VLOG: Spend The Weekend With Me As a Lonely Girl

[@serrakmo7959]

I know from myself if you spend your alone time reading/ memorizing Quran and praying more than usual you'll look forward for your alone time. Hope you feel better soon ❤️

[@HawaAbdulKadir-bw4to]

Indeed.

[@jeniferjohnson374]

Yes. Always

[@leastidyworld4365]

That’s such a lovely idea. Or the Bible, could also be great (I am Christian).

[@HawaAbdulKadir-bw4to]

@@leastidyworld4365or you guys can read Quran and revert to Islam your lives will change to the better 💯.

[@dhartipatel5611]

im happy you feel comfortable opening up more. would love to get a Q&a about your personal and career life. Do you see yourself moving out of your parents home anytime soon? Maybe moving to a larger city gives you a chance to grow as a person. There a loads of hobbies you can do that don't really require to always go out: book club, creative things like painting/knitting etc., take a online class to learn a new skill or language, I know you are really into fitness I could see you training for a 5k or half marathon.

[@MaritaCovarrubias01]

Without really spilling the tea, I would love to hear about how you’re approaching love and finding a partner moving forward, dating in your lonely girl era, cultural pressures on that front, etc.

[@dhartipatel5611]

Also what lessons she has learned over the past year regarding her seperation

[@HawaAbdulKadir-bw4to]

Loren this vlog is much appreciated I loved to see you pray and your prayer outfit looks amazing. I also loved how authentic you were in this vlog and there are a lot of people out there feeling lonely including me. Life is not easy but if we strive to live on the right path we have so much to win. Love you sister 💕.

[@fsh1213]

Hi Loren! This is totally unsolicited but I just wanted to share some advice from a fellow Muslim divorceé. When I got divorced, I moved somewhere new, I got my own place, and I tried to be as independent as possible. What happened next was the start of the most beautiful phase of my life Alhamdulillah. It was lonely at times - but a few things that happened to me: I learned to love ME and pour into ME. Suddenly, there wasn’t anyone else to take care of me (not my parents, not my partner), and I learned so much about myself as I learned to love me - my boundaries, and what I was and wasn’t going to accept in my life. When I met my new husband, he always said that he was inspired by the way I honored and treated myself, and knew that if he wanted me, he had to treat me even better than I already treated myself. I also learned to have high standards - if someone wasn’t going to love and honor me the way I loved and treated myself and them…I was so much more confident to walk away because I knew what it felt like to truly be independent and I wasn’t scared of being alone anymore. Lastly, I was in the best shape of my life because all I had to do was go to work and then focus on me :) . Moving out and living alone was truly one of the best periods of my life, and when I look back at it with my girlfriends (Muslim or otherwise) we all agree that a woman should live independently at least once in her life. So many of my girlfriends who got married young, had babies young - look back at the time I got with myself when I was young and wish they had had the same experience. Maybe pick a spot with other single girlies! Maybe Austin to be near Amanda and her SILs? They seem to have a ton of fun and not everyone has kids yet. I also think as you grow and get older, so are your followers. I’m sure living on your own and cultivating your own space, and the day by day of adulting on your own (not that you don’t adult now - it’s just different living with your parents!) would probably resonate with your followers now too as they navigate their different stages of life. Give it a try 🩷 sending lots of love and a big hug! You got this and you deserve the world.

[@leastidyworld4365]

I’ve never lived alone and I am not independent as a result. Tbh independence kinda scares me. I get scared that I can’t take care of myself. Wow, I feel like I am in therapy. 😆

[@fsh1213]

@@leastidyworld4365anyone can do it, as long as you have a steady job! I lived paycheck to paycheck for my first year and spent very carefully, but as a result I had a lot of time curating every single piece in my apartment at the time. It passed the time, gave me something to focus on and brought me joy! It’s great things like investing in yourself and your space that helped me battle the loneliness when it came!

[@twotwo-00]

This is really kind of you to share your experience and some solid advice!

[@wasimashaghasi6802]

Omg, Fatima! You are such a sweetheart! Thanks for sharing :)

[@jaydeng8544]

I’m leaving my relationship that I’ve been in for 7 years at 27 and just put in an application for an apartment. This isn’t the end for me it’s just the beginning! Thank you for this reminder in such a trying time.

