Respectfully, Vee seems a bit emotionally insecure. She didn’t give Ari a chance to give her answers. She wouldn’t allow Ari to give her answers how she feels and when she gave Vee what she was asking for she gets a “that’s it?”. Sometimes opposites don’t attract🤍
@1LauraMeow Жыл бұрын
Yeah, if it's extremely opposite or too similar, it's not gonna work. Just like puzzle pieces, the same puzzle pieces from the same picture won't work together, the same shaped puzzle pieces from different pictures won't work
@aereid6 Жыл бұрын
It seems like a classic anxious avoidant dance.
@dark3rthanshadows Жыл бұрын
YES! everything and the worst part is letting someone double text without being clear about wanting something or not! WTF that's messed up. If you're not into a girl that u hang out just say it. don't let her double text and vice versa.
@theprousteffect97179 ай бұрын
Vee seems insecure, but to be fair, Ari genuinely didn't seem into Vee and Vee could tell.
@dudeorduuude52117 ай бұрын
@@theprousteffect9717Vee blamed her for it instead of just accepting it.
@jonaswolterstorff3460 Жыл бұрын
Cut doing it again. Listening to the community. It’s like the fourth time where a comment was picked up. Delightful community engagement.
@Sukinero Жыл бұрын
Glazing
@JurryLurry Жыл бұрын
@@Sukinero 😂😂😂
@bluebellmanariti Жыл бұрын
🙌
@zoenguyen7686 Жыл бұрын
Seriously. I love how cut listens!!
@olugboyeopeyemi2428 Жыл бұрын
@@Sukinerochronically online. Get yourself a real life.
@sofiaflores8229 Жыл бұрын
Why she getting mad bout not wanting her put her arms around her? People need to start respecting each others boundaries
@lorena.e Жыл бұрын
I agree with you, but also she did mention that the other girl never said that beforehand. But still, gotta pay attention to body language cause if they aren’t feeling you you can usually tell
@piecebypiece2028 Жыл бұрын
@@lorena.eif vee was a man, everyone would say that he should have asked before touching ari. Her being a women doesn't change that.
@goodmiusic3584 Жыл бұрын
@@lorena.e if you listen ari said that she told her physical touch isn't really her thing ("isn't at the top rank of her love languages") before hand, so with that in mind plus the body language, Vee should have taken the hint or at least asked her if that was okay, especially on the very first date.
@thetopazwolf9550 Жыл бұрын
@@lorena.ePhysical boundaries should be assumed tho, she should have asked if she was cool with that.
@dudeorduuude52117 ай бұрын
Exactly. They went on 1 or 2 dates, don't be pushy.
@milla4898 Жыл бұрын
Felt like a breakup therapy session for the lesbians haha
@EclecticCleric Жыл бұрын
A lot of insecurity
@Seeyeay Жыл бұрын
one is much more mature than the other
@sirrparker47 Жыл бұрын
@@SeeyeayNah, I feel like the one on the left kept it real af and the one on the right kept tip toeing around the questions
@Ibt1sam Жыл бұрын
the one with short hair seemed very full on and quite insecure, the other was very patient and collected and seemed very secure in herself
@dave85104 Жыл бұрын
@@sirrparker47 felt like the opposite cuz the right one felt more mature to me but didnt want to offend the left. the left one was the type to force a relationship or connection (whether it was the kiss or pda) when clearly the other person wasn't feeling the vibe. gotta respect people's boundaries
@milla4898 Жыл бұрын
THE FOLLOW UPS WE’VE NEEDED!!!
@angelmushahf Жыл бұрын
Yes but I still want to see more couples
@diamondeveridge9775 Жыл бұрын
The way I started yelling “YESSSSSSSSSSS”😂😂😂
@BelaDesouza_ Жыл бұрын
YES FINALLY!!!
@BelaDesouza_ Жыл бұрын
@@x9x9690most likely an AI
@marie-piergirard6214 Жыл бұрын
Can someone give me the link to the first video ?
@jijijijibaby Жыл бұрын
7:21 Ari said she was fine with holding hands but then Vee put her arm around her-two different things. having your arm around someone is much more noticeable than holding hands in terms of PDA. props to Ari for just saying “i’m not gonna argue with you” bc Vee really was not prepared to listen, judging from the way she just interpreted the handholding conversation however she liked.
@agreatmannamedlieu Жыл бұрын
Noticeable? Are you in middle school? What does it matter who notices if you're with them and find them attractive? What bearing does that have in the relationship?
@jijijijibaby Жыл бұрын
@@agreatmannamedlieu i hope you know that not everyone has the same opinion as you. you might not care about what others think, but some people are mindful of how they are perceived in public. this has everything to do with relationships because it’s about respecting boundaries. ari set her boundary by giving permission to hold hands, and vee decided for herself that ari would be okay with an arm around her. it may not seem like there’s not much of a difference between the two actions, but it could mean a whole lot to somebody else.
@kaywee4200 Жыл бұрын
I agree completely. Hand holding isn't as suffocating.
@TheCRYSTALLURE7 ай бұрын
@@agreatmannamedlieuso what it sounds like is YOU like PDA….whilst Ari stated PDA is very LOW on her list. Make it make sense. What works for you doesn’t always work for others. And that includes opinions.
