We Answer Your Most Searched Questions (emotional)

We answer your most searched Google questions about us including how we make a living, why we moved, and how tall Penn is! Disclaimer: Even though this was a fun video, one of the questions is still really emotional for our family to discuss. We are proud of Penn Charles for wanting us to talk about it and it in the video.
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[@messily1456]

I love that they didn't make a big thing about P.C. crying. There was no anxiety or trying to fix it. They let him grieve, let him have space, and we're glad to have him back. Love it.

[@Clothmom1]

I am a dog trainer. As a boisterous family with children, you absolutely did the right thing by re-homing Ruby. I know it’s a heart-breaking situation but safety comes first.

[@smay745]

Ok, I can’t, when Penn Charles started to cry, I instantly started bawling. You are the best for showing even tough things about real family life. Love you all!

[@MammaOVlogs]

me too

[@chillybunny12]

I seriously just came down here to comment that I felt bad for him, but you already spoke. Puppy losses are so sad

[@sandilevesque8408]

Sarah Mayfield Ditto. I would only add that I wanted to hug him. Poor PC

[@sujanareddy4837]

Sarah Mayfield I saw that and heard the story I started to cry

[@thatpatrickguy3446]

Yeah, that kinda hurt my heart. Not gonna lie. Poor PC. Poor all of y'all really.

[@lhead7226]

I just have to say leaving in Penn's emotion about having to rehome your dog was really a good thing. Today to many people put on this happy face even when things are difficult and it's good to see that not everything is great for everyone all the time, so many people can relate to this, myself included.

[@ellenhooper7921]

“We have a net In our yard that is worth about 3 dollars” lol 😂

[@siennak4306]

I died at that lol

[@varsharpnair]

Ikr its sooooo funny!😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣

[@doglover0728]

That was soooooo funny 😂🤣😂🤣

[@av_0108]

that one I was cracking up my dad looked at me like I'm having a stroke or mentaly dying! 😂

[@phoenix_firebird9396]

And did you know if you search what their net worth is it says 3$ too!🤣

[@SimplyOrganizedLLCMadison]

I cried with PC. I'm glad you didn't cut that part out, thank you for keeping it real.

[@RealtyWebDesigners]

It's yet another instance of how awesome they are!

[@lindachirco4921]

You have a great family! Penn Charles definitely has the best laugh!

[@MammaOVlogs]

agreed

[@jimmy.r.minnelli]

Penn Charles has the richest and most sincere laugh I've ever heard, and now we see his tender heart as well. These are some excellent parents who are doing something very right to bring up a child who can feel and express genuine emotions in such a healthy way.

[@lauravietmeier7427]

Broke my heart when pen just broke down. This was interesting though. Never know what shows up with a Google. Love you guys and I know Ruby will forever a part of your family. Went through the same here!!

[@tkdpower1]

Sweet Penn Charles! His reaction to the question about Ruby is beautiful in its vulnerability.

[@debbiesid3165]

Penn imitating his dad ‘s southern accent 😂

[@LittleEmm1979]

I literally started crying seeing Penn Charles upset about Ruby. Our old girl had to be put to sleep two years ago and losing a pet, in any way, is devastating. I just wanted to hug him.

[@teamtrails7858]

Oh the sadness about ruby... But now there’s a new addition to the holderness family! Welcome Sunny!

[@aleahknight334]

Is it bad that I didn't know about ruby... I watch them every single day!😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭💟prah ing for yall 💖

[@Rapunzzel07]

Aleah Knight They really did talk about it on their podcast almost exclusively.

[@aleahknight334]

Oh I can't find there podcast so do you know where to find it?

[@Rapunzzel07]

Aleah Knight search for The Holderness Family Podcast. The first episode they talk about it is the “Stay In Like With Your Partner” episode

[@Rapunzzel07]

Aleah Knight I mean, you’ll have to have a podcast app on your phone (iPhones come standard with the “Podcasts” app). I personally use Pocket Cast. Another great free one is Overcast. You can also listen at the website marriedwithpodcastwiththeholdernessfamily . libsyn . com (remove the spaces).

