We Can Finally Discuss This Incident

[@lchristoffer]

You guys are so real. If I could fill my day with people like you, I’d like people better and would want to spend more time with them. Honest!!

[@barbaramikan5222]

When the father initially put his foot down and told his daughter this was an anniversary trip for just her parents, she should have shut it, backed off and even apologized for presuming she could weasel her way in. Daughter is the a-hole, and the wife/mother borders on being an a-hole by conceding when she knew better.

[@chantalpajot2388]

J aimerais bien que ce soit traduit en Français, pour comprendre, merci, vous êtes un couple formidable, j aime bien vous regarder. Je vous embrasse tous les deux. 🙏❤

[@karine_c238]

DAUGHTER A-HOLE... she wanted a free vacation and a free nanny... so entiteled brat... daughter super A-hole!

[@julieprince77]

@@chantalpajot2388 ​clic droit pour traduire en français

[@durhamguy]

What a ray of sunshine you guys are in the dark days of winter,keep it going.your chemistry is infectious

[@meltingpointcreations1457]

I would never DREAM of infringing upon someone’s anniversary trip. I don’t even infringe upon an anniversary day. We’re scheduled to have a game night with friends on their anniversary, and I was happy to reschedule so that they can have the weekend to themselves. The nerve of that lady to weasel her way into her parents anniversary vacation…

[@dbatman63376]

I love you both. You make a bad day more tolerable. Your personalities are like shining lights in a deep, dark pit. Thank you.

[@elainehick530]

@danbatten, I hope you can continue to find lights to help you climb out of the dark pit that you find yourself in.

[@KristbjorgNymann]

YES, Dan Batten!!!!

[@MrSamygirl30]

I agree. You guys . make me happy t😅😊😂❤❤❤

[@vasfengaripedi1030]

I agree a billion percent :)

[@jujushark63]

I feel the same, watching them first thing in the morning. Really helps me start the day with a smile. And a happy mood i adore yall so very much

[@IDTKennels]

I’m so sorry you have to deal with low life people like that. What type of person even does that? What kind of vial disgusting individual finds someone’s number, continually harasses them and then makes physical threats? It’s unbelievable and so disheartening to hear that you have to deal with this. I love your channel and thank you for sharing your life with us 😊💜.

[@davidnsarah07]

One of the most genuine, real, down to earth awesome people to walk this planet! I just love, adore & admire yall like CRAZY! Been watching/following you 2 for sooooo dang long it's nutso, and have to say its been so awesome to watch yall grow & to see just how far yall have come, both as individuals & as a beautiful couple! Cannot wait to see what's to come! Thank you both for all the hard work, dedication & the many late nights *as I can only image the work it takes*! Sending ❤️ 🫶

[@dmytroyakym]

Hey Shane and Hannah. My name is Dmytro I am 21 years old from Ukraine. I was born with cerebral palsy. But I don't let CP pull me down. I love seeing you guys always smiling and have a great time. I love listening to your podcasts. 😀

[@carolyndignam3592]

The guy is definitely NOT the A-hole! A person shouldn’t put their expectations on another person, and be rude a forward enough to invite themselves with the expectation of her parents babysitting while on their 40th wedding anniversary trip! In a heartbeat I would have done the same thing by changing the plans. Sadly so the daughter sounds very self entitled and selfish, plus childish for not speaking to her parents after the trip. She shouldn’t have gone on the paid for trip if she felt so strongly about the outcome! On another note, thank you both for sharing your lives with us, I absolutely enjoy watching you two🥰

[@sherylstradinger2052]

Hi Hanna and Shane from North Dakota. I have been watching and 100% enjoying you videos for at least a couple of years - this is the first time leaving a comment. We have/had 2 young women with disabilities and find it so refreshing to hear the honesty of life with challenges and those that care and love unconditionally. When you do your book tour and should you decide to come to North Dakota, we would be front and center. Am sure you've already thought of this but will throw it out anyway. If you'd check with the support agencies in each state you visit - would get lots of people tha 25:26 t are dealing with the same issues as you - to come and be part of the event.

