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[@juleswilson5018]

I'm sorry that Lily is being treated so badly. Those girls are just envious of the fact that she is so talented and smart. Hopefully she won't give up on the things she love because of them. With God's help she will be ok. Much love.

[@daschelleweaver5358]

Hi Rachel! I’m new to your family’s channel and the neurodivergent community. Throughout your video, you were referencing rejection sensitive dysphoria, which is definitely a real feeling and congruent with an ADHD diagnosis. My family and I were enlightened on our neurodivergent diagnosis almost 2 years now. Although it was confirmation, we felt condemnation especially because my husband’s a pastor. We are actually at a place where we can openly talk about it and will start vlogging soon. But I appreciate your family’s transparency of your journey. It is inspiring and refreshing to know we are not alone. Blessings!

[@sabrinat.8038]

Your hair is beautiful on you ❤

[@TheCommaClub23]

I am a Certified Wellness coach and would like to talk to you about a product that will help you. Where can I send the information

[@RachaelandLucas]

You can DM me on our Instagram if you would like! @rachaelandlucas

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Gorgeous Family......

[@RebeccaYourRealtor]

Yep we talk everydayyyyyy I love it ❤️❤️❤️

[@beverly924]

Please don't accept that diagnose? Trust God you can do all things that strengthen you.🙏

[@debbiers1147]

I feel like we keep in touch with you guys via Telegram! With your busy schedule its hard to find the time to call. But you know if I need you you will be there ❤

[@rosalieburke6365]

I'm glad you got diagnosed and are getting the help needed. Praying for you and Lucas.❤❤❤❤

[@joywaithe9202]

Wow...powerful information thanks for sharing❤

[@KimberlyManogin-rh9vv]

Normally when people are lacking something within themselves then they tend to lash out or talk about the people closest to them. I have been in therapy for half of my life. So VERY glad that you're doing it. In this CRAZY world we live in, we ALL need therapy.

[@yolandamarka1719]

Hi Rachel and Lucas Great Conversation ❤

[@eberenwaneri7114]

Hi Rachael, Loving your locs❤❤❤

[@chandysuchit8320]

Great topic, thanks for sharing🙏

[@vanessaclarke3501]

I am sorry that this is happening to sweet Lilly!! Children can be so cruel, because she is a very intellectual, sweet, charming, considerate, humble, progressive and blessed, so persons will undoubtedly be jealous of her and her accomplishments. I am happy that she has a safe space to always speak her truth. Just continue to encourage her and it is good that you are seeking additional help for her. Those girls are not her friends. The reality is that these girls behaviors are a product of their homes and it is manifested in their actions and the negative and hurtful things coming out of their mouths. !! I will lift your family up in my prayers. Love from The Bahamas ❤❤

[@aleciaaustin3018]

Awesome love you guys and thanks for sharing!!!

[@sylviamoore1696]

Love it! Blessings 🙌

[@josettebyrd7459]

Rachael thanks for sharing believe it or not weve all been through it. Some are different with each individuals.. Glad that you know what was the center of your problem and dealing with it. You're a very strong person .Continue doing what helps as well as works for you and your family. Lord knows it happens and friends do change and turn on you. Praying that it will get better for her and not let them make her quit or being the best at what she does just to please her friends. Loved this video.

[@lmpreston1]

Glad you got the answers you need. Back in the day (before anyone was diagnosed) they had study skills classes that taught occupational and coping skills. It made us highly effective people that accepted our difference because we didn't lead with what a diagnosis is - we were just the way we were. Life is about growth, knowing that we can work with the way we are, and that we try to work at becoming the best us that we can.

