We Found Love - In Prison | LOVE DON'T JUDGE

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Күн бұрын

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@Dinkwadz
@Dinkwadz 2 жыл бұрын
7:58 She may have felt differently about that situation if SHE were the woman who got robbed at gunpoint. Everyone makes mistakes and people change and grow up. But it's disrespectful to the victim and it's not the truth when you minimize a crime because it makes you feel better. He served his time and he learned from his mistake. That's all you need to say. But to minimize his crime just devalues your own morals. Eyes wide shut.
@clairechloe5294
@clairechloe5294 2 жыл бұрын
👍👍👍👍
@kitteekittee4010
@kitteekittee4010 2 жыл бұрын
👏👏👏👏👏
@annanybom356
@annanybom356 2 жыл бұрын
This! I was the victim of gunpoint robbery and I got life.....
@Dinkwadz
@Dinkwadz 2 жыл бұрын
@@annanybom356 exactly!! You have to re-live that moment and your entire life has changed. You didn't get a short jail sentence and were freed from that situation. You certainly got life!!
@annanybom356
@annanybom356 2 жыл бұрын
@@Dinkwadz Just that! I still jump everytime i hear a loud bang and still suffer from PTSD years after. Something alot of people doesn't think about is the cost aswell... A lot of therapi, doctorsvisits, lost income and medicins to help me cope 😒
@GhastlyCretin
@GhastlyCretin 2 жыл бұрын
Bringing an ex-con that you barely know into your child's life. Nice.
@theunforgiven2885
@theunforgiven2885 2 жыл бұрын
Stupidity at it's best.She only knows what he tells her.He could be a child predator we know he's a felon who's record is large enough to get 10 years . Of course they are always good guys.Shes absolutely foolish he's using her for canteen money a address to get released to ....Stupid stupid stupid .
@tobiaslawrence8928
@tobiaslawrence8928 2 жыл бұрын
Some dudes have never been to prison and struggle to date but these broads are dating dudes in prison.
@GhastlyCretin
@GhastlyCretin 2 жыл бұрын
@@tobiaslawrence8928 They like danger which is fine, they can risk their own safety but to involve a kid with an ex-con who you don't really know is despicable.
@Diamondr11Blue
@Diamondr11Blue 2 жыл бұрын
Notice how she doesn't specify what his charges were? Almost like she doesn't even know the whole story
@dingo1666
@dingo1666 2 жыл бұрын
@@Diamondr11Blue She doesn't. The way she already makes excuses. "He is basically a nice guy he just did some dumb things when he was young"...well he couldn't do any more dumb things, because he's been taken out of society since. How does she know he changed or grew out of it?
@DiZoSoMom
@DiZoSoMom Жыл бұрын
What Sigrid is failing to mention is that her husband, Alan, kidnapped an elderly couple and BURIED THEM ALIVE resulting in their double murder. Yep. Sounds like a great guy.
@susannwambugu4939
@susannwambugu4939 Жыл бұрын
Whoa!😢 What a monster!
@82566
@82566 Жыл бұрын
Was it the " Sumner" case ? 🤔 either way if that is the case ur speaking about it was horribly sad
@MakeupBySara
@MakeupBySara Жыл бұрын
like... how could you fall in love with someone THAT disturbing? I can understand falling in love with a person with drug related crimes, even armed robbery, and also maybe self-defense murder, but how could you ever fall for someone so disgusting?
@SH-to8sh
@SH-to8sh Жыл бұрын
I mean we also hire ex felons so it's petty double standards in my book lmao..let these women fall in love@@MakeupBySara
@iizateba299
@iizateba299 Жыл бұрын
​@@SH-to8shyou hire murderers,do you?
@charisehess4713
@charisehess4713 2 жыл бұрын
To me this is like when a man calls someone for phone sex. She is calling for what most women want. The emotional part of a relationship.
@Diamondr11Blue
@Diamondr11Blue 2 жыл бұрын
She's so down single mom she decides to take a felon as a partner... sheesh
@tobiaslawrence8928
@tobiaslawrence8928 2 жыл бұрын
Then get a dude that's not in prison, so many single guys in the states and they choose men in prison?
@tangiechapman6219
@tangiechapman6219 2 жыл бұрын
@@tobiaslawrence8928 hey It’s better than nothing
@tobiaslawrence8928
@tobiaslawrence8928 2 жыл бұрын
@@tangiechapman6219 i'd rather have nothing
@IMissChele9
@IMissChele9 2 жыл бұрын
@@tobiaslawrence8928I think it’s the dynamic of sex not being a factor. As a woman, it feels like that part of dating is always rushed. It’s deluded, but I can see the appeal
@cecyposada7685
@cecyposada7685 2 жыл бұрын
Hearing a murderer say "waste of skin" kiiinda creeped me out ngl.