[@kareemahmullen8940]

Good luck on your Book Tour - may you have much success with your sales and your trip! The troll story and library meet-up...so sorry for the angst you had to endure. Amazing what you go through when being famous! Finally, It is so hard to know the all-round dynamics of such an extended incident that was described in the final segment of your podcast here. One wishes everyone could do the right thing each moment...perhaps the best lesson is to remember the story and try and catch ourselves to do the right thing in the moment. Thanks as always for your sharing your lives. Your humor and good nature is always uplifting.

[@cricketmcclure3458]

Suggestion ... consider hiring a 'security' person to cover your meet up sessions. Perhaps you can find a person at each location, once you get the route established, with stops reserved and confirmed. Don't be scared, be prepared (a la Ryan Hall, Y'all) - be safe!

[@marlenetobin3242]

I would and I think many more would offer to be your security at no charge.... Shane, ask around.....

[@Kklewis2223]

Love Ryan Hall!

[@pattyfluegel7816]

@@marlenetobin3242 they would need someone trained in security

[@allisontaylor1818]

Great advice🎉

[@cricketmcclure3458]

@allisontaylor1818...I owe it all to "Ryan Hall, Y'all"! for his fantastic weather reporting! thru all the tornado and other wicked weather events here in ARkansas!

[@janicemichaloski5292]

The fact the daughter felt so intitled to even ask says alot she obviously grown up with little boundaries or respect for her parents

[@emp556]

The best part of your podcasts 22:46 is how real and genuine you both are. So, to all the hidden trolls out there, waste your time else wear. It's great just to laugh at stupid situations.

[@EBrenry]

Jane is an A-h for being immature, presumptuous and spoiled. The mom is an A-h for not having enough fortitude to shut down her daughter’s overstep. The dad is an A-h for his secretive flip-flopping. SIL is an A-h for yelling at his generous in-laws on the phone. Shane’s right EVERYONE is the A!!! Sorry, Grandkids. You’re walking in the footsteps of 2 generations of A-hs.

[@boulevardiere1623]

Well, now I don't need to leave a comment because you said it all. Preach!

[@Cornerstonewtl]

40th anniversary romantic trip. NO KIDS OF ANY AGE. PERIOD

[@alekhidell3644]

Preach it, sister! It sounds to me like mom and dad were wishy-washy like this when they raised Jane, letting her get her way far too often, and now Jane assumes she can get away with it. Such unmitigated gall she has! And I agree that dad handled it poorly, almost passive-aggressively (which may be another trait that runs in this family). I don;t have any grandchildren, but I have two grown daughters, and neither of them would ever DREAM of imposing upon my wife and me like this.

[@kellybraille]

Nope. Only the daughter is the a-hole.

[@nicholasjh1]

​@@alekhidell3644don't give the gma a pass for being a spineless weakling then blaming it on others

[@Hereforthevideos]

I laughed out loud when you said you were waiting outside with the people that were there to see you 😂

[@MsWatsupwiththat]

I really just love you two! You were meant to be on this earth TOGETHER! Thank you for sharing. I think Josh Blue would be the perfect comic to start your book signing extravaganza!

[@David-qm7ww]

You both have such loving hearts, souls and spirits....thank you for sharing who you are, and your journey, with the world💞💞💕💕💕💕💕💕♥♥♥♥♥♥♥

[@rodgerfoughtsr3592]

I haven't seen all yer videos, but have followed you guys from when you first met. It's been a good journey so far. Gives me a few smiles ti get me through the day.

[@cindybaker5408]

I'm watching from a country town in South Australia 🇦🇺 I Love watching you both, you always make me smile!!! I hate the negative things that people say/message to you, that Hannah reads out ~ Happy you both laugh at them and don't let it bother you!!! Can't wait to read your book, will Definatly buy one/some ~ will be good for chrissy presents 😊 Keep being yourself!! Love you Both ❤

[@tamiosher3679]

I love all of your videos. You are both so natural and REAL. I don't know how anyone can think that your love is not real. Ignore those comments. Thank you for sharing. Xoxo ❤❤

[@grantpicklesimer2995]

I would travel out to California from Ohio just to meet you guys in person! You guys are awesome and ive enjoyed watching your videos and following your journey. Also I must say that I have obtained the inspiration from you guys to start my own blogging and then write my first book at some point. Keep on shining a light on an otherwise dark world we live in. You both are amazing and very inspiring.

