we fight too

[@FlavorofMind]

Hot take - If couples don't have disagreements and misunderstandings now and then, then something's off! Or someone's not expressing themselves. Expressing and then resolving is the healthy way to go. Y'all are doing great given the heavy duty challenges in front of you! ❤

[@hugothemaan]

Shouldn’t be a hot take either, this is just how healthy lasting relationships work 🤷‍♂️

[@khalilahd.]

I completely agree with this. It’s so important for a healthy relationship

[@diorvante3490]

so true queen

[@caseygreyson4178]

Eh… I disagree. While having disagreements and misunderstandings are completely normal and healthy, the lack of them doesn’t mean something is off. I have yet to have a single argument or misunderstanding with my partner of almost 5 years because we are very similar people and communicate things well to each other. Couldn’t ask for a better and easier relationship.

[@DaestrumManitz]

@@caseygreyson4178 Differing personality types, topped with the neurological wiring differences between the sexes, provides an inevitability for arguments in relationships. What you have is not only unique but incredible. I still stumble with agreements of such simple issues as the proper placement of the food items in the shopping cart with my spouse.

[@karltonstorm4549]

Its just life. But I don't recommend posting the actual event. You will get a lot of unwanted opinion that will affect what you feel about the situation. Its better to resolve the matter privately. There will be a lot of people joining both sides and you guys reading the comments will be like adding oil to fire.

[@Mariam-cj5bc]

I could not agree more!

[@karenencio319]

Totally agree, but i think shes just showing the reality of couples on the internet. That no couple is perfect. Comments are given, i think she already know that, thats what comment section is for.

[@EatMyTweets13]

The comments probably don’t bother her as much as the next person. She knows what she’s doing and she felt like being transparent 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@DaestrumManitz]

If we were capable of seeing behind the scenes, there would be more evidence of a resolve on their part to bring their plans to fruition. We see content generated for interest, as both Tina and Kevin are far more sagaciously resolute in their endeavours than is apparent.

[@servantofGod-20]

Agreed it's a very intimate moment, hopefully it was posted with both their consent. It's a reality but a reality that can be used against you if you share it with the wrong people let alone the whole of youtube. In the end it is what it is...

[@AMNIyes]

I’ve been 6 years with my boyfriend and fights are just part of our relationship… the important thing is knowing that we can get past our differences through comunication and patience. It’s never easy but your relationship will get stronger.

[@MegaCazzam]

Problem with modern relationships is people think it has to be all perfect and if you ever get into an argument they immediately feel the need to end it or run into someone else’s arms people aren’t perfect just got to understand one another and be mature about it

[@greyb5511]

Well the thing is, Dooby is already stressed out with making a new restaurant. Kevin should know this and yet he is adding on to the stress by not being supportive and arguing with her.. A true boyfriend would be more communicative and trust in Dooby's decisions... Kevin is giving me really bad vibes and I can feel he is definitely not the one..

[@Blue-xk8vq]

@@greyb5511 If he's not the one then you don't have to marry him. Dude was tired, I don't get the hate he's getting.

[@spy6205]

@@greyb5511 ​ ​ kinda a weird comment. It’s giving parasocial vibes tbh… How can you decide whether or not he’s the one for someone you don’t know based on a few minutes of conflict or a couple of specifically chosen clips in a 20 min vlog? When she mentioned being afraid of showing conflict because people would make judgements and claim the relationship isn’t good - that’s you and what you’re doing, right now. You don’t know these people - you know the image they’re putting out into the internet. I’m not saying Dooby is being inauthentic by any measure, but she leads an entire life and relationship outside these short clips that we as viewers are not and should not (healthy boundaries) be privy to. It kinda sounds like you didn’t absorb the message of the vlog: no relationship is perfect and no one is going to be 100% perfect 100% of the time. At times, everyone is going to slip up, argue, be less supportive than they maybe should be in a given moment, take when they should’ve gave, be too absorbed in their own perspective when they should’ve tried to see someone’s else…. It’s all normal and natural. Working through conflict and understand our wrongs is how we grow as people and in relationships.

[@davej.8549]

@@greyb5511 I mean Dooby doesn't make things easy for Kevin either. The whole going to Japan with that other guy just because Kevin was on a vacation there was super weird. Also, she constantly puts him down and belittles him in these videos. Like saying she doesn't feel supported and he's not doing enough work. In every video she's taking shots at him. How would you feel about your girlfriend/boyfriend constantly talking trash about you or your mistakes to millions of people every week? Dooby is not very emotionally intelligent, petty and a bit narcissistic. Any issue she has with someone she just mindlessly broadcasts to the entire world. She's done the same thing with her own mom countless times and even randomly did it to their landlord 10 seconds into this video. If he's already giving them trouble and sees this video you think he's gonna be nicer or more understanding with them? Not a chance. Odds are is he would make things even more difficult for them. But of course Dooby doesn't think about those things at all. She just wants to make it look like she's a superhero doing everything by herself while the world is against her. Typical spoiled rich kid behavior.

