Is it Hard Being Creative? | Intimacy & Disability Pt. 1 of 2

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Welcome to the official Roll with Cole & Charisma KZbin channel! Since the start of our relationship we've gotten a lot of questions about our experiences as not only an interracial couple, but an interabled one as well. On this channel you can catch us doing travel and adventure vlogs, challenges, our inclusion series, couple first times, music, and so much more! We started this vlog to bring people into our lives, to answer some questions about how we navigate the world, and hopefully raise awareness surrounding accessibility and dating in a wheelchair. You'll quickly see in our episodes that we're all about inclusion and keeping a great attitude no matter your circumstances, so if that's what you're into, you're in the right place!

[@angierose327]

Thank you for talking about such a private and intimate topic. Intimacy shouldn't be taboo, it's human nature.

[@ActionMan-Grant]

Yeah it fills me with pride and appreciation to know that people have made products and resources to give the disabled community the ability to be intimate with their partner in the most intimate of ways because everyone has that right and should be able to. It's important to a relationship and needs to be accessible to all.

[@heidia6270]

@@ceoa🎤🎸🥁😂😂

[@lurodriguez1836]

Así es, siempre hablé de sexualidad con mi hija con respeto, y a pesar de que ahora soy célibe respeto a quienes hablan sobre sexualidad de forma adulta y respetuosa. Y me alegra que por fin se nos vea a quienes decidimos no tener sexo cómo personas NORMALES si quieres tener relaciones todo bien y sino, no pasa nada 🤷🏽‍♀️👍

[@user-hh9hq7zz3o]

Thanks for this educational 34:36 information on this personal and private topic. You both handle it very professionally.

[@francessandram9144]

❤Loved❤❗ Alright Now Cole...watchout, the way you said "Stay Sexy". ❤'d🔥🔥🔥😉 Charisma...getcha Manz Sis.😅 I'm So Crazy about you both. No disrespect @ all Charisma, but I'm definitely crazy about me some 💫Cole💫. God Bless You Both and Please Know that both of you are So inspiring to So Many. Keep Growing & Glowing. 😊

[@RabbitHoleDiaries]

"This is the body I have to be confident in." One of the most obvious and yet profound statements ever spoken.

[@charlenetolar9470]

Cole is a very handsome gentleman.

[@SandraMontano-si3uf]

Crarizma( sorry about spelling) is a beautiful 🤩 woman too--

[@mamapeppa3326]

'Charisma'​@@SandraMontano-si3uf

[@hopeanozie5842]

​@@SandraMontano-si3ufCharisma is beautiful too

[@lulukent9795]

Here here

[@MariaLopez-dq3kz]

@@lulukent9795.

[@DAnna639]

Some non-disabled men don’t realize that sexy can have little to do with the actual act. It is how they treat a woman all day. You two clearly have true intimacy. That is the key that non-disabled men don’t always find because their focus is on prowess and self-satisfaction. You are way ahead of them.

[@stellarijks9912]

As an aspiring sexologist I can't tell you enough how valuable this is and how much I appreciate you for being vulnerable. Intimacy is for everyone!

[@cathytauscher6760]

Have you watched Murderball? They showed it to medical students where my husband went to Medical School and I was fortunate enough to see it as well.

[@stellarijks9912]

@@cathytauscher6760 Haven't seen it no, but will definitely check it out thanks!

[@sugartrask116]

What is your contact info

[@sarabara333]

That is the dumbest thing I've ever read

[@mlo9797]

@@sarabara333🤣😂😂😂😂👏👏👏👏

[@hisBrideseed]

Can we STOP and talk about how CUTE your hair is. It looks so good on you. Keep rocking it.

[@ms.t3039]

Yasss sis, that hair everything! It’s so healthy

[@hunt1198]

I was disabled at 26. I’m 40 now. It’s been a long journey. I’m proud of you guys. Keep up the great love for each other

[@marvawalrond3313]

So sad to hear about people's disabilities. Even though they sometimes have a very fulfilling life

[@hunt1198]

Very true. All you can do is live life to the fullest. Thank god everyday that I’m here.