[@SunniRayzz]

I love Shane’s humor 😂

[@417Theory]

🤮

[@SuperOptiman]

The sound quality was excellent. Far better than previous episodes. I usually have a hard time understanding Shane. This senior enjoyed the entire broadcast. What ever you did, keep it up. I enjoyed the story and will try to watch for you on meetup in the South California area. I look forward to seeing you face to face. I wish you well.

[@AlanBrownArt]

Passive-Aggressive behavior is a short term conflict avoider. The father probably never said 'no' to his daughter. Love you guys!

[@camillegodwin6398]

I loved your Gulfport meetup! 😊 Would go to another. I will say the entire segment devoted to talking about that meetup I had a strong irrational fear that it was something I did 😂 Like maybe something I said was unacceptable or unintentionally ableist or I asked too many questions cause I love you guys! Deep sigh of relief it wasn’t me lol.

[@dimpledarling55]

I work at a bookstore in NYC and have been a supporter of yours for years! If you guys come to NY on a book tour I would love to help facilitate an event with you :)

[@OverkastKellu]

you guys are great XD listening to your book tour plans 10/10 and that meetup story was terrifying. And hilarious.

[@sharonsue441]

The book tour story gave me my first ( and probably my only) laugh of the day…..thank you…love you ❤️❤️

[@Antraxjoy94]

When we invite my mom to travel with us, it's to take her ON VACATION. Her own room. If the kids want to bunk one or two nights with her, they have to ask her. Jane is a huge ah and a brat. Also, phew! Fear makes us panic and act out of sorts!

[@sherrylegary7418]

This is a 40th Anniversary for the parents, the kids needed to respect that. And they need to day sorry. Grandparents love to look after their grandbabies but they were not there to baby sit the kids so you can have a vacation. Daughter is way out of line, she needed to ask and respect parents when they said no.

[@hola6164]

❤HI love you both. So happy you are in California I'm jelly I went to visit my son serving in the US Navy in June in San Diego and I loved it! Beautiful weather and landscape. Keep my son in prayers currently deployed😢 love you both. Missy in San Antonio

[@Drewy62]

I am supporting the book tour idea, especially if each stop has a chocolate fountain for attendees to enjoy!

[@loisxander6321]

Don’t forget Allentown ,Pa

[@karengarson5715]

You two are AWESOME! You often make my day lighter and put smile on my face. Thank you Shane 😊 Thank you Hannah😊

[@dianehilliard9256]

You two always make me smile

[@gerimarsh1563]

I’m sad you moved, but happy you are in a warmer climate. I enjoy your vlogs, no matter what you discuss.

[@melissaaddison-webster212]

love you guys so much.... loved your last book shane. RV book tour sounds amazing, please come to canada. i'd happily host your book reading!

[@SunniRayzz]

Shane’s hair looks good like that. I would definitely attend your book signing. That would great! Texas here 🤍

[@lyricalaska]

We're in Fairbanks, Alaska. Make a stop here!

[@PhoenixGoddess4444]

Shane- you should be a sit-down comic!!!!

[@margaretvaughan9045]

Haha ! I think He already is !

[@rebeccahamilton-james9914]

Your sense of humour is brilliant. Love it.

[@lucylopez1995]

They were right to spend time alone. Me and my husband celebrated our 40th anniversary and 8 months later he passed away. Nov will be 2 years he passed

[@outoftheklosset]

I’m sorry for your loss of your husband.💔😭

[@Luigi88765]

That was a pretty badass move from Dad, not gonna lie

[@pyb.5672]

Watching you together is like a masterclass in "complicité".

[@jujushark63]

The banter between yall is so fun

[@thermalnoise2976]

Wish you both good health.

