Virtual Reality: How Love Works in a Simulation with Tom Campbell (1 of 3)

[@RandallsRestRelaxation]

I love how you highlight Tom's main points on the left while he is talking !

[@EvitaOchel]

Great to hear you enjoyed that addition, thank you for letting me know.

[@truthnfreedomseeker]

Thank you, I needed to hear this. "Your task is not to seek love, but merely to seek and find all barriers within yourself that you have built against it." ~Rumi

[@EvitaOchel]

Beautiful addition from Rumi. Thank you for your feedback and comment!

[@lbeschrich]

Thanks for sharing!

[@adammorra3813]

I need this message now, more than ever. Thank you for this great interview and I love how you highlight points on the left.

[@EvitaOchel]

@@adammorra3813 My sincere pleasure and thank you for your kind feedback. 🙏

[@dawnfreshour8425]

The more he talks, the more interesting his teachings get. Very helpful. And, just what I needed to hear! Greatly appreciated. Keep up the awesome work.

[@EvitaOchel]

Glad it was helpful! Thank you, Dawn.

[@mau_lopez]

ABSOLUTELY GREAT SHOW ! THE BEST OF THE BEST ! Evita, Tom, you are a pair of angels. Evita, your shows with Tom are wonderful, asking the important questions, highlighting in text the quintessentials and putting all together. And Tom, all wonderful things about you have already been said by many others, you are love and knowledge. Thank you both from the bottom of my heart !

[@EvitaOchel]

Many, many thanks for your love and joy filled comment. It warms my heart to read and makes all of this work that much more enjoyable :)

[@Duelweb]

I viewed this today - 6 years from publish date. Tom, you are a king! Evita, everything Tom says about you is so true. Thanks for this beautiful presentation!

[@EvitaOchel]

Our pleasure, and thank you for your beautiful comment and feedback :)

[@sindaldusc4411]

You did such an incredible job on this interview!! Such a wonderful interaction, and letting him fully develop his points, encouraging further thought, and making use of effective highlights is masterful! I was able to take so much wisdom away from this, and I am truly grateful for the work the both of you do in service of all beings. Thank You♥

[@EvitaOchel]

@@sindaldusc4411 My sincere pleasure, and thank you so much for taking the time to share your meaningful feedback. It is greatly appreciated, and it is wonderful to know that you found the episode valuable.

[@hyrum_abiff4325]

That was the best compliment that he gave her at the start .

[@EvitaOchel]

Thank you for your positive observation.

[@fernandorodrigues8300]

Thank you Mrs. Evita Ochel & Mr. Tom Campbell, these videos saved my life and put me back on track to lower my entropy & raise my quality to become a fearless love being before the end of time! Bless you all for your treasured time and priceless energy! What a blast!

[@EvitaOchel]

So, so, so wonderful to hear!!!! Thank you for sharing your beautiful comment.

[@huyentrang191]

wonderful interview! well done! I come from a Buddhist culture and we also learn the same things from the Buddha. It was not easy for me living in the west where people have a lot but are negative and anxious most of the time. There is so much fear people allow to hold them back. All is created by your own Citta (your heart/mind). If you want to be happy, free yourself from desire and expectations. Great that a western scientist talks about this. There is a teaching from the Buddha: ''No one can make you suffer unless you allow him to do so''. Happiness is your choice!

[@EvitaOchel]

Yes, yes, yes! Thank you so much for this wonderful addition Trang :)

[@McD-j5r]

I had to put boundaries to everything that I am not to firstly understand what I am. I started to love by loving what I am first. Then, it came peace and love.

[@EvitaOchel]

Thank you for sharing your experience.

[@m1chael897]

Reharding 'fears'. 36:25 "own them, ignore them and put them aside" Couldn't relate more to this on getting over a lot of personal fear I have built up inside me. I like being able to see the progress I'm making. Cheers.

[@EvitaOchel]

Excellent to hear Mike. Thank you for watching and sharing your comment.

[@myeika]

Evita, you and Tom have, over time changed my life with what you have helped me to understand. It's great to see more and more people finding their truth within, clearing house and are learning how to 'just be Love', and enjoy it! Thank you both,

[@EvitaOchel]

So wonderful to hear and positively moving to read - thank you!

