Watch Before You Get Married

[@o_o-037]

Oh Allah, forgive all of our past, present, and future sins, Ameen.

[@smittywerbenjaggermanjensen69]

Got chills. This is the exact wording i use after every salah

[@kabadabo2098]

Astaghfirullah

[@Fatima_YNWA]

Ameen

[@aryand5585]

Are you a bot? You been commenting on ever comment

[@o_o-037]

@@aryand5585 I've been posting this comment on every Islamic video I watch for years.. Sorry if I made you think I was a bot.

[@awakenthegreatnesswithin]

To all those people who are looking for a spouse, may Allah make it easy on you and bless you with a beautiful spouse that Allah approves of - Aameen.

[@TheTheletterI]

Ameen!

[@saracarson9359]

Ameen

[@aahilindia3002]

Aameen

[@hainikhan8278]

Ameen jazak Allah khair

[@sarahandicoy1862]

AAMEEEN

[@farhanishraq9335]

People who need to watch this (parents) don't end up on this video. Rather we (children) are the ones always hearing these out.

[@smittywerbenjaggermanjensen69]

Exactly lol

[@sadmanrafi3775]

Unfortunately this is the sad truth.

[@10highsky]

Inshallah we will become parents one day and implement all of this 😁

[@haze1811]

@@10highsky U have to get married first for that to happen , bro..😂 And that's the problem here..

[@kabadabo2098]

Astaghfirullah. It shall come to past.

[@a-ishahamardien7236]

Mashallah loved this, I'm married 11 years since the age of 17 and I have 3daughters and my first baby boy is on his way inshallah, alhamdulilah very blessed

[@awakenthegreatnesswithin]

Alhamdulillah

[@TheServantOfAllah99001]

Thank Allah that he gave you an opportunity to marry early, many people want this but sadly alot of people can't get married until 23-28

[@nilofarrahmaty6902]

MashaAllah, did you get married in an Islamic country?

[@bellaspage8908]

Ma’sha’Allah

[@probrothergaming]

As salaam alaikum sister how is the boy May allah grant him and all your family members health and good bond between you guys

[@marwawickama7742]

In a world where you try to stay righteous it has surely become very difficult to find a righteous spouse

[@aakhtab8403]

Also there are many available people to marry but usually things like racism and tribalism or nationalism keeps many muslims from marriage( at least in the US)

[@abbysheyba8421]

@@aakhtab8403 not just the US, everywhere actually

[@kabadabo2098]

Astaghfirullah in shaa Allah it shall be.

[@salmahhussain7956]

@@adoringquran6267 there is no such a thing in the Quran. Many pure women are plagued with narcissistic heartless men and many good men are living agony with mean women. Your translation to the verse is very wrong.

[@prettyloubey8411]

Wow I thought it was just in the African-American Muslim community. I’ve been staying righteous for years and can’t find a suitable Muslim brother who wants marriage, it’s sad. No one values marriage anymore including Muslims. Well according to most 32 is to old for a women to be married 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@abbysheyba8421]

Most parents will never listen to this. To them, culture and how they appear before people takes precedence over the deen.

[@kabadabo2098]

Knowledge is important.

[@kabadabo2098]

Astaghfirullah

[@jannatidyali]

@@kabadabo2098 yes, my friend, yes, knowledge is really important, and really good,. My friend knowledge is good, my friend knowledge is like ketchup and the brain is like French fries 🍟, my friend you are the MacDonald, my friend knowledge is important.

[@시린-d4i]

True

[@muslimmenarecovertnarcissi346]

🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂

[@mrclips999]

Being a young person and listening such wisedome make me understand better what waits me.

[@kabadabo2098]

Astaghfirullah is good to say.

[@EverySoulTastesDeath]

wisdom awaits

[@kashimo_05]

Same

[@Riveringot]

Hey Hi Hello 😀😀😀😀😀

[@dangsaddah3617]

Subhanallah.. so.. nice to the ears..❤❤😊

[@10highsky]

I feel like there is so much advice that even married couples should definitely watch this.

[@keto-lowcarbtv2900]

I hope I found your video before everything, May Allah forgive us all. I am a Christian but I love your lectures they are so life changing and enriching. For a few nights now I have been listening and everytime I discover and learn new things.

[@sinanprof7264]

I am glad you re open minded to listen to an imam despite being a Christian . Inspite of the fact that I am a Muslim, I have just finished listening to a pastor on this topic and thereafter KZbin suggested this video to me. I glad to have met like-minded person like u.

[@keto-lowcarbtv2900]

It is always great to listen to God's word no matyer what religion we are... That is what our faith leads us, to love each other and to look out for each other not to hate...

[@unsignedtexture2668]

My late father, may Almighty be please with him and allow him to jannatul firdaus, had been so close to me to talk about both of our problems, rules amd thoughts. It helped me very much to be quite genuine, face tough enemies, problems and many other things. Please Pray for my father

[@yayraushgoldi7586]

Ameen

[@Spec-b1e]

Lucky you had that brother, may Allah grant him Jannah

[@Phenomeenah]

May Allah forgive his shortcomings and grant him Jannah

[@angeldelight55]

May Allah grant your father jannatul firdaus Ameen

[@gal_b5057]

Ya Allah please help everyone with their struggles, ameen 🤲

[@gemsofamusafir1824]

To the brothers who are waiting for a wife so they can fix their deen "brother fix up , why would you need a woman to help you fulfill your duties to ALLAH and remember death don't ring the door bell when it comes, so dont wait to worship ALLAH, do it now and the wify will come along anyway. To the sisters who are waiting for that perfect man to come along so she can be happy "sister there is no perfect man, you would be waiting all your life, you are blessed, you should find happiness within yourself and through the worship of ALLAH only then a Prince charming will come along and you both can work together to make each other happy.

