girl you're not alone and this was crazy how this came up on my feed because i literally was going through a similar situation and felt at unease in my heart over my feelings for this person that was so one sided lol and he didn't even know but i prayed and after a bumpy ride alhamdulilah i dont see them in that light anymore and can move on because the amount of energy and mental space i was giving them and was only making me feel low and putting myself down over them. but yehh alhamdulilah. and these tests that make us come to Allah with all our vulnerabilities are actually the sweetest moments despite wanting this test or struggle to be over , it was a blessing in disguise and helps with personal growth too. but jazakhallah sis that vid made me smile! 💞love you for the sake of Allah and may Allah bless you ameeeen
@Radiantanab10 күн бұрын
@@hs6585 omg this comment warmed my heart ! I’m so glad you can relate ! Because girl same . I could not deal with how annoying it was having to think about and fantasize about someone all day 😭❤️🩹 I had to take it up to Allah because ain’t no way I was going to do that for long term haha ! But thank you so much for sharing sis ! Love you more ! May Allah grant you what your heart longs for Ameen 🫶🏽🤲🏽🤲🏽
@hs658510 күн бұрын
@@Radiantanab yesss literally, ahh ameen!❤
@husn222-g6f10 күн бұрын
Funny how I relate so much to this video... Like it's literally crazy that we went through the same thing. I lost my peace and started having suicidal thoughts. But Allah, Al-Jabar worked his wonders. In a split second, he brought back tranquility to my heart and that guy suddenly became like a stranger. It's one of the greatest miracles that has ever happened to me. The guy whom I was obsessing over for seven years... Allah cured my heart in a second.
@ladylady25289 күн бұрын
Stop being weak and develope a strong character. That’s my advice. Nobody is worth it to ruin your mental health.
@Radiantanab9 күн бұрын
@@husn222-g6f what a beautiful story ! Thank you for sharing ! I’m glad you have your peace now alhamdulillah ❤️🩹❤️🩹🫶🏽
@Bu.T.F.IКүн бұрын
Jazakallhu khair for this video!! Thanks for helping towards restoring to me, my peace of mind
@leylahussein425311 күн бұрын
so beautiful and so real, Ya Jabbar
@Radiantanab11 күн бұрын
Thank you so much 🫶🏽🫶🏽
@khadizaakter558210 күн бұрын
Going through the same situation as you since 2 years and praying to get over that certain individual who doesnt even know my name
@mishuislam74099 күн бұрын
Why don’t you make your name known to him?
@khadizaakter55828 күн бұрын
@@mishuislam7409 I know there is no chance for me and there are huge differences between us ...
@sarahk49948 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story ❤
@D_B20007 күн бұрын
Subhanallah 🥺
@samia68889 күн бұрын
I ask Allah to also give me this peace of mind and stop ruminating over an individual who was horrible to me and to forgive all of my sins.
@Radiantanab9 күн бұрын
@@samia6888 Ameen ya Rabbi ! May Allah grant you ease and tranquility ameen
@saianbhahdi557019 сағат бұрын
I love ur story ❤❤❤
@munarushi10 күн бұрын
was this put here just for me, i just want to cry.
@Radiantanab10 күн бұрын
@@munarushi wow I’m so glad you can relate Sis ! Sometimes Allah sends gentle signs that are unexpected to keep us going . InshaAllah khair . I Pray Allah grants you what your heart desire in this world and the next Ameen 🤲🏽🤲🏽🫶🏽
@humaruq5 күн бұрын
I am going Through a very similar situation. Thank you for this video sister
@nurserayshun343922 сағат бұрын
Us men go through the same thing. I had my heart broken by a woman that I loved. It’s been a struggle to move forward. I am putting all of my focus on God.
@AlaaNasinza21 сағат бұрын
As a woman i felt heart broke and I will never fall in love again
@nurserayshun343921 сағат бұрын
being heartbroken is the worst pain I’ve felt in my 43 years. But being in love with someone was equally the best feeling. I loved the wrong person but I’m grateful for the life lesson that came from it. I’m still getting over it so I’m using the pain to draw closer to Allah and better myself.
@nurserayshun343921 сағат бұрын
@ you will love again.
@yessraelbajun5 күн бұрын
Thank you 💕
@AziziAzizi-zk5ef10 күн бұрын
Jazakillah sis i was struggling with same prob i had a crush on someone but he knew it and it used to make me like i am characterless for the whole day plz pray for me too. I will pray from Allah
@r.s1955Күн бұрын
🌹❤️
@Solace_1238 күн бұрын
Assalamualaikum sister Thankyou for sharing I am also dealing with the same but he is not my crush he is my love. And I am unable to come out of that broken feeling from long time and my daily life and prayers got effected by this because he is marrying someone else😔 I love him a lot and not in a condition to accept other I am totally detoriated. But I will also start reciting the same. Thankyou for giving a beautiful way. Allah is the best desposer of all affairs!
