FIRST EVER SIT DOWN WITH MY LITTLE SISTER! Double Standards, Life W/ Brothers, and More (Ep 22)

[@shahistasalam1]

I got my marriage license before my drivers license! I’m not sure what it was about driving, it took me forever to pass despite pursuing a doctorate and other accolades- getting my license will forever be my greatest achievement haha.

[@Nairobikbal]

Aymen, don't tell your family when you're taking your driving test. Just do it. Take a bus that day; it will relieve any pressure you might feel. Get ur license is so worth it!!

[@nasreensyed1633]

She needs a car for her license so that wont work

[@gr8virgo987]

@@nasreensyed1633you don’t have to take your car. You can use instructor’s car !

[@samx9139]

Aymen looks like Ahmed now omg

[@HP-tj4kl]

Love love love this episode... Its awesome hearinf Aymens side of the story. What a beautiful young lady.... Wajeeh take her on that Trip to Europe alone without Mamajee. Let her plan it with you supporting her. You'll see the drastic change in her. She just needs to let go of the fear of failing. And only you can help her cuz you're incredibly understanding. Thats what she needs

[@usershushhhhhhh]

If you’re reading this Aymen , I just want you to know that we’re all routing for you and In Sha Allah you’ll get your license soon 🤍🤍🤍 Loved this episode and we deffo need to see more of you 🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽

[@mariaamir2757]

The conversations your having with your sister, so important for her, she’s navigating through her abilities.. beautiful I appreciate ❤.. prayers for mama g 💐

[@faiza896]

My dad taught me how to drive when I was 16. Man, all I remember now is, him cursing at me lol, but I am very good at driving now. And all the credit goes to my dad 😂

[@yusrasumra1896]

I think she’s just panicking and it’s normal but in shaa Allah she will pass it next time

[@Fiona-jw2de]

exactly! It’s only normal to be traumatised after her experience

[@romz11khan]

She’s panicking cause her dad has no chill lol. She needs someone calm to help her. I struggled a lot too with mine and the only reason I was able to learn in the end was my aunt who was VERY calm with me.

[@dhonthesavour]

You all are breaking her confidence If you stick out her failure she’s just going to think that and won’t have confidence driving Before her next test just pump her up and see the magic

[@jawariazia2489]

Why did I have a feeling that Wajeeh needs to get with Bodmonzaid Laiba zaid? That’s an epic match ❤❤

[@romz11khan]

wtf lol

[@fatimadaya8736]

Love the part where Wajeeh acknowledged how hard it is for desi girls/women in general. Thank you for the validation.

[@sabarasheednaqvi5077]

Aymen is awesome! Allah humma Barik! I still think you need to have a first generation desi girl on chai talk. I'm a first generation, oldest daughter. Dude I'll do it, lol. Our lives are on a completely different trajectory than brown boys. Please!

[@jibrankhan4353]

She's literally Ahmed with long hair...........

[@kind_information]

Exactly what I'm trying to say...😂❤

[@farhathyder]

She’s so beautiful and smart and calm.

[@Moon24926]

Why everyone is running away from mama jee ?😢 Mama jee i will come and live with you because my mom is far away from me and my mother in law as well 😢😢 i need a grandmother for my kids.

[@Nat12726]

Because she is toxic and controlling Asf

[@sharikhariyaz1647]

Only the ending was worth it when she said she wouldn’t cry during her wedding I was like WHOA GIRL WHAT WHERE HAS ALL THAT INTROVERTEDNESS GONE NOW 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@LL-Coolio]

Americans have none

[@mustardonhotdogs9414]

Mashallah Aymen has come a long way, she really is super patient and calm.

[@daniis.444]

I’m 28, no license and my older brother is always harassing me to get my license. But he’s a good brother and doesn’t say he’s not going to pick me up or drop me off places 😂 anywho, I’ll get it someday. I’m just glad he doesn’t try to make my life harder because I don’t have one

[@humza4453]

Aymen is Ahmed’s twin even the way she talks! Love you all from 🇬🇧

[@seeya7610]

It took me a while to get my driver’s license as I wasn’t motivated but when I did I was unstoppable lol So Aymen, get your license asap. It’s so so important for your independence and future or you will be left dependent like women back in third world countries. You’re living in USA. In Western countries you have to have to 2 things in order to survive. Driver’s license & good credit. I hope you get out of your comfort zone & get to it!! All the best!

[@MahnoorJamshaid-b4w]

women in third world countries also now have their driver license

[@seeya7610]

@@MahnoorJamshaid-b4w Yes, it’s definitely getting better there now too but mostly are dependent or not allowed. We’re here talking in general.

