VLOG*HE QUIT ME*I PUT MY DAUGHTER OUT*LIFE CHANGED IN 24 HOURS*I SNAPPPED*DOSSIER

[@quimcneal]

I have 5 children (2 are adults) and a husband and got nothing for Mother's day. This was the first year that I have gotten nothing. My husband was sick but in my mind he knew and had ample time to at least get me a card before Mother's day came. I literally sat in my living room, alone and fighting tears for 4 hours before dusting my shoulders off and getting back to motherdom...

[@KearyIsSoVeary]

You are a mother everyday. Don't let one day out the year to determine whom you are as a mother. I dont celebrate it because I'm a single mother everyday and gift myself all the time. Wish you well!

[@TheeEbonyPosh]

🫂

[@Vashtiliving]

I am really sorry you weren't acknowledged on your day . I hope you know that you are worthy and amazing . Please take this a note to celebrate yourself and never worry again . Do what makes you happy next time they will be looking for you and you will be at the spa !

[@PlatinumD]

Address it, ASAP

[@sashay1028]

Awww I’m sorry next Mother’s Day just take off on they azz and enjoy your day as u see fit

[@Mentalresetzone]

Platinum D please love yourself so much that you would not want to go back to a person you don’t trust and got a tattoo to remind you of that. You deserve so much more than someone who has already showed you who they really are. Start fresh with someone new and new memories. Love ya❤

[@PlatinumD]

I love myself enough to do what I want... I'm taking a chance either way. New ppl gone be full of it too...

[@TheMoseswoman]

So sorry to hear things went south. It’s hard not to feel resentment when people you do all for do nothing for you in return. It’s called being taken for granted. Time to fall back on how much you do and let them figure some things out on their own. That way, it’s no place for resentment when the expectations are low. You feel me? Hang in there, Sissy.

[@PlatinumD]

xoxoxo

[@Choklatekisses1]

I'm less than 15 minutes in and all I got to say is this.. You're a REAL ONE and I love you even the more for your just being YOU!! ❤️❤️ "I'm putting yawl in my business, because I put yawl in my business" BABY!! That speaks volumes! Prayers for the Lord to continue to bless and keep you in His care. 🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾

[@PlatinumD]

xoxoxo

[@tarabatts1063]

Continue loving on you Doll. Spend time with Nikki and do what the Hell Nikki wanna do. You’re GROWN and hey ONE LIFE TO LIVE❤PRECIOUS❤And putting your daughter out maybe this will show her just how much u do for her and will appreciate her Mom in the near FUTURE💜💜💜💜💜💜

[@PlatinumD]

xoxo

[@Product_snob]

@@PlatinumDhugs family bin almst to the top lol 💜

[@drealashe]

It’s amazing how we overlook people flaws because we love them and they sit and point out all ours!! Bar of the century!! Straight Facts

[@PlatinumD]

Big Facts

[@estherauguste4480]

I completely understand how you feel about Mother’s Day. This year is my 2nd year without my mom. I’m learning to live for me and do things for myself. I love how real and transparent you are

[@PlatinumD]

Yes, our time... xoxoxo

[@Lesss-we7ch]

30 minutes in and I have to comment. You’re a great mother to Maya but some of this stuff is just because she’s still young. She probably won’t realize the full depth of your mothering and have the appropriate gratitude until she has kids of her own. I wouldn’t take it too personally. it’s just maturity and has to occur naturally. Kids will make u so mad, u want to spit. 😂 Now, as for Sir, I’m a little pissed at him. I was enjoying you guys. But, as Gloria Vanderbilt used to say, “on to my next great love affair.” And as my daddy used to say, “one monkey don’t stop no show”. Keep on high steppin’, girl. You seem to live YOUR life the way YOU want to and that is to be admired.

[@PlatinumD]

xoxoxo

[@PatraHayes]

I Love you and your Family 💜🎊💜🎊💜🎊💜🎊

[@sugarrbear7113]

Just take one day at a time and don’t compare him and Nichole because that will cause problems. Narcissistic are charming, but they lack empathy and emotions.

