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[@debbwebb1279]

The fact that Mr. Moon brought up adoption means he's a keeper. Many children need good parents who have lost theirs. Take care Ms. Megan, you are such a lovely soul.

[@Angelika5378]

especially since most koreans would not even consider adoption

[@neverdowifeydutiesatgirlfriend]

@@Angelika5378 exactly...they are all about bloodline ...but things have been changing abit but they need to be more accepting of the idea

[@KCannaQueen]

TRUUUUEEEE

[@kanikagaral7637]

That was the best thing a husband could do for his wife. I wish my best friend's husband would suggest that too. His family keep pressuring her to have a baby coz they want grandkids. But she has gone through so many treatments and had 3 miscarriages by now and her health has gone from abd to worse so is her mental health. I feel so helpless seeing her life.

[@themaggattack]

@@kanikagaral7637 Oh just thinking about your friend's situation gets me heated. Your friend's inlaws need to mind their own damn business and her husband needs to step up and be a man and stop torturing his wife! That's just plain torture and selfish to continually put her through that. 😟

[@MrsMeganMoon]

I can’t begin to tell you guys how encouraged I am from your support. I think someone is chopping onions next to me😭. I had no idea so many other women were dealing with this kind of thing. Seeing your posts and hearing about your successes etc has really lifted my spirits and I really appreciate you guys so much. 😍😍😍

[@adilenelozano1549]

Best wishes for you, stay strong you beautiful soul 😭💕

[@11scarletthreads14]

Of course, honey! I was so shocked when I saw the title, but it will all be ok! We love you and will support you through this.

[@msaimeestay]

My heart 💔 I hope you achieve your dream of motherhood, regardless of how you get there 💕

[@rawrzx3112]

Megan, im really sorry to hear about it. But im really happy you have found your amazing, most supportive husband. Please dont lose hope, we create out reality. (Neville Goddard). And i will pray and see you as a mom :) The best Mom out there! Just to hear you and your husband say an adoption will happen aswell, is just tear bringing, its so nice to hear those little children who will get to be with you Megan and your husband, they will have the best mom ever. Whether Its YOU or their biological. It does not matter.. A mom is a mom. I KNOW you will soon enough, when time is right will surprise us with the best announcement "I AM PREGNANT" all by your own body power!^-^ so excited!! I love you Megan! We will always support you. You are the best!

[@Passion84GodAlways]

🤗❤️🥰🙏🏾🤗❤️🥰🙏🏾🤗❤️🥰🙏🏾🤗❤️🥰🙏🏾

[@triniteebeatz4659]

A year later and she’s pregnant 🥺🤍 congrats again Meg

[@adorabell4253]

And with boy/girl twins too!

[@SassyQ87]

When I was 19 I stopped getting my period for over a year. I was told that I was infertile and would never get pregnant naturally. Fast forward 4 years later and my period came back and I actually got pregnant after 2 yrs of trying with my partner and had a healthy baby. I’m back to not having my period. It’s been over a year again, but I’m just thankful that I had the chance to have a baby. Don’t lose hope. You never know what’s in store for you. I can’t wait until the egg donation process and for you to be pregnant next year or for you to adopt. Whatever you both decide to do, you will be amazing parents!

[@sofiaguerrero0969]

This gives me hope! I have PCOS and I’m terrified of being infertile. I keep telling myself I don’t want a baby anyway but then I get depressed because deep down, I do.

[@stacey6112]

@@sofiaguerrero0969 Don’t be discouraged. My sister has PCOS and has two children who are now 4 and 3 years old! It’s possible, it may just take a little longer.

[@resolecca]

@SaasyQ87 and @Stacey I know you mean well but I be careful when you make comments like these coz not everyone is as lucky as you and for every miracle there is 99 people who don't get that miracle and it just rubs it in im am speaking from personal experience I have pcos and endometriosis and I am one of the 99%

[@tresnosliramu6956]

I think this kind of case isnt uncommon. I hv 2 friends, one didnt get period for 3 months, and the other didnt for 2 years. Fast forward years later, they have many many cute kids

[@kerrissedai6857]

Once blood sugars are controlled a lot of women with PCOS start getting regular periods and get pregnant.

[@IphiaCarlene]

The fact the doctors DISMISS the reproductive pains of women....is extremely scary and frustrating!

[@roter13]

particularly black women

[@ettena93]

Basically most of modern medicine is based on the anatomy of men. As an example - heart attack is often linked to chest pains. But in women it's common to get an upset stomach and pain in the lower back as symptoms as well, not necessarily having the explosive pain radiating through chest and arm like it does in men. Medication too - I found out my prescription dose was based on fully grown men who smoke. The medical field is developing thankfully, but so much of what we now know is based on the study of one gender. How is that logical when there's a huge difference between the biology of men and women?

[@hugsxkissesftw3959]

This!!!!!

[@raynatumbeva780]

@@ettena93 you have to be aware that some medicines were tested primarily on soldiers who are mostly men. That applies especially much about painkillers. Some countries banned medicine tests on women in child-bearing age after the epidemic of Thalidomide babies in order to prevent deformities in kids that would've otherwise been healthy. Those are the main reasons why the effects of some medicines on men are far more known. But that's the extent it goes to. Don't believe whatever Buzzfeed puts out.

[@asdfghjkl-oo7lv]

Tell me about I have PCOS and my doctor could care less and just prescribed birth control. BC is a bandaid for PCOS with more research I found out that eating a low carb diet can help getting your period back naturally (and it did)! I also had low libido(due to the BC, I don't take it anymore) and my doctor didn't care to find a solution so I can get it back... but when a man has low libido they have treatments and the doctors take them more serious.

[@cerisemin]

General public: Stop asking people if or when they are getting pregnant!

[@3rdelement10]

@Ja Er how are they stupid?

[@hannalevy2507]

Agreed some sensitivity is so important

[@thiscommentisrelevant7911]

Ja Er what?

[@shanchan8247]

@Ja Er I hope this is for a deleted comment 🤔

[@staciii]

@Ja Er you sound like a fool

[@bongbong0000]

i was told by doctor that my wife and i will never have a child... even with ivf, they gave us 10% chance and they advised us that we would need to try multiple of times. After 4 years, i have a beautiful three year old son who is my whole life and we were able to have him on our first ivf try. dont give up hope.... :)

[@merykoleva]

I hope you have a healthy family and you raise your child well without pressuring it too much!

[@p1nkLov3rr]

My friends parents the same the had their first child adopted then they did ivf for their 2nd child and then all the sudden they got pregnant naturally a year later after ivf baby

[@kaoutaralaoui9120]

My sister had the same issue she haven't had period since she was 18 but with treatment and a surgery (drilling) she now has 2 wonderful kids a boy and a girl

[@Haru_Light]

This is why I never speculate on whether someone is pregnant. You don’t know what someone is going through. I’m rooting for you Megan!!! I hope that you’ll be able to get pregnant in the future! 🤞

[@MrsMeganMoon]

💖💖💖

[@Megan9689]

This!

[@kamariamcclure3108]

Amen. God is good. She shall get her miracle in Jesus' name!!

[@natioyafloyd5550]

So true..I experience this from time to time

[@selmacrump3427]

​@@kamariamcclure3108Amen!!!❤🙏🏽🥰

[@sierra1540]

Everyone is commenting how the doctors ignoring your pain angers them, and rightfully so, I fully agree.. but why is no one talking about how messed up it is to speculate if a woman is pregnant or not, or if she's trying, etc. IT'S NO ONE'S BUSINESS. How is it not common sense by now that that isn't something to speculate about???? Are people that clueless?????? Be BETTER.

[@agnieszkaagnes]

Exactly!

[@kizzyanel]

Thank you!

[@unabashed]

Because people are baby obsessed. At the last wedding I attended, some older women were making loud comments to the bride and groom about being "fruitful." Like, how tf do they know that's their plan? And the bride was over 40. Just rude. People are too concerned with other people's lives.