[@cathy3305]

Dont feel bad.. this is the first I've heard of it too. :(

[@ellamcd2659]

“Does the Holderness family homeschool” Pen: “no” Kim: “super no” COVID-19: “ I’m about to change that” Btw so so so sorry for ruby

[@lalights6]

Yes, 2020 had other plans...lol

[@d0me0]

Lol

[@ladygrndr9424]

Watching this in 2021 after watching all the rest of the 2020 videos, and....yah....

[@pollycrawford4349]

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[@oaktree7441]

I didn’t know about cute little Ruby. So sad when little boy crying. I hope Ruby is ok and safe in her new home. Do you get to hear from her?

[@gobigagrace5612]

Oak Tree the little boys name is Penn Charles

[@southernfarmmomma3818]

Poor Penn Charles. We had to re-home our black lab for aggression. It's hard. Love your videos.

[@brot5621]

I’m not an emotional person. It takes a lot to make me cry. I only cry about things with my family. It’s hard to make me truly feel sad about other people but when they talked about ruby I felt really bad. I didn’t cry but it’s still sad. I wish the best for you and your family. I’m from Tennessee!

[@aaronhadley8085]

Oh, PC...I still remember the day my parents gave away my German Shepherd when I was 7 years old. I'm 55 now and I still cry over losing Beau at times. I have a wonderful service dog, Smokey now and I'm so glad you found Sunny.

[@janesmith1398]

Me too. In my 50s. His name was Shep. 😢

[@LB-hr3ce]

So sad for the pain Penn Charles went through when Ruby was mentioned. You all are so talented & I appreciate the laughter you bring into our lives. What a darling family you are.

[@bilby7180]

"Do the Holderness Family Homeschool" "No" Just you wait :) (Covid19)

[@igirlgeek]

Bilby Telfer was just about to comment this XD

[@ashalaskar133]

lol wut i was gonna say

[@hallowedspaces7034]

Exactly what I was thinking...

[@ashalaskar133]

lol i was gonna comment that XD

[@ashalaskar133]

@Jessica S nothin to be sorry about - I did too!! j

[@madiantin]

4:34 Was not expecting that. Heart immediately broke. Oh that hurt to hear. But the concern and affectionate comforting was very sweet to watch. You guys did all the right things with Ruby. You are great examples. Major high fives to Penn Charles for his courage.

[@jomomma1972]

Thank you for not taking the advice to put Ruby down. Dogs are not merely animals. They have personalities just like kids. Sometimes you can change your life for the dog. Other times it is best to change the environment. If she was a safety risk for the family, she needed a different environment. I hope she is doing well where she is. One day I hope you are able to find the perfect pooch match for the family. I work for an animal sanctuary and we rescue from shelters. We hear these stories ftrequently. I am glad Ruby didn't end up in a shelter

[@katherinepollock]

6:21 Little did they know a few months later they would be living a homeschool nightmare ;)

[@evansfamily8156]

Thank you for sharing about Ruby. My sister had a very sensitive dog too. Big hugs 🤗 to all of you for all your sacrifice in finding her a safer home. PC, Ruby knows you love her. She knows that you are her boy. She knows she would be with you now if she could change how stressed she gets about her triggers. She is really glad she is in a safe place and that her triggers are less frequent and more manageable there too. It is always good to love and be loved. Ruby thanks you for giving her all the love you do and did. 💙

[@Caninecancersucksrocks]

Thank you for not putting Ruby down. I have a springer spaniel who I was told the same thing about...it’s taken us many years, but she did eventually steady out. She still isn’t good with strangers, probably never will be, but I am a retired empty nester with lots of time on my hands to devote to her. Very happy you found her a home that will suit her needs ❤️ Penn Charles, my heart hurts for you and your family buddy. Mom and Dad did the right thing, as I’m sure you know, but sometimes (no matter how much we wish it could be otherwise), sometimes not every dog is the right fit for every family. I’m so sorry you’re hurting. Big hugs

[@Leah_Jordan]

I feal so bad when people do Q and As and they get questions that make them cry.