[@wahidarahman1858]

Sometimes, loneliness is a blessing in disguise. Give yourself time to bloom to the fullest, Insha'Allah Allah will help you with everything and make things easier for you. We love you no matter what. Hope you are happy and healthy Loren ❤ . This duniya is a prison for the believers indeed. So it is what it is!

[@annemelendez1458]

Give yourself some grace and treasure the time you have to yourself. You are amazing!

[@imanebahnane6568]

I get what you were saying in the beginning. Just because sometimes we feel lonely that doesn't mean we don't enjoy our alone time ❤

[@hiba7170]

You're a resilient person and this chapter of your life will be the most meaningful. There's a poem called love after love that talks about at some point we meet ourselves again to learn to love the person that's been there always (yourself) 💛

[@channel-p5j]

Just read this poem, it’s beautiful. ❤

[@fahmidamiah]

During hard times, I think of the quote from Rumi: The wound is where the light enters you. Take care of yourself.

[@foxyroxy2712]

its refreshing seeing your glowy self-love aura again 🤎 love your Loren from the 🇬🇧 xx

[@desssie8658]

I've been here since day one, and I just want you to know how proud I am of you and how far you've come! I just turned 26, and I can totally relate to everything you said about your friends reaching milestones like marriage and kids. But you're so right we should cherish this time for ourselves and focus on working on us! Thank you so much for coming back to KZbin we missed you so much, girly🥹❤️

[@zainasabbah1794]

Your videos are so comforting to watch! It's honestly so nice seeing a relatable video. Sending so much love 💗💗💗

[@aye.sha88]

Embrace the loneliness. Use the time to get to know yourself better and work on your shortcomings! I'm going the through the same thing but Alhamdulilaa, I don't try to get too much into my head about it. I always remind myself that Allah is giving me this time to work on my relationship with Him and to be close to Him where otherwise, I would've had distractions.

[@leastidyworld4365]

Don’t be sad, you’ve got us viewers. No pressure to be happy, though, gotta be honest about your feelings, and I can understand that it’s sad, but we are here for you. xxx

[@AliciaGomez-pp8re]

Hello from Dallas, TX. Love ur content. Embrace ur singleness and enjoy ur parents it's a true blessing having them both. Charity work and getting involved in ur community might help u get distracted ❤

[@Maria78614]

This is so eye-opening because I’ve always envied your relationship with your sisters and that’s made me feel lonely as an only child! I totally relate ❤

[@AndreaAlorah]

You won’t be lonely long that’s for sure. You are beautiful

[@candycupcake6795]

i commented last video about how it would be nice to show some vulnerability, and i wanted to thank you for listening to your supporters! I appreciated how you opened up about the hard transition and didn't fake a bubbly happy personality. I hope we see more of this and you can answer our questions, as followers we sometimes feel pushed away from your regular beauty content. As a Muslim girl, i know the societal pressure to be married by a certain age and the views on getting divorced, and it takes so much more strength to leave a situation that doesn't serve you. I would love to see you dive into these topics and give your perspective when you're ready, it would help a lot of people struggling through the same thing and puts into perspective that you're truly just like us, which i missed seeing from you 💗

[@aqualife88]

Aw. I'm really sorry about everything that happened and sorry about all the rude and nosy people on the internet. Your videos are wholesome and motivating! Inshallah everything gets better ❤

[@Citroentje141]

I love that you refresh and get so sweetly made up to stand in front of Allah ❤ Allahumma barek may Allah accept your prayers xxx

[@sarahbirraux9673]

Sending you lots of love❤ you don’t have to talk about anything until you feel ready and maybe you will never want to share anything online and that is fine too. We are here for you and I hope you will find a closure and heal very soon. The Sun will always rise ❤

[@chhf08765]

Loved this vlog so much. Loren you’re doing incredible- filter out all the negativity and focus on moving forward. Build a relationship with Allah and you’ll never look back again.. Love you so much! You got this girl!!! Allah will give you everything you hope for and more❤️‍🩹I always make duaa for you and one day we’ll see you shining 🫶🏻🌷

[@fashionistajana]

Loren, you are perfect as you are, don't let anyone tell you any different! You inspire me and I hope that you continue being your awesome self without societal or social media pressure to be anything else than you are!

