Why losing a dog feels like losing a family member

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Read Alvin's article here: www.vox.com/2016/7/11/12109786...
When Alvin lost his dog Rainbow, he felt as though a human has died.
Humans have a special - and somewhat an odd - relationship with dogs. 60% of Americans own a pet, and the most popular of them are dogs. Our relationship with them actually goes back pretty far. Some scholars believe that wolves and humans hunted and lived among each other - and the reason humans came out on top was because we partnered with wolves. Then, as we evolved so did our furry friends. Now, we treat these animals like family. We give them names, keep them safe, and share our lives with them. So when it's time for them to go, it feels a lot like we're losing a part of the family.
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[@mohashetty6557]

For me it’s not “like” loosing a family member, it “is” loosing a family member. May it be a dog, cat or even a parrot - they are my family. I love them. They are my family

[@TheLuckyRima]

Moha Shetty losing, not loosing.

[@kirin1230]

Agreed. When I saw the title, my immediate thought was: It's because they ARE family!

[@phobod1]

@@TheLuckyRima come on give him a break, he loosed his pet

[@tabithasnowsill3521]

EMS 76 r/whoosh

[@kristoffersparegodt420]

Cookie. M2

[@angelgray701]

The way they look at you. When you come home they look at you like you're Messiah who has returned. They love you no matter what you are, who you are, what you look like... How can you *not* love them?

[@Taninversed]

Angel Gray who’s messiah

[@RandomAsian9120]

Spicy Man Jim danish

[@Taninversed]

Mtyaj Yang5 uh wut?

[@RandomAsian9120]

Spicy Man Jim Danish was the first to quote that human love dogs

[@P1_D]

They’re haram >:,(

[@effinjamieTT]

“A dog is the only thing on earth that loves you more than he loves himself” Josh Billings

[@ShadowEno]

That is so true.

[@georgeharleydavidsonrider156]

I agree 👍

[@pettarinmariano5873]

Fathers should love their children more than themselves

[@penapvp2230]

Pettarin Mariano why only fathers?

[@havu-xq4ip]

And your mom.

[@yakwtfgo9992]

*who were the 13% that don’t consider their dogs as part of their family, I just want to talk*

[@giselletorres9115]

Yeah pay no mind to my hand holding a sharp object...

[@dontmindme7366]

Probably the type of buttholes who leave dogs outside all year :/

[@katyameowmeow]

probably people who use dogs for jobs

[@bigbiggie3642]

People eat dog in china

[@19thcenturygentleman33]

Loads 12 gauge

[@tinyguy9398]

This is the most civilized I've ever seen a comments section. It just goes to show you, when it comes to pets we can all agree, they love us and we love them.

[@SuperShafa123]

Tiny Guy yes.

[@PurpleNoodles]

Tiny Guy it's because humans are evil

[@depressedhamburger4880]

Yeah it is *sips tea*

[@shineinstars]

yes!

[@lixyuwu2183]

spim randsley yikes

[@fraudulentfem7322]

A sentient, living creature which you've lived with for years is definitely a family member

[@LisaGallegos]

Connor Hoagland 100%

[@whalienabi]

No doubt

[@boonaumenigma2297]

Ok what about my demon under my bed?

[@OreoMiloOvaltineFrisianFlag]

@@boonaumenigma2297 also a family member

[@SamuelKissinger]

@@boonaumenigma2297 so long as you are friends so I guess....

[@kcmn0089]

Science needs to figure out how to improve the lifespan for dogs.

[@linkinlog8543]

kcmn00 This!! I wish my dog had more time to live and I swear I would give anything to bring him back.

[@Mimi2Y2BYAZPHIL]

And cats!!!😻

[@honeybearuwu6487]

*all pets.

[@Anna133199]

And bunnies!

[@emeraldcollier178]

Seriously

[@carlingnugent]

This made me cry and my dog came over to see if I was ok 😭😭😭😭😭

[@Narenbp]

That's dog. Even humans don't do it often.

[@redcowcat8705]

Can your dog visit me too?

[@ryemoboy7234]

I feel you :(

[@jujas7433]

That's so sweet ❤

[@MattandSmuggsMcGuireK9]

Your lucky spent as much time as you can all of sudden there gone.

[@Kawin2r]

My dog, Rocky, passed away last night. Thank you so much for this.

[@PhoenixRising87]

:hugs:

[@mermaidkissies]

Kawin2r im sorry. I

[@elijahrivers3917]

Kawin2r bs?

[@Kawin2r]

elijah rivers no, but part of me wishes it was. He was 16 years old. Yellow Labrador retriever. He lived a long life and I'm thankful for that.

[@Kawin2r]

Thank you for all the well wishes. They are truly appreciated.

[@snazzyhusky8963]

As a dog owner, I really don't wanna know that feeling of my dog finally passing away. I know it's going to happen someday, but still. :(

[@dennisjansen724]

SnazzyHusky same

[@may.flower9]

SnazzyHusky cherish every single moment you get to have with them :)

[@WetPig]

You really cant understand what it feels like unless it happends, just be happy with every moment you have with your dog. its really depressing getting home after school or just sitting in front of my PC and feeling that i need to do something, and then i realise i want to pet my dog, but I cant :'(

[@jordan_0914]

I had to give away my dog and that was bad , but at least I know she's alive , but when your pet dies it must be 100 times worst .

[@JL-eo1bv]

SnazzyHusky take my word. Nothing can prepare you. Nothing

[@jamessteven9709]

My dog just died and I realized that she was the only true friend I ever had. I guess this pain will never go away.....

[@ph7715]

SHANE STEVEN it will subside a little bit but it will never go away. Not only was that the best friend you ever had but you are his best friend. It's a lonely world out there after a pet dies

[@kiraevans8832]

No it sure won't. I lost two dogs, a little over 6 years ago, and than I just recently lost my last dog almost 4 months ago. The pain does get a little bit easier to live with, but it never fully goes away. I still hurt for my two dogs that I lost that many years ago, and well Maggie's death is still very fresh, so I am still hurting over her as well, but I know that pain will never ever fully go away either. So sorry for your loss.

[@meetaverma8372]

Mine just died yesterday

[@kiraevans8832]

@@meetaverma8372 So very sorry for your loss! I feel your pain. It isn't an easy thing to go through. Hugs!

[@vitalykharitonov4638]

We had to put our dog to sleep today, it was the most tragic and saddest thing to see, our hearts are broken 😭😭😭

[@tommo1stoessel]

My dog was really sick a couple of days ago, she required 24 hour care and I had midterms, I told my professor what was going on and he wouldn’t let me postpone my exam, I even talked to the university’s committee and they said that if I wanted to graduate I had to attend. I was really mad because they let a classmate miss the exam because of his sister’s wedding. There should be more conscience about dogs being part of our family and our responsibility towards them, I’ve had mine since I was 10, we’ve grown together, losing her would be like losing a sister.

