VLOG: reacting to your assumptions about us, sxsw concerts, new rug + levain cookies

[@elecops9825]

I assume that Jordy being a musician has made your relationship easier. Since he is already used to having an audience, so he can relate to what you do as a content creator. You both create things to make people smile

[@MichelJanse]

Awe Ele, that is so sweet!! Thank you for your kind words!!🫶🏼🫶🏼🥰🤍

[@anitasweet454]

Very true

[@cnbandy]

I’ve been with my husband for 5 years, married almost a year, and we’ve never yelled at each other. It doesn’t mean we don’t disagree about things - we just communicate in a calmer way. Communication isn’t a one size fits all.

[@carleykatherine]

the rug is so fun! there are no rules to decorating how YOU want to. i can see it clashing with the sailboat like you said but also thrifty is your vibe and it’s fun to have pieces with a story behind them and the rug really brings that out!!

[@Chelbsn]

I love the rug. I think it adds a bit of eclectic whimsy. The colors and the animals make the space feel cozy and fun

[@susanjeffries5108]

The rug is so cool! It's whimsical and funky. The border around it makes it fit more in a grown up space. Very fun vibes.

[@mariannerose9290]

In my opinion, your ability to talk openly with Jordy and talk about things that you don't agree on is personal growth, but also (and very importantly), you are in a healthy relationship now and it is safe for you to be open and honest about your opinions. It is so wonderful to see you happy, and in a relationship that you are free to be yourself and you don't have to sensor yourself. I am so happy for you! Thank you, and Jordy, for allowing us to peek into your relationship!! When you were comparing long distance dating to pizza vs veggies I immediately thought of broccoli LOL

[@melowely]

I think that rug is a fun pop of color & actually works well with the space! I could see putting up a different kind of picture where the sailboat is, but you can always feel it out.

[@janicegordon3705]

I like the rug and the boat, just not together, but if you love it that is all that matters 😊

[@grinsley]

Love the rug and the boat, infusing fun personality in your room!

[@MichelJanse]

🎉🥰

[@andreatherese1099]

I did long distance with my husband for two years- and two wars he was Army - and it has created the most amazing foundation for our future. We've been married 15 years and although we have such a blast, we have been through some really tough times. My mantra through it all was: Absence is to love as wind is to fire: it extinguishes the little flame, it fans the big. Ours ended up being very big.

[@priscilacloud8107]

As far as fights: I don’t think it’s ever normal or healthy to raise your voice or cus at someone during a disagreement, but for some reason people are more prone to call that “normal” and think it’s weird for people to have emotionally mature disagreements or even arguments in a passionate , but respectful manner , instead of a shouting match. We are either so used to distinction, or fear it so intensely we end up emotionally repressing ourselves and others. So happy to see you two have a relationship full of mutual understanding and respect for one another 😊

[@YR-vz9ew]

It is so insane how much you and Jordy understand each other and respect each other! I'm so here for seeing you the happiest you have ever been! I know God sent him to you at just at the perfect time! thank you for yet another great vlog! sending you big hugs my friend🧡

[@kerd1987]

I looked at this rug for my daughter's nursery. When I see it, I can't think of it for a living room. I think kid's room, but that is just personal opinion. I think it detracts a little bit from the furniture you chose for the living room, although I'm all for you infusing more color into your decor

[@lauramarazzi1012]

Absolutely LOVE the rug! I feel like it ties the whole place together!

[@meganvenegas7632]

Hi Michel! I had a loss in the family and am catching up late on this week's videos. I think you and Jordy are the sweetest and I really like the rug!

[@tanzimasimran4539]

I LOVEEE THE RUG! LIL FUNKY AND HAS SO MUCH PERSONALITY ❤❤❤

[@suzannefrancis5185]

Michel I love the rug! I think a fiddle leaf Fig tree would be amazing in that corner between your windows and the cabinet. The light in this apartment with that view is fabulous! Looks like you are enjoying that new space!

[@sharonwebber]

Love the rug! ❤ slightly whimsical - bright, happy and fun

[@pamelabrown4941]

I like the rug but really what matters is do you like the rug. Your opinion is the one that is important. I just found your channel recently. You seem much happier than the first video I watched.

[@crazycatmum6159]

I love the rug. You can be quirky (in the best possible way) an I think this is a lovely representation of that.

[@imvanessa3596]

👍Thumbs up to the rug. Life is too short to be colorless, I love the vibrant colors. 🌻 PS. You two are too cute! Hope to find someone who looks at me like that someday too. ❤

[@saratemp790]

I appreciate that the q and a was deeper than most.