[@nancysalgado5027]

Aymen Reminds me a lot of myself when I was a pre teen and a teenager . I would like to give some advice. I think one thing that help you to feel a little more independent is build interest in things that you would like learn from the simplest to the more challenging. And if right now driving is not your interest take interest to take the bus. And try to take your brothers advice as an advice not like an insult, it’s hard trust me I know! It’s. Life practice. 💜

[@Moon24926]

41:33 when i was 20 i was a mom already 😅 now I'm 27 with 2 kids planning for the third one 😊😂. Live your life Aymen and try to do and learn as much as you can now because you have so much time. ❤

[@laibatahir4627]

My personality is so similar to Aimen Wajeeh’s advice was so good I needed that

[@ameenabegum129]

AYMENN!!!!!! Finally i was really looking forward for this podcast!!!! Wajeeh you are Truly an AMAZING older brother so is Ahmed 😁💞

[@Sassybliss404]

Aymen is the luckiest sister ever. I really really wish I had brothers like her’s 🥲

[@nusratk9733]

She looks exactly like Ahmad

[@nasheeds4kids]

One thing has proved to be 100% true in this episode “mama jii jahan bhi jaati hain mehfil main jaan parr jati hai”. You go mama jii❤️ Aymen is very innocent, may Allah bless her with all the happiness of the world Ameen. P.S I passed my driving test 4th time in UK at the age of 40 and mum of 4 children!! Take your time and I promise you will get there. Thank you Wajeeh for these talks👍

[@msofficial8996]

Aymen isn't super sheltered by choice. She didn't choose to be dependent on others. That is what being in a controlled environment does, especially to women. Once she leaves her house to travel and be independent, she will learn herself. Wajeeh, please don't compare yourself to Aymen. Aymen is a growing woman and there are huge differences in how women are treated/the challenges they face. Your advice to become more independent is spot on though. I am glad you acknowledged women have it tougher in a Desi household. I hope Aymen pushes against the grain and becomes more independent. LOVED THIS EPISODE. Hope for more updates from Aymen

[@IbnSaifi]

22 is not old Aymen, don't worry there's plenty of time to learn to drive. You'll get there eventually. Don't sweat your brothers and parents. I didn't get my license until I was 24 in the UK (a lot harder than it is in the US - I guarantee your brothers would fail their tests in the UK).

[@uzmameer9127]

The way you're trying to make her get out of her comfort zone is truely appreciated. You should have talked about that more. ❤ You're such a genius and caring as well.

[@romz11khan]

Mash’Allah girl has grown so much. The maturity she displayed in this convo is crazy

[@wtsontvnic]

don’t worry im 23 and i don’t have my license either 😭. i have driving anxiety plus the people in my city drives like they’re racing 24/7

[@itzmissem]

I can definitely relate to Aymen alot, the way Wajeeh talks to Aymen reminds me of how my Brother gives me advice as well. loved this episode.

[@rachaelaranha2670]

When Wajeeh said “you’ve been brainwashed” its absolutely true

[@myjourneytotruth]

💯

[@samheat4558]

I know what the big brother is saying, but he doesn’t want his advice to go too far either. Of course, it’s good to be independent and look after yourself, but he doesn’t want Aymen to take it too far and isolate herself from her family. Be independent and less reliant on others, but be close to your family. Having family help you now and again is good. That’s what keeps ties strong. But relying on them too much isn’t good ‘cos that’s how people get annoyed.

[@clawzzyfn]

Wajhee, you know, You sound exactly like Mama Jee in the whole podcast. The reason she failed to lead 3 times is that it's too much pressure from Papa Jee and you. She should go to take a driving test with Ahmed.

[@farihajafri6317]

The most important thing for spouses is to have a good solid relationship with each other...in the end it's the husband and wife living alone together.

[@S4FX]

Aymen is so sweet ❤️ In shaa Allah she passes her driving test soon 🤲 Hope Mama jee's eyes feel better soon ❤️🤲

[@hafsakhalid4645]

Wajeeh is the cutest older brother🥹🫶

[@singingstar1060]

I really liked your advice on being more independent by doing things yourself. I am a 23 year old girl also living at home and yesterday I told my mom I wanted to move out but apparently I am not capable enough according to her🙃 So definitely going to follow your advice and hopefully inshallah one day I can move out and have more growth😊

[@tabeermuzaffar4255]

I'm in my early twenties like 22, but I'm independent. This is something you have to do so you can be independent. I belong from very a healthy family, but you know what i earn and spend money in most stupid stuff. This is actually a self growth.