[@iversongirl]

Right! People even do this to women who aren’t married or in a relationship (i.e. “When are you gonna have a baby?”) They make it as if that’s our only purpose in life and if we don’t complete this, we’ve “failed”.

[@coletteacw2170]

Exactly I never understood how people don't have common sense enough to know what's rude or not

[@Kissitbetter951]

It went from this to “WE’RE PREGNANNTTTTTT” 😭🌸 Congratulations in welcoming your little ones Megan & Mr. Moon🤍🤍🤍

[@yvette3636]

I had somewhat of the same experience. Told I couldn’t get pregnant at 20. Adopted at 24. Continually tried for the next 20 years. Got pregnant with a donor egg and my husbands sperm at 40. My baby girl is 10. God is so good she’s my miracle baby. I see you have miracle babies now as well. All the emotions you expressed are so accurate. We usually suffer in silence but I would hope more ppl would come forward and normalize this issue

[@sammiemarie14]

Its actually really rude to ask people if they are pregnant.

[@makaihime]

Yeah I don't get why people don't understand this point. Its not your business and if someone wanted you to know, they will let you know.

[@austinrichards1740]

Yeah

[@fancyflower3298]

Very very rude

[@charizmaticchronicles]

Exactly you ask if they have any kids usually they will tell you if they are or not. It's up to them to discuss

[@feliciiaab]

Agreed, I try not to touch that topic at all because you never know what people are going through.

[@LexieLouLou]

Our healthcare is really failing us. Infertility is on the rise, and whenever we try to get help for our health problems, we're dismissed or given a birth control prescription. It's just not fair! I'm sorry that you're going through this, and I really hope that your sister's eggs work out ❤️ And don't give up! RawBeautyKristi tried for a decade to get pregnant and now she is! ❤️

[@MrsMeganMoon]

I’ll have to see her posts and get some encouragement. Thank you for sharing

[@tigohbitties9774]

One time my mom literally had blood clots in her kidney and was peeing out blood and kept going to the hospital and they tried to say it was her period, wasn't able to get help for days like idk wtf was wrong with there heads she just had her period right before and told them that. Like if anything if it was her period THATS and issue in itself smh

[@HalieMae]

Megan Bowen I cried so much watching her infertility video. Definitely a must when you’re ready!! Rooting for you and hope you’re doing well 💞

[@alwaysoctober3943]

They keep trying to push birthcontrol on me, too. Although it can be a legitimate treatment for some things, it doesn't help everyone. So many women with PCOS feel like death on BC

[@annaxia8127]

I also have PCOS and my doc told me that I have to take birth control in order to get pregnant later lol. Guess what, didn’t help at all . The only thing that helped was low carb (mainly unrefined carbs) high fat high protein diet, if I got my period once in 3-6 month before now I have it every month. People with PCOS already are in a high cardiovascular disease group risk, now imagine prescribing them birth control that actually is bad for their heart.... none of my doctors even said anything about diet and lifestyle change.

[@kayblaze5825]

I humbly pray that after the 1st child your body resets itself and you are able to have the next 3 on your own, all things possible thru Christ - Amen

[@yukino4907]

and now you're pregnant with twins! life really is unpredictable and sometimes, we just need to hope and have faith that things will get better and of course pour our dedications along. anyways, congrats! happy for you guys

[@soldaa6996]

She’s given birth to twins and i bawled my eyes out cuz i hadn’t watched her after she got married and I wasn’t expecting her to be pregnant since she made this video so I was so happy lol

[@yukino4907]

@@soldaa6996 i know right. we’re happy for them

[@dlcrme]

She used her sisters eggs to get pregnant

[@2hearts1seoul]

I’m so sorry you’ve been dealing with all this, Megan ❤️ First off, it’s honestly so frustrating that so many doctors still just don’t take women’s pain seriously-specifically period pain :( Second, I really wish people would refrain from asking women/couples about their reproductive choices in general. Some people may not be able to have children, some people may be struggling to get pregnant, some people may simply not want children. We don’t know each person/couple’s situation, and we should never just ‘assume’ anything. It’s honestly best not to bring it up at all, and is something that should be brought up by the individual/couple IF they choose to do so. You never know what someone may be going through, after all.

[@TheSub2rainen]

You truly never know someone else’s struggle unless they share it. Best to withhold opinions, questions, or judgement about personal topics.

[@ettena93]

I'm one of the people who don't want children, but whenever people ask me about it I get pissed on behalf of people who are reproductively challenged. For me it's a matter of choice, for others there's years of tears and longing behind the whole process. I said "I can't have children" to a person once just to check their reaction and she went slack jawed and got so embarrassed - on her own behalf. When I went all just kidding I followed up with "but think about this the next time you think a person's uterus is your business." Like they need a reminder by nosy people.

[@avril7475]

Exactly

[@sleepytan0730]

@@ettena93 I need to take a page out of your book👏 I've been married for 4 years but I just haven't wanted children yet and I keep getting the same invasive questions it's sooo frustrating. I'm not frkn ready and it's family members asking too. It's depressing cause it feels like you're responsibility and duty not some joyous thing for you and a spouse to share. I honestly feel like it ain't nobody else business. I think I've subconsciously been adding a year every time some of mthreffr pressures me.

[@danielle8031]

❤️

[@justinaguayo8833]

I teared when she said she had a period this year and said, “Mr. Moon we missed it.” I am praying for you guys. No matter what means you guys do to bring a child into the world, I am praying for you guys. Such a strong person sharing this personal side of your life!

[@KCDisney1]

Adopting a child is great. I was like a parcel when I was younger as a Foster kid, I wished somebody adopted me. So alot of children don't want to feel unwanted. X

[@yari139]

And this why I hate when people walk around asking “when are you gonna have a baby?” or “are you pregnant?” or just assuming you’re pregnant because you’re nauseous or gained a few pounds. Like, first of all, it’s none of your business! Second, you have no idea what that person’s situation is. It’s just so insensitive, invasive and plain rude. And third, why in hell are y’all so obsessed with other people’s reproductive life?! I repeat, IT IS NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS!!

[@raquelfigueroa5539]

Thank you 🙌🏼 I have a 4 year old son. My miracle baby ☺️ and omg people use to ask me all of those question. I had women ( family members ) ask me if i didn’t want to ruin my body 🤬 some people are just rude… after a while of people asking me when was I going to have a baby, I use to just tell them, when God see is the right moment, and if I was just annoyed I will just ask them if they were going to babysit and give me child support…

[@datpsychobytch]

This is why people really need to stop asking people when they’ll have kids or why they don’t have kids or when they’re going to have kids! Not everyone wants kids and not everyone can have kids, such an inconsiderate question to ask someone And quite frankly non of anyone’s business!

[@topcake]

Exactly!

[@Rochelle_Ballah]

THANK YOU 👏🏾

[@loraleepooley4160]

Michelle Ruiz I so agree!

[@beezy388]

This

[@brandon3872]

As someone who can relate to this I agree, it's really rude when people ask such personal questions when they don't know you that well.

[@lipsohlips97]

We really need to de-normalize asking couples about kids. Its honestly so insenstive. If its something they would like to share that's their business, but everyone has their own story like you. Some people don't want kids, some can't, some don't know. There are just so many different reasons. On the surface, it may seem like an innocuous question but there can honestly be so much turmoil and pain involved. I've been following you for years girl. I'm so glad techonology is far enough advanced that you have options. It's not easy to share but i can already see you've helped someone with your story. Seriously, wish you the best!!!

[@mitsukitai2713]

Absolutely agree! I consider it rude regardless of the person's intent; you're basically asking about the person's sex life! (and no one needs to know that except myself, my partner, and my doctor!l)

[@tina_m_bina]

AMEN!!!