[@cortezmiller1899]

Who’s the narcissist? If anything they all three can be narcissist!

[@PlatinumD]

Who compared them??????

[@cortezmiller1899]

@@PlatinumDExactly! People over use the word Narcissistic or Narcissist.

[@snnysydeup]

That’s confirmation right there. It’s called moving FORWARD for a reason. Constant reminder to myself: never go backwards and always push forward. I think I was triggered cuz what is his problem? They never see a good woman right in their face. Oh well. You enjoyed while it lasted. No time wasted and no love lost. Teenagers go through an ungrateful phase and forget that the world doesn’t revolve around them. Usually until mid twenties. Especially girls. I got 2. Parenting ain’t for the weak😂 they will break your heart a million times and you gotta just suck it up. I think everybody was off for Mother’s Day. I didn’t get anything either but I appreciate the texts I got

[@PlatinumD]

Right, I enjoyed it while it lasted.. As far as my daughter... anyways!

[@nikki78998]

Vlog is great! Don't ever let man get you down. I did that with my ex and I finally had to let him go. Keep loving yourself and may God continue to bless you. Love ya!

[@robbiedouglas8304]

Hey 👋🏾 Nikki , I am so glad you put this video out. I never judge a person in their relationship. It is ultimately up to you to decide on what is good for you not us. Please know that you are loved over here. Stay strong my beautiful Black sister ❤

[@PlatinumD]

Thank you so much

[@brittanydavis8893]

I absolutely love how you process your thoughts and emotions but still keep pushing. I know i needed to see this. Wishing you all the best plus more ❤

[@PlatinumD]

Thank you! You too!

[@caspersbestfriend]

Plat you told us in a vlog October /November 2021, "once you stop expecting yourself out of others you'll be alright". This has saved me from so much heartache. I pray for you because I wish that I had a mother like you when I was younger. 💜

[@PlatinumD]

Thank you

[@coffy1982]

We totally understand Nikki. Praying for better days for you. You deserve more than what you give to others. I go through the same thing.

[@PlatinumD]

xoxo

[@MoonBeamsChild]

I felt all of this. I really did. Ive always watched you but I followed this a little more closely because I'm kinda going through the same thing. He says ALL THE RIGHT THINGS. He is there for me. Then I just get this feeling like is this make believe? Is this April fool. I'm tired. I'm drained. I've lived for everyone else but me. I'm also a caregiver for my mom AND my brother. I'm trying to position my life to where I can be happy with ME, but here he is trying to convince me to do life with him... I felt this.😫 Choosing YOU is always the best thing to do.

[@PlatinumD]

Put you first

[@breonataylor8357]

I don’t comment much but I am getting caught up on your vlogs and I just have to let you know how much I love you. You are soo funny and I can tell so genuine. You literally make my day most times! #1 favorite person to watch! ❤❤

[@PlatinumD]

Thank you so much!!

[@blessedc4256]

Listen you have a vibe he not finding anywhere else he WILL be back blowing down your line if he hasn’t already!! In the meantime we loving these back to back vlogs you’ve been spoiling us with since the new year!

[@PlatinumD]

💯

[@TenzlyM.]

Platinum girl we ❤️ you. You make me feel like I am truly a part of your family. The way you interact with your camera (subscribers) is amazing. Stay strong and sweet because you are the best!❤❤❤

[@PlatinumD]

Thank you so much!!

[@Afro56]

Nikki just dropped to your knees when you get home. Give it all to the ALMIGHTY. I promise you everything will work itself out.

[@PlatinumD]

It already is

[@Choklatekisses1]

PLAAATTTT!!! "Oh Heyll Naw, I'm back" dammit Platt!!! You done had me holla'n this whole vlog! 😂😂 Don't forget to get our nephew a red banner. Thank you much 😉🥰🥰

[@PlatinumD]

Ordering now

[@johnjohnnola5261]

I’ve been following you for a long time like years . I respect you so much and learned so much from you (I’m also a mua) i love how real you are . Keep doing what you’re doing and stay positive . 🙏🏾

[@PlatinumD]

Thank you so much!!