[@inspiringsimple]

I’ve been married for nearly 19 years. We don’t fight. We are too busy laughing 😂

[@MichelJanse]

AWE, this is the sweetest thing I’ve heard all day!! 🥰🥰

[@Swedishviking2]

Aww good on you. Me and my ex husband used to fight all the time, and they would turn ugly really fast. Me and my new partner have been dating for awhile now and still haven’t had a fight, which makes me so happy because with his personality I just don’t think it’s possible to fight with him 🧡

[@lits3212]

Awwww, love this!!

[@artbyduck-darlenegillet1935]

I have been married 23 years this year, and the one thing that I have learned is that all couples argue. If anyone tells you that they don't argue with their spouse, they are lying. You can't help but argue if you both are individuals with their own mind, and thoughts, and opinions. My husband I and I spend a lot of time together, in the home and outside of the home, we like that same things in that way. However, we are both well educated in different areas, his being science, and mine being business. Because of this and the fact that we had very different upbringings, we have formulated our own opinions, likes and dislikes. That is only natural! But because of differences we tend to argue, or even bicker on things, but it does not mean that we love each other less in any way. Most times we are not even angry in any way, shape, or form. You and Jordy have differences, you can not help but have difference. These differences have shape your retrospective opinions, etc. It just means that you are individuals. What makes the difference is that how you handle those differences: ie. not get mad or angry, that is were it counts.

[@lillianhernandez9879]

Max was also helping with the rug😅,he's so cute, love the rug and the picture of the boat every thing looks great,love it

[@elecops9825]

I love that it's a 'reacting to assumptions about us' video, and Jordy's t-shirt says 'I don't want to' in the thumbnail 😂😂

[@MichelJanse]

HAHAHAHAHAHAH WAIT THIS IS TOO FUNNY

[@urresyacreates]

this rug is so ADORABLE and UNIQUE!! i looooove how it brings life and some funkiness into this neutral & not so colourful interior 🐑 please don't listen to anybody who's saying it's too much bc IT'S NOT!! with all the love 🥰

[@Cristinerex5]

I have to say the man I married was the one and only man who I was comfortable with confronting and he me. I wouldn’t have it any other way! He has been gone nearly 6 years now and I feel the loss of him every day! God bless you both.

[@janettaylor5578]

You vlogs with Jordy make me so Happy! I love, Love!!!!

[@Shop-Girl]

I think this has been said, I am thinking the rug belongs in a kids playroom, or a kids room. Ugg I hated saying that, even with you asking us what we thought. You are so intentional with your questions, and I do realize you really want to know what we think. I am a people pleaser…I love the Jordy/Michel assumptions. You two are so cute!! ❤️❤️❤️

[@rodeoandrye]

I think the bold colors and that rug reflect the happiness in your heart in this chapter of your life! Don’t let anyone dissuade you.😊

[@susanvelez6534]

I LOVE THE RUG IT LOOKS AMAZING

[@christinahernandez1637]

I think the rug is so fun!! Edit: Also, I appreciate y’all’s honesty during the Q&A especially Jordys about long distance!

[@MichelJanse]

ME TOO!! Thank you friend!!🥰🥰

[@RebeccaABeaudoin]

LITERAALLY been with my partner for 7 years, getting married in May. People that say if you don’t fight its not healthy have a distorted view of relationships. Communication and discussing doesn’t need to result in fighting

[@jerinanaude7980]

Or maybe just have a different definition of fighting to you.

[@karenpearlman_]

The sail boat with the rug gives subtle Noah's Ark vibes lol but I love that rug in there!!!

[@brendasnow8255]

I like the rug, and think it definitely spices up the space.

[@rachaelgreen6417]

I love the rug, it makes the room pop.

[@margaretblack4290]

Maybe a botanical greenery print instead of the sailboat.

[@cindyclark3318]

I like the rug. Maybe take the macrame from your bedroom wall(behind Jordy's head) and put it where the sailboat is in your living space.

[@rebeccarichmond2582]

There’s no doubt that Jordy wears the pants in this relationship in the BEST WAY possible because he’s protective and loving. Even telling Michel to make the decision is making the decision. 😉 I love seeing her taken care of so beautifully.

[@kenabarthalt]

Love the whimsical style of the rug. Keep it! If you think is too much with the boat frame, place the frame in a different area of the apartment, just give it a try.