[@AngrySpongeCraft]

“Does the holderness family homeschool?” “No!” This did not age well 😂 Just a little joke to help cheer people up. I’m really sorry about Ruby, I can’t imagine the pain you guys went through.

[@reesefisher9641]

❤️

[@erin7626]

😂

[@lynnees9828]

That was sweet. A new fan. Penn, I feel ya. Shows what a good, loving soul you have. I bawled too!

[@Rapunzzel07]

This was sweet to watch. I love your family dynamic, you are a great example of what a KZbin family can be like without letting it take over your souls. 🙌🏻 PC bounced back well from that tough time, proud of you, Penn Charles! ♥️ Love you guys.

[@lenarae3393]

Oh my goodness I love your videos. I am 30 and I don’t have kiddos of my own but I am. 5th grade teacher and your videos give me an insight on a lot of things. Your rawness over your pup had me in tears. I love how you didn’t shut the camera off. You gave your son the option to take a break but showed us the real effect that had on your family. Thank you formatting us see not everything is not sunshine and rainbows.

[@eliseevans953]

Thank you for keeping it real. Hurting along with PC. Glad you mentioned the podcast as I didn’t know you had one. Keep rocking, keep encouraging & bless you all!

[@Zrose_42]

Omg when Penn Charles just instantly started crying on that one question my heart broke. I know I am late on watching this video but I am in 2020 and you guys are getting me through this. THANKYOU!!!

[@dinglebarry528]

Fast forward 7.5 months later. Nothin’ but homeschoolin’ baby!! (I’m so glad my kids are grown!)

[@MammaOVlogs]

loved it and loved learning new stuff about you! When you talked about Ruby it made me cry.

[@jouleoconnordo5545]

I have been there, too, and I can tell you that you did the best thing for Ruby by finding her HER best home - Blessings to you and your beautiful family! I love the SUNNY video "You can't stop me!" - keep on blessing US the way you do because we love YOU GUYS!

[@rickrick7895]

It's so hard to find wholesome entertainment, I hope you can keep doing your videos and have fun doing them for a long time. Thank you!

[@darkdaygirl]

I’m so glad to be in your fan base family! You guys were one shiny place in my 2020. I’m thankful for you. 💜

[@ElainefromPenguinPlaceCrafts]

I watch "Bread Guy" or the "my husband is acting like a dog" videos when I'm having a bad day, because Penn Charles's laugh is good medicine. So I cried with him on this video. So glad Sunny joined your family a few months after this!

[@abbybaker5900]

I was going to say that too I love the bread guy video

[@NerwenAldarion]

You guys absolutely did the right thing in regards to Ruby. Not all dogs can be in a busy environment, my family had to do something similar and it still hurts. No one should shame you.

[@Daiska_Plays]

I had no idea they no longer have "normal jobs", that makes me very happy, because I can safely look forward to these great videos continuing! Also, the question about the beginnings.. so modest "a lot of views" on the Christmas jammies.. yeah.. 17 million! I actually only discovered them recently looking for C-19 parodies (hands down, they win that category! End of the roll is epic) I subbed, so like always, I go to the channel video list, to the very beginning to see where it started, saw the jammies one, and the number of views on it, and smiled, thinking if anyone deserves overnight success, it's this wonderful family :) Oh and just realized this is a second channel.. subbed to this too! All content is 100% enjoyable. I never have really had a family, so I think they're giving me something I never experienced. Thank you for that.