[@Sajirah]

Wait, they postponed it for them because of his sister's wedding? A wedding??? The only time I've ever been allowed to postpone/skip anything at work or school was because I was either hospitalized or a family member had died.

[@shoulders-of-giants]

What you experienced was first-hand specism.

[@skoldragonballz1018]

It's so dawm true

[@Sick_Boy_Rick74]

I lost my job because I wouldn’t go in later in the day after my dog died. There’s a lot of people that just don’t care. It’s really sad because I think it’s because they’ve never felt the true and unconditional love a dog gives. So sad.

[@havanaday9981]

I lost my dog a couple days ago....never been this distraught.

[@gabyzc8745]

"Do want to know what the *hardest* thing about owning the dog is?" The goodbye.

[@Mike-ne9cw]

Gaby ZC agreed i dont want that to come my schnauzer is 6 years and a life span of a Miniature schnauzer is 12-15😭

[@hoshimaruhajime7933]

@@Mike-ne9cw is he alright

[@ashlynnjordan9779]

Flying Palpitine just died **

[@user-oc2ub1cy8v]

My best friend isn’t with me anymore. He’s living with my aunt who has the freaking virus it’s all my dad fault. I literally wish I could’ve say this again **Hey Best friend wanna go outside?** **Hey best friend want a treat** 🥺💔

[@kimberlys8422]

I never got to... and it hurts. The only thing I could do was help bury him. I toss Kraft Singles on his grave because that was his favorite snack.

[@St.antoni]

Anyone that's ever had a dog and lost them can't help but cry

[@fyukfy2366]

Antonio Cortez I haven't even lost my dog yet and I still can't help but cry

[@liliannnguyen]

Antonio Cortez I just lost my dog today

[@angelgray701]

I remember crying on the buss and that I didn't care that people were staring

[@wagwan584]

Liliann Tube Hope your okay 👍

[@liliannnguyen]

Wag Wan thanks I am okay but I am very sad

[@ohanafamily1601]

Awee I'm literally crying right now. We have a senior dog and I'm dreading the moment that she'll say goodbye.

[@skoldragonballz1018]

Spread all the flipping time with them 24 hours you don't know when the baby will pass on . P.s I was crying while I was writing this since I just lost my dog yesterday morning

[@AT-er9iy]

Today is the first day without my baby and I miss her so much already 😓😓😓

[@yomama9067]

I lost my 16 year old bichon who I’ve had since she was 8 weeks old Friday evening.. I’ve honestly Never felt pain like This in my life she was my everything, truly truly painful.. please appreciate every single moment with ur dogs because once they’re gone a massive piece of you goes with them and all you have is photos videos and memories 😔💔 hoping I get some comfort tomorrow when we pick up her ashes 😢

[@idk-ch7hj]

Yo Mama my 14 year old passed yesterday :( it just doesn’t feel real they’re such a big part of your life so I understand how you’re feeling; how is the world meant to go on without you’re best friend, the true love of your life, your world.

[@yomama9067]

Regina George stay strong 😔 the pains unbearable doesn’t even feel real like it’s All just a big horrible dream.. surely the pain will get easier to handle because if not oh my god I don’t know what I’ll do 💔 you’re in my thoughts lovely we’ve got to stay strong for them and do them proud

[@Oddlyn]

My little dog passed away 2 weeks ago. It’s still hard I cry at night for her. My brain plays tricks that I still hear her scratching at my door. It is cruel. I will never change my profile picture. Had her with me for almost 15 years just happened really fast and my emotions can’t keep up. I wish everyone well who is or had gone through the same thing.

[@nienna9844]

You are beautiful. Go through life knowing this, please.

[@ph7715]

DeadDuckSleeping I know it's hard I just lost mine thank you for sharing your story though

[@vikingninja5033]

Im going trough it now.. thank you for wishing well🙏 I wonder how you are doing now?

[@Oddlyn]

@@vikingninja5033 Since this passing of my dear friend life has had its ups and downs. Graduated from school and joined the navy moved on with life and trying to figure out what I want to do with it. I actually wear a necklace with my dogs face on it to this day. A reminder that I have a friend waiting for me after so I might as well enjoy the time I have here. Much like she did. I know it’s hard now to go through the moments of realizing they are gone but in time it gets better. You will think of them in moments when you need them thus they will stay with you forever. I’m sorry for your lost they loved you with all their heart and so on.

[@carrotpie4544]

thank you

[@Rotem_S]

Goddamnit I knew i was going to cry and I did

[@justinsmith4116]

Same

[@muddywisconsin]

Same

[@coopFortress]

Same

[@neuron1618]

I didn't know.

[@galaxymew5138]

Same...

[@warlitros]

It's just because dogs ARE family members

[@bababooey719]

Carlos and other pets

[@missaverywade]

I’d had my golden retriever since I was 5 years old. He was my childhood and he was representative of that time in my life. When he died of brain cancer it almost felt like it marked the end of my childhood and my innocence. He reminds me of a happier time. After that, my life has fallen apart in more ways than one and I feel I’ve been thrust into the real world. I miss him and what my life was. I’ll forever love you, Brady. I’m thinking of you fondly, old friend ❤️

[@s0cials]

〰Avery〰 I had a English cream golden retriever but didn’t get to spend much time with him, he was also almost 2 years old. He died from a disease called dic, on October 3rd, 2019. But my baby’s 2 years old in heaven

[@tamingadversity1868]

may he rest in peace

[@MsInvestigate]

i miss coming home to tippy taps and kisses. 💔

[@CBRN-115]

Me too. I need those nowadays more them ever

[@tychocurious]

my eyes are tearing up just thinking about my dog dying :(

[@aidanjudge5209]

슈 same bro

[@KichaMorningDew]

madison same here! Can’t fathom the thought of it!

[@LisaGallegos]

madison me too

[@lilianabudevici3271]

Mine died I am broken

[@KyleLi]

Sorry to hear about rainbow :(

[@jas9533]

i sobbed while watching this - my dog is 15 years old, and we know it's her time soon. i don't want to lose her, i'm not ready for her to go, and this made me remember just how hard it will be to do so

[@yomama9067]

Appreciate every single second with her get lots of photos and videos I lost my lilly who’s 16 on Friday evening and the pain is unbearable 😔 I miss her so much already ❤️ she’ll let you know when it’s time just like my lil did ❤️❤️

[@ionutzz6731]

Spend more time with her. My cat died and i regret so much that i didnt spent more time with her..