[@indiefairy09]

love the rug! i would swap out the pic with a print or painting that pulls some colors from the rug to tie it all together. you had a pink or orange pendant/sign that i loved that was in the movie room that might work

[@sallycroft2191]

Love you new wall hanging. The rug and bench are whimsical. A nice change.

[@daleadoherty7000]

Love the rug!! I think it looks great in your apartment. You should keep it. It's fun to move out of your comfort zone sometimes!!

[@mariannedressler6784]

I love your rug! So fun. I think you and Jordy are a great match. Just enjoy the ride…. You’ll know when the time is right to end the long distance thing.

[@leizygatos7139]

I did long distance with my husband for 7 years 😅 we got married after 10 years dating 🥰 it was hard, but we made time for each other every day (ft/txt) every month (driving 3hrs to visit) and it was all worth it!

[@MichelJanse]

Thank you for the encouragement friend!! Also I love that for y’all 🥰🥰🫶🏼🫶🏼

[@ShellyBomb]

LOVE THE RUG!!!

[@daphnegarzarelli-lawson324]

I have a ruggable for my back door where my puppy comes in and out of! I love it! I hate washing it because I hate moving the furniture but it washes well and is easy to put back. ❤

[@EM-is9ti]

Love that you took a risk with that rug. Really loved seeing the mutual respect and love between you and Jordy as you answered questions together. You guys are calm and relaxed and at ease with each other. A real partnership.

[@kristieluxebeauty4259]

I love all of the animals and colors on the rug it’s really awesome ❤

[@joball-porter9481]

😂 laughter is the key to a happy, long, loving relationship! Rugs cool!

[@Claire-sj9mp]

You are such a beautiful person inside and out,intelligent and talented..you have everything going for you..wish you everything of the best with Jordy..you two make a perfect couple.😊

[@pajamamama5965]

I've been thinking about the rug since I watched your video yesterday. My husband is a professional fine artist and has been placing his pieces in people's homes for over 20 years. You'd be surprised how many people wait a long time to put art on their walls, literally years until they find "the right thing" for the space. My suggestion is to move the sailboat to another room. I'm sure it's a lot of work but you may want to try moving the rug 180°. If you're good at photoshopping you could do it yourself in a photo before you move all the furniture. So if you're standing there looking at the sailboat painting wall, the animals would be upside down. What could happen is that the rug will become more abstract looking. Your brain would be able to tell what each animal is, but when you look at the room it would become more about color and shape on the floor. Then I suggest choosing a color from the rug that makes your heart sing as a theme color. Then decorate the rest of the room with that color and shades of it. I would choose a larger piece of wall art without an image. So something with a different texture perhaps like ceramic, metal, wood straw Etc. Or leave the space open for now until you feel like you found the right thing

[@colleenohira637]

Levain also sells the frozen cookies in a box of 8 at Whole Foods. You bake them and they are delicious!!! Not sure if they have gluten free variety but check it out!

[@UnBoxLifeWithLori]

@MichelJanse You should do a vlog on GOOD things after divorce :) You have a huge presence, following ... Many are going through breakups/divorce. Good things about Divorce might be therapeutic for all. Good thing about Divorce #1. *Happiness is ...

[@emilyspears8911]

I had Levain cookies in NYC a couple days ago!!! The VERY BEST!!!

[@stephaniesciullo4909]

I looooove the whole look! Very eclectic and fun.

[@heather4180]

I like the rug but I’m not going to lie, it looks like something for a little kids room. I’m sure with drapes it will change it up. I can’t wait to see the space evolve.

[@donnarakitzis2719]

The rug is whimsical ❤

[@em478w]

Yes! Love the rug! It brings so much fun, happy and trendy vibes to your home 🤍

[@anitasweet454]

I love the rug too

[@edwardleecaliforniausa]

Hi Michel good morning happy Thursday morning and I hope you having amazing day today and I loved your vlogs and you are amazing Supporter and I'm proud of you

[@patemmack7205]

Love the rug. It’s the perfect splash of color with all the neutrals. I would put the boat picture somewhere else (maybe in your bedroom on a blank wall). I think it’s just a bit heavy leaning on top of the shelves.

[@ggpink9044]

Aww Jordy loves Michel - we can tell ❤

[@lindabruce2815]

The rug will be great in a nursery. But to each his own.

