We broke up…

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[@blancaguerrero7808]

I’m just watching her old videos but now I see why she stands her ground. Don’t judge till you hear the past

[@doragallegos3163]

Fr, I didn't know she went through all this and I have to say I have so much respect for her going through all this and still coming out strong❤❤❤

[@itzelt.2243]

THIS! She popped up and I start watching this vid & her labor vid and aww she’s gone through it fr :(

[@monicacatalan5678]

Same. Besides all the bashing, poor baby, there's the reason why she feels distant from her daughter, if she does.. 😔

[@Chilaquiles-jz7vm]

Once he matures … he’ll regret all this .. by then it will be too late. Stay strong ❤

[@zequely3972]

Scaring thing is they might never regret it

[@blahblahblah1698]

he sure does now

[@monicacatalan5678]

Think it already is.. 🫶

[@d3lilaah]

@@monicacatalan5678yep!!

[@Nottmoniiquee]

The fact that you think you sound crazy is crazy. Once you have a baby you need to be dedicated to your family. You both decided to be young parents that means you both share the same responsibility. It’s not about him going out it’s about him being a parent/boyfriend. Your feelings are valid. You aren’t crazy. Being a young mom/dad is hard I know, I wish you nothing but the best. Whether that be raising your child separate ways or together. You are brave for doing this.

[@tastelikepepsicolaa]

real say it louder . if wendy is acting “crazy” than i’m a damn psychopath compared to her 😭 and i don’t even have a baby lol

[@dg8676]

Not if it’s an accidental baby. This is what happens when the baby isn’t planned and the man obviously wasn’t serious about starting a family.

[@ivexoxo]

@@dg8676!!

[@galex9438]

@@dg8676he decided to have sex, he knew the consequences

[@stephaniea3072]

Him losing his little family over his friends is bs. I’m sorry girl I hope he changes and appreciates you and the baby and you guys work it out

[@yumichelsea]

It’s not fair you’re the one coped up at home and he’s having fun with friends, etc. put him on child support. The military will require him to pay the mother of the child support and will garnish half of his allowances. That half will go towards you, to take better care of yourself and your child’s well being. He will know how tough it is with bills and supporting a family that there is no time for “fun” he needs to grow up

[@MundoWorm]

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@victoriachavero4042]

Wendy, stop invalidating your own feelings. “I sound kinda crazy”, uh no, you sound reasonable and expressing how you felt. I’m happy you’re putting you and your child first. I wish you and Valentina nothing but the best. Proud of you 💞

[@mariibabyyy6304]

You’re tryna find any right excuse for his actions you’re use to this cycle, you deserve to find love within yourself we love you Wendy let Valentina be your help to heal . ❤️

[@haroldgiraffe3635]

excellent point

[@moralesmary3301]

Keep your head up Wendy, men cheat and once a cheater always a cheater you are a beautiful girl you can have anyone you want, just know you didn't do anything wrong he missed up. He's going to try and come back just know if you take him back he's going to do it again be strong for you and your daughter.

[@goodnightwc]

You shouldn’t have that mindset of “oh it’s fine men cheat” no first of all both women and men cheat and it’s definitely mostly women where I live so you can judge the whole damn gender just because you probably got cheated on by the guys that you chose 💀

[@nevaehb2279]

@@goodnightwcthat’s not true. Statically men cheat more. And yes u should have that mindset. Why would you trust someone who cheated? They were willing to do it once they’ll do it again.

[@Itgirllexxi]

We are here for you girl, it broke my heart seeing you cry when opening up at first but this is just the beginning of your healing. We love you always Wendy, no matter what! ☹️🩷🩷🩷

[@Mvjorgirlmvjorpvin]

Bottom line is he expected you to grow up & take care of yalls daughter, & thought he was exempt from the responsibility. You AND Valentina deserve a leader that provides, protects & CARES for both of you. You do not sound crazy, you dont need to tell more of the story, or anything of the sort, your feelings are valid, as are your desires for your family. And shame on his family for enabling his behavior. Keep sparing your daughter from heartache & disappointment, based on your experiences, YOU know who you’re protecting her from. You keep doing what you need to do to be happy, and always remember to keep your daughter save & happy. It is an admirable thing that you have tried & if one day you truly believe that the best thing to do is try again, you do it courageously & without worrying about el que diran. You are doing your daughter justice. 🩷 always rooting for you!!