[@caitlin6854]

My dog is 15 and almost 16. He has heart disease and its clear his time is coming soon...I'm so anxious and sad because he's been in my life ever since I was a new born

[@Technotroni]

is she still alive? mine got to 14yrs this summer

[@elizabeth5193]

It's not uncommon for people to feel more grief and loss when they lose their pet than when they lost a family member. That attachment to our pets can be the strongest attachments we have ever experienced. Thank you for this video, I can understand and empathize with your loss.

[@michaelalexrichard491]

Simple music can make you sing, a simple hug can make you feel better, simple things can make you happy, I hope my simple hello will make you smile

[@Abjezed]

I think the reason why we get so much more emotional when pets die over humans sometimes is because we know that the pet had an unconditional love for us. In their eyes, we were everything to them. They're the only beings who don't judge, or have any expectations over you. They are only here to make your life happier. They're also good listeners when you need to vent, and seem completely understanding. And most importantly, they'll never leave you or break your trust an any way which can't be said about other humans. We feel everything that we desire from the love, and loyalty of our pets.

[@marisgv03]

This video made me particularly sadder because my dog who died a couple months ago looks exactly like Rainbow.

[@sheem.2450]

Sonia Marielle Reyes 💔💔

[@nikkim6439]

Rainbow looked a lot like my Nemo too. I just got back from having to help him pass. I was up all night trying to help him get comfortable and fall asleep, he just couldn't. Nemo was 15 + and had health issues for years, but recently things got much worse. I have another dog, so at the very least I will be forced to get out of bed cause she needs me and I love her so very much too. This pain is so unbearable, I am grateful I found this video.

[@lil0of]

Sonia Marielle Reyes same, except my dog isn’t dead. I legit thought it was my dog for a minute. If you want to see my dog, look at one of my YT videos with it in it.

[@tcs15]

My dod that died also was like that.. ;-;

[@NeoAphelion]

Me too man, I was holding back tears right at the beginning when he first mentioned that his dog was dying. I had a maltese that looked just like her. I would do anything to bring her back. Love you Crystal

[@CoordinatedCarry]

I remember having the dog I grew up with put down. Our vet, a long time friend of my father, came to the house. I remember asking how it was done. I’ll never forget, he said that it’s basically an over dose of anesthetic. So they are very literally put to sleep. When they are given that much. Instead of just keeping you asleep and alive. It takes you so far down that it stops the bodies autonomic function as well. Like breathing, heart beat and so on. This has always brought me a lot of comfort.

[@DavidLopez-is3pp]

♥️

[@rhysking3597]

It took me a while to think of it this way, but once I did I felt a lot better about it. Seeing it happen gave me a lot of anxiety and was pretty traumatic, but knowing that she was peaceful as she drifted away makes it hurt a little less.

[@MrsXmas1]

Thank you so much for the explanation. It is a great comfort to me. The phone call I made to the vet last week was the most difficult thing I have ever done. I wish you the best!

[@kawwenwhenbowed]

My dog yuki died 5 years ago. He was all i have. No parents. No friends. We've been thru thick and thin. after losing him, I could no longer see myself having a dog or any pet again. The pain was unbearable. Up until now I still struggle accepting the loss.

[@shwetaasomwanshi5539]

Buy another 🐶 pet

[@macaronipartynaptime]

I’m so sorry for you. That must be horrible

[@thepiratepeteshow2684]

Honor your pets life, dont not let it ruin you mentally. Your dog didn't give all these years of love only for you to spiral. It's sad, you will forget love and miss your dog. You should open your heart to another pet, you can honour your dog that way. Our dogs grow old. I lost mind last Friday. I'm so sad, I cry, but I refuse to allow my dogs legacy to be a broken me. my dog would never want that for me and that's why I will honour my dog by just being the best version of me

[@maxiedsouza4767]

My friend I understand how you feel God bless you ❤

[@lawrencechung1138]

I love how you think. I got a puppy and seeing this video makes me worry how I'd cope when the time comes even if it's a lot later down the line. Think I found my answer and I'm screen capping your comment for reference 😊

[@JustNatax3]

Because it is a family member. duh. (I'm a cat person btw, but I don't draw draw a line between dogs and cats, they're family.)

[@navonmyhand7999]

That's what I was thinking too!

[@meduzo]

Nah, it's not like adopting a child, it's like adopting a dog. But yeah, the love is quite similar.

[@JustNatax3]

Vixel Well that's you then. I buried and cried over my cats. I had cats (and a dog) and I loved them all more than most people.

[@REMsleepVids]

Cats are naturally killers, dogs are naturally killers, heck, humans are naturally killers. We are all predatory animals. Just because you haven't had a bond with a cat doesn't mean that the bonds others form are less valid. Convention doesn't dictate reality either, so if " no one says it", doesn't mean that it's not true. I love my cat, every one that I've had has held a very special place in my heart as a family member, and I've mourned their passing, and buried them too.

[@JustNatax3]

Vixel You're wrong on so many levels. Cats do bond to their owner, every cat has a different personality and they're mourned by their owners. There are videos like that on the Internet. Quite a lot actually, just because you never watch them doesnt mean... u know what: whatever. You're too ignorant to open your mind anyway.

[@Tidde]

I totally agree with that guy about how you feel when your dog dies. People who don't have dogs or pets might not understand, but it really is like having a family member die. Sometimes it's worse. Because how do you make the decision to put down a beloved family member? It's painful.

[@bababooey719]

Tidde yeah

[@bababooey719]

i hope the title is "why losing a pet feels like losing a family member"

[@stellarstar9340]

Tidde exactly...💔😭😭😢 I'm going through this right now. My dog is doing from A tumor & I can tell he's slowly getting worse & I haven't stopped crying since I found out. Every few hours I cry or just lose it when I hear him whimper or see him with his tail down. It's breaking my heart & I know very soon I'm going to have to make that choice & my heart is shattering.

[@spookyho5994]

I’m so sorry to everyone in the comments who had lost their pets

[@georgehutchinson2337]

i will always miss my golden nug. he's been dead for 15 yrs. he was my little guy.

[@bobbybaker9059]

My dog passed today around 7 pm. Had to have him put down due to chronic kidney disease he's had his entire life and he was in kidney failure. Shits rough but I'm so grateful for my relationship with him! He's taught me so much. I love him with all my heart and soul. This isn't goodbye this is see ya later. Till we meet again Patrick you goofy bastard

[@debrac3391]

RIP Patrick. You're right Bobby, he will be waiting for you, right where he always waited.

