Watch as I discuss being married for the second time with my husband; Teddy Esosa Don-Momoh

Black Table is program host by my husband; Teddy and he features me on it.. Most of our previous episodes can be watched on ‪@LaraandTeddy‬ KZbin Channel..
On this episode, we talked about the challenges of being married for the second time to each other.

[@ruphenamiller2245]

Aaahhh this marriage thing ehn... it day sweetien me oh.😋😋 This kind of honesty is rare..she bring out both the man and boy in this guy.😂😂😂😂😂😂 Truly wait untill you heal because love is sweet when it is clean(free of trauma)

[@marychinda9081]

Trauma can blind you from being you...❤

[@AjokeMajiyagbe]

Honestly I was moved to tears as I watched the video

[@bukkyg8244]

Two becoming one is HARD WORK!

[@Carynne6969]

You're my role model I swear you made me believe in love again..there's hope I'll get married someday...

[@opeyemiadeosun8552]

I wish you all the best in this marriage, you both look good together

[@queenyemma1629]

Dear coach Lara, it's good to be organized. Spoons and forks are suppose to be in a separate place,so that you don't look for things all the time. One good thing about organizing is even if the place is dark ,u know were your things are.. that's why I love about being organized.... not to worry you will get to learn. I wish you guys long term marriage till death . Xoxo

[@patriciaoladiji]

Love the way you are real. Sincerly , this is what marriage is about. 2 people from different backgrounds coming together to see how they can work together and understand each other with God at the centre of it. Love you guys

[@aishatjenmi9320]

I totally enjoyed this session. Coach Lara,the cutlery should be in a separate place. I think being organized is beautiful and less stressful too. May God bless your union and continue to grant you so much happiness

[@tanishahaughton8977]

I was not hearing most of it. Was it me alone. Love the compatibility ❤❤❤

[@olumuyiwaojo3532]

Hmmmm! I just love this but no comment. Rather, let me sing a song for Coach Lara ... See what the Lord has done (2ce) What you waited for, has come to pass See what the Lord has done.

[@msk7458]

I love the strength both of you bring into the marriage but I will agree with Teddy about being more organized. He is right about the influence of upbringing. Absolutely nothing wrong with each other’s upbringing. We grow and learn.

[@akinkunmiclara339]

I love you guys...there is hope even for the battered....God keep you together in love forever .

[@coletteokoro9311]

I love to be organized too and i advocate for every woman to be organized, that's one of our strengths as women. I like to know where my stuffs are,i hate looking for things.

[@user-ft9vp2df3n]

She's the artist in the relationship, it makes sense that she's not too organized, I think that's how her brain works, she thinks a lot of things at the same time, while u think things one by one, I understand them haha. I am also not very organized!

[@panasamuelzira1019]

Chai Love is sweet oh, see me smiling from ear to ear. Awwwwwww God bless and keep this union 😘. Teddy please take am easy with the OCD 😂😂😂

[@Abayflo]

God intentionally doesn't bring people of the same personality together as we are expected to compliment each other's strengths and weaknesses. Especially in order to learn how to relate with others who might be like your partner out there in terms of behavior. I'm that Teddy in my home in terms of home organization. Hubby and kids throw things around a lot and never care to return items after being used. (Shoes, clothes, blankets, cups, plates, folk on the floor) painfully passed by it and never noticed those things. Honestly, it could be tiring, but someday, I learn not to complain and just fix them while praying and hoping they will learn to do the same. It will be 12 years on coming Sunday 10/15 that have been doing this, and God's willing, we're still moving 🙏 (Oluwaseun) to God be the glory. God bless your home, people!

[@DearCoachLara]

Oh wow.. 😂😂😂 Thank you so much for sharing. I bet the key is to learn to live together in love.. Happy Wedding Anniversary. May God continue to bless your home..❤❤

[@Molly_finds]

Love birds!! I love your vibes. It’s so nice to see the friendship🤩🥰👌 well done 👍

[@miracleidika6647]

🤣🤣🤣🤣 Never knew Mr Don-Momoh was this funny... I am sooo happy for you Coach Lara! 🤗... I remember when you shared your story in our church😊....God is the best match-maker! PS: I honestly think being organised makes life easier, however, moderation is key❤️

[@edidiongishola]

It is the intentionality with the choice of words for me. You two are blessed to have each other. 💕

[@esukamalaya]

Teddy na ajebo first first 😂😂. Every man get fridge for him room.