[@kendragilbert7095]

You have the right to feel how you feel. You go above and beyond for your family, like I do. This is confirmation for me. Keep your head up and continue to be strong. I’m keeping you in my prayers.

[@PlatinumD]

xoxoxo

[@aliciawhitfield2483]

NIKKI you are an awesome mother. Start putting boundaries in place. If you go hard it should be the same thing in return

[@PlatinumD]

Thank you

[@maximplicity]

So happy that your grieving journey is getting better. I remember when you 1st start going to the cemetery and you had to go to Buccee's for a pick me up. I love that for you.

[@PlatinumD]

Yes, I only skipped it this trip because Mothers Day was going to have it lit

[@telisia3]

My favorite part is wine you stop Mr. Get it wrong , from belittling someone just because they have a certain car. Like saying goes “ a janitor or a VIP deserve the same respect. Keep doing your thang, 💜

[@PlatinumD]

I agree

[@reachoneteachonedenmark815]

Seeing you put yourself encourage me to continue my selflove journey. As a wife and mom I put my family and friends first watching you help me to make myself priority for the first time in my life. Thank you for your vulnerability.

[@PlatinumD]

You can do it!

[@CelieJones]

Always choose you because everyone else has no problem choosing themselves. What is meant to be, will be. Life is too short. Live your life. Peace and blessings. P.S. I went out of town and my tires were “may pops”. My brother in law and I went and got 4 new ones on the Benz and life is good again 😂😂😂😂

[@PlatinumD]

I'm living and learning

[@TexasHoldem-p9q]

@@PlatinumD Sis get AAA and upgrade it to “platinum” 💜 they will handle everything! They cover your vehicles, and any vehicle you are in. They cover your family that resides at your residence. They make sure you are safe and off the road, they might even cover rentals. 💕💕🫶🏽

[@PlatinumD]

I do have it. I hate the two hour waits and etc. I'm inpatient

[@randomlytee4905]

I just want to say I thoroughly enjoy your vlogs!! Like low key you need a netflix series! It real, authentic,encouraging and entertaining. Wishing u all the happiness and love💜💜

[@PlatinumD]

Wow, thank you!

[@natashaRN824]

You are the realist person on here to me. Things will work out for sure.

[@PlatinumD]

xoxoxo

[@thefavoredone1217]

Yes ma’am! Move them out the way if they mean you NO good. I just had to show my daughter, that she’s blessed to have a mom that makes things easy for her. My therapist had to remind me that your kids will use you too. Psalms 23

[@PlatinumD]

Exactly!!

[@agreen61577]

Big Plat!! No explanation needed..moving on to the next one…have fun!!

[@PlatinumD]

One monkey don’t stop no show

[@nedrashereadywilliams9496]

Ms. Nikki I swear I wish you could have had a live for Mother's Day. You are not alone. I stopped getting upset about Mother's Day years ago. I buy my own self what I want so there's no complaints. Also entitled kids and husband made me this way.

[@PlatinumD]

Yes, I still had a good day. Off camera.

[@veronicolumn]

This vlog was really good Big Plat! Very vulnerable and real as always.

[@PlatinumD]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@Product_snob]

I love the Tory Burch earrings I want some and sis they sell those pieces to fix your earring at any craft store 💜

[@PlatinumD]

ok thanks

[@TexasHoldem-p9q]

Now you know why I said I’m seriously contemplating a solo transatlantic cruise, and yes ma’am I think you’re menopausal and you’re struggling with grief and ptsd. I m in that boat also so yes put yourself first 💝💝💝

[@PlatinumD]

xoxoxo

[@itsmestephanie9226]

Nikki!! I had to holla when you took a bite of that sandwich in the store!😂😂 You made my evening.😊

[@PlatinumD]

Lol...

[@homesicket.787]

Showing some love❤ Thank you for being so real Nikki.