[@unsignedtexture2668]

Gems of a musafir. Very very well said brother

[@akinleyeyinusa7058]

Thank you for the words of advice brother! May Swt increase you in knowledge 🙏

[@Amina-vo8vk]

jzkAllah khair for the reminder brother

[@yayraushgoldi7586]

True may Allah grant us both happiness and good spouse

[@GK-nc6rh]

Especially what you said about the brothers, T-H-A-N-K Y-O-U :). *Many* Muslim men intentionally go out of their deen for years and then suddenly want to get religious again and think that a wife will fix them. That alone tarnishes the reputation of Muslims who are not like that. Similarly for women, totally agree, many (including non-muslim women) think that happiness comes from a man and that's already a "failed" person because that's zero confidence.

[@rafeiamehboob488]

I'm looking to get married too but finding it so hard as I have kids already I do dua so much so do my kids for me can everyone else please do dua for me too 🤲🤲🤲 may Allah swt make it easy for all off us who are looking to get married Ameen Suma Ameen

[@awakenthegreatnesswithin]

May Allah bless you with a beautiful spouse - Aameen

[@Elizabeth-jk4yj]

Why do u wanna get married?

[@shakirakira9769]

Have nothing to say on this lecture have learnt alot inshaallah starting from now I will change my self may Allah grant you more than you expect

[@sadmanrafi3775]

I really love the intro adhan.i wish to hear the full adhan Such a melodious voice

[@DTKRDMNK]

I'm a revert and have been looking for a spouse for a long time, long before Islam. It still isn't any easier because now I have to deal with more different discriminations from different ethnic family members/friends within the Muslim communities too. I've been working on myself since forever and been praying for a Wife for a very long time. She has to put Allah first and foremost, even above me. Sometimes people try to make me feel like I'm not good enough but I know it's not true. Allah chose me through dreams so I know I'm good enough. The only thing one can do is stay on their path.

[@Amina-vo8vk]

I really want to find a truly righteous brother for marriage but I am struggling. Please keep me in your duas that Allah swt grants me a husband who is strong in practising the deen. Nothing impresses me anymore but a sincere muslim with good character.

[@zakarianoorbarrow7165]

There are also Good men who are looking for Good women ,

[@Amina-vo8vk]

@@zakarianoorbarrow7165 it’s starting to feel like they’re all taken 😭

[@ayxxn4931]

@@Amina-vo8vk Allah has promised to give you what you deserve. As long as you've done the things you want your mans to do you will get a righteous man InShaAllah. Allah created us in pairs. You just have to find him

[@HumbleLighty]

You deserve a blessed husband my dear sister, how old are you though?

[@eddygerald8765]

May Allah hear our Duas😢,is not easy the way we thought.

[@kabadabo2098]

Astaghfirullah Ya Allah. Thank you God for waking me up this time so much. For i wish to get married. O Allah don't hold me to account for what they say about me. Forgive me for that which they don't know about me. And make better than what they perceive about me. Aameen. I thank you so much appreciated. For you teaching me getting closer to my goals. Aameen ya Razzaq.

[@kabadabo2098]

Astaghfirullah ya Mujid.

[@lordy3162]

I don't even know why I am here 😳 but I'm so moved by this. 😭 Made my heart so full after listening to everything this amazing speaker had to say. The best 30mins of my day. You just gained a new follower ❤️ God bless.

[@inayaisaac1824]

The speaker is Mufti Menk.

[@huda2864]

May ALLAH keep you long with with more blessings DEAR sheikh

[@islamtube2672]

Dua for Laylatul Qadr nights اللَّهُمَّ إِنَّكَ عَفُوٌّ كَرِيمٌ تُحِبُّ الْعَفْوَ فَاعْفُ عَنِّي Allahumma innaka Afuwwun [Karimun ] tuhibbul `afwa fa`fu `annee O Allah, indeed You are Pardoning, [Generous,] You love pardon, so pardon me Aisha reported: I asked: “O Messenger of Allah! If I realize Lailat-ul-Qadr (Night of Decree), what should I supplicate in it?” He replied, “You should supplicate: Allahumma innaka ‘afuwwun, tuhibbul-‘afwa, fa’fu ‘anni (O Allah, You are Most Forgiving, and You love forgiveness; so forgive me).”

[@Rifmaista]

Alhamdulillah . He talked about my situation. May Allah SWT bless him.

[@ummuameen]

May Allah make it easy for our youth, May Allah make our boys more responsible , Financially stable and be able to give their family the best of their ability. I pray our girls be more responsible too and be good house wives and mothers

[@haketyu7891]

Nice prayer. But not every women wants to be a housewife or a mother, and this is a huge reason why they don't want to gey married becuz they want to have freedom to choose either option not be forced into one. Pray for Muslim men and women to achieve happiness and contentment not the specific life that is culturally expected of them. Pray for Muslim men to know the sunnah of our Prophet (PBUH) which is both working outside, and working in the household from raising children to cooking, washing, ironing. While his wives like Khadijah (PBUH) was a great business woman and a great wife who is the guardian of Jannah now. Women r raised to do 100 jobs while a man is only raised to do one. This is not Islamic and is the unfortunate truth of our Ummah today. Inshah'Allah may our Ummah raise sons to follow the sunnah and the women as well.

