Lord Jamar on Men Raised by Women Being Overly Emotional

In this clip from Lord Jamar's January 2017 interview with VladTV, the opinionated elder hip-hop statesman tells Vlad about how he grew up with a consistent father figure, and how that might have affected his emotional development. Lord Jamar says he had to turn to TV and books for his male role models. "Probably the father from 'Good Times,' you can look at how he moves and try to move like him." Watch above.

[@jmbrown811]

Jamar spitting some facts right here. This is exactly why we have so many grown men bragging about clothing brands and diamonds. I've been raised by women and I've had to look at myself and make some changes.

[@Therock007dmx]

Young Moptop all of us have to make some changes so you’re not alone in that. When you grow up with just a man and no mother you get cold heart and then when you have kids you have to change. Because they need to be showed love and warmth. A two parent household would be the best for kids.

[@GudJonnyCakes]

Damn that's real fact

[@BFswithGFs]

Kinda insightful

[@redram5150]

therock007dmx if you think men can’t feel, and won’t teach their children how to feel, that’s a prejudice you need to work through. Men raised by men teach their children that actions carry more currency than words. Sharing how sad something makes you feel or how you love another is more valuable expressed actively than verbally. It’s easy to lie with your words. Can’t lie with your actions

[@BFswithGFs]

Lol but wait grew up with a dad and he always rocked Rolex and made sure he had TONS of alligator shoes and ostrich belts idk if he cared about brands but he definitely had his diamonds and nice watches. My dad had a damn good Job was president of a huge association ( blk born in 50’s) he wasn’t effeminate but he was bout that nice shit. Black men have always liked to stunt since forever we had so much gold in our countries. Idk I’m not sure it’s all about being feminine although my pops didn’t grow up with a dad in the house he def knew him and had an older brother who was a respected gangster. I do think it’s a little much these days but men do like their swagger n shit

[@KoolMoeKeem]

I can't lie I say you lucky if you’ve a father in the house.

[@one_above_all_yt5157]

Real life doe

[@nTrubl3]

Blessed is tha word

[@NateTheNoble]

I know I am...Brooklyn born and raised and pops always held down the household. I always tell that man how much I love him and how grateful I am to be one of the lucky few

[@PHATJoker]

that is sad to hear. but we need to change that, Bernie Sanders 2020

[@suave2774]

Kool Moe Keem on me

[@mannyviif8908]

Finally someone says it. I was raised by a single mother but I've acknowledged my behavior and corrected it.

[@bobmetri8863]

Kinda facts

[@DkfrumtheYay415]

Seriously

[@keithlukeswanson9345]

My baby mommas stepdad was raised by a single mother with no male authority and heavily acts out emotionally. He’s currently in his 50s and it scares the hell out of me that my son is in that environment.

[@diesel101raw]

Notice majority of Middle Eastern and Asian households have Fathers and they're Family structure is amazing and a lot of em have successful people. Black Community is an utter mess.

[@the_unconventional_Indian77]

Yes i am indian and we have very good family structure but it's getting destroyed now by manipulating by fake feminist and liberal ideas

[@lionelhutz5137]

Indian, middle eastern, asian...the children all end up successful going to university and secure stable, high paying jobs. The wives/women also don't put their personal wants and desires ahead of the family, they see the bigger picture. Can't say the same for the depraved western women where it's all ME ME ME!

[@lailastern3632]

You mean Black Americans. Because Africans stay having a consistent family structure

[@warrns]

@@lailastern3632 african diaspora in Europe have the same problems with single moms and no fathers in household

[@kc-zf1jp]

It is absolutely crucial to have that black father in the home or actively involved with these young men. Too many are growing up femenized and emasculated. Women weren't built to raise boys as single mothers

[@XxScArEcRoWxX1]

kc it has alot to do with the fact we cant discipline our kids. this causes issues because when someone does lay hands on them they don't know how to react and they turn bitch..

[@kc-zf1jp]

XxScArEcRoWxX1 I agree, but unfortunately there aren't enough men even around to lay hands on them. When I was growing up, all my father had to do was either give me the look or yell. He NEVER EVER had to lay hands on me. On the other hand, my mom did only because my father was at work. She had to put in way more of an effort than my dad ever had.

