We All Have The Same Therapist

[@Jessica-jq1nw]

That therapist is just getting paid to experience “the L word” irl🤭 we love to see it

[@siccjai]

yes, and now we need a lesbian show as narrated by their therapist

[@bela3589]

the lesbian tea spilling EVERYWHERE

[@flayedtwig4550]

LMFAOOO

[@hur6659]

PLEASEEE

[@siccjai]

I feel like their therapist now needs a therapist

[@ndepreter612]

definitely

[@alexandrat921]

I don't know what way you mean this, but yeah, most therapists also have therapy.

[@Livmylifelivi]

😂😂😂

[@whimshroud]

@@alexandrat921 ....and their therapist’s therapist have a therapist too? it's a cycle lmaooo

[@HalaHala-rq7ys]

@@whimshroud my brain now 🤯🤯

[@victoriabonatti1566]

that therapist must know so much TEA.

[@ireallyreallyhategoogle]

All therapists do.

[@horizon5677]

that's why I'm becoming a therapist

[@PeachHeadzAddiction]

@@horizon5677 Omg good for you 😂😂😂

[@timk9743]

i love how ava is becoming more and more publicly chaotic and less shy now it’s so cute 🥺

[@oldsoulx]

YES

[@thezheani1434]

I thought the exact same thing, I feel like a proud mom :')

[@saraxadam3659]

therapy babyyy

[@timk9743]

@@saraxadam3659 true but i think it’s also bc she’s more comfortable with the camera lmao

[@springwater9981]

Omg yes same! So cool to see this side to her that we didn’t get to truly see before

[@sampaul6904]

“lol we’re at the beach.. also THERAPY”

[@AmyOrdman]

Can I cuss on this show?

[@alexispicazo2897]

If people didn’t is it really your show??

[@mademoiselleria1412]

I’m not gonna see ur therapist u freaking freak 4:07

[@C._.a._.m._.]

Yes

[@clairechoi4760]

It’d be rude not to

[@ireallyreallyhategoogle]

Like yes, like of course like.

[@timk9743]

also i want a lesbian show narrated by their common therapist bc wow the chaos there would be

[@lillavanderlek6737]

but like narrate "jane the virgin" style

[@timk9743]

@@lillavanderlek6737 yess omg

[@nartanaiyer8653]

Omg yes

[@mybrainismagiccity]

Plot twist.. the therapist is in love with all of them

[@timk9743]

mybrainismagiccity honestly same 😭

[@mytearsricochvt]

can I just say how cute ava and Alexis are? They are not too overbearing with PDA, are deep human beings, and have excellent chemistry. Having a partner who's also your best friend is so ethereal I wanna cry.

[@jules-eh4zf]

Same haircut, same therapist, I’m so excited for what’s next!

[@cicirose6007]

😂😂 maybe she is also their hairstylist

[@jules-eh4zf]

cici Rose 😂👍🏼

[@siccjai]

the intro and outro on the beach really made this video. happy to see amy so at ease with herself!

[@taytay9418]

I read the title and immediately felt so bad for that therapist 🤣.

[@lail9910]

The amount of lesbian drama she has to hear 😂

[@ireallyreallyhategoogle]

Why? She gets a front row seat to the L.A. Lesbians sitcom.

[@taytay9418]

@@ireallyreallyhategoogle HAHAHA 🤣🤣

[@jesselox3470]

Darlene is getting that gay coin AND that gay gossip. Goals tbh

[@nelli3994]

We love a self care beachy lesbian queen

[@mollyroberts2458]

Lol, I read that as "...self care bitchy lesbian queen." My bad.