[@LoveGrace-tg2bl]

Thanks for the transparency! I’m a very private person so I glitch at every honest comment you both make in public

[@ucheiwuajoku1037]

There is attraction here. Good job guys ❤

[@maryah0422]

I love your openness……I think the second time there is a bit of caution on both sides…..which is sort of normal

[@lizzyo563]

Lara, bia biko, you are too sophisticated for what I am hearing ooooo. You have to step up ..... Pick up magazines on home making etc. Nor fall my hand abeg... The arrangement of furniture, kitchen utensils etc. should not be as it was in the beginning ooooo 😂 Obhia, Obokhian! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@kindnessducuray2656]

😂that vulnerability is showing..the hat clearly shows that this is not Teddys idea… yasss Boss Commandant Teddy Lara husband! 😂🎉I LOVE YA

[@user-xu2ow9ow8s]

Love is sweet, communication and compromise is the oil that makes a good marriage a paradise on earth. Keep up the good work❤

[@360integration]

This guy is the real deal. I watched this video because of him. Congratulations to you both

[@gemmaebube4221]

COACH LARA 🤣 Youre so funny. Youre also very playful and a good storyteller. I'm hooked to your channel!!! MAY YOU KEEP SHARING GREAT CONTENT THAT WILL CHANGE MY LIFE. AMEN. THANK YOU MA. MAY GOD CONTINUE TO PROSPER YOUR MARRIAGE AND KEEP YOU TWO TOGETHER IN LOVE UNITY AND UNDERSTANDING. AMEN. THANK YOU MA.

[@user-xu2ow9ow8s]

Research has proven that an organised space helps you think in an organised manner directly influencing productivity and profit maximisation in the work space.

[@bryte_lyte5762]

Wow...in a good way, the way you relate with each other is highly exemplary, Long may it continue in Jesus name. Amen

[@bukkyg8244]

Village vs Villa! Ouch 😅 Coach Lara…organization is key. Everything must have a home. Adjust darling ❤

[@faithefeturibarituka2750]

Lara, Teddy is indeed a precious gift from God to you, your years of pains, tears, heartbreaks, etc is fully rewarded ❤ with lots of love, Joy, laughter 🎁 I pray God smiles really nice on your union.

[@abuwinner-vw8dr]

Ohhh God, my chest😩...my hands were on my chest throughout 😅....God, I just love you two!!!❤️

[@favourchristian8561]

Una don make marriage start to dey hungry me. God bless your union and keep you both together forever ❤

[@DearCoachLara]

Amen 🙏

[@ajifamily6776]

To say this is one thing i am trying to understand about my husband after being married for 10 years... how can a man just be cleaning like alafise? 🤷‍♀️ Ok, now that I know I am not the only one on this table, let me keep enjoying it🤣

[@eugeniamarianyeboah951]

I look forward to seeing you guys in your upteenth and 20ths. Keep the flame of 2nd chance burning

[@ifeomaoffor1894]

I agree 100% that the cutleries should be separated. I also agree that the you should have some of your food should be kept in your room for a quick fix. It's how I live... Lara you're behaving like a village woman but I love like that...😂😂😊

[@ZaphenathpeneahNJ]

This is so educating yeah things have changed my dear sister try to adopt his style too your life will be sweet. I learnt in the seminar of marriage that you must live kings and queens and in those Castles you don't litter things spoons put in a particular place fork different location that's how advanced it is your husband is right and orderly

[@audreykyte]

Hello Coach Lara, I just came across this and decided to watch because I am about to renew my vows soon, well i enjoyed it, but I must say I do agree with your Husband, if you have a place for things then use it, I agree if you want a spoon, knife , cup or anything at all you should know where to find it, being organized is a Beautiful thing, as a wife I know this to be true.

[@yvonneadeleke-fayose4731]

I can relate with teddy o. I’m exactly like that with organising . I love your very real disposition. Praying for enduring grace for you both.

[@myview9835]

Village versus Villa I love this

[@esukamalaya]

He is truly committed. Thats why he said "either you stay or you stay..... It's yes or yes..."

[@user-iw2uw5dp8e]

😂😂😂 but Lara how can you tell him how he felt … that’s right teddy 100 percent alll the wayyyyyyyy … watching all the way form the U.S.

[@DearCoachLara]

😂😂😂😂😂😂 Thank you for watching ❤❤

[@seunaina4132]

Marriage is hard work Mehn!

[@pearlziddah9313]

Awwww....Amazingly beautiful couple ❤

[@naturalnikki8675]

I agree with your husband about the kitchen and silverware needing to be organized.