@alchemyofcolorandstyle
@alchemyofcolorandstyle 2 жыл бұрын
Yup. That crime story is pretty gruesome, too. Their story has been featured before.
@mareir
@mareir 2 жыл бұрын
Probably what he thought of the 2 elderly people who he buried alive and let suffocate to death. Such a sweet, caring man.
@carlinsvarityofvideos9064
@carlinsvarityofvideos9064 2 жыл бұрын
Yes! Me too!!
@notsureiL
@notsureiL 2 жыл бұрын
Check out the episode on the crime doc your worst nightmare. He helped bury two seniors alive Reggie and Carol Sumner. Unexpected company is the name of the episode. Upsetting and gruesome crime.
@flaviarodrigues9401
@flaviarodrigues9401 2 жыл бұрын
i dont know this expression. help
@simplynaomi
@simplynaomi 2 жыл бұрын
When I hear her saying 'for the victims I don't care' That makes it clear that she's not right in the head
@lindagithaiga1974
@lindagithaiga1974 2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣 right
@laurenm9203
@laurenm9203 Жыл бұрын
I’m pretty sure she was saying that’s what people say about her. The negative comments she receives claim she doesn’t care about the victims.
@dreamreader79
@dreamreader79 5 ай бұрын
@@laurenm9203yes
@krissblisssoul
@krissblisssoul 2 күн бұрын
she is obviously not! she is damaged and has no respect for herself or her child. She'll learn the hard way!
@evangeline77x
@evangeline77x 2 жыл бұрын
"STAY SAFE" hits different coming from an inmate... Definitely doesn't have the same thoughtful/considerate connotation it would in almost every other circumstance lol.
@bela-sofia34
@bela-sofia34 2 жыл бұрын
It means even MORE because he often knows all too well how grimy people can be out there.
@laurenm9203
@laurenm9203 Жыл бұрын
@bela-sofia34 Thank you! My thoughts exactly.
@yoursugarismine
@yoursugarismine 11 ай бұрын
My reservations about these relationships aren’t about them being inmates but about the fact that they probably don’t realise that it’s different when you’re long distance and when you then live together every day in real life. It’s very possible that you’re not going to like the person the way you thought. And that goes both ways.
@HalleyWinsteadstudent
@HalleyWinsteadstudent 10 ай бұрын
Here is what Singrid needs to realize, if her family had been murdered by Alan, she wouldn't be singing the same tune about her murdering and torturing husband.
@gic8849
@gic8849 2 жыл бұрын
It’s not uncommon for a man in prison to manipulate a woman with sweet talk & love bombs for money and whatever while they’re in and housing on the outs But I think the second couple really fit quite nicely together and I wish them the best
@marissa._
@marissa._ 2 жыл бұрын
Love bombs??? 😕
@AfricanGirl
@AfricanGirl 2 жыл бұрын
@@marissa._ lol
@Rapamaru
@Rapamaru 2 жыл бұрын
Can't judge them...A judge already did,lol.
@ashleyj7011
@ashleyj7011 2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@Little_Devotchka
@Little_Devotchka 2 жыл бұрын
I was home invaded and it caused ptsd. The fact she excuses that is unreal.
@naominitzsche4872
@naominitzsche4872 7 ай бұрын
I'm sorry that happened to you. I can only imagine the emotions you went through........
@snickerzz648
@snickerzz648 2 жыл бұрын
31 years for burglary and identify theft? Lol yea sure that’s all he did
@Rapamaru
@Rapamaru 2 жыл бұрын
I thought the same at first but then she says at 17:23, "we'll need 3 more years" so maybe she meant to say 13? It sure sounds like 31 tho.
@Kryptongurl84
@Kryptongurl84 2 жыл бұрын
She says he was sentenced to 31 years but he only has to serve 10.
@evangeline77x
@evangeline77x 2 жыл бұрын
@@Rapamaru He is likely eligible for parole after 10 years.. So even if he was sentenced to 31 years, 10 years is the minimum he has to serve in custody before he can undergo review by the parole board. But even if he is paroled after 10 years he will still be subject to conditions and monitoring for the entire sentence. If he violates the conditions at any point he will be returned to prison to serve out the remainder of the full sentence in custody.
@smithcarr7495
@smithcarr7495 Жыл бұрын
The penalties for Fraud are very harsh in America. Harsher than sexual assault crimes, child abuse, assault, etc.
@erinnicole477
@erinnicole477 11 ай бұрын
Right?!! Woman wake up!!
@emmetstone1660
@emmetstone1660 2 жыл бұрын
"I don't care about the victims." Wow, that shows a lot about her.
