We are all flawed (you’re not alone)

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[@kelonda]

Literally came to the realization that people are going through the same things as me. I actually feel like I'm complaining less because I know I'm not alone in these struggles 😂😂

[@calebjansen1176]

Foresure we all go through stuff its apart of life and might i say this life aint easy its depressing as*.Thanks to carlos man for sharing you flaws with us its really alot i know to express i myself cant express though i thank you and i learn from you.

[@kyleyoung6918]

Timing of this is wild. Currently in therapy for a p0rn addiction that I’ve had off and on since high school. I have been married for 6 years, and my wife has been my biggest support system with breaking free from lust and suggested I get therapy. Lust and p0rn totally breaks intimacy in a marriage.

[@chinagorominfxokafor]

I used to feel like being married would help me escape porn but when I heard Terry Crews I realised I must overcome it before marriage or relationship, now your testimony confirms it too, thanks for sharing

[@shefflontidwell8216]

My brother you are giving so many people hope, guidance and support!

[@romach_11]

The struggle of contentment of ones current status, accomplishments, progress in meeting the goals they're working on and crossing them off their list and happiness within self.

[@jonathanthomas2258]

THIS IS WHY I FOLLOW YOU! You are so real! Your videos bring me so much joy!

[@ladyrenaethomasjames]

Carlos, I am PROUD OF YOU for this video 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿 Not gonna lie I’ve watched you evolve since Taja and it looks BEAUTIFUL on you 🤎 Suicidal ideation is real for a lot of people including myself. It doesn’t mean that you’re suicidal but if it moves from an idea to planning that’s when a person needs to be under surveillance. I love seeing your personal growth 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿 You are doing AMAZING ☺️ Also your group of friends are 🔥🔥🔥🔥👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿 I love seeing y’all‼️

[@kristinrodriguezrealtordmv3434]

Your transparency is freshing and a blessing to many I am sure. Therapy is so clutch! It should almost be mandatory! Congrats on the blessings and getting the healing you need 💪🏽

[@karliiiie]

Family, faith, finances ain’t nothing without health!

[@martinafako9531]

Trauma, fear of failure and failure of loosing my current job. I'm not ready for therapy 😅 wish i could speak to someone very very far from me who won't ever see me

[@nicoletteswinton5863]

Proud of the faith talk, even when it gets hard, keep going. There is BEAUTIFUL peace with Christ. Unmatched PEACE.

[@NavierPatterson]

The timing on this video could only be God. im 22 and lust is my biggest hurdle to success right now, Im always wrestling with the feeling that i should try to get as many girls as i can because maybe one day i wont be able to. Hearing someone ahead of me on a similar journey talk about it is actually really eye opening.

[@crashercrasher9696]

Lol, what youre trying to prove getting many girls? 😂 Who is your validation from doing that? 🤣

[@dtp_drip2659]

You a real one bruh, this video was so needed. Your transparency is extremely admirable.

[@PoSHEmediaglobal]

Thank you for your transparency 😊 Keep going I struggle with regret a lot and lately self hate I have a friend I talk to about it There are days when it’s overwhelming and other days non-existent It happens when am triggered mostly

[@OneVeronique]

Thank you for this transparency ❤ How’s your relationship with your Mother Does this affect you & the things you deal with? Continue to show yourself Grace & be gentle with yourself We are all healing & we are familia 🤎 Congratulations on all of your endeavors 🥂

[@BRXTNOFFICIAL]

Jeremiah a real one jumping on that 2-miler with you too! Silas owe you 4-miles next running day 😂💯

[@haaaileey44]

I'm glad you're becoming more understanding to the complexities of the human experience. It's nice to see you grow out of the a-hole persona and be more transparent, keep it up!

[@voshawncameron5441]

Thank you for sharing! I needed to hear that

[@Rodnyet]

This vid is definitely on point and was needed. We all struggle with things in life but nothing better than shutting off all the devices and just getting some peace.

[@foluadeniyi2107]

Needed this today 🙏🏾❤️

[@Tffanyc]

We appreciate the honesty & vulnerability of this video & the topics Carlos!