[@Lolee56]

most importantly not all married couples want kids

[@meganepelletier853]

I don't think asking per say is necessarily rude. A friend or close family can genuinely ask out of curiosity about your life plans in general, the same way they may ask about your career plans or buying a house (not that one has to answer). However it seems really widespread for people, close or not, to naggingly ask time and time over when you're having children when you become "of age" to do so. The issue lies not so much in the question itself, but in the tone and repetitiveness of it, alongside the usual answers that come afterwards. Most people don't even realize it, but when a woman says no, they will immediately question her motive for not having children or insinuate that she will eventually come around and change her mind. It's a form of mindless small talk that is truly destructive. Heck, I've even gotten comments along those lines from a cashier at a grocery store. I can't imagine how it would have felt to get comments on my "aging uterus" (note: I'm far from old) had I been trying unsuccessfully...

[@suiren5272]

Ok I agree but to an extent! I think it's the way your posing your question that can come off as rude but it isn't necessarily rude in every circumstance. For example if it comes up in conversation and you're talking family and children then it would be appropriate to ask however if the person has already stated that they do not want children then there is no need for the other person to bring it up ever again in conversation. Then there's people that ask why you don't want children THAT'S when it comes off as insensitive cause why is it your business to know the reason they don't want children?

[@Artishian60]

Low body fat can stop periods. Check with a good doctor, natural path. Most women in the military lose their cycle for months due to extreme exercise and stress.

[@loa367]

I totally agree with you, with her busy life/ schedule, it can be compromising her body/reproductive system.

[@edawhat3737]

Right, except this started a decade ago for her. If you look back at her older videos, you can see she wasn't always this thin and didn't always exercise like she does now.

[@madeyez]

There was a period of time when my wife's period was so out of whack, and we found out it was due to her dieting. Once she started to add peanut butter into her diet, bam!, everything back to normal.

[@dredgen7715]

I'm from future, u hav twins.

[@Wellnessgoodvibe]

Just never lose hope. My mother had a cyst and needed emergency surgery, after that they said she couldn't have babies. Here I am and a brother. My father brought the best hormone (international) they had back then and she soon had me. I have two aunts who struggled for MANY years but when they found the right doctor from another city they got pregnant, one in her 40's. It seemed impossible for them too. I pray your dream will come true, truly. God bless you

[@MrsMeganMoon]

Wow! Amazing story!! Thank you for sharing that~~

[@charlie8286]

@@MrsMeganMoon The same happened to a friend of mine. The doctor told her that she could never have kids because of the cysts she had... After crying for weeks and deciding to adopt with her husband and informing all the family, she got pregnant, and currently on her second baby. I don't know where those doctors get such confidence to tell a woman they won't bear children.

[@sunnyside7369]

@@charlie8286 the confidence comes from assessing various blood tests and scans and the material that has come out of years and years of research. Doctors don't just pull their opinions out of a hat. That being said though, the human body and its inner processes are all so dynamic and often quite unpredictable. So whenever a diagnosis/prognosis is given, one must always leave a margin of error for said unpredictable variations.

[@charlie8286]

@@sunnyside7369 It is quite different to tell a person, you will never have children, than saying you have really low probabilities of having children, and even if you get pregnant there are also high probabilities of accidental abortion... You can aply the same to other situations, You don't tell someone they have terminal cancer and they are going to dye, when they may not have it right? You can say it's cancer but if it's not 100% then don't say it... And if it's that usual to make errors regarding fertility, then even more reason not to say it

[@schokoru4577]

@@charlie8286 I'm interested to know where are you from cause my female friend had a cyst and she got it removed but they never told her that she couldn't get pregnant anymore. I'm from Austria btw.

[@GH-bb6uf]

Wow I’ve never heard this serious voice of yours🥺 I can’t express how much I would like to give you a hug, although it wouldn’t change anything 🥺PLEASE STAY STRONG❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@MrsMeganMoon]

😍😍😍

[@Ritareds]

Diddo🥰 love and support Megan 💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼

[@bluekimchiandrea4476]

I heard it once before, when she posted about wedding planning jitters. Love you Megan!

[@ComelyStar]

That;s what I instantly thought, that her voice sounded more serious and deeper too!

[@janicebolosan119]

I feel your pain! We were trying for 7 years, going through various cycles of IVF. Finally we went aggressive with the treatment. Had twins and a single within 3 years. There are plenty of options and don't give up❤

[@Fusemoree]

What was your treatment that worked. I have had two failed FET cycles and it’s so crushing

[@janicebolosan119]

I don't remember, it was aggressive meaning they took 11 eggs out, then they mixed it. After it was ready for implantation, the doctors put in 5 embryos. I might have had triplets instead of twins. Once they come into the world, the real work begins😀

[@Fusemoree]

@@janicebolosan119 congrats!! I’m praying to find something that works for me

[@milliiieyang2597]

When she said she is an ugly crier, I felt that.

[@ladymoombaza]

I know it’s not the same, but I was adopted at birth, so I’ve only ever known my adopted family as MY family. I know my birth mom, but I’ve never known my birth father in any way. So being adopted gave me the chance to have a father in my life I would otherwise never know. You can still raise 4 beautiful babies. Not exactly the same... but it’s still love and family, and in some ways the connection is much deeper. I truly owe my parents everything for what I have and have been able to experience. Don’t give up babe.

[@aliciarav1]

It is exactly the same for many people. I've done it both ways and it makes no difference except to outsiders who don't feel the love you have. Don't be discouraged about needing to adopt!

[@emilyowen2555]

Totally think that adopting makes a stronger bond in some ways - there’s no ‘accidentally’ adopting a child, and the effort and expense that parents go to in order to adopt shows how much the child is wanted.

[@jemsopp7125]

Oh my gosh, this made me ugly cry! What a beautiful sentiment. I have friends who’ve adopted, but have never personally known an adoptee. So, I’ve only ever heard the adoptive parent’s point of view. Thank you for sharing! 😍

[@mlbminnie]

🤍

[@IvanaPerkovicOfficial]

If you can "wish" your period away I genuinenly hope and pray you'll get your wishful thinking 4 babies🌟🌟🌟 Sending you so much love and hugs for being so open about this. Miracles exist and I hope you get yours🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@ajcombs513]

Awe that is such a positive comment.

[@mileysnature1310]

But do the prayer the right way. The universe/God is really simple. If you pray then think and feel as it has already happened. The thought sends the signal and the feelings draw the event back to you 💞

[@Laura-vs6fs]

@@mileysnature1310 that is not how the world works lol The world takes it's course and god doesn't interfere and prayers are not wishlists. How old are you to write bs like that 🤣🤣

[@mileysnature1310]

@@Laura-vs6fs Hei Laura, i thought so too once, but then i came across quantum physics, epigenetics and neurological science. Especially quantum physics uncovers spirituality on a scientific level. It is proven that there is a field (Higgs field) that connects everyone and everything. All matter is connected on an energetic level, since all particles were once one entity before the expansion of the universe. And we are able to interact with this field actively. You can even heal yourself since sickness and illness is simply chaos on an atomic level. I could write pages about it! If you are interested you should do a little research on your own (look for joe dispenza, bruce liption, Gregg Braden, Heart Math Institue, etc. ) There are many DOI certified articles about this and its bulletproof science. I have subscribed to the scientific journal NATURE ((one of the highest renowned scientifc journals worldwide and they publish the recent scienctific results form researchers all over the world, they have publisehd interesting articles about this too. Just because you do not learn this in school or mainstream sources, doesnt mean it does not exist or is not relevant. A miracle stays as long a miracle until you have uncovered the process behind it. :)

[@simply558]

@@Laura-vs6fs It's no surprise that this doesn't work for you, you clearly don't have that spiritual mentality.

