VLOG| PRIVATE MOVIE SCREENING, GIRLS NIGHT, HALARA HAUL, ITS F**CK THEM KIDS? + MORE|ALEXUS REBECCA

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Outfit 1:
- Top: Softlyzero™ Backless Cut Out Twisted Cropped Yoga Tank (Color: Tigerlily, Size: M)
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- Skirt: Everyday Softlyzero™ Airy 2-in-1 Cool Touch Tennis Skirt-Marvelous-UPF50+ (Color: Tigerlily, Size: L)
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Outfit 2:
- Skirt: Breezeful™ High Waisted Pleated 2-in-1 Side Pocket Adjustable Buckle Mini Quick Dry Casual Skirt (Color: Peach Melba, Size: L[regular])
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- Top: Softlyzero™ Airy Square Neck Backless Crisscross Cropped Cool Touch Yoga Tank (Color: Peach Melba, Size: L)
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Outfit 3:
- Tank Top: Basic Padded Workout Cropped Tank (Color: Frosty Green, Size: M)
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- Leggings: Crossover High Waisted Back Pocket Super Flare Leggings (Color: Asparagus, Size: L[petite])
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Outfit 4:
- Top: U Neck Backless Crossover Barre Ballet Dance Tank (Color: Black, Size: M)
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- Leggings: Softlyzero™ High Waisted Crossover Back Pocket Ruched Butt Lifting Super Flare Yoga Leggings (Color: Black, Size: L)
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Additional Picks...
- Top: Patitoff® Flow Pet Hair Resistant Crew Neck Sleeveless Cropped Yoga Tank (Color: Black, Size: M)
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- Dress: Backless Crisscross Active Dress-Easy Peezy Edition (Color: Pink Purple, Size: M)
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[@BreakfastAtTiffanysYall]

I had my son at 34. Alexus you will NEVER feel ready to have kids. It’s such a big responsibility that I don’t think anyone is ever TRULY ready. But when I tell you, my son saves my life a little bit every day ❤️. Best decision I ever made! You and Vante will make great parents but only if you’re sure. Don’t let anyone pressure you because ultimately YOU have to raise the child.

[@DesireeSacola]

Every single day, they don't miss a day!! My son is the best thing to happen to me and he still stresses me out at the same time 😅

[@kimmy70759]

I had my daughter at 28 which isn’t too late . I never wanted to have kids because of my own relationship with my mother but I just adore being a mom. Motherhood is so hard but it has made me a less selfish and just better overall. Love my children so deeply they gave me real purpose.

[@MorewithMonica]

agreed!

[@jasminemack5295]

Shoot I needed this cuz I’m 35 and will be having my first

[@LGC923]

Alexus, I’m 58 going on 59. I knew at 18 I did not want children, and that is my truth. I’m a wonderful Aunt and that’s enough for me. You still have time to make up your mind. Enjoy your life.

[@valeriec181]

@23:25 is so relatable. You're not alone! I'm 37 and I still feel the same way on how you feel about having kids. This current economy makes it difficult to have kids.

[@sas2791]

When Alexus posts a video, you drop everything and watch that video!

[@briannaknox4625]

No fr 😂 watching at work

[@nedjjpetit6524]

RIGHT😂

[@Scandalex]

🫶🏽🥰 that means everythingggg

[@lalamichelle39]

I give Alexus many props for staying relatable and consistent. I appreciate her and her channel content for that. Go girl! ❤

[@zetriajones5420]

The way I burst out laughing when you said the 2nd planet of the apes had the monkeys riding horses and having guns 😂😂

[@LindaPTv]

Lollll I was cracking up😂😂😂

[@user-vg6bf7wq4u]

😭😂😂😂I watched it yesterday and im so dead

[@shandranewell2837]

What's funny is the original from like 45 years ago they were doing all that

[@classybarbie8815]

Im 28 just had my first child. I can promise you that no restaurant or destination has ever brought me as much joy as watching this little girl try to take her first steps. There is no substitute for that love and happiness you'll feel.