[@lifesathlete5913]

You are so real for this. Thank you for being vulnerable.

[@emilnielsen8163]

Thank you for your epiphany Carlos! We appreciate the effort you put into your youtube channel! It's really emotional how much people are dealing with, but aren’t letting other people in/talk about it.

[@JasmineJMorris]

Love this! And the world needs you here and enjoys you as a human so keep shining your light. Take care!

[@DatTxKid]

This video came right on time…currently thinking about seeking therapy. Just right now feeling like I’m not good enough and don’t know how to step up and stand up…

[@oceansgallery]

Thank you for sharing this information. You’re so right. #Mindset is key.

[@msarmstrong410]

I appreciate your transparency, thank you for opening up to us. I know you're helping people in so many ways... Keep being you!

[@bryanthestyliss]

Congrats on the brand deals bro def inspiring & pushing/manifesting to get to this point in my journey as a creator. Great Video & always appreciate hearing you speak on issues you deal with & using it as a message /theme for your videos cuz somebody always can relate or connect.

[@MM-xe5sv]

Thanks Carlos 😊

[@twonrichpo1126]

Yes we alllll dealing with shit. That's for sure bro

[@chinagorominfxokafor]

Thanks for keeping it real and i love the 3 fs

[@syanda.v_dlamini]

Sorry for being long😅😅 hope this comment finds well What can I say is being human is a seminar, and I've dealt with the same thing like masturbation addict taking woman as an object which I turned to not date anymore to fix my image on how I visualise woman mentally I'm not struggling because guys broke that curse and thank you for that, I'm a content creator now that the struggle I chose but its not that much of a pressure because the mindset is what you guys have I already have I still do it at my home town with less equipment but that's not an excuse cause life haven't hit yet so ill work on the understanding of the campaigns and the out reach, I have been through things but I haven't been through a lot yet the mission is to do even it feels like nothing is happing, thank you man for opening this topic for me my transparency is at my podcast discover & reconcile where I have the power to discover and reconcile with the stories you have shared to brake our curse.

[@destiniwarren1041]

Amazing I opened KZbin to this video! I have struggled on and off with lust since middle school (2008) and it’s been really ramped up lately. I was in therapy for 3 years up to 2019 but haven’t been back for 4 years though I think about going back often. Thank you for saying it doesn’t mean there’s something wrong with you because the devil tries to tell me I’m not repairable. I know that’s not true because that peace that came when I was doing the work truly does surpass all understanding. The Battlefield of the Mind was the best thing to read for me when going through the beginning of my journey to health. The struggle of motivation for me is real but I love seeing others going through the same things, we will win this war!!

[@JHawk]

Keep it up bro! Crazy motivating for myself

[@tdoublea3820]

Hope all is well homie, keep making this fire content ✊🏽

[@ChrisAClark2024]

I needed to see this🥺

[@AdriennOnita]

My respect for you went up even more. We all are caught in some cage and believe we are alone in it. We are not alone. So many men are in the bondage of sex addiction and at one time they were told it's how they are suppose to be But it is not ok, it is destroying them. Once you do not have control of whatever it is, you are in bondage. Men need to hear a man saying we struggle but through a process we can overcome. We all need that. As men and women we need to have these conversations.

[@KevinMasonJr]

Bro!!! I appreciate your vulnerability and openness . I pray you continue to be expand on your faith, and get more and more closer to God. God bless you and keep the vlogs coming ✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽

[@iljayael]

U a real one for this bro 🫡

[@thecoolclub127]

I do have lustful thoughts but I am on the journey to recovery, the thoughts or things that lead me to porn I try to put it into something worthwhile. Also changing the way I eat is an important aspect of stopping my vices. Goodluck to everyone to this journey you not alone❤

[@travis37115]

Aye!!! I see ya Los! Good video, I needed this!!