[@bluebirdredrobin6827]

kc lol @ "feminized" and "emasculated"

[@AWard-nx9lw]

kc But alot of them believe wholeheartedly that they can and they don't need men.Look how that's turned out

[@kc-zf1jp]

Dark knight 1193 I agree that too many of our women have the ignorant mindset of "I don't need a man". Which is a lie and total detriment to our community.

[@trentwilliams1941]

Can't back this general statement. personally I know people who grew up without dads, but their dads are such awful people that they actually escaped getting sucked into bullshit

[@XxScArEcRoWxX1]

Trent Williams yep. if the dad was around he was a fuck head and wasn't wanted around.

[@jmbrown811]

Trent Williams Yeah, you knew a few, but how many more aren't successful? Of course every rule has exceptions.

[@trentwilliams1941]

Fightology I feel u on that but if you're reasons for not being in your kids life are behind some gang or legal type shit then you gotta assess as a parent whether or not a child really needs that's info and knowledge about their dad. if pops went under for screwing underage girls n wants to keep that away from his son then the best way maybe to just send financial support n not.interact that much. Contrary to popular belief, kids pick up more bad habits from home than in the streets

[@TheMagnanimousMany]

Truthfully, men are just as emotional than women. Men teach and socialize other men to be silent and not show their emotion as much. Women are given the ok to be deeply emotional. So technically, we all have the ability to be emotional. Women aren't naturally dispossessed to be more emotional. Society has just deemed that acceptable. It's not the end of the world if a man catches feelings more often than most other men.

[@TheMagnanimousMany]

Still need a father though...

[@BlackGoatfn]

Not really true. I was raised by nothing but females and I was never as emotional and dramatic as them. Females are naturally emotional

[@BlackGoatfn]

Jay Sha it's a known fact that females are more emotional

[@advancedtheories1332]

it is in this society, its a shame socially its acceptable for a women to be deeply emotional. But a dude cries once or more then once its like OH SHIT atleast in my generation.

[@BlackGoatfn]

Jay Sha agreed.

[@StricklyBidness]

This sounds like a therapy session lmao

[@theplug9093]

Chris An lmaooooooo

[@catt9720]

Chris 305 it is lol

[@t-man5196]

So be it, it was heartfelt, deep, sincere and more relevant to what people actually care about than most interviews. I’ll take it.

[@moniquedeloach-johnson5842]

Chris 305 without paying one...lol...I'm good with that

[@MusicArtistPuncho]

No cap

[@BoxingComedian]

Lord Jamar got some character development in this episode

[@jonathaone]

Hanma Yujiro lmao

[@terrickphillips6688]

That's what I was saying on a earlier interview my guy has enough content on Vlad's couch to have his own mini-series

[@outbreak49]

THIS SHIT FUNNY MY NIGGA ONE YEAR LATER

[@moment2momentphotographyvi236]

@Manny Clav That's Supreme Allah you talking about

[@TYREEKPOOLE-ju5mx]

@@moment2momentphotographyvi236 lol, I hope you're joking Because if you're not you're a straight up clown

[@cyphacirclemusic]

This is way deeper than a lotta people realize

[@jimmyfreeman5714]

Can be fathoms deep, or shallow as a raindrop...

[@teewhaay]

That's what I hate. I hate when people keep talking this "LEARNING HOW TO BE A MAN" stuff. First of all. Nobody can LEARN HOW TO BE A MAN. Time makes you a man. Men have to learn how to be responsible for their own actions. And that's tough for most men learn. Nobody can teach you how to be a man. But somebody can teach you how to be RESPONSIBLE. Something most young adults can't swallow.

[@joshuaattractsmoney]

Churrrrch. Very well said

[@FelFree]

~ Drop Jewelz on Em ~ ✨💎✨

[@zugzwangsavant6864]

How do I start to explain this to you....Ahhhh I give up..you are too much work

[@cruzechevy3485]

And old too.