@OriginallyToowie Жыл бұрын
Ari is soooo patient. She deserves better
@yasmineali8043 Жыл бұрын
and she certainly knew that 😂 vee had no shot w that attitude
@chaeryeong991 Жыл бұрын
ari keeps beating around the bush. i understand vees frustration. ari needs to be straight forward
@user-iv4jb4mv5w Жыл бұрын
vee seems very insecure and keeps misunderstanding ari because of that. dynamics like that are so frustrating
@g.o.a.t8208 Жыл бұрын
@@chaeryeong991Some feelings or opinions aren’t black and white though.
@victoriaaguilar94 Жыл бұрын
I feel like Ari could never finish a sentence.
@lydiakordonowy7724 Жыл бұрын
No one’s gonna mention how amazing Deja is for saying that she doesn’t appreciate being sexualized, even in micro comments like the ass thing? Cause that made me so happy
@joanne0 Жыл бұрын
i know what you’re trying to say but it just comes off a bit weird
@theekatspajamas Жыл бұрын
@@joanne0I need you to explain to me how it's weird that she's setting boundaries around being sexualized
@aaryan6088 Жыл бұрын
@@theekatspajamas i mean the question was what's your favourite PHYSICAL attribute, so the answer made sense. If the question was 'what's your favourite attribute' I'd see why she felt uncomfortable, but consenting to this truth or drink game while knowing about the questions asked and being offended is weird.
@Victor-gr4mz Жыл бұрын
LMAO you're hanging in some pseudo intellectual communities to think humans are above being sexualized. It's natural. Are you in some higher plane of existence?
@Galaxylion_omega Жыл бұрын
@@aaryan6088yea but she still allowed to feel uncomfortable about the answer being her ass instead something like her smile.
@nakiaajae Жыл бұрын
Ari needs her own spin off so we can hear wtf she was trying to say
@ravens_tale Жыл бұрын
Fr lmao
@kennethmahlaba9200 Жыл бұрын
😂
@sexicoolgurl1 Жыл бұрын
😭😭😭😭😭
@agreatmannamedlieu Жыл бұрын
Nothing. That's the point. Her sentences have no direction nor destination. She makes nuance where there is none. It's either yes. Or no. Sometimes. But there is no leader in this dynamic, so it should be expected 🤷🏿♂️
@no-xx1hl Жыл бұрын
@@agreatmannamedlieu someone take vee's phone away lmao
@kickesuki9140 Жыл бұрын
Bucket hat girl seems like the type of person that either you do everything her way or it turns into a problem/discussion
@therealartie5747 Жыл бұрын
I love how the Button has grown to be some sort of reality show that has got everyone invested lol…More people need to subscribe and support this channel
@jasperro5839 Жыл бұрын
I mean 11 mil...
@GohanSSJZ Жыл бұрын
They got 12 million subs, why are you talking like they are some small struggling channel that may or may not succeed based on subscriptions?
@BelaDesouza_ Жыл бұрын
I AGREE!! Me and my parents all sit together and watch this when I come back home from college😭
@Playsch00l Жыл бұрын
@@BelaDesouza_ you and your parents watch the sexfest that is Cut? 😂 wild asf lmao
@ultraviolettas Жыл бұрын
WE HAVE WAITED OUR ENTIRE LIVES FOR THIS 😭😭😭
@nikeak Жыл бұрын
YES WE DID!
@x9x9690 Жыл бұрын
Whoever writing the captions on this jawn, put the n-word at 8:23 with the hard 'er' when it's suppose to be with an 'a'. Kinda weird. 🤨🤔 Update : They fixed it to "N*gga" now. Thanks Cut for actually taking action.
@ultraviolettas Жыл бұрын
@@x9x9690 wtf 🤨
@haleymendez3771 Жыл бұрын
i knowww
@carljohnson1106 Жыл бұрын
I'm with on that one Sis🙆🏿♂️🙆🏿♂️
@bklynkat23 Жыл бұрын
I've been dying for follow-ups but never in a million years would have thought to use Truth or Drink as the way to do it. Genius!!!!
@deshonelynch2299 Жыл бұрын
Vee's energy felt so weird. I dont understand how you can get upset at someone for having boundaries. Whether they explicitly say it or not, you gotta read that body language and be fine with the fact that they dont want to be touched. Just because someone says yes to hand holding does not mean they are ok with other physical interaction. It's not that hard folks.
@doodooman2957 Жыл бұрын
seemed more upset at the disrespect and being passive aggressive about it she straight up belittled her financial status and indirectly said she is uglier vee was just a lot more direct
@ryansims8804 Жыл бұрын
i know ari couldn’t WAIT to get away from the lady.
@rebeccasykes3862 Жыл бұрын
I'm sorry but if Vee was a man complaining about a girl not wanting to be physical after ONE DATE, all hell would break loose
@Raddiebaddie Жыл бұрын
I mean have you read these comments they’re very much not in favor of her
@jadesanni91579 ай бұрын
@@Raddiebaddieyeah, idk what they’re talking about
@courtney7264 Жыл бұрын
this video feels like putting the last puzzle piece in a puzzle and we thank you
@whatever1want974 Жыл бұрын
Anyone else feeling second hand embarrassment watching the lesbians 😬. That was painful to watch
@MsMizz1 Жыл бұрын
So hard. I was cringing so hard I started to clench 😩 and had to pause.
