A lovely reminder for all the married/wannabe married brothers and sisters by Ustadh Nouman Ali Khan
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@SohaibWildanKhan845 жыл бұрын
I'm single my age is now 35 I'm praying and doing Istekhara now I want a pious Muslimah wife please brothers and sisters pray for me Jazak Allah
@sorayaassas57704 жыл бұрын
yalah yraz9ak azawj salih good wife yarabe
@CR-iw5gz4 жыл бұрын
Ameen
@asmakhatun43294 жыл бұрын
InshAllah Allah will send a queen to you, who will be most beautiful in your eyes, a house of happiness for you, who will be your smile, strength in days of tests (may Allah grant ease), who will be someone you have to struggle taking your eyes off, whose heart is filled with kindness, whose words are so beautiful they will take you over clouds, who will make you feel like king no matter what......InshAllah brother, put your trust on Allah
@ajr41654 жыл бұрын
May Allah except your dua Ameen
@Aleyna_3043 жыл бұрын
Don't worry akhi..35 is just number. Recite this supplication and do lots of istighfar. 25 Al Furqan رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَاماً Our Lord! Grant unto us spouses and offspring who will be the comfort of our eyes, and give us (the grace) to lead the righteous.’ [Qur’an, 25:74] 28 Al Qasas رَبِّ إِنِّي لِمَا أَنزَلْتَ إِلَيَّ مِنْ خَيْرٍ فَقِيرٌ ‘My lord, I am in absolute need of the good You send me’ [Qur’an, 28:24] May Allah make it ease for you. Ameen.
@mustafakarimi96 жыл бұрын
I find it really funny how people are complaining about the hmmming in the backround, but for some reason its not that distracting to me.
@yuusufzainab72214 жыл бұрын
It's kinda soothing and perfect for the sermon... Maybe because I know the song
@mohdshakur60503 жыл бұрын
Yuusuf Zainab could u tell me which song is it pls
@valentinzday9 жыл бұрын
If an open-minded Imam like him comes to my local Masjid, I will go to prayer more often!! Well said and put together for a younger generation of Muslims, Thank you!!
@rajababy20098 жыл бұрын
This is not about open mindness. It is about learning Islam and acting upon Quran and sunna. ....then everything will be Ok. ..
@mowizz1118 жыл бұрын
***** Does this mean we must all follow the sunna of muhammad and, Sura 9:5 Kill the disbelievers wherever you find them. Sura 8:12 cast terror into the hearts of those who disbelieve. Therefore strike off their heads and strike off every fingertip of them or even the hate filled Sura 5:51 Do not take non-muslims as your friends. Will that make me a good muslim ?
@realtalk6758 жыл бұрын
So true
@HajjiJesus8 жыл бұрын
mo wizz If you want to know about Violence and Islam, Google it and look what Islam has to say about it.
@mowizz1118 жыл бұрын
HajiIsse I have, and it says Quran 9:5 Kill the disbelievers wherever you find them. Quran 5:51 Do not take non-muslims as your friends. So basically the quran is pile of hate filled bullshit.
@zanaxox66596 жыл бұрын
i didnt even notice background noise . great video i cannot express how much grateful i am. thank you
@mohamedhashim91832 жыл бұрын
His name is Nouman ali khan .
@Shyamalz9 жыл бұрын
When he mentioned the smile after work, its true very true
@snowflake86293 жыл бұрын
True BUT it also applies to the men. I've seen it with my own eyes. My dad comes home/wakes up etc, and he's always in a bad mood rarely smiles, whereas the rest of us his family his wife are smiling, talking laughing, and he comes in and spoils everyone's mood with his frown and constant admonishment. And mashaAllah with other people he's the most angelic jolly person you've ever met. How can someone put zero effort for the atmosphere of their own family??
@-saheehinternationalorisah49592 жыл бұрын
@@snowflake8629 nafs
@nicolenonya5874 Жыл бұрын
Yes. The best advice is free. I've done that whole smile technique for 18 years now, 😂 I just get met with a grumpy face. As a revert to Islam who studied Islam before I ever met my husband, sadly, I find most Muslims follow bidd3a more so than Islam. The part where he said stay silent? I think he should have put some context to that, stone walling as in using silence as a weapon is one of the horsemen which destroys a marriage. Silence to listen, think where the other person is coming from, acknowledge where the other spouse is coming from, then coherent response after & a simple apology stretches far more. Far too many mumima employ the smile tactic, get ignored then the man wonders why the wife just dips out.
