I thought my mind would change about children but the older I get the stronger that desire to NOT have children gets. I’ll be 33 in May, it’s a strong NO for me.
@dickersonr617210 ай бұрын
Then don’t do it. I’m sure you be around kids throughout your life that not yours lol. Follow your path!!!!
@prettygurl74710 ай бұрын
Same. I’m 34 and I’ve decided a few years back to live child-free. Stand firm on your decision too because people will try to change your mind. This is YOUR experience - nobody else’s! 🫶🏾
@ValenciaRose.10 ай бұрын
I knew someone like that, they got an abortion before too. Now they're 40s and hoping to get pregnant naturally as a divorced woman.
@nitabonita86bg6110 ай бұрын
it’s not even uncommon anymore 🤷🏾♀️ just don’t
@iamdashdanage10 ай бұрын
I’m a mother of 3 yes definitely wait until your ready ❤❤
@covrtneymarie10 ай бұрын
didn't want this video to end, you're so fun to watch. you're like a big sister, your words of encouragement touch me and your humor is just like mine lol! i love to see the way you are handling this, so inspiring
@AmberMartinTV10 ай бұрын
awwww i love this comment!
@SweetpeaC10 ай бұрын
She is. I thought it was an hour blog but was sad it was only 30 mins 😭😂
@SimplyMagg10 ай бұрын
Expectations are high after a long relationship 😅 I feel you.
@Crystalthomas2710 ай бұрын
Facts ! But I think we just know exactly what we want after that
@FabKisses0310 ай бұрын
7:09 I love hearing other women describe how I want to be loved because anytime I express it, it’s “you read to many books” “that’s not even real” “that’s hella toxic” I legit thought I was crazy for even thinking about what you’re expressing. Now I’m like if you can’t love me the way I want just say that and get out my face lol
@AlexisBelon10 ай бұрын
Damn this comment had me skipping to 7:09. Btw idk if you’re into nyc vlogs but if so, you might like mine! I’d be sooo grateful if you swung by and took a peek. 🙏 Stick around if you like!
@FabKisses039 ай бұрын
@@AlexisBelon I’m just seeing this but I subscribed to your channel. I’m definitely going to watch
@carlacyril10 ай бұрын
I loveeeeee this hair on you😻
@AmberMartinTV10 ай бұрын
awww thank youuuuu
@journeywithmari685210 ай бұрын
I’m newly single as well (ended an 8 year relationship) and your videos are so comforting to watch. I feel less alone ❤
@Shaye1310 ай бұрын
Not “muah, no man”! Amber please 😭😭
@ShaeB139 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@miayahodgescphtrpht201610 ай бұрын
Amber I haven’t watched in awhile, so sorry about you and Donavan. I also see your mom and sister on TikTok live a lot!!! So happy to see you doing good 🩷🩷🩷
@naomibeautymind622610 ай бұрын
This video was so relatable. I Love that Amber is showing different sides of herself.
@tamarra.j9 ай бұрын
this dump is so me >> love how relatable this was! I feel like often times as women we can hold back on how emotional we truly are, so I love when I see influencers be open & honest about real emotions we go thru
@bella.be.cooking627110 ай бұрын
Why I just love this Side of amber that we didn’t know existed
@bisiayeni178710 ай бұрын
Yes, that’s us Pisces , we are lover girls . Also just left a 5 year relationship and live alone. It’s been a year now and It does get easier. Also happy early Bday Amber.
@livalittleee133110 ай бұрын
Thanks for opening up Amber 💕💕 we appreciate these videos
@itstatiyana9 ай бұрын
As a Pisces😭 sis we are LOVERS, we struggle so bad in these streets. We are NOT for the streets and yes! We love all love languages and definitely love words of affirmation! And we do love our partner to be OBSESSED 😭 because why am I not your life?!
@Leevon749 ай бұрын
Don't forget communication ❤ 2/24 pisces here😊
@itstatiyana9 ай бұрын
@@Leevon74communication for sure?! #1 priority with us or we’ll lose interest
@SamariaYvonne10 ай бұрын
Amber has me weak. She is so hilarious. Her true personality is everything. ❤
@courtneyparrish85769 ай бұрын
Amber trying different things and I love this for her. Getting to know herself
@MaiyaMissy10 ай бұрын
I giggled when you spoke about the love languages & said “I want it all” 😂 because SAMEEEE sis😂❤
@mizzpeach0110 ай бұрын
Yoooo I’ve been here for coffin nail to short and cute nail Amber. To long buss down hair amber and now we get the half up half down moment. Ooooh don’t hurt nothing in these 2024 streets!! 😍😍😍😍😍
@annamichelslife33439 ай бұрын
it's so refreshing to watch your videos Amber and I love that.