[@Stevepledge]

Thanks for great motivation bro

[@JUST-IN..MOBILEPODCAST]

NO DONT SAY WE IMPERFECT THATS JUST WHAT WE BEEN PROGRAMMED TO THINK WE ARE PERFECTLY DESIGNED

[@Mark23Martin]

I thank you many others thank you for this talk because bro I have had those times to where I would feel like that if I wasn't here it would be all good that came through my mind plenty of times but I tell myself I have a purpose I have a purpose as always bro I APPRECIATE YOU WE APPRECIATE YOU GOD BLESS US ALL 🙏 🙏

[@stephanienelson5055]

Great video! Scene on the beach, beautiful! So inspirational when you talk about your finances and how much you make with brands. If you can do it, so can we!! 😊

[@BRXTNOFFICIAL]

My dawg Los gettin LEEAAAAN! 💪🏾🔥

[@kamirareed722]

Thanks for sharing. Because of my abuse it’s hard for me to enjoy sex or I feel guilty after. I’m in therapy for it. But today I feel down just trying to keep above water with life. Dang I didn’t even realize until you were talking about it. I’m trying to just get out of survival mode financially- praying for all of us 💙

[@bwabymafia]

Wow I thought I was the only one struggling

[@TheKing-rb6jo]

Great video

[@Angel-yl2be]

You're good.. you make me think of an order brother❤

[@kajekreative]

Lust is something I deal with but I’m just taking it one day at a time and praying a lot more instead of falling back into my ways

[@naphtalyrooi540]

No but thanks for sharing! Im going through depression because i broke my foot almost an year ago and still having a broking foot till this day! This is week 2 that im doing better mentally.

[@Mlondihlela]

Carlooooo....read that as if it metro boomin song. Been locked in with this guy since 2022 hes grind is crazy❤

[@rome3501]

Real Shit

[@sarahrebholz6590]

Hey Carlos Greetings from Germany, we🖤

[@donovan847]

I love this video; I currently (& not diagnosed) am going through sex addiction. As a gay man, the world oversexualize men and I’m very low-key do not want to be apart of that.

[@kamirareed722]

Wow $8,000 for 15mins - God keep blessing him and his family

[@lawrenceshichana]

Man I relate with the lust as a coping mechanism & suicidal thoughts. At this point I'll succumb to the latter if I'm not where I wanna be by August this year. Life can be so exhausting man & therapy is just well commercialised & glorified bs.

[@goddessenergyalways2516]

Your purpose has NO DEADLINE. Give yourself grace. Keep climbing!

[@SportsLifeUnited]

tough!

[@matthewcormier8744]

I felt low at times

[@crashercrasher9696]

Ecclesiastes 6: 12 For who knows what is good for man in life, all the days of his vain life which he passes like a shadow? Who can tell a man what will happen after him under the sun? New King James Version

[@user-sd5zk5zr7l]

27:05 Ronaldinho would be proud

[@Mlondihlela]

I've been in University in my third year now and i dont have any friemds like literally it always me and my books like i came here to study hut it does get lonely

[@cherb3145]

Hope things improve. Try to join a club or something.

[@MM-xe5sv]

Don't let the feeling of loneliness take over your university life. Find things to do, run, go to the library to read, volunteer, sign up to tutor juniors, join a bible based church. Eve, if you are studying you should learn to enjoy the life you have. God bless you 😊

[@crashercrasher9696]

You can do shít and shít stuffs because you have all the resources and time, try to remove all of that and youll learn to be contented and humble, " Nearly all men can stand adversity, but if you want to test a man's character, give him power,”

[@user-vz4lq4we2k]

Recently lost my friend and I don't know to feel

[@vozmars7626]

I need a meaningful relationship 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

[@kiloskywalker]

Mannnn lust has took me to some dark places im thankful God has help me deal with it

[@Galzlovefashion]

Hi Carlos! Are you and your girlfriend still together?

[@badeyemijohn]

Family fitness faith finance friends food

[@TheRealRovkstsr5]

Bro just buy a house so your daughter will have a playground and a dog 😂 ......you will feel home after that

[@precious1416-]

Thissss is so good!