[@jessikah1501]

"Friends" are always the reason why relationships don't last. guys always want to keep their friends happy but when it comes to their girl and babies they don't care 😢 keep your head up girl 💗

[@daeezee]

not “always” some guys are just immature and don’t realize when they have a queen until they loose one, but i see where you’re coming from

[@GHOSTFACEE47]

🗣️🗣️🗣️

[@briannabeecher1386]

yes

[@monicajae9972]

Then when the friends find a partner they’re gonna leave his ass hanging. By that time he won’t have a family or friends.

[@Jenni17_]

Sad how this is soo relatable 😭

[@xoxo.1234]

Coming from a single mom that went through the same situation… it’s time to focus on yourself and get your 💰 all that energy you were putting into him pour into your daughter and KZbin. We all want to see you succeed. You got this

[@lilmamma760]

%100 agree! All I can say is never chase or beg someone to be in your child’s life girl! If they wanted too then they would ❤️❤️ stay strong 💪🏻

[@karitzaalanis3664]

F yea this we literally me for two entire years now I work two jobs o just got a bomb promotion im making more money than ever & I met my bf at my job and he’s PERFECT. Now I look at my bd with disgust. Focus on your baby you and your money you will be good 💗

[@jocy6317]

How a man treats you while ur pregnant speaks volumes… Just keep up the good job on the coparenting! I’m sure Valentina would much rather see her parents separated and happy than together and miserable. Also make sure to put yourself first in certain situations because your mental health matters too. love u pretty girl!! 🫶🏼 u got this!! u got ur sisters, mom and vale’s tik tok tías 🫶🏼🥹!!

[@Miiss.bonitaa]

VERY TRUE!! ❤ realest comment I’ve seen ! For Wendy!! Glad she has supporters like this 😊 Wendy your gonna be okay! Your such a good mom! We see your struggle we hear you we are with you !! ❤

[@mari_sol4938]

Just listening to you brings back flash backs. I lived your story back in my teen years. I had my son at 17 almost 18 with my high school boyfriend. I lived almost everything you said and felt everything that you were and are feeling. Just know that thing's happen for the best. I have since met the love of my life and have been married for 8 years and i can truly say that I'm happy. You will look back and thank him for putting you threw shit because that's what will help you become the women you will become.❤

[@gabbyabigail698]

keep your head up girl. he will realize one day he made the BIGGEST MISTAKE OF HIS LIFE! You’re an amazing mama you were just looking out for your family and we get why you kept trying to reach out. no shame in that for trying to keep your family together ❤️

[@marlissacalebmorris7492]

You’re Normal, we’re all humans and we want it to work. We want our kids to have both parents in the home, but sometimes one parent doesn’t want to be a parent. You got this!! Your daughter is blessed to have you as a mom. She’ll be thankful for you and remember who was there for her. Love you girl. ❤️

[@kimg8456]

As a 32 yrold woman I wish I could be your age again and listen to others when they told me leave I held on for 9 yrs protecting him by not telling the full story. U are beautiful and young. He will never change he will come back after the party gets old. And u have to be strong. Best of luck ❤

[@Babbbbyymommma]

Seeing you cry gave me the chills! Made me want to give you a big hug. Your feelings are valid! Don’t ever let anyone make you think you’re crazy or tripping for feeling the way you did. You had every reason to feel that way. Especially because your only a couple months postpartum. Believe me when I say you will look back at this video & realize you deserved way better babygirl 💗

[@marlaaprz]

I am sorry you’re going through this. You hear this often but you do deserve better. It’s ok if it didn’t work out. Valentina deserves her mommy to be loved and respected. ❤

[@KimberlyAcosta-v1p]

Girl , like you said atleast you can say you tried . It is not embarrassing, and I feel like us mothers know and understand it is not you begging him for him but you fighting for your little family . I feel like us women grow up faster after having a baby and it takes them a little longer to mature and see stuff for how it is , but trust me as he matures and grows older he’ll realize what he did. We love you and Valentina and you got this mama💪🏼❤