[@vcj8096]

Your husband is my twin brother in traits, the same color, not to talk of same tribe. (We are all one family in Nigeria) we have VERY similar traits. My husband's traits are just like Coach Lara'. They are not dirty, but, omo, they just DON'T CARE, lol, chai, my husby can push dried clothes to one side of the bed and sleep in PEACE, it can wait till tomorrow, while, me, hey God! I'm super frenzy about the sight of the clothes being there, snatching them out, while running my mouth. It's funny how God pairs people like these together. It's the best combination of temperament in marriage in my opin, and by experience. One thing I have grown to like about this Coach Lara' & my Husby' type of temperament, and now kind of appreciating it, not all the way there yet tho, is that, 'De nor de shame, at all, at all' aka, in English, there is no single shame or shyness in their game, and I've come to discover that, that is a GREAT gift God gave them. They will help you get rid of any shyness, in different effortless ways for them, and help you become your very best self. Dearies, as long as you guys can laugh at, & through your differences, your unique ways, doing things together, cabashing in prayer together, submitting every argument under God & his written/ spoken word, you'll be 100% fine, and marriage feels like Heaven that way. There is nothing weird or wrong with both temperament, I believe God just wanted us all to get rid of self centeredness, having things our way from our past headstrong habits, and learn to be understanding of someone else' idiosyncrasies or uniqueness, difference from us, and the why. My appeal is to your husband bc I have lived with those traits in a female body, and been in the married life for about 20 years and counting. Pls. Continue to learn the Christlike patience, not the normal human patience o, wey get anger join. Christ type of patience is easier. If you ever struggle with any ocd trait (we reject labels), just confess this several times as needed daily "I operate in the fruit of God's Spirit daily in the name of Jesus Christ." You go see the result, thank me later, lol. I dey declare am on purpose, nor be me devil won turn to crace for my own house o! Lol. Even tho, I consider myself now free, I still say it in faith. I'm honestly happy for you too, and I bless the day, that you two met. I pray & believe that your joy in marriage, endeavors & all ramification will be ETERNAL. Coach Lara, you are SO BEAUTIFUL PHYSICALLY, and in so many ways. Your husband should consider himself divinely Lucky he found you. I nor go hype my bro handsomeness like that, I'm working on that ego lol. Instead, I commend his 100% godliness, humidity, patience, authenticity and genuine love for you, in helping you grow in ways he deems fit. For fine, He just dey sha! He try. If you tell man say him fine, he nor mean anything to dem, it's as good as telling a wall that, except they are gay men.😅. Abeg make I waka, but b4 then, Love to the mamas. I hear that one, Obiomo, lebai, good to hear that esan again, that's my mom's solo verse that year. Mothers are too sweet. Shalom & Cheers to your unending happiness! New sub.

[@amandajoyeuse]

I love u my lady,u inspire me ❤❤❤❤❤❤love is real ...pray for me too God to bring my half..cz I know he is somewhere,God didn't bring Me here alone without my half...I love ur family❤

[@nkechimgbada7028]

And you can have some provisions upstairs to avoid coming downstairs every now and then

[@eroprincesschannel6302]

You two are funny people 🤣 😂 Love you guy's ❤ Thank you for been a good husband to your beautiful wife , my Edo brother ✊🏾 Esan Oyeee 🙌🏾

[@Ebenezer-TV]

That's the melancholy for you. If you can read about temperaments, you will understand him/her better.

[@ekoidowu3511]

Women don't change despite experience and age. They will never understand that men don't get excited about the occasion. The man's mind is focused on the contract, not on the papers.

[@antemelizabeth4543]

Thank you guys for being truthful . I really appreciate. Two learning from each other. There's alot of mutual respect in your argument.❤ I love that

[@EMMAKY]

Its good too see you and your husband on the black table. Its such an interesting conversation.

[@DearCoachLara]

Thank you 🙏

[@TeeGrows]

Let’s spoon be in spoon place oohhh. Why d confusion 😂😂

[@aiediasmedia]

Thank God for both of you. The light of your love is illuminating. Keep soaring

[@nkechimgbada7028]

You hubby I right. You are supposed to have organize your cutleries. He is been organized. And arranging the separately makes your kitchen organised

[@chukwukerezechinenye8883]

Sincerely I enjoy you both conservation. Is very encouraging. I wish you too good luck Amen.

[@erikabright]

This thing really works. #SBMH here

[@virtuengih1277]

Zheeee chemistryyyyy. Saaahhh😂 I could watch this over & overrrr. AMAZINGGGGGGGGG❤

[@elizabethdormenyo14]

I meet someone like this before very Organized 😂

[@user-lq1wv3js7u]

I love the vulnerability and honesty but darling its too early to put your relationship out there love you all🎉🎉❤❤

[@mesganar5231]

I love this banter & yet educational session. I am glad I came across your testimony in LadyAnn's platform on youtube. God bless you and your husband sis Lara ❤💞. I think am like you sis, I like to chill & then do a deep clean but listening to this I understand its very important to be organized especially in the kitchen. I hate it when people mix cutlery up!