[@Tidyabqoc]

@@davej.8549100% agree Called it from the start, would be tough to see this lasting

[@Doobydobap]

CANT WAIT TO SHOW YOU THE UPDATE IN THE NEXT VLOG AHHHHHH

[@notafunnyjoke]

JUICY 🧃

[@misbahasghar7272]

Excited already 😍

[@poohbear1240]

JUICY 🧃

[@munnamichael4418]

So excited 😀

[@happilyeverafter1903]

업로드 자주 해주세요! 매주 두비두밥을 기다리는 두비에요 🥹

[@dhruvpatel2554]

Fights are just part of our day to day life . I hope you are doing good 🙂. Thanks for video dooby

[@khalilahd.]

This ❤❤

[@K-newborn]

@@khalilahd. duuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuude ur errywhere youre a bot or more priviliged than white progrerssives who have it better than doobie

[@MonaLisa-mp2tj]

That doesn't sound like a healthy relationship if fighting is something that happens day to day

[@jininberry8204]

I'd love to see a video explaining your situation. Are you paying him or giving him a share of the resturant? Hes in a foreign country with no job but to help you and is completely reliant on you and your future. When you finish the resturant if you break up he will leave with nothing and would have wasted years leaving with no money and he couldn't stay in korea. How do you guys address this power dynamic?

[@bao_bun4491]

i want to know about this too

[@Tidyabqoc]

My guess is they didn’t address it, probably he gets paid a bit

[@jamielocreda9780]

hes probably a co-owner

[@dorianguey]

They've been dating for just a few months and have jumped into living together and starting a business together. He is probably on a tourist visa. I like Dooby, but unfortunately, I don't see this relationship working out.

[@huemai935]

@@dorianguey it's just a guess, why dont we wish her the best?

[@MarleneOuest]

You guys are real, you are not trying to make it look perfect (and fake), that's what love is. You both are courageous and inspiring, I can't wait to see the outcome of your restaurant. Take care !

[@merrittpalmer4349]

they're also really dumb and try to shoehorn a relationship because they fetishize each other's races

[@K-newborn]

shes inspiring but im lazy, i was like her at 22 like coooooooooooooking meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee cooking better than my family and meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee ph were in it til death LIES im 300lbs and eat korean and chinese food daily and ksmr out in a California king faaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaart i love being 30 faaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaart

[@MarleneOuest]

🙄the answers...

[@f9nineteen]

tina is insanely brave for opening a restaurant with her partner tbh. i'd rather do it alone because i think that's less scary. but going through this will also make anyone's relationship stronger. so wishing them both and the restaurant all the best!

[@Red-ju4mi]

thats anxiety talking. It's an illusion that we have to do everything alone.

[@ritwikjs]

i think opening a restaurant on it's own is insane, let alone doing that before you're 25, without much prior restaurant experience

[@dontgranme]

Here's to hoping she fails miserably like the spoiled rat she is

[@samyud1819]

I feel like I’m secretly spying on someone’s life , don’t share these personal moments it’s not fair to your partner either

[@khalilahd.]

Anyone would be stressed and agitated in a situation like this but I’m glad you guys are embracing it and putting in the work to get past it ❤

[@K-newborn]

quit being so positive it makes people think crime bills bernie is a good guy and hes not

[@n.g.l.]

@@K-newborn ??

[@K-newborn]

@@n.g.l. shes a bot for bernie sanders

[@sarahd2943]

When stress is high and you are renovating a house on a time schedule, there will be lots of conflicts and arguments. Tried it myself 1,5 years ago. As long as the tone is formal and both parts try to tackle the problem and not each other it'll be alright in the end. We learned a lot about our relationship and each other, it really is just a part of growing.

[@iloveeatingicecream]

I like the message Dooby is going for, but I do feel uneasy about the "fight" we see here. It's not really a fight since it seems quite once sided. Kevin was tired, lashed out, and probably apologized off camera. It depicts Kevin in a not so flattering way. Since this is Dooby's channel and venture, a more generous thing for her to have done to show a "fight" in the reverse - something she did that was slightly out of line / she will grow from. Otherwise it came off as a bit of a weird power play, saying that you'll grow from a fight i.e., Kevin will improve and not lash out in the future. Is this just me?

[@lingenberry]

I think it's just you.

[@iloveeatingicecream]

@@lingenberry fair enough

[@jakeparelta1029]

No I agree, I finally watched and it’s kind of weird, she’s showing an imperfection of her and she recorded it (which is so creepy) and then she definitely acted “better” for the camera

[@sustainablecitytoronto5405]

I agree. And it shows her doing work when we have no idea how the work is split. I think it sends a message to kevin that shes not there to work but just to watch when she dressed up like that. Then in the video she puts herself working and make kevin seems unreasonable

[@PuffinPsychologist]

@@lingenberry No it’s not just them. She recorded the “fight” and then directly showed herself working in said outfit. I understand his point completely and that he lashed out from obvious exhaustion. Dooby should have framed it differently and I think she knows it.

[@jsherm007]

From the catchy Doobie jingles to open and close the vlog to the fantastic editing, Dooby vlogs regularly make me happy.