[@mustbeleslieg]

I’m just now discovering you and watching this. You are such a beautiful, strong woman. You’ve just been damaged by the wrong people. I really hope that you find real love for yourself and a partner that shows you all the love that you deserve.🥺

[@riellababe3043]

My husband and I got pregnant at 17 & 18… I was going to be a senior in high school. He started college and worked at the same time while I was finishing high school. It’s been almost 6 years and we have 2 kids & a house. He has provided for us the whole entire time. I’ve been a stay at home mom. I never once had to ask for him to man up. That is the bare minimum. Of course our relationship hasn’t been perfect all these years but we try together. You deserve so much more babe. Be strong & the right one will do all these things without you having to ask. Head up love 🤍

[@nelysolis6736]

Watching you go through this definitely brought back memories. I just want to hug you! It’ll get better trust us! A lot of us have been through that, but he did you a favor! We will support you always. Make this bread sweetie, we got you!

[@yolanda8013]

GIRL LISTENNN it is not your fault!!! You can only give so much to someone. You were asking for the bare minimum and couldn’t even get that. He doesn’t deserve you, you are so beautiful inside and out. And it’s going to hurt for a bit but you will get through it I promise mama. Just love your baby and be the best mom and everything out will play out perfectly for you because you are a good person and deserve NOTHING BUT THE BEST. it’s only up from here!!! ❤️

[@alanysrosario8075]

you know your heart is pure when you still try to make him look good when he broke you...Your so strong your thoughts are not crazyyyyyy dont ever think that ❤️

[@ChristianTorres-q3g]

Don't feel embarrassed girl you just wasted to have your little family that you created all together you have the right to cry and feel the way you do. But I promise you that you will overcome these emotions and grow and learn from them one day you'll look back and your going to see how strong you are. You got this girl I believe in you ❤

[@tati_3333]

I’ve been there crying n begging for the bare minimum n now I have a amazing bf where he never makes me feel bad n he communicates so well n would never make me feel like shit again . Rooting for you 😔❤️

[@bunchxs]

you’re so strong and mature for leaving that man you did what a lot of people are afraid to do and they stay in toxic relationships, keep doing what’s good for you

[@fernandaramirez7457]

Girl I’ve been through the same. Dealing with a narcissist person is so draining and has you thinking you’re the main problem.. but NOOO! Accept what he did, forgive him so you can be in peace with yourself and you’ll see how karma plays along.. trust me he’ll be back but I hope you don’t take him back bc they never change!!!! Things will get better, you’ll see!!!! 🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶 keep your head up!

[@talia3321]

im so so sorry mama💗 i’m going through almost the exact same situation right now & you’re not crazy at all for trying so hard, no one can judge a mother who just wants a stable family for her baby. all i can say is that once we realize that there are real men that would never do even a quarter of what they did to us during one of the most beautiful & sensitive times in a woman’s life (having a baby) we will stand up and do better for ourselves. you deserve to be loved & your daughter deserves to watch you experience that love.

[@SSXO18]

Your feelings are valid. We’re so proud of you 🩵

[@sinac369]

Not the grandma calling and asking and not even the babydaddy

[@cesiilunaj.]

Pero para meterlo apoco pidió permiso a su mamá 🤦‍♀️

[@alejimenez6859]

Don’t blame yourself for anything. Maybe you were going through PPD or the blues and that made you seem mean to him. We’re still not fully there after delivering a baby.( I went thru C section as well). Let him do what he wants Wendy. A baby won’t change a man. He can’t have both lifestyles. Vale will admire for being the strong woman you are. You’re already showing her a value in putting yourself first.

[@vvs2Faded]

it’s funny watching this knowing she’s doing hella good right now love you hunny

[@C.J-Chris]

Girl you are too beautiful for him & the way he was treating you. There's a man & a real man that will do so much more for you! You & your daughter deserve so much more! I promise one day you'll look back & it won't hurt anymore & you'll find the right man for you! You don't sound crazy... You know you deserve more & don't feel bad or think it's crazy that you weren't getting what you needed from the relationship. I've been in this position too & I know it's so many things that add up. Keep your head up! You are so beautiful & strong! ❤ & Don't EVER let anyone tell you how to feel or be embarrassed about how you feel. Your feelings are valid & people are haters! Don't let what other people say affect you! People are always gunna have something to say but yet their still watching you, so shine baby girl!