[@helenstratigos4862]

Jordy, Phillip and William are so talented!!! 😍🎶🎵👏🏼

[@melissatolito9418]

❤️❤️❤️❤️the rug life is too short to be serious

[@Margaret.Probst]

I like the rug! It's eclectic

[@sophiamayer3039]

It might sound weird but I truly believe Harry Styles would looove the rug and decoration! Amazing 😍

[@reesac34]

Great Vlog and love seeing Max happy too! Makes me think of my Koko and Roxanne how they love getting them some love❣️🐾

[@Nad_H]

Oh my gosh the rug!! Obsessed 😍

[@elecops9825]

Dang it, now I'm craving a cookie the size of a baseball 😅

[@MichelJanse]

HAHAHA

[@itsalliemac]

I’m obsessed with the rug. Yes ma’am

[@helenepatterson5118]

So excited for this! 😊

[@MichelJanse]

🥰🥰

[@itsmegigi8989]

You know what?! You need that rug, just like you needed Jordy. Enjoy it!

[@cindynelson2588]

I love the rug. It is so fun.😢

[@jeannine8400]

I love seeing Jordy with you in your videos! :)

[@sarameier]

My husband and I rented one of the retro boats when we visited Austin a couple of years ago - so fun!

[@liliesofthefield5310]

I have wouldn't assume that either of you "wears the pants", I would say you are more structured and he is more relaxed, so when it comes to making small decisions, he's okay with whatever, I feel like ya'll have a pretty good balance

[@amandaespurvoa7498]

Fun vlog as always 💕 I have three ruggable rugs for two areas, I switch them out/around every time I wash them. 😊

[@RYN330]

Okay stunning in that black top during Thrive unboxing😍 Also Jordy seems so cool and sweet. And lord knowssss I love a liberal man😍happy for you girlie, you found a good one!

[@yessibee5236]

I think the rug is cute! I feel like if you were to walk into a coffee shop decorated like your room with that rug you would think it looks so cute! But, a neutral rug would be beautiful too, and calming. Did you get the padded rug pad? It’s worth it because it’s thicker and it doesn’t shed little black balls like the thin black rug pad 💛

[@cfield1468]

What is the name of Jordy’s band? Was that their song at the end of the video? You really compliment each other’s personalities.

[@haileynbrooks]

My personal vibe is rather neutral boho BUT I adore that rug! So fun 🥰

[@patriciahallstrom9384]

Love love the rug …it makes me smile!

[@emilycombest7814]

Lovely vlog ❤ Jordy seems very happy.

[@MichelJanse]

🥰🥰

[@kimreese3530]

The rug is fun and funky. Keep it. 😊

[@junehulton9776]

Fab content...love he q&as....and I think the distance makes the heart grow fonder....or so they say....if you both love each other ...it will work...if you want it too.. Hope yo enjoyed you tacos. And the concert....sleep in morning x

[@Mariatyra]

That’s a beautiful rug ❤️

[@Glm867]

LOVE LOVE the Rug ‼️‼️‼️ Maybe keep your eye out for a replacement pic of some palm Trees 🌴 or just Trees 🤷‍♀️ You’ll know if you have/find something that appeals to you! Even a beautiful plant would make it pop! 💋

[@em478w]

Also, very well said on Jordy's part in regards to how he is more liberal than you, "not much more, but more". My husband and I are the exact same way. I would still say I am more in the middle though..but if I had to I'd lean more conservative... I just don't like one extreme or the other. I wish something like that existed economically as well. I feel like in terms of our economy it's one extreme or the other (imo).

[@natallietravers3371]

props to Jordy for being am actively touring musician tho!!

[@rondastothers472]

Are you in a nice way saying Jordy eats a lot of snacks lol 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@paulabahnsen3821]

Love the rug! Love the boar picture! Love it’s not matchy match 🎉

[@angiec4]

I think the rug is very cool!

[@bridgetteeilert1566]

King Arthur gluten free brownies are where 👏🏻 it’s 👏🏻 at 👏🏻

[@ninevahd6646]

i think if you changed the frame of the sail boat to something simpler then it would work better with the rug!

[@aliciavelice3806]

I really like Jordy and you together, you have what appears to be a very comfortable and safe relationship..... And I mean that in all the good ways lol

[@MichelJanse]

Awe, thank you sweet friend 🥰🥰

[@sueeichenlaub8294]

Great vlog! Feels like I am part of your life

[@karengamboa6524]

I love the rug. It's awesome. You and Jordy are so cute.

[@judithcatlett8518]

I love the rug. Wonderful choice.