[@connorwaud6134]

how are you doing now?

[@priscillap7886]

My dog also had kidney disease and passed away earlier this afternoon...he was my first pet... I'm so heartbroken 💔 but I know we will see each other again

[@kristinonline4647]

I found out my dog died 2 hours ago. I went outside to go pet my dog and my sis came with me. She looked at the grass and found my dog ripped in half. It hasn't hit me yet.

[@Lihves]

-CatsLoveGaming- my dog died in august, he got hit by a car. it’s so sad

[@connercarey]

My dog passed away last Sunday; We got him at four weeks old when I was seven. He lived to be almost seventeen. I didn't expect it to be so hard.

[@bisexualchibi2863]

Conner lee Carey my grams dog (and technically mine too) passed a few weeks ago, he was only 9, I think the worst part is we had no warning, she took him to the vet and they told her he had a timor, he passed a week later

[@prallo7081]

I am so sorry. I share your pain. I lost my dog Ben yesterday.

[@looperradical2689]

It hurts

[@HiHi-eo6lk]

Srry about ur loss

[@srums7111]

kylee Tyler this just happened to me today with my cat. Took him to the vet last night and this morning said he has a massive tumor in his throat. Today’s my last day with him :/

[@giveupndie4559]

My dog and I could talk to each other in a way and it made me feel less lonely, I miss her now...

[@anabellaveselinovic9679]

people wont understand

[@Andy224]

I’ve found in my dog the greatest love and support I could NEVER find in any human

[@TheRealShitHotHem]

my dog passed away in his sleep this morning. I wish I could have one more day

[@sachpoint6822]

Right brother

[@perseuras19]

I lost my dog Mikey today due to cancer. He fought with everything he had. Such a brave dog. He never wanted to give up but his body eventually did. He wagged his tail for the last time. We’ve had him since he was a puppy. He was 14 when he died.

[@simplymickey5798]

Kaydee Dayrit I know I’m replying late but sorry for your loss :(

[@jamie2897]

I keep watching these types of videos and I’m just scared for my 11 year old pitty. She does that little tip tap dance when you come home and the day that she won’t be here I’m not gonna know what to do with myself

[@whalienabi]

She seems like such a sweet dog 💖

[@DH-ew9op]

I k ow the feeling I’ve lost 3 dogs in the space of two years due to illness and old age the sudden silence the house is never feels right after loving with howling and barking for so long if I could see them again and play with and cuddle them again I would drop everything in a heartbeat.

[@sachpoint6822]

@@DH-ew9op dear must try to adopt other dogs now, may be it can heal your heart again.

[@sugar8109]

The thing is that you'll feel more pain if your dog was really close to you.

[@anabellaveselinovic9679]

ive had my dog since she was 7 weeks old and now shes 5 I love her so much shes my emotional support dog for my PTSD every time I wake up and feel sad shes there everytime I go to sleep shes there. unconditional love just thinking about her being gone one day makes me depressed imagine the real thing

[@lowesenoify]

I've never cried when relatives die, but I cry a gallon of tears when my pet dies. I'm broken?

[@kristofferhaugstad7616]

me too bro

[@dennisjansen724]

Lowe Seno I think it's normal, my grandmother's boyfriend died of cancer and I didn't have that much of a problem with it, but thinking about my dog dying already makes my cry

[@fish7598]

Who do you spent more time with? who do you have a closer relationship with?

[@Theowest]

It's completely normal.

[@kristofferhaugstad7616]

Red Man ill cry more over my cat. Mt brother is a constant anoying me. He is always drain the internet we have, by watching hours long youtube vids by.pewdiepie

[@Dylan-ns4hd]

Had to put my dog down today worst pain I’ve ever felt it feels like my heart was ripped right out of my body, I have no energy , no motivation to do anything . She was more than a dog she was my best friend for 13 years since I was 5 . My eyes are burning from crying so much I just wish I was dreaming but I’m not ... gonna miss her so much till the day I die . Hopefully we can meet again love ya sadieee 😢😭🙏

[@LisaGallegos]

Dylan 😭😭😭😭

[@aaronmanzano9982]

Sorry dude my dog died yesterday and I feel exactly like you😭

[@louisvuittondonvg9040]

I had a doberman names Sadie i had to put down as well. :( she had cancer. i loved her so much. i hope you’re doing better.

[@hannahcollins6824]

My dog was put down today due to a lesion on the brain I feel the same way

[@yomama9067]

Can completely relate rn 😔

[@lizzyw6209]

My husky just passed away a few days ago, & I don't know how to move on. She was family. She got me through so much, & now she's just a memory. & then this just shows up on my recommended.

[@Monika-yg6fu]

The caption should be: why losing ANY KIND OF A PET feels like losing a family member.

[@cuteodalys]

Yessss

[@stefunyie]

Well this video is only about dogs so 🤷‍♀️

[@Sajirah]

Absolutely. I didn't feel more strongly when my dog died rather than when my cats died. I was equally distraught because both were creatures I'd spent decades of my life with and so it was extremely difficult to watch them go. When my dog died, I cried for days. And when my cats died, I also cried for days. One wasn't more important than the other.

[@madeleineyoung7062]

oH yEA omg when my pet golfish died it felt like my mom died :((((((

[@Monika-yg6fu]

Madeleine Young oh wait I smell a sarcastic bih. POOR goldfish it wasn’t loved :((((

[@Mesoblunt]

This is so comforting to me. 8 months ago I had to put my fur baby down due to cancer. So I totally relate,and understand how hard it is to let go. Thank you. I hope someone else finds this and if you're reading my comment and going through it too, just know it's okay. Everything will be okay. 💛💛

[@ronaldolamont]

Thank you!I I keep trying to tell myself that everything will be ok, but I hurt so much!! I miss him!!

[@shayneesuniga6850]

Thank you for this, my dog currently is going through the same and won't be around for much longer. It's so hard to go through. This comment made me feel better

[@lavane26]

I'm sorry for your loss.