[@afaf592]

Aymen you have a beautiful smile! Keep that smile onnnnnnn ❤

[@Snoozy113]

I don't why boys complain when their mother's push them to achieve a good degree which can lead them to a good job and be financial comfortable in the long run. It's only going to benefit them in the long run, with finding a wife as women look for financial stability, and to be able to provide and earn respect. I hate that they blame their mum who is more involved with their life when really if anyone was to be blamed or pointed a finger at should be the father, as they say he's never been involved and always stays quiet.

[@chickennuggets6036]

Sister please do not worry I'm 28 years old this year I'm a brown girl too! I FEEL YOU 😂 Just be glad that you still have time because my learner licence is now due to expire it was only valid for 10 years 😂😂😂😂😂😂 my time is up I'm the first brown girl I bet to have my learner licence renewed

[@HKAMILAH]

I wouldn’t have ever guessed Aymen was 22… she looks and acts 17. Bless her.

[@tayyebamukhtar8521]

Consequently, the pressure on elder sis to figure out college, uni, job also also be a good daughter (washing,laundry, vaccuming, organising, cleaning) plus she should be welcoming and does not complain and obedient we actually fulfil both duties and privilege for younger brothers they just need to be independent. Not forgetting they aint worth it all that you do still if they do not get married on time or settle despite odds around.

[@kaseyq9846]

I totally understand your sister with the driving. I got my license at 16, because I was not able to take the bus to the school I was attending. However, if I had people to give me a ride I probably wouldn’t have gotten it either. I still remember that first driving practice with my instructor. I got so anxious that I could not think clearly. At one point I was turning left when he said stop, and he ended up using the passengers side emergency break so we wouldn’t crash. The man was stressed lol. I was so embarrassed. Thankfully my dad practiced with me after work at night. We def got flipped off a few times, but my dad would always defend me. He was super patient. Long story short, I took the official test and even the instructor said: I shouldn’t let you pass but I’m gonna let it slide this time. Fast forward to now, my friends consider me a good driver. I know lol if only they knew. I can also parallel park with ease. You gotta just put yourself out there, practice, and not let the anxiety take over.

[@sobi-94]

Aww bless Aymen, she's so adorable mashallah

[@mehwishnaeem3385]

Aww masha Aymen is such a sweet girl. Wish you all the best for everything. Aymen and Ahmed mashallah resemble a lot. lots love for you Aymen 🩷

[@saltnpeppersprinkles]

Aymen reminds me of my 16 year old son. He failed his permit test twice. Plz make dua he passes his permit test next week you guys 😂😭 or else we’re going to be driving to uni together next year. A 17 year old going to university with his 36 yr old mother. Studying at the same uni. 🤷🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️ And Aymen ur so pretty mashaAllah! May Allah swt keep u all in His hifzo aman, ameen 🤲🏻🤍

[@unknown-rw8bm]

How is a 17 year old at uni

[@nidahabib6658]

help her get out of the handheld stage. i feel like you criticize the hell out of her. you are right, but you need to give her a plan to become more independent

[@amanscooking436]

The video we’ve all been waiting forrrrrrr ❤

[@HA-bc1es]

Please can aunty jee start some cooking videos when she’s better? Like videos where she shares recipes and cooks at the same time?

[@davonmitchell7356]

@wajeeh I believe generational differences from you and your parents can explain a lot and getting better understanding from each other. Momma Jee is baby boomer and we’re wajeeh millennials play huge rule in life

[@shivam220]

The expectations also are different because she’s a girl and will get married and move out versus the boys are expected to provide for their families post retirement and the boys have to get married so they got to be highly educated and earning high incomes

[@vsg5549]

How is aymen 22 like she is just a baby when i started watching this channel i remember when yall pranked ahmed with zayn malik prank😅😅😅😅😅 that was the first video i saw on this channel😅😅😅😅

[@sarahmuthana7551]

I’m really advising her to take driving lessons with somebody else other than a family member. I think the office of the driving lesson will do her the appointment and will take her to the appointment of the day of the test. It will be better than you guys taking her and she will hopefully pass it that’s how I did it.

[@fanisgreat]

Mans had a whole interview with his sister talking about himself lol

[@asmaosman7782]

I wish I was as calm as Aymen. I am a mix of mama jee and Wajee. 😂😂😂😂

[@ruqaiyasaba1123]

Please all the family together podcast

[@abidakhan5962]

Tell aunty to not bully the girl she’s a sweetheart

[@MH0724]

Maybe she should take her drivers license test at the Simi valley or Inglewood DMV. They are the easiest.

[@SpontaneousSana]

She is a normal person. Y’all are crazy 😂

[@SohairKhan-h6l]

This was a fun episode bring Aiden and your mummy g on again

[@evilangels61]

I am glad Mama Gee wasn't there I think she will be more open ....just brother and sister is great....

[@tajbirakabir]

Wow amazing experience to watch this episode today!!!!!!

