Storytime | Not being able to conceive | Vithya Hair and Makeup

Another story time about motherhood...even though I am not a mother.
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Another story time about motherhood, not being to conceive, and not wanting children.
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[@menakarajaram1436]

To me Parenting is an emotion, learning, understanding, fulfillment and much more through nurturing. Of course sooo tiring and the most critisised aspect of our lives. You already ooze them all to your students, followers, and the kids and cousins you meet. Motherhood is not just breast feeding n changing diapers. Its nurturing. You truly are a positivity nurturer. The most beautiful mother❤

[@vithyamakeup]

I love this, thank you ❤

[@lalithakirsnan]

Thanks for the video, Vithya. I’m 39, married for 13 years with no kids. I’ve always wanted to become a mother because I’ve got an amazing mum and looked forward to the time I would get to be just like her to my kids. I was pretty devastated when I miscarried and couldn’t conceive thereafter. However, I found my purpose in life and once I realised what my work in this world is, the pain reduced significantly. I do get emotional too on Mother’s Day when people include me. I know exactly that feeling of inclusion. It makes a big difference.

[@vithyamakeup]

Am so sorry for what you went through. Thank you for sharing ❤

[@chinny3361]

⁠​⁠​⁠@@vithyamakeup Dear Vithya, if you r still desiring to have a baby, I want to ask u something, do u really think is there anything impossible for JESUS? I have been in similar situation, 5 years of trying all the treatments, I broke out cried like Hannah in the bible and left the medications evrything. Just prayed with ONE HOPE , ONE TRUST is JESUS. I want u to read this Deuteronomy 7:13 “ He will love you and bless you and increase your numbers. He will bless the fruit of your womb, the crops of your land-your grain, new wine and olive oil-the calves of your herds and the lambs of your flocks in the land he swore to your ancestors to give you.” Please keep saying this verse and pray with faith. And Remember JESUS loves u❤️ will pray for u too.

[@msaigol87]

You're so brave Vithya. I'm 36 with no kids because life just panned out that way so I can empathise with you. My heart really goes out to you and other women in your shoes. May you be happy always

[@sharmilamunees5634]

Hi vithya...such a thoughtful video..... I am getting lot of maturity just by watching your Story time about how you got through all the stuff in your life and how hard you have worked to be in the place you are now.... Its very nice of you to help other people also by making these videos...thank you....

[@vithyamakeup]

Thank you ❤

[@floryjag]

A very beautiful video, and you did a great job talking about one of the most sensitive and hardest topics. I can relate to every single thing you said, as I have been married for 20 yrs and don't have kids. Never imagined my life will turn out this way. There are times when I feel so happy and content with my life, and other times when I get so angry, emotional and upset. Wishing you nothing but the best in your life journey... thank you once again for this love video 🥰

[@meenakshiveerappan6142]

This is such a painful, difficult, tricky topic to talk about - you did it with so much sensitivity, objectivity & grace. This was wonderful and more power to you!

[@MahilthiniRanjan]

Thank you for sharing your experience. I am turning 41 and in a similar situation and listening to you is helpful to find a way to heal and deal with societal situations. I am still trying to be content with the cards I was given.

[@geethasukumaran8257]

One of the greatest videos of how a person could get triggered/offended when really low, and how a close friend stays & shares her life happenings no matter what and how you have gone through the entire process of denial& slowly moved towards acceptance.. I’m speechless of how well you have articulated. Hats off👏👏👏

[@geetz_]

Nobody’s life is perfect. Even after being a mom I’m seeking myself and trying so damn hard to get settled with the unexpected chaos that’s happening in life. Lots of love for you Vidya! You inspire me so much. ❤

[@jayviswanathan7511]

Vithya, I have been to listening to all your story times and huge respect to you on this one. I haven't had any of your experiences, but I love how REAL you are with sharing your vulnerabilities so openly. It takes a lot of courage to do this. And the way you try to not hurt anyone else, you are incredible 🙏🙏🙏🙏. I was a fan of your make up videos and content on Instagram. But now I am a life time fan of your personality. Really wanted to give you hugs at certain points.

