Auvu Bula Re! You were brought up in Canada. Ended up in Fiji. The contrast is massive!!! Relatives turn up unannounced, and there is, from your Canadian pers..ve lack of awareness (?) of personal space. Mate I feel for you, in this time with Mum and the boys away, you'll learn a lot of your culture. You are a big boy U can handle it ❤😂😂