@heapsofttech43336 жыл бұрын
Finding a life partner is probably the most difficult thing ever...
@crawlingboy6 жыл бұрын
leave it all on allah and then after allah your parents
@Elizabeth-jk4yj5 ай бұрын
@@crawlingboyparents? wtf
@Ahmed359567 жыл бұрын
Its sad that the young people today don't have the mountain of patience that their parents had.now divorces are happening over trivial and ridiculous reasons. May Allah grant us wisdom and patience
@raabiya15517 жыл бұрын
aamin Ahmed
@MagnumRoland6 жыл бұрын
I think it has to do with modern attention span.
@historynerd7549 Жыл бұрын
Amin
@yuunjac9 жыл бұрын
Not a Muslim but this is shared with me by my Muslim friend. I like this message. Unfortunately, there's too many woman are looking at materialistic gain and their own desire to compete with man that they lost themselves in the process.
@AnimeVideoEditor9 жыл бұрын
It´s hard to find a good woman bro. But it´s also hard for a woman to find a nice guy.. hard times we live in, eh?
@Eugenepanels9 жыл бұрын
AnimeVideoEditor hehehe ima good man waiting for my woman
@SustainaBIT9 жыл бұрын
one day a man said in public : when those women of the past would comeback again,,, talking about how bad women became these days, I've walked to him and said : women of past will comeback when those men of past-time comeback again. this happened in jordan where we speak arabic.
@aliputrasakera6123 Жыл бұрын
@@SustainaBIT oh iya kh
@mohamoudhassan551 Жыл бұрын
The good woman is the one in Deen worship Allah and fear Allah flow his commandes because the biggest teach of your children is mother
@shi32047 жыл бұрын
we need more people like you nouman and musft menik
@amidusawadogo19717 жыл бұрын
love my fiance so much he is Muslim always love him i am muslim happy to muslim
@lillah198 жыл бұрын
this was so helpful MaashaAllah may Allah allow the umm to benefit from this
@niftee11579 жыл бұрын
Irrespective of religion it is not right for a man to be looking at other women if they are married. Not only does it show weak mind, but disrespect for the wife. Over time can lead to a multitude of haraam/sins, arguments and divorce. What wife in her right mind will ignore her husbands waivering eyes?? If a woman does it we would get called all types of names and be held to account instesd of excuses being made!
@unitemuslims72323 жыл бұрын
Totally agreed
@farooquesher3 жыл бұрын
* Silences *
@aishahnor27475 жыл бұрын
SubhanAllah ... I've not seen this before! How very sweet! Just love to be married again! ... InsyaAllah 😍
@richardadamwais97347 жыл бұрын
from djbouti thnaks may allah blessed you this video is lovely because while I was listening I felt a strong emotion this video touch me my heart
@pramitirahman58227 жыл бұрын
MAHA'ALLA THIS IS BEAUTIFUL!!
@alexfedal9806 жыл бұрын
Islam is really beautiful. We only need to understand and apply the teachings of Islam. Wonderful reminder BTW. Thank You!
@rickybobby88458 жыл бұрын
thank you for this it helps more then most can imagine
@najla_radonc8 жыл бұрын
Thanx a lot ustadh... Really a life saver at a desperate point. Hope to incorporate these thoughts in my life
@fazibio9 жыл бұрын
Masha Allahu la hawla wala quvvata illa billaah... He just plays with the vocabularies.. Wonderful lecture. Jazakumullaahu khairan.
@ryankadharnauth32098 жыл бұрын
Mercy, and then silence. If she has any ounce of good in her, even an atoms weight, you two will make it back up. awesome advice :)
@DawahBroAustria8 жыл бұрын
Masha Allah great reminder! Going to re-upload this on my channel!
@silvotorestyles97288 жыл бұрын
I liked it when he said people use hadiths as weapons, cause it's so true... When people say you'll be cursed by angels the whole night.. It feels like as a woman I'm being attacked, and want I would like is not important as I'm not being given a choice or any kind of will
@TiffanyLaffyTaffyBaker7 жыл бұрын
Silvotore styles97 what is a hadith?
@foofoofoofoo-qf3zg7 жыл бұрын
Tiffany Baker Hadith is words or actions quoted from the prophet and his sahabah (best friends with good characters) as a guide to us.
@peaceethio76238 жыл бұрын
Love this brother. Your brother from Ethiopia
@sujanaislam63619 ай бұрын
Assalamualaikum! These are the most helpful when memorizing a Surah, please make these for every surah!