[@carabearaa4160]

Personally I REALLY appreciate the honesty in your content. It feels like a chat with a friend not a production you’re putting on. And after two very failed marriages, and realizing that I know nothing about what a healthy relationship looks like… it helps me to see your fights. Both respectful. Frustrated. But respectful. Wishing you both the greatest success. I hope you see even through the frustration, the awesome thing you’re creating ❤

[@LOVER_LINK]

i tend to notice many people from northern European are very straightforward. My Finnish friend say they don't do small talk, and their approach to things is to the point. So I get the criticism of what you wore

[@Darkquark-u5]

I am genuinely wondering if Kevin is getting compensated for this work? Because regardless of the relationship, it's alot to put your hardwork into someone else's dream without any security . Maybe its a pessismistic outlook, but reality is harsh. And I would be pissed too if I was working so hard for someone else's dream and they just showed up looking rich and carefree. It was distasteful and naive. I feel like this is pretty common theme for young 20 somethings on the social sphere. But better to live and learn, than to sit around moping. Good for Dooby I guess.

[@elissa8242]

Maybe he has family money too idk

[@Darkquark-u5]

@@elissa8242 Yeah highly plausible!

[@clownshark_]

maybe its not your business at all

[@Bottlenosedolphin_]

Doobydobap strikes to me as someone sheltered so yea hopefully the whole experience can be a real valuable lesson and eye opener to her

[@Darkquark-u5]

@@clownshark_ k

[@tracyalan7201]

Enjoyed the video showing the progress, cooking and even the stress. Kevin's a pretty good guy and doing a lot, so I can see how tough things can be for both. Just remember that at the end of the day, they are small things. Being married for 30 years, dealing with big major events that try any relationship, sticking together shows commitment to each other. Take care.

[@haze_lee]

idk how i feel posting this online, ofcourse fighting is normal but people here are very biased and will only add fuel to the fire

[@Teashoe]

I agree

[@xotteya]

Thank you for being vulnerable. Couples fight!! This is normal!! The reason I come back to this channel time and again is because you keep it so authentic, Tina. Thank you.

[@zoewest1247]

I love that you guys are bringing us along your journey despite any ups and downs :)

[@mitskcih]

I had wondered how you guys handled the editing for the vlogs without compromising on the 'realness'. I think that's one of the main attributes that's drawn me to your channel, so big props to Kevin for also being able to be part of that and being vulnerable too!

[@nirsommer]

~my interpretation~ He cares about her and her clothes getting damaged from the renovation (that's nice). He's frustrated because of it too, he hoped to get more help, and while she can technically work in those clothes, it would be a shame and a waste if they get ruined. She will likely have to be more careful while working so she'd be slower and be more careful about which work she'll do to begin with. He probably doesn't want her to get frustrated when her nice clothes get damaged as well. Maybe she wanted to look nice for him too and "be a woman to him" like she said in the last video, but he hoped she'd be more practical (and she'd probably be a woman to him anyway). From the little you've shown us of the relationship, good guy Kevin, seems like he's a keeper. If that's all the level of struggle in the relationship, it seems like things are going well.

[@nirsommer]

@@michaelpark5681 I'll send you a copy when I'm done

[@flo______]

Kevin being mad was really understandable. he was EXHAUSTED, it was really clear. there's some days you're just so tired every little thing upsets you. I personally think you guys shouldn't handle the renovation on your own too much. you guys are not professionals, you can make mistake and will lead to another mess. better let the workers do what they do...

[@christopherneely1856]

Yeah, he seems like he's doing most of the work while she's just playing around.

[@yennefer440]

It's really strange that she put that fight into the video. She has an issue of oversharing.

[@mancablazic262]

13:53 13:54

[@Ritsukaberry]

@@yennefer440 She wanted to show that not all relationships are perfect like seen online but I get you.

[@nithyaanumolu9506]

@@yennefer440 she shares everything that happens in her life on social media lol like even the fight with parents.

[@Tidyabqoc]

I know your style is always to show everything in your life, but honestly I feel you should keep some of your dirty laundry to yourself. Posting it online just makes the whole situation more tense and creates a negative feedback loop for the counterparty such as your mom or bf. Can you imagine everything you fk up or do something, it’s on the internet? Not cool man.

[@vaish_diarys]

I think kevin was right. A dress and leather boots at a construction and renovating place is dumb, even if you wanted to surprise him and make him smile, you can do it at home.

[@noemilaszlo8822]

No reason for speaking to her that way and making her cry though

[@jason7510]

Lack of eye contact at the dinner table says it all…

[@nita1596]

Kevin's doing all the work

[@refikamelek1249]

Props to you. Very but very few people would show this super normal and real side of life on the Internet. Thanks for being honest - makes one feel okay :)

[@Anon1376642]

I like that you showed the fight/argument. That one looked healthy and not problematic.

[@tenwaystowearit]

Disagreements are part of a healthy relationship. It’s all about how they are handled and you two are doing great! Hang tough you guys. You’re on your way. ♥️♥️♥️♥️✌🏾

[@bearbearbearr]

boo.. i cant understand why tina was upset with kevin. shes playing around while hes doing hard work i would be annoyed if i were kevin too she needs to stop playing victim all the time

[@cosmosvu]

Fu¥ck you. then stop watching her vids, at least she’s doing something with her life, unlike you loser

[@MichelleMuck555]

Bringing pearls to a renovation worksite is a little naive. But their unique interest in food always brings reconciliation. They share such a strong culinary love language.