[@tnthompson217]

🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@memorybanda2372]

Keep on fighting ❤

[@user-xj3fv4he4g]

I'm Proud Of You For Sticking In There 💪🏼💪🏼 You're A Go Getter Don't Let Disability Stop 🛑 You For Being Yourself 💯💯🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼😁😎

[@danielleegolf4290]

Hope this doesn't sound weird, but I think you are both very attractive. And a big part of that is your personalities. And I think together yall are just totally adorable.

[@JC-jp7uz]

Agree 💯 They are both so gorgeous but also so mature kind fun loving chill!!

[@JC-jp7uz]

Can't say often enough how gorgeous they are but what is the most charming thing about this couple is how respectful they are of each other and the amount of time each talks seems like 50/50% and they Listen so closely and reverently of each other.

[@sarahkelly3234]

Man judge the outside but true love lies within. God makes everything beautiful. you guys are inspiring.

[@gregorybennings8718]

It's not 'true love'.

[@linaaveya5055]

@@gregorybennings8718 ?

[@bwnco]

How funny I date a girl from Brazil she's gorgeous. I look at me I'm going what in the hell did she seeing me period and she just off the cuff said something one day as I was talking about my wrinkles she says your heart makes everything outside of you so beautiful and so fun. I mean to hear words like this that you read sometime but actually hear them call me it literally changes your whole life your confidence what you think about yourself and you can do this to other people that are just friends I mean it was such a beautiful thing I'm getting kind of wishy-washy but it was such a beautiful thing to hear. As I had never heard anything like that before.

[@tinawilliams3059]

I am disabled from chronic pain and arthritis and widowed and hope I can find someone who finds me attractive and desirable and will be willing to understand and willing to make whatever work out. Love you guys and your conversations❤️

[@samanthalynn93]

Awh well I think your beautiful! So I know you will find someone. Everyone has a soul mate

[@vernidakendall8524]

I feel the same way being a post stroke dealing with chronic pain on a daily bases. I prayed and surrendered my future partner to God. I’m working on self love and my confidence.

[@SJGore-jp3lq]

Dearest Tina, in the meantime, while you're waiting for that right person to come along.... remember to pour all that you're looking for from another person into your very own life and trust that door will open up for you to bring that person into your life. I wish you the very best in all areas of your life. As for arthritis, you can start by changing the way you're eating if you haven't done so already. It worked for me... 😊😊❤❤

[@jamesongogoleczko5932]

I wish that for you!

[@rickfletcher5053]

You are very attractive, don’t settle for just anyone, wait for the one.

[@zaidaorozco4344]

I just absolutely love seeing Cole for a man communicate. He's sought help, to improve and express himself better. Healthier, transparent and openly. He's genuinely and every man should take notes from him. It's rare to find a man like that.

[@katieweeman5007]

What’s so great about open and honest discussions like this is it can help EVERYONE. Interabled or not, these lessons you talked about can be applied to all types of people in all types of relationships. Confidence and communication are so important!

[@Maribelnjunior]

This is a good topic you answered all the questions perfectly with saying anything out line I love you guys so much you guys are very good people I would love to meet you guys good example for people to learn where there love nothing will stop being together keep on the good work I just cannot wait until god bless you guys with a blessing a baby ❤

[@ninaappelt9001]

It's nice to hear you two talk about intimacy in a positive adult manner without the horny details. As open as y'all are, privacy is sacred.

[@ChronicLeeiLL]

I LOVE Cole's humor and personality! He must be so much fun to be around! "Stay sexy" 😂

[@JC-jp7uz]

Yes they're such a sexy adorable couple!!

[@kat6737]

To me intimacy means being completely vulnerable and comfortable with someone. It's about being your true self with that person and vice versa. Anything physical just falls into place after that in whichever way it works for a couple. But physical doesn't equal intimate at all in my eyes. So with that being said, they have a truly intimate relationship.

[@deanawells4395]

I knew a long time ago; a woman who was a intimacy assistant for people with disabilities especially if both partners were disabled. She helped with position changes or creative positions. I loved her work in helping people with disabilities and intimacy. ❤

[@StarlaBizarre]

i've seen corn like that before lolll

[@symonelovesJesus]

Pornography is perverted. Stay away from it ​@@StarlaBizarre

[@chillaxerating]

Go to the bathroom after intimacy as well to prevent UTIs! That's just as important as beforehand.