[@alesiaja1647]

Thanks for sharing 😊

[@velvaseay622]

This was such an interesting conversation. You guys were so open and honest, I really enjoyed hearing what you had to share.❤❤

[@gailm3188]

Hey guys making friends can be good once they're on the same page with you. Just make sure in the future whoever you choose or think can be your friend, be careful. They may be genuine or have some kind of hidden agenda against you. I too have been burned. Trust your intuition. Let the Divine guide you. Love and hugs ❤🤗🇹🇹

[@deborah4645]

Hey guys, its not about the number of friends you have, it about the quality of the person. Friends come in seasons. If in your lifetime you have (1) ONE good friend, that means you're doing something😊😊😊

[@inspiringyoutobecompletely9948]

🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@rayadams7653]

I'm also in that position guy's. Before I re-located to South Africa to join my children, we used to be constantly in communication. Not anymore since moving to them. I really miss the times we had, but I guess now all my children have their own lives. And if someone really constantly offends me, I just totally lose communication with them.

[@alene6579]

Continuous prayers for your family 🙏🏼

[@goldgirl8771]

There is no curse with Lilly she is blessed keep encouraging her

[@donavanjohnson409]

I hope that yall have a wonderful blessed Wednesday great conversation yall

[@katenkosi1389]

Thanks for sharing with us and it was challenging for you guys and it's good to know that you had go and see someone who able to help you ❤❤

[@paulachin9130]

Rachel your hair looks great natural always better and your outfit looks amazing and your really glowing. I have heard alot of adults are saying they have only been diagnosed recently the ADHD. Reason being now they have kids they been diagnosed with it and that's why they decided to get themselves checked. Looks like years ago they did not do checks but now they are doing it in the UK from a young age when parents know something is wrong. This jealousy I had it in schools, my daughter and granddaughter did too and unfortunately will never go away. You have to just keep talking to them to keep them strong and stay true to who they are and never stoop to their level by acting like them.

[@iamtranyceproductions]

I love this discussion ❤

[@CazziMaye]

Thanks for sharing. I think its normal when you come from a loving and supportive home and believe in G-d (of creation) and have a negative experience, to check yourself first - Did I say something wrong? Did I upset that person or group? Lilly's response is correct. The incorrect response is to be negative back, checking yourself first is important, but how we deal with those checks is also just as important, my grandmother and mother would always say 'beg dem pardon' (forgive them(English), or in Hebrew Rachem (mercy)' - Ok, so I was rude to that person! No I don't remember saying anything or pulling a strange face at anyone, before they started speaking unkindly to me. In my experience, my conscious has killed me worse when I responded back negatively to the person/people(mirror them), who have been unkind to me, than to just say nothing and ask G-d to forgive them and poor the blood of Y'shua (Jesus in Hebrew) over what ever they are going through and over the emotions and feelings I am experiencing, the release from heaven is another experience in itself, try it - just remember to worship in spirit and truth afterwards and give G-d thanks :). I always try to remember what happened on and at the cross and even when emotions were high he still asked Abba father to forgive them, amayn. It's not easy, but may we all get to be a little better at following Y'shua, each day - this will really help Lilly to manage herself at school and outside the home when you and dad are not around. Wishing Lilly all G-d's blessings as she navigates life using G-d's instructions, through Messiah Y'shua (our example), our sweet Prince of Peace, that surpasses all understanding. P.S. There will be poke there bear moments also, like when they tried to trap Y'shua or when Lilly doesnt take their bait, and if we can id these moments, we can use the word to bring others into G-d's light, in Y'shua sweet name amayn.

[@glorialowe5881]

Certain people are so strange and evil today. It so good you are on top of your daughters feel emotions and also yourself. Rachel and Lucas blessing to your family!.❤

[@vickiemurph]

Thank you for sharing this.

[@tnasita]

Thats me Rachel. ...if you are not in my vicinity i dont feel the need to call u or talk to u daily...thought i was just weird....gonna see if Better life can help me or diagnose why

[@lolojen794]

Very good post. I am thinking I could identify for sure. Hugs to you two. Do what you need to do for you. I know it can be hard…. I can say it but I struggle

[@adriennewilliams8597]

I love you guys❤😊

[@delorespetree3243]

Great conversation

[@lifeextensiontechnologiesg1854]

Kids are Brutal to each other.... you're child needs to walk away....stop the therapy.. you're a mom it's natural to honestly talk to your family..no screens...and. honestly you only need a few good friends...