[@alexanderthegreatisonfire3813]

Aaah.. I see what u did there 😏

[@nelli3994]

@@mollyroberts2458 we also love that

[@maecaira3652]

I went into this video thinking it would be entertaining and it was but now I think I need therapy

[@AmyOrdman]

We all do and we all do

[@_sch_eme_]

@@AmyOrdman okay but also we all do lol

[@Blue_-mk8xq]

@@_sch_eme_ but like really we all do, we really all do

[@Jessica-jq1nw]

Darlene sounds like a queen SHE OFFICIATED AVAS PARENTS WEDDING WHAT I LOVE IT🥺😭🥰

[@JackDodgeYT]

Wait I really do see me in you this is so sweet :')

[@levi_bernhardt]

this showed up in my recommended ✨ might subscribe

[@davidz9363]

omg mattybraps in the comments!!

[@udop2]

i-

[@SirBlackReeds]

Why? Wasn't she at VidCon 2017 with Anita Sarkeesian? Or did she turn a corner? Is she still pretending to be in her mid-20s?

[@cristina9688]

Did Ava get a discount for referring people to y’all’s therapist 😭 like a 20% of type thing

[@cordeliaistheone]

Lmao omg I've genuinely had that thought before as I got my psychologist 3 new customers among my group of friends. Where's my discount, huh?? These weekly sessions aren't cheap!

[@pickle_spears]

Therapy helped me with my eating disorder... but probably not in the way you think. I dreaded going to therapy every week cuz i absolutely hate talking about my feelings, so after a while I think I subconsciously thought like “if I stop binge eating then I don’t have to go here anymore” and it worked. lol

[@nternetrat]

hahah that's one way to do it glad you worked yourself out of that, that's really impressive to do by yourself

[@bela3589]

may i just say i’ve been loving this new amy vibe, it just spreads positive energy and hope (the “i make videos again!” always warms my heart)

[@ellagardner22]

nobody: amy: totally totally 🙂

[@hande1235]

i've been kind of anxious to make my first appointment with a therapist... i think this may be a sign lol .. i really appreciated this vid amy! love yall

[@Gta5Girl]

sounds chaotic and the video hasn’t even started

[@amandaclarkson124]

omg so happy for you guys. my current life goal is finding a therapist that I like and this was very encouraging!

[@heloizaribeiro7096]

I cannot stress this enough, amy's hair looks soooo good

[@livingisnow]

It's so true that the world would be a much better place if everyone got a therapist!

[@lebib7749]

Therapist technically shouldn't be working with them knowing they all know each other. that referral system sound dodge... and it is a concern because it would affect the context of each person's therapy and experience.

[@hopewelch3307]

My roommate and my girlfriend have the same therapist. I thought about seeing her but because my girlfriend does, I definitely won’t.

[@dimplegulrajani2144]

Nobody sneezed but Amy blessed us anyway. Also much relate to the point about initially thinking I don't need therapy because nothing majorly bad has happened - everyone has trauma and working through it is the most rewarding thing ever! It's like going back into that closet where you jammed everything that didn't fit in your house before but this time you're Maria Kondo!

[@mileysmilkers]

nobody: ava, alexis, and amy: it’s like when you like, then like, yk like?

[@You-dp3uy]

6:27 Ava · panic on cueing her girlfriend · Capri Palazzolo

[@lilylovedchild]

You can tell Amy is thriving and it makes me so happy. She used to make so many self deprecating comments, as we all do, and I always knew she deserved better

[@amytingle6934]

So True, I need therapy right now. Raising 3 kids alone 11,9 and 3( oldest 2 with special needs) and I have my 2year old nephew through week while his parents work, I'm so glad you talk regularly about mental health and therapy because its hard times especially right now. Thanks ladies for being so open and honest xx

[@jules-eh4zf]

Amy I feel like you’re rocking 2020, using all that time by yourself really wisely 😊

[@gabsterj2010]

You guys finding a therapist by referral and it working was really lucky. It’s hard as hell finding a good therapist that you click with. And coming out of the depression is really really hard I’m over here struggling to find someone, especially during covid. Doing it online is even more tiring.