[@royallyunique3855]

Having a child is the best experience in life that love you will have for your child is an unexplainable kind of like they legit change your life for the best…❤best feeling in the world

[@ShaeBoykin]

The way you threw the instructions had me crying. Alexus please.🤣🤣

[@melainagaspard8143]

My husband and I have been together since we were 20 and I didn’t have my daughter until 36, I went back and forth with it because I lost my mom at 26 and had to move from New Orleans after Hurricane Katrina a few months later and had to basically rebuild the only life I had ever known. I didn’t want to have a kid after that because I didn’t want my kid to feel the pain of losing me (selfish, I know) and all my friends/cousins had kids early. When I did get pregnant I almost felt the same shame as a teen mom might feel because my family was like why would you wait so late…..however, this was the best decision God made for me (I say God because I was ok with not having a baby by that point, lol). I love being a mom now and I honestly don’t think my husband and I would have made it having her when we were younger (we been through it, lol) enjoy your life and freedom and it’ll happen if and when it’s supposed to❤

[@90sbabyyyyy]

I waited to have my 1st baby at 31, best decision ever. I was used to traveling the world ever other month and getting up to go and still do after the baby, you just have to plan a little more in advance. Didn’t think I wanted the responsibility of a baby but its different when it’s your baby

[@brentandmir]

I just turned 25 for the 7th time 🤣🤣😂 and we’ve been married for 3 years now and still don’t have kids. We’ve been trying but nothing yet but we’re not stressing so take your time boo 😊

[@Hood_chick30]

Lex I’m 31 nd I have a 5 month old nd he has literally changed my life but no matter how much you think you’re ready you’re not bc you learn as you go❤

[@jadaanderson1284]

i totally feel you on the kids convo. i know im supposed to have kids bc it’s the “womanly” thing to do but giving up the life of luxury and freedom i have now just doesn’t seem fun 😅😂

[@justbeingpumpkin.4057]

The fact that you are speaking on the topic about kids is spot on with how I’ve been feeling to a T. I’m 33 & still have yet to have a child/children. I’m like you I’m still a bit selfish, I enjoy being able to do what I wanna do when I want to, I like just havnt been like super convinced 100% I guess it’s something you have to actually WANT with the understanding of things completely changed. I’m always back & forth. I’ve been putting it off for as long as I could if I’m being honest.. the women around me who do have children are usually telling me to wait. But I’m also getting older.. So idk Lex.

[@drrelaxedfocus5714]

33 here too and this morning I was like God I want kids now! tired of living a selfish life.I worked so hard for my career for so many years and last year lost everything and now I'm like money,career material things come and go but a family your OWN children it's forever. I believe that being a mother it;s the greatest gift (my opinion)

[@leabeauty837]

don’t listen to people telling you to wait, wait for what? If you want them, 33 ain’t the ain’t to be waiting.

[@KammiTonyce]

Girl, it cost too much mentally, physically, emotionally and financially to have a kid in this world. Professional aunties unite! ✨✨

[@michellematthews7040]

Yes! Aunties are THEEE BEST! I know. I’m one. 😊

[@jpinx22]

I’m 36 with no kids….for awhile I felt wrong about that part of me. But now, I’m owning it and living MY life. I have a nephew & goddaughter whom I ADORE. That works for me.

[@peptacular7680]

Lex, girl, your feelings about having children are spot on!! I had my 1 and only child at 34, and I felt it was at the right time for me. I had the most fun and did all the things before having her. She is a blessing, but raising a child is hard, and everything does change. Girl, have fun, enjoy your life. If you desire and decide to have children, you will know what is right for you. Don't let anyone make you feel less than a woman for deciding not to have children. No matter what, your life will be full no matter what you decide. I love it when we get a vlog!!! Aye!!!🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@AndreaG214]

Alexus I feel you! I am 30 with no kids and I do want them but at the same time I am definitely enjoying life!💯 and the way you threw those directions in the next scene😂😂😂😂

[@tpjames1312]

Lol Lex the way you are SO unintentionally funny omg. Those Halara pieces were sooo cute!