[@vithyamakeup]

This is so so kind, thank you ❤

[@Maddy44979]

I admire your maturity in the way you talk, put things forward and in making decisions.. it shows wisdom and strength. ❤

[@riznafathima7991]

Vithya, I could relate to you. I’ve literally been down the road and now I am happy the way we’re together as a couple. Your video is making me feel I’m not the only one has gone through this. Thanks for sharing your experience Vithya!

[@checkandtick]

You really are like a big sister I never had! You inspire me so much!! ❤

[@user-wi1cn6tw2i]

That is such a mum thing to do to send photos of your kids. I have done this to be inclusive of women who may choose not to or can’t have kids they should be embraced for who they are and they are worthy. I love celebrating all women!! 💗

[@kanchanatschudin1378]

This is such a great video! We are 6 years married and we don’t have children. I know and understand every single situation you talk about. Now I also stopped explaining to people why we don’t have children. I just say: we don’t have any children and walk away. My life is more peaceful that way! God bless you ❤️

[@Praseetha_M_Das]

Thank you, Vithya, for sharing such a vulnerable topic with us, and doing so with so much grace. As someone who has not experienced the situations you mentioned in this video, it provided me with great insight into how to speak to others with kindness and thoughtfulness. This video taught me the importance of acknowledging difficult and challenging situations, analyzing them rather than running away. I could relate to your feelings in different situations and learned how things could be handled more positively and gracefully. Thank you so much. God bless you. ❤

[@rebeccashamasundari4047]

This video couldn't have come at a better time. I had been feeling overwhelmed lately with similar thoughts, but in a different situation altogether. Thank you for sharing your story, Vithya, which has helped me put things into perspective just when I needed it the most. Sending lots of love your way ❤️

[@hrishitapatel405]

Honestly children r not the be all and end all in life. Ther is so much more to life than just kids. 🤷‍♀️😬

[@HaarthiHarikrishnan-jt4yt]

You're so brave to talk about this, love you for who you are❤️

[@pasuriz]

Hi Vithya.. i am so overwhelmed..in a similar situation. have come to accept as it is. Maybe God has a different purpose for me.Also there are so many blessings to be thankful for. I pray and wish love and happiness for everyone. Lovvvvved the conversation ❤❤

[@shanthasuriyakumar6715]

You are such a brave girl. I enjoy watching your videos. I did not have Kids for 5 years and I understand how people look at you and say things to your face. Have a happy married life Vitdya. God bless you.

[@1ife1ove]

Hi, Vithya. It was mixed emotions for me also. I did have similar emotions about going to family gatherings. I am so proud of the growth and the women you turned out. You inspire me to be better and also just to grow as a person, mother, partner, friend 🧡 lots of love ❤️

[@vithyamakeup]

Thank you so much 🙂

[@kokilavanigopal903]

I am listening to your entire video while cleaning my kitchen. I tell you, literally I can really relate every single word that you are saying. Gosh. It's like my mind is speaking out in your form. Being a Tamil, I went thru the similar things with the surroundings.

[@suzannavinoth6284]

Love, love, love the way you express yourself but also how you put every aspect so nicely together. This is a very sensitive topic, and you carefully and nicely elaborate all the elements. Thanks for sharing with us. I'm definitely sharing this with my sisters. Lots of love. Suzanna

[@SrSrk98]

I am amazed with your choice of words and the way you put things in perspective...wow, just wow... It is the best ' mind your own business' and 'live, let live' kind of video I came across...I mean that in a nice way... We are labelled, judged all through our life...family or friends or society said this is the way or doom you... When we find a different way and are happy and content, others cannot accept it... it is a kind of social bullying, similar to what happens to differently abled kids at school/college etc Even in the best of interests, it is easy to hurt someone... I guess life is the toughest teacher and student all in itself Hope and pray for all to have inner peace and live a content life... God bless all :)

[@michellec6170]

Thank you for sharing your story, got emotional in the middle. Wish I could give you a hug 🤗 Luv from Washington DC 💕

[@bhavanic05]

Hi Vithya, thanks for sharing. Not easy to speak about such a sensitive topic. Was just surprised that you didn’t speak more about your Godchild. But great video. Take care

[@poojyathavenkatesh2980]

Thank you for sharing this and being so vulnerable. I’m sure you’re helping so many people.