[@scrapperk8399]

This is such a good, even emotional video. Thank you for sharing with us! 💕

[@banana_supremacy]

I understand the dog troubles Penn Charles, I have a really sweet dog who we've been trying to train for about three years now. She is a sweetheart with humans, but she goes insane with other dogs. She tries to hurt them, and she's bitten my mom dad and I a couple times before. We tried training, but it's really difficult to train a dog who we don't know anything about. She was a rescue from Puerto Rico, and because of all the paperwork messups, we thought she was good with dogs because she had been in a foster home with other dogs. They also said our beagle rat terrier mutt was a lab-Shepard mix. She most certainly is not. But we've been adjusting to this, and we've been able to get her used to a few neighbor dogs. Slowly but surely, we've decided what to do. For the moment she's still ours, but we all know we need to find her a new home soon. One with lots of space for her to play with her new family, and no more neighbor dogs. We'll miss you Jingle, but we know it's best for you. And hey, maybe we'll both find a new family dog. They won't replace Ruby or Jingle, but they'll still love to lick our faces and keep us company

[@mariehoney31]

Wow, this was awesome! I'm so glad you guys share so much about yourselves. We also had to rehome the first dog we had as a family, and I was very upset that day. Much love to you, Penn Charles! :)

[@moonshine4049]

Nice to finally know your net worth 😂😂. So Sorry to hear about your Ruby. So heartbreaking. My girlfriend got a doodle from a puppy 3 years ago. It grew and became more aggressive as time went on for absolutely no reason. They did the trainer thing too. Sadly the dog was broken mentally and couldn’t be trusted. He was given back to the breeder where it cornered her 4 year old daughter and had to be put down. I am thankful that Ruby never went after your family and you definitely did the right thing letting her go. Hugs.

[@earthcat]

I am so happy you guys are in the world...you lift me up. 💖 from East Tennessee! I was very fond of Ruby, bless her heart.

[@emilyrose4639]

I feel bad for Pen Charles it must have been so hard the kids to give away there dog

[@tish225]

I've just recently discovered you guys, but we also had to re-home a sweet but misunderstood dog after our daughter was born. So I understand the struggle! AND SHE LOOKS JUST LIKE RUBY! Thankfully we found her a great home too.

[@troytroy6325]

Mad respect. Dang Penn that is an active mind. So happy to see your family love amongst you all. Keep up the good work folk. And family.

[@michellem4287]

I totally support your decision regarding Ruby. It's a hard one that I have had to make but the right one! 💚 Every dog is an individual and, like people, not all are family dogs. I wish more people would be that socially responsible.

[@peggyhancock8004]

I love you guys! Thank you for keeping it real. 💖

[@kristintt6472]

Awww poor PC. Broke my heart when he started crying. So cool that you are living in the same town as me. Your family is awesome.

[@jamesohehir5728]

When Penn Charles started to cry i was like "aww" but the after hearing the story i was instantly said " AWW PENN CHARLES IT HURTS ME IN THE FACE" Penn Charles is so sweet.

[@emi7912]

Aww🥺 I miss Ruby - Ruby videos were the sweetest ever - but it’s good to hear she has a new home where she can have a safe, happy life, thanks to you for recognizing what was best for her.

[@ellatime2354]

I really enjoy your videos and I’m the same age as Penn Charles :) Edit: my brother is the same age as Lola

[@susanbrandon4103]

I've loved catching up on all your videos....my Covid addiction is KZbin... and I had wondered what happened to Ruby. It broke my heart to watch Penn Charles. I know how hard it is to deal with a dog that just doesn't fit. I did it for 16 years and you're right...it was a full time job. I often wonder if I would have been better off finding a new home for her. I thought that after she crossed the bridge, we'd be done with dogs but a week later my daughter moved home with her dog and we just kept acquiring them. We've ended up with mostly Golden Retrievers and thankfully we have dogs that all get along. Give Sunny hugs.

[@mollybartel6585]

I love you guys so much! you always brighten my day when you upload! Thank you!

[@mlpattersonfisher1901]

Awwww... Big hugs to Penn Charles. (He made me cry too)

[@acrookedpinky2689]

Love you guys,poor Penn Charles,I wanted to cry too.pls dont stop making videos.so fun to watch.my family is a hot mess,need to live vicariously through you guys.lol

[@christencouto6859]

Thanks for making this and all of your videos. Your comady and family have helped me in these hard times.

