Vim Kuv Tsis Yog Koj Nplooj Siab. 9/2/2021

[@shengyang5884]

Pab kj txiv tu siab thb khuv xim kj txiv txoj kev hlb lub zog tu thb txawb kj kawm kawg li os viv ncau g tsim nyog kj yuav tu siab rau kj txiv ib nyuag qho li

[@tongher8912]

Tsim nyog tu koj txiv lub siab kawg. Ho koj mas tsis tsim nyog tu siab nawb. Luag cawm u txoj sia u thiaj tau ua neeg nyob lub qab ntuj no. Oh vaj tswv.......

[@Ritathao.]

Txhob tu siab rau koj txiv os vim txoj kev tu siab kom koj txau siab xaiv,

[@kazouaher2496]

Tus viv ncaus tsi txhob tu siab mog qhov ua koj mob yog 50 feem pua tab si koj txi mob mas tseem tshaj 100 pua feem pua. Vim nws muab tam tsho nws lub neej hlub thiab cias siab rau ib lees xwb muaj ib nub tws koj laus li koj txiv lawm koj mam paub koj txiv txoj kev mob mog yeej tsi tim koj txiv tas 2 thiab yeej yog tim koj thiab.

[@user-bw9ro3jz4v]

Your dad loves you. He is just a typical OG. He say things to make you change your mind even though it's harsh words. Don't think that he didn't love you. It seems like he loves you more than your siblings. He just say words that he didn't mean it because he was angry at your choices. My dad was like that too.

[@jasonfang6912]

Right on!

[@tharinpaya7605]

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[@haylayyang7900]

🥲🥲 I cried listening to this. It's sad for the father to throw away their relationship because of his high ego. I hope people learn from this.

[@maxt4364]

May I’m sure owner of this story is so happy how you were able to retell her story and go into details of her heartache. You did a wonderful job! Sister, I hope you will enjoy all the good things life have to offer. Best wishes.

[@ntsuabyajchannel5067]

Koj txhob tu siab os koj txiv hlub koj tshaj nplaws li koj txiv thiaj qhia koj os

[@Lifemoments54]

I am sure your father loved you. He raised you as his own loved you supported you and probably placed all his hopes and dreams on you but when you married outside of race, he felt you betrayed him so he hurt you on purpose to see if you would crawl back to him. At least he admitted his mistakes at last. Such a sad story but yet I am happy that you found true love and peace.

[@jasonfang6912]

Well said!

[@maihmoob3646]

Your dad loves you, a father that works a regular job and farm outside to send you to medical school loves you. You disappointed him so much to the point it broke his heart. He's a typical older generation guy that is why he disown you. Even if you are his biological child he'll do the same. One day when your child disappoint you, you will understand where your dad was coming from. You are the one child that he loves the most, do you know why because he waited to see you before taking his last breath. You are a mother now, you will understand him one day. I know that he truly loves you.

[@ฉางแซ่ท้าว]

@ยศบู๊ใบฝูง

[@kittydanny2858]

Nws yeej hlub koj kawg os mog vim koj txoj kev hlub nws g nyiam es thiaj ua li os nws hlub koj kawg os zam txim rau nws nawb nws yeej hlub koj kawgos

[@hawjlaujchannel3226]

Tab zoo rau qhov tia tsi yog kuv tu no xwb tab si pab koj txiv tu siab kawg os

[@msjtworld8815]

The title should read “ kuv yog kog plog siab”. I’m crying listening to your story. Your dad is a great father despite what he did to you when he disapproved your marriage. He was not your biological father but he raised you to be the daughter and doctor you are today. That says a lot!

[@kaciewanh1986]

You misspell Hmong words. "Kuv yog koj nplooj siab"

[@ncouazooxwbya1552]

What?

[@hhuu2973]

@@kaciewanh1986 ຍບວີຮພ

[@magicalunicorn5853]

As parents, when you’re older with family, who you marry won’t matter. Right now they are just angry because their expectations are what they want, not what you want.

[@7stars2love]

I agree, perfect statig.

[@xyoojmeelauj7355]

Yog ib zaj tus siab kawg li os .

[@mntxy300]

Koj txiv ntshaw nyiaj tiag2 li txhob tu siab os kav tsij hlub2 koj tus txiv wb mog

[@yajmim5625]

Tu siab kawg li o.😭😭

[@gurl08]

Sister, dont be sad. You are so blessed. You have such a wonderful and supportive husband. Love your little family. Stop worrying so much about irrelevant people.