[@toomanysandwiches8665]

​@Dewery Jones Jr nope men and women teach us how to be men. Either can do it

[@SuperCarter326]

This is spot on about most black men raised by women. Overly emotional. Real talk

[@darriusbovain2152]

Tbh bruh nun wrong with a male being emotional frfr I as a male thay grow up with nun off my real parents In my life grow up with a adopted aunt who treated me like her own she is my mom and at the same time I realize that being raise by a female made me more in touch with my feelings but at the same time made me more sensitive to a lot of shit tbh still working on my mental side of shit and some shit I still don’t like to own up to to this day but I feel growing up with one parent has it’s pros and cons in my opinion

[@von_valentine5400]

Jamar talking that real. I learned how to be a man through older friends and life experiences. Not every tip I was given was right but I learned. Shut real

[@chrisscott8837]

Sir 10k he talking some bullshit honestly, I’ve seen more successful men raised by primarily their mothers than dudes raised by their fathers

[@therandomdude7347]

Going through a similar situation right now

[@FH-rk1gc]

Definitely seen it growing up, friends raised by single parents were very emotional.

[@jimmyfreeman5714]

+ violent here.

[@darriusbovain2152]

Tbh I don’t think there’s nun wrong with a emotional male tbh tbh I like that about myself but I also have some stuff with that which has fuck me up in the long run 💯

[@darriusbovain2152]

But tbh I think it’s good to be more in touch with your emotion few bc u have some males that will teach u to not show emotion that it’s wrong and u need to act tuff

[@toomanysandwiches8665]

There's nothing wrong with that

[@fitnessman5542]

Black men don't always leave black women run them away and black women should also be accountable for choosing the wrong men to have babies with consistently.

[@janieghkaye4716]

How do we as women get to choose when we don’t have a father around to teach us how to choose???

[@fnsilly8983]

@@janieghkaye4716 lifes a hard road and there are more than enough examples to make good decisions. History would be the first place you start. Black history.

[@misguidedpearls7456]

janiegh kaye thank u

[@misguidedpearls7456]

Who's accontable for kids..men run from kids.u forgot...this is about Father's not hubbies

[@spoiledman5811]

@lala gashi prolly ran a few niggas away, bi polar ass.

[@apostylzofficial]

It's true that we need fathers in the household, but I see too many emotional men out here that were raised with fathers. Our current president is probably the most emotional person I've ever seen and he was raised with his father, while the president that preceded him was probably the least emotional person I've ever seen and was raised with no father. We don't just need fathers, we need GOOD fathers and mothers. Having both parents doesn't mean anything if neither of them are good at parenting.

[@ziggywhiteduke9276]

Obama ruined race relations.

[@mrjooxmanallah]

Fair observation. Unfortunately in the black community, it's becoming very uncommon to have a father in the house hold. And the lessons in masculinity don't really take if most of his friends are raised in homes with single moms and act emotionally. Because ultimately we're way more influenced by our peers than our parents.

[@oneman5753]

THANK YOU SIR! You cannot simply say "oh put a father in it will fix everything." No. That's childish overly simplistic thinking. There are no silver bullets. If you have GOOD parents, which requires parenting SKILLS, even one will do. The problem is that requires time, attention, peace (calm stabilizing force), and a village (support outside of the individual parent). Within that context I firmly believe you can make a bunch of mistakes. Most ppl do not value those things and then be sure to self reflect and see what is wrong with themselves. That is key. Even if shit is someone else's fault, what can I do to help this type of situation in the future. Everyone wants to blame everything else except themselves.

[@adampeters9861]

But even in Trump's case, from what I read his father was constantly working and his mother was like a married single mom.

[@lordmarketing2001]

You make a good point. However, President Obama had is maternal grandfather that helped raise him. Perhaps that helped balance him out. I think that extended “family” relationships can be helpful, where you have access to both male and female interaction.

[@Jas-ze6wm]

Black or white these issues are in all households, It's just magnified in the black community.

[@jimmyfreeman5714]

@Christina Bullock I seen mostly very strong and together single BLK mom's growing up. And I felt, shit their Dad's gone too. Gonna be okay though.

[@soulstar0111]

Mad respect to Lord Jamar for such a candid, personal interview. It couldn't have been easy but he articulated his life journey very well.