[@DaestrumManitz]

The smile on their faces at 6:21 is a strong indication that this relationship possesses the mettle for longevity. 😅

[@Tidyabqoc]

@@DaestrumManitzoh u sweet summer child

[@KiwiLikeTheFruit]

@@michaelpark5681 so why are you even here? lol

[@KiwiLikeTheFruit]

@@michaelpark5681 sad

[@DaestrumManitz]

@@michaelpark5681 My observations are based on that of a subscriber who follows her vlogs. Maybe you have had the opportunity to know her on a more personal level and would know her better from your experiences. But of course you have chosen not to reveal where your bitter resentment stems from.

[@BellCrookz]

Word of advice: it’s probably best to keep your relationship private, both the highs and lows because ppl don’t know how to act. Some of these comments are just plain weird. Both of y’all are already stressed because opening a restaurant is stressful in itself on top of completing renovations and the vultures are circling honey. They wanna “i knew it” and “I told you so” moment so bad and I get you want to be transparent but it’s not worth it. Ppl see an edited 20 sec argument and turn into relationship counselors, certified by google ofc.

[@justdawnreborn]

Like you actually know what is going on in their relationship more than anyone else 😂 Comments like yours make me laugh so much. You think you’re so special when you’re actually really not. You’re basic. And a hypocrite. You don’t know how to act either. Keep your opinions about others to yourself and stop acting like Y’ALL are best friends. It’s pathetic.

[@BellCrookz]

@@justdawnreborn no what’s pathetic is lacking reading comprehension skills and totally misconstruing the point of my comment. However, I believe it was intentional because you’re clearly the type of person my comment referred to. Also, didn’t know I had to be best friends with someone to give them general advice. Matter of fact I never claimed to know what’s going on in their relationship, anyone would get stressed from doing something stressful like idk renovating and opening up a restaurant and quite frankly the only hypocrite here is you. You’re telling someone to keep their opinions to themselves while spreading your very ignorant opinion at the same time? Make it make sense or don’t Idrc. -Sincerely, a very basic bitch.

[@janairgendwas6068]

Ooh Tina and Kevin thank you both for sharing the honesty of a relationship with us. I wish you lots of strength and good communication to continue this incredible project together 💕

[@achintyasharma6389]

The vlogs are always the best Dooby. And they come on the day when i am really feeling very low. Thanks for always making my day 😊❤️

[@khalilahd.]

Same ❤

[@Blue-xk8vq]

@@michaelpark5681 if you troll enough you will feel happy

[@nithyaanumolu9506]

@@michaelpark5681 idk y but i laughed 😭

[@hshs846]

Watching these videos from dooby makes me feel at comfort because on social media it always feels like I am the only person who has stress and problems in life And other people seem to be "living their dream" But in reality everyone is fighting and dealing with stress which makes me feel calm and collected to deal with my own stress and be grateful for things that I have

[@iluvhotpigs5827]

Thank you so much for posting this video! My husband and I just bought our first home and currently renovating it. Your video couldn’t be more relatable. The strain it can put on a relationship is wild. It makes me feel better that we’re not the only ones going through this.

[@Rimadesy]

Nah, this is not it. She dedicates her previous video to her guy best friend, with whom she went to Japan, while Kevin was there. Gets backlash for the situation and how she acted. The next video she decides to post how “they” fight by including a piece where he’s annoyed for a logical reason. He was already working at the site and, perhaps, waited for her so they both could finish the thing in one day. Instead, she shows up wearing a dress, knee top boots and a pearl necklace. Idk what anyone is the comments is saying, he’s the more mature one here.

[@Crystalbomb321]

Guys and women can be friends. It’s not a big deal.

[@freja201]

what exactly was the problem with the previous video? miguel has been in other vlogs and he's never given any inclination of being romantically attracted to her (not to mention that he's in this video too, with kevin). i don't think she even acted flirty towards him? she acted like a friend. it seems like people are overreacting bc of their different genders

[@Rimadesy]

@@freja201 gonna speak for myself only. What rubs me the wrong way about the previous video is that the whole act was rushed and nonsensical. She decided to dedicate the last video to him bc she went on a spontaneous last-minute trip to Japan, where Kevin already was. And it’s obvious that it was last-minute bc her booking didn’t even get through by the time they got to the airport. She decided to drag Miguel into that so she could at least visit the google office. It was just a cover up reason for her going where he already was. Then, if you dedicate a video to your guy best friend, why including thirst trapping of yourself showering? And casually adding the scenes where she says she’s not comfortable around her current bf. That was just one big drag. And after posting, there were comments about the whole situation, criticizing it all. Next thing she does, posts this, includes the “bickering” to shift the narrative and pose as a victim.

[@randjohn4256]

@Rimadesy I agree with you. If my lady ran off to another country with some guy, I'd be less than happy. How was that whole thing ok? One has to be clueless?