[@norabrown3480]

*reads title* oh well that seems problematic on may different levels

[@sam-forshort]

To anyone considering therapy (who has the means to do it) I want to say go for it. My tips as someone studying mental health and going to therapy: 1. Each psychologist has different areas of expertise. Find one that has experience in areas you're struggling with. 2. At the end of first meeting, often called the "first interview", ask them if the issues you bought up are something they're interested in working with. A good fit psychologist will list the reason why they're suitable (training in that area). 3. It's okay to cry. It's okay to laugh. It's okay to come into therapy and not know what to talk about. Again, a good psychologist will help you walk that path 4. Self care after every appointment. Like having a bath? Do it. Like walking aimlessly in dog parks? Go to one. Look after yourself, you're not alone, you're worthy.

[@monicatillah3400]

kinda out of topic, but Amy has quickly become my quarantine-crush omg can't wait for the next video

[@make.it.rainer]

Queens of normalizing therapy!!! We love!!!

[@sarah3times]

i just started therapy and this thing Ava said about everyone having traumas even if they think they don't is so real, like, there's so much to unlock and the personal growth is surreal

[@sk1ttlefiddle]

I love this for all of you! She's basically creating a community. By helping people individually. You can't help or see others if you don't know how to take care of yourself. ♥️♥️♥️ Literally watching this on a Sunday too

[@kaileyparts1289]

“Well, what did Darlene say about that”

[@lovecrop]

therapy is inaccessible to most, so i just want to leave this here; cycles of abuse can end without a licensed therapist, and trauma work can be done without a therapist too. in my case (an abbreviation soup mostly caused by trauma) my therapist is like an assistant, the trauma work is physical. theres ways to do it on your own, and my therapist was helpful for my discovery of trauma work - but not instrumental. i was. the body is the answer, not the problem.

[@gabrielanuncio2345]

Yes, but, there’s people that wouldn’t figure that out by themselves. Also, therapy can’t be done by someone who isn’t licensed, that’s something you learn during the study of Psychology, a major is required to you to be able to do therapy. But yes, you can be an assistant for people who’s problems aren’t that “huge”.

[@juliad8589]

Guysss you are glowing ! I'm happy for all of you! The change it's noticeable! So cool 🥰❤❤❤

[@cordeliaistheone]

Omg I put 3 of my friends onto my psychologist lmao this is comforting She said it would be a conflict of interest to see a close family member or romantic partner though. Maybe it depends on the type of therapy or therapist themselves and how they compartmentalise. Also it's definitely a privilege to see a therapist. One of my friends had to stop seeing our psychologist as she couldn't afford it anymore. I wish everyone had access to sort out their shit. I've been seeing my psychologist for 3 years now and I've still got stuff to unpack. All my love to anyone who doesn't have access to therapy. You deserve to have your needs met and understand yourself and your surroundings. I hope you can find some resources online. I've managed to find a lot over the years before finally allowing myself to try therapy again (had some bad experiences with professionals in my childhood).

[@aspiringtentacle]

Love this video! When you think about communities used to have confession or elders you'd go to for advice, it totally makes sense to have the same therapist! Also, Ava's got such an entertaining cadence when she speaks, she really has her own comedic timing and I love it every time

[@MsAnonymousBlogger]

I've gone to my therapist twice and while it did help me (and make me more depressed) i realized I don't really like her lol. I feel like theres a huge age gap and disconnect between us so this video inspired me to find a therapist i love :)

[@timk9743]

this sounds so damn chaotic lmaoo i’m here for it

[@vivekagurung5721]

Hearing amy speak from behind those glasses in the beach was just..... I have no words.

[@nternetrat]

first of all that background makes all of you look so pretty and nice second, i love anyone who just loves being at the beach, and I fucking love that you are one of those people. ESPECIALLY those who actually swim in the ocean. you hanging out in your bathing suit with jack and some watermelon is really nice, and those are the kinda people i want in my life 😌

[@alicemadness2915]

take a shot every time one of them says “like”

[@aylacola]

you would be dead! you would take about 118 shots :)

[@hmmcms1]

Love the jack dodgeness lol

[@JAB2023]