[@shac8835]

"Who was your main father figure" "Probably.. yananamean" 🤣😂🤣

[@QuanBrown27]

Sha C Lmfao 😂😂

[@StoneKvtter]

when men get overly emotional about shit, it's over little things of no concrete substance, and that a woman's trait because they are built on emotion, lets not confuse high emotions with passion

[@CaliCool91]

Definitely one of the best Lord Jamar interviews ever. So interesting to actually see him be introspective about his own life and acknowledge his own emotions. Offers a lot of insight on why he feels the way he does about a lot of thing. Kudos to Vlad for pulling that out of him.

[@naimsalaam8632]

Poverty and the lack of resources in the Black community is what makes two parents argue and blame each other and basically break up families...

[@humanparadox]

But if we had less kids out of wedlock and black women stayed on birth control like other races, there would be more resources to go around and less poverty. The fastest way to poverty is having kids you cant afford

[@GhostraceKillah]

Tupac said that since he didn't have a father and a big brother to learn from, some rappers became his big brother by way of their albums. Possibly, Lord Jamar was used for a big brother to Tupac.

[@verystylishordinarypeople]

Tupac grew around his Black Panther mother going to meetings. This is why he thinks like that. On top of who Jesus wants him to be, and who he decided to be.

[@iaintmadatcha]

My girl is pregnant and it has not even crossed my mind to bounce. Black men we need to stick around and protect our families in these crucial times we going through. Peace & black love forever. Plus vlad tv seems like every other media outlet. White man profiting off the black mans pain smh

[@humanparadox]

yeah but if yall break up, she is going to raise the kid in her home, and at BEST you will only be able to see your kid maybe every other weekend. So she will still be a single mother essentially

[@corywiedenbeck1562]

You are not married

[@XxScArEcRoWxX1]

my dad leaving was the best thing to happen to me. I was happier. my mom was happier and so were my brothers.. I wish I had a good father but I didn't. even though he's the closest thing I will ever have to a father. we get along now but that is now. life isn't easy but it definitely isn't to hard either if your in an area where you can build yourself up. most kids can't do that today because they have to focus on selling dope just to eat and that's bullshit.. they can't work on their character or personality or even a decent job. thats why you got a lot of niggas repeating the cycle.

[@jamilajuicey795]

When Lord was asked about his father...he immediately turned into a kid again....Boys need fathers to teach them to be men....Fact.

[@IAM-ml1pl]

Lol U rit... All in his eyes

[@roidjones]

It's Interesting what he says about his male teacher, I really don't understand why there is a lack of male teachers available during a young boys life.

[@MichaelXboxEvolved]

That jacket is fiyah

[@bjiiii]

Tha hat too ! 🤟🏿

[@breakbreadorfakedead264]

Thats some ugly ass shit only east coast ppl wear

[@godlyimmortal]

"Like, Ya nudda mean" - Lord Jamar

[@wanderingsoul4203]

After reading this comment he just kept saying that shit hellas in the video

[@a-tre8798]

Everyone is gna have their opinion but I agree with Lord Jamar 100% He described my upbringing!

[@markusandrews7431]

I'm annoyed at the misuse of the term "emotional". Everything in life triggers a type of emotion. Even being calm is an emotion. What they are really trying to say is being overly sensitive. Come on now guys. Get it right.

[@darriusbovain2152]

Tbh bruh nun wrong with a male being emotional frfr I as a male thay grow up with nun off my real parents In my life grow up with a adopted aunt who treated me like her own she is my mom and at the same time I realize that being raise by a female made me more in touch with my feelings but at the same time made me more sensitive to a lot of shit tbh still working on my mental side of shit and some shit I still don’t like to own up to to this day but I feel growing up with one parent has it’s pros and cons in my opinion

[@xInfamousx100]

well I'm glad I got my pops in my life

[@JesusisKing03]

Listening to this makes me want to cry for my son (6) who I'm raising alone along with my 3 older girls (7-10). I pray my husband gets released soon 😔

[@jiro1281]

Everything ok now?