[@PlatinumD]

xoxoxo

[@jenniferjames924]

Hey Plat OC gang in the house!!!! U ain't the goat for nothing God leading u, just trust the process ❤️🙏🏾 u got this!!! Oh yea enjoy your self self preservation cos we here!!!!! And we love 😍 us some Plat!!!!!

[@PlatinumD]

💯

[@missylove2323]

Hey Plat!!!! Your daughter will come around just step back and let babygirl reflect! As far as your boo… always keep your options no matter how good things appear. I’m going through the same things but I’m still outside baby!!!! May the best ninja win!!!

[@PlatinumD]

Showtime

[@IamMsMoy]

Nikki, please show yourself some grace and take care of yourself. You are continually pouring yourself in others and they’re taking you for granted. That’s not okay. Sending you virtual hugs 🫶🏽💜

[@PlatinumD]

I’m trying sis

[@djbrook10]

I love to see Platinum happy and enjoying life in a relationship, BUT I also love how you bounce back and show the girls how to move on when people show they don’t value you and want you in their life. Pop you sh*t and keep doing you!

[@PlatinumD]

xoxoxo

[@jenniferjohnson7310]

💜💜💜 Platt, no matter what, you seem much happier. I'm 51 and have had a similar experience ( with a woman 10 years was still friends but at 44 had to find and redefine myself) I truly realize that no matter what or who....I'm first in line and if it does not bring me joy... You got this Love the vlog 💜💜💜

[@PlatinumD]

xoxoxo

[@kathatten9241]

My good Sis, u deserve the Sun, the Moon, the Stars. U have such a giving spirit that so under appreciated. Since ur presence isn't celebrated offer ur absence. Releasing stress is self care. Praying for u🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿❤️

[@PlatinumD]

xoxoxo

[@TinaJones304]

Just give it all to God my beautiful sister and keep making these videos cause I love them

[@PlatinumD]

Thank you, I will

[@PrettyAKAmplished]

I love how real you are. I rarely comment but I have been watching you for a decade and you are this ish! Your content is relatable, relevant, motivational and sometimes, funny.

[@PlatinumD]

Thank you so much!!

[@jdezeeuw6540]

Even though they didn’t come through for you on Mother’s Day make sure you know you deserve to be celebrated especially if you’re a good mom. I ask for not much but my husband and son treat me like a royal queen and I appreciate it. ❤

[@PlatinumD]

Thank you, I will

[@anniephillips7989]

Im so sorry the ppl you poured into didnt take the opportunity to reciprocate proactively. I went through a rough patch with my mom in my teens and the closer I got to college, the closer we became, because I saw in real time her sacrifices. I hope the culmination of all you’ve done beyond standard motherhood, resonates with Shugg. I hope she works to restore the friendship too.

[@anniephillips7989]

okay Im glad I waited to hold my comment cuz it always gave, he couldnt keep up. And for the shit to get weird after you displayed your affection, instead of draw yall closer, it probably brought his insecurities to the surface. He cant do what you do, prolly felt emasculated cuz you gettin to it $$$ and cant just say that. Cooking only goes so far, and he probably knew that wouldnt cut it long term for somebody like you. Think about how many trips you been on since yall start back rockin….maybe you evolved more than he did since 04’ and he secretly jealous.

[@PlatinumD]

Thank you so much

[@nfinitemissconnception]

💜Hiya love, praying for your peace. This too shall pass. Know that you are an inspiration and greatly loved. 😘😘😘💜

[@PlatinumD]

xoxo

[@michelledorch7588]

Lil Sis, Child!!! My son the same way!!! And he 35 years old!!! He won’t do anything unless you ask him too!!!! He don’t lift a finger until you say something ,,,, I spoiled him rotten because of the things I didn’t have. But there is no initiative to do things on his own!!!! 😢 Burns me up. Mother day!!! I made him cook me dinner

[@PlatinumD]

I am off it, I'm not making anybody do anything

[@michelledorch7588]

Here for you Sis!!! What ever makes you happy….It’s our time moving forward 👍🏽💜

[@PlatinumD]

Yes! Thank you!