@samknowsgaming68449 жыл бұрын
loved the speech,thank u bro
@griffinclippers1073 жыл бұрын
Jazaka allah khayran for that powerful excellent speech
@cloxizxbarnov88358 жыл бұрын
Masha Allah Laura potter, I must say u are Avery courageous and out spoken person ready to find solution to her problems and family problems and I pray may Allah Guide y towards the right path, show u the lights of Deen and bring peace and compassion to u and ya entire family. Amiin
@khadijaibrahim10047 жыл бұрын
alhamdulillah av benefited aloot may Allah show him the right path
@ghabbielopez10007 жыл бұрын
MashaAllah very good advice I hear from you.! May Allah bless you
@shadakalo13272 жыл бұрын
I don’t think the “silent thing” works. Women always wants an answer. The “silence thing” will kill her inside and create more anger or confusion about what she needs to do to make it right.
@MrOracleman9 жыл бұрын
"Mercy and Silence"...Thanks
@sidrafathima4221 Жыл бұрын
Well put ❤️
@ramzcena96788 жыл бұрын
one month of Nikah my husband always talks about leaving me and says he hates me just because I ask for his time and he gives all that time to his friends silence and sabr is all I have left 😊
@rahmarafi46708 жыл бұрын
Thats bad...:-(.. May Allah give guidance to your husband...Aameen..i know what u feel sister..be patience ^^
@ramzcena96788 жыл бұрын
Jazakallah sister 😊
@hafsahassan30268 жыл бұрын
+Ramz Cena subhan Allah u r sending a smile facec when u having hard Time specially when he says strong words to u that girls normally get like omg cry be depressed .its amazing masha allah very proud of u but always know that allah sees you and he knows wt situation u r in and whatever happened to u just know is gd for u but we human don't know so saber is a strong key to success and allah said allah is with those who r patient keep smiling😊
@ramzcena96788 жыл бұрын
Jazakallah for your kind words In Sha Allah I will have sabr may Allah give every Muslim sabr and may Allah give all of us jannah that's the actual goal and that's why we are here so just keep smiling in every situation because that's how Allah will forgive us and give us jannah aameen 😳 Hafsa Hassan
@dawood.jarral8 жыл бұрын
so sad sister may Allah Shows him the right way and sister Masha'Allah you have so such of patience. your and my situation are same but the Story is different. Please help me sister. i'm not engaged yet but engagement is next year. and the girl i'm gonna get engaged with she already had a boyfriend for 4 years (that ex boyfriend is his and mine cousin )and that thing always repeats in my mind. i'm so nervous. and by the way we were meant for each other because the day she was born her mother told to my mother that she will give her daughter to your son. sister how can i overcome this feeling? when ever i met her she get hurted by me as i always speaks something that is related with her past and she be to me like i'm a human not a stone. i'm not able to forget this things but i do wanna marry her but i'm scared of one thing that will i keep her happy after our marraige. will i not gonna hurt her. guide me sister :(
@974fatimah9 жыл бұрын
inspirational.. ma shaa Allah!!
@evanbakr3787 Жыл бұрын
May Allah bless him and give him paradise ameen
@sarahkhan34578 жыл бұрын
very very powerful....mashallah!! may Allah almighty help us all. aameen
@koyibhiinahi7774 Жыл бұрын
Please always type ma sha Allah with A capital
@ManUnitedXtra_9 жыл бұрын
Amazing speech mashallah
@sportygal19919 жыл бұрын
Masha'Allah your talks are really gentle
@RaM-qs2iv Жыл бұрын
Husbands: it's not that you're not listening. It's that you're not listening to how she feels. One of the toughest but most important lessons to learn.
@saima1234359 жыл бұрын
This is amazing MA
@rubinaqureshi93565 жыл бұрын
Really a beautiful message. Alhamdulillah. Jazakallah khair sir
@koyibhiinahi7774 Жыл бұрын
Please always type jzk Allah with A capital
@ruqiyazargar46984 жыл бұрын
Alah bless us all with all his blessings
@nasmanzoor9 жыл бұрын
Jazak Allah. Excellent reminder.
@historynerd7549 Жыл бұрын
Mansha Allah May Allah protect our sheikh
@assifanur9 жыл бұрын
Sweet advice. Thx brother.