[@sheisart5857]

I got a filter for my shower and the pressure is the best. Everyone definitely should get filter for the shower and their sinks

[@SharieMonique781]

I had my daughter at 24. A decision I definitely do not regret. It brings another sense of maturity to your life. I was extremely selfish in my early 20s and I used to always say I never wanted children but when I had my daughter the light bulb finally went off in my head. I mean, to each its own, it’s a personal decision but I’m glad I had her. I feel like my best self and I feeling like I’m living to my full potential because she brought sooo many other blessings. BUT I will say I am ONE and DONE. I can only handle one lol

[@ambercrawley1464]

My first child I had at 21 and after having my son, we were like ok no more, we want to have fun and travel a lot as we got older. We had a big surprise when we found out I was pregnant unplanned at 28 and my husband was 30. We were shocked af and were talking about not going through with it because we planned to travel more now that its easier to find a babysitter because my son who 9 now can do everything himself just needs an adult at home but my heart couldnt do it and now my daughter is the biggest blessing. I couldnt imagine life without both of them.

[@dannydangar34]

I had kids young 5 and then I had 2 more kids at 48 and I loved both experiences the exception is now I have a nanny ,before my mom would keep my kids I had a great support system and that's makes a difference. Do what makes you happy.❤❤ Great Vlog.

[@muffymariah2889]

Hey Lex love the content as always, keep flourishing 😍 And I’m 30 and have not wanted kids since my 20s, I remember older women would say I would change my mind. Kids aren’t just for me and that’s okay, my fur baby is well enough. Do what works for you👏🏽🌻 Side note: Have you watched this new show on Hulu called Grand Cayman 👀

[@MissDessieBaby]

33 and NEVER wanted kids. Married and my mind still ain’t changed. My dog is moreee than enough. The freedom. And when someone asks I happily say HELL NAH!

[@A1sha.111]

Girl you crack me tf up not you throwing the directions lmaoo 😂

[@shamimkagere]

Those halara short outfits are too cute!!!!!

[@paulwhite4161]

Its good that you think thoroughly like that because there are ppl out there who shouldn't have kids and mistreat them terribly and it makes me upset!

[@couponwithStar]

You’re doing right to really think about that choice to have kids. I had mine in college before I was old enough to fully process the decision. Had I been old enough, I might not be a mama lol. I will say that after you come into this mama life it’s the most rewarding work you’ll ever do. Your kids love you to life and you’ll love them more than you ever knew you could love.

[@kmyers9642]

I think it's hilarious the water cooler ended up right next to the picture you didn't want in the common area as well 😂

[@goddesslavy4279]

I'm 33 with a 3 month old I was anxious when I got pregnant thinking everything will b so different but if u have the right support system it doesn't change so drastically u just have 2 bring the baby along 4 the ride being pregnant prepares u as well

[@charmainecarbon65]

Hey gorgeous girl you had me in stitches about the apes on horses with guns 😂, honestly no one is ever ready to have a baby unless they really plan to my son wasn't plan but he is one of the best person in my life but don't let nobody force you to have kids if you think you are not mentally, physically and emotionally ready for kids , love your vlog 💞

[@victoriastokes1574]

I had my son at 28, and I don’t think I was really ready then. It was unplanned. But I have always known I have wanted kids. It is a huge responsibility and life really does change because it’s not about you all the time you truly have to consider every decision with the child in mind. I love being a mom and seeing him grow. But I say the biggest thing is having a support system around you. Even being in a committed relationship can be very challenging with no help around. So just keep that in mind! Hope you make the best decision for you and not out of other people’s wants for you! ❤

[@Fefe-jj1mq]