[@ThBeastKingofBeasts]

@@haketyu7891 it was just a dua for the norm lol. what do you mean by women 100 jobs a man 1?

[@haketyu7891]

@@ThBeastKingofBeasts I understand the dua was meant well. But praying for all women to become housewives is like praying for all men to become engineers. Like wt? I have no ill will just pointing out an improvement in which a dua prays for the well being of our ummah for peace, health and safety for our Muslim women, men and children.

[@ThBeastKingofBeasts]

@@haketyu7891 He was talking in general lol. And in general its true. So it was alr affective

[@aminmaxammed4448]

Ameen sister same for the both of us may allah make this ummah succeed

[@allahsservent3580]

No rush for marriage we have a whole life In front of us,work on yourself first,leave the rest with Allah

[@shad8161]

I liked a girl she liked too.. both of us told in our homes that we like each other and want to get married.. I don't have bad habbits no bad friends.. but my home didn't support me.. her home didn't support her.. her parents rejected me just because i didn't have much money that they expected.. both of us tried hard but in the end she got no way nd now she is going to married to someone as a sacrifice nd satisfy her parents.. i am mentally broken now.. my parents nd family ignored me they didn't even care the matter.

[@danishhameed8799]

May Allah bless you with someone better, ameen

[@modernwasnas9863]

I made dua for you brother, please tell me more about this situation

[@shad8161]

her wedding is tomorrow brother. 🙂

[@modernwasnas9863]

@@shad8161 tommorow? She is forced to marry a person she doesn’t love?

[@khalidabdulsemed4782]

I feel you bro. Why don't you try speaking to the person who is going to marry her.

[@movementofspirit9296]

May Allah grant kindness on the soul of his believers to a successful marriage INSHA’ALlAH ♥️♥️♥️

[@Design--om2zx]

Im 17 and i think that when i turn 20 ill get married , thats what my mother said . Time passes very quickly... I cant believe ive come so far in life. I really thought life was much much longer , but i felt like these past few years were just long like one day or less.

[@Design--om2zx]

@@oiyajiamv6736 I know more about it than an "anime football" fan.

[@Design--om2zx]

@@oiyajiamv6736 and I probably won't get married at 20. I might do it at like 24 but not less. If you are jealous, just get a girl, fool.

[@Design--om2zx]

@@oiyajiamv6736 look at the videos you're posting, you act like an 12 year old. And you call me kid? Lmao, kiddo.

[@awakenthegreatnesswithin]

We are near the end of days that’s why the time is going so quick.

[@awakenthegreatnesswithin]

@@oiyajiamv6736 do you know about manners and respect?

[@ashm441]

This is such a good talk the more I listen to it.

[@AsimibnAzad]

Ya Allah please forgive and cure my sins which I have done in my past ,present and guide me to be free from such bad deeds in my future days to come. Ammeen

[@FaisalWahedi]

We try our best to be as good Muslim as possible but it put fear in our hearts when we see our Muslim sisters and brothers doing bad deeds so hurt to get married in today’s day and age, I ask all the Muslim brothers and sisters to pray for me so I can get married with a Muslim sister who’s a good muslima amen

[@kabadabo2098]

Aameen Astaghfirullah is the best dua.

[@yayraushgoldi7586]

Ammeen

[@kabadabo2098]

Aameen same here pray for me too. Astaghfirullah

[@timelapse3828]

Don't start a Haram relationship. Haram is Haram. You can choose someone but don't start a relationship. If you like someone then let your family know asap. Hopefully you can start your relationship through marriage.

[@Abu-Kurdi]

@ you are a fasiq

[@inshafahamed9872]

@ shame on you

[@Abu-Kurdi]

@ why should he get himself a girlfriend instead of getting married?

[@inshafahamed9872]

@ why should i put myself in trouble, my parents are there they will do the Best

[@yayraushgoldi7586]

Please make dua for me. i want to get married but haven't found a spouse yet.

[@AmanAli-mi5ev]

This lecture was surely a well summarised pre notation before marriage, it was best lecture on this topic, Mufti menk explained it in a very nice way, Mashallah, May Allah grant us all his true and right guidance Ameen ❤️🙏

[@serreh]

May Allah make it easy for all those who are single with righteous husband and wife including my self and May Allah bless all those who are marriage and May Allah make it easy for all those who are having problems and difficult. Ameen

[@tarek399]

Prophet Mohammed (peace be upon him) said: “When someone with whose religion and character you are satisfied asks your daughter in marriage, give permission to his request. If you do not do so there will be temptation in the earth and extensive corruption." [Marriage, Mishkat al-Masabih 3090, At-Trimdhi]. Authenticated by Al-Albani. Prophet Mohammed (peace be upon him) said, "A woman is married for four [main] things: for her wealth, for her lineage/status, for her beauty or for her piety. Select the pious who has religiosity, may you be blessed!". [Chapter: Visiting the Pious Persons, loving them and adoption of their company, Riyad Al-Saliheen, Al-Bukhari and Muslim]. Authenticated by Al-Albani

[@rownakmushtari5632]

What about to choose husband?

[@madhuryamaa]

Listening to this to get guidance and was brought to tears. Thank you for the reminder that pleasing God should be at the center of all our decisions.