[@lisalor3712]

Zaj no tus siab kawg li os niam ntsuab teev koj hai tau zoo kawg li

[@koaherr]

Zaj no tu siab heev dhau.

[@morhang2703]

Koj zaj dab neeg tu siab heev os kuv nim nrog koj quaj quaj os tus viv ncaus aw

[@magicalunicorn5853]

What a great story you’ve shared sister. Our heartbreak when our parents cut us off. We take it to heart and we can do as they say. They just don’t think we can be that strong but we are. You’ve shared the heartache you felt when your father cast you off for not approving of your husband. You stood your ground, chose the person you love, achieved everything you desired and he should be happy for you. In the end he was. He just had too much pride to show it. You did well sister. Let go of the heartache. You can’t control what others think of you.

[@naleeyang602]

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[@kahouayang535]

Thank you for sharing. Your dad loves you so much. Sometimes, parents say hurtful things in the heat of a moment. Even birth parents (I know from experience). I know your dad and family still loves you. I hope you continue to visit your family and become a part of the Hmong community.

[@yeebntshachannel9254]

Txhob tu Siab os mog koj tus Txiv Twb hlub2 koj es koj Txiv txawm muab koj ncaws tawm lawm los yus nrog yus tus txiv UA neej xwb es pab koj Zoo2 Siab nawb mog 👍

[@Phouavang123]

Your daddy loves u so much, the Hmong old men just like that, don’t feel sad sister.! Love your story.!

[@loriyang591]

Koj yog nws nplooj siab nws thiaj li mob siab tshaj plaws. Koj muab hmoo tau ib leej txiv hlub koj thiab txhawb koj txawm koj tsis yog nws yug. Had you married someone your father liked, he probably would have given you everything because you were his hope. Sadly, he lost his hope in you. Thank you for sharing your story.

[@nhesung9327]

Zaj neej neeg no thaum tau tutu siab heev li os

[@pebtsevxeemthoj3391]

Wow you went through a lot . It’s very sad. I’m crying with you…sister. I glad your husband love you unconditionally.

[@tengyang3604]

Nco ntsoov yus yeej ua ib yam rau lawv tag kev cia siab lawm thiab nws thiaj ua kom yus tus siab tab si yog tsis muaj koj niam thiab koj txiv tshiab ces koj niam yeej muab koj tso tseg tim kev es koj yeej tsis muaj txoj sia lawm. Nws yeej tseem muaj txiaj ntsim rau koj thiab kuv yeej muaj txiv tshiab thiab kuv yeej nco ntsoov nws tus txhiaj ntsim qhov nws tus kuv loj.

[@pebtsevxeemthoj3391]

Yog nws txiv tu yeej hlub nws kawg lawm tabsi cov Laus lub sijhawm thaum ntawv tsi tau accept tej tub tej ntxhais yuav lwm hom neeg xwb.

[@nouyang3166]

You're so lucky you adopted parents loves you like their own. You don't really hear stories like that in Hmong. He loves you but he just wanted thing his way.

[@cheeher5105]

Tub2 siab li o Vim yog kj txiv hlub2 kj Kj txiv thiaj li hasi li no rau kj xb o

[@kalvinhawj1359]

Thank you sharing your life story. I felt like I was watching one of those Hmong dubbed Indian movies. I could feel the pain on both sides...brought tears as well.

[@colleenchan9872]

Koj muaj hmoo heev tau ib cov zoo niam zoo ib leej txiv os! Lawv yeej hlub koj kawg vim koj ua tsis tau li lawv txoj kev ntshaw kev xav es thiaj hais txhua yam kom mob koj os!!

[@TheOnlyLuscious1]

You were lucky to have had adoptive parents who loved you, in our Hmong culture this a a rare thing. He just showing you the OG hard love. If anything like others have said he probably had more hopes and dreams for you than your siblings. Glad you have a loving supportive husband.

[@hawjlaujchannel3226]

Tu siab nrog koj txiv tiag 2 li os

[@maileevang2103]

Koj txhob tu siab rau koj txiv nawj mog

[@kthao685]

Alot of parents think that "tough" love is necessary, but honestly it hurts the children even more! My mom is a person who shows love this way so I too know how you feel.

[@yingvang1276]

It's not tough love. It's selfishness and racist, parents like her father.