[@MorpheusArtStudio4Blues]

You are both beings of love. ... thanks for doing this for free and help so many!

[@EvitaOchel]

Thank you for your beautiful comment!

[@brianmcnellis5512]

Morpheus Art Studio

[@camranh1968]

I found this at the right time as I need it atm. Thank you.

[@EvitaOchel]

Great to hear, and thank you for sharing your comment.

[@colin1235421]

Wow i really like how you created a table of contents with links to the times in the video, and I love the practical advice given here... OMG I needed this video years ago

[@EvitaOchel]

Great to hear you enjoyed it and found it valuable. Best wishes!

[@onlybuilt4cubantwins500]

Grateful to come across this information. Pass this on until everyone has heard what Tom is saying

[@EvitaOchel]

Thank you for sharing your comment.

[@jimchambers8580]

I watch this every so often. It's that Good!

[@EvitaOchel]

Happy to know this is valuable for you! Thank you for your feedback :)

[@treenopie]

1:15:40 "Be authentic... Start from wherever you are and work your way out one little step at a time."

[@justinarmbruster3960]

Thanks for sharing! Spreading love is important! I will also agree that the bulletin points were a nice touch. Great video! For anyone watching that’s going through a rough patch just know that I love you!

[@EvitaOchel]

Thank you for your nice feedback and kind comment Justin.

[@happygirl4life]

Thank you so much Evita! Another wonderful interview with this brilliant man. Tom is both a scientist and a mystic. He is so articulate and always manages to explain these complex concepts from various viewpoints so everyone can eventually grasp it.

[@EvitaOchel]

My pleasure :) And thank you for your beautiful comment, which is so perfectly reflective of Tom indeed.

[@rk9044]

GREAT lecture on getting un-stuck from just about every limiting situation...Love, explained so beautifully!

[@EvitaOchel]

Thank you for sharing your nice feedback.

[@ConstanceMaas]

"Love is the reason we're here" So simple! Well done Evita, well done. Thank you for your effort. Thank you for sharing. I wish you love out of control! ~ Christopher

[@EvitaOchel]

My pleasure and thank you for your feedback.

[@alexkhutornyi403]

Thank you Evita so very much! Amazing interview, amazing description to video, amazing key notes on video!

[@EvitaOchel]

My pleasure, Alexander, and thank you for your great feedback :)

[@margaretbarry4689]

This has answered sooooo many of my dilemmas! Thank you thank you Thank you 😅🎉

[@EvitaOchel]

@@margaretbarry4689 That is great to hear! Thank you for sharing your feedback ☺️

[@alistairbest3622]

Dear Tom and Evita: Thank you so much for such a great interview; I have been following Tom’s interviews and seminars since 2008; and I should say this interview was the most enlightening thus far; I particularly appreciated your efforts to put the MBT in a context of life and I liked the fact that you have chosen the specific topic of “LOVE” and how the MBT concept of Love as “the low entropy consciousness” could be directly applied in daily life’s situations. Thanks you very much, my best wishes to both of you !!! Ali B.

[@EvitaOchel]

So, so, so wonderful to read your feedback Ali and that this show had such a positive impact. Thank you from the depths of my heart for taking the time to share all that you have. It is so greatly appreciated.

[@Dave51262]

Very well done interview and great content. I really liked the bullet points put up on the left side to reinforce learning. Thanks so much.

[@EvitaOchel]

Thank you kindly for your feedback Dave! Great to hear you enjoyed it.

[@jneatrour1]

Tom is right. Evita knocks it out of the park again...such a gifted interlocutor! Thanks for providing a platform for this kind of discussion, Evita.

[@EvitaOchel]

You are most welcome, and thank you so much for the wonderful feedback. It was so meaningful and heart-warming to read

[@insight7483]

This is some of the best knowledge I’ve ever seen 👍

[@EvitaOchel]

Great to hear you enjoyed it Sasha.

[@bohodogon974]

Every time I tune into toms and his lovely interviewer energy,...it just awakens every cell on the deepest level, super grateful of this sharing,...one day, each one of us will understand the profound connection we all have to each other, how we are all conjoined in awareness,..and how it will depend on each of us opening up our hearts energy to change inside, thus outside. Thank you beyond the stars......