[@markdfranke]

Bad decisions all around! Daughter should not have invited herself along, especially when told this was a special anniversary trip. Once the parents agreed to have the daughter and family come...they should have honored that decision. To change plans at the last minute AND not tell the daughter is more than rude. (Perhaps we have just figured out where the daughter gets her decision-making processes.)

[@zamakhosimpanza3902]

😅 What a relief about "the camera man"! I burst out and laughed so much, constantly triggered by the anticlimax of it!!😂 Glad your book outing was safe afterall. Keep well both of you.

[@AubutCatherine]

The suggestion from Shane for the book tour is perfect and you need to add every city in Canada too because we are very friendly. Love the groopies, band, "sleeve dates". You could have a professional chef for the food too. You guys need to do a rock star tour type, nothing less! Oh, it could become a international tour with your private plane so you won't have to deal with the airlines rules anymore. Ahhh, it's so much fun to dream for you guys! Lol Love your videos and what you do for the community.

[@reneequalls5878]

I’m dying 😂😂😂. You guys are great. I’m exactly that awkward hahahaha. I can’t get the image of you guys just hanging out silently with the crowd that was there to see you 😂😂😂😂 you guys will be laughing about this for the rest of your lives lol

[@KathySchwanke]

I can’t think of his name but there is an awesome comedian with CP

[@reneelewis7187]

Janes parents are definitely NOT the a-holes. The daughter and son in law had no business inserting themselves in their 2nd honeymoon more or less. And then expect the grandparents to babysit? Hell NO!!!

[@KDu400]

Right!! Even if they had all ended up in the same place, how dare you expect the grandparents to watch YOUR kids on their anniversary trip!

[@reneelewis7187]

@@KDu400 Absolutely!!!

[@SerendipitousButterflies]

I found your channel about a week ago. I love you guys! You’re such a good fit and SOOOO funny! 😃

[@unforgivinglyhappy9697]

I would love to me you both! Awkward or not, I’m sure, at the end of the day, it would be a great memory. I love your humor and your willingness to share your lives with us. Please bring your tour to Oregon (the Oregon Coast is especially beautiful!). If you will have merch on this tour, please have T-shirts available that read “I’M A FREAK IN EVERY SETTING “. I will buy one for sure!

[@marsharennels9911]

The Dad is NTA. He could have canceled all the travel arrangements and just rebooked for himself and his wife. Instead, he decided to ensure both he and his wife had the 2nd honeymoon they originally desired while still gifting his daughter’s family a vacation. It was extremely presumptuous for the daughter and SIL to assume her parents would babysit - especially considering the purpose of the trip was to celebrate her parents’ 40th anniversary. Daughter and SIL are entitled AHs, Mom is a pushover, and Dad had difficulty with boundaries.

[@pauluw1]

Please do not underestimate your drawing power on your book tour. I can see easily a couple hundred people at each stop. You guys are great and people are excited to meet you.

[@kriskohnke3382]

As usual you two are adorable. Thanks! Ha. Hope you eventually make it to Kansas.

[@norm11gray27]

Hey Shane and Hannah, Your account of the meet up was nerve wracking. I'm relieved to know that the troll did not present himself. I appreciate your candour and humour as you share aspects ofyour lives. Very Courageous, Kudos. Norm

[@DisabledInNature]

Yes, book tour!! I think that sounds awesome. Can't wait for the book to come out

[@boss2234]

You are a blessed couple a tough young man and a smart beautiful wife. The mountains you have already concurred .

[@stephylynne4226]

Yeah I definitely don't think he's the asshole , good for him. Jane is 100% the A-hole . Love you guys . And if you do a book tour come to Oregon 🥰🥰🥰 .

[@pamelaferebee3648]

The daughter should not want to go with her parents on their trip. Love watching you'll. Blessings to you both 🙏🏾

[@traildancer22]

Oh my gosh please go on a book tour!!!! Come to Salt Lake City 🙏🏼 you guys are the best. You are so funny. I love your relationship and I've learned so much about disability from your stories.