😂😂😂😂 you and the sink have me in tearssss

[@DesireeSacola]

I had my son at 30 I knew I wanted kids but felt I wasn't ready yet. Now it's a lot of work but all those questions and thoughts go out the window the second you find out and get to the ultrasound. A new level of love is unlocked and it's unexplainable

[@chantellp1138]

Ok back to back vlogs ☺️, yessss girls night out🤪💞 you looked cute 🥰, I love my sleep too 🤣 I’ll take a nap at ANY TIME & sleep until I can’t 🤣🤣😭, it seems like Teddy grows daily 🥹😳& I think you should watch your cousin baby one day for a few hours to see what it’ll be like & make a decision based off your experience with the baby & ask her questions about her journey & motherhood 🩷🩷

[@TM-he3yh]

I had my first at 27 & I was 29 by baby 2 but I knew I wanted kids but definitely waited because of all of the responsibilities & constantly making my patients growing. I’m the oldest out of 7, definitely baby sat a few times & just by changing siblings diapers & watching other parents I was in no rush to have them & made it clear to anybody I dated. As women it sucks we have a time line. You do have Teddy & dogs are a great introduction to being some what prepared for kids because they are a lot of responsibility. I personally stuck with cats before children, I loved how independent they are, now wouldn’t mind having dogs.

[@layah828]

My husband and I had our first the same year we got married. I was 27 (he was 32) and now I'm a month from 29 and just had our 2nd literally a week ago (accident but we here now😅). I actually never wanted kids but then something clicked for me. I was so satisfied with being the rich auntie. Before them, we lived a very similar lifestyle to you and Vante, especially when it came to traveling. Now that they're here, of course, there are changes and life isn't as sporadic, but my 2 little broke homies just come with us, we get a baby sitter, or we just miss out. The luxury of waiting is that we both feel we aren't missing out on something bc we've "got it out of out of our system" in my early ,and his entire, 20s. I will say I knew if I didn't do it now I was not doing it in my 30s, but shout out to those that do. Whatever you decide is the best decision 😊

[@Javonda]

Honestly I have 2 kids and I started in my 20s and I wish I would've waited. I wanted to travel so much and I even had to sacrifice certain job opportunities I wanted because of my kids. Girl if you are feeling like you don't want them now don't have them yet. Enjoy your free time and no responsibility for as long as you can.

[@alishaendre616]

Lmao you and that faucet. I wanted to jumpy through the tv and do it. 😂

[@diamondk4648]

The having kids parts that you spoke on was sooooo accurate. Girl I’m the exact same way. I’m 32 and still not even sure if I want to have kids. In between the responsibility and men just being horrible people after the baby I be thinking that I’m good on that. I love just being able to do my own thing.

[@Kiikooks]

Girl this is me “it’s everydayyyy” lmao the clumsiness is for the birds

[@kyladwight]

i have 2 kids and i would say there is nothing wrong with not having kids, even after my second son i was still going back and forth with a "regret" feeling because i had knew this was a irreversible decision i had made and times where i would be unhappy because being a mother is a HUGE responsibility and shift in your life. i love my kids but it is hard and your life will not be the same ever again, i catch myself having so much "old life" grief because i miss life before kids, i gave away my young years to be a mother. wait as long as you can because once they are here they are yours forever. its a beautiful experience though and youll forsure fall inlove but take your time your life right now is beautiful

[@beckkyy718]

sameee girl with the movies i can’t stand it 🤣🤣 my bf be like “it’s just a movie babe” ☠️☠️ love you Alexus 🫶🏾🫶🏾

[@deesmith6510]

Hey, I brought thoses mango bars at Trader Joe’s YUM!

[@kaynichole__]

I'm the exact same way with the kid topic. like whew chile I waited this long, do I really wanna do thatttt

[@tee3165]

I go back and forth with the thought too, but I think about being older, like elderly with none & that's one thing that gets me bc then you can't go backwards.