@laurenm9203
@laurenm9203 Жыл бұрын
No, she was saying that that’s what people say about her.
@laurenm9203
@laurenm9203 Жыл бұрын
She was talking about the negative comments she receives. They claim she doesn’t care about the victims. But that isn’t true.
@GenaF
@GenaF 2 жыл бұрын
After watching Love after Lockup, I'd love to get an update on these couples, Austin at least because he's met his girlfriend's daughter. I'd hate for her to be in an abusive family.
@lifewithlexiee6558
@lifewithlexiee6558 Жыл бұрын
Austin and Erica are no longer together.
@captaincorleone7088
@captaincorleone7088 9 ай бұрын
@@lifewithlexiee6558 Not surprised at all. Do you know what happened?
@alchemyofcolorandstyle
@alchemyofcolorandstyle 2 жыл бұрын
At least the sister has her head screwed on right, very insightful and on point
@Loppol629
@Loppol629 2 жыл бұрын
“I wish him luck. I just don’t wish him luck in this family”
@joanne_swck
@joanne_swck 11 ай бұрын
Austin seems like he grew up and really regrets what he did. He was in prison, he paid for what he did and now he wants to embrace having a family. Not every prisoner is a bad person but you should definitely be aware and get to know this person in real life before it becomes too intense.
@Tirado777
@Tirado777 Жыл бұрын
“He’s a good guy he just got caught” - What the hell that’s a 🚩
@lauracarter8639
@lauracarter8639 3 ай бұрын
Prison alone is a red flag!
@JanniqueB89
@JanniqueB89 2 жыл бұрын
Wow. These dudes are running game. It's clear to see.
@BOLLOCKS1968
@BOLLOCKS1968 2 жыл бұрын
Of all the social media platforms and dating apps ... she chooses one for convicted criminals in prison! That right there says a lot about her personality and not wanting to be in an traditional relationship, or wants to be the one in control. To me love is not being able to go one day without that person beside you ... not some random person who is locked up who you barely know other than what he has chosen to share with you. Aiding and abetting aggravated assault is not a petty crime and she should seriously considering sharing her child with that!
@Matthew2077
@Matthew2077 2 жыл бұрын
pretty much its about control and also having all the emotional part of a relationship without giving their body away.
@KurosakiLuvar01
@KurosakiLuvar01 2 жыл бұрын
^ eh I agree with the control part but the “giving your body away” 😬 no one owes anyone their body. You both agree to that when you are BOTH comfortable. Long distance or not…
@nessae354
@nessae354 2 жыл бұрын
I've done this...twice. I've had her same thoughts. But she doesn't realize these guys are institutionalized. It's different when he has only one female to talk to and is stuck in prison. When they get out, they often struggle with pTSD and it's hard to stay away from the street life they are so used to. My ex was sober and did well for three years but then relapsed on drugs and lost everything and went back to hustling and is now looking at going back to prison on his third strike. Current bf doesn't know how to live a normal life and struggles with pTSD and night terrors. They do deserve love but after the honeymoon period reality sucks. Also, remember these people didn't just steal one car or assault one person and get locked up in prison. They lived criminal lifestyles and it caught up with them. A lot of them were in gangs. My ex actually told me it's common for men in prison to seek out female pen pals to send them money or commissary. And for those who are getting released soon they seek out women to parole to their address. It's just an innocent love story. Generally if someone will make bad decisions enough to get locked up they aren't going to change. Some do. But if they weren't messed up when they went in they definitely are traumatized coming out.
@gorgeeus
@gorgeeus 2 жыл бұрын
Profound, candid, and transparent. ❤ I would never; but I hope others heed the underlying advice within your testimony.
@inkedmomblu1510
@inkedmomblu1510 2 жыл бұрын
Yes! Yes! Yes!! My ex did twelve years. It’s an entire different lifestyles. They have no choice but to become institutionalized. The streets find ways to creep back into their lives. Unless you’ve lived it, you couldn’t understand so it’s nice to hear you hit the nail on the head. Cheers to us finding healthy relationships with ourselves and others 💜
@Blake1720
@Blake1720 Жыл бұрын
Most once are outside will want other options and are selfish. That’s just the truth
@goldenshoelaces
@goldenshoelaces 4 ай бұрын
I worked in a jail and a prison.....the fact is, many of these men are criminals, and they get used to the routine of prison. They are better taken care of and have a solid place to stay.
@brandiehammond
@brandiehammond 2 жыл бұрын
How the hell did a death row Inmate get a cong visit? Thought those were only for non violent crimes and definitely not anyone on death row.
@bela-sofia34
@bela-sofia34 2 жыл бұрын
They also aren't allowed in Federal Prison.