@bklynkat23 Жыл бұрын
And I was rooting for Vee hardcore in the original video. So this was a little sad to see
@yasmineali8043 Жыл бұрын
Vee was so aggressive 💀 bro turned every answer from Ari into a negative thing
@cookiesnow6726 Жыл бұрын
I’m glad other people felt the same way! I was like miss thing just let the lady speak and stop taking it so personally! Vee was aggressive.
@nonsuch3302 Жыл бұрын
i knew from Aris body language from the episode it wasnt gonna work out
@carolraydan9849 Жыл бұрын
the lesbian couple fr, the masculine representing one, seems to have a shit ton of insecurities they just projected onto her...that was actually embarrassing
@joshuam4880 Жыл бұрын
I think some of that is true, but also I think a lot of her points are pretty reasonable. Like being able to hold hands in public, the girl on the right getting really uncomfortable when she put her arm around her. I don't blame her for feeling insecure when girl on the right isn't reciprocating signs of love, or when she brings up money. The relationship won't work because the girl on the left can't meet the expectations of the girl on the right.
@angapleee Жыл бұрын
i’m sorry but the feminine one does NOT like her
@MHDbeauty Жыл бұрын
But on the first (real) date? That's also a no from me, on the holding hands and having your arm around me!@@joshuam4880
@saphira122mimi Жыл бұрын
@@joshuam4880 honestly i think she was just being too pushy with stuff. They had just meet at that time. I think is completely normal to not want to hold hands and putting other person arm around you. Even if i'd like the person, i would think that it was too much too fast and feel unconfortable. I agree that the money thing may come off judgemental to Vee, and i can see how that can hurt someone, but on the other hand - the way you spend your money can be a big issue in a relationship down the line if you dont agree in financially choices. Overall i dont think it was going to work
@camilla757 Жыл бұрын
@joshuam4880 They hadn't even kissed. It's not common to put your arm around someone you haven't even kissed. That's more of a relationship thing. I think Ari was giving her a chance but ultimately did not feel an attraction. That's part of dating.
@NinaMans Жыл бұрын
dude, the girl in the hat was so pushy! she complained about every little thing the other girl did or said. if someone acts like that in the beginning of a relationship, specially in front of others, i immediately jump to the conclusion that they're gonna get really mean in a long term relationship/behind closed doors
@jennaknight8863 Жыл бұрын
It's pretty sad...
@lolololololollol4793 Жыл бұрын
youre right! this is why you cant ignore red flags in the beginning of the relationship cause itll only get worse
@Ellael98 Жыл бұрын
That was the perfect example of an insecure, anxious attacher and a more stable or a lil avoidant person, maybe… you could see she was a lil turned off by the other girl always double checking if she was attractive etc… if there’s no confidence and you don’t like yourself enough, the other person is always pouring into a glass with a hole.
@kamilatopolska6836 Жыл бұрын
Yeah..... She is toxic af
@scottrogue946 Жыл бұрын
Yes! I always pay attention to how my dates treat others around them especially people who can’t do anything for them. You notice a lot 😮
@ala7829 Жыл бұрын
I like how deja told rico it didnt make her feel good when he sexualised her, more women need to say that
@YuhasLol Жыл бұрын
It was literally the question prompt.
@jacobchris356 Жыл бұрын
I can understand her being mad if the question was. What's your favorite attribute? but it literally said physical no reason to feel sexualized especially when he's being a gentleman and he didn't try to do anything on the first date. She enjoyed the comment at first too, seems like she read too much into it later on
@shaina8947 Жыл бұрын
@@YuhasLol no; the question was about physical attribute, he could have said her smile/face/etc. especially since he said she was beautiful when they first met
@Galaxylion_omega Жыл бұрын
@@jacobchris356no she allowed to feel uncomfortable that the first physical attribute was her ass and not her face. She didn’t seem like she liked it, she seemed like she was smiling out of uncomfortably and I think deja Christain.
@lolololololollol4793 Жыл бұрын
@@jacobchris356thats not being a gentlemen lol
@sid808s Жыл бұрын
Curtis saying “do you know how humiliating it is to not be the thumbnail” LMAOOOO as if he’s not one of the most iconic cut guests
@BillyByeah Жыл бұрын
This dude is so entitled. Why would you want screen time if everyone's gonna hate you ?