[@imscanon]

You two are my favorite comedy act. I adore your banter so much. How harrowing yet ending funny was that story!! NTA: We ALL know this daughter, either from our family or someone else's. She's the one who is always angling for herself. She's taken advantage of nice parents MANY times before, no question about that. They know her. Dad also knows Mom and had he told Mom, she would have felt bad and told daughter and there would have been a huge fight and the vacay would have been ruined. He gave his wife his intended gift of a great vacay with the two of them. In this case, with this daughter, it's better to ask forgiveness than permission because no permission would have been given and they would have been stuck on vacay with their grandkids while daughter and her hubby were off having the great time Mom and Dad SHOULD have been having. So no, NTA and it's high time this daughter had to deal with the No. She was told NO in the beginning and hassled Mom til she relented. Now she'll just have to get over it as it's already done, they had the fun vacay they originally planned, (and daughter actually GOT a vacay too) and should not care at all that daughter is mad. It's her own fault for not caring one wit that Mom and Dad deserved a romantic 40 year anniversary trip by themselves and not being grateful she actually still got a vacay too. I'm sure she'll find plenty of other things to horn in on and get free things as she always does. That's my take. NTA. The daughter is TAH.

[@risi7634]

Come to Portland, Oregon for your book tour! :P

[@missjenny702]

I love you to your personalities and humor is so refreshing

[@donnacashore2416]

The daughter and son were and remain the a-holes. They shouldn't have invited themselves. They shouldn't have repeatedly pushed the issue until the parents relented. This is clearly the daughter's historical manipulation, or the dad wouldn't have felt the need to do what he did. The dad knew his wife wanted the field trip but was worn down by the daughter. Yes, as Shane said, it might have been good to let everyone know sooner, but the dad knew if he did, it wouldn't have turned out to be the great second honeymoon that it was. The dad even says money was an issue, so it wasn't like the mom and Dad had the option to replace their own trip. They would have been babysitting their ungrateful daughter's kids again, with no couple trip to look forward to.

[@dinkusmcgee1015]

"TAKE THE COOKIES, EVERYONE". 😂😂😂. OMG I spit my coffee out

[@sued1116]

I never had heard of this AITA stuff, now I had to look it up and listen to them on KZbin, thanks🤣. Love listening to you're videos, you two are great fun.

[@graciecarter1312]

I LOVE the AITA segments!! Keep finding good ones! Love you guys ❤️💖❤️💖

[@rubyredlopez4]

You guys should never do anymore meet and greets without having some security personal, especially with the times today. Criminal behavior has no bounds, you are always responsible for your own safety at All Times no matter time or place. Love y'all please make safety a priority for events 💞 it's better to be safe than sorry💞

[@PrairieRose4]

Love the book tour idea! 👏 You guys always make me laugh

[@cindyweekes6280]

YES,, Come to Boise, Idaho!! I absolutely love you both!! ❤️

[@andrewpetersen5249]

It would be so rad to meet you both, I hope this dream is realized.

[@joannejepson5333]

I’ll be a groupie for your tour!! Like in “Almost Famous” (but no drugs). But I have to have my knees replaced first! You guys are so fantastic! Love you!!

[@vickieowens4548]

You two are great! Once again come to Dubuque I will make all the arrangements for you speech where it would take place the advertising etc.

[@sherribell4032]

I hope ya'll make it to Atlantic Beach/Jacksonville Florida during your book tour. Can't wait for it to come out!❤

[@michellebrockway4759]

Love you guys talking about Swift and Kelce. Funny!

[@theboogeyman9813]

Plot twist: It was him. He was both people communicating through different online names.

[@mb-the-enby]

That AITA is for sure an ESH situation. That family needs to communicate more. Excited for your book tour! I’ll start saving now, and testing potluck recipes. 😉

[@katmatrac]

Jane and her husband who wanted to tag along for a free vacation and to use the grandparents as babysitters knowing it was their 40th Anniversary, were the A-h. The father just wanted this Anniversary to be special . The mom of course broke down because she always gives to others and wants to make sure everyone is happy. So, the father decided to give the kids what he thought they wanted, which was a free vacation, but also do something special for his wife. This trip was about the two of them, not a family vacation and for Jane and her husband to take that away and think the vacation was going to be all about them and use the parents for babysitting service on their 40th was so very selfish ...