[@mopp0504]

I'm 41 with a 1 year old, so I was well settled into my comfy adult life before having a baby. You will never be as ready as you want to be to have kids, however funny thing is all the friends I traveled with went out with etc already had kids such showed me it doesn't have to "stop you"

[@BeingGrace]

Right on time! Tuned in! Omg the skin is skinning 😍

[@jpinx22]

The foundation on ur shirt….I hollered! 💀

[@SadittyShonnie]

I had my twins at 27. Um.. I feel like if I wouldn’t have had kids then I would’ve been just fine. Don’t feel pressured to have them. I was by my family. I’ve noticed a lot of women deciding not to and I applaud that. Live your life the way you see fit.

[@monis.4382]

Ayyyye on of my favs slide thru on this Tuesday afternoon! Heey y’all!

[@sherellehawkins7385]

Hey gorgeous! Ok so! You bring up such a great topic about kids and age! I used to always want kids in my early 20s, but then went back and forth for awhile with it as I got older because I started to love my freedom and being able to get up travel, sleep when I wanted and do as I please lol. But when you get older, the thought of a family after you've enjoyed life so much hits you again...I just turned 34, I graduate from RN school in a week and we'll be welcoming our first baby in 4 weeks! I'm excited to enter this new season because it's something I've always wanted. Your thoughts are completely valid and something I battled with at your age as well LOL loooveee your channel, gworl! 💕

[@cozyasrae]

Tossing the instructions is soooo me 🤣. Ain’t nobody got time for that 😆

[@lavishlycee3422]

Lols girllll you ain’t the only one that be tussling with the idea of kids trust me!

[@its.just.risse627]

I had my first and only son at 41! You are right, your life changes completely! And like a previous poster said, you’ll never be really ready for kids! You just have to wake up each day & keep it pushing! However, it is truly a love like no other and even through the craziness & tiresome days, I love him more than life & I wouldn’t trade him for the world! But if you know you don’t want this life, it’s totally fine & don’t let anyone make you think otherwise!! I’ve lived and experienced many things so having my son at 41 turned out pretty good cause mama was OUTSIDE! 😂

[@sheisart5857]

The Halara Haul is definitely cute. I love the colors and everything always look great of you. & yes I’m not a sushi girl but I do eat them every now and then

[@Kirt2707]

I too am the baby never watched kids growing up and always said I never wanted kids. I had TWINS at 31, I still feel unprepared and mentally exhausted ALL THE TIME. Mind you I have great help. The dad is great and we have both our parents help out with the kids. The kids are almost 3now and I still haven’t adjusted. I miss my old calm selfish life. I would say pray very hard about it and weight all your options.

[@dantyiverson]

Alexus first off you’re sooo funny😂 the genuine frustration when you dropped the serum on on your clothes😂 just to drop your foundation too, I feel for you😂 it’s everydayyy. Second you’re the one who got me into saunas now I can’t go to a gym that doesn’t have one, it just doesn’t feel right

[@cmeq9572]

Been married for 3 years,I was told I would change my mind when i got married. I still don't want kids and don't think ill be having them. I love my nieces and nephews lol those are my kids.

[@meicealways5842]

Lexxxx😂😂😂 when u dumped the serum out i rewinded like 3x😂😂 im screaming 😂😂 and you def put me on that butter chicken meal from Trader Joe’s i love it I totally get what u saying about kids in 31 and i go back and forth but in the end i know ill end up with 1 or 2…

[@DoseofDaja123]

With the kids convo I’m there too. I’ve been married for 8 years and after struggling with PCOS and trying this whole time I am happy I don’t have any kids bc of those same reasons but I did want them. Now I’m just like “it is what it is “ and “if it the lord’s will “

[@jpinx22]

The way u felt about the green Halara pants, is how tall girls feel in EVERY pair! 😩😩😩 They were super cute sets tho.