[@shaan8513]

This is always sad to hear when someone who wants to have a baby can't have one easily. As a person who has been told that I am extremely fertile but I don't want any kids so I became a donor in order to help someone who really wanted to have kids.

[@katrinadavis2985]

I was given this diagnosis after three years of having IUD, with periods. The same month it came out and we were ready to start trying, was the same month my periods stopped. It was soul crushing. It’s been almost two years now, but sometimes it still makes me cry uncontrollably. I hadn’t heard of anyone else with this diagnosis. That made me feel so alone. Knowing I’m not alone makes it that much more bearable. Thank you for being brave and kind enough to share.

[@TheCokeChick]

R u still not having a period ?

[@abbyl4621]

It angers me how women's health issues are generally overlooked. There's so many things women and girls don't know about their bodies. It astounds me and I try my best to learn as much as I can now. Mama doctor Jones is a gyno and her KZbin channel is a wealth of info.

[@SwtBeat]

Abby L Agree. It angers me too, people say sexism isn’t a thing and yet you look at the medical industry and women’s health issues are still a mystery at best, completely dismissed at worst. Like come on! Figure this shit out, we are suffering and our heath is completely overlooked!!

[@suiren5272]

They're generally overlooked because it's not taught at an early age nor is it ever addressed in public. The same could be said about men's health. Really we're just left to ask our moms, doctors, gynecologists, or even Google for this information

[@reje]

@@suiren5272 The same cannot be said about men's health. There are a lot of studies about health inequality & bias that show this does not affect men in the same way as it affects women.

[@suiren5272]

@@reje ah well based on my experiences in school, this is what I thought. Thanks for letting me know

[@NovaDoll]

Most things doctors can't solve they overlook

[@blues91921]

I felt the “I feel like I’m failing as a woman” part so hard. I was diagnosed with PCOS when I was 18 and have always wanted kids of my own. It was so hard finding out that my ovaries were so riddled with cysts that doctors told me that having children of my own would be extremely hard and would more then likely require a lot of IVF and there was still a chance it wouldn’t work. I can remember crying to my Mum that I felt like such a failure as a woman, and 4 years later I still get that feeling a lot even though I know being able to carry a child doesn’t define if I’m a woman or not. I’ve been following you since I was 18 and I sincerely hope you and Moon are blessed with all the babies and the big happy family you guys want and deserve ❤️

[@carelessandi]

Never lose hope! My aunt has PCOS and is 27 with 3 girls which she all conceived naturally. You never know.

[@MimiUsagichan]

I was also diagnosed with pcos but I didn't know it meant that you would have trouble having kids. But I cant relate to feeling like a "failure" bc I don't want kids so I feel bad for everyone else who does

[@BringMeThe0cean.]

Im on the same boat 😔 my aunt underwent these problems and it was a horror story for her. Her husband ended up cheating on her and leaving her for another woman he got pregnant and im absolutely terrified that will happen to me.

[@lizthomas8777]

Don't worry it will happen...it is possible

[@Cleigne143]

I feel you! :(

[@heinebaby5258]

Thank you for being so open and vulnerable about your situation. You’re so amazing!! Always love watching your videos!!

[@elizabethr4948]

Megan I am so sorry that you go through this. My mother tried for years to have me and she said every negative pregnancy test would break her. I finally arrived when she was 37-years-old! But she said that she reached a point where she realized that, regardless of her ability to get pregnant, she was valuable and would find happiness. I pray that you receive a miracle, either in the form of a baby or of true happiness.

[@00Re00bek00]

I have PCOS, I'm planning to adopt, my heart goes out to you. Edit: I was diagnosed with PCOS at 17 years old, I did my research, talked to specialists and I made a decision. I will not be putting myself through the stress, pain, anxiety and depression of trying for a baby and not getting pregnant for years, there's also the high possibility of miscarriage..... I just personally can't bring myself to do all of that, for my mental and physical well being I took the decision to adopt if I want children. This is a decision I made based on my personal experience and diagnosis, I support and admire anyone who decides to try and keep trying for a baby, it's just not what I want. Thank you all for responding.

[@topcake]

I have it too. It sucks. But..im still gonna try to have a kid of my own. Then adoption.

[@Jemmini13]

Please don’t give up. I have PCOS and after 9 years I managed to get naturally pregnant. Miracles happen ❤️ stay strong

[@topcake]

@@Jemmini13 im never giving up. My sis in law has pcos and she's having her second baby this yr. And a friend of mine has it and had her baby in May. So..hope and faith is still there.

[@Rosie-iy2bv]

Thsnkuou for adopting, there are so many parentless kids who deserve loving homes There are so many babies in this world already who have no family being able to offer them a home is a blessingto their lives

[@Jemmini13]

topcake hope is definitely there! I think the most important thing is not to stress, it can also affect he body negatively. I hope everything you want happens for you!!

[@a.permanent.reverie]

I totally understand what you mean when you say “you failed as a woman” I myself can’t have children because they would be disabled. My chromosomes are a no no for babies. So I feel that way too and I don’t even want children. It still hurts... I’m really excited for you and your journey I hope it all goes well!!

[@neesha901]

Im sorry if this is too personal and feel free to ignore, but can I ask how you came to know that about your specific genes. Like is it a hereditary thing, or did you get tested specifically to find out?

[@bashlea]

I have to tell you how courageous that decision was and how amazing you are to do what's right for you. That's pretty damn womanly if you ask me! You're even looking out for children you don't have. Seriously amazing. I know a random stranger on the internet won't make you feel better about the situation, but I hope one day you see how badass you are.

[@peachxtaehyung]

May I ask what they would have?

[@rose191991]

💔 wish so much love and happiness

[@strawbunnies]

That is so selfless of you to make that decision. I hope you have a wonderful life full of happiness 😀

[@ladynymue]

This is why I only go to a female doctor for woman stuff. I had a series of cycles that had me anemic they were so bad and it was a woman doctor that found my endometriosis and the subsequent issues. My heart is with you sweetheart. You will have a child or two...your personality is too amazing not to be a mom. I would have loved a mom like you :)

[@lunicraybennija]

I’m here after seeing that you’re pregnant with twins! Congrats !! You did it! Lots of blessings for your family and babies!

[@VK-ll5fn]

I’ve been diagnosed with pcos since I was 16, now I’m 25, doctor told me I would be infertile. Over the past 3 years I’ve tried and tried, I’ve had 2 miscarriages, here comes along may 2020 I have a miracle. Her name is Ellie, I just want to say Megan that you’re a strong person and don’t give up. I hope my story gives you strength and many prayers for you. We love you! 💖

[@jessicapeyton5444]

😭😭❤️ What a blessing!

[@VK-ll5fn]

Jessica Peyton thank you so much!! I prayed and I prayed. I found out I was pregnant when the pandemic just hit! It was so stressful. But I’m thankful that god has helped me made my miracle!

[@nrsimmons178]

Congratulations on your little blessing, ladybug! ♡♡♡

[@VK-ll5fn]

nrsimmons178 thank you so so much! I wasn’t expecting so much love I appreciate you 💖💖💖

[@MrsMeganMoon]

Congratulations to you!!!! Yeah!!!! 💖💖💖 what a blessing indeed!

[@CherriToast]

This is what saddens me so much about modern medicine. I was studying pharmacology and I read that a lot of medical studies are mostly on men because apparently with women we have "too many hormones" and they alter too much in a monthly period, so doing controlled tests are really difficult. I'm sorry to hear this Meagan. You will get what you wish for soon, and thank you for sharing such tough news with us!

[@kateblais--9396]

Sending you so much love

[@bpxl53yewz29]

Praying for a miracle for you, Megan. God bless.

