Was JLo's New Movie Really Necessary?

[@miriammitchell1356]

I am a therapist, and this was an excellent analysis! A person attracts the love they think they deserve, and Jennifer is lost within and is trying to heal that extrovertedly instead of spending time with herself and looking within.

[@YourBetterMatch]

And I appreciate your feedback!

[@miriammitchell1356]

Of course, you’re welcome.

[@Nichwilly23]

Your perspective is negative. 😢

[@Nichwilly23]

My positive mindset: get this: I’m not a therapist A person attracts the love they think they deserve And Jennifer is a woman IN total control of herself and her emotions, relationships , motherhood, work ethic etc. And her intention is to spread love joy kindness Because I know that is mine so it exists 😊

[@miriammitchell1356]

@@Nichwilly23 I understand why you may think that, but it is challenging to watch someone in pain going around the issues of their life instead of through it.

[@CathleenRandolph-ye5km]

Is anything Jennifer Lopez does ever really necessary?

[@YourBetterMatch]

😆

[@SnowWhite-MVP16]

This comment 🙌🏻 😂😂😂😂

[@B-ch6uk]

You would have to be a narcissist to make a movie about your love life. Why does she think people really care that much?

[@Unlike230]

Well said

[@annatetiad.4991]

That's true - if your love life is so good, why the need to tell everyone? Obviously it's not all it's cracked up to be.

[@msell2682]

The previews keep popping on my TV, saying that we asked about her being a hopeless romantic, and I gotta say, the thought never crossed my mind. It's actually never come up in conversations that I've ever had or ever overheard anyone else talking about it. Instead of her doing a movie about something relevant. It feels like she's trying to gaslight us into believing that we had these questions that we didn't have. Do you know how many people habitually switch partners. It's so common that I've never been invested in any celebrity's relationship.

[@vanessita4138]

It's giving midlife crisis. You say you're not a therapist but I follow many psychologists, body language experts and like content. Your take on this movie and the possible reasons behind its existence seems to be accurate on many levels. We can only speculate of course. But I see your point

[@YourBetterMatch]

Thx hun I appreciate my viewers so much🥰

[@46foryounger]

You hit the nail on the head. She keeps talking about how she had to go through this and that to get where she is but the truth is she’s in the same place. One of the key examples of that is when she got on stage and she was gushing over Ben I’m like why are you gushing over him when you’re the one that did all the work she just has absolutely no self-love or self-worth and I just don’t understand why she’s saying that you made me believe in myself you need to believe in yourself she’s acting in the movie like she learned, and she spend time alone, and she never spend time alone ever.

[@deniseeugene1852]

Desperation looks and feels different for everyone.

[@la_baby_khalil7703]

😬 I heard her CD Flopped, it didn't do well!!! Actually, Sofia Vergara is@number #1 for movies, and in music it's Karol G, Beyonce, and Shakira STILL...Amen!!! 🙏🤗🙏

[@TeamTracPack]

The Liz Taylor comp 🎯 most definitely the new one of our generation 😂 nailed!

[@UnschoolingtheSpitz]

Such a great point about what kind of relationship you’re going to find in Hollywood

[@caliblue2]

Like looking for water in hell😆

[@roarul]

Girl, you are sooo on point!!! The "movie" was a mental and visual DIARRHEA. It was disturbing to watch

[@YourBetterMatch]

It wasn’t completely bad😂. It was more superficial than needed is all. Wish she would have been less Ai and more focused on speaking and sharing in a less flamboyant way.😁🫶😊

[@mariahpiper]

The clips show that it's all over the place, so I'm not interested in watching. I'm confused because she has not been alone and does not seem to have learned to love herself first. It seems she has still placed all her happiness in her husband. She's telling the audience she learned she had to love herself first before she could find "true love", but has she really? I don't think so. I do hope her marriage with Ben Affleck works out. It would be devastating for her, I'm sure, if it didn't.

[@yvie9627]

I have second hand embarrassment 🤦🏾‍♀️ thank you for saving my time. In the words of Tony Gaskins Jr “true love is not found, its created”. Thats the missing link for JLO.

[@YourBetterMatch]

🥴🙃😊me too ! It was bad

[@PascaleLaurent81]

You’re both off track. “ true love “ is self love. Why can’t you believe what she says is true for her. Your opinion is irrelevant. It’s HER belief about HERSELF. You miss the entire point of her film. All the failed relationships came down to one, her and Ben’s. The one she always wanted. Ben always look unhappy because of the paparazzi and cameras are always looking and he hates that. Some people don’t mind others do, he does. Yes he’s a public figure, yes he’s an actor but it doesn’t mean you have to like it and pretend you do.

[@jsad191]

She is a narcissits. Eh.

