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[@bigrobfromthev]

The Stikki show is an awesome name.

[@AJ12Gamer]

Sticky. The good kind of sticky. Hehe

[@JennRighter]

"So, Steve tried to break up with me over toothpaste. And I scared him into staying with me." I love you both so much, especially you, Nikki. I really love the honesty of this, because we all know relationships have ups and downs. And it's funny, I've been with my boyfriend for almost five years now, and we argue very rarely now, but we argued a lot in the beginning. There's something to be said about the early stages...you don't really know someone until you live with them, and it takes awhile before you understand each other.

[@ashliepilcher]

You’re absolutely so right. My boyfriend and I have been together 5 years, and it recently hit the 2 year mark of living together. And the most recent parts of our relationship has been the best. We understand each other so much more, and we’ll obviously always be learning about and one another. It fantastic, and 10x more fun than the beginning parts. This has literally been our honey moon phase ❤️

[@RappersFame]

Jenn Righter such a spoiler ass

[@FamousBeauty11]

Jenn Righter m

[@mehlohday]

So it's official. It's Steve and Nikki not Nikki and Steve. Bart is so happy rn.

[@notehead1884]

Lol true. Although “The Neve Show” doesn’t work quite as well as “The Stikki Show.” Knowing Bart, he’s happy anyway.

[@junedreamer]

Geo is quaking

[@rowni]

Geo: **Triggered** 😂 jk love u Geo

[@edvargo291]

Hahahaha. I was just thinking that! Awesome!!

[@galeox3201]

Nice

[@sierramarie8059]

holy shit picturing Nikki breaking a glass coffee table is the funniest thing ever to me my god I wish I could have seen that.

[@scottbackula1581]

This is what a healthy relationship looks like....

[@Un1234l]

I honestly feel like people aiming for a happy relationship should study this video.

[@lidiagarcia3725]

I’ve heard the “if you take the cheater back don’t bring up the cheating” multiple times but the thing is you can’t ever just forget about the cheating and from time to time you are gonna remember and u r gonna be hurt and your partner is gonna see it and ask you why u r sad

[@user-eu1rh2nm8j]

@@juliemargar7444 That is not fair to say.....the cheated on person only has the experience of having a monogamous relationship with the cheater and prob thinks they can handle it. When u cheated on someone, u broke that person. U can't expect them to be just as strong anymore. The cheating became a part of your relationship, due to the cheater, so take responsibility.

[@meganrose9497]

Y'all's relationship advice really hit home

[@EdwardSanchezProductions]

Nikki I like this new format

[@BessieRAHH]

... I thought it was normal to brush your teeth twice a day? Like that's what the dentist tells me to do (I'm Australian) and pretty much everyone I know would give someone shit for not cleaning their teeth at night. Like what?

[@a2zfighting]

BessieRAHH yeah idk, i know flossing is super important but i have to brush my teeth twice a day. i like them to feel squeaky clean. never heard of people brushing once a day unless they’re lazy

[@jamiedavenport7672]

They aren't saying what's dentist recommended - Nikki's at least is based on opinion probably.I also don't recall where she said she brushes her teeth in the morning only because I've seen this comment about night brushing a couple times and have been a tad confused where that criticism is coming from

[@djcolt100]

Nikki went from a solid 8 to a 4 with that "once a day" crap. Steve has more patience than I do for sure.

[@salmaabdullahgb]

loool no one cares

[@Mikaelele]

Brushing teeth once a day is unheard of where I come from lmao. Just the furry sensation would be so fucking unbearable going to sleep with as well as just the high risk of cavities. Just need to spare 3 minutes....

[@wasabibaby3753]

you're one of the few og youtubers that dont shove everything to their viewers. i love how chill yall are and how real. love your convos too cos yall are hella funny! love the podcast and gonna love this new format too!