[@EvitaOchel]

With immense pleasure! And thank you for your heart-felt comment and feedback.

[@wendyhoward472]

Your name was mentioned in a podcast I was watching. Great interview. Look forward to listening to more of Tom, he is easy to listen to, calm, wise man. Thank you. Dec2023

[@EvitaOchel]

Great to hear that you enjoyed the video episode. Thanks for stopping by!

[@DevendraTak]

So much to learn in just this single video. It's a manual really that must be referred to regularly to manoeuvre this virtual reality. Thank you

[@EvitaOchel]

Great comment! Thanks for watching and sharing your thoughts.

[@sngscratcher]

"You don't need to get something new; you need to get rid of something old" (i.e., fear). That pretty much says it all!

[@EvitaOchel]

Thanks for watching and sharing this important message!

[@slporter722]

Excellent information that is relevant in my life. I have lived from fear my whole life and have been trying to become fearless for many years now. Yes, it takes courage...I'm making baby steps and sometimes I take a step backwards. This video has given me some practical tools I can use to move forward. My ultimate goal for my life is to be fearless. I have a ways to go yet. Just being authentic is challenging as my fear is so ingrained. I will need to listen to this video multiple times.

[@EvitaOchel]

So wonderful to hear Sherri! And it all starts with intention, as we will cover in the next video, and you've got it. Your strong desire to be fearless will provide the motivation to keep taking those steps, and that is what matters so much, and how positive change takes place. I am so happy for you and wish you strength and courage to carry on, and enjoy the results of your efforts :)

[@slporter722]

Thank you so much...your words and this video meant so much to me. I look forward to the next one.

[@GregoryDodds080969]

Sherri Porter same here, exactly my life and thoughts of my current position.

[@JoshuaLucion]

I love Tom's response to negativity and hes so right. Right when someone is calling you hateful names "you just walk up and give them a hug". Turn a negative into a positive by changing the way you react to something. We don't have any control over others but we can choose the way we react to something in a positive way. Relationship issues you have the hardest time in, you have the most to learn from. As this is your objective viewpoint defining you. Give them the respect that you may not be right and then explain your reasoning. I use to help couples in closed marriage counselling and had great success after people learned to respect another point of view than their own. People can't handle the ego deflation long enough to really listen and reflect, then react. Great work Tom! Love peace and prosperity to all.

[@EvitaOchel]

Josh, thank you so much for taking the time to share your wonderful comments, insights and takeaways from this video series.

[@JoshuaLucion]

Thank you Evita for taking the time from your life to post this powerful information that I find as absolute truth. I had a near death experience which makes perfect sense with this understanding in mind. Keep up the good work. Love Peace and Prosperity

[@EvitaOchel]

Josh L My pleasure, and thank you!

[@1love1soul25]

Its wonderful that tom is bringing awareness to the truth of love. I am beyond grateful. I just would like to bring up the fact that fear won't go away by ignoring it. It must be embraced with love. Love will replace all aspects of the ego when ascension becomes a full time activity.

[@EvitaOchel]

Yes, well said. Thank you for sharing your comment.

[@lanelon9435]

The universe must have sent me here , For this a message I needed to here . The beautiful host and a man named Campbell , Have joined forces to help make me well . I know I have a lot of work to do , So let me start by saying thank you . Happy winter solstice to all

[@EvitaOchel]

What a beautiful poetic expression! It brought a big smile to my face and I am so grateful for you taking the time to share it. Happy winter solstice to you as well :)

[@lanelon9435]

I guess it is obvious that I meant to write "hear ' in the second line . I never claim to be the sharpest toll in the shed .

[@scottbaylo]

lane lon you have to pay a toll in your own shed?!😉

[@fixiesandrainbows]

Love the way that you put this together!

[@EvitaOchel]

Great to hear, Diego, thank you!

[@nilug.9444]

Infinite gratitude for this video! It was much needed right NOW! Thanks Evita and Tom.

[@EvitaOchel]

You are so very welcome and always great to hear that it came at just the right time :) Thank you for sharing your comment!