[@adakwucromwell7269]

Awwww.... so beautiful to watch... Thank you for sharing....see me laughing and smiling by myself

[@wingfunsee1534]

Am glad I found this channel

[@greatnation4328]

Happy you are real with each other and that you found each other. Thank God for a finicky hubby. It's making you look very beautiful.

[@lifestylewithoj533]

Amazing conversation love you both,We want more conversation though

[@tamarhomes3891]

I really enjoyed this. I’m new here, learning alot❤

[@joylamson329]

@coach Lara you are so amazing with your hubby. Two powerful inspiration impacting in there own way. God please Starr this purpose inside of me.

[@catheyhailstock5223]

I can’t fine this one its needed to be shared I went from having a child at 19,14 heartbreaks, 15 abortions and a divorce to getting married again. Help me !!!

[@riskatadepejuismail9147]

I agreed with your husband about keeping the house tidy.😊so kindly do it together forever 😀🥰😘👌

[@nametsowendy9593]

Your star is shining even brighter family...God bless you more Just subscribed

[@bukkyg8244]

Such an awesome and real banter. I am smiling broadly here. I love you both! God bless and keep your union!

[@thefamilybusinesscoach]

These two are so cute together.

[@pearlowomieto4077]

This is so beautiful. God bless and keep both of you.

[@modupeharrisonobafemi4608]

Not all the times you go to the kitchen to eat but eat in your room

[@j-blessgeorge8925]

😭😭😭😭God of second chance I tap to this testimony in JESUS Name Amen wow your union is blessed on every side

[@nollymz9904]

Aaaaah😂😂😂😂 my sister now Are you for real why would you mix forks and spoons aaaha My brother is right ooo100%❤❤❤❤ love both of u

[@kehindeesther3200]

Seriously my hubby, is better too in the marriage than in courtship, my friends said he will change but he never. Separation of things materials things is ok, compartments, but shouldn't be too much.

[@BeyBey_2020]

I am just laughing 😆 and enjoying myself in this discussion and at the same time learning a lot. Thank you Mr & Mrs

[@user-bh1vh1ic2q]

This is cute 😂❤

[@lizzyo563]

Methinks, it is too early to put your relationship out there. WISDOM is PROFITABLE to Direct. I am proud of you guys though. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ May God keep you UNITED, FOREVER....

[@adaezeaguocha2054]

I agree 💯 with your thought. Why the hurry? Everything shouldn't be open for show.

[@charisbassey4854]

The genuineness is loud

[@xcellent-luks8642]

This is beautiful I love this marriage, God bless you two

[@DearCoachLara]

Amen

[@nyashakurasha7699]

I like the realness here.

[@lovendannachi2303]

🥰🥰Congratulations ma'am, i love love, and I must find that one true person who is mine so help me God🙏

[@user-lq1wv3js7u]

I love the vulnerability and honesty but darling its too early to put your relationship out there love you all

[@sidiangel805]

😂 I love this episode. I see myself in your husband 🤣.

[@DearCoachLara]

@@sidiangel805 😂😂😂

[@queenyemma1629]

I love you guys together ❤️. Beautiful.... I, too, love to be over neat, and I usually have a problem with people over that. Yes OCD is real. Learn to cope with it . I love you guys. Xoxo

[@user-zx1ej4qj8d]

I enjoyed this video. Thank you for uploading ❤

[@welovenayy7200]

Hahaha i love the transparency. This was lovely. May God bless your union. & Lara, abeg ooo. Pls separate the utensils. Pls keep the spoons with the spoons 🤣❤️

[@tukitukiya1009]

He is right you need to be organized spoons alone forks knives all separate

[@janeonyilo3811]

The cutlery should be separated for better Organization

[@ime5169]

I love this ❤❤❤❤ May God bless your union.

[@avatomlinson9124]

All utensils and cockery should be in their own place. Everyone should have their own stuff. But I understand.

[@priscilleouedraogo7161]

Huuuuuum. I understand him. He is a organised person.

[@bosedejoseph6611]

My Esan in-law

[@wendaoued8874]

Your hasband has a type A personality 😂. Thats all. You are a type B. More lay back. Type A can be annoying if you don't understand them. They like perfection. I wish my husband can clean like that😂

[@ujubright1982]

This is beautiful ❤️

[@bunmiakinwande2214]

I love you guys 😁 God bless your home ❤

[@olugbesoyeolujimi8475]

He is good man❤

[@Queenethsdairy.]

You guys are wonderful