[@DBJ468]

I just got out of my first relationship, which also happened to last 5 years. I'm now in my mid-twenties and having to readjust my entire life - even down to stupid things, like grocery shopping for one, instead of two. People like you two, who can be honest about faults in their relationship, but how to make it work anyway, give me hope that true, loving relationships can last. Keep up the good work Nikki, and Steve.

[@theredsummer13]

I love how Steve is still so passionate about his toothbrush hahah 😂

[@RockNRoIIa_]

Please never break up

[@morganfae511]

I love the way you two deal with issues. It's awesome.

[@Zomy_Streams]

This is kind of similar to my boyfriend and my relationship. Long story short we got together at 15, VERY young and VERY immature. We fought ALL THE TIME and had terrible jealously. We were together for a loooong time having big blow up fights, using “breaking up” as a weapon, for a couple years. Don’t get me wrong we were absolutely head over heals in love but we just weren’t compatible and absolutely didn’t know how to communicate. We seriously broke up for 3 months and used the time apart to grow as people. When we got back together we learned how to communicate and the jealously and anger basically went away. We aren’t perfect and still fight sometimes but we never use breaking up as a weapon and we ALWAYS talk it out after a fight. We’ve been together almost 9 years now.

[@hihirblx]

Wow! That's really cool to hear that you guys got through that and are still together. This might be asking for tmi but I'm genuinely curious, do you both really not get jealous anymore? Like even if he talks to another girl or you talk to another guy?

[@Zomy_Streams]

A D No jealousy whatsoever. A lot of it comes with age and maturity. But we also have a lot of trust for each other and don’t give the other person reason to be jealous.

[@Zomy_Streams]

A D For example, he turned 21 before I did. He went out with a lot of people, including lots of girls, and of course I couldn’t tag along because I couldn’t get into the bars. Before I would have been absolutely sick with jealousy over him getting drunk with other girls, but I completely trust him and had no issue with it whatsoever.

[@lizziemartin6113]

He may be faithful but getting drunk with other girls (married couples or just couples are different) is a recipe for disaster. I wouldn't deal with that and I feel normal for that. No offense..I don't mean that sarcastically either..I really mean that I don't mean any harm..this is just my thoughts.

[@Zomy_Streams]

Lizzie Martin It was probably a bad example because it’s not like it’s an all the time occurrence. Probably a better example would be, if we’re invited to his brothers for a party, I would feel comfortable going to bed while he stays up with everyone (yes even if it was just girls). I think it definitely depends on the couple.

[@OK-we3il]

I like how sincere you are

[@sarahgoddard2001]

I loved this. Steves sense of humour is so dry and I love it.

[@TeddyMadison]

You two are great and remind me of a time far and away....never lose that communication you have. We made that mistake and 18 years later devastation happened. Now we are finding that friendship bond that got buried in the day to day and while it is nice it's also a painful mirror. Keep talking...

[@ilsecole9793]

I freaking love the stikki show! Just like the podcast, love ittt! And basically all content, if you're happy making it, I'm happy watching/listening to it ❤️

[@EZee213]

That is really good advice when it comes to relationships. Honest communication without judgments. Being real but also rational and respectful. Harbored built-up resentment is the bane to any relationship.

[@Sarina_1112]

I loved this! Can't wait for more!

[@katelynschultz302]

This is so crazy. I am in the same situation that you were in. I have been dating my boyfriend for 10 months and we have gone on a break before over something stupid that we don’t remember but we are still having petty fights and recently he said that if things don’t change he can’t do it anymore. But watching this video has given me hope that we can learn to work through our problems and find better ways to solve them 💗 thank you

[@sorrowless77]

I can't wait to find a partner that loves me like Steve loves you and love someone the way you love Steve. #couplegoals

[@blancaalvarez8739]

Oh my word. I'm going to love this series! Very helpful relationship advice.