[@malberrybush7194]

Vithya sis I just love your strength and your positivity, that’s great . So much inspirational conversation… I love you a lot ❤️❤️❤️

[@gracious2018]

Blessed Sister, thank you for sharing in open heart conversation. Some points to learn from here in your storytime. Be happy always! Beauty in your ways❤❤❤❤ Gracious

[@sowmyaramaswami908]

Bless you, Vithya for showing so much maturity. And bless your friend for being such a genuine soul for you. We need people like your friend. Stay blessed always! A lot of my make up inspiration especially the eyebrows come from you! Now more than the make up tutorial you share, I’m really beginning to respect you as a human being.

[@harmonyskies19]

I admire your grace and consideration of others opinion. Honestly, thank you so much for sharing this. No one’s entitled to this, but it will undoubtedly resonate with so many people.

[@vzsagar02]

Vithya ❤. Thank you for this.More power to you!

[@annajohn5579]

Hi Vithya, I completely relate about not being able to see parents with their children, very hurtful. I couldn’t even be around pregnant women. Better now but not having children does impact friendships.

[@prakandi2]

Really sorry to hear this. Thank you so much for sharing. More power to you and your partner.

[@tiffanytalksxox]

So true!!! I’ve been married for nearly 3 years, & anytime we see Tamils all they ask is where’s the good news? Is everything alright? As if there’s something wrong with us.. but little do they know that we are just living life & going with the flow! It was tough!!! But now I know how to handle them- be sarcastic 😂ask if they’re gonna come look after the kids! They’ll shut up lol😅, anyway loved this! so brave of you for sharing this, much love to you as always & I pray that God blesses you always 🫶🏻

[@anitahelen4093]

Big Respect to you ❤ I’m in such a situation right now and I’m literally tearing up once you start talking from beginning. I can totally understand and I’m glad that you bring up such topics. More love and respect to you ♥️

[@saachicoolz]

Well said, huge respect on yur perspective❤ loads of love ❤

[@user-ln9zn9fh4u]

It’s really ok ❤, I have been a mother for 3 years , my child passed away I never had or wanted any child , I am happy with the children in my family , , Adoption is great to those who want it , Being childless is also fine ❤❤ just be happy

[@prakandi2]

Sorry to hear that. My hugs

[@user-ln9zn9fh4u]

@@prakandi2 thank you , 🙏🏼 ❤️

[@vithyamakeup]

Omg am so sorry

[@user-ln9zn9fh4u]

@@vithyamakeup ❤️

[@BhuvanaSriramAaryanKutty]

One of the bestest video. You are such an amazingly truthful soul and may God bless you in abundance ❤ I honestly feel women with 2 kids vs 1 kid debates..which I have seen.. society is so judgemental and unfair..leta spread positive vibes and people like you are so beautiful inside out❤

[@sahityarao9939]

Vithya! You know what .. you are sooo talkative 😄 Btw I was following you from 2017 and everything about you is soooo inspiring. I once met you in one of the malls in Malaysia ❤️

[@AnuAnu-qo7hf]

Watched the entire video! It was definitely emotional rollercoaster for me. All i would like to say now is god bless you 💖 lots of power, joy and strength to you ❤

[@Deepika10617]