[@turkaycnarl9657]

A month ago my baby boy passed away he was 2 year old French Bulldog his name is Arthur he had kidney problems he fought for 4 days in hospital without any pain he passed away in his sleep im still crying and missing him he was the happiest dog even in hospital 24/7 he played with the vets and staff sadly he passed away i know he is in clouds in a better place eating his favourite stuff i love you my baby boy ❤

[@yomama9067]

Been two days my babies been gone I’ve never felt this kind of pain and heartbreak before 😔 I miss her so so much already

[@bremiller9840]

My dog passed away earlier this month. He was only 6 years old and should have been in his prime. I have had dogs all of my life and never has a death hurt as bad as this one. The last dog we had died of old age, as did the previous one. So, for both of those we knew it was coming and could mentally try to prepare ourselves. My dog Jo though.. he had been losing weight, but we thought it was due to the diet food we had the other dogs on. Then there was vomiting for a couple of days before I took him to the vet. The vet even said "other than the obvious weight loss, he appears fine". They took blood, told me that I was right for switching just his food, and to call in the morning. I called in the morning to find out he had elevated kidney levels and to bring him back to have fluid treatments to which I obliged and he stayed the night. I call back in the morning to find that there is a large chance that he will not make it and to try a specialty vet to see if they can do anything. We drive 1 hr to the other vet to get the same bleak news. They said they could try running tests and trying medicine but with the levels he had there was little chance for improvement. He would never be the same dog, I would have to give him an IV daily to keep him alive and hydrated, he would have to continue to take antinausea pills to consider eating, he would never gain back the weight. This was even with treatment. I took him home with an IV, nausea pills, and no hope. Warning this is graphic. The next morning he's laying in the recliner, wrapped in a blanket (that I still can't bring myself to wash) and he hardly takes note of me. He was so tired. I give him a pill against his will. Then I go to give him an oral solution to help with his stomach, mouth, and esophagus. Some blood comes out of his mouth. Mind you I took him to the vet Tuesday and this is only Friday. I made the decision that day that I would not make my best friend suffer. I cried so hard at the vets that I hyperventilated until the point that I was dizzy and lightheaded and thought I was going to pass out. I feel so guilty and sad everyday. I am currently taking 17 credit hours in college and working 30 hours a week and I am beyond exhausted mentally. I should have had 6 to 10 more years with him. He was also the first dog that was specifically mine. I payed for him, picked him out, paid for his vet bills, trained him, taught him simple sign language for sit stay and lay down, and loved him so much. Like the guy in the video, I also watched my grandmother go through hospice. I think I reacted more so to my dog since there was no time to come to terms and say goodbye.

[@bremiller9840]

Currently I am trying to cope with his passing by having a piece of art made from some of his ashes. I had a blow glass paperweight made and it is beautiful. I sleep with a stuffed animal papillon with his dog collar on it. And I have been looking for new dogs. I am not much of a people person so I feel empty without having a dog of my own. But at the same time I feel like I am not worthy of a new companion. I also feel like I am replacing him and feel guilt for this. Plus Everytime I get my hopes up for a new dog it becomes adopted or bought. This is making me more of an emotional wreck because as my boyfriend out it.. I am mentally adopting all of them just to find they are already pending to go to a new home. I just want things to get easier.

[@Coonotafoo]

I know how you feel. It's especially tragic when our beloved companions die at a young age. My cat Marble died at almost 2. He suffered some sort of urinary blockage and by the time my mom discovered this and took him to the vet, it was too late. Marble had such a poor kittenhood, at around 6 months of age he fell off of a ceiling pillar and broke his hip. He spent probably 3-4 months locked up in a cage recovering while his siblings got to run around and play. His brother Tweetle Dum died at 1 year of age, after being struck by a car. After that my mom didn't allow the cats to go outside anymore (even though they originally showed up one day under our porch, and were used to the outside and inside.) I was Marble's favorite human, especially because during his recovery I would take him out and lightly play and love on him everyday for about an hour, I was pretty much his only socialization apart from my mom feeding him and giving him water. Marble had trust issues with everyone except me, and would regularly choose my bed and me to go to sleep at nights. It's been about a year now, but I'm still in disbelief about how young he died. It's so saddening. I hope one day your pain will pass, never the memory, but the pain. Best wishes.

[@muffychao2373]

@@bremiller9840 I'm sorry for your loss our family lost our 9yr old Pekingese last Tuesday while he was having a seizure. Even though blood was coming out of his mouth I still gave him CPR to try and revive him but, it was too late our beloved Daeji had gone off to the rainbow bridge to be with his guinea pig buddy Chewy who passed away in September 😥😭 Sadly we had to learn the hard way about time being so precious and how there isn't any amount of money that can bring back our beloved family member, so now I tell everyone to spend as much time with your family and tell them how much you love them because tomorrow isn't promised😖RIP Daeji boy.

[@langenavarro3637]

I'm sending you the biggest of hugs of support. I hope that a year from this message your heart has been healing and continuously healing. Good luck in your future, I'm sure Jo loved (and still loves wherever he is) you so much just as you do. Please take care of yourself too, with all those credit hours it is overwhelming.. May you have a great 2019

[@laur-unstagenameactuallyca1587]

I know you've probably heard this before and it won't provide much consolation but... I am so, so, so sorry for your loss :(

[@erikiniel21]

My black labs died today, she was 11 year old. The pain is unbearable, it's like losing a family member. Rest in peace Angel, i will always love you 🌹

[@ph7715]

The pain is indeed unbearable. So sorry for your loss

[@rottinpottin]

My baby died over a month ago :( he had a tumour in his throat that went to he’s stomach... it was really hard putting him down :( but now he’s in a better place

[@x.7955]

Guccirat human??

[@Eliezer4433]

My first dog recently just passed away earlier today, thanks for the video guys

[@gforskli4307]

when my grandmother died, I knew she lived the way she wanted and took responsibility for her own actions, she basically enjoyed her life as much a posible, making decisions as any other human can. but when animals die, I feel guilty cause I know they aren't responsible for whatever life they had, we are. every animal that is a product of thousands of years of cultural selection only to satisfy humans, deserve at least a life without suffering, and we generally fail as a specie when it comes to it. everytime a pet dies I feel like we could've done better, they depend on us. so basically I only cry when pets or human babies die, for the rest of us, we've had or are having our chance.

[@MosesReyna]

Well said

[@cayeeshacharlesmarc6342]

That was beautiful...Kinda

[@micheleward4433]

G Amorel Foster if you take care of your animals and they knew that you loved them. Just remember they are in a better place and they will always be with you. RIP Riley I love you

[@mycultureisbetter]

and livestock?

[@austinayers2509]

G Amorel Foster you sound pathetic

[@s0cials]

I actually lost my dog yesterday, and his second birthday is next month :(

[@disappointment8094]

p0tAt0 so young? I’m sorry, what happened 🥺?

[@scottferguson48]

I'm so sorry to here about your dog. My dog past away on Friday

[@timetraveler1203]

I am so sorry for your loss. My dog passed away yesterday and he was 4 years old.