@ashleypaddon8760
@ashleypaddon8760 2 жыл бұрын
Sometimes people find ways to do it even when they're not allowed
@bela-sofia34
@bela-sofia34 2 жыл бұрын
@@ashleypaddon8760 Clearly. All he had to do was jack off before and hold on to the ejaculate, transfer it to her and she could cram it inside of her. A crude, but clearly effective method.
@primadonna2819
@primadonna2819 Жыл бұрын
Women will romanticize literally anything.
@Marika13578
@Marika13578 2 жыл бұрын
She says she's happy...with a man she has never met in person🤦‍♀️
@Diamondr11Blue
@Diamondr11Blue 2 жыл бұрын
Can't wait to see the update if they actually stay together or not lol
@reneaMichealMartin684
@reneaMichealMartin684 2 жыл бұрын
I know that's right.
@jackchop1576
@jackchop1576 2 жыл бұрын
@@Diamondr11Blue me too! ❤️❤️❤️ My felon chaser cousin is a piece of trash and I love seeing her black eyes after her jailbirds get out!
@simonescott8972
@simonescott8972 2 жыл бұрын
So while in prison he reached out to a realtor to purchase a home when he is released? A realtor thousands of miles away in another state. That’s crazy.
@IMissChele9
@IMissChele9 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah that sounded like a lie
@chefg434
@chefg434 2 жыл бұрын
i met a person while he was in prison , who told me he was in for one thing , 3 years later i actually found out he didnt have a 5 year sentence for gbh after a drunken night out , he was a armed robber and had threatened to gut his victims ,he was also a sex offender and had 2 previous convictions against this 3 year old niece and 4 year old nephew . his sister was supposed to be my be my best friend , she never said a word about it and which is why i trusted for 3 years , he is actually in for 23 years , i walked out and its been 15 years and never answered calla or letters again ,i confronted his sister who said her baby niece and nephew was lying they convicted him without evidence which was a lie , friendship was also over
@lunity1111
@lunity1111 2 жыл бұрын
Anyone lying is a no go in any arena. Did you not manage to look him up on the system? I feel I would find that out within days tbh lol
@MyDuckSaysFucc
@MyDuckSaysFucc 2 жыл бұрын
Sad that raping such young children only got him 23 years
@chefg434
@chefg434 2 жыл бұрын
@@lunity1111 i looked his name up and found 1 article under his name which is where i found out about what he had said about the woman and her children in reguards to the robbery
@StarlaBizarre
@StarlaBizarre 7 сағат бұрын
Damn girl were you typing on a typewriter
@TheJodilicious6
@TheJodilicious6 2 жыл бұрын
Women meeting men in prison is ridiculous. Those men are professional con men that have nothing else to do but write to pass time. Not saying everyone is bad but they are in there for a reason. If u have children & ur priority is trying to get to know a convict then ur priorities are fked up and u should not be a parent. Jeopardizing yourself is one thing but gambling ur child's life is another! I knew 4 people who were pen pals with men in prison and one actually got married to someone who served 15 years in prison for murder🙄 They all ended with the men messing around and being taken care of by the woman. Then they would complain about what the men would put them through 🙄 sorry I didn't sympathize or feel bad. Ur grown and knew better. They were better off going on a dating site then say to themselves "Hey let me find a great man in prison" so ridiculous and just stupid!
@pleasuregates4504
@pleasuregates4504 2 жыл бұрын
She rushed him off the phone when her sister and friend came over I hope he’s as great as she assume he is once he’s in her home because everyone don’t handle rejection well
@sweetafr7820
@sweetafr7820 2 жыл бұрын
I believe you have the choice to love who ever you want to but sometimes the choice that you choose can affect you in so many ways you have to be careful and think about it specific you have kids
@carrieanncancino5118
@carrieanncancino5118 Жыл бұрын
Their minds are warped. Why would you bring a guy in prison into your innocent, defenseless child life?! They can't say anything that will be an good enough excuse as to why it's a good reason. These guys and girls are NOT thinking of anyone else but themselves and that's wrong. You teach your children to stay away from bad guys and then you bring a bad guy you barely know and what you do know about him is through a prisoners pen pal. It's just crazy. I pray for the innocent, defenseless children who are entwined in this mess.
@IonaRowanMacleod
@IonaRowanMacleod 2 жыл бұрын
I want to know if there are any men doing the same for women who are in prison. Just curious. You often see women who are with men who are in prison but never the other way round.
@SomethingSomethingg
@SomethingSomethingg 8 ай бұрын
I would suspect yes, because I often hear about women particularly more attractive women getting a lot of fan mail and admirers. It's sort of an ideal relationship for a lot of guys because you get to have someone in your life but you also get to have lots of space as well.