You are so sensible and thoughtful in the way you are sharing your thoughts and experience ❤️ And ur experience how u didn’t want to look at children, i had the same experience because I struggled to fall pregnant and it was making me deeply sad looking at others with small children. I can fully understand and relate to all what u say. But u made the important statement, the important thing in life is being happy

[@vithyamakeup]

Awww! Hope you are ok now ❤

[@Deepika10617]

@@vithyamakeup yes Vithya ❤️

[@aryaram0588]

Appreciate you being so vulnerable on a public media platform and being very honest about your life choices. Very inspiring. ❤️

[@dourgaCh]

Thanks for your story, I'm going thru some questioning about all this baby idea, knowing your experience helps me 🙏

[@Daisy-xt7pi]

Thank you so much for discussing this. It was very relatable and I also learned a lot from it 😊❤️

[@christophermenu9026]

Hi… Vithya, this video is so relatable… love you so much… u r so strong and r an inspiration for all the women…

[@vaishnavikpm]

You are doing great!!! Keep going!! Keep inspiring!!

[@nandhithapreethikaravikuma3708]

This is such a thoughtful video❤listening to this, have changed my perception on so many things.Thank you and wish u all the best for everything that you are looking forward to do!! Cheers🎉

[@jasmine777ification]

Go Girl….. Such a wonderful video. Kudos for such a brave attempt of sharing your experience

[@niveditakathirvelu7852]

Going through the same phase. People literally hurt me by asking for a baby. Nobody is actually worried about my health ... This is really so difficult

[@yamunayashwanthi5322]

I am so happy that you choose this topic.. Your just speaking up my mind off.. Tq

[@snehakonidenamohapatra9285]

I love this Honest conversation❤❤❤

[@rayvelusamy785]

Thanks for sharing ❤ Find your Joy 🎉 Live your life!

[@aishwaryagunasekar1338]

You r mothering me welll with these story time my god 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏thankyou Vithya mom ❤️. Literally had tears like how mom says stories to their kids and express their emotions. I experienced it all in this videos 🌷🌷🌷🌷sending u so much love and good vibes now and ever ❤

[@sophiyaperumal6155]

Wow Vithya i have no words express .... But every one should learn to respect women or even men in this situation rather passing comments and offending them how much can someone go through with just a simple question when are you having a child??!! ...😔😔 need to think... Ur a wonderful wonderful person who has shared so many things on social media ... Thank you so much 👍👍 regarding your decision it's wonderful 👍😊 thank you for sharing your experience loads of love from Bengaluru Karnataka 💐 India 🎉🎉❤❤🫰🫰💐💐

[@bhuvaneshwarimalayarasan4119]

One who showers love n care is a mother

[@Sowmya.36936]

I completely understand you and support your words . God bless you

[@minduvasatharaj6471]

Hi akka you are a great human I watch all your videos. You are an amazing woman. Akka You inspire many youngsters God bless you akka.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@thushathillainathan2952]

❤️❤️❤️ Thank you for sharing, you are truly amazing 🙏🏽

[@pavithravenkatesh9762]

Hi vithya!

[@keshonajugine3237]

You are an amazing woman❤️

[@anithaniranjan3656]

Hi, vithya ….❤️ bless you You are amazing

[@sowmyamuthukumar8103]

Pretty much I am also on same boat.. Sometimes it is difficult feeling for me. Virtual hugs to you.

[@RamiyaaS]

You are truly amazing sis ❤️ *hugs*

[@MrandMrsMallusb2couples]

Thank u so much dear for this vdeo💕💕💕💕💕

[@ashvinis5126]

Vithya its your decision.. more power to you

[@aisvaryanarasimhan4530]

More strength to you!! Really happy you got to open up. I’m certainly about to say something definitely didn’t intend to affect you in anyway. Have thought about freezing your eggs ? Because people tend to change their opinions as they explore more or as they age. Maybe somewhere in your 50s if you feel like having kid, you should still have options before you think it’s too late to have one. Freezing is really expensive but maybe a ray of hope somewhere in future if you need one. I’m really sorry if this affected you in anyway.