[@lukeboyett6467]

Oh lord so young

[@spencerthegarfieldfanboy]

That’s just too young, he’s looking down at you now

[@gr8pes]

my dog just died, she was 7 i’m gonna miss her so much

[@thebeastcruz185]

Lady my dog did as well. It hurts me so much😢

[@strangerwolfie3942]

I lost my dog today... My dogs name was Nico, he lived for 12 years! He was such a loving and caring dog... I will miss him...

[@audreymcneal]

When my dog died, I didn’t think I’d ever be able to breathe again. I’ve never been in pain like that, and I haven’t since. I’m bawling my eyes out after watching this, and to this day, I’m able to cry on command by thinking of how much it hurt to lose her. I felt guilty and wrong, and knowing I’ll never see her again breaks my heart. The guilt of being away from her when she passed was too much for me, it still is, though there was nothing I could do about my parents taking me overseas. When I got the call, it was Christmas in the country I was in, and Christmas Eve in America. There’s always a bit of a sting with that. I’ve never loved anyone as deeply as I loved her, and it was she who taught me what love is. It’s been years, but the pain hasn’t gone away. Dogs are so worth it, the cruelest thing about them is their life span. How much would I pay for my dog to live as long as I? Every cent to my name. There is nothing quite like the heartache that never goes away. If you have ever lost a dog, I am so deeply sorry, and can only hope science advances enough to enable our dogs to keep living.

[@DeemaCloud]

I recently lost my budgie and it hurts. Ik its not a dog but it was family.

[@katicasey4610]

I'm so sorry about your budgie. I've wanted a bird for a year now, but I wanna wait until I have more time for one

[@DeemaCloud]

@@katicasey4610 when u get a bird its worth it Theyre are precious

[@kaybee8478]

Just put my little guy Petri down this morning. Hardest thing I've ever had to do. I'm grateful for being there with him in his final moments. He accepted and loved me unconditionally. Literally saved my life just by being by my side. There is no other love like what we have for our furry family members. Thank you for this video and normalizing such profound grief. To everyone grieving, you're not alone, you did your best, and your babies know it and love you for it. ♥️

[@Backup-cs2os]

I cried when I wacth this,when my dog died I felt like my world was going to end,it like part of my soul left ,I feel incomplete

[@rosexxx1306]

Same I feel lost already I lost my dog today due someone ran over him....

[@phoenixdavida8987]

Rose Xxx I'm so sorry I hope you're doing better....

[@graceconn4888]

I understand you it feels like you are never fully complete and happy. I miss my babie dog Jessie

[@kjtamf]

Pierrienne Baptiste 😔😭👍🏻🙏🏻😔❤️

[@rainbowdiva714]

I just lost my dog yesterday and the pain is just unbearable

[@Smokey94462]

Ah, goddamnit... I miss my dog. So much dog talk recently... I've been thinking too much about that little old furry bastard.

[@dennisjansen724]

As You Were Reading My Very Long Username I Stole Your Sandwich I know this is pretty senseless and stuff but please give me my sandwich back

[@riarez4142]

As You Were Reading My Very Long Username I Stole Your Sandwich How did you steal my friggin sandwich in a second?

[@KittySYT]

Ding ding ding I did. You were busy 🌚

[@FROZYO]

As crazy as it may sound, get another. It really fills the hole in your heart.

[@redharring7984]

FROZYO you don't ever replace them, you you just get a different dog

[@shitbag_6352]

My dog died a couple hours ago. We first got her when I was 3, I am now 15 and struggling how to even feel after saying goodbye. She was there for everything and knew me so well, I love her so much.

[@evastagnoli500]

I had to euthanize my dog eight months ago. She had been with me since I was eleven. I still cry everytime I think of her. The bond you biuld with your dog is beyond anything you'll ever experience, you don't need words, just a look is enough. Deciding to put her to eternal sleep and finally letting her go is still the most painful thing I've ever done.

[@Jormyyy]

Honestly i think losing (almost) any pet is as bad as losing as family member. If my lizard or snake passed away I think I would be devastated. Those 2 are like family to me ;~;

[@ruth4952]

I have lost pets and family members and I personally think that loosing a family member is infinitely more painful then loosing a pet.

[@adrianazashen]

I still mourn for my pets as much as I do family members. Just depends how connected you feel, I think.

[@fool704]

Yeah, I have a fish, and I always get so stressed when we have to put him in a little cup to clean his tank, I always get so worried.

[@shoulders-of-giants]

They are a family member.

[@Descalabro]

Glad someone here has some sense.

[@ameliang8434]

it's been 5 months without my little baby, she was with me for at least half my life :'( really miss that furry little girl

[@rayevans9276]

“i struggle with anxiety a lot. a lot of times it’s anxiety about other humans beings. and having a dog, i never had to question whether or not my dog loved me or whether or not my dog wanted to be around me. it was just an honest relationship.” I FELT THAT

[@LovatoLover22]

Me too 😭😭

[@matiassamar8267]

I lost my Shih Tzu around 6pm last night. Had him for more than 12 years at least, during my younger high school years, and ever since he was a little baby. Nothing good lasts forever. Nothing feels real. It's definitely going to hurt for a really long time. I'm so glad that I got to see you during your final moments. I will always remember and love you my little baby dog, Maui.

[@reyr.7439]

My dog died yesterday, I'm in tears RIP 2007-2019

[@ronaldolamont]

Fell better Rey! You have to talk to some one about it will help you, it helped me. Although there is no better healer than time, in time you'll feel better, he knows how much you loved him!

[@maplelin4712]

My dog died this morning. Coping the loss of a dog I’ve for about 8 years was rough for me

[@sachpoint6822]

Right brother

[@bigchezzy8989]

Especially with a childhood dog, they've been with you for as long as you can remember and through the tough and scary times of your youth, losing that pet made me feel unsure about what to do, similarly to when you lose a close relative

[@hanagracec]

My dog was put down an hour ago. It doesn’t feel real

[@hanagracec]

Taco Yayy I’m sorry for your loss. It does get easier over time. it’ll always hurt. but you’ll be happy again. Focus on things that would bring you joy.

[@laylah2253]

my dog is having some kind of seizures and i’m really scared that she’ll pass tonight because it’s getting worse and my mom is going to take her to the vet but my anxiety is very bad and i’m honestly so scared and i can’t stop crying every time i think about her

[@sachpoint6822]

@@laylah2253 may god treat your dog

[@citygurl0105]

@@laylah2253 What happened? I lost my dog this past Thursday. She kept having seizures 😭😭 Felt her take her last breath

[@laylah2253]

@@citygurl0105 oh no! i'm so sorry for your loss 😭 she's actually doing a lot better, but she's getting older so i think that may be the reason.