[@EllieHawkes]

I love that you put the conflict in Tina, no one else does - thank you for continuing to be real and raw with us, through the highs and the lows (tho I don’t really consider conflict a low, it’s just growth like you said and necessary for a healthy relationship) ❤ love your videos!

[@saintsataniko2116]

Starting a new business from the ground up, and being in a new relationship where the other person is also your business partner...it is a risky proposition.

[@rchedan]

My thoughts exactly. It’s a lot of strain on a new relationship. And for Kevin a new country too.

[@saintsataniko2116]

@@rchedan Yeah, without question. I'm sure they thought it over carefully but maybe decided to err on the side of spontaneity. And in retrospect it wasn't much of an argument anyway.

[@briannadestefano2461]

Love that you showed your argument. It is so normal to have those in relationships and you hardly ever see them on social media.

[@the_blended]

Not all fights are bad. Some Fights are necessary to learn from each other and learn when to out your foot down or when to take a step back.

[@aetch6776]

honestly miggy looks like a great person and a friend

[@jakeparelta1029]

I think people shouldn’t put their personal life stuff on the internet, it’s so weird in a bad way…. Like people know she fought with her mom and (I haven’t watched the video yet but I’m assuming) and her boyfriend and everything is like a public library.

[@freakyfunkymonkey22]

yeah the title itself is good enough

[@DivijPawar]

If you had watched the video, she mentions how she included the "fight" part (minor conflict at best) because she wanted to normalise couples fighting for valentines day. Perfect relationships don't exist and couples fighting isn't a bad thing as it's made out to be.

[@jakeparelta1029]

@@DivijPawar I mean obviously couples fight, you can’t be in a relationship (regardless of romantic, platonic or sexual) and not fight that’s unrealistic, but my point was that putting so much of your personal life on the internet is kinda icky.

[@starinitalian]

Although i agree with ur point its her choice and her channel so are we to judge?

[@1025KAP]

Completely agree. This is something that gets normalized these days and it's actually unhealthy and leaves room for so many strangers to judge, which could then affect their mental health.

[@ilyRandle]

bro i started laughing uncontrollably when he don’t her that outfit was insane LMAOOO i have no idea why that had me dying lol

[@ilooli]

I’m sorry, but dressing up for a construction site is dumb 😐 Did she really expect him to be happy with her look while she was supposed to help him with all the work? I mean, she looked great, just wrong place, wrong time.

[@grilledcheesus]

Honestly if you’re open to putting your relationship on blast and out in the open that’s completely your choice. But I wonder how much reading comments affects influencers romantic relationships. When you’re showing us so much that most people would keep private because they’re personal matters, I wonder if the negative comments and speculation ever come between them, or even if putting this shit on such a public platform is something that causes problems. I don’t think I could personally be with someone who’s willing to put our personal moments on such a public platform. They also don’t discuss or show any resolve to the issue that had occurred, so people can’t help but speculate that this isn’t going to work in the long run. If you’re picking and choosing what parts of your relationship you want to show, but only showing a negative interaction with no resolve, it gives people bad impressions.

[@abejitasqueaks]

fighting happens of course, but i think the maturity of the relationship really depends on the partners ability to resolve conflict. can you take the other persons best interest in an argument? are you willing to find a solution that's a win win for both of you?

[@sadiem6758]

It’s so cool to watch the process from the beginning. Even more so when people visit!

[@risainoue7847]

of course fighting always sucks, but I have to admit it was refreshing to see in a vlog. because even though, every couple (on YT) always says, that they're not perfect either yadda yadda, it's rarely ever shown. it's understandable, I wouldn't want to film, edit and publish a video of my bf and me fighting but still - seeing it .. was weirdly reassuring and .. almost.. felt good (not in a schadenfreude kind of way but in a "okay, we all got these issues" kind of way)

[@joannaw9793]

Aww conflicts are definitely normal in any healthy relationship. It sucks during the moment, but it's good in the long run as you get to see how you two communicate and resolve issues. It's good to work through 'smaller' ones before any more serious ones. It's good to listen to the other's perspective and also articulate your side. Sometimes it will be more clear which side is right BUT that's not what's important - you're a team so you gotta learn to work together through it and not keep score, that will just build resentment.

[@Zahra-td6ke]

The way you curate the scenes, making Kevin seem like a terrible guy when in reality YOU set up the cameras, YOU wore the outfit that implied that you don’t respect his hard work, YOU decided to ignore his kiss, YOU always bring male friends along. Something stinks.

[@jeechung86]

Renovations are hard physically and emotionally! You guys are undertaking a very stressful task together and even though its a difficult journey, I hope all the achievements you make, both big and small brighten your days! Place is really coming along! Totally see the effort and love you are putting in!! I just renovated my house w my husband so I kind of know what you are going through. Take care of your bodies! Too much work at once will damage your wrists, ankle, back, etc. 😘 Hang in there!! Love love your updates and videos! ❤

[@c.hill93]

The “I can be Kevin Junior” was hilarious 😆

[@awkwardasian.adoptee]

This might be my favorite vlog. Makes me feel like my relationship is actually normal. Love u doobs!