@inkedmomblu1510
@inkedmomblu1510 2 жыл бұрын
I’ve been w men that have done hard time. It changes them. When they are in they can love bomb and be nonstop attentive. It’s different when they are in the free world. Also the world is different than it was ten years ago. The truth is, ten years is a long time to be institutionalized. For her sake I hope it’s all rainbows and unicorns, but from a realistic viewpoint this is so foolish especially because she’s a mother.
@Paul-zu1iv
@Paul-zu1iv 2 жыл бұрын
You may change your mind: The 1st time he gives you a slap for eating too much cake. 🤣
@evagonzalez7777
@evagonzalez7777 2 жыл бұрын
?
@hellaSwankkyToo
@hellaSwankkyToo 2 жыл бұрын
just shows how much the judgmental woman knows. that’s a common misconception, that everyone who goes to jail or even prison is just a bad person. instead what’s true is that plenty of good people are a single decision away from jail//prison (cannabis, wrong place-wrong time, wrongfully convicted, DUI, non-violent offenses, etc.), plenty of good people incarcerated.
@Trouble_Bubble36
@Trouble_Bubble36 2 жыл бұрын
HES NOT A GOOD PERSON YOU TWAT
@scratchy1704
@scratchy1704 2 жыл бұрын
DUI is bad.
@laurenm9203
@laurenm9203 Жыл бұрын
It is bad, but it doesn’t make the person who did it a bad person. Most of us know people who have driven drunk once. Thankfully the two I know were quite horrified by their actions and made significant changes, and not one was hurt. They made bad decisions. But they aren’t bad people.
@leandracasas8836
@leandracasas8836 2 жыл бұрын
I’m pretty sure that he did more than just driving the car! They always lie, and she believed that, and had the audacity that he only drove the car and didn’t do anything wrong!
@lindsay6343
@lindsay6343 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah I have been down this route but I knew him before he got locked up I had our daughter I waited for him to do his time he gets out and everything he promised to me all that jail talk meant nothing he was cheating all the time never came home tons of stuff you can get lucky and sometimes get the one out of a thousand guys I guess that can be okay but usually it's not the case I wasted so many years with my daughter's dad hoping things have changed and now he's back in prison again because he's so institutionalized. They are so bored and lonely in there and talk to so many different girls so they can get money and phone time and telling it to multiple people they love them never fall for it!
@Kryptongurl84
@Kryptongurl84 2 жыл бұрын
Yep. My Uncle served 4 years in prison and my Mom’s husband served 13 years. They both told me to never get involved with a guy in prison. They knew guys that had 4,5,6 women at a time and were using them for money, food, and pics to be passed around. They would parole out to a woman’s house because it was the only one that got approved. As soon as they could the guys would leave.
@jessiewelch8726
@jessiewelch8726 2 жыл бұрын
That friend saying you’re a bad person if you go to prison is an ignorant person. I’ve been to prison and I’m far from bad, just made bad choices.
@krissblisssoul
@krissblisssoul 2 күн бұрын
me too
@Chaplin1219
@Chaplin1219 2 жыл бұрын
You have to give respect to Austin for turning his life around.
@Little_Devotchka
@Little_Devotchka 2 жыл бұрын
"If it doesn't work out we can just be friends". He'll probably end up back in prison but for murder with a firearm this time because if he can't have you, nobody can. What makes her think he won't turn aggressive on her?
@lenilenileni
@lenilenileni 2 жыл бұрын
Why are they so obsessed with making tiktoks about it. I can't get rid of the feeling that those women do this to get some kind of attention and it doesn't matter if it's positive or negative.
@heinuchung8680
@heinuchung8680 2 жыл бұрын
Mommy met daddy when he was on let’s say “vacation” for ten years and he loves mommy . But where did he go? A wonderful island called rikers. Actually it is so nice people can’t leave !
@ashleydelacuadra3826
@ashleydelacuadra3826 2 жыл бұрын
How did they have a baby when he was locked up? Nobody said anything about a conjugal visits..
@nitamay3534
@nitamay3534 Жыл бұрын
I would never do something like that, my brother has made a career going to prison, and he said never have anything to do with people in prison.
@krissblisssoul
@krissblisssoul 2 күн бұрын
yup!! I have done 14 months in prison and i would NEVER date a man in prison because i KNOW exactly what they do and how they are and I damn sure didn;t expect anyone to date me until after i got my life together! MOST men in prison that long are sleeping with other men and using any woman that they can!!
@crystalfrancis5977
@crystalfrancis5977 2 жыл бұрын
Those dream catchers are next level Amazing
@Jo-nb7rp
@Jo-nb7rp 2 жыл бұрын
Live your Best life Ladies with the guys you have chosen and keep smiling. Love from uk 🇬🇧 ❤️
@hillarybillary21
@hillarybillary21 Жыл бұрын
To the second girl, just a tip. Psychopaths don’t blink as often as neurotypical people. First thing I noticed about your man is that he barely blinks. Take it for what it’s worth.