[@Jtaeto]

i really agree and so strongly feel the same way about relationships and everything they went through. the part that resonated the most with me was when nikki said :you need to find a partner WILLING TO DO THAT WITH YOU" someone that wants to go through that with you and WANTS to work through real issues.

[@Un1234l]

Incredible content. This is basically a masterclass in healthy, truly long-term relationships, and you're giving it out for free. It's no exaggeration on my part to say that this video is something every person longing for a healthy LTR should study. It's something not taught by mainstream society, and especially the mainstream media's ever-growing influence on our lives.

[@thanksforyourtime9590]

I loved this and it's already my new favorite show

[@babescraftroom]

I love this new concept. We are learning so much more about you two. I love how he is learning to be more spiritual too. Communication is key and I think you both have it down.

[@juliecramutola7687]

Love this format!! I never leave a video/podcast with you two in it without smiling.

[@MsTaraVlogs]

I was not expecting such beautiful advice about relationships. Thanks so much for sharing that. Can't wait for next Thursday. Cheers!

[@annnnawhite]

you guys are such a genuine couple. I love it

[@jamesdelarosa6551]

I love seeing steve and nikki in videos together. Much love and support

[@memyselfandi2102]

I love you two so much!!! You two are the most chillest couple and most realest ever...

[@CassidyQuinn]

I love this format so much!! It's so fun to watch you guys still bicker and troll each other as usual, but then also have serious conversations. I love your podcast too, but it's awesome to be able to see you guys!

[@AndreaCalvillo1]

I’m really excited for this new format, it’s so fun

[@kennethmonson]

Nikki is so proud of Gary. Adorable.

[@r3mb1a12]

Stikki as in Steve and Nikki. Steve my man, finally getting recognition lolz

[@dorap6895]

Love this!!! You guys are one of the TOP youtube couples. I can’t wait til next Thursday now!!!!

[@seriouslyomg1234]

I frickin love this! So goood! Great addition to the channel, I’m excited for new Thursday content 🙌🏾💗

[@sawace1]

I don't understand people who make fun of men for being vulnerable.

[@DaGo314]

Well, it's because vulnerability leaves you wide open. you you ok weak to others and your woman will most definitely even if they don't admit it, lose respect for you.

[@clairefisher1088]

I think this was the most entertaining video on KZbin I ever watched... Like seriously! I laughed until I cried, I learned something and I had to say "awww Steve" three times 😁

[@guamgirlzz2]

Nikki your tan is so BEAUTIFUL!! You literally glow

[@kirky9347]

True communication is the secret to lasting love. When you can truly put yourself in the other person's shoes and understand them by validating their experience it is life changing.

[@vanessa1155]

26 minutes and I didn't have to skip a single second! You guys are so funny and I just love your relationship. More of the STIKKI Show please! xx

[@stellamakrigianni608]

Brilliant video guys! This is the KZbin I love. Totally relatable, laughed so hard. Half stuff already happened to us! Thank you for sharing!

[@paulacorrea6288]

The best video I saw all week. Great advice! Thanks!

[@lacepaws499]

Omg, this was great Steve just going off about everything! Loved it! Do this more! (But he will never stop moving that table)

[@untitledcubed3358]

I love this already!! Not even 30 sec. in!! So happy to see you guys doing a video together :D

[@akshayar517]

i always thought of nikki and steve as the perfect couple but its reassuring to know they had problems like everyone else but in the end built an even stronger relationship. love you guys

[@TrulyTara86]

Love the Stikki show! And Thank you for not breaking up!

[@ivym151]

I love this video and loved hearing about how healthy your relationship seems to be 😊

[@angelaw2372]

Excellent!!! I LOVE most of your podcasts, the one about Missionary position was by far the best one yet. This vlog promises to be just as interesting and relevant. I love Tasty Tuesday’s, and the two of you together are prime!

[@DanteBogdan]

Tnx for being so open and honest about your relationship struggles.