[@wtsontvnic]

aymen is so pretty 😭😭😭

[@FareehaJavaid-h5r]

Wah Jee and family this was a lovely episode I just got my drivers license and I am in my late 20s so kudos to Aimen for trying at this age And I passed my written test on the 4th try so you never know she may pass the 4th time Inshallah. Loads of love and Respect your way!! ❤❤❤

[@badboy4412]

Your poor sister when asked to pick sides 🤣 reminded me of the lil baby meme - no hablo ingles 😅

[@YennP]

Hope Mama recovers soon ❤ want to see her on your next post😊 Your sister is hilarious and beautiful ❤

[@FossKhan]

Wajeeh: how do you feel you don't have the same pressures as me to provide with a house Sister: I was 12 my good sir

[@jennyartero5191]

Seeing how pressure free Aymen is compared to her older brothers makes me wish I had older brothers 😔, im the oldest 😭💔

[@edd8460]

Aymen c'mon girl! Go learn those practical self-defense things (there's youtube video's on that. what to do if you get molested/ grabbed/ etc) and take ownership over your own chores at least XD then hopefully you'll get an easier permission slip for the travel. and omggg the way Aymen went on standby mode when mama ji came on xD

[@nargiskarim2934]

stay bless beautiful kids your mum and dad have done a good job

[@hagfam3205]

Wajeeah acting like a proper Asian parent. 😂

[@mtiw5565]

Wajeeh! Great episode, sooo good to hear from Aymen. Good luck for her life, may she have a happy healthy life! Ameen.

[@sunsetlove287]

Aymen its ok if u didnt pass i think shes just being hard on herself and now shes feeling the heat but listen forget about what they say about you passing or not its ok just go take it yourself when your ready and dont even tell them

[@ramshakhan697]

I think aimen can try driving in a different state where it is easy for her to pass, perhaps? That just my suggestion ☺️💜💜 keep going!

[@varuntaneja7]

I am one of those people who started watching your channel after watching the KZbin shots of your father getting angry on your sister about not clearing the test and wasting his hard earned money.

[@ditabegan1500]

It took me not even joking 6 tries to pass the written test and then 3 times with the parallel parking

[@MIRARASHEED-f9i]

aymen chill, you can get your licence okayy. ive got mine but stilln ot yet have a car for drive so pray for me to get my own car this year and settle down in marriage this year as well inshaAllah ameen.

[@RoliChauhanOfficial]

I also passed my drivers license on the fourth try decades ago !! The only time I passed it when I didn’t give a damn about the test !! Everytime they would fail me on just one mistake !!

[@Eddy12700]

My mom is the same way she screams for the littlest things like oh why didn’t u out the dishes away why didn’t u do this or that

[@hana.xplorz_GB]

How old is she can I ask?? Please pray for me guys Im stuck in the theory part 🙏😭

[@fatimashah4962]

Mashallah mashallah aymen is so beautiful.. ❤❤❤❤

[@fatimashah4962]

My elder son is just like aymen very quiet nature but very smart ..❤❤❤❤

[@Eddy12700]

She’s just me still don’t have my license and I’m 27 and I’ve been procrastinating cause I don’t care for cars like that I been saying I’d get and 2 of my permits have expired in the past but this year might be the one

[@ssiddy93]

looool listen guys I used to say I dnt want to leave mom n dad i want a ghar damad because n I did hahaha my husband lives with mom n dad but when I moved I moved them with me as mom was bed bond

[@tinyworld997]

Love aymen and mama jee bond MaashaAllah ❤

[@sammyann70]

The pressure of the whole family is making her nervous.

[@Snoozy113]

There's a reason why women are advised to travel with a mahram, so to pressure her into travelling alone and being more independent is not the best of advice Islamically. Hence women and men are different, as men can protect themselves when travelling abroad or in the night etc, whereas a women needs protecting and security. At the same time yes she should grow up, and not think she's got older brothers and her mum to do everything for her

[@hemasingh2077]

We need part 2

[@dhanyalmahmood5878]

❤I love the video keep up the great work love from uk❤

[@kellybamang5101]

Love these family ❤

[@yaalia.s9033]

aimen looks cute obedient girl

[@zaii5814]

Thank you for forcing/ convincing her 😂❤️ Aymen you are soooo adorable 🥰

[@aleenajilani5083]

finally aymennnn !!!

[@luxuriantTV]

I’m glad I’m not alone with it comes to the drivers license everyone harasses me to get it but that just puts more pressure one me but I’m try my best inshallah I get mine soon

[@Amna2662]

I am a brown girl.. and passed my driving test in AL in first attempt. Can drive stick and auto both.

[@ZunarahRehman]

my friend failed the test 5 times and we live in australia