[@DsDs-cy5pn]

Kj hai tau tu siab heev li o moog koj cov neej neeg tag ce tsis xav ua neeg li lm o tu siab tiag2 li

[@Hmoobnplogthovkhawv]

Kv mloog zaj neej neeg no ua rau kv los kua muag heev ,muaj qhov tu siab heev ho muajqhov zoo siab kawg thiab, tus me niam hluas kj g txhob tu siab rau kj txiv mog ,kj txiv yeej hlub kj kawg nkaus ,qhov kj txiv tau hais cov lus rau kj los vim kj txiv hlub kj heev kawg kj txiv xav kom kj yuav hmoob kom raws li kj txiv lub siab ntshaw ,kj txhob tu siab rau kk txiv mog me niam hluas ,yeej meem hlub kj 2 tug niam thiab kj cov niam hluas cov nus li qub mog

[@kittydanny2858]

Tab sis zoo qhov koj tau lub neej zoo thiab tus txiv hlub22 koj os

[@wbvang3481]

Cas hais tau tu siab ua luaj os lawv aw😪😪

[@phem55]

What a sad story….I don’t like to judge a book by it’s covered, but your birth mother doesn’t deserve to claim you…so sorry you have to go through all these heart aches

[@Nothing-wn3vb]

Very sad story. Is a really good story

[@foodie1151]

What a heartbreaking story! 😭 our parents give us tough love but what your father gave you was harsh. Although, I truly believe that he still loved you deep inside. Continue to love both of your moms and have your girls build relationships with them. Life is too short so take advantage of every moment you still have with them.

[@maiherojj]

Birth father or not, he loves you. Even biological parents would threaten to disowned you when things don't go their way. Those words he said are hurtful, but they still love you.

[@luckyflower916]

I’m crying with you sister. The older generations were very judgmental. They tried to control instead of leading with love and acceptance. No matter what your dad said, I’m sure he thought of you often and still loved you all your life. Such a sad story. Nice job relaying the deep longing and emotions of this story May.

[@thaivvajkwvtxhiajhmoobchan5001]

mloog kj zaj neej neeg no kua muag los2 li os tus me muam aw

[@vuexiong4527]

Hais Tau Tu siab ua luaj li o

[@minecraftboy2676]

Girl, so sorry you went through so much but sometimes we have to go through in order to have and found and know loving people to love us unconditionally. Live and love your children and your husband and make a life with them.

[@balormisss9400]

Kuv mloog koj neej neeg no mas kuv lo2kua muag kawg o

[@hawjlaujchannel3226]

Yog yug tau ntxhai zoo li koj xwb ma tu siab thhaj os

[@maiyiaxiong4898]

Beautiful story. Got me teary 😢

[@cassidyvue]

OMG! I cried. What a sad life. But, at least your two moms loves you. I think you were left with a great family considering you're not blood related to them. Your dad truly loves you but he's just so old fashioned unopened minded. But, growing up he loves you as you described. I will remind myself to listen to this story if and when my children chooses other race to marry. So glad your husband loves you. Now days, Hmong men doesn't love their wife deeply anymore.

[@NiamTxawjXav]

Me ntxhais aws, koj txiv yeej hlub koj heev os mog tab sis cov neeg laus tsis muaj kev kawm kev txawj ntse ces kawg ua koj txiv lub maib xwb. Koj txiv yeej hlub koj ib yam li koj Yog nws yug nawb es nws thiaj li mob siab chim siab thaum hais tsis tau koj. Yog tsis muaj nws ces koj twb tsis muaj hnub no thiab es txhob tu2 siab os mog. Zam txim rau koj txiv es khaws qhov zoo thiab nws txoj kev hlub los ua koj lub neej xwb.

[@ahuamb1915]

Txhb tu siab rau kj txiv os kj txiv yeej ib txwm hlub koj puag thaum kj poob ntav hauv kj niam plab lo nawb ne chimchim rau j nw lam hai kom seb kj pua ua li qhov kj txiv nyiam xwb nw yeej siab zoo kawg thiajbkhaws kj lo tus nb

[@morthao2791]

Sister don't be sad

[@hmonglauj6290]

Agreed with others. Your dad’s love is tough love. You are his vision, love, and pride. You should be happy especially you’re not his birth child. Bc of him pushing you to study hard, you’re you today. Be thankful. Don’t dwell on his vented anger at you. After all his love for you is not fake. Most Men are like that when they’re upset , they spout nonsense. Choose happiness. Choose joys.

[@kabzuagangelivajvwj412]

Ua tsaug rau koj khwv22 los tseem hais neej neeg dab neeg tso peb mloog nawb mog

[@blongvang5006]

Koj Xaiv tau tus yog lawm tsis tu siab rau koj lub neej mog.