[@lourdesmateos5254]

My dear Evita, thanks very much for your beautiful words. I have watched all your videos with Tom and I keep watching them again and again because always there is a new understanding. I really wish to be courageous enough from the bottom of my heart to make the decision to change and became this Love I feel inside is possible to be. Thanks very much for your wonderful work. With Love, Lourdes

[@EvitaOchel]

You are so very welcome :) Lots of love and strength for your journey!

[@AndromedaImagination77]

I think we're going to evolve to a society that is aware of who they are, that we are a unity of singularities of the same consciousness and we will know exactly whats our part and whats the others part. We will fit so perfectly into a super organized natural system and that will be the ultimate higher loving consciousness experience, and then unto a new and bigger experience, for ever... awe, can't wait!!

[@EvitaOchel]

Beautiful! Thank you so much for sharing your wonderful insights :)

[@consciouscleaning3146]

Yessss

[@ZyPhReX]

Heck yes! Have been wondering if you were going to have Tom again [: Thanks for this video. Your work and his work are really amazing and are really helping people through life and for that we are grateful. Keep up the great work Evita!

[@EvitaOchel]

You are most welcome! And thank you for sharing your excitement, enthusiasm and gratitude. It makes doing all this that much more enjoyable :)

[@ZyPhReX]

Definitely! You're series of videos is one of the most incisive and yet broadest of Campbell. And you have many other interesting videos/topics on your channel too, which makes it rather refreshing. Definitely looking forward to the next two and more.

[@performancetesting1]

Thank you for posting this video. This helps me tremendously. Tom's a very helpful mentor.

[@EvitaOchel]

You are very welcome and that is really great to hear, Christopher.

[@concsiousbeing790]

another great interview evita!! thank you and thank you tom! love you both! :)

[@BuddhaLove77]

This is a wonderful wonderful interview. One thing I saw in the comments is that some people may think that Tom is focusing to much on “others” but in my opinion he is showing how the unobstructed mind and being reveals something most of us can hardly imagine. That the real you is free and loving. Very nice. Peace and Love. Palms Together.... James

[@EvitaOchel]

Thank you for sharing your beautiful views James.

[@Donnybrook1946]

Thank you Evita and Tom Another wonderful interview and very timely, great energy between both of you, excellent presentation. Love is everywhere.

[@EvitaOchel]

Feeling very blessed by reading your beautiful feedback. Thank you

[@worth-a-wound]

Thank you for sharing this! Tom Campbell's words feel so right.

[@EvitaOchel]

Great to hear and you are very welcome!

[@manzarmoezzi371]

The best way to catch your fears, through your ego.... so well explained. Thank you.

[@EvitaOchel]

Glad you enjoyed Tom's wisdom. Thank you for your comment!

[@makalanewman5358]

Mind blown! I needed to hear this. I need to change. I had no idea.

[@EvitaOchel]

Thanks for sharing your feedback and experience Makala.

[@leeinthetree7537]

You and Tom both have so much to teach the world and this series of lectures has been a valuable reminder for me personally on so many levels. Thank you both for all your insight and compassion

[@aleksandar736]

Just amazing.. I particularly like parallel between fear and love, those 5 steps, explanations about when we are love being, lowest entropy choice approach and our intent behind doing.. Thank you for all these!

[@EvitaOchel]

Thank you for your feedback and great to hear you enjoyed it :)

[@MrGODINTHEMAKING]

This video is love in a manifestation. Soul food.

[@EvitaOchel]

What a beautiful comment. Thank you!

[@kp-43-43]

Really appreciate all of your videos, Evita. Especially love Tom Campbell. It seems so simple and yet it takes determined, intentional practice to quell the ego and recondition ourselves to default to tendencies that are not based out of fear. Putting this into practice, I've found one simple question helps me to refocus/align myself in instances whereupon I feel negativity or resistance to a given situation: "What about this situation/person/moment is truly bothering me?" What I often find is that these end up being opportunities to better examine and reflect upon some aspect of myself and very rarely have much to do with the actual situation at hand. What years ago I would have dismissed by way of arrogance or ego, these instances now have so much more meaning. It's almost full circle how it all gels together!