[@jasminedixon1894]

My mom passed away in 99 when I was 14, and I have two adult children now and a 15 month old and this was the FIRST mother’s Daughter I actually celebrated. And I actually celebrated on Monday. I STILL didn’t want to do anything Sunday. I don’t know I just don’t and can’t really get into it. So yeah I feel you on that Plat I really do!

[@PlatinumD]

Hang in there

[@slyneena.k.a.shauneeneensly]

Plat, I’ve been putting me first since 2018. I had to, and it feels so good! Cause ain’t nobody playing with me ever again in life!!

[@PlatinumD]

Def feels good

[@Meishaluvsya]

You are absolutely right about trust! You’re RIGHT! Crazy thing about Trust is it’s easy to lose hard gain or regain!💕 Do you Plat we got your back!!!!!!!

[@PlatinumD]

Thanks luv

[@caressarenee6883]

Hey Nikki don’t forget your that girl! Prayers for your peace and ❤❤❤ your vlogs and I appreciate your transparency and how real you are!!!

[@PlatinumD]

xoxoxo

[@txgirlrider73]

Nikki take your time and heal…I’m so proud of you Nikki you rep strong for us Texas gals, I’ve watched you grow, grieve and thrive with style and grace…But Sis it’s time to continue pouring into YOU (Period).When you said “You were ready to be soft” I felt that and completely understood that, because I feel the same way. Maintaining your peace is PARAMOUNT, stay blessed and at peace beloved 💋

[@PlatinumD]

Heal from what? Why do you guys say that?

[@txgirlrider73]

@@PlatinumD Heal from EVERYTHING you’ve been through over the past few years that has you emotionally numb

[@MzAngie]

Girlllll... do YOU!!!! I know you know what time it is❤❤

[@PlatinumD]

Yes honey, we talked about this

[@AuthorLHollingsworth]

@14:00 Sis, if you're happy, Im happy for you. Team Texas all the way. People got to learn to mind their business. Period 🙏🏾

[@PlatinumD]

xoxoxo

[@drealashe]

Love you sis! Praying for your peace and happiness

[@PlatinumD]

xoxoxo

[@Product_snob]

Platbrats we in here 🙌💜

[@kathijohnson843]

I'm so sorry the ppl in your life aren't coming up to scratch. I'm living your pain. It'll be ok queen. We'll end up on that mountain top again soon. Love ya sis ❤

[@PlatinumD]

So true.xoxo

[@FreeJenMarie]

Thank you for your transparency and vulnerability. It takes a lot to share personal matters(im a baby vlogger and im not there yet, but MAN do i have a story to tell) i love your style of vlog and how you present products. Your videos stay informative and entertaining. Im tuned in!❤

[@PlatinumD]

Xoxo

[@AshiaReeder]

You’re so inspiring. I’m sorry that things transpired between you and Mr the way it did but on to bigger and better. I pray that the relationship between you and your daughter get better and that she realizes just how amazing you are. TFS

[@PlatinumD]

Thank you so much

[@EclipticSpiritualist]

Hey,thanks for sharing you. Your daughter is still your teammate and has to grow more. Hopefully her being put out doesn’t live her vulnerable to those that pray on her naivety. Hope is that you two mend matters fast 💨

[@PlatinumD]

honestly, I am not thinking about her. I gave her 110% of everything. How dare she...

[@EclipticSpiritualist]

I understand 🙂

[@tonyabdeals6219]

What's meant to be will be. Have fun sis, happy mother's day and from watching you over the years, you are a great mom!

[@PlatinumD]

Thank you! You too!