[@stephanieleigh8981]

You two are my favorite couple on the internet! Your chemistry is beautiful

[@KOKO-sf6kg]

JUST THINK ABOUT ALL THE PEOPLE YOU ARE HELPING.

[@annikahilton6139]

The chemistry between you two is SO tangible 😍 38 mins felt like 10 lol. Thank you for being THE PROOF that initamcy is universal, interabled or not! Look forward to the next 2 videos!!🙌🏽

[@kaielzabar1468]

Cole, you got game! You're an athlete in your heart and soul, so your strategy to wait until you had more control of your physicality was a smooth manly move. You are such a man! Thank for sharing.

[@Theprettyweirdo198]

I love that they're almost at a million I mean they deserve it

[@cathytauscher6760]

Agreed they will get there

[@dociajones629]

As a disabled caregiver, really find some gems in your interactions! Keep up the great inspiration! Blessings

[@rhonackimp]

As a person with a disability, am always inspired and eager to learn from you both. With love from 🇺🇬👌

[@KC-qi7gn]

@Kimpayecrhona SAME

[@florasmith7695]

Enjoy this and glad you all did this discussion…

[@user-wm1mm3hd6e]

Wow

[@natalielyons7170]

Thanks for sharing

[@May-gq7wn]

Thank you so much for addressing this subject. After 27 years of marriage, my partner became a paraplegic. 17 months in, we are struggling in this area.

[@SwaggerChiick1]

This was a wonderful talk. Hearing Cole talk in the beginning about loss of identity really resonated with me in a very deep way. I am not physically disabled, but I have such severe depression and anxiety, that I have truly lost myself and have been lost for a number of years (still lost as I write this). I lost my job and home; I'm in severe debt, I have no friends etc and my entire personality and identity is just... gone. I don't recognise myself AT ALL and I don't know how to deal with that. When I heard Cole speak about that, it was genuinely the first time hearing someone talk so well about loss of identity and how difficult it is to live and be confident when you don't recognise yourself and have no idea who you are. This was extremely helpful to me! I'm saving this video to watch again. Thank you so much Cole and Charisma!! ❤❤❤ God bless you for the wonderful work you're doing by sharing your stories. ❤

[@nkathagatobu6592]

May God heal your depression, anxiety, restore your losses and debt, may He also give you a true and genuine friend. I understand you. Be blessed

[@SwaggerChiick1]

@@nkathagatobu6592 wow. Thank you so, so, so much! May God bless you on this Easter Sunday and beyond. How wonderful it is that people like you exist; people who wish the best for a stranger. ❤️❤️❤️ (Since writing that comment, I now have a job due to God's wonderful blessing. I have to work on getting rid of my debt, which I know will take a very long time. I still don't have friends, but my coworkers are nice. I'm learning to trust God again so I hope by His grace I will get rid of my anxiety and through all of that good, I hope my depression leaves as well.)

[@susango123]

I am 52 years old, and I have just been recently diagnosed with fibromyagia after being misdiagnosed for 6 years with arthritis. Being overweight and having chronic pain, makes dating very difficult. On top of that, I have a mental illness and in recovery for alcohol addiction. In the last few years, my confidence has been obligated to the point, I am just existing. I just don't know how to change the situation I am in, so I don't do anything. But, this chanel has helped a bit in giving me ideas on how to get out of my comfortable zone. Thanks Cole and Charisma.

[@ElizabethEllisCoach]

I just stumbled on this channel and am loving the conversation with Cole & Charisma. I have both (fibro & arthritis) Susan, totally hear you. I see that no matter how together someone “seems” to the world, everyone behind the curtain, struggles with their own positive self belief. I also think that people are really struggling more than ever with loss, isolation, fear, pain, and finding real connection with others, and a positive sense of self identity no matter what. Your message really got my attention, and I just wanted to acknowledge you for being so authentic in your sharing. I think this is how real confidence is created. I think the way “out” of the uncomfortable comfort zone you are describing is one action at a time, connecting, sharing, contributing. Sending good energy your way, blessings.