[@EvitaOchel]

Amazing to hear, and excellent, powerful question Kelly! The quality of the question, will define the quality of the answer and you have created a perfect opportunity for self-reflection and transformation. Thank you so much for taking the time to share all this with us here, and to your continued expansion and wellbeing

[@janegardner3283]

Thank you Tom for telling it like it is so I can hear it. And thank you LCS of course, for the valuable education. Keep it coming. I need it.

[@EvitaOchel]

Thanks for watching and sharing your nice comment Jane.

[@bailey31909]

I just love watching your channel. But this particular show is one of my favorites. And one thing I really appreciate is how you summarized what he was saying with listing the main core of the theory off to the side as he talked!! Thank you!!

[@EvitaOchel]

You are very welcome. And thank you so much for your wonderful comment, it was such a treat to read :)

[@khdean4145]

bailey ". Mm my,l

[@estefaniaatici4369]

Thank you for sharing this preciousness with the world.❤

[@EvitaOchel]

Our pleasure! Thank you for watching.

[@WildRemedies]

Thanks so much! I love this guy and your show, what a great find! And thanks to u both for getting it out there and reminding us all love is the answer

[@EvitaOchel]

Beautiful to hear! Thank you for your comment and feedback.

[@jimchambers8580]

The notes really help! Thanks! Love!

[@EvitaOchel]

You're very welcome, Jim!

[@lourdesmateos5254]

Thanks very much Evita. Really a wonderful interview. I love Tom,s message and I follow his advice but it is really very difficult to put into practice. Intelectual I get it but in the moment something happens I see that I don,t to let go of being right...in the end it is painful for everybody. But I will not give up trying to become a better person. Thanks very much. Greetings from Berlin. Lourdes

[@EvitaOchel]

My pleasure, and thank you for watching and sharing your feedback. It is beautiful to hear about your commitment to this journey, as it is so worth it for you personally, those in your life and our collective reality. Please know that with the right intention and consistent efforts, it will get easier and easier, until it becomes our new normal to live from a state of inner peace and love.

[@utubesutube]

Great Interview with great person. Thank you Evita Ochel Subscribed :)

[@EvitaOchel]

Thank you for your kind message :)

[@peesusarah]

Thank you Evita and Tom, learnt so much from watching this video, great explanations on Love and fear !!!!

[@EvitaOchel]

Great to hear and hank you kindly for your comment.

[@dvotii]

Wow! ✨ Phenomenal interview! ✨

[@EvitaOchel]

Thank you so much!

[@thelucidinstitute]

evita you’re an outstanding interviewer, & tom you’re a wild bohisattva

[@EvitaOchel]

Many thanks for your wonderful feedback!

[@curlygirl5027]

Great great program! Thank you so much. (All his beautiful white hair GLOWS)

[@EvitaOchel]

Lovely to hear, thank you!

[@shrodingersman]

I found myself laughing with joy at this sharing of light, thank you

[@EvitaOchel]

Beautiful to hear! And you are most welcome.

[@bohodogon974]

I cried and laughed watching this,......thank you, it feels like home your words ❤️️

[@bohodogon974]

Your just amazing tom, your avatar running you here, must be on Sirius b ❤️🙏😘

[@e75short14]

I really love this man. I thought he was just a scammer who just wants to sell his books, but I don't care his messages have depth. I pay my respect.

[@EvitaOchel]

Nice to hear Daniel. Many passionate people write books simply out of love for sharing what they feel is important. When people get to know Tom too, they realize he is one of the most loving, kind, and humble individuals ever.

[@InnerLuminosity]

LIFE CHANGING! SHOULD BE TAUGHT IN SCHOOLS!!

[@EvitaOchel]

Thanks for adding in this great comment.

[@InnerLuminosity]

@@EvitaOchel I HOPE YOU HAVE THE MOST POSITIVE DAY EVITA! I LOVE YOU ALL

[@Dreamingawake15253]

This is wonderful. These videos are my favorites. Will you be making new videos with Tom?

[@EvitaOchel]

Thank you for your feedback, Eric, that is nice to hear. However, no, I have stopped making videos a couple years back now and have no plans to make any more for the foreseeable future.