@itsmissmanagment35648 жыл бұрын
Aoa brothers and sisters! I have been seperated from my husband.my husband was not loyal to me at all. I tolerated 10 months but I failed with my patience coz it was going worst day by day. He just destroy my life. he gave me many totures. plz make dua for me. now I got khula. Alhumdulillah. my Allah save me from that man and helped me. i request all brothers not to cheat ur wives plz bro love them and give them respect. ur wives will sacrafice all for you. and u sisters have faith in ALLAH and He will do best for you
@itsmissmanagment35648 жыл бұрын
+Aufaan Romal its 24
@itsmissmanagment35648 жыл бұрын
+Aufaan Romal brother why did you ask?
@itsmissmanagment35648 жыл бұрын
+Aufaan Romal strange way of giving info and questioning.
@unitemuslims72323 жыл бұрын
@@itsmissmanagment3564 what is your age and from where you are ,? Which country which city ?
@ubaxadan63319 жыл бұрын
Jazakallah kher sheikh
@Purelioness9 жыл бұрын
I Love this speach. Jazakallahu khairan
@koyibhiinahi7774 Жыл бұрын
Please always type jzk Allah withA capital
@historynerd7549 Жыл бұрын
Mansha Allah Jazaka Allahu kheyran sheikhana
@melissamouchref34759 жыл бұрын
Definitely hoping your advice works bro!
@mohammadahmad90517 жыл бұрын
Great speaker Mash ALLAH
@jollychic. Жыл бұрын
Ma sha Allah love the speech.
@bhatasif78425 жыл бұрын
V true .....n very beautiful lesson
@khatamkhan16 жыл бұрын
The message is true, but also very simplistic. Both genders have to compromise. I understand the reasoning of mens attractions to women, but honestly it cannot be used as an excuse or that my wife didn't smile at me so I look elsewhere. The problem lies with communication. Unfortunately in my community spouses actually talking to each other is in many cases non existent. All that exists is this idea of duty.
@ricardomagath36407 жыл бұрын
This is effective, alhamdulillah
@human5613 Жыл бұрын
ربنا هب لنا من أزواجنا وذريتنا قرة أعين واجعلنا للمتقين إماما
@simoskimiha76188 жыл бұрын
لا اله الا الله محمد رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم.
@amethystiumm9 жыл бұрын
The speech is excellent.. but the background Hhmmm Hhmmmm is soo annoying, sorry!!
@rosebell82629 жыл бұрын
i agree way too annoying, i stopped it in the middle gona find this speech somewhere else. like seriously bro
@-Muhammad_Ali-9 жыл бұрын
So aggree. Hmm hmmm hmmm is annoying.
@rosebell82629 жыл бұрын
Lol :)
@harunaisayaro62879 жыл бұрын
amethystiumm hahaha....IKR
@abdullah0877 жыл бұрын
Totally agree
@atshams35679 жыл бұрын
lovely reminder
@shibilism7869 жыл бұрын
Nice lecture :)
@hudamohammad98143 жыл бұрын
I recommended your video to a non muslim looking for a wife. May Allah reward everyone who try their best to help out to spread the light and knowledge of faith. Ameen. Ya Rab.
@maryamalliy70868 жыл бұрын
jazakallah khayrr☺
@ishaakismail8874 Жыл бұрын
masha alaah may allah bless you ❤️❤️❤️
@maryam_wael_alharbawi8 ай бұрын
When he says "sad puppy face" genuinely valuable talk
@hgamingzaman98977 жыл бұрын
really good lecture
@ananpalma31488 жыл бұрын
MashaAllah...SubhanAllah
@nismaification9 жыл бұрын
Most men never try to understand what Allah Subhantallah instruct them rather all emphasization puts upon women .Its really good to listen this lecture.
@balqeesrehman40918 жыл бұрын
ya ALLAH, grant us from our spouse and our children the coolness of our eyes and make us the leaders of the mutaqeen, Ameen.
@historynerd7549 Жыл бұрын
Allahuma amin
@rayyannibrahim43948 жыл бұрын
beautiful. dahwa I love it,,,
@Mahmoud_Takieddin9 жыл бұрын
this z sooo truth insha allah ill do it ^^
@AdnanKhan-xq4kh11 ай бұрын
Ya Allah, grant us all a righteous and a beautiful spouse, Ameen
@Zaki-cm1rt9 жыл бұрын
ma sha Allah,, must watch
@sadiyseso19419 жыл бұрын
Good advice masha Allah
@travelwithraza80002 жыл бұрын
Much appreciated
@putrilajuna7 жыл бұрын
jazakumullah khairan ustadz
@shafialam54622 жыл бұрын
thank you ustad nauman
@abdullaali23609 жыл бұрын
Quran (Surah An-Nisaa' chapter 4, The Women, verse 34): Men (males) are responsible for women (females) because of what Allah has given one over the other (in strength) and they (males) spend (for females maintenance) from their wealth. So righteous women are obedient (to Allah), guarding in (husbands) absence what Allah wants them to guard. But for those (wives) from whom you observe arrogance and refusal, admonish them; (if they persist), leave their beds; and (lastly), tap (percuss) them. But if they comply, seek no further means against them. Indeed, Allah is ever Exalted and Grand
@sabinahamim25197 жыл бұрын
really nice noe
@moonthiyamoom80398 жыл бұрын
...i learned alot...