[@grayson9803]

My dog has less than a month due to cancer. We just found out earlier this week. :(

[@Selestrielle]

That's horrible, I hope your dog won't suffer through their last days. The same happened to my cat last year. It's a rough ride.

[@grayson9803]

Wetpig yeah it does suck. Already got all my tears out but he lived a good life. Good 9 years. Sucks he is a boxer and for some reason they are more prone to cancer

[@WetPig]

Yea, not that we could have helped him if he knew, dint understand, is your dog also a boxer? My dog died two weeks before him 11th birthday.

[@RazzTheKing]

Purebreed dogs have a lot of health problems because of endogamy. If you plan on getting a new dog someday, don't get a purebreed one, it has to stop.

[@stover14]

Razz Does this also increase the chances of cancer?

[@kareneikman9932]

I'm not crying I'm sweating from my eyes

[@robbabcock_]

There's never enough time with the ones we love, human and animal.

[@Theempiresf49]

Facts

[@autumnbronze7]

I miss my dog so much. I wish I could give her one last hug, they are truly angels

[@TMWriting]

Both my dog and my cat are really old at this point and it breaks my heart knowing that they might not last much longer.

[@umiluv]

Tom Morgan - Make sure to spend time with them and take lots of pictures while they're still good. You'll want to look back on all the photos.

[@Coco-xq7zh]

umiluv Yep your right

[@pablodb3237]

umiluv Yes, pleeasssse

[@yulijime498]

Tom Morgan my dog to she is probly going to last 3,4 years she allready looks tierd and old i had her when I was about 4 im about to be 11 its going to be sad

[@parkertinsley7329]

i just lost my chihuahua of 15 years today 😭😭

[@sachpoint6822]

😢😢

[@VanThieu]

I lost my best friend on the 21st of December this year. He was everything to me and the pillar of my life.

[@airaandrea9920]

My dog just died today. I still haven't recovered from my other dog passing last year of august. I am just really sad; anywhere in the house and place we went to before, I can still feel his presence, and it's almost like I'm living those memories with him still. I just want the pain to end, and if only i can do anything just to see him and my other dogs again, I will. I remember telling myself before that if my last surviving dog dies, i don't know what I could do to myself. But now, I'm trying to accept it, but i just wish I could see him again for the last time, in a state that he's lively and happy. I don't know if I want to get another dog again, I always feel traumatize whenever i lose them to illness, but it's also hard waking up in the morning without them jumping onto you with such energy as well as coming home to be greeted by them. Dogs just love so unconditionally, the only healthy love that you can find in them. Rest in peace, my 4 yrs old doggo, "Ash." I will never forget you and I will love you the same as your two older brothers. You're now together with them on the rainbow bridge. And don't worry about me, I'll cope with this pain, but I will never forget you. You'll always be in my heart forevermore.

[@flaviomorofurian5271]

I've lost my little princess last tuesday, after 17 years by my side. I'm 100% sure I'll never be the same again. There are so many good moments we've had, but remembering them is so painful I can't describe. Walking in my house is almost impossible, I see her everywhere, all the things she used to do, all her UNIQUE traits. I miss you Xuxinha, FOREVER...💔

[@raquelarnina4742]

losing a dog hurts so much

[@jimnicholas4532]

raquel arnina it's the worst pain you could ever feel

[@bababooey719]

yeah because i lost a cat this year :(

[@ddxoxo2]

Srsly ! I was depressed

[@kjtamf]

raquel arnina I still stay at home like he’s still here , I still haven’t wanted to go away or stay at family’s homes , I feel like I need to stay at home & get used to my loss ..... everyone says now you can be free with no ties , but my dog wasn’t a tie , he was my best freind , I just don’t think celebrating & staying away from home because I have no ties , is not the best thing , I still bring him pop corn chicken home every week , it’s a big loss that takes time to heal from & accept. You can’t run from loss & love & grief

[@medusachristo3725]

I Still Miss Her & Love Her.

[@Haajicooli15]

My dog recently passed away yesterday, and I've never been so devastated. It felt like I lost part of me, and it hurt so much, but now I'm slowly recovering from his death.

[@debrac3391]

RIP precious pup. He will be waiting for you Valentina.

[@Haajicooli15]

Thank you Debra, he was an amazing companion.

[@aliceoyanguren7294]

My dog just died today, I'm really sorry about yours, hope you're doing better!): 💛

[@debrac3391]

So sorry about your precious friend, Alice. It will get better. In the meantime, your loyal companion will be waiting for you.

[@Haajicooli15]

I'm so sorry to hear about your loss, Alice, but like Debra says, he/she will be waiting for you. 💕

[@faltergeist3224]

I lost my dog an hour ago. I hope to meet her again someday, I love you Bella! Till next time.

[@soshiconfetti96]

I lost my cat just hours ago 😔 she wasn’t a dog, but feels like one enough... now im looking for ways to cope with pet’s death.. rest in peace baby, see you at the rainbow bridge...

[@Trund27]

My dog was my best friend. He was a fully engaged family member. We moved 5, 000 kms across Canada, and he came with us. He was with us when my Dad died, and he was there for us when my Mum got sick. He passed away after 14 years. His was the purest love I've ever received, and given. Love you forever, Tony

[@IamAperson9]

I just watched this because I lost my dog like 5 minutes ago

[@sir.cheneyclintonbush7299]

I lost my dog 5 days ago

[@raeliana8028]

Huw Byrne if you lost your dog 5 minutes ago you wouldn't be on youtube like an UNCARING FREAK

[@IamAperson9]

@@raeliana8028 dude I went to this to see was there any ways to cope I got my dog put down so I went on KZbin hopefully trying to find ways to cope with the pain of losing my dog Bailey a husky whitish grey with blends of brown circles on some parts of her coat I went with her to dog shows as well I would let her sit up with me on the couch. And you call me uncaring I've had 7 dogs in my life and more cause some had pups gave them away and as of now 2 are alive Queenie and Susie, Queenie a German Shepard and Susie no one is sure of her breed

[@raeliana8028]

Huw Byrne I'm so sorry... I never thought about that... I hope you are still not sad.. 😞

[@IamAperson9]

@@raeliana8028 I'm not sad but I still miss her

[@raymondcimental5085]

My dog, Canela just passed away today. And I have never felt anything more painful in my life. I can’t stop crying. We buried her and I just can’t go on without her. I miss her so much

[@sh1tbrick57]

It's ok you guys are gonna make me cry

[@baekwonthechef5254]

I’ve had my poodle for 11 years and if I even THINK about her passing away, I start crying. I know the time will come, but she’s been with me and comforted me through so much it would truly break my heart. But I’d be happy about all the good times we’ve shared. 💜

[@dicteglob4906]

its worst to give your dog away. that was the hardest thing i ever experienced, knowing your dog has a new family and probably don't remember you much is hard, its really hard.

