, respectful. I agree with the "you are marrying the family not just the girl".
@MuhammadArif-ez9mb
@MuhammadArif-ez9mb 2 жыл бұрын
Need this tips to win someone 😌
@binhduchoang6026
@binhduchoang6026 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Beautiful thanks for sharing take care.
@alexp.2166
@alexp.2166 2 жыл бұрын
You should never forget, you are the price, not your car, not your job, not your money. So many nice guys I saw in a worst case. You must have experience as a Westen guy in Asia.
@tonyg3528
@tonyg3528 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Van 😘
@pihu8389
@pihu8389 Жыл бұрын
Same with India when comes to relationship and marriage ceremonies.
@rakeshkoul92
@rakeshkoul92 2 жыл бұрын
Love It ...love fish sauce.....Love Vietnam.. ....thank you....
@bboomermike2126
@bboomermike2126 2 ай бұрын
That is very good information for younger people. I meet my future wife on my 72 birthday. We get married when I was 74 and my is 61. So I am the oldest in my Vietnamese family.
@Belsteak
@Belsteak Жыл бұрын
I dated 3 vn women, married 2 and am still married to my last one with happy life and a little boy... I talked to a lot in the past, have some good vn friends women I consider as my little sisters and as mixed couple we are together with many other mixed couple nearly every week end... One thing important to show and tell, is that when you date a vn woman, you are dating vietnam. If you don't like the food, the karaoke, the culture,... no need to go further, the relationship is doomed already. As for the family, I guess i never had the problem as I have a good situation and I always needed a few minute to make the families like me, even I was married before and have 2 other kids... That is true that dating is taken at a serious level and mostly it is not like in the west as much people see dating as playing with no consequences. With the society pressure in Vietnam, mostly each woman after 25 is looking for a familly or her familly expect it. Even I was older when I came to vn, I met a lot of younger ones that wanted to make me theirs... :) One point that is not mentioned here is that a vn woman will accept girls around one guy as long as he is not her guy. Once the relationship has started, she will clean around and beware the one that will try to snatch her boyfriend... they are very exclusive... (i like that... )
@normtran7501
@normtran7501 2 жыл бұрын
😀😀😀interesting and very true in most examples and the Chinese bf seeing his gf s parents is sort of true to some degree especially if their daughter is very young, pretty, and successful. if their daughter is closed to marriage age, the parents would usually have lower expectations even if their daughter is pretty and successful.
@holayhing2742
@holayhing2742 2 жыл бұрын
I am Cambodian. You are my idol
@stevefrench7036
@stevefrench7036 2 жыл бұрын
5:21 well at least he appropriately used his left hand open when he performed the salute
@mateschitz
@mateschitz 2 жыл бұрын
Once you’ve dated a Vietnamese woman you’re done with western girls!
@murphmurph2124
@murphmurph2124 Жыл бұрын
Vietnamese women are so beautiful
@piotr4248
@piotr4248 2 жыл бұрын
Good narration and very interesting reactions 😊. But I still don’t know what she is thinking and how long it takes to get married.
@NaTi-fz3cn
@NaTi-fz3cn 2 жыл бұрын
Hi
@YoAddicts
@YoAddicts 2 жыл бұрын
Hmm...Been dating a Vietnamese girlfriend for over 5 years and It's pretty accurate, but I think it also depends on your girlfriend's personality. Language barrier is something I worry about sometimes but Vietnamese parents seem friendly and cool about me. I noticed they feed you a lot whenever there's a meal. Haha
@doriangraham2644
@doriangraham2644 2 жыл бұрын
Not possible hook up in Vietnam ??
@sm69g
@sm69g 10 ай бұрын
​@@doriangraham2644possible,go to the bars and clubs where most of the women are westernizedd
@Johnmith626
@Johnmith626 2 жыл бұрын
The saving face thing i feel is the most asian thing indian, chinese or any asian ethnicity , parents approval for their childrens marriage is super important.
@liarliar1408
@liarliar1408 2 жыл бұрын
Why save face? When you have their daughter, you have the control. Her daughter may choose you over her parents and if you have your own place and for her to move on into your domain, you do not worry about the losing face part as already hold all the cards.
@XTen1000DaysX
@XTen1000DaysX Жыл бұрын
@@liarliar1408 what is losing and saving face?
@Icytres
@Icytres Жыл бұрын
I'm dating a Vietnamese girl and she's my everything now. ^-^
@johndang8971
@johndang8971 Жыл бұрын
I went out with a vietnamese girl and all she did was yell at me every 5 minutes. It was awful. I had to constantly take pictures of her and she always complained the pictures were terrible while cursing at me
@datfier2678
@datfier2678 2 жыл бұрын
So very funny em what a cute girl 👍👍
@user-ik8wd9vm7r
@user-ik8wd9vm7r 2 жыл бұрын
Some things make sense and I can respect certain aspects of different cultures specially how sweet these two look, but also here many situations seem to be very sexist.
@kiranshetty3396
@kiranshetty3396 2 жыл бұрын
That chinese advertisement made my day...lol 🤣🤣 all the asian parents are the same 🤣🤣🤣
@blutey
@blutey 2 ай бұрын
A lot of the cultural aspects in general and to dating in VN are similar to Thailand too.
@buckroo8424
@buckroo8424 2 жыл бұрын
晚回面子saving face is so important in most Asian cultures! I find so many similarities from this video to that of Chinese culture.
@MikeBrown-ex9nh
@MikeBrown-ex9nh 2 жыл бұрын
My Chinese wife has her own way of saving face, she never admits to being wrong and everything is always someone else's fault. Usually mine.
@charlesbullghost5491
@charlesbullghost5491 2 жыл бұрын
I' m in love with country ,veitnam just veitnan.
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