[@kajlove1]

ok, I clicked on you guys by accident on Facebook and found the Spice Latte Song, which I commented on. Hilarious! So when i got home I decided to watch it on KZbin TV and I found this video. You guys are so talented and fun. When your son (who is super adorable) started crying over the dog. I was to touched and I have just binged a few more videos to include the first Christmas Jammies one! You have a lovely family with a great sense of humor. I have an adult daughter and 2 sons and we laugh and cut up all the time so I really appreciate this because I love to laugh!

[@Freebuscus]

After that impression of dad’s dad, I want to see him in a video. He sounds hilarious.

[@PhilsFamily]

oh my god, i recognize that inside edition clip! I don't remember what it was about but I remember the clip! sorry to hear about Ruby, but glad she got a new home. gotta say, Lizzy and I have loved your channel since we first watched you. y'all are a big inspiration to my channel (not the only inspiration but still pretty big). thanks for being a part of our lives. and lizzy says "Lola is my age!"

[@johnnyramz2605]

Aww i love the way they talk about penn's brother, they looked genuinely happy to talk about him. Its so endearing

[@lex4679]

My family tried 5 times for a dog. First one was a sheep dog and would herd and nip my brothers into a corner. Second one was depressed and needed more dogs in the house. I forget why we rehomed two of them since I was either not born or to young. The last one was a perfect fit for the family. It is sad but if she is in a home perfect for her then that's what matters.

[@gtgrandom]

I had to give my dog back to the rescue organization for rehoming, and this video just broke my heart because I know how devastating it can be. I only had my dog about 10 days, (full of jumping fences, chewing madness, and barking matches with neighborhood dogs) but after I found out she was a kelpie mix and would not thrive in the urban living situation I could offer her (she's an intense herding dog), I decided to give her back, knowing she'd be happier in a suburban home with lots of people, activity, and stimulation. She was one of the smartest and sweetest dogs (albeit wild) I'd ever met, and she loved to cuddle. It was heartbreaking, but I know she'll be better off somewhere she can roam freely all day.

[@TheDazymae2]

Oh your sweet baby boy. That made me cry. What a sweetheart. I am so sorry. But thank you for not putting her down.

[@kellyneiser7956]

PC and Kim had me in tears. I know that had to be so difficult. Disappointing your children and seeing their heart break is soul crushing. I'm so sorry.

[@scrapperk8399]

Thank you for answering the making money question-I always wonder, too! 😀

[@maryraprager5597]

I live in Troutman NC, about an hour from Raleigh. And suffer from serious anxiety and depression. Watching your videos always brings me so much happiness! Thank you please keep doing what your doing!

[@theatregirl16]

Great start to my day!! Thank you! Love PC's laugh!! Don't worry, Lola, your orthodontist will be ok with you eating dinner but not all of that, speaking from experience lol🥰💙

[@wictoriaojheden]

I'm so glad that you re-homed the puppy and not decided to have her put down. :), loved the net worth answer :D

[@spklyunicorn]

I love y'all to bits! My ESL college students get a real kick out of your parodies (Man Cold and Mom Shorts are their absolute faves!) Hugs and auntie smooches to PC over the rehoming of Ruby. Adulting can be hard not only on y'all, but on the kids as well. I hope y'all get another pet soon (have y'all considered fainting baby goats? They're adorable!). Greetings and much love from this Southern Gal in Costa Rica!

[@Laurieohio]

You did all you could for Ruby. You guys are wonderful! My son says you are not Holdernesses but Holderni!

[@zurychacosta3483]

ohhhh what a sweet boy :( you can tell pc has a huge heart. it sounds like you guys did the right thing for ruby, AND for your family.

[@PinkyRAE]

The story about ruby basically described my dog Zelda...only the trainer was super rude to us and thought it was our fault...my family thinks i have ptsd from it because I can’t remember any details of it despite it happening a few years ago... im so glad my family isn’t alone with the Zelda situation 😭❤️

[@rachelle_banks]

Well *I* have subscribed! I've never seen "Christmas Jammies". My brother just tagged me to watch your innovative Hallmark Movie spoof "Christmas For Christmas" (I write a LOT of goofy songs and was inspired after realizing how all those Hallmarkian drama movies that feature stars over 50 years old use the same kind of "almost country" music to write an original song called "Broken Christmas Star"). I saw you and said, "Hey. I've seen a video from them before. They crack me down." Found ya on KZbin and I plan to binge on your vlogs and videos! Thanks for the comic relief. :-) Be well!