[@vithyamakeup]

Thank you but it’s not something I would like to do.

[@allthingsnam]

More power to you for sharing something so intimate❤

[@srihihi]

Loved this episode! ♥️

[@Jasathangam]

Loved listening in ♥️

[@sheilasunith1852]

Thanks for sharing ❤

[@thresa9093]

You are so strong girl.. i will pray 4 u...huggsss

[@karthikamahadevan6788]

Hatsoff to your friend 🎉

[@shobanamurugan1124]

❤ Hugs and huge respect for sharing such great thoughts ♥️

[@savagequeen4894]

May God Bless you 🙏 with much 🙏 Power and Strength 💪to overcome this it's so Sorry to hear but still giving birth doesn't stop u from being a mother Motherhood is loving ❤️ Unconditionally You can adopt a child and pour all ur love ❤️ to her or him There are so many Women i know who are mothers but doesn't love ❤️ their kids Unconditionally being cruel and selfish 😢😢sadly i have an evil mom So Don't worry God bless you 🙌🙏

[@mvidya3]

To each their own❤

[@raindrops8665]

Thank you for opening up.. I'm also struggling to conceive for one and half years. Society is so rude

[@vithyamakeup]

❤ sending you love

[@raindrops8665]

@@vithyamakeup hugs and love

[@karthikam5427]

Thank you for posting this. I cried after watching this as I am going through some of the emotions that you described and I always felt alone. Thank you.

[@vithyamakeup]

Awww ❤

[@Sneha-my7dc]

Great video

[@sivadharshiniramasamy9539]

Hi vithya.. try to read the book “it starts with an egg” . This may help you. God will bless you with babies 🙏

[@babyjose9917]

my biggest fear in life is not being fertile or having kids.If you are suffering with this ,may god bless you 😢

[@yourneetpartner5086]

Lots of love to u vidya , god will bless u with a beautiful child . Ur an inspiration to many . ❤❤❤

[@terrorrose91]

That ‘Thu Thu Thu’ Moment 😘🧿✨ Stay Blessed ❤

[@user-wi1cn6tw2i]

I know someone who doesn’t want kids and now that they are older easier for them than what it was when she was growing up.

[@regentps]

Can i jus say i cried 😢 like happy amd sad tears. I dont even know why 😊

[@ScotlandMalayali]

❤

[@geethakalaimani2401]

❤❤❤love u vithya ❤️

[@Rya852]

34 no kids 🙋🏾‍♀️born with endometriosis

[@anithabangaru439]

Uou are amazing ❤

[@mohithaparameswaran6288]

Lots of love ❤

[@dhackshinicguptha8380]

Thank you for sharing. Respect to you. I get you 💯 you're not alone. Respect to your friend with twins. Women walking along side women is beautiful. Love to you 💓

[@migigeorge7322]

All love to you❤

[@VillaDeRose]

Nice make up❤

[@rhytmicmelody]

Great ❤decision

[@nishab6150]

Love and Respect u darling ❤️❤️❤️

[@stellansworld]

I hope i am not Hurting your feelings by saying this.. Why don't you do like Nayan & wikki? I am so sorry, if i have offended you by saying this.

[@GreenlifeLife-dd7vk]

You are worshiping the miracle working God Almighty who can do amazing things. But only if you believe and walk in his words. You will see his faithfulness

[@rachelgauri4530]

Amen

[@induankudi02]

Hey Vithya! There is nothing that is impossible for God. He can heal you and is more than capable of aligning everything to normality in order for u to conceive. He created u and knows exactly what you require. I can understand your situation and empathise with you. God is greater than anything and can do anything. He can shift any circumstances to your favour according to his will.. just ask him.. In a similar position but my confidence and trust comes through God ❤

[@vithyamakeup]

Yes I asked him to keep me the way I am, because I am happy, and he is 🙏🏽

[@sanikaanjanesh9449]

❤ to you ..