@hyss0p_honey9 ай бұрын
Love the hair, love the video, love the vibes, as per usual! I hope this new season of life you're in is full of blessings!
@robinmcpherson394110 ай бұрын
I am so proud of you young lady. Thank you for sharing your story with us. How’s your family doing i my mother miss them all.
@tiffanywho1110 ай бұрын
Hey Amber! I’m glad you had a good Valentine’s Day! Hope all the commenters had a great Valentine’s Day as well 💗💗
@Beckyx1O110 ай бұрын
Amber you are so real!! I love that about you. The whole “idk the politics of being single” same sis. Like we just supposed to let ‘‘em do whatever? I’m new to this too 😂
@Isis-Nashe10 ай бұрын
I’m a Pisces too and same!! Every last love language is my love language😂 I need you doing ALL of the things! And I literally say the same thing about being nice to only your woman. I can’t stand a rude man and I think the women you are okay with their man not being kind is very weird and insecure because what’s wrong with him holding the door open for other women?! Chivalry isn’t just for the woman you’re attracted too, it should just be part of your personality. Of course there’s boundaries but I can’t stand a rude 🥷
@naitjj110 ай бұрын
love the hair!!! the pat in the back lmaooo it b like that
@AmberMartinTV10 ай бұрын
thank you!
@UNRULYMARSHA10 ай бұрын
I didn't have a man for valentines day but i was in Jamaica so i had fun
@AmberMartinTV10 ай бұрын
you lit baby
@ZakilahJaye2 ай бұрын
I’m currently 28 and a single pregnant woman. This is my first child and I never thought I would be in this situation but it has made me open my eyes. I was giving all my energy to someone who wanted the family lifestyle but then backed out the last minute. It’s hard sometimes but my son gave me the confidence to love myself again and I can only worry about us. So I’m gonna be boy sober for awhile until god himself sends me the right man 😅
@leyaahh10 ай бұрын
Can we talk about the hair ! Big Amb 😍
@AmberMartinTV10 ай бұрын
let’s talk lol. 🫶🏾
@brownie07210 ай бұрын
I've been watching you for years and I've always thought you and I are soo similar! I agree with dating more when you're younger. I spent time in long term relationships and while it wasn't bad thing, I do wish I had explored more. Either way I'm content now but it definitely helps in figuring out what it is you really want as an adult woman.
@gta.girlMJ9 ай бұрын
Love you Amber!! Can you list out the products you used? Down to the colour of your concealer, foundation and bronzer. I know it’s a lot of work but I love how your makeup came out and we’re a similar skin tone 💖💖
@TheFishAndTrips10 ай бұрын
Repping Team Guy here: When one becomes single, we often seek the "perfect" person, but the reality of it is, we all have flaws, so being able to accept another person's flaws is a great indication they're the right person for you. Oh yeah, I'm a 43 year-old black male with NO kids and have NO regrets. Live your selfish best life.😂
@reganniareed382810 ай бұрын
Amber you are such a big sister. love you so much and I just be so excited to hear your advice!!! also your hair, muah…ate💖
@jasmind24710 ай бұрын
I was super sad. The first time I ever had a bummy Valentine’s Day in my adult life but I treated myself!
@Nicole-hi2me10 ай бұрын
I say, if you want babies, have babies. 30 isn't old at all. Get a godly man. Be equally yoked. You will find a wonderful man that loves you. ❤😊
@CEEZYhen5 ай бұрын
I needed this! Thank you!
@lisaboyd371610 ай бұрын
Heavy on the lover girl pisces tip. Got my heart broken and was ready to do it all over again a month later. I love love😭
@Leevon749 ай бұрын
❤ 100% Pisces we love love
@mkelem4859 ай бұрын
I’m a Pisces as well and I’m the same! 😂
@cautiouskayleigh25039 ай бұрын
Hey Amber! You should do a perfume haul/ rating video.
@nyleveebony7 ай бұрын
Amber you’re literally so freaking funny. 😭I loveeee your videos so much!!!🩷🩷
@ChrissyChriss2410 ай бұрын
Wow girl I have NEVER seen you wear a dress out before! Go single Amber!!