@lizzymacgyver Жыл бұрын
Me and my boyfriend both bust out laughing at this 😂😂😂😂
@gneesocks Жыл бұрын
the way that he wasn't the thumbnail for this video... i laughed
@jadesanni91579 ай бұрын
@@BillyByeahwe love curtis over here
@tygarspace1754 Жыл бұрын
I feel like the girl with the hat in the lesbian couple was just so insecure and disappointed. I didn't like the way she talked to the other girl, not letting her talk and just assuming things, including her being more "straight"
@Flowbeast Жыл бұрын
Insecure and kinda controlling imo I ain't gon lie. Like the type of person to force a love language on someone or to deform what the other person say to only understand what she want to understand and use words to her advantage
@Dontrolling Жыл бұрын
What she said literally made no sense too, how can someone being uncomfortable with physical touch be “straight vibes”. I’m straight and still don’t understand what that even meant. What does not liking PDA have to do with sexual orientation? I understand the other woman because if I’m just getting to know you I don’t want to be touched. Bucket hat is insecure and it was revealed in every reaction and question she had about herself. Even with a straight answer she couldn’t accept the response. I think the other woman gave great feedback and was very nice about all of it. Kinda just makes it understandable why it didn’t work.
@_Sabrina999 Жыл бұрын
Yeah the one in the flower shirt was sooo uncomfortable with hat lady! Didn’t want any physical contact on the first date and hat lady gets mad? I’d run from her. Edit: I spelled it flour shirt oops
@tygarspace1754 Жыл бұрын
@@Flowbeast yes! I think she wanted to be worshipped and get her ego up instead of really being vulnerable and honest with each other
@tygarspace1754 Жыл бұрын
@@Dontrolling yes! She was just pushing her opinion that the other lady wasn't that into her but I agree that you don't have to throw yourself at each other on the FIRST date...
@kallmefunny7291 Жыл бұрын
If they’re doing this.. Then they need to bring back that guy that pushed the button on Coach twice.. Cannot remember his name but he said it was too good to be true and didn’t like being called toxic.
@bklynkat23 Жыл бұрын
Yes!!!!! Omg.... I can't remember his name either but definitely needs to come back
@MsMizz1 Жыл бұрын
That would be good match !!
@thatssojojo Жыл бұрын
his name was “Saint”.
@t.lockheart8565 Жыл бұрын
Yes I think about that episode every time I see a button video
@karaisverycool9423 Жыл бұрын
girl in the hat seems toxic as hell
@koolerman4443 Жыл бұрын
Agreed, she needs to not get mad at her date cuz she expects her partners to not be broke?😂. Sitting there saying 'But you don't even know me!' 🤦♂. No way should she feel pressured to lower her standards, esp with finances. Don't be so bitter, and get your money 👆 👆 How you want to date someone and not have your life together 😂😂 I'm glad she didn't back down cuz that bucket head chic was working my nerves.
@tejufreeman2473 Жыл бұрын
I can see what she was saying about Ari’s answers to questions. She beats around the bush A LOTTTT or gives long winded answers for yes-or-no questions which can get frustrating when coversing with someone, so I don’t blame her for the way she expressed her frustrations. On the other hand I don’t blame Ari for wanting someone more stable financial wise. It’s completely ok to have a financial standard.
@robert7567 Жыл бұрын
I like the way she responds. For me, it’s her process. Otherwise, it feels Ari is being pressured to answer the way someone else wants her to. Perhaps her partner should be more patient and understanding. Seems selfish imo
@nala6846 Жыл бұрын
I get that about Ari answering questions BUT I feel like maybe she just got tired from always having to validate the girl in the hat's emotions all the time. She seemed mad insecure and needy ngl 🤷♀Either way clearly they weren't a good match.
@artemuliashkevych7892 Жыл бұрын
She would be an excellent choice for president
@tofuwiener Жыл бұрын
@@artemuliashkevych7892 she does kind of talk like a government official lol
@Francisca-wq4ei Жыл бұрын
It's literally not beating around the bush, she barely gets to finish a sentence ☠️
@Phoca_Vitulina Жыл бұрын
So glad for the update! Also Ari super reminded me of myself, being calm and careful not to offend the other person and giving the answers I could give without lying, but also being kind. Vee was being really immature and taking every comment Ari said, and twisting it to fit her narrative. I hope Ari finds that other mature person in her life
@juanmacias5922 Жыл бұрын
Bruh, like I knew Curtis was serious about the ranch lube story, but hearing it again just confirms it's validity. LMFAO xD
@bklynkat23 Жыл бұрын
I know right!!! I'm like oh my God not the ranch story again 🤣
@unclecondog9807 Жыл бұрын
That is actually disgusting
@MsDudette21 Жыл бұрын
thats crazy cuz u rly dont want food in your uretha
@sandirr9955 Жыл бұрын
@@MsDudette21 using ranch as lube and doing it raw is crazy dude...
@BH-2023 Жыл бұрын
Low-key, bucket hat girl be mad toxic and insecure
@oliviam41349 ай бұрын
high-key
@wariocheats9701 Жыл бұрын
Deja is the finest person to come on this channel. I remember her from the button.
@roland1655 Жыл бұрын
Nah Anita is the finest one
@wariocheats9701 Жыл бұрын
@@roland1655 idk who that is. But she has to be special. Because deja has the prettiest face ever
@roland1655 Жыл бұрын
@@wariocheats9701 she’s on the button and on cuts video from yesterday
@wariocheats9701 Жыл бұрын
@@roland1655 ok just saw her. She’s gorgeous. My heart melts for Deja tho. But aye can’t go wrong. 2 beautiful women
@keys2467 Жыл бұрын
Nah
@mbongenimabaso9795 Жыл бұрын
i don't know why i was expecting people to be in love
@natpurser9251 Жыл бұрын
the lesbian in the hat saying the other woman had “straight vibes” because she didn’t seem to reciprocate romantically is very 🚩 🚩🚩
@dudeorduuude52117 ай бұрын
Ya. She made it the other woman's fault that she was too aggressive, didn't want to kiss her or be touched, or that she was broke. Hat lady, that is your fault, and that lady doesn't like your methods, you are too aggressive and insecure!