[@jsjeong12]

Dicte Glob I feel that.. I took care of my dog when I was just 8 years old and then I moved away when I was 13.. I returned 4 years later to my aunts house where my dog lived and he just couldn't remember me.. i was pretty sad

[@dayjavu18]

Your dog probably still remembers you. There was a story about a man who lost his dog, hadn't seen him for years. Then one day they had a bring your pet to work day. His coworker brought in her dog and it actually the mans old lost dog! The dog ran up to the previous owner, happy, while he was looking confused. Took the previous owner a second to realize this was actually his old pet! So just know if your dog loved you once, it will always love you.

[@MagusMarquillin]

+Tatiana Geeze, I know you were making a point, but please don't end the story there! Who kept the dog after that? Does that become a joint custody situation?

[@DaftPunkSkittle]

thats the same feeling when you break up and you guys dont talk to each other anymore

[@myfishislonely958]

Dicte Glob It's not worse... At least your dog is alive. My mother gave away our dog when I was young to a nice couple and after a while our dog didn't really care about seeing my mother. When ever I loose a pet it's a lot worse. It's just like when a friend or family member moves to another country VS when a friend or family member dies.

[@calicojo3536]

Losing a cat feels like losing a part of you.

[@erstlouis5899]

I could not agree more.

[@bababooey719]

yeah i lost two cats this year and i cry in my bed

[@bunnybun496]

That’s any pet. Not just a cat.

[@phoebephoebe7063]

Cats eat their owners when the owners die.

[@yoshiyt5742]

Phoebe Pomfret yeah

[@Sick_Boy_Rick74]

My little Cocoa just passed away a couple days ago. It still is hurting. She was my best friend for 15 years. She saved my life. It’s amazing what she did for my ptsd. Now I can’t stop crying and missing her. I already see a psychiatrist once a month and my last appointment was scheduled a month ago and just happened to be the day after Cocoa died. My hour turned into 90mins. I don’t feel much better. I don’t know how to live life without her by my side. And I’m an old guy by the way. I’m not a millennial. I’m a 45 year old grandpa that is having major trouble coping with the loss of my best and only friend.

[@pinkamena1607]

the pain is indeed unbearable. wishing you all the best, you can get through this!💝💝.

[@Isaacindelicato123]

I’m literally sobbing at 6am while drinking my coffee

[@spartan0x75]

Because they *are* family.

[@that_pac123]

When my cat died I cried for days.

[@that_pac123]

He was a year older than me, he was 17 human years old when he died.

[@ClassyMufffin]

that_pac12 im sorry for your loss, i also had a cat who i grew up from a baby into teenhood with

[@icecreambuilder2414]

that_pac12 I'm a dog person so I want to know what people see in cats that I don't. Cat kind of just treat you like crap and ignore people all day, they think of people like slaves.

[@icecreambuilder2414]

Also sorry for your loss

[@myfishislonely958]

that_pac12 I cried for months. I had random moments in the day when one second i would be perfectly fine and then I would start randomly screaming and crying at the same time until I would fall onto the floor and stop screaming.

[@TTRonin]

Lost my dog today and i feel like i lost my child. They are gift from heaven and it hurts when you have to return them. Love you buddy ❤️

[@bulma463]

I lost my 15 year old dog today. She was my best buddy and Iam so grataful for her existence! I love you Taisa❤ Rest in paradise 🤲🏽🤍

[@zeFusionGaming]

just lost my dog 10 minutes ago...... im devasted..

[@silentasamouseiaminsideyou6865]

FusionPlays I 'm sorry to hear that but it will better

[@hashslingingslasher730]

How are you feeling now? I just lost my dog and I need to know that it's going to be okay :(

[@choirfandomcookingrantsand496]

My dog died today he was still a puppy

[@JulieV]

I lost mine an hour ago..

[@itsaquagamer6101]

@FusionPlays Are you doing okay now?

[@trippedbreaker]

I think having a relationship like this with a cat is perhaps a little less typical but definitely can happen, especially with those with more social behaviors. I had a very strong bond with my cat that evolved over the course of the 15 years I knew him (he was an adult of unknown age when I found him). When he died suddenly and unexpectedly several days ago, it was like watching a brother die, and being powerless to stop it. He was my friend, and the emptiness in my home now is something I have to face every day when he's no longer there to greet me at the door, whining for attention.

[@phoebephoebe7063]

Cats eat their owners when they die

[@contentcop5867]

My dog just died today, Im watching this video to understand what pain is it. As time passes by, im crying out of nowhere. I just miss him. I love you, Milo. Run free, Guide us through all. I love you so much

[@victoriatlifts]

It’s been 5 months since my dog Oreo passed away and I still cry about it nearly every night. I’ll always love and remember you Oreo. May we meet again ❤️.

[@sarahhougen8976]

Yeah I'll just be over here sobbing

[@jasonkarjadi4034]

Why would anyone bother disliking this video? Seriously....

[@icecreambuilder2414]

Jason Karjadi haters gunna hate

[@icecreambuilder2414]

Jason Karjadi Evan when there is nothing to hate

[@posysdogovych2065]

It's the Internet, dude. What do you expect?

[@perrspawn]

I read Alvin's article when it was first published and afterwards I went to see my dog (he lived with my partner) because I knew it would come one day. That was 5 years ago, and it's helping me process my grief today. Our family had to put down our dog, Sheffield, yesterday, due to chronic kidney failure. We thought we had more time with him because the treatment was for 2 weeks, but he deteriorated within a week and started to exhibit signs of incredible pain towards the end when he stopped responding to treatment and his organs were shutting down. It was an incredibly hard decision to make but it was the right one. He was a mini schnau-mix, rescued as a puppy, and he was going to be 14 in July. Our pets live day to day and they remind us what it's like to love, care for, and be loved and cared for without motive and unconditionally, which is rare to find in human connections in this day and age. They become a critical part of our support system, our routine, our source of joy/discovery, and when they're gone our entire world order is upended. It hurts so much to lose family, but we can only take it one day at a time, just like our beloved pets would. I'm not confident that time will heal this wound completely, but I hope that he felt loved by us in the never-long-enough time he was here on earth. I love you, Sheff. I will always miss you.

[@kashishsharma9497]

I lost my 10 years old dog recently 😭😭 . Animals are the best 😭😭❤️

[@charlotteborstad7371]

I feel you. Lost mine 4 days ago. My dog was 7,5 years old. Hugs:-)