[@shyannleslie__]

I literally just had this conversation. I’m 32 with no children and I’m like noooooo thank you!!! I’ve never even been one to say “I can’t wait to be a mom” … nah bruh. Call me selfish but I love no responsibility in that sense!! And the way this world is … whew !!!! That doesn’t help me feelings towards. Growing up I felt a sense of community.. not that I don’t have family because I do… it’s just… different now

[@rebradley4]

I agree with you. I don't remember seeing any of those movies.

[@briggettmumphrey3226]

Career marriage and then family ❤❤❤

[@SKYSTHELIMIT1023]

Girl I didn’t want kids until I was 35. Had my baby girl at 41. 😅I lived and loved it okay.

[@LaToyaNavarre]

I’m 39 y/o pregnant with my first baby. I’ve only been seriously seeking pregnancy in the last 3 years. Before that I was always unsure about motherhood or just not interested at all. We all become different ppl in different stages in life who desire different things and are willing to make sacrifices at those stages to reach our goals. Whenever you choose motherhood, or if you decide never, I hope you have the happiness that you deserve.

[@InfamousTinyBee]

Ohhh that Valet boy trieddd it!!!

[@resharobinson3203]

Alexus is my favorite KZbinr!!!! I love the commentary sis and the clumsiness is pure laughter & too relatable. Keep the vlogs coming ❤

[@Prettyaura444]

ALEXUS! you were in my dream last night, please drop a video 😂😂😂💕

[@alexushentz7668]

I’m 33 with no kids….but I have 4 sisters that has multiple kids…I see the difference between my life and theirs and I feel the same way ….do I really want kids???

[@taes.8724]

Girl the men love having water coolers and my man name vante too lmao , gotta put it where nobody can see it 😂

[@katrinashaunice2842]

Mann not throwing the instructions paper!!🤣💀

[@Noni_Ade]

I’m 31 currently pregnant & honestly I’m glad I had my 20s to have fun, travel, create life experiences so that now in my 30s I feel more ready to have kids…I think you’ll know when the time is right for you to have kids or not

[@ButtaflyEffect1]

I’ve taken care of kids or somebody literally most of my life. Im 36 and I’ve always said that I rather be able to afford my child comfortably. If I don’t have kids I’m ok. If I really wanna raise kids I’ll be a foster parent to siblings or teens.

[@accordingtobrittt]

I’m so overdue to a trip to the sauna.. just booked a session at SweatHouz!

[@ondrea5451]

Another great vlog girlfrennn 💕 You're doing a good job prioritizing your health & fitness. Keep it up!

[@danealewilliams3505]

Damnnn Alexus😂😂😂 not prehistoric. I have the same water cooler in my kitchen so does my bestie😅

[@Labingoo.lk0524]

Literally always save the dayyyyy so bored & needing something to watch! Who better then to watch but my girl Lex yes ma’am 🫶🏽

[@Msqc2pretty]

I had my son at 31 and my husband and I were huge party goers and travelers. Best thing that could’ve happened for us. We still travel but as a family now

[@briannaknox4625]

Literally me right now 😅 I’m 30 and I’m like the way these bills..billing childddd ion know

[@brialabelle]

in regards to the baby discussion lol sometimes in life we make plans & God laughs. I had my 1st last year 29 going on 30 & when I tell you I was thinking like you. I feel a lot of ppl in my generation (90’s babies) is like 50/50. Some had their children early 20’s / teens & some are 30 & beyond just having or don’t have. Like everyone saying tho you’ll never be ready but if it’s something you want & will accept go for it but don’t rush. I wanted kids I just didn’t expect for my baby girl to come when she did but me & her daddy couldn’t be happier. My life changed but when you have an amazing partner & go half on a baby with the right man you can still have moments to feel like you & do some things you enjoyed doing pre baby including travelling date nights etc.

[@reedyre80]

My exact thoughtsssss at 24:53. People wanna make you feel bad so badly about the kids topic. Girl, me and my man just wanna pick up and GO! Dassit.