@AmberMartinTV10 ай бұрын
purrrrrr lol
@ValenciaRose.10 ай бұрын
@@AmberMartinTV A trench coat would've looked nice with that dress if you have one
@ndelva9610 ай бұрын
I may be late but I was rooting for you and Donovan hope you both are happy
@ndelva9610 ай бұрын
And have peace after the separation
@cierranewman41479 ай бұрын
💜💜 Your so awesome for recording your journey!! 👏🏾👏🏾
@Alwaysturntup9 ай бұрын
Pride and prejudice 2005 version-from a fellow Pisces i love this movie def add to your romance movie watch list ❤
@simplyylanice9 ай бұрын
Omg yessssss!! The only version I rewatch ❤
@chartier252510 ай бұрын
I’m interested in what type of blush you are using ?
@yannafelicia95439 ай бұрын
Us women love romance ❤ you’re not alone! I feel the same way, and we deserve it all
@taj909 ай бұрын
Yep❤
@Sheytlover856710 ай бұрын
Happy when my KZbin niece post a new video. Valentine’s Day was nice I took myself out. And I did get a couple presents so I was happy. Celebrate you when you feel the need and that doesn’t exclude Vday. Keep doing you Amber.
@Keyaowavy9 ай бұрын
I’m definitely the type to listen when my man tells me I love this or I want this so when his birthday, Christmas etc comes he will have it!
@elizabethpernell655410 ай бұрын
Amber, I so enjoy watching your content. You are gorgeous! Keep Glowing ❤
@Alyssaluv2210 ай бұрын
A man that pays attention>>> naturally, I pay attention to whatever the person that I may be talking to likes so I expect the same thing
@Gxport9 ай бұрын
You should take the 5 love language quiz online. Everyone like some about of all the love languages. The quiz makes you rank them against each other with examples. For example, if you HAVE to choose one of the two, would you choose a quality time together watching a movie or someone verbally telling you that they think you're special.
@NYRARACHELLE10 ай бұрын
You be having me rollinnnn, I'm right there withcha, champ! 💗
@jalayahchin10 ай бұрын
skin is SKINNINGGG! we need the skincare routine babe!
@arielpatrice9 ай бұрын
Okay but can we get a tour on the place???? Love it!!
@Its_kkryss10 ай бұрын
The little wing with blush is so cute! I used to do big wings but I’ve crossed over 🥰💞
@_lolalocs10 ай бұрын
I was getting ready to watch someone else and then I just see your gorgeous face with a new video 🥰 Amber, you are a vibeeeeee ❤❤
@Kiikooks10 ай бұрын
This was so cute, keep the GRWM’s coming ✨🫶🏾!
@AlexisBelon10 ай бұрын
All vloggers need to bring GRWM back! Btw idk if you’re into nyc vlogs but if so, you might like mine! I’d be sooo grateful if you swung by and took a peek. 🙏 Stick around if you like!
@Kiikooks10 ай бұрын
@@AlexisBelon sure! I’ll definitely check you out ✨
@KatrinaNicoleIvy10 ай бұрын
Oh my gosh, where did you get that dining room table and chairs?
@CleansingGemAesthetics_Chii10 ай бұрын
New Makeup ✨to get DIOR CORRECT CONCEALER … idc, it’s my fave! & can be worn alone. ♥️💯
@Loooovelyb110 ай бұрын
Could you please do a updated makeup tutorial?
@shaquillamcneill961010 ай бұрын
I think I’m done with dating right now. It’s too much and too many people think they have options. I will be focusing on me and if love comes it comes ✨
@GraciousAnnB9 ай бұрын
i’m already laughing at the subtle “mwah no man” 1:24 😂😂😂
@MercedezJones9 ай бұрын
Amber is me… me is she lol like literally EVERYTHINGGGGG yu said through this whole video 🔥🔥🔥🔥 this dating world today is CRAZYYYYY… take your time… no rush
@before-berry10 ай бұрын
So cute! Loved the look and girl chat 💟🫶🏾
@sadgirlvisuals412610 ай бұрын
Me toooo!!!! For the gifts ! I’m a GREAT gift giver but I barely receive things that I like and it’s easy stuff .. cards , letter and anything homemade but nobody really takes what I want seriously👎
@tyannajohnson79 ай бұрын
I’m a Pisces and I’m definitely a lover’s girl 🥰 and as for my love language. My husband figured out that I want it all also 😅
@Sasha_xo9 ай бұрын
Skinnnn and hair really giving 😍😍
@breo53069 ай бұрын
“I was tryna land my plane” 😂 I like that
@Brownskinlove-qh4io10 ай бұрын
Ayyye almost birthday time🙏🏾hair bomb!!! It’s given baby know heard about me!!