[@ashlynpittard6997]

Sis when you said “I’m so delusional” it deadass made me cry for you , cause we all have felt that way in life before. 😔😭💯 you aren’t stupid or dumb for trying for your little family so stop saying that please. 💯 you are smart,beautiful,strong so whatever happens it’s in gods plan. You have a beautiful little baby and I know it doesn’t feel like it now but you will overcome this.💯🥰 I’m rooting for you girl. 💯❣️🙏🏾

[@Diannaa956]

I know it’s hard for you right now babygirl but I promised that a year or 3 years from now you will say to your self that you did the best for you and your daughter sometimes we as mother have to put our happiness first ❤ and that’s okay !! Keep your head up and let’s get you to 1 million on tik tok love ❤❤❤

[@gisselpena6850]

Girl no I completely understand you, your feelings are valid sometimes our current boyfriends stop “dating” us they kinda put us to the side and just focus on what they want to do and if they are having fun the last thing in their mind is spending that quality time with us bc we’ve been with them for so long it’s like people say just bc they have you they stop doing the things they did to get us. You deserve the best of the best love💕

[@jazminemunguia-v7l]

First time I’ve ever seen a girl express what a lot of us moms go thru what a shame of him honestly to have the audacity to act so immature while having a family he needs to respond for and you’re feelings are valid while he’s out at the club you home with baby ! You deserve “you” time as well and all you really wanted was to spend time as a family not even to go do shit he’s doing. I feel for you girl these men are evil praying for you and your family you are strong and know your worth stay strong girl ! And crazy I went to school with him and he was really nice you can’t imagine someone doing this .

[@AnaVHi]

Don’t ever let a man tell you more than once he don’t want you.. he will either tell you or show you with his actions! Good luck and don’t fold..stay strong and be the very best example for your daughter. By showing her self love and respect!

[@lizethfndz4063]

Dont blame yourself don’t hurt yourself like that. You’re the only one trying you did your part now just let things be if it was meant to be it will come back if not then no but don’t beat yourself down Wendy 😥 God bless you and your baby girl

[@evelynvargas8426]

you deserve the world Wendy. the right guy will make you feel special, not like this. Time will heal and tell. All that matters right now is your baby girl and your happiness. Stay strong!! You got this

[@l.edithx]

This is the reason I broke up with my baby dad 15 yrs ago my daughter is almost 16 and I don’t regret it. He used to have house parties at his mom’s house while I was home with the baby who knows what else he would do.

[@Jasmine.R97]

I came to this video from watching your video of Willito and the video willito just made on you, but watching this video just hit different, you've came a long way, you are so strong, saw a different side of you here. You had every right to feel this way during this time and you did nothing wrong, you deserved better! You TRIED for you and your little family and that's all that mattered, he was just too NAIVE to realize what was really important!

[@marlyngomez2095]

Your feelings are valid Wendy! I wish you the best future for you and Valentina! Love you girl your so strong for opening up to us ❤️

[@shareenyuriar]

No Wendy don’t make excuses for him. You’re better off without him.

[@AlejandroLopez-jt6rc]

Damn man doesn’t know what he’s going to lose 😤 I have 2 beautiful boys with my baby momma and mistakes were made in our relationship and she called it off just last month Because she needed to find herself. It’s hard , it really is I wish I can take back the past and have my family how we were when we were all happy. This lady has my heart and I’ll do anything to get us to the spot that we were at before.we were both young I’m 20 and she’s 21, and I hope she can see that I’m changed for the better and I only want out family to be happy together as one 🙏🏽

[@stephanylima8171]

Im over here crying with you because im going through the same thing with my partner choosing his friends over our son and me. Im so sorry keep your head up things will get easier 💗