[@hermosapresidenta3931]

This was absolutely awsome, I had a massive smile on my face the entire time I was watching it and was dying laughing at several parts. My husband is also one of those adamant about things when he is wrong.

[@EdwardSanchezProductions]

I can’t believe you and Steve almost broke up

[@NikkiLimo]

:'(

[@bigrobfromthev]

Thank God they made it work

[@RashadSims-bh3zz]

It happens even the strongest couple have their days

[@cenakruegerlover]

I love how real they are. Like their video where they fought about a Batman costume. Every couple has their ups and downs,but if they keep it going,that's all that matters.

[@missmoreno]

I love this series. please continue this

[@silver1000]

Oh man... I loved this advice so much. ♥️ Major love guys.

[@mzvettvett]

Been waiting for this show! Excited to see more

[@rachael8076]

LOVE the new format! So nice to just feel like we are hanging out with you guys! Also, I relate SO HARD as I also married a Steve. So yeah, basically bffs. Haha

[@moonchild9640]

Absolutely loved this!!

[@Th30fficalK1a]

I want more of this segment! Loved it! ❤❤

[@Paulfighteronline]

Wow this is great. Have been watching your videos for ages now, but this concept is among my favourites! #stikki

[@jmarie4252]

Oh how you make my methodical day so much better!

[@DarleneSterling]

There was so much goodness in this video! The relationship arrows

[@lizhomer9291]

I love this! You two are so perfect together and I want what you have 😊

[@MotorCityPhoenix313]

6:26 I'm in your camp Steve! I can't go to sleep with everything I've eaten all day still on my teeth

[@jessicarojas4156]

This is amazing!!!! Can’t wait for more 😊

[@msveeip]

I truly enjoyed this!

[@bunnybean13]

Nikki my boyfriend bought me one of your blue lapis necklaces and I’ve been wearing it everyday! I love it!

[@smileanjo]

That was so beautiful. I just saw Steve in a new light.

[@Kelarys]

Steve I understand that predicament completely, I often encounter people who out of completely nowhere (to me at least) think I'm super full of myself, arrogant, looking down on everyone around me, which is pretty astonishing since that's fairly incompatible with the fact that until recently I had 0 self esteem what so ever. Something in the way I speak and the way I act makes me come across that way. It's a struggle

[@Un1234l]

I'm in the same boat. I've noticed a lot of nice, humble, caring, altruistic, down-to-earth people are as well. What I think it is is that when we're out in public, we either display so much intense inner conviction-or so much insular, apathetic confusion, hurt, lostness-that to the outside-looking-in, we look so into-our-own-world, "and are therefore stuck-up". I really think that's the case from my years of observations, after repeatedly having people tell me they thought I was stuck-up but were wrong once they got to know me more, and after having experimented by adjusting my behaviour many times to account for this; this is also after observing and studying why this happens to many other people. So I'm thinking the extroverted population at large focuses more on maintaining appearances and making quick initial judgments, so if they see an introvert/a quiet person who sticks out in their aura (presence), as if they are not a part of the larger collective (because of so much inner confidence, or low self-esteem), they default to categorizing these people as _other_ instead of _same._ Then if these _questionable_ introverts speak in a calm, aloof way instead of extroverted elatedness like they're used to, or in a calm and warm way, they default to thinking that these people's calmness, aloofness, and being-in-their-own-world is due to them being stuck-up and arrogant, failing to consider all other possibilities that don't involve labelling them as people-to-be-wary-of. People probably act incredibly tentative around you when they first meet you, right? They probably also are the ones approaching you, not the other way around, and it's probably also the really extroverted ones. It's them feeling you out because your presence sticks out while being aloof (rare), and this inability to pinpoint why you stick out leads to them being proactive and feeling you out to see if it's because you're a stuck-up asshole or not. I don't know why people don't default to just thinking you're just innocently minding your own business, but it's probably because a calm, aloof introvert with a strong presence is so rare to them, being surrounded by many sociable people and so many quiet introverts with invisible/conforming presences; basically it's them lacking perspective while trying to reconcile and understand their unease about you. This is all just speculation on the little information you gave. But if all this is an accurate assessment: if you want less people to assume you're an asshole, present yourself as being less aloof and insular; be more gregarious and warm. However, many people find a certain sexiness and intrigue in being confident and aloof, so you might want to balance that strategy or apply it only in certain situations. PS: Now that I think about it, I'm realizing people only started to mention they were wrong about me after I happened to be in my gregarious and warm moods, being less insular.