@Melow2439 ай бұрын
Does anyone know how the hairstyle was made ? I know she said it was a quick weave, but is the quick weave only on the bottom part ? How was the top part of the hair made ? I don’t know what to ask to a stylist ?
@coxshandice10 ай бұрын
Love you Amber! 🤍 Much blessing to you beautiful 🫶🏽
@AmberMartinTV10 ай бұрын
🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾 you toooooo☺️
@soso-ry5ss9 ай бұрын
Girl are we ever getting a shoe/sneaker collection
@stephanietaliaferro671110 ай бұрын
Amber!!! The hair!!!!😍😍😍
@sharonigiba72069 ай бұрын
Girl get a dewy setting spray it’ll bring back the shine
@shakaracharde10 ай бұрын
This ENTIRE dating rant is so me.. 🤣😂. I’m a relationship girly. Tried dating in Feb of 23 after being single for a good while. I ain’t been in a pool since.. 😂.. Not my thing.
@nikitasworld143710 ай бұрын
Heeyy Sis! Happy to see you on this good Sunday. Hope you are doing well ❤.
@KayReads__10 ай бұрын
Love the hair Amber ❤
@ralainahoskins754810 ай бұрын
As a fellow pisces i feel you girl😂
@molife934310 ай бұрын
😩 marriage is harder. Missed your video glad to see your back!
@nitabonita86bg6110 ай бұрын
I love to celebrate everything I haven’t had a spouse in years I don’t even date , I desire it I’m just not in any rush. We all just gotta have fun lol
@iamdashdanage10 ай бұрын
No I feel you i definitely want somebody to be obsessed with me and definitely not so friendly I keep running into friendly men who ends up with their so called female friends after we breakup 🤦🏾♀️
@tnttnt915010 ай бұрын
I'm sorry that happened to you. You will get your Man
@iamdashdanage9 ай бұрын
@@tnttnt9150 thank you 🙏🏾😭
@melloxox110 ай бұрын
The man you are describing we have to make them out of clay one for you and one for me please ❤😊
@AmberMartinTV10 ай бұрын
lol
@Cleopatrascreed10 ай бұрын
Healing era🥰
@moniquemccollin10 ай бұрын
Never an aggressive man....more assertive man
@melloxox110 ай бұрын
The new man will be sprinkle sprinkle ✨
@thatchicktoy9 ай бұрын
@amber can you link the boots?
@keepingupwithkayla78295 ай бұрын
Who did your hair amber? I need the location or link? I live in charlotte.
@Thisreadingcorner9 ай бұрын
This is my natural face autonomy 😂 I cackle every time because what was she on??
@JanelleTiffany10 ай бұрын
I’m the same way! I want it all & KNOW we deserve it cause bffr ❤❤❤ so happy you’re opening up! Girl we the same 😂
@3toutoux9 ай бұрын
Omg what is that creed perfume name ?
@kairock542610 ай бұрын
Love u Amber 💕💕
@tryan004410 ай бұрын
Love this hairstyle on you!
@thenaildiaryro10 ай бұрын
Love you Amberrrrr!
@shaneyg2510 ай бұрын
What is that high fluffy brush you’re using ?
@winxbratz10 ай бұрын
This hair 😍🧚🏽♀️!
@simplytati40010 ай бұрын
Happy Sunday 💕
@AmberMartinTV10 ай бұрын
you too babe😊
@queentiara39 ай бұрын
Hey Amber babeeeee. Love you ♥️
@stmlifestyle334910 ай бұрын
“You Hungry … 👀👀 uh oh Your Ravenous” 😂😂😂😂
@Aliasbabe9 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@taj909 ай бұрын
😂😂
@dolapoo.789610 ай бұрын
Sorry, randommmmm question lol. Do you still like your Lexus?! Car shopping and I realized youve had yours for a while
@AmberMartinTV10 ай бұрын
love my car!
@adalynjb10 ай бұрын
can you do a youtube gear video?
@Eb__galore10 ай бұрын
Yesss hey Amber❤
@sweetnsexee10 ай бұрын
It’s the…”Are you hungry?” 😂
@joellaibe99710 ай бұрын
Please link your brushes! Btw a fellow Pisces here. I love your channel and your personality! 😊