[@sat1969chr]

I understand how you feel anxious. Therapists help you find a better solution to your problem. Stress was mine.

[@marcih.8826]

Wonderful news sometimes we have to get out of our comfort zone ❤

[@JillianSmall_ChildofGod]

Rachel is literally describing my whole entire struggle in life. I wonder if it affects your ability to remember how and when you connected with certain people. Like I met someone today and he was talking to me and asking me very specific questions that only a person I spoke to about these things could know, but like with many many people, I'm not even sure where I even connected with this man. I get so embarrassed when this happens. I wonder if that's part of the object permanence issue or just a bad memory lol. I should probably go see a doctor. Love this talk. Thank you for sharing.

[@sandyrohn1812]

I’m sad you’ve had to go through this. I miss seeing you guys but thank god for our group chats so we can keep up with your lives. Love you all so much . ❤️❤️

[@rayadams7653]

Totally appreciate you both sharing. You're not alone in this, as many of us struggle with the same issues. Glad therapy is helping you get through this, and for Lillian too. She's such an amazing girl. Live you guy's ❤❤❤

[@aprilgrant1957]

I am so glad that Lillian is learning the tools to deal with "The Mean Girls," because it only gets worse in middle & high school. It is wonderful that Lillian has a place to vent (therapy) AND a soft place to land (Her Parents) Rachel, have you approached any of the parents about their kids' behavior? I pray that that splendid young lady finds her own "tribe" soon.

[@tnasita]

i share similar traits Rachel and wanted to try betterhelp to see if i could get the help by getting a diagnosis but its really so expensive and I'm in the Caribbean 😢anyways happy u guys continues to grow😊

[@goldgirl8771]

They were never her friends in the first place

[@CherryannBrome-on5dh]

Sometimes I feel like it's okay to not have too much friends because some friends turn out to be not friends but if you find true ones they are nice to have just saying nice to see that therapy is helping you all to navigate through this journey called life ❤❤😊

[@fayepatterson9345]

We would like too see you guys cook

[@shantellove4133]

💜🙏🏼💪🏼you look amazing! a beautiful couple.

[@berlindaburnett6583]

Gods Blessings to all. I appreciate the topic and I can relate. I'ts so amazing how we all seem to struggle with the same things at times. God never said that the road would be easy but with Him it would be light. Thank You Lord for seeing us through 🙏🏾❤️

[@Mandie.s.m.s]

Yes really enjoyed this as my 38yr old daughter cariad is totaly obsessed with cleaning it's taken over her life . Love you guys can't believe how much both children have grown big cwtch from 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧👸🏽🫶🏾❤️❤️

[@Jazeerakiko]

You’re lovely all of you both Racheal’s Fam and Rebecca’s Fam ❤❤❤❤❤

[@normafiguero3470]

God bless you guys .please dont give up youtube entirely

[@annharradan4316]

Hi Rachel and Lucas love the topic you both are realllll ❤look at Josiah growing nice 😇

[@pearltoomer6392]

That been me since childhood than l crash . I have no close friends, because am on the go go go.

[@valeriesmith7050]

I Love your Hair 😊

[@smiley3412]

😂, I can totally relate! That's me 💯! I can stop a start a mllion things. I have to think what is the most important thing I need to finish.

[@delorespetree3243]

You have not posted in awhile are you still on youtube

[@saleemahfareed4495]

Thanks for sharing 💜💜💙💙😊🙏🏾 10:22

[@wen-a8703]

Hello! Why do u choose to put labels on yourself? Not because we all have different traits, a name should be given for them. We are all different people in this world. We think and do things differently, we teach each other from our differences. We were created that way! If we all were the same, what a boring world it would be! Rachel u know it's part of being Caribbean, we live like that, we love from a distance, and we don't take it personal, and we know the love is there and we flock together when we have to come together 🤗 take care ❤️

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I knew you had something, you are very energetic. I picked up on your energy. It's like speedy Gonzales.

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I CAN RELATE ❤

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