[@warmheart11187]

Omg Plat...you hurt my heart when you said that you didn't get celebrated. Watching how you love on EVERYONE especially Sug...makes me miss my Mom! Thank you for being a wonderful Mom! On the other tip...you deserve to have fun...you are single and Grown! It's OK to put YOU 1st! ❤️

[@PlatinumD]

I am. Trust me

[@nechelleslifejourney7294]

I hate that too, think for yourself, you should not have to tell anyone to care and say the right thing, from the heart. You are amazing

[@PlatinumD]

thanks

[@gurlwhowants2dj]

Some contacts have a few in the pack that are defective every now and again. Usually they let you walk out with a free sample in first to make sure they work for you

[@PlatinumD]

I had a lot of trial pair...

[@feeneishia73]

Happy Mother's Day Boo! I got to see my kids and grandbabies, that was enough for me!

[@PlatinumD]

Same to you

[@kiarab2627]

Plat, when you said let me cut the camera. Awww hell naw I’m back cause I ain’t spending my paid session about him. When I tell you I felt that in my soul. Tell it, Plat!!! Some people cannot stand when we catch them in their lies and don’t let nothing slide. Ain’t no snakes getting past us auntie!

[@PlatinumD]

Yes, so f'em!

[@crystalgordon1076]

Gurl!!!! This vlog is so real!! This is so me, I can relate. Plat do you boo !

[@PlatinumD]

Thank you!! I will

[@deborahosborne5150]

Choose you first....thats exactly how i feel. Before i let someone take me backward, i will say bye. I had to fight fight fight For joy, peace, and love to love myself again.

[@PlatinumD]

I am...

[@TheFASHUNRAWKS]

Do what makes you happy big sis you’ve been through enough shine bright like a diamond that you are, baby girl will see when she have children. She will understand definitely 💜💜💜 keep loving on yourself. It looks good on you.

[@PlatinumD]

Thank you so much 🤗

[@kiagray]

I LOVE PLAT 😂😂😂 THE COMMENTARY OF MR CAN’T GET IT RIGHT TICKLED ME BUT WHEW THESE MEN SOMETHING ELSE! BUT PLAT GOING TO ALWAYS BE GOOD

[@PlatinumD]

Always

[@kiagray]

@@PlatinumD 💕💕💕💐

[@celestedean5827]

Happy belated Mother’s Day babes you deserve it and own that point blank periodic no one else appreciate you as a wonderful mother I wish you could have been mine 30 yrs ago I have two that didn’t treat me right!!!!!😫😤

[@PlatinumD]

Thank you

[@tonyasilvey8845]

I agree with you. You should always take care of yourself first.

[@PlatinumD]

Xoxo

[@aren8484]

Hey Nikki I know you’re going to be better than fine, God don’t play about you at all. 😊🙏🏽 Shugg will see how much she needs to be grateful for you, I went though that phase at 19 and 20 and definitely needed my mama again before she needed me! I’m going to try one of those refreshers tomorrow

[@PlatinumD]

Yes I’m not worried at all

[@kcstacks9530]

Plat you are so right my daughter is the same way we have created our own monster and I don’t think they understand how we really feel because we are SO STRONG and don’t always show it but of lately I’ve been calling her out on her sh!t they gotta feel it and they have to stop thinking that ITS ALWAYS ALL ABOUT THEM I FEEL YOUR PAIN as mothers we gotta change the way we move 💜

[@PlatinumD]

Baby, its up... she know I am crazy

[@iammisspg]

This vlog made me cry my kids did nothing I pray for strength daily dealing with depression is hard and this mother day was tuff

[@PlatinumD]

Moving forward celebrate you

[@celestedean5827]

You are an outstanding woman,mother and daughter!!!!👏👏👏🥰😘😘😘😘😘❤️❤️❤️

[@PlatinumD]

Wow, thank you

[@ladydee56]

From one mom to another. Happy 💐. I feel the same way on this day about my mom. It's hard for me and my siblings, and the same thing for Father Day 😢

[@PlatinumD]

Thank you, same to you

[@OhThatsAngie]

Sorry to hear that about Mr Will Ain’t Never Got Right🤦🏽‍♀️ He did bring you happiness. You deserve more. God got you Boo👏🏽

[@PlatinumD]