[@kaiju_k5042]

Makes you feel less alone in your feelings when you see others deal with things and emerge successful, I agree. Normal is just a uniform haha, hugs to you friend.

[@bumplos]

@@kaiju_k5042 hmmm some deep shit going on in the comments section

[@AaronCollom]

when the honeymoon period ends, couples are negotiating the longer term structure of the relationship

[@tegridy9569]

I made (constructed same as Tina) an office and a business with my ex. The honeymoon period ended right as we started. We broke up, although many years later. The only relationship I had where the honeymoon period did not end, I married that man. It's been 10 years and he still looks at me like he just saw me for the first time. Don't settle for less, people. You have one life. Find someone who loves you non stop, no matter how stressful life is.

[@Blue-xk8vq]

@@tegridy9569 Sometimes you can be with many people who love you, life is a journey, step by step, day by day.

[@foxhyde7743]

I respect you guys so much for sharing the good and the bad. You cannot have one without the other

[@tylerwareham940]

Interesting choice to keep that little debacle in the video. I hope Kevin consented to that being it the video because it wasn’t particularly flattering.

[@christopherneely1856]

Yeah. Poor dude can't even complain without being filmed 24/7. I feel like if they ever break up she'll be really good at editing a video to make him look really bad.

[@Random.Adventures.]

Appreciate you showing us the rawness we are rooting for your relationship and renovations to have great success. I do agree with Kevin on dressing up to renovate but I also appreciate your non confrontation drama to the situation .

[@SailorNom]

Idk, I think having conflict and fight are absolutely different things. We never fight with my husband, never. But arguing and conflicting, trying to resolve the problem and find a common ground that’s what okay I guess.

[@rawfermews4186]

I think arguing and fighting are the same

[@hannahgohya]

this was a fantastic vlog, thanks for sharing with us such vulnerable moments. happy valentines’s day to both you and Kevin! on a side note, we have the same bowls and i live in Singapore…. found that pretty cool!

[@usagimoon.x.o6256]

Always happy to catch the vlogs and the progress of the journey!

[@servantofGod-20]

This was quite look into a different side of you Dooby. I was mostly a short viewer and never really checked out your longer videos, but I'm glad I did. It's very refreshing to see that you're not just another 60 second glimpse into a good cook's life but actually another human being with a life of their own, so yeah shorts are very detaching in that sense lol. Though it felt pretty uncomfortable to see you guys fight (cause it felt like I was looking into an intimate moment that I definitely shouldn't be part of, so I skipped past most of it tbh), it made me realise that you also have your conflicts and that's okay. I pray that your restaurant and relationship goes well and that you live a good life. Hand in there and 화이팅!!!

[@intearstellar]

He's over there working his ass off and she shows up all dressed pretty saying it looks fun, she's so sillyy he was right to be mad 😂 and the "we're both tired i made two videos today" while he's been doing physical labor for idk how many hours ?? She's so childish. He handled it like a mature person.

[@bal0any]

Thank you for sharing all sides of your relationship! It’s very vulnerable but also very realistic. Appreciate it ♥️ it’s part of the human process and every relationship, romantic and platonic.

[@n.g.l.]

As long as you’re having constructive conversations and are coming to a resolution then you’re fine. Just make sure it isn’t senseless talk that results to nothing but anger, bitterness, and insecurities.

[@ck7343]

Yes no one is perfect and I certainly know I have a lot of flaws but so do others, and trying to mold them into a perfect being is not the way to go. Accepting my friends' flaws made me feel that I can have flaws and still be loved too.

[@yxlim8981]

It’s SO refreshing to see you post the conflict and fight online. You keep it real dooby.

[@tasmiahaque8458]

yeah it's soo refreshing seeing someone belittle their bf and make them the problem and act like a victim

[@crazyeight6782]

@@tasmiahaque8458, how was she belittling him.

[@somegrill7561]

Why??? 😂

[@tasmiahaque8458]

@@crazyeight6782 posting someones private fight online is just so wrong?

[@crazyeight6782]

@@tasmiahaque8458 I may be wrong, but don’t you think she asked him before posting, or at least would’ve taken the video down if he wasn’t okay with it.

[@_srobona]

I knew you would talk about this in your next update and I'm glad you did.

[@thatswavy]

Everyone always makes a point to say "fighting is normal!" as if there is a single person in the world who thinks it isn't lol

[@oleksandrshapovalov3309]

You are not alone. I am surprised everyone reacted like that.

[@rawfermews4186]

I don’t think fighting is normal if your first instinct is to yell at your partner when something you don’t like happens I don’t think that’s normal

[@thatswavy]

​@@rawfermews4186​ no one said anything about yelling?

[@vampr3751]

@@rawfermews4186 Well if it happens frequently then yes thats not normal. It is normal to yell at someone when you are in an argument and feel frustrated. Called being human lol

[@pathetic2399]

@@rawfermews4186 Being irritated and lashing out when you’re stressed is perfectly normal and human. It’s only bad when a) it happens constantly because it means you can’t control your temper/emotions and b) you don’t apologize for your behavior later, even if you were rightfully angry.