@Karmageddonn
@Karmageddonn 2 жыл бұрын
All of those guys are like really physically attractive
@peacefaith560
@peacefaith560 2 жыл бұрын
and their prison lovers think the same thing lol ...
@Jamangel
@Jamangel 2 жыл бұрын
LMAO
@HernandezJan
@HernandezJan 8 ай бұрын
And your point is?
@Arizona_lilly
@Arizona_lilly 2 жыл бұрын
I think Austin will be a awesome husband I feel compassion and mistakes were made and he’s grown
@kaycoy
@kaycoy 8 ай бұрын
He was too nervous to tell you otp he loved you so he wrote it🙃 guuuurrrl
@jenniferrudas
@jenniferrudas 2 жыл бұрын
Who sees someone found love through letters with inmates and says let me get some of that????
@captaincorleone7088
@captaincorleone7088 9 ай бұрын
Someone who is equally messed up.
@jamiedutcher1004
@jamiedutcher1004 2 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry but the last one creeps me out and he buried two older people alive 😢 I don’t believe he’s remorseful I think he’s very sick
@krissblisssoul
@krissblisssoul 2 күн бұрын
so is she! they both are!
@deadaccount6385
@deadaccount6385 2 жыл бұрын
I wish people didn’t automatically say people in prison were bad people. Aggravated assault is bad but there’s innocent people who got frames or falsely accused, people struggling with addiction due to mental health and other non violent crimes. I wouldn’t trust anyone who was in for aggravated assault but my point still stands. Not everyone in prison is a bad person. Also cops should *never* handle someone with PTSD. They have zero training for that and they make the situation more dangerous. I would never attack anyone but if I cop was hurting me I’d have an episode and my brain would switch into survival mode. The situation would go from no danger to literally everyone being in danger just because cops lack training for mental health and PTSD Edit: last part is mostly off topic but I need to get that vent out somewhere
@peacefaith560
@peacefaith560 2 жыл бұрын
most are, not all, and some are even innocent.... but prison turns you into something cold, bitter, and no empathy
@santale4102
@santale4102 2 жыл бұрын
@@peacefaith560 exactly!! and yet they say that prison is a place of rehabilitation! ridiculous!!
@Dierdre_Barlow
@Dierdre_Barlow Жыл бұрын
The third woman... Yeah she likes that he's unavailable. Something she should discuss with a therapist.
@80bbygrl
@80bbygrl 2 жыл бұрын
The problem is a lot of these guys have multiple women that they have met on pen pal sites.
@Emma0990
@Emma0990 2 жыл бұрын
The first girl seems a bit off. Like stalker off, the type to put a tracker on his car when he gets out.
@stephduddy3619
@stephduddy3619 2 жыл бұрын
This is strange I'm sorry to meet someone while they are in prison,also notice how is all these men are attractive
@peacefaith560
@peacefaith560 2 жыл бұрын
most of them are, and believe me they got boyfriends behind those prison walls, my brother taught me that
@krissblisssoul
@krissblisssoul 2 күн бұрын
@@peacefaith560 yes!!! my brother would call me from jail and tell me all of the guys sleeping with different guys and they would have women on the outside lol
@Mammaj1963
@Mammaj1963 Жыл бұрын
How are people locked up able to use social media ? That’s wacked 😮
@Evemwas
@Evemwas 2 жыл бұрын
It's hard to hide love, sometimes you find it in uncomfortable or unexpected places. She needs to acknowledge that he did commit a crime and served a sentence and to wish that he learned from his mistakes
@b1k2q34
@b1k2q34 2 жыл бұрын
Cannot imagine "falling in love " with someone I had never spent physical time with.......in any way
@StarlaBizarre
@StarlaBizarre 7 сағат бұрын
When you have the experience of already being married and going through a long messy divorce, it's much easier to just play pretend through the phone with a new man that you don't actually have to see. It's like a fun little part-time husband fantasy and you don't have to deal with the stuff that you just divorced. It's like a rebound toy
@lonesomebeetroot3376
@lonesomebeetroot3376 2 жыл бұрын
I understand that these guys are still human could change blah blah blah. I would understand better if you loved someone and they went to prison and you like stuck by them. I think it’s pretty stupid to like sought after someone who is incarcerated. We have so many ways to find someone today. I met my husband on a random dating app as a teenager I didn’t think would go anywhere. Why would you specifically look for someone who is both unavailable and has committed a crime large enough to land them in prison is beyond me
@tomhaywood8619
@tomhaywood8619 Жыл бұрын
I am really happy for you both. Please, do not allow anyone dictate your future nor any potential of a loving relationship you may have or having. Your family and friends will have their concerns that's because they love you and want only the best for you, but at the end of the day if you make each other happy then go for it! We ALL make mistakes in life and we can only hope that we learn from them. I'm in touch with a prisoner we have been each others pen pals for nearly two years and it is one of the best things that I ever did. I feel that people who sit in prison have more time to face their realities and are better for it. Look what's going on in the world today and the way people are acting. We should never criticize people who are incarcerated or anyone else until we take a good look around and also, at ourselves. I wish you both all the best! Good Luck
@melissahayes1841
@melissahayes1841 2 жыл бұрын
I think its a hard thing to do but everyone deserves a chance!