@fire.tender4 ай бұрын
Thank you! That frustrated me so much. As a queer person, I really don't like sexual aggressiveness from other queer people (or from anyone), but I feel like some queer folks expect this high level of sexual energy and physical connection right off the bat. The idea that someone being more reserved or less touchy feely makes them less queer is just gross. "If you're really a lesbian, you should want to be intimate with ME" is no better than a man accusing a woman of being a lesbian for not wanting to fuck him.
@leeloodallas959 Жыл бұрын
Bucket Hat Lesbian was sooooo insecure and desperate. Like girl calm the f*** down lol. She didn’t even let the other girl talk and would create a conflict out of everything. No wonder it didn’t work.
@claff4573 Жыл бұрын
She deserves someone who cares more about her than her body. She seems sweet
@Ivyana2015 Жыл бұрын
I think giving compliments is his love language. I feel that he had pure intentions
@Tyrone-v2r Жыл бұрын
He was literally asked her most attractive feature and 99.99% of the time that's referring to someone's physical features. If it was what TRAIT he found most attractive that would be something completely different.
@YuhasLol Жыл бұрын
It's wild how y'all make an entire assumption based on 1 prompt. It's more like HE deserves someone better that will reply back to messages and not post on social media while leaving him on read (which is disrespectful AF)
@KL-Lady Жыл бұрын
Fax
@essenceofsoul27 Жыл бұрын
Technically, they asked for his favorite attribute, not feature, so it didn't have to be something physical. She was disappointed because that's what his mind immediately went to even after speaking with her a few times and getting to know her. @@Tyrone-v2r
@leniisoriano Жыл бұрын
Vee was very aggressive. Ari is so patient i would’ve left 😂
@Jennifer-gk5pk Жыл бұрын
Ari and Deja, please stick to your boundaries and don't let anyone try to negotiate them no matter how much gaslighting they do
@MHDbeauty Жыл бұрын
I feel like someone might let Cody have fun again with this one!
@Thehealthycreative_ Жыл бұрын
I’ll be damned if anybody lets Mr. Cody Ko have fun again…
@dxzwq6365 Жыл бұрын
LMAO
@eglop5841 Жыл бұрын
Not too much fun
@kaywee4200 Жыл бұрын
Surprised he didnt
@lucwijngaard8413 Жыл бұрын
Daizha might have been the best combination of looks and personality to ever be on the button and I was so hyped for Rico when he matched with her, hoped they had 20 grandkids by now
@ImRicoSuaveJr Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 we’ll be good friends of supporting each other on chasing our dreams as she’s an artist and I’m a photographer. Hoping the best for her as she’s really talented making music!
@primeservers356 Жыл бұрын
@@ImRicoSuaveJr Respectable man, keep that mindset about women and don't worry too much about finding love cause love finds you. Happy Holidays!
@gammafrost Жыл бұрын
I’m so happy Daysia came back 😂😂😂😂. She was super chill and obviously fine as hell. I’m kinda disappointed they didn’t really vibe after that after the second date.
@ImRicoSuaveJr Жыл бұрын
Thank y’all for having Daizha & I! 🙏🏾 It’s a blessing to be in these kinds of videos.
@shithappens420right Жыл бұрын
Can I ask what did you learn from this? And how did you take the sexualized comment that she expressed?
@ImRicoSuaveJr Жыл бұрын
@@shithappens420rightI took what she said as like I’m getting to know her still. As she didn’t like the comment I made about it, I’ll know for next time if I do see her again or something, not to say it. Cause now I know how it will make her feel. It was my third time seeing her & I didn’t get to know her as much. Now I know 😁😂 She’s a blessing
@easytosing Жыл бұрын
@@ImRicoSuaveJr could we have her Instagram ? She’s so pretty
@rockssocks201 Жыл бұрын
You are sooo handsome
@autumnmichaela1655 Жыл бұрын
Are you still shooting your shot or do you think it’s only meant to be a friendship?
@noura1343 Жыл бұрын
the girl with ari is so insecure she’s making things harder for them both, and ari is indifferent, tough couple
@sanssmash9183 Жыл бұрын
10:50 this whole “yes or no” thing is reminding me a bit too much of my dad. He would always ask questions and when I explained dmg answer - or I guess tried to because he would always cut me off; he would just get passive aggressive and say “I’m asking for a simple answer, is that too much for you?” Yes, when you talk over me and sound stressed out it is. And as someone who always explains things, and sometimes uses an explanation as an answer; it felt like I couldn’t say anything.