[@Dreamingawake15253]

@@EvitaOchel Okay. Well I want you to know that these videos have been very significant for me. It is hard to express how much I have changed in a positive way because of these videos, so thank you!

[@EvitaOchel]

@@Dreamingawake15253 That is so meaningful to hear, Eric. Thank you for sharing this feedback with me - it means a lot!

[@shipratrika2586]

This is the first time I am listening to him..He is good!!! Thanks Evita!! :)

[@EvitaOchel]

My pleasure, and great to hear you are enjoying Tom's wisdom.

[@thebeardedone1225]

Try just caring for everyone. It takes effort. But, its worth it. The outcome is love.

[@EvitaOchel]

Such a lovely comment. Thank you for sharing it!

[@Drew_Hurst]

Superb information! Thank You

[@EvitaOchel]

Our pleasure, and thank you for your comment.

[@johu3124]

Thank you Evita Ochel. You are super interviewer. I watched Eric Dubay KZbin channel and I did have to search you too!

[@EvitaOchel]

So lovely to hear :) Thank you for your kind comment and feedback Justin.

[@markmcgregor6613]

thanks Tom for educating so many of us and changing lives. My life has changed dramatically from the knowledge and understanding I have gained from all your video teachings'. I have experienced many of your teachings. when I first heard you say "don't believe what I say, beliefs is what the problem is", I knew I had to hear you out. your honesty makes you a one of a kind great teacher and brilliant mind. I think your are the most important educator in the world today. thank you Sir. .

[@smartjackasswisdom1467]

I often feel irritated by people who are just stupid, ignorant or arrogant and that feel proud about it. And yeah this negative feeling is most of the times a choice. It's so ingrained that even when I notice it and try to change it takes a some effort. But it gets easier and the easier it gets the more you enjoy life.

[@EvitaOchel]

Self-awareness via observation of the mind, and our thoughts and emotions is the key to personal and collective transformation. Thank you for sharing your experience.

[@miss-andrybegone1338]

WOW - thank you both. This puts a different explanation on Social Justice Warriors and Feminists - we all need to be love and not be fear. Wonderful.

[@EvitaOchel]

You are very welcome! And indeed, the more of the bigger picture we see and can grasp the more we understand how to be most effective while in this reality.

[@hyperjesse]

Thanks wonderful video. Tom Campbell. What a champion. 😊. thank you for your channel 🤗

[@EvitaOchel]

My pleasure, and thank you Jesse for your kind feedback.

[@DLBurggraf]

...Love as you would be loved... ...Treat others as you would be treated...

[@EvitaOchel]

Simple yet powerful advice that can produce so much good personally and collectively when applied.

[@heidimclellan1225]

#1 best video to grow.

[@EvitaOchel]

Thanks for sharing that great feedback Heidi!

[@shmorgis1]

well damn i learned today that i am afraid of a lot of things. Thank you. I've realized i figured out these things you say about lowering entropy as a kid which helped me going from hell in high school to having not too bad of a time. It's hard to stay in that mind set. This was a great reminder in how to do that. Thanks again.

[@EvitaOchel]

Thank you for sharing about your insight and points of awareness. Glad to hear this video was helpful!

[@robinpunneo7562]

Be love.

[@A-electro]

Thanks 3 keys: Love 00:00 Welcome 00:02:49 Campbell start to explain Si no es condicional no es amor. Love vs need Needs changes

[@EvitaOchel]

Thanks for watching and sharing your comment, Andy.

[@waedjradi]

I appreciate Tom very much!

[@EvitaOchel]

Lovely to hear, and I thank you for spreading your kindness.

[@consciouscleaning3146]

Thank you!💜💜💜 subbed.Get good vibes here!

[@EvitaOchel]

Thank you for your nice comment.

[@uicomponentlib]

I really needed this, Thank you:)

[@EvitaOchel]

Great to hear!

[@rachelbarber603]

Love this makes sense a lot of nde experiences come back and relay very much the same Information he gives in these 3 talks like earth being a school

[@EvitaOchel]

Thank you for sharing your comment on these topics.

[@lourdesmateos5254]

Thanks very much. It ia always a placer to listen what Tom has to say. Wonderful and very true. I love it. Thanks and many greetings from Berlin

[@lassespolin9567]

Very important message if you give it a chance to sink in!