Chile, we off it lol

[@latriceall-r-nothingchannel]

Hey Nikki, I'm so sorry to hear about you and suga. It's not heartess it's called tired and fed up. I truly understand it hurts. It's so unfortunate that people with a good and giving heart you always get the short end of the stick. It definitely make you feel some kind of way. Just know God always has his hands on givers. He didn't say it was going to easy, But he did say it will be worth it. Sending prayers to you and your family. 🙏🙌💜

[@PlatinumD]

xoxoxo

[@Justme-lj4jk]

Just take the good and keep it moving. For the next 2 years you just need to have FUN!!!!!!!!!❤

[@PlatinumD]

Imma do what I want but thanks

[@dbly704]

Hey! Showing some love and DID enjoy the vlog.

[@PlatinumD]

Thank you, glad you enjoyed

[@cortezmiller1899]

Hey Auntie. I understand your frustration, and you telling your truth. People are so quick to judge, and don’t know the other side of the story. And quick to blame someone and not won’t to blame themselves for the things they have done. I get you, and know what you are saying!

[@PlatinumD]

xoxoxo

[@b-u-2day956]

My favorite part was you putting up boundaries and accepting other peoples decisions.

[@PlatinumD]

xoxo

[@roshellemichelle]

I love your blogs I can relate to you and your real.Please do more blogs like this ❤

[@PlatinumD]

Gotcha!

[@cola4u]

I’m praying for you honey… ❤❤

[@PlatinumD]

Thanks

[@shirleygresham3251]

Hey plat, Love girl.. You keep me laughing. Girl youre the GOAT!! Everything will fall into place!!💜💜💜🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@PlatinumD]

xoxoxo

[@triceywill3230]

I think it's something in the water these kids are drinking. This generation of kids is selfish and self absorbed, my kid included. You said it right. We have to put ourselves first. I am just learning how to do that. Sending love your way. Live life! I am here for all of it; the good and the not so good. Thanks for bringing us along. 💜💜💜

[@PlatinumD]

They are a mess... Over it

[@karinhammonds-graham125]

I had a similar experience Mother's Day and at this point in my life I'm like if you cant show up for me, then im gonna reciprocate the same energy.

[@PlatinumD]

That part

[@cclloyd6]

This vlog was real, and funny I enjoyed it !

[@PlatinumD]

Glad you enjoyed it

[@MayasMasterpiece]

“Because I want to! Because the head is good!!” 😂😂🤣🤣 She is me!

[@PlatinumD]

The end! Lol

[@Casaunlynn]

Sending you positive vibes as you work through this. I have a 19yr old too and whew!!!! You are not Heartless Nikki, you are just not for the B.S and straight up and you don’t have time for over analyzing their feelings of how they are going to process your reaction. I think we all just have a breaking point and moments of exhaustion. Fill up your tank Mama, you got this.

[@PlatinumD]

xoxoxo

[@belleofthecity1215]

Listen! YOUR FEELINGS ARE TOO VALID with everything and I feel you! 🥹🫶🏽

[@PlatinumD]

xoxox

[@MissTooReal]

Great vlog! You’re welcome I’m glad you liked the cup. Sorry, I forgot to leave a note💜

[@PlatinumD]

Omg, thank you so much

[@Coffeeandcoffee]

I'm have to that lemonade, did u add sweetener, or as is?

[@PlatinumD]

No sweetener

[@msrita6548]

At 57 with 2 son and a man, it’s up to us to make our own happiness. Even on Mother’s Day. I’m sorry for all of us mother that put these expectation on other ppl, just to get disappointed. Going forward I will do what I want to make me happy 😊🫶🏽

[@PlatinumD]

Yup, lesson learned

[@msrita6548]

@@PlatinumD Thank you for keeping it real w/yr life. Keep doing what yr doing…

[@ladyej3635]

Sis, you're simply amazing 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾 enjoy watching your videos ❤❤❤ Love yourself more than anyone else 💖

[@PlatinumD]

Thank you so much 🤗