@Roni2013 Жыл бұрын
Oh noooooooo, my heart dropped when she said I'm not gone argue with you 💔💔💔
@tonitone666 Жыл бұрын
Me too but i know why she said that, she wasn’t being listened to
@Chocol8tte Жыл бұрын
I think it's possible and plausible for BOTH individuals in the lesbian couple to be justified in how they're feeling. Vee (hat) was overly excited to be with her from the jump but Ari really should've pushed that button. She wasn't feeling her but the pressures of everyone else cheering them on got to her. I think Vee got frustrated by the mixed signals and of course something as sensitive as finances would make anyone feel insecure. Long story short Ari should've kept it real from the jump and they wouldn't be here and Vee should learn to take hints
@piecebypiece2028 Жыл бұрын
Naw Ari is fine. Vee needs to work through her insecurities.
@goodmiusic3584 Жыл бұрын
Maybe Ari wanted to give it a shot and see how Vee actually was as a person before fully saying no. And when she saw how "needy" (for lack of a better word) Vee was she got the ick or really got disinterested in exploring more. Cause if someone is constantly overanalyzing everything you say and taking it the most negative way, and interrupting you, feeling entitled to touch you or display pda on the first date (when you told physical touch isn't really your thing), it can quickly make you lose any kind of interest. i don't you should blame her giving it a chance
@hersoulMusic Жыл бұрын
I think that vee telling her to give straightforward answers was coo. It's something the other girl could likely benefit from, but also vee gotta see that she was turning everything negative by reading into it. It showed us that she may read into things cause she actually believes the lies about herself
@8beautylover8 Жыл бұрын
nah she gives she'd become emotionally abusive with all her insecurities. she needs to seriously work on herself before dating with intention again.
@randomuser3441 Жыл бұрын
Nah not rlly. Ari was feeling her at first. But Vee’s actions on the first date and in this episode turned her off completely. It’s clear as day Vee has some issues. Ari isn’t at fault at all.
@Para__Noia Жыл бұрын
Vee, I would say that I feel most of the things that you speak out. But I also feel that you are pressuring her with the way you talk and think about things. Not what you do/say but the way you do so. She seems to be unsure what time of behaviour and speech you expect or would like to see/hear.
@MsMizz1 Жыл бұрын
This is what kind truth looks like ❤
@madhatterx3 Жыл бұрын
Ari ran for hills for good reason 😂 good for her. Her ex was mad insecure. Like how are u going to blame ari for not wanting to sexually advance immediate upon encounter and not wanting to be with a financially unstable person.
@dogaaki9311 Жыл бұрын
that person with the bucket hat is pushing poor ari way too far. seems like ari is a people pleaser but some day the knife's gonna hit the bone.
@maddyr5551 Жыл бұрын
Ari has her standards/boundaries, Vee might not quite meet them and unfortunately instead of being okay and moving on she’s fighting her at every chance 💀
@goodmangammering Жыл бұрын
You can’t just put the clip of him saying that he was outta line and used hidden valet ranch like that. I spit my water at the screen 😂 WHO DOES THAT?
@fey9915 Жыл бұрын
Watch video they posted just before that 🤣
@lichi1244eva Жыл бұрын
OHMIGOODNESS 😳 hell nawwww
@vxbee7424 Жыл бұрын
HE HAD TO BE JOKING BC AINT NO WAY
@ovanertega Жыл бұрын
Can’t wait for Cody to see this one
@Noah_Banyas Жыл бұрын
The majority of the relationships in the video were clear cut cases of one person accepting the date but not feeling super strong feelings towards the other person. this was so obvious with the lesbian couple. The girl who didn’t like touching her ex partner was 100% obviously on the fence, and was not 100% committed. I’ve been on both sides of this, and I saw it right away. Also I feel like the straight couples chemistery was slightly off. I think the dude was slightly more into her physically rather than emotionally (which is not by any means a bad thing), and the the girl didn’t really like that.
@purpledefaultpfp6233 Жыл бұрын
nah, honestly I don't think it's that. The questions they gave the dude were regarding physical appearance. This dude seemed to show interest in her and made an effort to connect with her and didn't even pursue any physical intimacy. He even said it him self "I wouldn't fuck a random" this guy isn't purely in it for the physicality of a girl. but then again thats just my perspective
@SarcasticaleeXP Жыл бұрын
I can tell the lesbian with the glasses feels inferior to the other one and desperately wants acceptance. She's just doing it so wrong and being so selfish, respect the woman that you are dating, her boundaries, she's trying to be respectful to you, please you and you still get upset cause she's not doing it how you would want. I assure you you are not doing it the way she wants but at least she's being respectful.