[@ElizabethEllisCoach]

Great idea to do a group share video with your other friends about relationships & intimacy. Great channel, so glad I found you two.

[@crystalhill3779]

Charisma has so much charm. You can tell their love is real .

[@GameTime-yj6qv]

Her name is so fitting for her lol

[@aishata6788]

It's so obvious how you two have indeed found love and peace with each other. Your perspectives on this matter have been valuable. Thank you for sharing.

[@kristinaarp9144]

It’s a little ridiculous how much I absolutely adore two people I’ve never met in my life. Lol You guys are doing such a great job educating and entertaining everyone. (Shane and Hannah are my other favorite couple!)

[@marierudd5204]

I'm a 54 year old woman not in a wheelchair but have a number of medical problems When I was in my 20s not married for years but long enough I started haveing problems with pain & discomfort when me & my husband made Love because I had a fantastic relationship with my Mam could go to her with anything she was always with me all my life with the many operations, hospitals & everything that comes with it. I told her my problems & my Mam helped me by telling me ways to make it easy for both me & my husband she told me ways that could make it easier & also not to lose the intermissy & keep it very nice & gave us Loveing pleasure. These videos you both gonna do is going to help people that aren't as lucky as I was haveing my Mam some people that don't Feil they can go talk to someone maybe out of embarrassment or even shame please don't Feil that way some people need help there's no shame it's a good thing to do

[@lukee.h1471]

I love watching Cole and Charisma..they just give off nice chilled out vibes.

[@shereeliston6780]

The chemistry will be enough eventually the golden egg will find you …. Keep going you both rock!!! 😊

[@JC-jp7uz]

3:48 "Now they're definitely gonna watch" 😂😅. Oh my gosh I love these 2.

[@tammyrolle4733]

No need to be sad that you were not able to be intimate in college Cole,. It probably saved you from a lot of unseen problems. It helped to keep you pure and decent, although it was hard. It’s easy to give in to pleasures but it takes a strong man to do without until the time is right. Bravo 🎉

[@rhondadavis1483]

Perfectly said

[@kaishapage3675]

Take your time to grow. Don't try to be fast.😊

[@soulavelliotis7002]

I think it’s a blessing you both find each other together you can do anything. God bless you.❤❤

[@brenellhornsby6566]

You both look so vibrant and healthy. You are doing something right!

[@rhondaphillipson8600]

Thankyou for sharing you guys are such an inspiration to me. This isn't anything about intamacy. But You don't even know many people you help.... I will tell you, just watching Cole litterly have saved my life.... almost 2yrs ago I fell, I put on 60 lbs... and ever since I started following you guys... I'm much better, I watch how strong you are..... no I'm not paralyzed but I have severe weakness in my left side... took a yr lost 20lbs, moving more, but my gait. Unstable.... still weak. But I push myself everyday.... because of you guys.... just thought I would share.......

[@suann9790]

You rock 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@thenaillife4466]

I remember when you made a comment a while back you weren’t comfortable talking about this subject.. it shows growth and maturity on your behalf ❤

[@theprodigalson4003]

24:37 you inspire me man. I’m here wallowing because I’m losing my mental faculties, but I still have my body. And I still breathe. I swear if I ever become like you, I’ll have you as a bastion of resilience, and i will Live to your example and inspire others. You’ll never back down, and neither will I. We are indomitable

[@meekyw.4010]

34:51 -34:54 We need an unedited live with just Cole cause he's dying to spill the tea, and we're here to drink it ☕️🫖🤤😂😂

[@twylaostercamp2467]

You did an excellent job with this video! You completely answered each question completely without compromising your privacy. As a health care provider, I deal with different abled people all of the time. These are topics they all have questions about. Thank you for sharing your more personal experiences.

[@emilymuhambe9946]

I like the way Cole looks at charisma sooo intimate ❤ cute couple

[@ednanelson1897]

I love how open you are talking about intimacy. I don't know why we make it so taboo to talk about. You guys don't realize how you have helped other couples being so transparent. 😊

[@LL-el8sl]

May God continue to bless your union.