[@prettywhenyoucry]

the video we all thought we’ve never see lol jokies 😭 but you’re so strong wendy you came a long way,things happen for a reason you can’t grow when others are pinning you down. this is your time to heal and grow 🫂🤍

[@Someoneyouwontknowlel]

He’s ughly and ur beautiful he won’t get no one

[@Littlemissmarie]

Girl I was a single mom at 19, and honestly it was hard but I was so much more happier than I was in that relationship. My days were filled with tears, being upset and just being talked down to on a daily, lying and cheating ! Once we split it was before I had found out I was pregnant I told him and he chose to not be involved. I gave birth and worked my ass off to support me and my son. Fast forward to now he’s 7 and is my best friend! I wouldn’t change how anything went down. Keep your head up everything you are feeling right now is validated and real what you feel will pass!! And you will be happy again!! Focus on you and the baby and do things that make you happy. ❤

[@amberm.a3705]

It’s not immature. You are a content creator, and influencer. Sadly it’s apart of you’re job to share personal stories from your life and hopefully not to much in to detail, to protect your peace. You are a beautiful and strong woman and will be ok ❤ Having a baby effects the relationship, it changes a lot. My husband and I had a huge communication issue and needed counseling after the 1st year, and it helped a lot. It sounds like you were already asking for the bare minimum and he was already checking out. We love you and I support you weather you get back with him or not 🫶🏼 and YOU ARE NOT CRAZY! Do not gaslight yourself. You feel what you feel and that’s ok. Sending lots of love from Los Angeles ❤

[@themomotocoryxkenshinsbonnet]

It’s not apart of her job, she doesn’t have to talk if she doesn’t want to, everything else you said is somewhat valid

[@CarmsLopez]

⁠@@themomotocoryxkenshinsbonnetI agree. She shares what she wants us to see. She doesn’t owe fans explanations. Personal matters should be kept private, unless she’s open about it, but other than that she doesn’t have share everything lol

[@MariaGonzalez-r6r]

Your feelings are valid! It’s the bare minimum you’re needing. It’s not easy being in a relationship that’s one-sided. I hope you prosper into the great love you’ve been given 💕

[@inlove0522]

He needs time? But yall want yo cancel her for leaving Disney, but yall praise this man that left her and vale when they need him the most.

[@anasandoval4665]

Shut up this is an old video

[@anasandoval4665]

Watching her old videos & I now understand her why she’s standing on business! She was trying so hard to be a family but I don’t think someone understands how it feels to be mentally abused especially from someone you loved and trusted.

[@kerncountystorieskcs3693]

She has bad luck with these guys sounds like this guy was just messing with her .

[@leslielombera8983]

Girl we love you & you’re an amazing mom , you’re not crazy at all!! You confided in your person .. who happened to fail you but you stayed strong for valentina and she will see that one day 🫶🏻 best mommy out here for real

[@krystaljacome6273]

I’m so proud of you Wendy you are so strong to be putting up with it for such a long time but you deserve better & Your such a wonderful mom to Valentina. ❤

[@scottforg0t]

Sending my love to all the single parents out there. Thank you Wendalyn

[@RKMVlogs_]

as a young first time mom who went through the same thing you did im here to tell you that your feelings are validated!!! Push through for yourself and your babygirl ! You don't deserve this. But if your paths cross one day together that it your decision !!

[@prettywhenyoucry]

i’m so glad you both are mature enough to do single parenting, keep in mind this is all for valentina although y’all both aren’t together y’all are there for her. please take care wendy your mental health matters 🩷

[@Jonah8325]

This makes me so sad, I’m glad you moved on Wendy. He didn’t deserve you, I’m so glad to see how happy you are now with Willito!

[@GracielaCamarena-yk3jr]

You can love him all you want and try your hardest to keep your family together but you can never force love. You are trying your hardest and you're great for that. You're caring, loving, beautiful and a great mom for wanting the best for your child.

[@aleex1823]

HIS FRIENDS HIS FRIENDSSSSSS are the problem & I'm telling you bc I went through the same shit ever since I told my man to get rid of his friends & once he did our relationship is 100% better

[@kyrstinolenski1935]

I used to just support you because you are so funny and enjoyable. But the more and more I watch you the more I see a genuinely sweet soul and my heart breaks for you. I pray you know you’re worth, and he knows your value.