[@amyah3284]

Lonely girl here ;) working and living alone in London. On the weekends where I cant see friends I focus on self care and hobbies to get through. Watching your vlogs helps too 💕💕

[@zainabhafiji7736]

I live in London too ☺️ hope you love it here! Can be a lonely city

[@Faizasmith-pj4dz]

I'm also in London

[@Faz.Elaine]

We are going through the same thing im just 10 years older. Hang in there Loren, woman go through so much we don't even discuss half of it but I think I understand you as I'm going through same. Hang In there and take it 1 day at a time.

[@Faizasmith-pj4dz]

I'm 37 and in same position

[@Meracognitive]

We are here for you! Life is very seasonal and we all go through so many different times. Keep taking good care of yourself.

[@Daintyukhti]

Mashallah, love how self aware you are Loren. Prioritizing Deen and being true to yourself 💕 Allahumma barik, may Allah bless you all the goodness this world has to offer and bring you closer to Him ❤️ Ameen

[@gspice71]

What a lovely vlog. I think this is my favorite of all your vlogs. You were so sincere. Thank you 🌹. Also, remember that Allah (swt) is always with you. 🤲🏻

[@ItsRMalik]

You're not lonely, it's okay to be alone ❤ Love you Loren

[@imanesbestlife]

Best love I've watched in a while. So relaxing and calm Mashallah! ❤

[@hanoalshammari8893]

It is ok to feel lonely sometimes it allows you to reconnect with yourself, have a clear mental picture of what you really want 🥰😍

[@IsomeV]

Love you Loren! Keep doing you & the rest will fall into place at the right time

[@NaziaAltaf-q2v]

I am the first to comment. love your videos and ur soooo clean, aesthtic and pretty and just soooo nice love the vlogs keep it up. cant wait for ramadan vlogs love u

[@KhunsaAltaf]

You are a forever motivation and inspiration.. Wish had friend like you.. 🤌🏻

[@vidamia888]

Loren, idk if you’ll read this, but I know how challenging it is to be back, living, with your parents. But, remember that you will only be this “commitment-free” for a short period. Your parents will only be this age, for this period of time. Learn to embrace this period, spend time and bond even more with your parents, family and friends. Find and create a more quality relationship with them. May Allah guide you, and continue to strengthen you. 🩷

[@nazziahussain760]

Beautiful and perfect words to start off with no ones business but yours ❤

[@smilingsue4444]

Love the clean polish free nails and how you prioritize your prayers mashaa’Allah ❤

[@frenchgirl75000]

Same

[@Brown_Barbie24]

Yayyyy I'm glad you're being more open & vulnerable Loren.

[@mariajainem4157]

I’m a silent watcher and have been for YEARS! But I wanted to comment as someone who’s been through what you’ve been through! When my last relationship ended I never felt more alone AND broken. The only thing that helped me get through it was getting closer to the religion and our faith and I kept myself busy! Whether that was making random hair bookings on a weekend, facial appointments, wake up early grab a coffee and go for a walk. I also worked 2 jobs purposely to keep myself from feeling lonely. And definitely focusing on no one other than yourself! May Allah grant you ease 🤍

[@Eman-gr9wv]

you deserve true love!💜

[@Eman_jordan]

Lonely.!! With a family like yours .!?.. you are blessed ❤

[@SM-hs8gk]

It’s okay to feel lonely. Sometimes, it is what we need in order to have clarity and be able to move forward in life. Just continue focusing on yourself and your goals. You’re doing great 💖

[@ImadahFataar]

Thank you Loren, your vlog was so cozy

[@AveryBlair115]

Loren dear if u look after your hereafter Allah will look after your life here, just please Allah and Allah will make the people pleased with u and Allah will be pleased with u❤❤❤❤❤

[@sal-lu_22]

Yay I’m so glad your back to regular posting 🫶🏻🫶🏻🌷 please never stop we love your vlogs they are so comforting ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@moments722]

youre the bestest girlieeee, so happy to see you again!