[@nicholasjh1]

If you look at it that way he probably was trying his best, but he still should have told them plans had changed in advance.

[@Shamelslife]

Come to Cleveland!! I’d love to see your outrageously expensive book tour! Plus, Hannah, we have awesome pierogi here! And sausages! Come come come!!

[@SJane3]

Honestly, would be glorious to see if Josh Blue would be able to open for yal! Stand up comedian that absolutely mastered being able to elicit laughter for everyone! Wishful thinking of course, but when you said disable comedian he came to mind! He is great!!

[@SomeKindOfHalfsie]

Josh came to mind for me, too!

[@SJane3]

@SomeKindOfHalfsie yes!! I'm so glad you thought of him too! I know he does shows all over, but if this book tour ever went to Denver he is right there!! I unfortunately don't know any other disabled comedians!

[@danamama6766]

Yes they lost their babysitters and they knew it was their 40th anniversary and the kids and their kids should have been happy to go but know that they would need to let there be some space for the love birds to celebrate and not just be the care for them. I really think that good for Grandmas husband :) And the daughter kinda forced herself in so to many people take to many people for granted. Loved this. hugs

[@omieleguacita3523]

I love you ❤guys both .. wish I could meet both of you guys in person one day .. I love how funny you guys are .. ❤

[@cherishedlotus]

I am nominating the book store in Peddlers Village as your Pennsylvania stop!!

[@jamesonroddie7204]

Y’all better do a book tour!! I literally can’t wait!!

[@bettybarclay8877]

I can’t judge theme because I had a similar incident after my first grandchild was born. She was born in Minnesota in October and they had 36 inches of snow still on the ground at Thanksgiving. My husband is from Michigan and we were going to drive up over the 4 day holiday, he was used to snow. My parents wanted to see their first great granddaughter. THEY decided they would rent a motor home since my Mom had health issues. I really didn’t want to change our plans and they didn’t let us know they had already rented the RV. We went and were there for Thanksgiving dinner with my daughter-in-laws step mom and our son and new baby. The weather news peas on and lots more snow was predicted for the day we were to start home. I was furious when we had to leave the next morning! I went for my little granddaughter and I had not had enough time with her! I pouted in the rear of the RV all the way home Looking back I realize I was the a___ hole. My Mom saw her first grgreat grandchild 3 months before she died. Seeing her was the highlight of my Moms last few weeks. There is always two sides of each story. Keep on mak😊ing everyone laugh. I wish I could be at a book signing but I live so far in the country in Texas that you would have to come to Waco, TX for me to see you.❤️

[@outoftheklosset]

Why did you have to leave?

[@jenromano19]

​@@outoftheklossetThere was a lot more snow forecast, and I'm assuming they couldn't drive the RV in the snow, so they had to leave sooner than planned. Still, maybe Grandma could've stayed and flown back later?

[@marzulie]

NTA most people don't want to provide childcare on a romantic once in a life time trip.

[@chantalpajot2388]

6:01 6:03

[@bettybarclay8877]

@@outoftheklosset Lots of snow was predicted again so we didn’t want to be stranded. It took away my visiting time. Selfish, yes. My Mom had health issues and couldn’t have flown. Had to forgive my parents but I needed their forgiveness for pouting all the way back home.

[@sharoncorley5099]

Well Shane there are wheelchair accessible RV's reach out to companies that do them , maybe they would give you one to use during duration of tour as sponsor and bring awareness that there are RV's for everyone 😉 worth a try

[@chelseabest282]

Yay! Junkyard mayhem is back!