[@brendayangvang9756]

Oh cas ho nyiam india, hmoob g muaj ler lo cas, thiab koj yeej tawv ncauj thiab g mloog lus

[@bluelyvue4915]

Txhob tu siab os luag tsis hlub thiaj li tsi tshuas lawv nqis os menkauj hmoob

[@longlauba9345]

Bất ngờ quá

[@amyyang624]

Be grateful that you got the opportunity to hear your dad’s last word whereas many people out there that are still “tu tu siab” because they never got a sense of closure from their parent/s.

[@ncouazooxwbya1552]

Sister aws!!! I am crying with you by listening to your story about your father’s disowned you because you decided to married to the person who loved you and you loved him other than your own race. Your father was a traditional hmoob man had a heart of prejudice without definition of what loves all about for other’s!. Hmong peoples still have a prejudices mind as well as narrow minded within their heart, however they don’t realized that no matter who their son or daughter choose to marry to was by heart not the race. Hmong peoples now a day marriage are the worst than other race because too! many adultery committed most the man. I am super proud of you for chooses your mate by the heart, may God continue to blessing you & your husband for a life long of happiness!!

[@baovang6691]

I'm sure your father loves you very much. He waited for you. Some hmomg people have a backward way of loving you. They try to apply tough love and they like to hit you where it hurts to make you turn back to them. It's poor communication and lack of emotional intelligence that causes so much heart ache. Always learn to forgive and count your blessings. You are loved and have so much loved.

[@ntsuabyajchannel5067]

Kon txhob tu siab rau koj txiv os koj txiv yeej hlub koj heev os mog es koj t I've twb muab nws txoj kev Cia siab tso tag nrho rau koj koj txiv twb g tso Cia siab rau cov ua nwd yug kiag es thsum kawg koj tseem ua li ko thiab ced koj txiv thiaj tu siab ua luaj li los mas me ntxhais aw tab sis qhov zoo no ces neb 2 txiv tub txawj sib zam txim xwb os mog

[@hawjlaujchannel3226]

Koj tu rauv tawj ua rau koj lub neej muaj hnub no vim koj txi tab si koj tsi koj txiv tu siab kawg

[@yingxiong5615]

What a sad story it was for ever.

[@hawjlaujchannel3226]

Koj zoo siab rau koj tu kheej koj tsi hlub tej lau

[@bluewhisper5008]

Girl!! You should be more open minded since you're the educated one. Your father loves you. How many parents would ever support a child who is not their blood to go to college like your father? He should be more open minded about your husband, but he's an OG with a mindset of 1975. You should be more greatful. My husband is almost the same way your father is to our daughter too and she is his biological daughter. So hearing your story, he does love you. He lost hope in you.

[@maimiller-4660]

He gave you life, worked the farmers market to support you, he loves you.

[@norrisxiong9660]

Sister, txhob tu siab, koj txiv yeej hlub koj kawg tab sis vim tej laus lawv tsis txawj xav thiab siv hwj chim los tswj me nyuam ces ua rau peb tu tu siab xwb, kuv tus me ntxhais nkauj ntxawm twb mus ua nyab rau ib tsev neeg meskas dawb thiab, lawv yeej zoo zoo kawg.

[@sunsaixiong6178]

Thanks for sharing your story sister, very sad story I know your father still love 💕 you

[@rosavang8404]

Your family Love you the more he yell you the more he love and care about you. He want you to be like his other kids. If he not love you then you already found out the truth long time but he love you as his own daughter. And you shouldn’t be sad on him, you should be happy and thanks for the his love for you.

[@touaxiong5341]

Love, protect, success, selfish, disappoint all in this story

[@lisvaj7375]

I want to give you the biggest hug. Your story touched me.

[@mchmonglauj]

I'm sorry you went through a lot. You were hurt by your father's words but he was also hurt by you. You could have grown up in an unloving home and would've had a bad childhood. Instead he took you without any hesitation and loved you. You could've made an effort to come back when he asked for you. I hope you continue to take your family to vist your moms. Wish you the best.

[@nkaujnagvaj]

Zoo kawg li os

[@mthoj]

My heart ❤️.... 😭😭😭😭😭

[@7stars2love]

Despite the fact of the story Tittle, Vim kuv tsis yog koj nplooj siab, He was not your nplooj siab either. There was no connection, that was why when you heard your dad was dying and you didn't have the feeling of love to come back for a visit.

[@Kuvlixwb]

I agree with you, sound like she didn’t care her father as much too.