I LOVE your channel. I discovered it a few days ago and I already feel like ya’ll are my bffs. Thank you for being honest, real, kind, silly, and willing to share who you are. I wish there was a channel like this when I was a teenager- I’m sure it would have been super helpful. YGG AMY

[@stephsamuelable]

I got my best friend and my ex-girlfriend (they live together as roomies) to see my therapist. It’s actually a huge credit to my therapist being so professional and it’s been such a huge benefit to my bestie and ex. It’s amazing how my therapist can keep things separate and she doesn’t mention the others unless I bring it up, and if she does, it’s always objective. Also, we all went to her for different reasons and we all still see her. It’s done wonders for us individually and has not affected our relationship with each other. I have such a strong bond with my ex and we can hang out without any resentment towards each other. Having the same therapist as someone who is close to you is not weird at all, as long as you have a very good and professional therapist. It’s all about finding one that you click with.

[@lenilink7292]

You've never done sundays that's so weird lol

[@AmyOrdman]

I think I’ve changed my mind already about Sunday’s

[@lenilink7292]

@@AmyOrdman haha okay 😂 sticking to Saturday??

[@LimaPolianna]

Thank you for this video. We all need therapy. The way you speak and smile... I can see the evolution. I also feel like the therapist gave me the key to my own brain.

[@erincass99]

ok but like this is so sweet and i can tell how much happier you all are

[@lydiahoffman4291]

This pro-therapist talk is giving 👏 me 👏 life 👏 as someone who literally went from completely hating myself to realizing I just had OCD, all thanks to therapy, I will praise therapy till the day I die. PLEASE GET A THERAPIST

[@jdz3742]

amy you sound more self aware and it’s crazy. seeing you change from how you were the past few years is just inspiring

[@blehkinsoph9466]

Thanks for the vid. Im so happy u guys are happier and getting better. The country im from has very little therapists and they are VERY expensive. So ever since i was in highschool, i have been on a quest to be my own therapist. Reading self development books, blogs and experiment with all of the suggestions given. Ofc, that takes more time compared to getting advice from an experienced therapist, but its been 10 years now. I have also accumulated quite a lot of skills to cope and end the cycle of suffering. Its all about learning that u can change and there are many ways to do so!

[@alphadoubles8507]

Wow this teared me up for some reason. I love you all! I hope my hapiness reaches you all. But just know even i have my darker days and that okay sometimes. Just don’t forget to reach out to people so they can give you the love you need and deserve!

[@ApricotStone]

I’m so happy you’re doing better! I’ve been watching your channel for at least a year or two now and at some points I was actually worried about you. You seem a lot happier and take care of yourself more and I’m really proud of you :)

[@sarahruth402]

I started therapy/counselling at the end of March this year. However I'm having some doubts if my counsellor is right for me, just little niggles, nothing major, but sometimes I feel like I can't fully be myself and there has been times where I've felt worse about myself after sessions. I could change counsellors, but that would mean going back to square one with someone else (I'm already 10 sessions in) and there's no guarantee I'll feel 100% comfortable with someone different. It's a real dilemma....

[@sulagreen5792]

I would try switching, trust your instincts.

[@sarahruth402]

@@sulagreen5792 that's a good point! I feel like I'm the type of person that just perseveres with things even when they don't really feel right

[@inperpetuummillie9948]

Honestly I felt that with my first councilor and stuck it through but now that I've got a therapist that works a lot better for me I realised I shouldn't have stuck with the previous one for so long because it didn't help me the way it should, he didn't do anything wrong our personalities just weren't quite working together, but when it comes to therapy that's not something you can settle for

[@sarahruth402]

@@inperpetuummillie9948 True! Due to covid at the moment sessions are taking place over the phone, which makes it harder to judge if we're a good match

[@JulesMariani]

sitting on the beach and having a chat. what a vibe

[@emilytruscott2570]

so what ur saying is the therapist is the unicorn in this relationship because she's really just spiced up the vibe between u girlies xxxxxxx

[@goob6764]

Ugh this is amazing thank you so much for sharing!! I’m glad you all are working on yourselves and seeing progress that’s huge! We all gotta keep pushing forward; loving/ taking care of ourselves and each other the best we can 🙌💕✨

[@thecoolestgingerkid]

Awesome conversation. This feels more impactful of sending the message that therapy is amazing than one person sitting and talking about it

[@Lakaymaria27]

I just want to say I’ve bin subscribed to you and Alexis for a long time now and I have watched you both grow into strong beings and it is beautiful!