[@frenchgirl75000]

Tu n'es pas seule, tu as ta communauté derrière toi ❤

[@Autumn74]

C’est vrai 😊

[@Dr.HealthyLiving]

This was very refreshing, honest, and simple what in my life video

[@Dij21]

Missed your vlogs, glad you're doing better and able to share more. iA you'll continue to find your footing, Ramadan is almost here which should help too! Read somewhere it's a good idea to start setting habits now for it

[@jeniferjohnson374]

Aww don't worry about anything. Your future is going to be brighter and more fabulous than ever! And you know it. If you have a wedding it'll be bigger and more amazing than ever. You'll shine like never before. Take heart💖😍🌟✨

[@deenarvirani5744]

Sending you lots of love Loren, been watching your videos for many years and I have noticed a positive change in you the last few vlogs mashaAllah! ♥️

[@Maryamtayyab-y7e]

I feel very relax and happy😊 while watching your vlogs ❤

[@Lizzxx-ki8kz]

Target on a Monday or Tuesday morning is my go to 😆

[@dannyboy354]

Salaam thankyou dear Loren may Allah always protect you ameen 🤗

[@lulublue5680]

This is probably the first time I ever commented loren if you read this. Sometimes our life looks like a dark place, everything starts to go wrong, and we think it's for the worst, but only God knows what he has planned for us so stay strong and get close to God and look at everything that is happening and see the positive in everything . Being alone can sometimes mean God is reminding you of something or to get closer . Take care of your health, go out more to nature Inshalla everything will work out for u such a beautiful soul ❤

[@zeinebmouhamed468]

We enjoyed the vlog as usual thank you so much Loren ❤️

[@channel-p5j]

You look beautiful Loren (mashaAllah) look after yourself, persevere and continue to be a gentle soul. 💕💜

[@claremurphy5089]

Love you Loren,your the best❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤from IRELAND 🇮🇪

[@HiraFarooq-v5j]

Salaam Loren! You are so strong and i hope you know that. I went through a divorce and time is what healed it along with Allah + Family/Friends. I enjoyed my time alone and really embraced it. InshaAllah this chapter will be nothing but love and growth

[@HibaKauser]

I love this, thank you for being so open❤

[@ShaniSamsodie]

Hi Loren , Thanks for sharing your most inner thoughts and feelings. Wishing u all the strength during this time of healing IA May Allah make it easy for you InshaAllah … u still looking so radiant & gorgeous MashaAllah

[@CharityRaelin13]

Sending you so much love! I know things are different and that it can be hard to open up, but there are so many girls out here who know how you feel. your real supporters are here for you ❤ sidenote: I LOVE the TheraBreath mouthwash + tongue scraping combo. I use the pink one!

[@seshaXX]

"For indeed, with hardship comes ease. Indeed, with hardship comes ease." (94:5-6)

[@martagarcia6428]

Sending prayers your way!!!

[@EmaaaNiii]

Lovvvve u 😍 Waiting impatiently for ur videos 🤍🤍

[@jamiefooddreamer6381]

Its hard finding friends when you get older. But you can actively try to meet people by doing the things you love. You can go to classes in learning or arts alond. You can go to a screening of a movie alone and meet people that havr the same intrest. Go to the mosque alone or go to the library. You will be suprised sis.

[@claremurphy5089]

Loren you look very confident😊❤I love that,your lip liner is a beautiful colour🌸🌸🌸🌸

[@offmymindforagoodreason17]

Salam Loren. With you in your journey right from the start. I have watched you handle life gracefully everytime it threw bad things at you. A lot of us ladies don't have that kind of strength.May ALLAH keep blessing you with more of such strength and peace. Aameen. I do not use instagram so I enjoy your videos here. You are very inspiring❤

[@sal-lu_22]

We appreciate you opening up 💕 love you girl 🫶🏻

[@SilverStarlight-b8y]

Again thanks for a lovely soothing vlog

[@aalam418]

Hi loren, loved your vlog. Just wondering would you consider going back to nursing?

[@marianamota_]

Naked manicures are the ultimate “old money” aesthetic, trust me ☺️

[@assiav.2168]

I loved the vlog ! Xxx

[@ralineswift909]

Can't wait for the next vlog!