[@Neejneegsabsijhuam]

😢😢😢😭😭😭😭😭

[@baoyang6462]

Sister you dad love you so much don’t feel bad for you dad you sound know what hmong people do for their kids even their son or daughter married different people they do the same like that too but he love you you the only lucky to got mom and dad love you .

[@น้อยเวียงจันทน์]

Tus sister yog koj yog ib tug neeg txawj tu siab npaum ko koj yuav paub tias koj txiv tseem tu siab tshaj koj nawb mog g tsim nyog koj tu siab rau koj txiv nawb

[@baoyangfamilychannel7814]

Oh cas koj siab tawv ua luaj na koj txiv siab loj herv nws thiaj tu tau koj thiaj hlub txhawb tau koj laiv cas koj tseem ua tau rau koj txiv tag kev cia siab thiab.

[@hawjlaujchannel3226]

Yog okj yog koj txiv yug ce koj txi tsi ntiab koj tawm vim yog koj txi yug yog koj txiv li roj ntsha ce koj twb hsi tau koj lawm thiab

[@a2dazgod539]

A big majority of Indian people I know are education focused and high achievers but good luck for you lady personally I can stand their smell and stinginess. When two different cultures and philosophy meet you will find struggles before you find peace

[@1PinkPanda]

So sad to hear of what you went through sister, my heart goes out to you. :( What your father did in regards to your marriage is so wrong! On the positive side, you seem to have a wonderful husband, and that's a blessing!

[@mabvajchannelvaj3988]

action speeks louder than words. Whoever raises you loves you! Peroid.

[@whatheck6797]

Aww. *hugs* I believe your father really does love you. He just wanted to scared you so you’ll changed your mind but then it turns out to backfire him. 😢

[@Loves_GodSR]

Awwww... sister. May you find it in your heart to forgive your father. From your story, he does love you.

[@hmoobtxomnyemtojsiab4731]

Tus niam tij koj lub neej puas muaj kev tu siab thiab os cas koj tham cov neej neeg muaj kev tu siab li no koj pheej quaj ua rau peb cov saib lo lo kua muag li thiab os

[@ntsuabyajchannel5067]

Koj txiv yeej tseem mob siab thiab hlub koj kawg li os me ntxhais txhob tu2 siab thiab os mog koj twb tau lub neej zoo zoo lawm nrog koj zoo siab os

[@pengvang5831]

Your father was a great man, and just needed some improvement on his outlook in life. Even a murderous in Prison can still be forgiven by the victim's family.

[@MAIX88]

This is so sad 😭 may you find peace in your heart and live a happy life 🙏🏼❤️

[@soriyalor8931]

I feel sad and very sorry for your dad and your mom who raised you.

[@sayyang767]

Koj Txiv neb ces zoo ib yas xwb. Koj los zoo lis koj. Koj Txiv los zoo lis koj Txiv tiab.

[@vanakaanhmoob8151]

I am glad that in the end, your father reached out to you and waited for you to come see him before he passed. It's unfortunate that because of "close-mindedness" that led to the destruction of yours and his relationship. So many years wasted. I can understand your hurt because words can break someone no doubt. And you have the right to feel that way. No one wore your shoes during that time, only you did. No matter what happened in the past, I hope that you are able to move forward knowing that your father probably felt so bad for his role too. *hugs*.

[@nouthao4669]

Qhov koj txiv tu koj vim hmoob ib txwm tias me nyuam taub mas thiab nre .es koj txiv thiaj txaus siab khaw koj los tu. Koj yeej ua tau qhov koj txiv nrhav lawm. Tab sim vim koj tus vauv xwb. Txhob tu siab os..

[@thaevang5369]

Pab tus txiv ntxawm los yog hlob no tu siab kawg yus muab luag nqaij los npuab yus nqaij yeej tsis sov nawb. Tsis tsim nyog khaws nws thaum taub hau luaj nrig es mas coj los tu kom tiav niam 1 tug neeg tej laus tso mus kawm txawj kawm ntse es txog thaum kawg mus yuav tej tug dub cuag qab lauj kaub ces txhais tau tias tus neeg no nyiam tog nruab nrab tshaj li tej laus cob qhia lawm.

[@ntxhiandnomlwmchannel7785]

Sister I believe your dad loved you, your dad was a hmong OG style, he hurts you because he felt you betrayed him but OG they don't understand but I believe he still love you.

[@QaibT]

Zaj lus no koj niam tau dag tias koj niam g paub tus txiv neej ntawd tias g muaj poj niam no yog lo lus dag lawm xwb

[@อนุชนาถจ]

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