[@colleen2671]

And if she really had talent - she wouldn't have to work on whatever everyday! She goin gym! She goin studios! She goin everywhere and doin everything - If she took 2 years off - she'd have to go back to the gym, back to singing lessons! You don't have to do these things when you have talent!

[@coloradopadilla4223]

Bruhhhhh 😂😂😂Not guru!!!! Man she also puts Ben on a pedestal way too much expected, and That’s why Ben always has a look of wtf!!!! 😬 Because Ben wants simplicity, and Jen wants fame.

[@TeamTracPack]

Selena was her best project for sure ⚡

[@DianneBondyYoga]

I wonder if Selena wasn't murdered if she would have such a huge career?

[@debramedeiros3360]

@@DianneBondyYogaI believe absolutely No! She basically hijacked Selena’s would be career, but Selena actually could sing beautifully

[@carmencortese5441]

I was curious and with all the hype, I watched it. What a waste of time. Ridiculous and boring

[@jsad191]

This was actually great. Very refreshing. Well done 👏👏 saying exactly what i think

[@TheRealMcCoyAndChipsAhoy]

"We all love her" .....DO we? LOL

[@MsMVH]

I watched and initially was looking forward to it. I underdstand the premise, but this movie? Video? Was *beyond.* I couldnt articulate what i just saw. I ended thinking, she says she's an "artist." So perhaps I dont get her artistry. Heavily influenced by Britney and some old school Miss Janet plus her own analysis of her relationships disguised as "I'm a hopeless romantic." Girl.... Loved your take and honesty 100%. You said exactly what i couldn't put into words but thought. 💜

[@YourBetterMatch]

You did a fine job right in this text! 😃

[@HealthglowsNet]

I love Jenny, but you girl couldn't have said it all better. Hahahaha, I love your take on living in huge mentions! (which is super selfish and unnecessary on so many levels) And this Indian guy - I am with you!

[@YourBetterMatch]

🫶 thx for your feedback

[@debramedeiros3360]

She’s in love with everyone except herself!

[@gwentaylor2396]

I love jlo all the way she is Queen of music

[@youknowwhatflav9916]

I thought it was cute! She gave us visuals ,fashion and dance.

[@YourBetterMatch]

She gave visuals but with all due respect it was mostly cgi! And At times I knew that she was so filtered it was impossible to distinguish her from her 20 year old self😟😔. It would have been better had she truly shown herself NOW! You have a movie saying this is me NOW and then show a filtered version 🙃

[@YourBetterMatch]

But hey I appreciate you coming on here to help a sista out and commenting 🙏❤️

[@jsad191]

@@YourBetterMatch haha exactly. What a great response 👏👏👏

[@caliblue2]

A hopeless romantic is someone who projects onto others what they hope to find in themselves. The way you seek that person who will finally see the real you and love and cherish you while keeping enough space for the sexual tension and growth. Looking for that perfect formula that lasts forever. Magical thinking is a response to OCD - Jen was raised to be a workaholic so as she obsessively works that same energy plays into relationships where everything has to be building to the next magical thing. I imagine it would be hard to just relax and be as her partner. Great review😘

[@200555280]

You are too analyzing. She is not defending her choices but rather show how it was wrong. Judging her marriage based on paparazzi photos which they pick and choice is not accurate.

[@YourBetterMatch]

Ok! But you are here and analyzing my analysis. So what does that make you 🥴😆. Girl we all have opinions. I am a publicist by trade. So if you don’t care for my channel there is a way to minimize your viewership . I am not forcing anyone to watch

[@la_baby_khalil7703]

​​​🙏🤗🙏 I wish you would play the whole film, and analyze it verbatim, that would be beautiful...I'd love that, I wouldn't pay to watch this, sorry, BUT, Sofia Vergara anytime 👏😘...YES, she deserves it 🍿🥇🏆!!! But, NOT J.Lo, I stopped watching her movies after The Back-Up Plan/Second Act...I have no interest in her anymore (boring), and she hates/jealous on other Women so badly...😮🤔😬

[@FrostyDufour]

I'm of two minds about JLo. She's energetic and focused, with an inspiring work ethic. To the point of maybe being a workaholic. So I also wonder is she avoiding herself on some level?

[@All.Natural.]

People are draggin tf out of her! My goodness!

[@YourBetterMatch]

The tiktokers have come with receipts. Did you see the lady who did the real vocals for Jenny on Block and like 4 other songs ? 😮 That shit even shocked me!