[@JesusisKing03]

@@jiro1281 thanks for asking, through the mercy of God everything is well. I've learned that we all have problems just different types and the come and go. No one's life is perfect but we just have to push through and make the best of it. May God bless you and thank you for asking I pray you and your love ones remain safe in this chaotic world.

[@jiro1281]

Lamb of the YHWH Tribe Glad to see you are doing fine I am uplifted by your positive spirit. We need more people like you because your soul is beautiful in this wicked world

[@KingAbel510]

These videos will be regarded as gems if not already years later.

[@ramirogallegos5954]

THANKS FOR FINALLY BRINGING THIS UP!!! What’s hurting the hispanic and black community the most is growing up without fathers in the home and not learning what it means to be a man. Then you mature physically but not mentally/emotionally and get a girl pregnant and the cycle continues. I truly believe people should focus on THIS and not some ghost called “racism”.

[@blacklyfe5543]

Hispanic people have they fathers in the household. Some black men do have fathers in they life

[@ramirogallegos5954]

@@blacklyfe5543 I am relying on statistics while you are relying on feelings. “Some” black men have fathers is not a strong nor valid response. It’s because of soft-shoed comments like that why we can not progress. Who’s your master?

[@blacklyfe5543]

@Ramiro Gallegos shut up you're the one who is replying on feelings not facts or statistics you are annoying asf

[@blacklyfe5543]

@@ramirogallegos5954 like I said all Hispanics have fathers in the house you sound f*cking ignorant most black people don't have fathers get your facts straight always got a answer for everything as if your smart

[@flyguy1746]

Black fathers spoke to us through movies and television, Vlad! Furious taught us about gentrification. Uncle Phil taught us unconditional love. Carl Winslow taught us how to be the backbone of a family. Roc showed us how to be a decision maker in the family.

[@dgenerate707]

It depends on the person, i grew up around my mother, auntie, and my grandmother yet my mother had friends with older sons who took me along. The influences are different now too, in 1996 I looked up to Tupac, Bret Hart, Michael Jordan, and Mike Tyson, now kids have Internet star 1 & 2, a trash ass trap rapper, and someone from reality tv. There's tons of factors now more than just a father not being at home.

[@Ra-sb2ln]

Lmaoo he said the father from Good Times 😂😂😂

[@kay.rariii]

Depends on the mother, and if there aren't any positive males to look up to as family members or anywhere else.

[@kay.rariii]

Global Dreaming I do agree and it is sad because a lot of women's priorities and goals in life aren't in the right places. Or focusing on the right things. Men will let you do to them what you let go on but at the end of the day you need to make sure your kids are taken care of and at least taught the rights things. So many young mothers especially don't focus on their kids and it's a shame.

[@globaldreaming1232]

Զѵҽҽղ ɾíí True!!

[@kitteekittee4010]

I think men raised by women are more emotional...i agree

[@wqdeqwe]

this is the wisest man i have ever heard key word WISE. being wise is understanding things and life beyond your years.

[@wilsonsmanz]

If you removed all the "you know what i mean" from this interview, the whole thing might be about 5 minutes.

[@FrancoisDressler]

Having a cruel mother is 100x worse than having a cruel father.

[@The_Queprint]

Guys raised by their Mothers wanna leading role in Empire.

[@jthecrippler3665]

Anthony Rogers not me either I'm more like a Power type a nugga lol

[@_Apostate]

Idiot not all men raised by their mom are pussy ass boys son.Stereotypes i thougth jamar hated that.

[@chrisscott8837]

Men who are raised by their p Fathers usually catch rape charges or go to prison

[@Pnut571]

Stfu I'm raised by my mom and I ain't no pussy.

[@toncapone1]

I’m a father of two girls and this breaks my heart because I know personally I do and engage with them in the ways my daddy showed me and treated me. Which was pure love

[@T.A.HasNoFilter]

93% of communication is non verbal.

[@miztumuch]

BLACK WOMEN WILL BE BLAMED FOR THE ZOMBIE APOCALYPSE AT SOME POINT. I GREW UP IN A FAMILY FULL OF MEN ON BOTH SIDES WHO HAD FATHERS. I ASSURE YOU THAT WOMEN AND MEN ARE EQUALLY EMOTIONAL BUT ARE TRIGGERED BY DIFFERENT THINGS. A man will kill you for hurting his feelings. THAT IS EMOTIONAL.