[@y4ska37]

Hhhh sister change your profile peace be upon you.

[@harrylorenzo1291]

@Maddy C.yeah you are actually right anyways I would love to know more about you if you don't .

[@simplyserena7962]

He is preaching preaching !! Yes 🙌🏽

[@piqueny8872]

If you can’t handle responsibility in your parents home. And have never put anyone before your self. Happen to live a me, myself and i lifestyle premarriage! You are not ready for marriage Anyone can get married for “halal” intercourse. Become an parent yet are you ready to share respect and help another person. Or live a selfish life

[@monicanicoleprince]

My goal is to be an honest, righteous, wife who provides my husband and children happiness inshallah

[@ahmadsami2927]

I am a single young man, I am 35 years old, looking for marriage and stability. I am from Egypt. I testify to God that if I find her, I will go and settle in her country.

[@haengbog6900]

I wish our parents could understand this..😄

[@MsPinkz2010]

Mashallah, this was a great watch. Really beneficial

[@yoursister99]

رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا “Our Lord, grant us from among our wives and offspring comfort to our eyes and make us an example for the righteous.” Furqan:74 رَبِّ إِنِّي لِمَا أَنْزَلْتَ إِلَيَّ مِنْ خَيْرٍ فَقِيرٌ “My Lord, indeed I am, for whatever good You would send down to me, in need.” Qasas:24 May Allah guide me to find the right one, who can guide me in Islam, be with me to improving ourself both Deen and Dunya, and together until Jannah, İnshaAllah. Ameen.

[@istanbulnights9396]

My parents don't allow me to marry a person, who has been married before. I don't understand what is the problem with this situation ? but sadly they said to me, they will don't support me if i go to marry this girl.

[@AH-kz3kq]

Sad reality that women that have been 'touched' by another man are looked down on even though if it was halal. As a man tho u dont really need ur parents permission but u should obviously get them involved because thats better. You know your parents better than anyone else i know mine would be against it most likely aswell but i feel like in my case down the line they would be more accepting and supportive. Do istikhara and remain patient ان شاء الله.

[@Younis1446]

Assalamu'alaykum.. If you feel its the right person.. go ahead and marry the person.. as a male you don't need your parents approval to get married..

[@aakhtab8403]

That is not islam,follow quran and sunnah,not parents if they are not in accord to islam

[@aakhtab8403]

@@hoshie5788 The islamic reference s you mentioned work when the followers are free of racism,tribalistism, and materialism .Many of these elements are pervasive among muslims,although it has no part in Islam. This often results in an many unmarried people .

[@istanbulnights9396]

First of all barakhAllahu feekum for your answers. I've given reason and evidences but my parents did not accept them. They said, only reason that they're reject her is that she was married before. No other reason. To person who i want to marry was very sad and we decide to finish our contact. She did not want to start a marriage with such "problems". I can understand her decision. So what is the result ? 2 persons who have not married and still single with an age 30.

[@AashYTFilms]

Let's say Subhanallah Alhamdulillah Allahu akbar La ilaha illallah Subhanallahi wabihamdihi subhanallahil aleem

[@lilyg4925]

Wow thank you for sharing this. Is is so true ! finally someone has the courage to say it. Hopefully many ignorant parents will listen and truly please GOD.

[@xiesaad3089]

But usually parents doesn’t agreed about what we feeling.kinda a prostrated about this issues.Alhamdullilah

[@anisaagustin4104]

I am adult already, i goes work, goes to campus at the same time. Tired to be new adult, i scared to be marriage. Heard this makes me thingking a lot of things. Hope that's bad dating never happened to me, hope my future husband propose me and ask my father first, hope he was already have wisdome knowledge and insyaallah, Allah will give me the best future husband. Aamiin 🤲

[@akhtars9602]

I love Mohtram Mufti Menk for raising the issues that no muslim dares to talk about. I hope parents are listening

[@huda2864]

Am facing such problems sheikh and I am 27yrs now and want to marry the one I love , hmm is a big problem for Muslims, MAY guide the upcoming Muslims with more knowledge and understanding.

[@Elizabeth-jk4yj]

Why u want to get married?

[@hannoh9451]

أسال الله ان يرزق كل شخص برفيق الدرب الصحيح زوجه او زوج صالح يعينون على طاعه الله

[@AdamAdam-yc6mz]

Oh Allah keep us in this life as long as you know this life is beneficial for us and call us for the next one soon as you know the next one is better for us. Ameen

[@rahmacheptoomagut1074]

Aameen Aameen yarabil al-ameen

[@hussainishaq7073]

Ya Allah bless us with good spouses. 👍

[@yayraushgoldi7586]

Ameen

[@awakenthegreatnesswithin]

Aameen

[@Protips4Life]

US born Muslim adults are statistically 2x as likely to be unmarried. I did a youtube (search "us Muslim marriage crisis causes and solutions") which explains why. The pandoras box has been opened, and we can only make personal decisions to succeed despite the obstacles. On a macro level, it seems an unsolvable and worsening problem.