[@elfangel94]

as someone who doesn’t even want kids i would still be devastated to find out that i couldn’t get pregnant, not because it devalues me as a woman (because it doesn’t) but because i have been robbed of my right to choose. My mother unfortunately had to have her tubes tied because her last pregnancy almost killed her and even tho she has 12 children she loves being mom, she loved having babies and when the doctors told her she couldn’t have anymore it destroyed her. I have never seen her so utterly devastated and depressed. I’ll be praying for you and for the rona situation to improve. I’ve been a fan for years but never comment but this video really touched me and i hope everything can turn out well for you because you deserve it 🤍

[@emilycanfield2634]

A scare like that has happened to me, I had horrible pain in my abdomen. I went to the doctor and long story short it turned out to be my Crohn's Disease, but when the doctor was doing tests, he gave me antibiotics because they thought it could have been an STI that could then cause pelvic inflammatory disease..which could cause infertility. I literally cried in the hospital because of the exact same reason as you. I felt like I could have possibly lost my right to choose if I wanted to have children or not :( was a horrible feeling. So I can't even imagine how it would be for women who actually cannot naturally have children

[@elfangel94]

Emily Canfield i’m so sorry that happened i hope you are doing better :( like you said i can’t imagine what it must be like and i’m so glad megan has found other options.

[@jamesson1154]

I think 12 children is enough for 2 families. Jesus lol.

[@nieng5376]

@@jamesson1154 You mean 4

[@jamesson1154]

WeeklyGamingBS nah my grandma popped out 7. They had a lot more children back then. 12 is uncommonly large tho lol.

[@annahfr]

This is why no one should ask those questions to any women. This is no one business. And you end up hurt someone. Let's learn no ask those questions ffs

[@daydreamer054]

I agree sometimes you shouldn't ask personal questions because you never know what a person's situation may be. Some women can't have children and some may not want children; speculating and asking if people are pregnant can trigger many emotions. It's up to an individual to initiate these conversations with their circle of friends, physicians, or in the case of content creators their subscribers when they are ready to.

[@mdkushida]

INDEED 👏🏻

[@austinrichards1740]

Ana Paula Ferreira facts

[@indigorune]

I am rooting for you with the egg donation! I hope you get to experience pregnancy and childbirth some day. You will be a great mother! Also, the labor/delivery process (for me at least) is amazing--yes, it hurts, but at the end you have the most perfect little thing in your arms! Good luck, Megan.

[@ariannaa9053]

That makes me so mad! It took me 5 years to get my endo diagnosed with them originally saying "I didnt have it" cause they couldn't see it on the ultrasound. When you cant see endo on an ultrasound.. Long story short, if anyone experiences the same thing, never give up and change doctors until someone takes you serious. As a previously infertile person up until a few months ago, keep fighting your doctors. Our internal pain matters too ❤

[@kikib8434]

AGREED. I have stage 4 endo, have had 5 surgeries, healed the most from diet changes but still have issues and other autoimmune problems. 40, no kids but want them. Also have a prolapsing uterus. I'm at the point where if my eggs are viable and I can, I'll put them on ice and I always wanted to adopt too anyway. But ladies, don't wait - advocate for yourself right out of the gate. I have a great surgeon now, but he can only do so much. So yeah, don't be dismissed - find a doctor/naturopath/whomever who will listen to you and keep looking until the problem is found and then help you with a solution that works for you.

[@arielthebull-pei9379]

I felt the need to share because i know the feeling especially about wanting to experience pregnancy. I've always loved and wanted kids of my own. When I got married in 2013, my husband and I never verbally said we'd try but we had stopped all contraceptives. Then in 2014, I when my periods started to lessen (to about 1 every 2 months and only lasting 2-3days) i went to my GYN and found out i had PCOS AND a HUGE fibroid/cyst (size of a small melon). I became depressed for years even after removing the fibroid. My period started disappearing more to about 1-2x a year...It was basically my #1goal in life: to give birth to kids.. I was depressed for years and it hurt when people would ask "when are you having babies?" Or even worse "why don't u have kids, u'd be a great mom." My rock bottom was when my younger sister, who is 4 YEARS younger got pregnant immediately after she got married in 2018...i waS so jealous and pissed at GOD. How come it was so easy for her?...It was only in June of last year that I got started to accept and not be jealous or mad.. i became open to the idea of adopting or surrogacy... Then the craziest thing happened, i found out i was pregnant! I hadn't had my period in MONTHS but somehow I conceived. Being 35yr old with pcos, I was High Risk, but God blessed me with no pregnancy issues during this pandemic time..I now have a beautiful healthy 3month old baby girl....I thank God for my miracle baby everyday. I pray that you and Moon will get yours too.

[@LolaBear864]

What a blessing! Congrats!

[@tracyelle2023]

What a beautiful story, congratulations!

[@MilyAlcantar]

Omg! Congratulations!

[@AyMarie86]

I had to look at who wrote this... I thought it was me. We are honestly in the same boat. Congratulations on having a baby. And thank you for giving me hope. Good luck to you and your family.

[@kennelsofirritation]

I understand being mad at your sister. My sister who is 5 years younger than me got pregnant when she was 15 and I lost my sh*t because I had just had a D&C 3 weeks before we found out she was pregnant.

[@FortuitousOwl]

Honestly it’s kinda upsetting that people will push pregnancy rumors so hard. Like your fav creators are human beings, if Megan had a huge life change coming and she doesn’t want to talk about it we need to respect that. Stop speculating about creators personal lives. Not every body change = pregnant and not every couple even wants to get pregnant. I’m sorry this affects you so much, sending lots of love and support!

[@lola.rabbit]

Thank you for sharing your story with us! I always looked up to you since I was 13. This video does give some hope for myself!! I actually had an ectopic pregnancy in January and when the doctors told me that my risk of getting it again is higher and the chances of having children was lower, I was so depressed. I’m only 22 so I wasn’t thinking about having kids right, but hearing that I may struggle to get pregnant in the future was devastating. I even saw that some women have 2 tubes but only one actually works. So yea, I cried for days. I always visioned myself as that mom that saw parts of myself in someone I created. But I’m just hoping when I’m ready, so are these ovaries.

[@feliciiaab]

I’m sorry you’ve been going through this. I hope which ever way life goes that it works out in a way that you’re happy. Whether it be with your sister or something else. 💕

[@kikijo5444]

I’m so sorry you’re having to go through this Megan. I was told I could never have children due to my Adenomyosis and Endometriosis. After a Laparoscopic procedure to clean me out I got pregnant. I’m now the mother of two boys. I’m praying you’re able to carry your baby. 😘😘

[@omegasage777]

That's amazing! So happy for you :)

[@MrsMeganMoon]

Congratulations!!! I’m so happy you were able to conceive

[@ace-vb7lw]

I was told I couldn’t get pregnant since I was 11, and now I have an 8 year old. I’m praying for you, Meg.

[@austinrichards1740]

baebttr yeah good bless you

[@SaltyMouse10]

Same. I have pcos. It was hard to get pregnant. I have 2 boys.

[@terezahoward4008]

me too, I was 35 when I had one, that's the only one, but she came out fine, a difficult pregnancy

[@leiamusickpop5838]

I’ve been a subscriber for years and I’ve followed you down this road. You are a wonderful and creative and beautiful woman. You’re going to do amazing things with your life along side a man that cares for you more than anything. I’m sending prayers ❤️ made me cry honestly. ❤️❤️

[@nikkigenovese1766]

I'm sorry you are going through this. I hope everything works out for you! I recommend checking out the Swedish KZbinr Kenza, she also went into early menopause, but she is on baby #2 right now. She talks very openly about their experience and what they did to "succeed." Hope you are well.

[@KiamaSamoyi]

I found out Kids were only a maybe for me at 12-ish years old. It is not an easy thing. I would love to see your journey to motherhood. Infertility is such a taboo thing to talk about and I really feel like it needs to be shared and more people need to know about it. I have PCOS and only one working ovary! I did IVF to have kids(took 3 years). I pray for you guys. There are many ways to have kids, don't give up!!!!!