@mohammadazeemuddin96238 жыл бұрын
We first listen him and then give comment
@ruxiadakash28669 жыл бұрын
Ma sha Allah..that is so true...thanks a lot brother may Allah bless you😊
@mohammadazeemuddin96238 жыл бұрын
He said truth and truth relation of wife and husband. I mean duties of husband & wife
@khayam9119 жыл бұрын
haha love this video subhanAllah!
@khadijaaithmid5536 Жыл бұрын
alhamdolilah KZbin suggested this video to me
@mohamed.farooq52148 жыл бұрын
great speach
@rojinaakhter83944 жыл бұрын
SubahanAllah SubahanAllah SubahanAllah
@hussainnhussain49064 жыл бұрын
Well I am watching in my phone but I felt like This man is infront of me.
@aaeesha176isamil77 жыл бұрын
masha Allah jazaka
@ifad84028 жыл бұрын
Alhamdulillah
@TrainingTips09 Жыл бұрын
His wife is so lucky Ma sha Allah
@bailinaanta99509 жыл бұрын
BESMILLAHE MASHA ALLAH INDEED NO DOUBT IT
@mahdiahmedi50829 жыл бұрын
very good
@Eugenepanels9 жыл бұрын
holy shit this happened to me two days ago my mom called me screaming at me to get a job done which i completed for her few weeks prior but it required to do it again i told her not now later she went on and on about something totally outside of the topic so i became silent and hung up the phone and started complaining to Allah about it. WHEN I REACHED HOME HER ATTITUDE CHANGED FOR THE BETTER AND SHE WASN'T COMPLAINING ANYMORE. and infact she made me food hahahah ALLAHUAKBAR
@Eugenepanels9 жыл бұрын
i guess i will do the same with my future wife
@786inspirations75 жыл бұрын
🤔
@fatoujack64097 жыл бұрын
marsha Allah such an inspirational MSG
@JaefarSABNW7 жыл бұрын
I don't know of anyone who was actually in love and fell out of love. A crush or even infatuation comes to an end. Being in love may include the body, wealth, and status, but it relies on a character that is loved enough to maintain that when the chemical reactions based on the other three and mutually having children fade. Both feminist and chauvinist fail, because of their lack of respect for and even acknowledgement of mental and physical differences between the sexes. A religious or even an observant person does better in social duties, because it is not just for them or the other person, but they will try to do what is right regardless.
@waleedjamil57599 жыл бұрын
ameen Subhan Allah
@annisaramita75978 жыл бұрын
"Hasbunallah wani'mal wakil" ( details Ali imron 3:173 ) this mean Only Allah enough for me, only Allah enough for me, he will guide me, help me, taking care of me, give me a clue ,give me rizqi (money, living etc), give me anything that i need, he will comfort me, knowing me confuse, scare , help my family and give me solution... When you hope from human... something will be ruin... When you love something to much.... something will be ruin... i only hope Allah swt. I love Allah swt. "Hasbunallah wani'mal wakil".... Subhanallah... i get great Husband and now i get preagnant... i pray together with him... study Al quran together... he also actually before my College friend... we study together... so... we talk about ikhtiar dunnya together... and Akhirat together... Hope Allah swt always bless us ... Al - Fatehah.. Hasbunallah wani'mal wakil- Syukron Ya Allah swt... Alhamdulillah... #hope every one here have happy married that Allah swt ridho (Bless)
@annisaramita75978 жыл бұрын
hope i do always... can be wife that Allah swt bless it for My husband... insyallah... Guide me Allah swt...
@haleemai8 жыл бұрын
+Annisa Ramita I pray your duas are answered and Allah bestows His blessings and mercy on you in abundance in Sha Allah. I love your comment and its sincerity xxx
@shagaffaridi15304 жыл бұрын
Masha Allah
@christinapaulabete90377 жыл бұрын
that's really true
@zraj34336 жыл бұрын
A man should be able to clean after himself and help his wife with the house chores and children... that's what will make a happy marriage long term