[@Lucy-lt1yv]

When there is addiction there is no true love. Why? Bc the addiction IS THE MOST IMPORTANT THING. Consequently the partner CAN NOT BE THE PRIORITY Jlo ju

[@petraperez8729]

I have to give it to you, watching the entire movie, I am full latina and I don't give a care about her, I am not proud about nothing of her, I thing she is a good looking woman yet have no talent, I am guessing with help from people and her good looks seems like she has learn how to navigate the show businesses machine. If somebody has to spend all that money to make a movie to justified all her relationships... man! that is wrong (Elizabeth Taylor didn't do) but she has had poor choices making (producing, writing and acting) movies like "El cantante" Jlo's career is full of mishaps from the association with criminal P diddy (and I'm sure Jlo didnt get away without his abuse) to marring the man that not only cheat on her but call their engagement off (what can go wrong)

[@risaandjesus]

I think a lot of singers these days are not great singers and they have become very successful and have number one songs and awards. But, for the past decade and a half. The new Queen of Pop just won album of the year at this yrs Grammys and I think her voice is extremely mediocre and very overrated as an artist. I think Jlo is a very talented dancer and actress, as a singer she’s ok. But, her songs are good. The trend in music is rapping and how good and relateable your songs are. It’s not even about how incredible and dynamic your voice is. I blame the internet. Everything is so accessible and out there all in one little portable device. Everything is by numbers. The higher the numbers, that’s where the money is at. Jlo is an artist. She’s not perfect but she is telling a story. Everyone has their opinions and she can’t help it, she’s a superstar and she earned it

[@wendylederer367]

She earned it? That’s debatable.

[@Nichwilly23]

That’s all dark and negative energy …. Literally replace the negative with positive. Good grief

[@jakestroll6518]

Jlo is a talented actress. She is however the opposite of a good singer. A nasally thin voice that needs a great producer and lots of layering of real singers voices beneath hers. Puff Daddy and then Tony Motolla really helped to steal voices and songs on her behalf and then pair her with genius sound engineers. That’s the true secret to Jlos music career. So now 25 years later, she’s lost the industry top players who understood her weakness. Plus TikTok will expose her if she lipsyncs to someone else’s voice. So we are stuck with a terrible sounding album that exposes what a fraud her music career was. The movie is fine in the acting parts because she genuinely can act but the singing is painful and the lyrics cringe.

[@palomahealing5073]

She's not "Mixed"? Her both parents are Puerto Rican..🤔

[@jagrench62]

I knew one of her assistants and she claimed her back side was huge. That was long ago. She is pretty but IMO her sister is prettier.

[@YourBetterMatch]

JLo is tiny! Really small, most you fav celebs are slim. The smallest I’ve ever met and hung out with and barely fit her jacket was Carmen Electra. We used to party in Hollywood with my cousin😊😍

[@okoala62]

Great review and commentary! I wholeheartedly agree!

[@desiderata333]

I appreciate Jennifer Lopez' work ethic and talent. I do think she is very talented! The dance scenes in the movie were beautiful and as a dancer, I assure you quite difficult! She is 54 and dances batter than ever. JLO is human; we all make so many mistakes along the way. I hope she finds true happiness and maybe creating this project, will lead her there...to real joy and her true self. It is hard to know of she and Ben will last, because, I agree he always appears to be very serious and unhappy, as if it is too much to smile alongside his beautiful wife. Who knows what truly happens behind closed doors with these two, or any of us. I hope they make it, but he just seems so upset often. At first I found the movie chaotic and strange with Jay Sherry, Jane Fonda, and the others as the zodiac signs, but then I got into it like a fantasy movie and for the DANCE!...The "Broken Like me Segment" was my favorite and a lot of us can prob relate to that and the Singing In the rain routine too. Was that her house in the movie? I thought it a was glorious setting; like a palace. It is very possible JLO may have narcissistic tendencies or NPD. I have occasionaly wondered that myself, though I have liked her since day one and I find her motivational as a dancer and an excellent performer. Maybe fame and deep hunger for love and adoration changes people? Just imagine being adored by the multitudes? It must be really strange. . I notice her relationship with her mother, which appears strained. That is a whole other issue, though it would tie together with JLO's behavior today. Have a blessed evening. Peace.

[@YourBetterMatch]

Thx great feedback🙏

[@tj-8422]

Preach!

[@Ladysuspect]

Great video, I agree with everything you said.

[@catherinevanommeren]

🙋🏽‍♀️thanks for the review. I would have you ruined it and giving more details. She definitely went to far I trust your review.

[@YourBetterMatch]

It was really not necessary are shows how much money Hollywood has to waste 🥴

[@NatashaLawes-xg3uk]

Sanguru in Hollyweird 😟

[@user-so8hx8mo1e]

This movie sound so cheesy and corny. It sound worst than her other movie, Gigli. I'm surprised you're able to sit through it for two hours! When celebrities become famous and rich for too long, they become out of touch with reality. They make movies that people can't relate to.

[@dianesantos560]

I'm guessing she couldn't find someone to do it 😂 Talk about diva.

[@sonna2240]

I feel like ypu want us to believe your narrative of hateration!

[@LunaLu-00]

spot on!!

[@soulreadanalytics9781]

It's all programming dear 🛼