[@MyMy.26100]

Not your makeup products being messy twice within a min lmao! Ur face said it all😂

[@rozegolden9052]

When those Parlays hit though!! Bring me the whole lobster🤣 I’ve also always known I wanted to be a mom, but there is no shame in not wanting kids. They are a huge responsibility and a huge life changer! The villages don’t be villaging like it did when we were growing up and that’s a major factor

[@sashajaz7029]

😂😂😂😂 girl you always make my day, you’re so funny and I’m not sure if u even know how much u brighten people day, love you for that ❤️❤️❤️

[@alexiswalker4027]

I waited to have my first child last year at 32. He's everything. I'm an only child so I completely understand being selfish with your time. I lost my mom in February, so my son is a Godsend. He's the only reason why I haven't lost my ish these past couple months. So God's timing is perfect and if it's in the cards for you then it'll happen if not then you'll be an amazing aunt.

[@naykazoo2934]

I’m starting to feel the same about the kids thing 🥹

[@BreakfastAtTiffanysYall]

Giiiirrrrrl you’re right on time! And it’s the consistency for meeeeeee!

[@cicilewis2043]

Hey Pretty Lex..Girl I def feel you on that soreness from the gym..thank goodness we have a compression machine that have different recovery options and it feels soooo good with the roller rubbing across the whole back and arms especially the ball of my feet...yessss..plus we have several massage beds at my gym..I need to try the sauna out now that you mentioned it works..

[@just_sherricka6267]

Hey Lex I had my first son at 29 but before then I was very much living life and traveling! My relationship was in fact as well lol. Kids change the relationship between people sometimes not for the good. I always wanted to be a mom though it just depended on who They would be with! which is most important. I just had my 2nd right before my 36th Birthday and it was planned but it’s really just up to you and your partner. Weigh the pros and the cons and see if you can really see a life much different than the one you currently live. It’s a HUGE reward but also I BIG CHANGE and both parties have to be ready for that change. Good luck on whatever you and Vontae decide to do!

[@diamondleonard]

Love that your consistent with working out hun

[@hannaharc7348]

Alexus I had this conversation with myself today that’s crazy. Yesss I feel that way asking if I still want kids or not. Always wanted them before not sure now

[@imanicarter228]

I'm 28 and all of my cousins around my age have kids. I'm the only one with none 😂😂😂 I'm livinggg. I'm not sure if I want any. I definitely go back and forth with the idea, though

[@sarahgivens7182]

The Plant of Apes in had guns and Army. When it was a TV show. I'm old to remember the TV Show

[@arianapigott6941]

Stop it Alexus water coolers still going they are so ideal, also not the let me tell you something that Indian man killed me I laugh every time I see it 😄😄😄

[@barbararoberts5566]

I had my daughter at 39. I wrestled with the decision towards The end of my twenties and all through my thirties until I became pregnant with her and me and my husband decided to have her. I am not going to lie. I miss the freedom, the ease of my life and the luxuries that I had created for myself. But I also love being her mom and I love the fact that when I made the decision it wasn't because I felt rushed or felt pressure from society that as a woman and because I have a uterus this is what I should be doing. It was a very informed decision and I don't regret because it was my decision. Hope that helps you.

[@udesirekyejc]

I'm 43 and I don't have kids but pretty much all of my friends do. A couple of my friends felt the exact way you did and really didn't have a desire to have kids because they enjoyed their freedom and travels. They ended up just getting pregnant and having kids in their late 30s. So they never really changed their mind or was ready.....until actually getting pregnant. I always and still get the "awwwww you don't wanna have kids?" questions. Especially cuz of my age and being in a long term relationship. But Now I just tell ppl confidently "nah I'm good...WE'RE good." but when I was your age I'd be like "I dunno, maybe" Even tho I knew damn well I didn't want no kids lol I love em but I at the end of the day I enjoy being the fun, cool auntie ❤