[@fayazmd2333]

Duas for ramadan ----------------------------- Allah! I ask of You integrity and soundness in my religion, my life, my family, and my possessions. O Allah! Cover my shame, pacify my fears, guard me from what is in front of me and behind me, from what is on my right and on my left, over my head and under my feet. O Allah! Grant health to my body. O Allah grant health to my hearing. O Allah! Grant health to my sight. There is no deity except You. O Allah! I seek refuge in You from unbelief and poverty, and from the punishment of the grave. There is no Deity except You. O Allah! You are my Lord. There is no deity except You. You are my Creator and I am your creature. I try to keep my covenant with You and to live in the hope of Your promise as well as I can. I seek refuge in You from my one evil deeds. I acknowledge Your favours to me; and I acknowledge my sins. Forgive me my sins, for there is no one who can forgive sins except You. O Allah! I seek refuge in You from worry and sorrow. I seek refuge in You from impotence and sloth, from stinginess and cowardice, and I seek refuge in You from the burden of debt and from being humbled be men. O Allah! Make the beginning of this day good, the middle prosperous, and the end successful. I ask You to grant me the good of this world and of the Hereafter, O Most Merciful of all Who show us mercy! O Allah! I ask you to make me pleased with what You decreed for me return to good life after death, and I earnestly seek the pleasure of looking at Your Glorious Countenance and the craving to meet you, without distress or affliction or misguiding trial. I seek refuge in You from oppressing others or being oppressed, from doing wrong or suffering wrong, and from committing an error or a sin, which you will not forgive. O Allah! I seek refuge in You from the feebleness of old age. O Allah! Guide me to the best of deeds and the best of morals, as none can guide to the best except You, and save me from bad deeds, as none can save me from what is bad except You. O Allah! Strengthen my faith, expand my living space and bless me in my livelihood. O Allah! I seek refuge in You from negligence, degradation and destitution; I seek refuge in You from unbelief, wickedness, vanity and show; and I seek refuge in You from blindness, deafness and leprosy and bad diseases. O Allah! Give my soul piety and my conscience purity. You are the Master of my soul and the Guardian of my conscience. O Allah! I seek refuge in You from a knowledge, which does not benefit, from a heart, which does not tremble, from an ego, which is not stated, and from a supplication, which is not accepted. O Allah! I seek refuge in You from the evil of what I did and from the evil of what I did not do; from the evil of what I know and from the evil of what I did not know. O Allah! I seek refuge in You from a decline in Your favour, from a change in Your protection, from Your sudden punishment and all Your displeasure. O Allah! I seek refuge in You from ruin and falling, from drowning and burning and from senility: I seek refuge in You from being bitten by venomous creatures. I seek refuge in You from greed, bad manners, bad actions, bad desires and bad desires. I seek refuge in You from the burden of debt, from being humbled by people and from ridicule of enemies. O Allah! Strengthen my religion, which is my fortress, make this world a better place of sojourn for me, and grant me a good life in the Hereafter which will be my abode. Make my life increase in all goodness and my death a rest from all evil. O Allah! Support me and help me, and do not let others overpower me; guide me and make the following of Your Commands easy for me. O Allah! Make me grateful to You, mindful of You, full of fear toward You, devoted to obedience of You, humble before You, earnest in supplication, and penitent. My Lord, accept my repentance, wash away my sins, answer my supplication, establish my veracity, guide me heart, make my tongue truthful, and remove all ill-feeling from my heart. O Allah! I ask You for a resolute mind and firmness in following the guidance. I ask You to make me thankful for Your favour, to be good service to You, and to grant me a sound heart and a truthful tongue. I ask You to grant me what You know to be good and to give me refuge from what is evil, and to forgive me - and You are the Knower of the Unseen. O Allah! Inspire me with good conduct and save me from the evil of my selfishness. O Allah! I ask You to guide me to the doing of good deeds and abstaining from bad deeds and love those who are humble, and to forgive me and show mercy to me. And if You wish a trail for Your servants, take me to You before falling into it. O Allah! I ask You for Your love and the love of those who love You, and for the love of every action which will bring me closer to Your love. O Allah! I ask You the best of the request for the best in my supplication, for the best success and the best reward. Strengthen me, make heavier my balance of good, confirm my faith, elevate my rank, accept me worship, and forgive my mistakes, and I ask You for good beginnings, good endings, the totality of goodness, from the first to the last, from within and from without, and I ask of You the highest ranks in the Garden. O Allah! I ask You to exalt my fame, lighten my burden, purify me heart, keep me chaste, forgive me my sins and I ask of You a high rank in the Garden. O Allah! Bless me in my sight, in my hearing, in my soul, in my body, in my conduct; bless me in my life, in my family, in my work; accept my good deeds, and I ask of You a high rank in the Garden. O Allah! I seek refuge in You against difficulties, calamities, troubles, oppression and the ridicule of enemies. O Allah! O Controller of the Hearts! Keep my heart firm in Your religion; keep it contented with Your worship. O Allah! Grant us increase and not decrease, honour and not dishonour; give us Your favours and do not deprive us; prefer us, let not others be preferred to us. O Allah! Grant us the best of outcomes in all our affairs, and save us from disgrace in this world and from punishment in the Hereafter. O Allah! Grant us such fear of Your as will come between us and acts of disobedience to You; such obedience to You as will bring us to Your Garden; and such certainty that the calamities of this world will be made easy for us by You. Let us enjoy our hearing, our sight and our faculties as long as You grant us life, and let it be the last to be taken away from us. Avenge us from those who have wronged us and help us against our enemies. Let no calamity be fall our religion; let not worldly affairs be our greatest care or all about which we know; and Let not those who have no fear of You and who do not show mercy toward us rule over us. O Allah! I ask You to bestow your mercy on me, to forgive me, to protect me from every sin, to give me a share of every good, and to grant me the attainment of the Garden and salvation from the Fire. O Allah! Leave not for us a sin, which You have not forgiven, nor a shortcoming which you have not concealed, nor a wary which You have not removed, nor a debt which You have not paid, nor a need from among the needs of this world or the Hereafter, the fulfilment of which is beneficial for us and pleasing to You, which You have not fulfilled, O Most Merciful of all show us Your Mercy! O Allah! I ask for a mercy from You by which You will guide my heart, settle my affairs, remove my worries, protect me from what is unseen to me, make my face radiant, purify my deeds, inspire me with wisdom, avert calamities from me, and protect me from every evil. O llah! I ask You for success on the day of Judgement and a life of happiness, and the rank of martyrs, the companionship of the prophets, and victory over the enemies. O Allah! I ask You for correctness of belief; for a faith which leads to good conduct; for a success which results in eternal felicity, for mercy, health and forgiveness from You, and for your pleasure. O Allah! I ask You for health, for integrity, for good character, and that I may be pleased with my portion. O Allah! I seek refuge in You from the evil of my self, and from the evil of every creature which You are grasping by its forelock. O my Lord, keep me on the straight path. O Allah! You hear my words, You behold my situation, You know what is open and what is hidden within me; nothing is hidden from You. It is me alone who is in need, a humble seeker of Your forgiveness. I beseech You with humility in my heart, with trembling and fear, in prostration and utter helplessness. O Allah! Grant me soundness of belief, goodness of character, forgiveness of my sins, and Your eternal pleasure in the Hereafter. May Allah's blessings be upon Muhammad ( S.A.W) and his family and Companions. Aameen