[@lisaacevedo6949]

I love how willing you guys are to share this topic - especially for disabled persons who will only get a "clinical" answer from their doctor and want to learn more, love it.

[@okundola9388]

Don't blame doctors, it's not included in their training. There are professionals who are so trained.

[@lisaacevedo6949]

@@okundola9388 no definitely not their fault at all, its not expected for dr to talk about intimacy to this extent

[@kytruth1027]

​@@okundola9388it's absolutely their fault. They are caregivers and physicians, they have a duty to learn and give the best care possible to their patients. They are paid to do so. The problem is they get comfortable making thousands with little to no service. Doctors and teachers are the only professionals in the World that get passes for not staying up to date with their professions and are excused for failing at their jobs.

[@ThePublicHealthHeaux]

@@okundola9388and how are those pros accessible…?? Also it’s not “blaming doctors” to say our culture and their profession in general is ableist AF and fails specific populations of patients in particular ways they can improve on (or can’t bc of systemic/institutional/$ constraints)

[@annaszczurowska7204]

Talking about insecurities...it made me sad when you said, Charisma, that being a black girl with a white guy made you feel insecure for some reason. Don't you even think this way, you are a wonderful, attractive and desirable woman.

[@bonniejones2328]

Hmmm, what does being black have to do with the pain and suffering of his SCI. The comparison isn't valid in my opinion. It's important to stay on the subject of what it feels like for a Person who has gone through a traumatic experience that compromises their ability to physically function as they once did. Moving forward in a new frame isn't the same and not fair to this mans plight. Please understand that I'm not disrespecting any one. I'm just interested in staying on the subject that is his difference.

[@jessica1234661]

You’re not black and nor am I… so maybe you shouldn’t comment about this. You won’t understand.

[@Johnnitafly]

You completely missed it! She was in no way comparing her blackness to his injury. During that point in their conversation they were both saying what insecurities they brought into the relationship! Also, if you can’t understand why a black woman had insecurities about dating outside of here race living in America you’ve clearly never dated outside of yours!

[@bonniejones2328]

My husband is black. I'm a love filled Amputee. If I can't speak from my Wheelchair/Prosthetics you might miss how truly diverse this issue is. Not here for a dispute. Allow yourself to listen what another may authentically feel. Not trying to walk in anyone else's earthly frame. Go lightly, stayed blessed. Try to feel my wellspring of truth & let it be. Please think of me with kindness!!

[@carolynsteele1465]

I don't think that she was referring to her looks. She knows that she is attractive.

[@barbaralamoreaux328]

This is a great talk-even for those listeners are not disabled. Bravo!

[@Lulu-qy4zc]

I just love Cole’s personality you 2 make such a beautiful couple 🫶🏼

[@starflower703]

Thank you for taking about this. I am disabled due to chronic pain and while I don’t have an SCI, I do have physical limitations in life and in intimacy. Having a partner who is willing to talk about it and willing to stop and readjust is so important. If your partner isn’t willing to listen and work with you to find what works, maybe you need a some outside help or a different partner. Communication is key!

[@kbieberful1]

Your hair is absolutely so beautiful, gorgeous Queen!!!

[@fartemus1]

You guys are definitely couples goals. You guys seem to have an amazing relationship. God bless you both.

[@colleengeier9994]

This comment isn’t about intimacy, but listening to you share, I'm so impressed with how articulate you both are. You explain things well and are very natural. You both are great role models.

[@luiviciouz]

I think Charisma, the wife you have helpes a lot with the confidence and stuff.

[@janicemichaloski5292]

Charisma i just wanted to say your hair looks so pretty like that 😊

[@tinamitchell4543]

Thank you for addressing this topic with such authenticity, honesty and openness. I applaud you for educating all in this subject. We all have family, friends and coworkers we can help open the conversation. God bless you both.

[@DoctorJoanieTool]

Just found you and am so grateful for your willingness to be vulnerable and open about helping other people learn. It’s a beautiful thing. I particularly love the message that we all eventually need to deal with our own insecurities and being confident in the bodies we have to work with is a choice! How terrific is that !!! Bottom line too, sex and intimacy is often uncomfortable and trial and error for EVERYONE. Being able to laugh and recognize the humor in the situation is so important. We aren’t soap opera characters - and intimacy doesn’t look like a perfectly choreographed dance. It’s bumps and turns and giggling and learning to love yourself which is the true road to accepting and recognizing love from another person.