[@RedCornStudios]

Thanks for sharing guys!

[@dumboli0321]

Thank you for your openness and honesty.

[@lisabowenhospital]

Thank you for sharing info about your family 🙂

[@books4ever687]

Hey, homeschool family here!!! Its AWSOME! oh my GOSH! The best thing ever

[@Zrose_42]

When Penn charles started crying my heart just broke into a million pieces

[@fdg7281]

You guys are the best! We are totally watching your videos to cheer us up during this Coronavirus crisis! Quick question, Kim-Where did you get your blouse? I am about your size and love it! Thanks Holderness family!

[@goldanagaming4134]

I have a rescue dog that has super bad PTSD and overall trauma. When I saw him at the shelter he was cuddled up to the other dogs, but he wanted nothing to do with the people. The shelter staff had not been able to get him to warm up in months. I needed a friend for my other pup while I am working, so I thought it was something we could work on. When they plopped him into my arms as I walked out the door, he was instantly at home. I drove home with him wrapped around my neck like a scarf. At first he was cordial-ish to other people, but then he got very overprotective. Going outside is terrible because his anxiety is so bad he shakes all the time. He bit my brother the first time he met him because my brother "knew" that scratching him just right would make Corbin like him... It didn't work. I know that if others come into the house or to the door and Corbin gets out that he will bite, so I have to be extremely careful. I don't have kids or anything and am able to give him the space that he will not harm anyone or himself. I can completely understand how bad it would hurt to let him go even though he is kind of a monster. I am sorry you went through that and I am glad you were able to find Ruby an environment that she would not have to be put down.

[@Rietu]

Poor kiddo... That's a rough question for even adults. I can only imagine how hard it must be to have to make that kind of a decision - something for the dog's best interest. I'm glad you found somewhere safe!

[@unicorngurl89]

Omg the more i watch your videos, the more i love Penn's sense of humor!

[@rgrill5227]

Great job guys. Thanks for sharing.

[@breckpeabody1473]

We went through the exact same thing with having to re-home a dog, we worked so hard to make it work, and the decision was very hard. I feel for PC, and also for Kim, because I was the Kim in our house.

[@laurieg.1413]

When I discovered you, i spent dayyyys viewing past posts! Now i am proud to be a part of your fanbase!

[@John_Be]

Great video. Thank you. PS: My kids and I are LOVE your Greatest Showman parody, "Get in the car and go" video! Except for us it's 6:52; stupid early bus.

[@dianaw4072]

Our early bus comes that early, too!! I agree...stupid early! And he doesn't get home till 4:50!

[@mjmaccabee7252]

I'm watching this in 2023, 4 years after it was recorded, and the comments about homeschooling hit very differently now. Fortunately I discovered the Holderness family in the early days of the pandemic, and their videos helped get me through it.

[@cscgnessin]

You live in Raleigh! Penn’s from Durham!! How cool! I grew up in Henderson and am still surprised when anyone cool is from NC much less living there now. I love the Carolina Duke T-shirts.

[@skylad27]

Love you guys sm!! 💕

[@loobtoob]

Aw!!!!! That mood changed in an instant! 😢

[@tcan4959]

So sorry to hear about Ruby. My heart is broken for your family

[@CrissyMcDaniel]

Oh my heart. PC made me cry. You never have to explain yourself to anyone. I just wanna kiss his face!!

[@lindaacosta2435]

Sending big squishy grandma hugs from Jacksonville NC!

[@merissamakesstuff]

When Penn Charles started crying I did, too. Poor baby. 🥺😢😭 Reminds me of when my nanny kids cry. Hurts my heart.

[@garlandajoyce1980]

This was super fun to watch!

[@nelsonaguiar4361]

I love your family, fun honest and very close. So sorry about your puppy.