[@soul_asmr]

I don’t want kids but I only have one working ovary too :( Righty gang lol. Lefty loosey :/ But I only recently FINALLY got diagnosed after years of extreme pain, and my heart fully goes out to women who want kids but can’t. Even I faced some grief around that option likely being taken away from me. I’m 26 but definitely had a Robin from HIMYM bit of a breakdown about it. Glad to see you fulfilled your dream though and to see other people with PCOS can do well ♥️

[@cathywelch9116]

Mr. Moon is so sweet. You blessed with a wonderful husband.

[@TheWorldofRobbie]

Blessed?? She earned him fair and square Megan is amazing ☺

[@michelleturner2584]

God can make miracles happen if you choose to be a mommy you will but you have to have faith that God wants you at that time and that place to be that just having a faith in you and yourself and God and your goals will be accomplished you don't seem like the type of person to give up I wish you all the happiness in the world and good luck on the new baby and I think your husband's adorable because he wants whatever you want he wants everything for you have a good life congrats

[@asianmaddness56]

Korean husbands are this way

[@viennacupcake8700]

4th

[@imdancingforever5215]

He marry you because he wants to be with you not because he wants to have a baby ❤️ i think it's what should a couple do

[@bratzdollbehi8084]

Awww you’re really amazing to be able to share this with us. My heart reaches out to you like I love how you’re so open and positive about the whole situation. God hears you and I hope you’re able to experience it even once. I hope everything goes well for you.

[@tonyahockless588]

Megan and Mr. Moon! Y’all are bringing me back to life. I’m new to your channel and I’m enjoying every minute of it! No worries! Sending y’all my love from Texas!! 🙏🏾🥰❤️🔥

[@ashtree336]

It took around 8 years but I know someone in a similar position who finally conceived. Good luck with everything!

[@oliviam469]

exactly!!! even khloe k had to wait what was it like 10 years? good luck megan!

[@famousamos]

Thanks for sharing this vulnerable side of you.

[@juli6205]

Ayyy amooooos

[@MrsMeganMoon]

Amos Thanks so much. It’s been so long. Hope all is well

[@DefineMorena]

Whaddup Amos

[@mikimomeek2278]

Awww I’m so happy you have sisters! I was horrified of the coming out part and that ended up being the easiest part for me. Lol remember push like ya gotta poop. All seriousness sending all the love and good energy as things are slowly going back to some type of normalcy I pray she can come to you guys soon. You’re going to be such an amazing mother. Time/ life is not a straight flowing river and I’m so sorry things aren’t ideal for you in this moment. Biiiiig hugs many kisses.

[@peiyikuan4265]

THank you for sharing this to the world and making the best out of the "cards" you've been dealt with. Love you guys Megan and Moon! Keep on living your best life and being authentic. #inspiration #livinglifetothefullest

[@xxLivingMyWayxx]

Why would someone look at someone's stomach and ask if they are pregnant?

[@rachelnstephens]

Because they were raised by wolves.

[@bellacortez]

ahah, I had some woman in the dollar tree come up to me asking if I was pregnant after a 50lbs weight loss. I said no she looked at my stomach and said " your not pregnant". I left Dollar tree like the devil aint gonna get me stress eat today lol

[@Alisha21210]

Nosey ass people, that's who.

[@loraleepooley4160]

Just_Dam Right??? I hate that.

[@jackiem1293]

I just had this happen to me about 2 weeks ago, lady asked if I was pregnant and made me feel horrible and so self-conscious.

[@EmilyPetersenHomemaking]

A really good quote I heard once: "If your deepest desire is to be a parent, it will happen. It may not happen in the way you wanted, but it will happen." Hope that is comforting to you in this time.

[@MoNehNeh17]

Sincerely Cinta Happy for you! I wish you both happy + healthy lives.

[@mbartee81]

Megan! Look, I’ve been following since you had the karaoke mic. I would not be surprised if you got pregnant naturally. God is able! Whichever way it happens, I’m so excited that you’re going to experience motherhood! You will be an excellent mother! I agree with you sis. All your dreams will come true!♥️

[@teezypeezy586]

Megan I hug you from Colorado! I’m 44 and have never been preggers. I still cycle regularly but it just didn’t happen but I won’t say never. Just know you are admired! You’re a warrior lady!!💛

[@ritacykim]

Same thing happened to me. I had extremely low AMH levels and the ultrasound showed that I didnt have any follicles producing eggs in my ovaries. After almost 8-12 months of fertility treatments, taking herbal teas and acupunture, I started getting regular periods again and we got pregnant naturally twice. We are currently 21 weeks pregnant now, but I felt very broken while going through fertility treatments. Good luck to you!

[@winniefu8541]

Hi Rita do u mind sharing where is your dr located - Herbal treatment and acupuncture?

[@makemecry6604]

We? Your husband have a baby in there too? Lmao

[@ritacykim]

@@winniefu8541 Chosun Acupunture Clinic in Koreatown in Los Angeles, CA. I think Dr. Choi is about 81-82 years old and specialize in fertility. Speaks broken english, but will customize every visit and follow up with you via text.

[@ritacykim]

@@makemecry6604 Yes, in America when the wife is pregnant we also include the husband and say "we" because it took both of us years of trying to conceive together to have our baby.

[@darril6486]

Same but different My ovaries do not release the egg. It just hold it in and creates huge 7+ cm cysts after every ovulation. So my body thinks im going through menopause because im not releasing the egg and I bleed for more than 1 month sometimes. Wish me luck I might go to surgery next month. I'll know in about 8 days if I will be going through a lap. Wishing you all the love and recovery on your journey I wish you have a smooth pregnancy and congratulations 💟

[@rawsueshii]

Gods gonna bless you Megan, I already know best believe you will have those four kids you want! IJN amen! 🙌🏽🙏🏽

[@keilaleal5381]

🙌🏽

[@TNP33]

AMEN AMEN!

[@karengrace6890]

God's will above our own. Praying for peace of the heart and mind for them.

[@Butterfliepie3000]

Amen!!

[@mariahgutierrez4481]

My aunt couldn't get pregnant for almost 15 years and then one day she did! The human body is strange, my little cousin was born 4 years ago. She super cute and healthy.

[@85sheena]

What a lovely, wonderful sister you have. Hugs and kisses to yall!!

[@Tania-uf9un]

Aw, I'm sorry to hear this. I been pregnant for 6 months and you made me appreciate it more. Big prayers for you ! Hopefully you get that joy soon. Don't give up.

[@JoMonki]

You got this Megan from what I've seen life is short and having a child through whichever way God provides: natural, envitro , adoption is all in his plan. I hope you and Mr Moon the best

[@susanbrunner3551]

I found out I was infertile when I was 30. I started having really bad hot flashes after I had a copper IUD placed and was off my birth control. I found out I was post-menopausal, not even menopausal, it was already way past that stage. I cried buckets because they couldn’t figure out what happened and usually I always had regular periods with no pain, etc, all my tests came back negative (this means it’s idiopathic). My only options are donor eggs or adoption. Many women suffer from these issues and do not talk about it. I’m also taking a lot of meds...I went from zero to like 10 meds!!! Everyone goes through the grieving process. Please know you aren’t alone. I cannot say I understand your situation because everyone’s situation is different. I’m very happy your husband is so supportive!!!