[@EvitaOchel]

Yes indeed! Thank you for watching and sharing your comment.

[@young_dan_kee]

I understand you say Love comes from “other” and that in order to become love you have to change yourself? Couldn’t you also say in order to become love u have to love yourself ? As in make the best choices for yourself even if they’re not the choices you necessarily want to make? I truly believe u can’t love others until u love yourself for who u r. Accepting all your flaws and working towards improving them. “Acceptance is love” -youngdankee

[@EvitaOchel]

This is all very true and part of this dialogue. Most definitely we have to love and accept ourselves if we are to be of most value to others, and personal change to become the best versions of ourselves that we can be at any given time is one of the most loving things we can do. Thanks for sharing your comment.

[@rebeccalankford2652]

We were all born with a blank slate and with love. It's through human neglect and brutality that we lost it. Parents who do not love and educate. Churches that take time and money and do not educate and a school systems that herd you in and out without a practical education.

[@EvitaOchel]

Very poignant comment Rebecca. Thank you for contributing it here to this topic.

[@rebeccalankford2652]

@@EvitaOchel It is what it is. Truth was hidden yet is well documented.

[@rebeccalankford2652]

@@EvitaOchel you are most welcome and thanks for your comment also.

[@elbakline8364]

Thankyou. For all this great 👍🏽 information ℹ️ Thankyou Very Much ! 🌻

[@EvitaOchel]

You are super welcome, and thank you for your nice comment!

[@vincentfalsaperla]

both wonderful

[@texasoutlook60]

Another great video! It reminded me of a quote from Albert Einstein about the definition of insanity is when "you keep doing the same thing over and over again expecting the same result". Depending on the situation it's time to do something different even it's not the best.

[@EvitaOchel]

Great to hear, and thank you for your insightful comment!

[@FlorinMarcarian]

Thank you this is amazing

[@EvitaOchel]

You are very welcome! Thank you.

[@svenamsterdam3501]

Thanks for a great video!

[@EvitaOchel]

You are very welcome!

[@someartist7588]

fab guest,great interviewer.x

[@EvitaOchel]

Thank you for your kind feedback.

[@blasperez4378]

These are the sort of issues that make TV obsolete...WOW ! And radio. And newspapers. And magazines. And advertizing. And junk mail. And what's his name And...And...

[@EvitaOchel]

Thanks for your enthusiastic comment!

[@ConstanceMaas]

How does this relate to an abusive situation when you are a child and can't leave?

[@EvitaOchel]

Hi Christopher, this question has actually been addressed previously, either in these comments or on another one of Tom's videos (I cannot recall, so you'd have to scroll through comments if interested). But basically put, no one is a victim. The situations that we experience in this "virtual reality" are part of our own engineering before this life experience. We are quick to judge this or that situation as "bad", but in truth every single situation, no matter how pleasant or unpleasant is only providing us with context for our soul's growth. At the end of this life, the soul does not get hurt, it is only our physical body and mind or Ego that gets hurt. Every situation allows us to choose how we feel about ourselves and the other person or people, and either grow towards love or hate. Of course this is not to belittle the situation or say that we should just put up with any abuse, if at all possible for us to do something about. Not at all. We should always do whatever we can to keep ourselves safe and in a state of wellbeing. Naturally, a child under about 8 to 10 has little say in this, above 10 they can start to think and act in ways that can minimize the impact, and above about 16 take more necessary measures. Any kind of abuse journey is to find our own self-worth and self-love to not allow ourselves to be abused. It is by no means a pleasant life experience to endure, but one of the most powerful to help us realize who we really are and how worthy we truly are, of course if we choose and are able within a lifetime to seize such insight. To help more on this topic, I would recommend this video I did on the Soul's Plan: kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z3enYouDmZ14as0 When we start seeing things from the perspective of the Soul, rather than perspective of body, mind or society, a very different picture emerges.

[@nigelericogden3200]

A practical technique to reduce fear I have discovered is called the 9 Breathings of Purification. It can be easily found here on KZbin. All the best !

[@EvitaOchel]

Thank you for sharing that Nigel Eric.