[@joyfall777]

I feel you Wendy. I'm currently going through a break up too. I really wanted to marry that guy but he failed to be there for me when I really needed him. I completely understand what you're going through. And you and I both will get through these hard times and rise high and thrive in life 🥺💚

[@brendavega5316]

As moms we change for our babies for the better and I think we expect the same from our partner. It’s disappointing when you see that that’s not the case for them. I thought my partner would change and he still was unfaithful during my pregnancy. Sending you love. I’m still learning to let go of the family I wanted for my daughter

[@garcia8596]

Aww Wendy I’m rooting for you, you and valentina got this 🥺❤🙏🏼

[@vampiravox734]

now he’s crying over you so bad on a random tea podcast. Good for you for getting out

[@juliaong2431]

Carlos is the worst. Making you choose between living with his mom and breaking up when he was at fault is crazy!

[@Lea-vs6ov]

girl be positive, don’t let the beginning of the years of life of your beautiful valentina be sad. he’s a piece of 💩. and it took all this to realize, but you have to be strong for your hija. you can do it ❤

[@genesisvasquez5747]

carlos loves hanging out with only his homies cause he’s zesty af 😭

[@melissar3841]

I look up to you as a women 🫶🏼 you have all our support girl 💝

[@ramirezsoftball1919]

My heart goes out to you and your baby girl ❤ You're young and have a lot of life to live. Do not let this bring you down!! I would highly recommend seeking therapy/professional help. I'm 31 now and started about a year and a half ago, but wish I would've started such a long time ago. It's made me a better mother to my daughters, a better person overall and made me much more empathetic towards myself and those around me. I know it doesn't seem like it now but he's not worth your tears. Sending you all the love 💕💕💕

[@laishamedina129]

Girl it’s not your fault don’t blame yourself! I was in the same spot with my baby’s dad. he just needs to grow up and except that he’s a dad now. that going out all the time is not it. It’s not fair to you or the baby. It’s not fair that he’s going out all the time and your the one staying home taking care of the baby. You deserve to go out and have you a girls night while he stays home and takes care of the baby. Him ignoring you is childish. What if something happened to the baby and you trying to call him and he’s not answering. He needs to learn how to do parent or else it’s never going to work. he thinking about himself and not you or the baby. But also you shouldn’t be worrying about him and trying to keep and fix the relationship with him. You have a daughter now and she needs the best version of you. she should be your main focus now not him. I’m so sorry this is happening to you a lot of ppl may say this but I truly do feel what your going through.

[@nb-mn4fb]

We are here for you Wendy 💕

[@angie47356]

He looked fruity anyway

[@breannanolen1327]

See and look at u today now thriving and going out and spending quality time with your baby. Your not embarrassing EVERYONE goes through it. Live life everything happens for a reason n keep your head up bb!

[@her7450]

when you said you asked to sit with them and he said no, it literally made me start crying :((

[@sabrinadelsol]

proud of you for posting ❤️ you and valentina are only gonna thrive from here

[@Ashley91.]

For the Dad to Say he needs Time. ??? 🤯. Like you said you Can't Ghost your Bby Momma . You were very Mature to try to talk and make things Right. Break ups are Hard you will get threw it . Were here for you. 👍

[@magalyjvd]

todo pasa por algo, keep your head up ❤️ glad you’ve been staying strong 💕

[@Jjfdz916xo]

Aw girl sending you a big hug 😭😭 one on my biggest fear is bringing a baby in this world & go through this. every women deserve a good man & you’ll find that eventually girly. Focus on your beautiful baby girl ❤️You got this ! you got us too !