[@cat_pb]

I feel like Tina is still very immature. But hope they will overcome whatever life throws their way!

[@dk7736]

yeah she’s very sheltered

[@rishameyers5278]

she always *nods and ignores* little things her bf says and it makes me sad

[@ryeofoatmeal]

​@@rishameyers5278 she doesn't even listen to her parents, let alone her bf. she basically doesn't listen to anyone's opinion. I feel kinda sad for her bcos I'm sure her upbringing shapes her like this. she's been told by her parents what not to do and what to do (if you watch her video when she fights with her parents and not talking) . so she became rebellious at one point. and here she is now...

[@SoulSoe]

fighting sucks but the love me and my partner felt after solving the problem is so much more sweeter then before the fight :')

[@laohuling7079]

I love the transparency, you don’t have to honestly .. but this makes me love both of you even more. Keep loving each other. ❤

[@nehakini]

Whatever difficulty it is I hope people around you make you happy. You have got good people around you who care for you. Stay happy Dooby ❤️.

[@TheOsifshin]

Thank you for being raw and unedited. It’s not easy. Keep working for your dreams.

[@Mmmm-rb9uf]

Damn how old is she?? She kinda acts like a 16 year old with too much money in her hands. Who in the right mind goes to a renovation dressed up like that… Also they haven’t dated that long and they’re already starting a business together WHILE filming everything for the whole world to see? I hope she sees the comments and realises her immaturity

[@Wizard_of_Bong]

i don't think she's ever even WORKED at a restaurant... let alone ran one before... it's incredibly naive and all her fans are just blowing smoke up her entitled ass

[@Aj-sn1dp]

It’s really not that ducking serious. She was working and it was one time. She’s not incapable of still doing things just bc she’s wearing cute shoes for fucks sake

[@yennefer440]

She's 25

[@skynotaname2229]

There's a key to conflict thought and it's about where it's coming from.

[@masedi_linda_batsweleng]

This goes out to anyone, When you fight with a partner, try fighting with love. Don't just go to and fro with words cause then you're just hurting each other and trying to "win the argument". It shouldn't be so with lovers. Fight with love. Listen to their opinion, voice yours too and come to a conclusion. All the best💕

[@srijitamandal3206]

It's gonna turn out just fine.... Don't give up!!

[@zaynmiles007]

Really appreciate you keeping the argumentative bit. You guys are honestly great together and I’m sure kevin meant well! Another enjoyable video

[@Coolcucumber905]

I understood both view points, good for you guys on not letting your tempers overpower the situation. Conflict is normal, thanks for sharing and being open and honest. Keep up the hard work kids 🙌👏❤

[@dorianguey]

Her naive immaturity vs. his mature, logical sense will be the downfall of this relationship. Fighting is normal, and two people can have great chemistry, but I don't think these two are destined for a long-term relationship.

[@yennefer440]

For real. This whole situation is going to end badly.

[@sweeteverglades8381]

She has no empathy !

[@ritwikjs]

We really should not have been privy to this argument

[@rishameyers5278]

she’s always seem uncaring seeing how she is with her bf sometimes. it’s ok if he deals with her attitude but when a man breaks suddenly it’s bad

[@kristinreels5519]

i feel this

[@NFX]

Showing fights between a couple on social media is always a tricky move. There will always be people who will stay on one side, critique the behavior or give advice (which sometimes can be helpful, other times it's inappropriate). Also a fight can show a side of someone that people might misunderstand. But I'm still proud of you, that you showed the scene. It reminded me of a fight I had with my bf and I'm still learning so much from my relationship with him and how to deal with conflicts. Communication and reflection are key. P.S. I'm the type of girl who will sometimes get teary eyes if my bf slightly raises his voice even though he's not mad at me 🙃 Stay strong and keep your head up 💗

[@Saff231]

Oooo hmmm. Despite how he felt about your outfit at the renovation site, it's important for you to tell him that it's not okay to talk to you like that. Something like "you look really great, but I'm worried you're gonna hurt yourself, it's stressing me out, and it's adding to the stress that I already feel" works a bit better. Then you can both discuss solutions that will make him happy. This approach focuses on himself, and doesn't put you down in the process, so you can put some energy into making him happy too! My partner and I BOTH had to learn to communicate like this during the covid lockdowns, and it saved us. We went from fighting all the time, to working as a team (that still fights occasionally, but we know what to do to work it out). We get married this weekend 😊 Good luck!!

[@mm77curly]

You stated a great example of therapeutic communication!!! I hate confrontation and arguing and just watching that part of the video made me get a lump in my throat.

[@Saff231]

@@mm77curly totally! I felt that watching it too. What's most important here is that they both commit to doing it and admitting when they are wrong. I can say with 100% certainty that even though I felt that I was the one being attacked back in the early stages of my relationship, I know now that I actually wasn't blameless, and I was part of the problem too.

[@Hannah-qe9si]

yeah, this relationship isn't going to last. and it's going to be very messy considering they've decided to co-own a business together after not even being together a year lol

[@marimarianations9355]

At this point I'm just here for the shit show that this will eventually become lol

[@Hannah-qe9si]

@@taylorjlee asshole guy meets obnoxious girl

[@dahjiat.8562]

@@taylorjlee idk he has a harsh tone but he wasn’t wrong?? like he’s busting his ass trying to get work done and she seemed p carefree + with her having to film she’s not fully helping the whole time. we have no idea if he’s being compensated in any way for helping her so i get where he’s coming from.