[@peachy_reina]

💕💕💕💕💕 thank you for sharing..I'm so sorry you've had such a hard Time 😞

[@lanalah8705]

In my 26 years of life, I have never left a comment on a video, but when I was watching this video, I felt an enormous flash of love that I wanted to sent you via this message. I know everything will turn out amazing for you and your husband, and you will be blessed with many little angels. Sending you lots of love Megan 🤍

[@callalily7130]

Your video hit home. I experienced 4 years of infertility and it was so hard to get questions and comments like “when are you going to have kids?” “I can’t wait for you to get pregnant” “it’s going to happen, you have to stop being so stressed about it” etc. Years of crying into my pillow, avoiding church on Mother’s Day, and not being able to go to baby showers. Can definitely relate to feeling broken as a woman. God did bless me eventually with 2 girls but I also had 2 losses and infertility between both girls (6 years apart). I understand your yearning for a child. I also understand yearning for wanting to feel life growing inside you. What helped me is that my worth is not defined by my status as a mom (or not). It doesn’t take away the pain, but it helps a little. It’s natural to feel the way you do. I pray that God will make you feel whole and bring you peace and joy, whatever form it looks like. ❤️

[@natty__ice]

My cousin and his wife struggled to have a child for years. It's a hard road to travel in life. They did 5 rounds of IVF, one surrogate (who lost the baby), and a miscarriage. She was deemded medically unable to have children naturally. Fast forward a year later and they had little Roman completely naturally. Miracles happen and I'm thinking and hoping for you and Moon

[@jayemzzful]

Hi, I understand your intent but it's actually not appropriate to share stories like this to infertile people. Because miracles don't happen to everyone and they're rare. And everyone's bodies and reasons for infertility are different. I'm infertile and will never have children, I've tried and tried for years and years and people commenting and sharing stories like this is not "hopeful" to me. It just makes you feel like even more of a failure because you ask yourself all the time well why can't I be the miracle story? And the story always makes it seem like I just haven't tried or waited long enough. Best response to these stories is understanding and prayers. Not diminishing a person's infertility experience which is what you are doing but probably don't realise.

[@JasmineLovealot]

jayemzzful Hope is a wonderful thing! Projecting your trauma on a positive message and applying it to someone else isn’t the right mindset. Wishing for her miracle is not diminishing in anyway.

[@hannahclarke9902]

JassyJay exactly, hope is very powerful and extremely important!

[@wolfcat87]

@@jayemzzful I think hope is a mixed bag. My dad was declared sterile when he was younger. His high school sweetheart was with him off and on for over 20 years. They ended up married for over 10 years. They tried for babies constantly with no luck. He cheated on her with my mom, and I popped out of nowhere. They tried some more. Still no luck. Finally, they divorced, and she remarried quickly and had two children back to back. You just never know. People do deserve to know there's a chance the same way they need to know it's very unlikely they will be that tiny chance.... I had sex for like 6 years without getting pregnant before a baby finally popped out. Baby making is a sh*tshow. Hope is what you make of it.

[@jayemzzful]

Hey guys, thank you for the replies. They're all valid opinions. To me, these stories aren't hopeful, they can lead to false hope and disappointment. Everyone's trauma and fertility story is different and just because it worked for one couple doesn't mean it will work for another. Sometimes it just doesn't work and the constant pushing of miracle stories can diminish that person's personal journey and makes an already traumatizing experience more heartbreaking. Which is why I believe it's safer to just be understanding and send prayers and love. Everyone is different. What is hopeful to some is heartbreaking to another. Tbh, the stories that uplift me most are the ones where people tell me how fulfilled and happy they are even without children. That they found a way to live a full life. That having children isn't the be all and end all. I'm still hopeful for a baby after more than 7 years of trying and very little likelihood. I hope for a miracle but mostly I hope that whatever happens my husband and I will be okay and we'll be happy regardless. ❤️

[@H3arme3r0ar]

I don’t want kids at all.. I’ve always wished that I could magically just swap my reproductive system with others. I wish I could take someone’s infertility and give them my fertility.

[@jeaninehicks2907]

Same! I’m starting to feel sad 😢 for those who can not get Pregnant. I have no desire to have children, but oddly I’m starting to Sympathize with those who do and can’t. It would be horrible to want something so badly and unable to obtain it and think you are failing as a woman.

[@virginiealohaa8163]

You can still donate your eggs to support other women.

[@lavenderrosecandy]

Same

[@simona_sigmund1001]

@@virginiealohaa8163 Even though I don't want my own biological kids I can't even offer my own fertility to someone else.... I was born with a genetic disease that would greatly harm me and any child I had. So I could never be a surrogate or give my eggs. Like I said I thank God that I always wanted to adopt so I dont feel the heartbreak that other women do, but my fear of getting pregnant is strong because of the damage it'll do. Once this pandemic is over I'm gonna go to the doctor and see what they can do cause almost all birth control is trash.

[@virginiealohaa8163]

@@simona_sigmund1001 So sorry to hear about your condition. All the very best for your future plans x

[@maryan8399]

I'm so sorry for you but as you said you can always adopt a child that really needs a home and for you sister to want to do this thing for you it's absolutely amazing!!!! It really doesn't matter if you gave birth to it as long as you protect, love and bring it up the best you can!!! I have been following you and watching your videos for years and I know it in my heart that you'll be a great mother!!! I really wish you all the best!! ❤️❤️

[@clairelee4597]

Thank you for sharing this very valuable and personal side of your struggle. I've gone through my own infertility journey for years and I can relate to the pain and frustration you're dealing with. Any child will be very blessed to have you as a mom no matter how you get there. Stay strong!

[@sweetdevil0702]

As someone with PCOS, married for 5 years now and childless, my heart goes out to you both. Sending love and hugs 💕

[@itsblitzzz]

Love you, Megan ❤️❤️❤️❤️. Thank you for sharing your story.

[@MrsMeganMoon]

❤️❤️❤️

[@thejailorsjester5016]

As someone hoping to start their own family soon, and I’ve caught up on all your recent videos. I wanted to rewatch this one, knowing you got your beautiful family! The joy I’m sure we all feel watching your babies grow is indescribable. You’re an incredible mom ❤️ we love you Megan ❤️

[@JessVision22]

I really felt for you in this video. I've had similar experiences with doctors where they seem to just 'push pills' and then have you 'wait and hope for the best'. It's disheartening and frustrating to say the least. I understand this feeling of 'your body not functioning as it should', but I hope you (at least one day if not already) won't be so hard on yourself. Mr. Moon is such a genuine person and his response was heartwarming to say the least. I hope everything works out for you both. You have such a kind and beautiful soul and deserve to be happy. Thank you for sharing your story. 💕

[@ashleyoli.6018]

I was 16 when I found out that I couldn't have kids. It broke my heart because I always wanted to be a mother. I'm 18 at the moment and I want to say Thank you. Sincerely Thank you. I lost hope, but after hearing you tell your story, it gave me hope for my future.

[@phoeblington7822]

My mother was told that she wasn’t able to have kids, yet they kept trying and then they had me and my brother! Don’t lose hope, I know so many people who have been told that there’s no hope, and had kids... there’s still a chance Megan! You have got this, and we will love and support you every step of the way ❤️

[@killiansirishbeer]

Please be careful with your comment, because the reason why your mother was told that may be different than the reason other people are told they can't have kids. Also, there's probably this forgotten nuance between "can't" and "almost impossible", "improbable" or "very difficult" ...

[@phoeblington7822]

killiansirishbeer it was a very similar situation in the fact that she didn’t have her periods. After she had me they managed to even out. But yes I understand your point completely (:

[@RenCurrymusicalseoul]

Even my friend's mom had her tubes tied and still had a kid. Nothing is certain

[@meme9924]

Been here watching your videos since you first began, and its been awesome watching you grow and blossom (lol I'm only 19 now). But please stay strong Megan! You're an awesome person and KZbinr. You'll be blessed to be a momma in due time, and when you are, I know your children will be blessed to have such wonderful parents. Much love, your fan❣

[@marissanguyen1447]

I relate to this so much! Hoping we get things figured out. Praying for your journey!