[@roxy6371]

Your FEELINGS are VALID!!! He is a narcissist! He makes you feel crazy when your not. You have every right to feel like you are feeling. You both had a baby not just you and he needs to step up. He wants to have his cake and eat it too. By having his family at home but acting like he’s single and go out with his friends all the time. Its better for your daughter to have parents that are happy and separated then together and toxic. I feel like him wanting you to move into his house was to have control of you. You are literally apologizing when you haven’t done anything to him. Being broken up will hurt for a bit but if you go back and nothing gets fixed it will be a cycle until you had enough. You and your daughter will be fine without him.❤

[@Glojuli]

Aww I’m so sorry girl ☹️🩷 I totally get you. You deserve so much better. You seem like such a sweet soul. It broke my heart seeing you so sad. All that effort for nothing in return. Don’t beg for a little boy to act like a man, if a man loves you he’ll do it without u telling him, he’ll come around once it’s too late & once you already found what you always begged him for. 🥲 Keep your head up girl 🥹

[@jazminparra3973]

“What ab me” I felt that so hard my love 😭😭😭 it fucking sucks !!! I’m going thru a similar situation 🥺 it hurts so bad ! And it’s so hard to leave , but I’m so proud of you !!! we have to be better for our little girls. everything you did was valid asfuck “I shouldn’t have done this or that” no girl you did what u had to do ! Sending you so much love & positivity 💕

[@noelsilva6124]

I feel your pain girl. I’m literally going through almost the same exact thing😞 We always tend to blame ourselves cause they manipulate is so much to make us seem like we’re the problem to the point where we even apologize for their mistakes. Your not alone. It’s soooo hard my baby is 3 months and it’s sad that we have to be separated parents. I wish we could be friends girl I need someone who knows what im going through too… im in Denver and I’d love to be friends🥲🥲

[@alondrac3829]

that’s what they do. Men literally drive us to the point where they make us literally feel crazy, Your feelings are valid and you’re not dumb or crazy! Men never take accountability for their actions because they know what they’re doing all along. 😭 you’re doing amazing, you’re an amazing mommy- you deserve the world 🌎 focus on baby and filling your cup

[@222_Cisco]

Women y’all make me laugh 😂

[@lindat2281]

It breaks my heart seeing her cry

[@Dninoyoutubevid]

You need to stop blaming your self, y’all are grown people now. He needs to grow up. He isn’t going to change because he still in the “ single mindset “ you’re so beautiful. If you keep allowing it he I’ll keep disrespecting you!

[@sanchezXO]

Period

[@daymae8013]

I know this is hard. But girl your in your prime. Your beautiful and smart. Let him go. You have ur whole future ahead of you. He would see what he lost

[@9492180]

Wow they recently broke up not even a year ago 😅 this is still so fresh she’s still healing and everyone is judging her. SMH

[@Monicasvidios]

Dont ever blame yourself girl! No matter how hard things get a real man would fight through it all for his family’s wellbeing..❤️

[@emilys.7355]

Your feeling are valid don’t doubt them wendy ❤️, especially after having a baby postpartum is hard. We love you

[@MarlaSaenz-c1u]

Wendy: I'm so glad you're in a better place. Keep doing you and stand your ground, seems you're a good person and you come from a good family. You and Valentina deserve the best. ❤

[@nellyreyes6598]

Just know that man is not worth it Wendy. It is normal to feel insecure and jelous and it is fine to blow up his phone if he has given you reasons. His job is to protect you and to make you feel secure about yourself.

[@martaromero6675]

‘El que quiere, puede” you & your daughter deserve better. Your beautiful & very smart and u will overcome this. Keep your head up 😔❤️ sending prayers your way.

[@katlovesmeow]

It’s good you broke up when Valentina grows up she’s not going to live in a “toxic” relationship. And You are not going to be miserable w someone who doesn’t value you

[@Marie-tq3xs]

He sounds super immature. At the end you’ll realize you dodged a bullet . Youlll be just fine with. Your baby ❤❤❤

[@alondratello7455]

The fact that he would go OUT! TO THE CLUB?? When u we’re home with yr baby that’s not a 1 year old yet

[@jennyypda0398]

Girl what you have to do is let him be. Keep doing you & caring & looking after yourself & your daughter. Don’t beg him , don’t look for him, NOTHING!!!! He’s going to notice you loosing feels or not caring & he will come around & be a bi*ch to him. Let him beg you & hurt him how he hurt you. I’m a new subscriber but I’ve been in your position. So keep your head up girl. You got this ❣️