[@dahjiat.8562]

@@taylorjlee plus it’s kind of wrong to post negative things online about him to a very large audience without thinking about how that could stress him out or affect him

[@freja201]

@@dahjiat.8562 i completely agree, he totally wasn't wrong. i'd be annoyed too if i was working all day and here she comes with a dress and leather boots lmao. she could have dressed up for him at home.

[@DanKxxx]

I don't think there was a need to fight there, it was just frustration and being tired. It happens especially when you are busy like this.

[@Blue-xk8vq]

Its just part of life, and being tired and frustrated makes it easy to snap at someone, it's actually refreshing to see reality on YT versus fake curated content that in the end doesn't make you think much.

[@Staudten]

Aren't you worried about having such a small toilet located right next to the dining area? You need some good ventilation, otherwise some guests are gonna their experience ruined by other people's poopy business. I also wouldn't be comfortable using the toilet right next to someone eating.

[@ragerain6656]

Then don’t…basic common sense

[@Staudten]

@@ragerain6656What kinda of logic is that? It could give customers a less desirable experience. I think it’s pretty worth taking into consideration. Nobody wants to be seated right next to a toilet and smelling other people’s business.

[@ragerain6656]

@@Staudten Then don’t it’s very simple not rocket science

[@Staudten]

@@ragerain6656 You think restaurants want their customers to shit and piss their pants and not feeling comfortable using the restroom? You shouldn't be talking about what's rocket science and what isn't.

[@ragerain6656]

@@Staudten Common isn’t strong within you I see.

[@flo______]

I mean c'mon read the room... he's working his ass off and you came in with your princess outfit, doing small chores and bugging him, saying, "this is fun". I would snap too

[@romeydiaz77]

She wanted to look nice for him, she said it’s been awhile since she dressed up and wanted to surprise him. As a woman I can understand her putting that effort into their relationship especially during this time where all they seem to do is work and stress. I also understand that He was just tired and frustrated. Hopefully they can communicate and try to understand each other at the end of tue day

[@samyud1819]

@@romeydiaz77 we don’t know their situation, but it’s so weird to share the fight online. For his privacy she shouldn’t have posted this lol.

[@Emm54]

Your relationship won’t last

[@justgoing_her]

Shut up,maybe it's true maybe not,it's your opinion but you just can't say this to them and put shit in their head,move on without posting shit

[@totticavalier1596]

This is why I'm not jealous of couples, because they are way too comfortable fighting with no boundaries.

[@rawfermews4186]

You ate

[@conk6379]

You probably too weak emotionally

[@letiziabartolini1094]

Reality check, ur gonna regret having a restaurant with him. Take it from my experience, I work in the same restaurant as my bf (we are both chefs) and it’s all about fighting, all the time. you’ll get to the point where work and personal life get confused so much that even when ur at home and u had a rough day the day before, you can’t help but get mad at him or him at u. The problems of being with someone you work with

[@Aj-sn1dp]

Reality check: u speak for yourself and only yourself. What works for u is not what works for others. Your shitty relationship is not anyone else’s. You fighting all the time and admitting to it really means you’ve got a bad relationship therefore others should be fearful

[@evelynkahn5443]

Relationships take work. It's not always roses. As long as you maintain open conversation and work together on a resolution your relationship will survive. You and Kevin seem great together, and you have a major common interest! Starting a business together going to be hard, and it will work as long as you communicate with each other and don't internalize it. Best of luck 🍀

[@jasminediamond22]

Yeah, we are proud of u doobie !!!

[@KaiTakamatsu]

Hey Dooby! It's been so great seeing the transformation of your restaurant, and also, being privy to the trials that go along with such a project, both personal (w/your partner) and professional alike. It's kinda refreshing, so much content nowadays just shows the success of the creator. It's nice to have both extremes, because as you said, that's how one grows and matures. : )

[@coconut922]

The fight looked like a sketch... like it was rehearsed

[@oliviamorlte7]

I was lowkey thinking this

[@coconut922]

Like the camera was just placed there at the precise moment a fight would happen? And the whole idea of getting dressed up and than him being rude just really sounds fake and made up

[@TBrl8]

I don’t really have my conflict with my girlfriend. I was married for 10 years then got divorced, and had a few relationships with a fair amount of drama, stress, bs and fighting. When I met my current GF I assumed it would be the same, but it’s not at all. We complement each other, she is totally positive and uplifting all the time and we have had about 2 mild fights in about 2 years. Having fights is NOT an essential component of any human relationship.

[@callmezoran]

Keep in mind that this restaurant venture follows a predictable chain of events - but it makes great content.

[@thirteendigital341]

You can get handheld electric sanders, they'll help you save hours. Also anywhere you are tiling you should do PVA before, so its waterproofed

[@nita1596]

Kevin rarely vlogs, how rude to speed the part where he's talking to the camera