[@Criticalthinker1912]

Aameen

[@Abdusshakur215]

Looking towards getting married soon. Inshallah

[@somanfaqiri8244]

Another reason for young men & women who can’t get married is bcuz we expect so much we want the other person to be perfect while nobody is perfect.

[@yayraushgoldi7586]

True dear sister.may ALLAH guide us

[@Protips4Life]

US born Muslim adults are statistically 2x as likely to be unmarried. I did a youtube (search "us Muslim marriage crisis causes and solutions") which explains why. The pandoras box has been opened, and we can only make personal decisions to succeed despite the obstacles. On a macro level, it seems an unsolvable and worsening problem.

[@zainabkanu3230]

Pls i ask u for the sake of Allah make Dua for me i want to married a good Muslim Man Insha Allah.

[@lrich2263]

Assalamoo Alaikum.......I am Sulaiman from Jamaica sister....insha Allah.....we could talk and see if we r compatible

[@zainabkanu3230]

@@lrich2263 Mualaikum salam brother how can i get turn to u

[@MLSBeauty123]

I’ve been searching for a while, with no luck. May Allah guide us to our soul mate. May Allah answer our prayers / dua in order to fulfil half our deen. May Allah steer us away from Haram. Guide us and always allow us to pick the right over wrong. Please Allah bring all our single Muslim brothers and Sisters our soul mate when you believe the time is right for us. Please forgive our sins and remove them from our scroll. Please allow our hearts to be pure and pick us to be the ones who you chose to enter Paradise. Guide this dunya , guide the non Muslims to find Islam. Ameen.

[@zahramohamed9468]

amiin thuma amiin

[@lrich2263]

Assalamoo Alaikum sister......I am seeking a wife....I am Suleiman from Jamaica.....prob we could talk and take it from there

[@lrich2263]

Insha Allah

[@yayraushgoldi7586]

Ameen ya Allah

[@Protips4Life]

US born Muslim adults are statistically 2x as likely to be unmarried. I did a youtube (search "us Muslim marriage crisis causes and solutions") which explains why. The pandoras box has been opened, and we can only make personal decisions to succeed despite the obstacles. On a macro level, it seems an unsolvable and worsening problem.

[@halam899live8]

Great video today keep it up your doing amazing job

[@kherojandahal1275]

Asslm Everything before starting U must have a plan To decide a best plan yr honesty and sincerity are the keys for a best future life!

[@sofiashami3039]

May Allah Swt grant us all good spouse and make them comfort of our eyes and us of them, ameen

[@armaanali5336]

I wanna marry this girl that I love she increases my deen so much but her family says no and I don’t know y please brothers and sisters can u make dua for us

[@ilhamhatami2477]

Brother, pray Istikhara for such a matter, as well as pray the tahajjud prayer, especially doing dua when in sujjod. May Allah guide you, me, and the whole Ummah 😊

[@Khalid_Mohamed]

@@ilhamhatami2477 AMEEN ya Allah

[@Khalid_Mohamed]

:)

[@zeus1747]

Run away with her if you both love each other

[@Adz289]

marry her dad

[@dinnix4703]

Im 26 im so stress about this i want to marry but i see this so hard in this times

[@heapsofttech]

Single parent aged 39 of two little kids and can not get spouse because women or their parents are so rigid and unaccepting. Parents are stuck in casts, financial status, race etc. People have made halal relationships so difficult, haram is made so easy. Keep us in duas

[@ibrahimsalamat2276]

May Allah bless you with a woman who would accept you and your kids and love them as hers. And also with in-laws who'll see the good in you and your kids.

[@楊吉蒂]

Very inspiring to new start to knew Islamic really is impressive to me allah blessing all

[@시린-d4i]

My parents are narcissistic and close minded. They care only about what they want and have in mind. They make sure my siblings and I get it through our heads that they are the ones that get a final say, that it’s their house we live in, that it’s them that bought this and that, that it’s them who have all the control and power....