[@joshuarials2924]

Thank you so much for openly talking about therapy! I’ve heard you talk about therapy on dating straight and this video finally encouraged me to ask for help and I’m finally going to therapy this week!!! Thank you ❤️

[@ashleighl1836]

Not to be all soft but I’m so happy for you, you deserve to feel good in yourself, like you make so many people feel good about themselves, me included, when I need a bit of escapism or a laugh or just some top quality gay content 😂 seriously you’re amazing and you deserve to see it too 💛

[@rubyrogers1319]

i’m applying to colleges rn and one of my essays includes some of my experiences in therapy and ngl i think i’m gonna steal that “unlock my brain” shit

[@rubyrogers1319]

update: i did steal it sorry alexis and amy

[@hello-thereva7358]

Me who started at an actualy good therapist 2 freaking days ago and still is kinda scared: *:,) beautifull video* "imma call my therapist for another appoitment. "

[@Livmylifelivi]

Was expecting a sponsorship to betterhelp or something. Pleasantly surprise that this was a genuine chat about experiences

[@enhpadreitiop]

tbh i needed this today... cuz ive literally been in bed not doing anything all day... it’s 4pm

[@hannahthornton5695]

I bloody love the whole vibe from this video

[@phil6899]

This shit is fucking uplifting. What a stunner performance for you three interesting and insightful goddesses.

[@adjigaya3931]

the amount of times the three of them said the word 'like' lol love it, love u guys, im so happy for ya'll

[@Moonielv]

Great message! Thanks for sharing 💜 my therapist helped me change my life. I’ve grown so much because of therapy.

[@dana1892]

my family and I see the same therapist, have been for the past 5 years. we love her!

[@Soundlyk_bigirl]

Ava is pretty i can't stop looking at her ❤❤

[@ohsocorny1012]

ave reminds me of kurtis connor and cody ko, it's such a vibe I love it

[@cheekynandosss581]

The friendship slideshow at the end made me so happy.

[@eahouse1020]

Love the little montages of them near the end

[@yovelaviv8795]

When y’all laugh together it sounds like the powerpuff girls

[@hmmcms1]

Happy for you amy😊 I guess this is like the 50th sign I should get a therapist in the last month

[@chrisconsolo6207]

I have the same therapist as my brother, my best-friend and my best-friends brother so it’s ok ✨👯‍♀️

[@ambertheanxious]

Thanks for sharing, it reminded me that I needed to make an appointment

[@mollymalone7842]

Very refreshing - thanks for shining a light on the issue. x

[@ebenniegunning689]

I’ve been seeing a Psychologist since I was 18 and now 21 still seeing her and I have grown so much

[@Le-vv9xn]

This look like an add for getting a therapist and I love it

[@anamercia5864]

amy thanks for sharing this. i've been thinking about going to therapy for ages and now I might actually do it

[@GregRodgers1]

The therapist sounds like she has an affiliate program with all of these referrals you give her.

[@mirixx9351]

This is such a great video with lots of interesting and insightful points but also Amy just looks SO GOOD!! the hair suits you so much omg

[@ongiesondlo520]

Queens taking care of themselves>>> We love to see it.❤

[@gaeferraroni6730]

i also share a therapist with a friend and its great, we can talk about how much we love her with each other

[@nternetrat]

october is so warm in LA rn love u amy o

[@WrldTravl2]

As a therapist I love this video so much!

[@heyninds]

This made me feel all of the wholesome things

[@drainrainz6304]

I'm living for this content!

[@marissayudinar]

Love this so much Amy! So proud of you! xxxx

[@juanaolg]

this is so wholesome