[@ActionMan-Grant]

Wow that was awesome. Despite not being "professionals" you have all of this experience and experience is valuable. I think people sometimes forget that not so long ago higher education wasn't as valued as it is now and experience was more highly regarded and so you Cole and Charisma are an amazing resource for people in the disabled community. I personally don't have any disabled friends, but obviously would be open and willing to be friends with someone that was. This channel and even Shane and Hannah's in conjunction with professionals would be my advice to them to help them navigate some of those difficulties they may be experiencing and lifting their spirits along with my own personal help or encouragement to them. I am just so much more aware of in my daily life about looking out for my disabled community members and will fight for their right to accessibility to have a fulfilling life as I can enjoy 😊

[@ActionMan-Grant]

To clarify too higher education is still something I value greatly and I'm grateful to have my degree.

[@celesterakhale7496]

Oh my goodness...I have just found your channel...and I am IN LOVE with you two!!!!Cutest and most loving couple..love your honesty and clear love and adoration for each other.Thanks for posting guys.😊

[@theprodigalson4003]

8:50 i empathise with this. I’ve gotten it back, I’ve lost it several times as well, because stuff keeps happening. I’ll try to remember your words cole, for when I forget my own

[@4everafanofcc857]

What an AWESOME job!!! As I've recently commented, thank you for being an advocate to others. You both are inspirational.

[@tavarisp452]

Thanks for sharing this. As a person with muscular dystrophy I struggle with a lot that’s mentioned here. Looking forward to the next chapter of this series and learning more. Thank you!

[@denisegarland1815]

I simply adore you both!! Thank you for being venerable and sharing! Looking forward to parts 2 and 3! MY FAVORITE COUPLE ❤

[@AaronShu]

I have so much respect for you both! Thank you for your openness and transparency. Learning a lot from you guys 💛

[@jenniferbradshaw6025]

You guys are two of the best couples that I will spend time to listen and watch your videos. Trust me, lots of us who may not have a disability partner in our relationship does NOT have the beautiful relationship that you too have. I love to watch and listen to you both. There is communication, respect, love, friendship, with all this qualities other intimacys come easy. Some couples would wish to have what the two of you have. You both are a wonderful couple. I love to watch and listen to you both. Hope you get your million members soon..❤❤

[@Mineo5]

Yall are really blessing people out here with your advice and transparency!

[@pdenise777]

This was another great video. There's something here for everybody to learn, no matter the situation. Your candor and transparency are just more reasons why you guys are one of my favorite couples! ❤❤ Looking forward to parts 2 and 3.

[@LRM724]

Many things I deal with having Cerebral Palsy in my personal life too.

[@claramitchell746]

Excellent topic to address. Kudos to you both for your courage and ‘plain’ talk!👌🏾❤️🌺

[@sheilabyrd2289]

Thank you for handling what some would call a "touchy" topic with such straightforward, informative, yet vulnerable style. You all gave us wonderful information that is so beneficial, not just to interabled relationships, but to all relationships. I appreciated your stressing how Important communication is as far as intimacy is concerned. I also appreciated you all pointing out there are many ways to be intimate, not just to where most people's minds normally gravitate. I look forward to your second conversation on this toppic. God Bless.

[@berna0403]

This is very insightful. Thank you. Look forward to part 2 and 3.

[@pennylane1084]

Thank you for putting this series together! I watched Shane and Hannah's series from a few years ago and I was glad to see you guys explore this topic as well. Having chronic illness/chronic pain can make all types of intimacy difficult with my spouse at times, and I haven't been able to find good resources or advice. I wish I knew more interabled couples to discuss these issues with because sometimes there are body issues that come up that "able bodies" couples don't necessarily deal with or encounter. Thank you for this and I'm looking forward to watching your other videos on this topic.