[@GK-nc6rh]

Screw it and marry who you want -- in many cases, when you say whatever and push for it, the parents end up accepting at the end.

[@serreh]

Ma Shah Allah May Allah guide us all and May Allah forgive us all. Ameen

[@amlyn508wabobi9]

Lord bless my husband Assuman with everything

[@youssefouchtak]

unfortunately our financial stats are very miserable in the arabian and islamic countries (i wish i can get a guarantied job so i can get married because i love a girl and i am so afraid to not be able to marry her ) btw the same thing you said in the video happened to me and i can't stop loving her and seeking after her

[@HeadshotKillaa]

Brother, please continue to pursue this is in a halal way. May Allah bless you 🤝🏼

[@sadmanrafi3775]

Bro please be patience, i pray that you get a good job and you can marry that girl you like

[@youssefouchtak]

@@sadmanrafi3775 thank you so much bro please make dua for me

[@youssefouchtak]

@@HeadshotKillaa thank you so much bro, btw she is my best friend's sister and i will never betray my friend

[@HeadshotKillaa]

@@youssefouchtak of course my brother i will make dua for you tonight InShaAllah

[@zackriyah03]

Please make dua I really want to get married but haven’t found the right person Subhanallah

[@mre9908]

What are the qualities that would make a person 'right' ?

[@Hunredbandz]

@Mohammed Nasir Its actually personality and money

[@lrich2263]

Assalamoo Alaikum sister......I am a single Muslim living in 🇯🇲 we could talk and see if we are compstible

[@yayraushgoldi7586]

@@lrich2263 masha Allah may ALLAH conect you together

[@khalidabdulsemed4782]

@@yayraushgoldi7586 ameen

[@Meetingpeoplefive]

This is great, thank you Sheik.

[@islamicfinders5085]

First African to view 😍

[@ammaraldafari7368]

😞💔I cried watching this I'm so tired of everything I wish my parents understand this 😞

[@mahamjdi5515]

As I watch this wonderful video ✨.... To my future husband I promise that I will be a good, loving and understanding wife ever inshallah 💎 Oh allah grant me a good husband who fears you and protect me 🤍 amen 🤲

[@YKing-zr3di]

Where are you from?

[@silentraven4582]

10 months later, did you find him?

[@Protips4Life]

US born Muslim adults are statistically 2x as likely to be unmarried. I did a youtube (search "us Muslim marriage crisis causes and solutions") which explains why. The pandoras box has been opened, and we can only make personal decisions to succeed despite the obstacles. On a macro level, it seems an unsolvable and worsening problem.

[@khamissultan279]

Assalam aleykum warahmatullah wabarakatuh brother you always give out most beautiful speeches you always speak answer so many questions that know one ever even talk about them May Allah repay you with the most high Jannah🤲Ameen

[@smittywerbenjaggermanjensen69]

I fell for Shaytans tricks mentioned here. It took me almost 3 years to understand (i knew but didnt want to realize) that the seeds of Jahannam cant grow a tree of Jannah. In the end, when i had to choose between her and Allah and His Rasul, i chose my Lord and His Messenger Alhamdulillah. I am still heartbroken, but i am thankful as this literally happened when the last 10 days of Radaman started. But before that i already wanted to make it Halal and marry her. My parents dont agree with it. Not with her, but with marriage in general. As im a student, they want me to have a Job first (which i can understand, but i dont want to live with her instantly. I just want to make it halal and complete half of my deen in the first place. The money shall come in time in shaa Allah). My father isnt even taking the deen seriously. If i ever tell him i want to marry, he' laugh at me and call me an Idiot lol Convincing my parents truly is something only Allah is capable of. So...any ideas how i can persuade them in the future? Im making Dua after almost every salah already

[@silvertube4278]

Maybe you can say to the girl that you love so much, without making a promise, we will wait for x years till I finished my study and begin to work. If you both still love each other by then, then you marry and can be happy for yourselves. If you were not able to wait for the person you love so much, then be happy that it has failed... If you make promises then you are in this case in a beautiful debt. The reason that I am here is beacause it was a coincidence and i am also not doing perfect. I think that you have to be clear what you are doing and don't come too close of negative things... selam... aleykum.

[@smittywerbenjaggermanjensen69]

@@silvertube4278 No, i ended the haram relationship because i didnt know about the Dayooth. I read a hadith and some fatwas. She had male friends and i dont want to force her to anything. She chose her friends, i chose Allah. Told her to tell me if she ever decided to change her outlook on life. And may Allah make it easier for you. Amin. Wa aleykum salam

[@FR-zz2bj]

@@silvertube4278 promising like that is keeping shaytan's influence alive. Cut it off clean and give it up for Allah Ta'ala.

[@smittywerbenjaggermanjensen69]

@The Great Seljuks If i was strong, it wouldnt have come to this brother. Im weak, but in shaa Allah i'll become strong. May Allah bless you

[@smittywerbenjaggermanjensen69]

@ابو بكر ابن محمد البربري Beware of becoming too harshful though. Especially with your daughters. There is a fine line. If you get too harsh, you'll push them away from you. If you get too soft, they'll be misguided. Truly a highly difficult task. Never just tell her what to do, but explain it to her nicely and in a logical manner and try to make her love the deen. If she loves Allah more than she loves you, she wont do wrong without you having the need to tell her. May Allah make it easy for you and bless your family brother

[@ilovegames6487]

One day insha Allah we will find a spouse who will make us change our ways and get more closer to Allah. Oh please Allah forgive the ummah of prophet Muhammad (saw).