@miss.l.1563
@miss.l.1563 2 жыл бұрын
He's using her for money & someone to talk to 'on the out.' I can guarantee he was laughing at her at some point. I've been inside so I know for a fact he is using her, or was. Loads of women were doing it. Getting men to send £ in , or get them to come on visits with a parcel (drugs etc) Some women even got their pen pal/sugar daddy to do their dirty work for them. Yes, some said it was love it lust but the majority just used them. Many women did not have anybody out here to send them in £ so I don't blame them tbh.
@MartialArtswithLucyLu
@MartialArtswithLucyLu 2 жыл бұрын
While I feel she is wrong and he is disgusting and pathetic you shouldn't assume his reason unless you know him in person here!
@mycoshe
@mycoshe 2 жыл бұрын
The fourth one Sigrid actually had a baby with a guy on death row? Smh!
@biancakaye2721
@biancakaye2721 3 ай бұрын
He loves you because you ate keeping him from going crazy in there. You are an outlet.
@theunforgiven2885
@theunforgiven2885 2 жыл бұрын
I question there mental stability There lack of confidence and blatant disregard for their childrens safety. i'm concerned they have a child and and they are willing to bring a convicted felon around there babys !They only know what he tells her hes possibly a child predator..He will get out get back on drugs rob her and possibly beat her or hurt her baby UGH 😫They have no idea what( jail talk means )
@Diamondr11Blue
@Diamondr11Blue 2 жыл бұрын
10 years for ' caught doing something stupid?' Nah he probally k/lled someone
@evaveronica5222
@evaveronica5222 2 жыл бұрын
Actually they can check in USA if they were child predators. I also believe you can check what actual crime was.
@TheJodilicious6
@TheJodilicious6 2 жыл бұрын
Mom is setting the example for her daughter that she should look for men in prison to find love. To down grade herself.just cuz they might be cute doesn't mean they are good guys. Amazing parenting mom🙄 what a way to put ur poor kid in danger cuz u didn't even know him
@catherineschock4423
@catherineschock4423 2 жыл бұрын
Dang she used a Turkey baster and must have snuck it out in a cup lol
@crystalm3th573
@crystalm3th573 2 жыл бұрын
I mean, theyre HOT. I get the appeal. But maybe choose someone else as a life partner. Or get to know them AFTER they get out, and then proceed with a relationship.
@jc2385
@jc2385 3 күн бұрын
I wish updates were done on these “couples” to see how things ended up.
@axel4196
@axel4196 2 жыл бұрын
One would think that she would hook up with a guy that has a future... Whose life isn't hampered by a criminal record. Hopefully, she isn't caught up with some violent maniac but if she's committing it to making it work, then best of luck.
@rosemaryhabib1031
@rosemaryhabib1031 2 жыл бұрын
That s what we call "LOVE is BLIND.
@santale4102
@santale4102 2 жыл бұрын
and you are what we call "IGNORANCE IS A CHOICE"
@MyDuckSaysFucc
@MyDuckSaysFucc 2 жыл бұрын
@@santale4102 I mean one of those men buried an elderly disabled couple alive…it’s disguising when these people try to brush it off.
@consumerdebtchitchat
@consumerdebtchitchat 2 жыл бұрын
Can't these women penpal with anyone who served 6 months for writing bad checks or used their mother's credit card without permission? They are clearly attracted to gangster like guys but you also get the issues that come with it.
@angelreilly8312
@angelreilly8312 Жыл бұрын
The first woman's sofa, i want it, it's so fluffy!!
@AACE73
@AACE73 8 ай бұрын
I will NEVER be able to understand these people.
@revmaillet
@revmaillet 2 жыл бұрын
Personally, when they finish their time then they have done their punishment. It is not right to keep punishing them. Now if they keep doing wrong and keep bouncing back and forth between jail/prison and outside then we need to find out what else is going on mentally or whatever. I do also think that some people can't be "reformed" but i want to at least try.