@ol1603 Жыл бұрын
man I really love how cut actually reads the comments and gives the people what they want
@ImRicoSuaveJr Жыл бұрын
I also like to say this. This part is just something that’s been on my mind lately while I’m liking & going through all the comments. I’m going to start there…in the last video as y’all could see I was liking all the comments where it was a few positive comments of myself, a good amount of Daizha & I, and mostly a lot of hate comments about myself. There was comments about where people were saying “I bet Rico is fucking” blah blah blah, that I was liking but didn’t need to comment about, but liking could give an answer as well, so it’s 50/50 on how people take it when I do that when I’m trying to realize everything. It makes them assume. Personally me, I’m not finna respond to that on the internet, the whole world don’t need to know. But now y’all know. I rather keep those things to myself & the other person privacy. I personally thought it was funny how they would just say that cause I wasn’t on “The Button” for lust or just to fuck. I was there for love but you only see one side of things when things are being edited. So I’m being called a fuckboy, a hoe, and all these other names when those names don’t got anything to do with me. I had people come up to me while I was at the gym, getting food or wherever I was at asking me if I fucked & etc., its weird to be asking first off, but I found that uncomfortable for myself cause I don’t be telling people who I fuck & shit, you know? But I told them straight up that I only got her flowers, we out to eat, talked about our lives then afterwards we left & both went home. Nothing more. Of course people were messaging me on my social medias as I gave them the same answer. People saying that I’m weird or I’m wrong for even liking the comments when I was literally liking everybody’s comments what was being said. I responded to the hate & the love comments as much as I could but to something about fucking, I didn’t. No need for a response for that, but like I said, a “like” could give a response. Another thing, I appreciate the people defending me & the people against me. I’m reading all the comments as I like what everybody is saying as I’m taking notes on how everybody could react to things. Some don’t give a fuck & say it’s an only a question while some do care. I’m seeing how everybody thinks, man or woman commenting their opinions. My comment is that, I thought it would be funny to say. it wasn’t right to say. I see all these famous KZbinrs saying it & etc., & I don’t see the woman saying anything about it but just laughing and going along with it. But everybody reacts differently to that so I understand that. Some will find it funny while some won’t. It’s right to speak up about it like how Daizha did when I made that comment. She expressed that, I learned that about her and we moved on from that. But to the famous KZbinrs, nothing happens to them and I thought to myself in that moment “Let me say it” and be like them when I should’ve been myself and commented on something different, you know? I deeply truly appreciate Daizha for letting me know how she felt after I made that comment as I took it as me getting to know her still & understanding that it wasn’t okay to say. Her & I are still friends supporting each other in our business that we’re doing. As y’all could see in the comments. But ending it off, now I’m labeled this or that just because of a comment I made. I’m going about this very professionally as I’m not perfect with what I say or with what I do as I’m still young and learning along the way like everybody else. I appreciate everybody, much love to all y’all. I’m still reading through the love & hate comments. 😂❤️ Things like this happens & we learn. I feel like I’m back defending myself again like how I was on the first video explaining to people about myself on how I’m not like that. But who knows if they care what I say after seeing a video of me for a couple minutes.
@rainbowsunshine69 Жыл бұрын
Finally the follow ups we needed !!!! ❤❤❤ thank you!!!!!
@marksilla8276 Жыл бұрын
seeing the nature of the questions i get the sense that some couples might have made it and im definitely curious to see who made it.
@siobhanr8192 Жыл бұрын
bucket hat needs therapy fr her entire energy and how shes treating the other person and responding is soooooo weird
@Yes-dy3nx11 ай бұрын
not the producer saying “well maybe let her talk and say” YES QUEEN go off abt it
@hhrq._.q Жыл бұрын
Oh Cody is gonna LOVE reacting to this one!
@57goku Жыл бұрын
Vee doesn’t have the patience to listen to what Ari is saying let alone allow a relationship to develop. She’s saying Ari is confusing bc she doesn’t want to understand her.
@jordanbalinton0907 Жыл бұрын
yall need to bring back Durange pitt and his family i loved the videos with them. “sorry if i spelled his name wrong😅”
@nala6846 Жыл бұрын
fr!!! he was one of the OGs
@K.YouTube2 Жыл бұрын
Durranged. And yes!
@bklynkat23 Жыл бұрын
Real Talk!!! Throwback right there. True OGs
@davidx.15048 ай бұрын
Goddamn, haven't heard that name in years. Kinda wish cut would bring some OGs back
@Six3SixTay Жыл бұрын
THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT I ASKED FOR!!! Let’s get ittttt!!!!👀🍿
@callunya Жыл бұрын
This is exactly what we needed thank you! ❤
@bb-ss2ip Жыл бұрын
the stud had some grievances to air lol
@marrychrismas5993 Жыл бұрын
1. What is the ratio of lasting relationships after The Button? 2. Has there been a couple that started a family/marriage after The Button?
@natasharules6737 Жыл бұрын
I feel like button is too recent for number 2
@Angel_nlmb420 Жыл бұрын
YOOOOOO FINALLY CUT IS PUTTING OUT QUALITY CONTENT
@irene7338 Жыл бұрын
The woman on the left gave me kinda bad vibes... Not sure how to explain it
@lisagriffin8221 Жыл бұрын
Cut listens to their audience and I love that for us 🥹
@mrfoxx6632 Жыл бұрын
Deja is perfect! 😍 I would keep her smiling ear to ear just to see that beautiful smile!
@xivonochabalala Жыл бұрын
one thing about CUT, they'll always listen to our requests!
@MizzBrownEyez1988 Жыл бұрын
The ending was not expected at all! Not Hidden Valley Ranch replacing the lube. Me and dude had the exact same reaction. 😩😳
@lesliejames3949 Жыл бұрын
Yall saying the girl in the hat was aggressive... look at the way the other girl couldnt even look her in the eye everytime she answered a question. she did not like her like that but she was def trying to make it work. girl in the hat was just frustrated by her not giving a direct answer!!