[@Protips4Life]

US born Muslim adults are statistically 2x as likely to be unmarried. I did a youtube (search "us Muslim marriage crisis causes and solutions") which explains why. The pandoras box has been opened, and we can only make personal decisions to succeed despite the obstacles. On a macro level, it seems an unsolvable and worsening problem.

[@ramasow1404]

May Allah SWT grant us a spouse who are conscious of Allah and fear of Allah SWT ameen 🙏

[@saharodon1087]

Oh yaa allah please find me the perfect spouse (husband) . Yaa allah please make him some one who fears you , who prays 5 times a day and takes good care of his family.

[@akinleyeyinusa7058]

Ameen🙏 I pray Allah find me a righteous spouse (wife) who serve Allah wholeheartedly too... May our prayers be answered 🙏🙏

[@md.akashali9223]

Got a lot of knowledge. Surely implement in my life

[@SULTANHABIBI]

JazakAllah khair

[@UmarKhan-mp2gy]

thank you for this lecture ....

[@margaretsamuel7994]

Am 27 and I reverted to Islam, I love this guy and will love to marry him. But our parents are the problem pls help me what should I do

[@GK-nc6rh]

Tell them "no" nicely and respectfully because you're not convinced or taking your time. Remember that they're not gods and can make mistakes too.

[@AyubKhan-jh4mp]

My dear sister I would love to know if you got a chance to marry the person I really hope you got what you wanted may Allah bless you

[@MohamedHassan-xz5dz]

Salamualaykum Islamic guidance Is it possible to keep that same background nasheed for all vidoes really motivating the second nasheed background in this video

[@grooverszn1364]

It’s sad to see, in some ethnicities tribalism has such an influence who a person marries. May Allah grant everyone a marriage which both partners will be happy and practice their deen. Aameen

[@islamtube2672]

Please try and recite once a day for huge reward سُبْحَانَاللّهِوَبِحَمْدِهِ،سُبْحَانَاللّهِالْعَظِيم- SubhanAllahi wa biHamdihi, Subhan-Allahi 'l-`adheem (Glory be to Allah, and Praise, Glory be to Allah, the Supreme) Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Two words are light on the tongue, weigh heavily in the balance, they are loved by the Most Merciful One." [Sahih al-Bukhari; #7:67, Sahih Muslim, #4:2071]

[@berenice6307]

❤️❤️❤️ what a lovely speech! 🙏

[@hafsah6823]

Let us not say parents will not listen. Go tell your parents.

[@hdstudio3736]

May allah keep us pure ameen

[@ahmadabdullah1194]

MashaAllah ho Allah for all of our past present and future sins Ameen

[@tahiraabbasi3593]

Great. O Allah bless everyone. ‏آمين يا رب العالمين 🙏👍🙏

[@voiceofpeace7658]

I invite everyone for quran recitation thank you💔🌷🌹🌺🌷🌷🌹..

[@survivalizer]

As a Christian I grew up in lets say, evangelical circles. They pushed "I kissed dating goodbye" by Joshua Harris which in my opinion has done more harm to millennial Christians than any other work on this issue. This video by the way, is some great advice. I think even non Muslims (but still muslims) could benefit from it a lot. I need a cultural translator though, as my background in customs is more on the jewish/israel side of things.

[@jenniferperez8043]

i dont trust my parents to involve them as a third party, because my parents want me to marry someone im not interested in. he also is catholic, has a daughter, he expects me to play and interact with her. im a muslim revert.

[@ahmadsami2927]

I am a single young man, I am 35 years old, looking for marriage and stability. I am from Egypt. I testify to God that if I find her, I will go and settle in her country.

[@ahmedejaz2622]

This gives a perfect definition to why Prophet Mohammad (peace be upon him) said "The best age to get married is 18" because that is the age where our desire for a partner is born and we start hunting for some one in an unlawful way. Literally Prophet Mohammad (peace be upon him) said has some true and deep meaning..

[@inayaisaac1824]

Where did you get this ftom?

[@dhra5136]

It's the best to marry at a age of 18 as a boy it would be hard but it's possible

[@YourDad-dp1xe]

Depends on the individual

[@ray620]

Depends, many 18 year old in the UK are studying

[@MohammedAlSharif2002]

I agree, and I am 18!!!

[@MohammedAlSharif2002]

@ابو بكر ابن محمد البربري I wish lol

[@aminmaxammed4448]

@ابو بكر ابن محمد البربري 💔🖤

[@thureyaphilip556]

Mashallah very nice topic

[@stochasticxalid9853]

Well said sheikh...

[@kherojandahal1275]

Ones basical future life start with a best plannification of his or her marriageand this is yr ownplan Always mske sujood to ask Allah yr best companion because HEIs the only one who knows the best! So patient and peresverance are the best to pick and choose! U have the right ! So proceed tobe sureto get the best one!

[@rparwez6206]

JazakAllahu khair,.

[@frdosr5794]

Allahu Akbar! Jazzakum khayr,May Allah grant you blessings, good health and more yrs to serve the Ummah inshaAllah, Above all,,may Allah bless everyone who is in need of a good spouse with the very perfect Allah fearing servants inshaAllah.🤲🤲