[@diamondwest35]

I could add comment and dismantle Vlad's whole point but the public ain't ready! Keep talking shit Vlad!

[@manfredportabello6523]

I never bought this whole theory of not having a father figure makes you more enotional. I know quite a few people who don't have dads and are very much emotionally stable. whereas there are some people I know WITH dads who are some of the wussiest people I know.

[@chrisscott8837]

Mandingo Perez always running to daddies whining when they have problems

[@percyastronautstatus.8780]

Jus because u know a few pp who doesn't fit the narrative does not mean what Jamar is saying isn't true ...black always come with that same one liner " i know some people "......damn y'all kill me with that shit . ..I can say with 80 percent accuracy most men in prison DIDNT have father's ..... You : "I know some people who in jail and they HAD a father " Me" kills myself " ......

[@cesarherrera1926]

Lord Jamar has become my favorite interviewe dude speaks the real

[@mricantakeapunch3231]

This is unfortunately true and I can attest to this. I learned that making decisions with emotions instead of logically as a man can damage you. Glad I'm learning now

[@MDAM12716]

Same here bro it's difficult to change that but it destroys you after a while.

[@jimmyfreeman5714]

A cool head gets it done. Careful with alcohol, too.

[@theonlyjoshow]

LJ always keeping it real...thanks for sharing...

[@missayawk]

Its not just about having a father in the home....If your father is there but not teaching you nothing....you might as well raise yourself...My mother was the domineering one...my father was passive.But he never put his hands on her and he went to work everyday....Thats the ONLY thing I learned from observation.My dad taught me NOTHING.

[@indegruv]

anything more than apathetic cockiness is considered "overly emotional"

[@fredrandle]

kudos to both gentlemen. Very honest dialogue. When my parents divorced James Evans was my dad as well. Have a great night everyone.

[@Gunshinzero]

OMG that laugh LOL. Wasn't expecting that. 4:13

[@glennberry8505]

Appreciate Jamar being truthful.

[@SigurTibbs]

"You know what I mean?" - Lord Jamar

[@sportsnerdtv4506]

Black kids need their father in the household to be in the house, not just physically, but emotionally as well.

[@mrcrookshank4820]

A friend told me this years ago and I had to check myself, and reel in my bad temper, Lord Jamar is definitely correct, men raised by women are too emotional

[@darriusbovain2152]

Tbh bruh nun wrong with a male being emotional frfr I as a male thay grow up with nun off my real parents In my life grow up with a adopted aunt who treated me like her own she is my mom and at the same time I realize that being raise by a female made me more in touch with my feelings but at the same time made me more sensitive to a lot of shit tbh still working on my mental side of shit and some shit I still don’t like to own up to to this day but I feel growing up with one parent has it’s pros and cons in my opinion

[@feelinfroggy1733]

Raised by my moms turned out solid.

[@MattyVice]

Lord Jamar was lookin teary eyed in the middle. He's strong dude man. Been through a lot and powered through it.

[@LimaKiloRomeo]

DJ Vlad turned straight up into Tommy Sotomayor. Set Tommy up for the okie doke and then started talking to other niggaz like Tommy but without the cussing.

[@LimaKiloRomeo]

Ed III I'm not a Tommy fanboy, & I don't care about whether or not it comes out.

[@LimaKiloRomeo]

Ed III He's emotional like the people he talks about.

[@LimaKiloRomeo]

Ed III I didn't ask for it. Quote exactly where I asked for it.

[@LimaKiloRomeo]

Ed III Mentioning it and asking are two different things.

[@MISCDesigns]

Ed III and Jason Black with Zo Williams

[@666ofdoom]

I need to watch every Lord Jamar interview

[@dominiqueclark787]

I never had my ears pierced in my life, never. I always thought that shit was gay growing up.

[@Clide0_0]

Dominique Clark thats cuz it the early 2000s that shit was considered gay. Past like 05 that shit was just a normal thing.