[@jemsopp7125]

This hits me hard. I had twins when I was 16. Clearly I was young and it wasn’t planned so I decided to focus on my girls, college, and work with the understanding that someday I would meet Mr Right and start a family. Thought I met him, and we decided to try. Three weekends ago I was told I needed an emergency hysterectomy & major blood transfusion due to an uncontrollable uterine hemorrhage. Now, the only way for me to have a biological child is to hire a surrogate. Mr Right wasn’t okay with that. I’m 40 and he’s 32, so we both realized kids are no longer an option and he left a week later. I won’t lie, I’m heartbroken, but I don’t blame him. It’s kind of hard to believe you’re not the sum of your reproductive parts when that happens, so I understand your feelings on being broken. Thank Heaven you have your Sister and a loving, supportive husband. Now I’m praying even harder for this Corona crud to go away! I can’t have my dream, but man, I REALLY want to see you have yours! Thank you for being so open with such a painful subject. This had to be so hard to do. Sending love all the way to Korea from Washington State. 💖

[@kennelsofirritation]

I can relate to your story! I married my high school sweetheart and we tried to have a baby for 7 years. We went through the preliminary infertility treatments trying different medicines and a couple of rounds of IUI with no luck. When he realized that we would need IVF or a surrogate to have a baby with his DNA, it was like he suddenly hated me. We got divorced within the year.

[@NewCreation1681]

I hope both of you ladies know you deserve way way WAY better!! 💕

[@nataliest.martin8453]

I’m so sorry. I blame him! There’s never a guarantee any couple can have a child - for that to be a demand is just wrong.

[@rudimental8917]

You dodged a bullet

[@babyangelic]

I'm so sorry you went through something like this. Please remember everyday you are not the sum of what your body can "give" to a man. You deserve to be loved for the being you are right now, as an individual, before anything. If he only stays based on the idea of children, he is not the guy for you. You deserve better!! I'm sorry for the long comment but this hit home to me. I wish all the happiness to you, truly!!

[@Squiggleywiff]

Maybe this won't help but incase it does, I was adopted, quite late in comparison to most. My parents are the people that stepped up and truly care for me, the people that love me unconditionally and even as an adult would come running if I ever needed them. My dad is the man I text when I'm upset and feel like I can't talk to anyone. My mother is the person who's hug feels like sunshine and who's cooking is the best I've ever known. These people didn't give birth to me but they did create who I am today, you should see my dad and I argue, I'm definitely his kid 😂 I know adoption isn't the same as having a biological child but to many of us adoptees we don't see our adopted parents as anything other than our "real" parents.

[@user-xd6nc6rg7b]

❤️❤️❤️

[@rosasilva688]

😍😍😍😍😍

[@SilverMoonBella]

Yes! More people need to adopt💛💛💛

[@roseywinter]

Thanks so much for sharing. I love how supportive Mr. Moon is. You're both so perfect for each other. I can relate to the crazy heavy periods & hormone issues. For me, it's endometrial hyperplasia. I'm actually on day 21 of the period from hell right now from the new hormone I'm on. Crazy stuff. Wishing you lots of luck & sending lots of love!!! ❤❤❤

[@iceblack62010]

And now you both have 2 gorgeous babies....such a full circle 😊❤️

[@sudarshanajha2786]

you have been my internet mentor growing up, i was like 12 or 13 when i first started watching your videos. i now am almost 18. I just wanted to tell you that you are one of the most positive people, so full of love. I am sending you so much love and support from the bottom of my heart. I wish you all the best. Your story actually made me cry, I cannot imagine how hard it must be for you, i hope you know how much your subscribers love and support you. I hope you keep on growing and spreading happiness.

[@MrsMeganMoon]

❤️❤️💖💖😍😍

[@MyKoreanHusband]

Hugsss

[@MrsMeganMoon]

Thank you so much

[@joannlin]

Aww. This hits me in the feels so much. Thank you for sharing something so personal. Motherhood is an amazing experience. Don’t give up. There has been sooo many advances in ivf...I have a good feeling about this happening to you.

[@tenishanash2760]

I applaud your honest and strength for letting us in. Just be reminded that (medical) miracles still happen everyday and you're not exempt! Stand in faith, even if its as big as a mustard seed❤

[@cindytreminio2838]

My heart goes out to you and your husband. My husband and I were trying for 5 years to get pregnant and I felt so hopeless but when we least expected; we got pregnant! My little miracle was born August of 2019. Having my baby girl is my wonderful gift. I truly appreciate every moment being a mommy. I wish you the best of luck! Don’t stress...take day-by-day ❤️❤️❤️

[@soul_asmr]

:( I really feel you in the period talk. I’m 26 but I feel mind blown that we were gaslit for years told that extreme pain was just ~normal~. Now I’ve JUST finally gotten a PCOS diagnosis (I could have endo and worse, idk yet..) and the feelings of body betrayal are SO. REAL. I was forced to ignore so much of what was going on, and now I need extremely urgent care. I hope younger girls learn well before we did 🥺

[@MrsMeganMoon]

Ahhhhh that’s the feeling being gaslit :( I’m sure had I been thoroughly looked at there could have been something done maybe :(

[@OroHoneyLemon]

I also get really bad periods. Until last year, I thought that it was normal (I get really irregular periods). While my excruciating pain never lasted more than a day, I got the full deal. I'd get nauseous, vomiting, diarrhoea, period pains without the ability to straighten up. Last year it got so bad that I actually couldn't walk and because of all the things combined, I'd hyperventilate and lose the ability to even move my fingers. When I went to the doctor I have been prescribed some pills (not birth control, because I don't bleed much), I'm not sure how well it's working because of how irregular my periods are. A lot of doctors don't take issues relating to periods seriously, because most are male and they simply don't sympathise, chalking it up to women over-reacting.

[@comelaluna845]

Me too, but whenever I went to doctors for 2 years, they told me that it was normal the pain is a part of the cycle and all that but then my dermatologist suspected sth was off about my cycle. I did tests and it turned out I have severe PCOS. It's been 4 years after my dermatologist saved me (well kinda) and now I'm talking pills but it doesn't go away. All I can do is to be strong and curse at all those doctors who say having very bad pains during your irregular cycle is normal

[@daidaisy8913]

A few years back i starting having severe debilitating pains, like having a child or worse plus irregularities as well as a few other things...I pushed the issue on my doctor bc the symptoms I was having weren't normal. I used to be normal and it hasn't been normal for years - that's usually when you go to the doctor. my doctor was hesitant believing me (bc of my weight, bc ive had a child ect...) but we're now trying treatment for PCOS. being ignored or down played is the worst. it's hard to tell when normal symptoms are actually problematic already so if I'm going, it's bc something is WRONG. We're trying treatment for PCOS and checking for worse as well. I feel ya💚

[@BlackMamba-mh5vw]

Dear Meghan, I was struggling for three years to get pregnant. But finally after lots of doctors, appointments, blood test,operation, it happened out of nowhere. I believe you will have baby soon,don’t give up, start looking for the Right doctor for you, this is crucial. I got throw several before I found one who really got me! Be strong, dear.

[@ellie2041]

As a person who can't ever have kids(no uterus) I understand how painful assumptions of pregnancy are or even nice comments like" oh your so pretty your children will be beautiful" its like a shot to the heart every time. Having a supportive partner definitely helps, but in every culture and biologically as women we and other people expect us to be able to have children so its really hard to accept that you cannot or may not be able to have kids and you or at least I did go throught all the stages of grief because I always wanted kids so it was a big lose for me and it took me a long time to acknowledge that. For me first finding out was about losing that dream of getting pregnant and the loss of having a choice I always thought I had. Its one of those things that reminds you to be grateful for the choices we do have and make the most of our lives. I wish you guys both a happy life and have a great family life in whatever way you choose to achieve that dream! and for anyone else who reads this I see having kids as a choice and career it take dedication so it should be something you want and no other reason and for people who can have kids and dont want them I respect you to its your choice and in no way has any connection to your worth as a person!