[@NaziaAltaf-q2v]

Loreeeeeeen!!!!!!!!! I'd love it if you reply to my comment. I love your vlogs. it movtivates me to be more productive and be organised - this makes me so relaxed. Your vlogs are honestly so comforting. 💗💗 Love you lots xx 💞

[@2ba.cck07]

Hey, you are not alone..❤

[@nabs_809]

Salaam i luvvvv ur vidsssss chat wait for ur Ramadan episodes

[@Yes_1998]

hey loren thank you for the vlogs love you from algeria

[@frenchgirl75000]

1,2,3 viva l'Algérie 🇩🇿

[@sahromohamed-wk2tz]

😊it's ok loren sometimes women go through that

[@truthandjustice7042]

Would you consider doing part time nursing ( i know you are a full time content creator but maybe part time nursing will have a lot of benefits in terms of expanding your work experience)

[@kennedyking3186]

Be encouraged the Lord is with you everywhere you go ❤ if you ever feel alone call upon Him he will be with you always.

[@zymbc]

Mash Allah. I am Waiting impatiently for ur videos 🤍 May Allah bless you in all areas of your life.

[@KathyCrenshaw]

I feel for you Loren and I hope your lonely feeling passes. I recently read some really mean comments about you and your sisters and it made me realize how vulnerable people online can be. I am one of your non-Muslim followers….I don’t think I have ever even known a Muslim person. So I was surprised to see the venom in the comments, and I realized women of all religions can be SO CATTY. I thought Christian women were bad but now I clearly see we do not have the monopoly on mean and judgmental. I really hope you are able to dismiss those comments and know they are not TRUTH or REALITY, simply a stranger’s perception of someone they do not know.

[@H_1Q_4]

YAYY OMG 1 MINUTEE!!!❤❤

[@DawnGray-g6q]

I'm not sure if you ever addressed this, but why did you not pursue your nursing career? It was such an accomplishment.

[@bubblegum4803]

Girl, much better and healthier to be by yourself than be in a bad marriage.

[@jeniferjohnson374]

Almost all of my pedicures/manicures don't include nail polish. And I honestly I'm not too sorry about TikTok. I'm sure it will come back. It's actually a Wall Street conspiracy. Look it up girl. Best wishes for happiness for you Loren💖.

[@iEnglishPro-s2h]

I’m currently watching your videos one after the other to improve my accent ❤❤😊

[@clairedolan9596]

Even tho TikTok is back I hope you still stay consistent on yt! I’m refusing to use it now that I know it will be so clearly censored and hoping for any asad sis content I can get elsewhere

[@katherineh.6852]

Want to start working as a nurse? Pour into others? I'm sorry you've gone through so much. I can totally see you doing cosmo procedures as a nurse.

[@leastidyworld4365]

Why did she move back in with her parents, can anyone please explain?

[@leastidyworld4365]

I read in the comments that you divorced. Sorry to hear that and hope it’s for the best and hope you are coming to terms with it. Much love.

[@sal-lu_22]

Love your Loren 💓 focus on yourself and always remember that you have many supporters behind the screens ( I’m one of them 🩵) . You are strong and always trust in allahs timing

[@MrsAZ0000]

No hate but you seem very stuck up. You seem like you look down on 80% of people. I'm not sure if it's the way you speak or the way you roll your eyes especially when you talking about detergent. Majority of your viewers don't have privileges like you do so maybe normal detergents are affordable. Just food for thought. By all means show your shopping and your lifestyle but plz refrain from words like "you guys shouldnt be buying" im sure if we all had the option we'd want to make better choices and more expensive choices but we dont all have the bank balances to buy all natural detergents oe expensive handwashes or natural free sanitary equipment. I get this vibe mostly from you and leena. Not from amanda. She seems much more humble

[@MaritaCovarrubias01]

Mouthwash kills off a lot of good oral bacteria that helps with food breakdown and nutrient absorption.

[@deboracosman8848]

Sorry, can I ask you which bag you have ?

[@faith_friend]

Hi Loren i am also going to a divorce may God help u xx beautiful girl you got this.

[@Chique867]

Is Loren going thru a divorce then? Has she split up from her hubby?😢😢😢

[@faith_friend]

@ yes!

[@chelseagow993]

@5:45 wait I don't get this. can someone explain.

[@amenawadee461]

love your videos

[@garammasala9507]

12:44 MASHA ALLAH