[@Homedesignsonabudget]

I've been following you guys on social media for a while, and I'm happy you guys shared when you felt comfortable because people have been asking you guys for a while. Cole is fine, and you are beautiful 😊

[@kaiashea4053]

Much love and respect for you both!!!! Both of you are beautiful souls!! ❤😊

[@kristintherrien5061]

Its such an important part of life. How kind and courageous of you to share. Especially for newly injured young people looking info the future. You are both really great at communicating.

[@afiajiji9469]

I’ve watched you guys since the start, but only check in periodically and wow how much you’ve both matured!. Rooting for you always.

[@akaathena]

Thank you so much for sharing this. It was so great to hear your (Cole's) journey to self-confidence.

[@elisaisaksen5484]

You both just naturally connect with your audience because you connect so well with each other. Your articulation and level of comfort with each other is remarkable and I have been so inspired by your share here. The way you have approached this subject has given me some tools and I am not in a relationship. I hear such maturity coming through and yet you are both spontaneous and fun. xo

[@H0oLIgAnSsRo0lMaRrSz]

Neither my partner nor I are disabled but I love watching your videos…they’re very informative and interesting! Love you guys! ❤❤

[@beatsbywheelidon]

Using a wheelchair and having spina bifiida brought me to this channel and believe me i love your content and it helps me so much.

[@triniintoronto240]

You both did a masterful job handling this sensitive topic! Keep on rolling!!!!😍😍😍😍😍

[@sah-nae]

You guys are absolutely amazing, thank you so so much , for being vulnerable and sharing your journey, this video is invaluable 🫶🏽🤗

[@paulachin9130]

Cole and Charisma this is quite an insightful video, and I am sure it will help other couples in this situation. The way Charisma looks at you can see the love she has for you. The lord sent an angel to you Cole and hope one day i can find true love even at my old age.

[@erinues7._-]

Your personality justifies your name❤❤

[@phyllisjohnson8456]

Charisma and Cole you don’t have to divulge your intimate details to us. It’s non of our business. Make love, be happy!

[@coleandcharisma]

We didn’t do that in this video 😊

[@alashea2974]

You two are incredibly sweet and fun to watch. Great content guys!

[@marie-lourdesprice4526]

Thank you guys.

[@ladyrochelle9388]

You two are beautiful and blessed, inside and out❤ Y’all are ALMOST at one million subscribers….I’m so happy and excited for y’all!! God bless you🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@Dlemon001]

He’s eyes are very charming 🥰❤️ Best couple ever ❤

[@judymorgan4110]

Bless you both for sharing this part of your life. Your love and respect for each other radiates through out this video. I just subscribed.

[@girlclown62]

Love Cole’s sense of humor! Relax Charisma.

[@michelleeastwood3960]

You are so accommodating and alert when you held his fingers touched me and says a lot about you. Blessings on you both

[@LinCrimshaw]

Thanks for opening up and sharing your journey in intimacy, As always, I learned so much. You are making a huge difference for everyone.

[@susierivera5234]

This is great! 😊 Thanks for sharing. You guys are so awesome. Continue to stay strong and wonderful ❤️

[@TurtleMom23]

I appreciate this video so much! I've contemplated doing a video discussing the very idea. Your video has helped tremendously. My husband is disabled and it's a topic we have searched long and hard to find info about. (Everything I've seen suggests going outside the marriage to find pleasure. That is not an option for us. )

[@robertabetts]

Beautiful people, inside and out! Glad I found your channel! Love you guys!!

[@deborahgoodwin9187]

Beautifully, tastefully done!

[@jameshbowers]

I really appreciate this video. Especially the part on confidence! I'm three years post injury and working on building my confidence. I have insecurities so I'm thankful for the tips y'all shared. I'm looking forward to the Part 2 video.

[@clarekhakasa8372]

Sorry brother

[@wendyandrews8229]

I just want to say how much I find the two of you such a beautiful couple!!!!!!! You are offering such good information for disabled people. But more importantly, the hope that you are giving to disabled people ❤. Beautiful, beautiful couple!🥰🥰🥰

[@lukakuzma31]

It's very nice to hear you guys talking about this topic cause you have to be special in some kind of way to do that. Not everybody can do it that easily. Love from 🇷🇸 ♥