[@dooleydrums1972]

Funny as usual,,,hey can't believe you live in commiforma now,,,I watch you guys all the time,, and thanks for keeping it going,,,if you ever make it up north in Cali you probably would enjoy the area of shasta or the cities below the area,,,I don't want to mention the cities I figured you could research them yourselves,,,the summers are super hot but the area is pretty laid back,,,boring really but beautiful,,,anyhoo hope you guys are enjoying Cali

[@kaykaynaay]

Please come to Iowa! Would love to come to your book tour and meet you guys! 😩❤️❤️

[@strongmomma4u]

2:40 alaska is a state, don't forget us. Just in case you forget, you said all 50 states. Come in the summer, the polar bears will be too busy with the tourists 😂

[@jenromano19]

The dad is the AH. People are presuming that Jane pressured them, but it never says that. It says she asked, he put his foot down, and she was a little sad. We don't know what happened after that. All we know is that the parents DID decide to have a family vacation. If it got booked and paid for, the dad agreed. It wasn't behind his back. He could've spoken up if he disagreed. At that point, that was the plan. Making a huge change last minute and not even telling your wife is shitty behavior. If you're unhappy, have that DISCUSSION with your wife BEFORE agreeing to take a family vacation. It sounds like the dad is afraid of confrontation, so he took a sneaky way out. It really rubs me the wrong way. They should've said no initially and left it at that. If Jane didn't speak to them after that, THEN she'd be the AH. That's not the story we were told, so, with the known facts, the dad is the AH. He needs to learn better communication skills. I keep thinking about the grandkids. I was soooo close with my grandparents as a kid. If I thought we were taking a vacation with them, and then they didn't show up, I would've been heartbroken. Also, when my brother and I were little, we didn't take family vacations without backup from a grandparent or aunt/uncle. I don't think it's unreasonable to feel more comfortable with help when you have young kids (non-teenagers). The daughter may not have wanted to do the trip without her parents. She might've preferred to do it at a later time instead. That would've been an easy way to handle it- "we are going alone for our anniversary, but next year a family trip sounds great." (It didn't have to be fancy). I think wanting a 40th anniversary trip to be private is completely reasonable and how it should be, BUT they decided on a family trip. At that point, the way it was handled was selfish.

[@staceyfitzgerald4476]

🙌🏻

[@LindsayLemon-sy8fp]

Shane you are so funny…”a family dinner”…love you guys!!!

[@LeanneYounger]

I'd love to meet you two. Sorry Shane, I agree that Appetizers would be best and easier to mingle and not just meet people at your particular table. I have spina bifida and my husband doesn't have a disability. We just celebrated 20 years of marriage last week. I love hearing about your travels and can relate to your daily regimen.

[@elliehuman9710]

This is amazing Shane and Hannah honestly can’t wait to get the book as I have all of Shane’s books you both are absolutely wonderful individuals and I hope to meet you both in the future I’m from the UK and you both inspire me to keep living my life and being myself I’m autistic and dyspraxic and proud and I hope you guys keep making amazing videos I’ve been here watching you guys since the beginning of your journey and I’m loving being on the journey with you guys and ignore the haters they’ll never get anywhere in life keep doing what you are doing :)x

[@The315fan]

I’m also from the UK!

[@yoclark2723]

Oh, you guys! What a stressful day! I don't understand why people think you are not married or are scamming in some way. That AITA happened to my mom. She was invited to go to Spain with some friends. They had two kids. Mom paid her own way, got her own hotel room and was excited to see the sights with her friends and their kids. The friends asked her to watch the kids one day as they wanted some alone time and she agreed. pretty soon the parents started leaving the kids with her every day. Mom realized they invited her just to watch the kids. She ended up telling them she would not watch the kids and she took off for another city. and having a fun time in Spain alone.

[@clairey6407]

That story about the troll is hilarious!! 🤣

[@staceyfitzgerald4476]

Oh yes, it ‘s a yes from me. I’m with Shane 100% on this. The grandfather was sleezy to change plans last minute and not tell anyone. It was his, or the grandparents responsibility to set boundaries with the adult children if they didn’t actually want it to be a whole family trip. Yeah I’d be pissed if my parents told me yes, it was planned a family trip and then backed out last minute. Nope nope nope! As someone with kids, I can see the desire to have parents come along. Again if they didn’t actually WANT to come then it’s THEIR responsibility to hold that boundary, not just say they will go and back out last minute and not even communicate that. Coward move. I get why they haven’t answered calls and texts.

[@kellireese3928]

Wow that’s crazy!! Unfortunately this is the kind of world we live in today. Glad you guys are ok.