@eliza299 Жыл бұрын
This was such an insightful and real video!! Props to everyone who opened up there, it's not easy
@ccarla7 Жыл бұрын
I get Vee’s frustration with not getting straight answers, but i feel like the vibes Ari is giving are loud …she doesn’t hate Ari but she fosho wouldn’t date her bc of how she reacts to things she thinks are no big deal.
@tamiaedrington5762 Жыл бұрын
I dated a girl kinda like the girl in the hat and all I can say is Vee made the right call, RUN 😂 that behavior only gets worse and makes it harder to get away from them later. She seems like an emotional bully
@felisha2095 ай бұрын
Yep
@SojuGurlie Жыл бұрын
The first time they all met it was nice but this rlly shows that once u get to rlly know someone sometimes it just doesn’t work out like that 🤡
@zoiebates7074 Жыл бұрын
I've been waiting for The Button follow ups for soooooo long. So happy you guys did this!
@neuroisis85 Жыл бұрын
Yes...yes yes yes. Bring more of them. Bad dates or good. Y'all gotta keep us up about about those dates!
@terrencejones6337 Жыл бұрын
Finally I’ve been wondering how it goes after the button lol
@jan_barba Жыл бұрын
Cody ko finna go crazy w this one
@probablywhy Жыл бұрын
5 minutes in and i already want more episodes!!!
@RacingPepe Жыл бұрын
Curtis and Ari were my favorite people in this video. Ari, you deserve so much better. You are beautiful and very articulate, intelligant woman. The way Vee took all your words and made them to be something offensive or rude was very frustrating to watch.
@gav1natorhd Жыл бұрын
Cody gonna love this
@Terky.Jerky.9 ай бұрын
Vee is legit killing me here. Ari wasn’t communicating because vee wasn’t letting her. She got shut down any time she tried to say something. She was very patient and didn’t engage with Vee when she was throwing pittie parties. It’s not Ari’s fault that Vee is insecure about her finances.
@michaelpoublon9707 Жыл бұрын
11:15 "OO! There was a spark!" Love this guy
@LealValker Жыл бұрын
Vee is an anxious attachment person I feel, she has a lot of bad vibes, clearly shes traumatized and is mad literally about every detail
@tottfruit6162 Жыл бұрын
The lesbians, the bigger girl definitely doesn’t like her as much and they know it (even since the button video she was pressured into it and liked the attention , but good for them to talk and let it all out wish them the best❤
@MsMizz1 Жыл бұрын
I am cringing so hard at Vee but I empathize with them both. It’s quite obvious they’re not compatible and sis is ever so gently rejecting the romantic connection with Vee. ❤️ I’m curious bout their signs 👀
@thekidd7 Жыл бұрын
'You made me feel like I'm a broke ass nigga!' 🤣🤣🤣 My G, we all been there, keep pushin!
@emcheesy Жыл бұрын
vee damn near harassing ari lol i would be so uncomfortable.
@jonosono Жыл бұрын
8:00 It feels so twisted when people say you don't care about them, when it's them who don't find the time to answer your text, yet find time to be all over social media
@YuhasLol Жыл бұрын
Exactly. Respect goes 2 ways. She didn't respect his time and effort. Posting on social media while someone is waiting for you to reply is disrespectful as hell.
@comeatmebro8120 Жыл бұрын
Did she say he didn’t care about her? Based on the video, it seems like she lost interest in him after the 2nd date
@ravenclawCP Жыл бұрын
Yes, Cut!! I love these follow-ups, please keep them coming.
@hannah-wj7cg Жыл бұрын
the girl with the glasses is so insecure
@DCSceaziest Жыл бұрын
my mans got salty after he was called out for sexualizing her 😭
@chayimclark2270 Жыл бұрын
Because it was messed up lol especially after the question was about physical features. I would’ve left the table lol
@Ketsado Жыл бұрын
@@chayimclark2270bro got set up fr 😂
@thedawnhasbeengreeted3571 Жыл бұрын
@@chayimclark2270there are physical features beyond inherently sexual ones he could’ve mentioned. 🤷♀️
@YuhasLol Жыл бұрын
Not his fault if that's all the chick had to offer. She seemed boring anyway.
@KL-Lady Жыл бұрын
@@YuhasLol???
@gretchman Жыл бұрын
Oh my god, this got me feeling like I'm a couples therapist and am just waiting for a pause to ask a follow up question.
@sirhcization Жыл бұрын
The follow up being a truth or drink??? GENIUS
@liarus Жыл бұрын
8:04 i like these two, the guy is full on honesty, but he knows what he wants and what he likes, they fit together well
@hmansz5985 Жыл бұрын
this was the most entertaining cut video ive ever seen. it was so interesting to see the dynamics of these couples... so many positives and negatives to point out. nice video.
@kaywee4200 Жыл бұрын
Ari is a saint 😭 i hope vee sees her toxic behavioral habits in this bit.
@ruj9821 Жыл бұрын
she was sooo impatient with Deja and felt like some pressure.. when Ari wanted to stay polite and nice.. felt so awkward to watch