[@XxScArEcRoWxX1]

Dominique Clark my earlobes are pierce Free. but I'm thinking of getting some for tribal and spiritual reasons. my belief is they hold all the negative energy our bodies produce and safely expelled it from the body. have you ever felt like you had hot ears. ?

[@dominiqueclark787]

XxScArEcRoWxX1 I feel u, just my personal opinion I never liked jewelry as a whole growing up

[@afrosymphony8207]

didnt think it was guy just didnt like the aesthetic for some reason, wasnt that pleasing to my eyes

[@NyakzOTSD]

its not gay!! everyone is different

[@Boot_14]

I'm 26 now and I only seen my pops like max like 4 times but he passed from cancer when I was 15

[@Tres_Nueve]

Father is the most important parent, pound for pound.

[@humanparadox]

agreed

[@MrVIP1993]

I wouldn't say that. You need them both. Children need to be nurtured just as much as they need to be disciplined.

[@tia9966]

Bullshit.

[@757bigj]

You get your identity from your father.father can teach his son to be a man and give his daughter balance and is the first man to tell his daughter she's beautiful without trying to have sex with her.your father is where most of your confidence comes from. when he's not there you're lost

[@miltonhenderson2588]

Tres Nueve we can't be born without a Mother.

[@zoeh9683]

I thought about adopting as a single parent but I prayed about it and realised I’d be depriving my child of the experience I had having a dad. It’s a blessing to have my dad

[@charlestaylor8660]

Vlad: so yo dad had three kids then bounced out 😂😂

[@kuruptzZz]

so most black men are overly emotional?

[@Pnut571]

Theres a lot of white people without a dad. All races.

[@jawdencrowley8688]

layzie pac shut the fuck up

[@wesman9292]

yes,- go read the Willie lynch letters- that will explain all you need too know

[@terrywilson8240]

I see what you are doing Vlad...chess, not checkers..very much appreciated it man..

[@stuarteales641]

There needs to be balance but nothing wrong with being emotional

[@CSmithCommish]

This was an interesting therapy session

[@ej4555]

No matter how many excuses people make or exceptions they present, the truth is KIDS need both parents(good parents), or least good role models. I am not talking about the rapper, real nigga or bad bitch that the majority of black people see it as "He/she made it", because it is a fact that black people love to live through celebrities. I am talking about role models that are able to replace the good influence of a normal good parent. Kids need to see both sides of the coin, and the majority of single parents are not able to show that.

[@ShadowMoon96]

Men are definately more emotional than women were just better holding it in, because we were taught from a young age that showing your emotions means sign of "weakness" like even for a man to cry meant you wasn't strong enough and I don't think men should be more in touch with their "feminine"side more than their masculine side because women need a leader and man to protect, provide them as it's our role since the beginning of everything but men should balance out their masculine and feminine out one should not out weigh the other.

[@TayEvansMusic]

"Ya nawdahmean"... Salute Lord Jamar!

[@TheRoamer78]

Lord Jamar on this Russian guys payroll. He is the only one that keeps doing these videos

[@futgaming]

Jamar holding back the tears like if this vlad dude don't stop asking question imma mess up his camera set

[@jimmyfreeman5714]

I thought shit, he going to jump and smack him across the mouth!

[@marc07112]

what's crazy is that's becoming the norm with white ppl too

[@jimmyfreeman5714]

Has been, from early 70's on -

[@WrightMatthew85]

Being an emotional man isn't necessarily a bad thing. You can be in touch with your emotions without letting them rule you. I am very emotionally open and I find it freeing. I look at men who put on this macho front and just think that they must be exhausted,.

[@sportsnerdtv4506]

Agreed. We should be friends if you're still around.

[@yagimugayu4932]

Damn Vlad is KGB pysops. Slowly pull out the emotions without letting the subject realize it. Damn Jamar is so basic. Vlad smashed that wall down one brick at a time.

[@jaysmack7445]

This is actually a great segment. I wish Jamar would have talked about the 5% NGE and that influence on his development.