@Sahel5014 күн бұрын
Allah never lets you down. Didnt allah say in the Quran Is Allah not sufficient for his slave أليس الله بكاف عبده
@rachidoumal488910 күн бұрын
Salam aleykoum i think that at some point we all women go trought this . First i thought that i was becoming a pervert ( ofc i did not do wrong to him) and i was surprised with myself bc i am not like that yk i was so ashamed of myself but at the sametime we have to realise that its not only us but sheytan waswas is up there too. So everytime i had that problem i tried to say to myself that sheitan is wishpiring to me there is a distinction between loving someone and being attracted to them. I noticed that when i was out of school or in vacation i rarely thought of him like he was a random memory bc i didnt have to see him so no fitna to begin with. And now i almost see him like a normal classmate
@Radiantanab10 күн бұрын
You’re absolutely right sis ! It’s also human nature to be attracted to another human being ! Side note I really love your profile pic of Violet Evergarden! She’s my favorite character 🥹🫶🏽
@rachidoumal488910 күн бұрын
@@Radiantanab really ? I had a VE era which i was consuming so many VE content like animes, movies and novels ! I remembered recently that i still had my VE profile 😂
@Radiantanab10 күн бұрын
@ girl that was me too hahah she’s my favorite comfort character 🥹🥹🫶🏽😆 her and Tohru Honda from Fruits basket
@rachidoumal488910 күн бұрын
@@Radiantanab oh my ! U Saw fruit basked too ? That show made me cry so much I remember I was so tired of crying and being too emotionaly invested I stopped watching the show After maybe s3🤔 so you are team Yuki or Kyo😏
@Radiantanab10 күн бұрын
@ omg I’m definitely kyo’s girl ! The ending is so worth it and satisfying! You should finish it 🥹😆😁 the ending made me cry from joy 🥲
@h4ni49 күн бұрын
Habibti that's why Allah wants us to lower our gaze. Because when we don't and look at the opposite gender then things like obsession happen.
@Radiantanab9 күн бұрын
@@h4ni4 you’re right ! Alhamdulillah I don’t do that anymore lol I learned my lesson 😆
@faithfull_soul6 күн бұрын
I'll try and then will tell you ❤ What happened
@Radiantanab5 күн бұрын
@@faithfull_soul InshaAllah! I pray Allah answers your dua 🫶🏽🫶🏽❤️🩹
@rajarajput34837 күн бұрын
Salam Sister, does this work for guys too. Im a Guy and im crazy in love with a girl, will this work?
@Radiantanab7 күн бұрын
@@rajarajput3483 salam of course it will! I pray Allah grants you ease and gives you what your heart desires if it’s khair for you Ameen
@Ilmseeker8448 күн бұрын
I'm sorry if i sound rude, first you guys intentionally with consent go into fitna and make yourself fall in so called love forcefully by being around your so called crush and being in front of their eyes, and then you guys blame situation and time, who told you to look at na mehram at first time, or to have crush on them ? did quran ask you ? did hadith ask you ? Quran simply says lower your gaze and guar your modesty, how difficult it is for you to understand? We will not be accountable for random thoughts comes in our mind , however Allah azwajal will make us accountable for thought that we settle in our mind to get pleasure from.
@Radiantanab8 күн бұрын
@@Ilmseeker844 it’s not rude , that’s fair point but Also I didn’t go out of my way to fall in love ! Liking someone is human nature, it even happened to the sahabas. Also of course I lower my gaze lol I don’t go around looking at people ! Plus some people’s character could attract you . It’s not always about looking at the person ! May Allah protect us Ameen
@Radiantanab8 күн бұрын
@@Ilmseeker844 also asking how difficult is that , is very condescending and very dismissive, I’m sure you have your own sins and things that you struggle since no one is perfect . Let’s be kind ! JazakaAllahu khair
@Ilmseeker8448 күн бұрын
@@Radiantanab Every son of Adam is sinner, and where in my whole comment I claimed to be sinless? There are more important topics to make video on than this crush and attraction and etc, muslims are starving and dying , while somewhere muslima loosing their dignity because of plotting and planning of mushrik, yes it's human nature, but there is life beyond attraction and crush and honestly speaking unfortunately I don't seem majority of muslima going beyond these things, and due to these useless attraction many muslim have gone murtad in India, so it's better to spread awareness about planning and plotting going on against Muslim women rather talking about useless crushes and attraction, level of Iman of sahab can't be compared from our level, apart from that sahaba were sinful before becoming sahabas, they totally changed in the company of Muhammad sallallahu alaihi wasallam and I don't think so , they ever lifted their gaze after becoming sahabas, if they did, it would be for Muhammad sallallahu alaihi wasallam to teach lesson to mankind. Islam is beyond all these things and we need to act before we are being prayed upon, no offence.
@Radiantanab8 күн бұрын
@@Ilmseeker844 I’m just confused as to why you clicked on this video if it’s so trivial to you . Also the point of me sharing the story was give hope to those going through similar situations or worse .
@AZ-gf4kz2 күн бұрын
@@Radiantanabthere are many ppl like me who absolutely needed this video and I thank Allah for making you the source I’m gonna do an AL JABBAR tasbeeh from now on🤍 keep making such videos they’re so helpful thankyou so much for being open too and ignore the rest🫶🏻