We Found Out Why Our Listener Got Ghosted!

They hung out twice and then POOF! He ghosted…we found out why! Who’s the real red flag here?
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[@kevincormier7417]

I can assure u that when I was out there dating and I had a date or 2 or 3 with someone and maybe someone else caught my interest I'd send a text to the person I didn't wanna see anymore, "Hey, unfortunately we're not a good fit but I wish u well." I habe NEVER gotten a civil or positive response from woman. They always either reply with an insult, a passive aggressive insult or 15 questions that turns into an argument. No woman has ever responded with, "Well, thank you for being honest I wish u well too"

[@Mao-s6q]

I’ve noticed their “advice” only goes one way. They never take the same advice when something similar happens to them or in their lives 😂

[@ohcaptainmycaptain4829]

I hate when I let a guy know, and he tries so hard to get me to change my mind. Just take it for what it is and move on.

[@kevincormier7417]

I love Kristin, she's such a hypocrite when it comes to this topic, but she's sooo beautiful & hilariously funny, so we'll give her a pass. 😂😂😂 She claims it's so cowardly for men to ghost. But when a guy sends a txt saying, "I had a great time, but no thanks." The caller is hellbent on knowing why he's not interested in her anymore. And Kristin's exact words were, "Oh u can leave, but I'm not gonna leave alone until u tell me why ur no longer interested in me." So, 4 that reason, we're back to square one and this is why I approve of people ghosting. If I have to give u an explanation of why I'm no longer interested, ur furthermore proving my point, that I don't want any of this. G Fellas it's hard on ur out there. If we say "I'm not interested." It's not enough. If we say, " She was too tall or too short or she has big horse teeth." Then we're labeled an asshole. So, to avoid all of that, just ghost them and if they have true friends, then their friends will tell them, "Who cares why he ghosted u girl, just move on." I'm so glad I'm not in the dating streets and haven't been for 5 years. I told my girl, "If u ever get tired of me, just go in the other room and play on ur phone until dinner time bcuz those dating steets are brutal from what I see and hear on the Bert Show." 😂😂😂😂

[@PenelopePeriwinkle]

If a guy can’t handle rejection then you dodged a bullet.

[@Globewanderer000]

That's silly. She was moving too fast.

[@frenchbluehen]

@@Globewanderer000 She was just being nice inviting him. He took it to mean they're married? That's on him. She dodged a bullet. He even said, "I didn't FEEL like it." Who does that?

[@frenchbluehen]

Look people, if people call - THEY WANT TO KNOW. Quit asking if it matters. Obviously, for 75% of people, they want to know. Just because you're a douche and ghost someone doesn't mean you've "told them without telling them". That's a cop out. She wants to know. Just let her know.

[@thelos3999]

Yeah I agree, I get it’s annoying but your whole show is based off these situations. Let it be and stop with the ghosting is illegal message

[@73shay93]

She was going in too hot. He has scared off, then she can’t accept it was too much too fast.

[@h8rainzombiegirl]

I think the new generations don't like to get their feelings hurt or hurt others feelings. GenX-er here. If there is truth to be told, I will tell you. Sorry the way you take it hurts you but we can adult, pull up our boot straps and move on. It's going to be okay.

[@margaretbeier8519]

They don't like what they perceive to be THEIR hurt feelings but they don't hesitate to hurt others by "speaking their minds".

[@ShyyBajanBeauty]

I really wish Bert would stop asking tht stupid question ……”do you really wanna kno” Obviously they want to kno tht is why they wrote in to you

[@nikkanderson1985]

Get real! Most of these are tinder dates. That's what it is

[@BurntToastttttttt]

You know!

[@estemeiring3705]

I think she was pushing too hard. She keeps inviting him, maybe he wants to do the inviting