@kezzokav5905
@kezzokav5905 2 жыл бұрын
'Trying' means that sometimes innocent children and adults will get abused and/or murdered. Some people can never be rehabilitated and that's okay.
@erincochran1887
@erincochran1887 Жыл бұрын
Sometimes I think I pick bad guys because of my low self esteem and then I watch these videos and I’m like welp could be worse.
@Huia1975
@Huia1975 10 ай бұрын
Maybe you have low self-esteem for reason but that doesn't mean every woman married to an inmate has low self-esteem. That's your story. You'll have shitty relationships wherever they are so good luck & find a good therapist.
@anarojas844
@anarojas844 2 жыл бұрын
All I have to say to these people is don't buy problems leave this story to the families they are the ones suffering!! Keep on whit your life
@jessicamarie9180
@jessicamarie9180 8 ай бұрын
Ok but the baby is playing in the rain without warm clothes.. I know that shouldn't be the take away but gah. Get him a jumper.
@peeweeyouable
@peeweeyouable 2 жыл бұрын
They have the wrong picture in the video display.
@famejo1159
@famejo1159 2 жыл бұрын
Got some desperate people out there do anything just to keep from being alone
@flameflames9465
@flameflames9465 5 ай бұрын
omg never ever do this. especially if you have kids. I pray for her to open her eyes and protect her children
@f.l3450
@f.l3450 2 жыл бұрын
Michael wouldn’t look at Britney twice if he saw her on the street.
@Dierdre_Barlow
@Dierdre_Barlow Жыл бұрын
As soon as she said tiktok I got suspicious of her, let alone him
@Zeroratedecay86
@Zeroratedecay86 2 жыл бұрын
Nothing but love and respect for these brave couples not all of us cons are bad people I met my love while I was locked up she came from Africa and we are happy and blessed.
@melissalove2463
@melissalove2463 Жыл бұрын
Ok I’m gunna say it I want a dream catcher made by him they look AMAZING ! How do I get one ?
@tomhaywood8619
@tomhaywood8619 Жыл бұрын
Good Luck to ALL of you!
@michelejordan4115
@michelejordan4115 2 жыл бұрын
Why in the world would you have a Death Row Inmates baby? That kids going to have it rough.
@valentinegirly6718
@valentinegirly6718 2 жыл бұрын
How did she have a baby with someone with A life sentence!? They only get supervised visits, right?!
@Kryptongurl84
@Kryptongurl84 2 жыл бұрын
Some states allow conjugal visits.
@oliviamartini9700
@oliviamartini9700 2 жыл бұрын
Paid off the guard for "privacy" behind the vending machine.
@ze_us9247
@ze_us9247 2 жыл бұрын
Some people are romanticizing criminals...it blows my mind. Its one thing commiting a crime after dating, but to intentionally look for them through penpals or whatever? Also how can you trust anyone just by writing/ calls/ texting? You never know their true personalities until you meet and be with them. Yet, here they are saying 'He's different'
@moneyalways7674
@moneyalways7674 2 жыл бұрын
3:21 she had to silence those incoming messages so he won’t hear lmaoo!! Who’s texting?!? I need answers!! 🤣 She definitely has a booty call irl
@oliviamartini9700
@oliviamartini9700 2 жыл бұрын
Probably the sisters outside her door???
@AntonioGracia-j3v
@AntonioGracia-j3v 4 ай бұрын
God bless my youngest brothers relationship....you cant force a woman to love you.:)
@Crows23rdChapter
@Crows23rdChapter 5 ай бұрын
I married a man IN a prison. I could write a book on why this is not a good idea. For real. This is NOT about judgment for the person, ppl who are in prison, or even necessarily what they did. I'm telling you on everything...walk away. With a loving heart, no hate, just don't...
@UnruleeJulee
@UnruleeJulee 11 ай бұрын
Those dream catchers are gorgeous 😍
@anasteele6773
@anasteele6773 2 жыл бұрын
Omg I didn’t realise how early I was to this video 😂😂😂
@accountrarysi2776
@accountrarysi2776 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah right
@mihaelakinna2344
@mihaelakinna2344 2 жыл бұрын
15:02 I'm not saying that what he did was right and that he didn't deserve a sentence. On the contrary. But also wow... Other people do unspeakable things like rapes or tortures and then murders and they might even get away with less than a ten year sentence metaphorically speaking.
@hazeldenny6304
@hazeldenny6304 2 жыл бұрын
Yes to the third couple...they look great together
@HernandezJan
@HernandezJan 8 ай бұрын
And of course looking good together is what it’s all about.🙄
@NickDrinksWater
@NickDrinksWater 2 жыл бұрын
Only the best way to fall in love!
@oober5150
@oober5150 2 жыл бұрын
Those dream catchers are nice
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