[@czr4752]

Don’t bash me n say I’m tryna claim something I’m not. But I can say having a father who isn’t a role model, even if present, still has effects like this. Not to the same level, but as with everything, there’s levels to this. But the point still stands, as men when and if we have children, we gotta not just BE there, but show the way

[@kaycar6804]

So vlad is lord Jamal overly emotional? Vlad is low key disrespecting the black community. The government has always been trying to keep us separated as a family. Why don't he talk about what they do, like having sex with dogs or beastiality.Lord Jamal should have ran circles around this guy with this subject. My bad.... I'm being overly emotional 😡....lol

[@kaycar6804]

Tebo Tiger you need to stay on topic, or maybe you didn't comprehend what I said... Smh

[@tebotiger8426]

kay car i read through the bullshit and focused on what ur confused abt

[@tebotiger8426]

mfs with a poor me my people mentality will understand what ur trying to ignorantly say u prolly support blm 😁😂

[@subtletiger]

kay car he said.."Having sex with dogs OR bestiality." Are you finished or are you done?

[@CryptoMafia]

kay car waaaaaa I’m black waaaaa buy me something waaaaa it’s not my fault everyone is racist, waaaaa

[@grant21999]

I've said some of these things for years. Jamar is right.

[@jmoafro1]

their is truth to it. people who live wit anyone 365days for 18+yrs your gunna have similar traits but homies who only had moms or really close to moms or close to a lot of sisters I tend to notice they usually are the first dudes to fight friends over something small bc of they short temp and hold a grudge, not everyone of course just at a young age of course from teens to young adult.

[@jgreen6434]

Jamar is pretty much the only guest on Vladtv that has interesting things to say and a well thought out point of view. As a white guy I can't speak on the black experience. I feel that Jamar convey's the black experience in a very interesting, honest, blunt way. LJ is the only thing I watch on Vlad........

[@youngfuturesupreme3901]

this off topic but fuck it that jacket cold asf

[@incognegro2315]

It’s the MOTHERS that are in control of that

[@Trap323a]

I was raised by moms I'm not overly emotionally.. have u heard on grandfathers uncles older cousins smh lol

[@jahlilleewilliams6860]

Trap323a exactly

[@humanparadox]

grandfathers uncles and older cousins are not a replacement for fathers

[@jahlilleewilliams6860]

humanparadox you right

[@pilotperry4525]

It's idiotic to think being emotional stems from not having a father in your life. What if you do have a father in the household, and your children are still emotional? Then they're gonna blame the father for being too lenient, smh.

[@blackknightdl]

Relax. We understand you have alot of men in your life that isn't your father.

[@Sacrifice0D]

This was a hard interview for Jamar at certain points, you can tell. Certain questions made him go places he probably didn't wanna necessarily go. Props to him for being mature enough to take those hard questions and not get defensive or take it out on Vlad. He's showing us in this very video how much he grew as a man.

[@randallross420]

1. this interview seemed oddly therapeutic for jamar. 2. how drunk would i be if i had a drink every time he said "ya mean?"

[@theplug9093]

randallross420 lmfaoooooooooooooo

[@jonathaone]

randallross420 YANAMEAN

[@melissarosario6176]

randallross420 lol

[@theglowyoungbruceleeroysun1486]

Makes perfect sense man and woman can love each other but co habitation is a no go.

[@fredbjamz4956]

People are quick to say kids need fathers in their life but support gay marriage. They also support gays adopting kids and say its fine. Hmmmmm confusing

[@The_Queprint]

Shout Out: 2 Lord Jamar.

[@michaelross3512]

Only 7% of black married couples are in poverty, that's huge right there.

[@everafter2611]

Women aren't the ones going on killing sprees.

[@allpeacepearson5080]

I agree. Im in my 40s and I have no children. Children need two parents that are married and that can afford children. Both parents need to be patient and have time to teach them and have things to pass down to the children like a business or property. Our community is in crisis. We have to change our ways. Stop blaming White people and get it together. Stop having random sex and start being responsible men and women.

[@aarons_picks3783]

Jacket lookin' straight outta '99. 😂😂😂

[@andersenkalle]

Man, this really was a great Dr. Phil episode!