[@raymorrow1491]

Im not shocked that Nikki is with Steve at all. Good chemistry. Steve seems like a great guy. Good lookin dude, good personality, sense of humor, sensitive, unique. Not sure why some seem suprised . You guys are a great couple. You both compliment each other well.

[@lindsaylws15]

This was the best relationship advice I’ve ever heard! Lame or not, it’s very relatable!

[@faithpon9324]

Love you two so much. I have a lot of fun watching your tasty Tuesdays!

[@ZygoticGoose]

This is an awesome video guys. Seriously, some amazing relationship advise and honesty.

[@a.j.ferguson]

Really enjoyed this!

[@PushyaTV]

yes the relationship realness!!! love you guys together

[@christyinthecarolinas]

I couldn't agree more. I use to be that way too and used it as a weapon as well. I had been in a horrible, horrible marriage that ended. Well, with the guy I met after... Aka my husband now, I took out all of my past issues on him and that wasn't fair at all. I have learned so much about relationships, and I'm so thankful for my husband's patience. I hated the fact that Everytime I would use the breakup words as a weapon, I caused him so much hurt. I never wanted to hurt him and I realized I was doing just that. I'll never ever do that again. Ever!!

[@loveesamanthaa]

This was awesome! It’s refreshing to get actual advice that couples can practice in there (aka mine) relationship lol thanks guys!

[@dumbolgac2255]

You guys are just an amazing couple

[@Neurotic48]

You two are adorable!! #relationshipgoals 🤗

[@JennJadeTran]

my boyfriend is the same.... he speaks in a way that makes others feel unheard. he also says things passionately and also sometimes giggles while he talks.

[@LiLiWezzy]

Ive been listing to your guys podcast (“Shit they don’t tell you” btw for anyone who doesn’t know!) and I just love you guys so much!

[@jkl799]

Holy crap that is really good advice. You two learned and evolved from your mistakes. Pretty damn cool.

[@sarisolbajoelsol]

Steve’s arrow thing, aww. I love The Stikki show. ❤️❤️

[@sarahi687]

Steve looking serious saying “and thank you for watching the stikki show.” im fucking dead.

[@Just8Ate]

Nikki’s stikki show.... love it how your doing a little bit of everything. Anything you do is great and awesome Nikki 👏❤️👍😉😍😉

[@JackieHall71]

Love that you guys keep shit real.

[@BabyMia789]

Y’all are soooooo adorable.

[@CursedMarkMedia]

Nikki raging over the break up makes me like her more. That's a crazy keeper right there.

[@hellomynameisjen]

Love how funny and honest you both are 😂😂😂

[@YvonneItzel]

Great video, I’ll be sure to try the arrow recommendation. Have a great day.

[@VarietyPirate]

I LOVED THIS.

[@cwestte]

Omg you guys are comedic versions of my husband and I. Very similar personality traits 😂 I will need to take the arguing lessons though. We are still working on the little things turning into big things

[@jadeking3022]

This is my new favorite show

[@eggtropy7150]

This is a good idea!!!! Love the stikki show!!!!

[@jillchinnt]

The grasshopper story is so hilarious and adorable 😂😂😂

[@Hoshikouture]

That cliffhanger though :O Haha the bug story though you guys are great

[@jennadavis8740]

I love this so much!

[@786sami786]

You guys are amazing. Goals af.