we're DONE trying for a baby… *LIFE UPDATE*

[@tonitaylor918]

My husband and me stopped trying after I got tested twice and was told nothing was wrong. Then 4yrs later, a year after we said let’s just go forward with our other plans, I became pregnant. Then nearly a year later, I stood in the ocean for 45mins while on vacation in the Philippines and asked for a second child that would be two years younger than the first. And it happened. My boys are 2yrs, 2 days, 2hrs, and 2 grams apart, but two completely different personalities. They’re awesome!

[@Keto_Noire]

There is something special about praying on the beach. I’m not trying to be funny. I prayed and journaled on the beach for a full afternoon while out of town for work. My entire life was different six months later. God is a wonder 💕

[@CJLopez-]

Wow!

[@PDB2627]

I'm speaking from personal experience. Me and my husband were together 10 yrs. I was diagnosed with PCOS at 21 so I was advised I would have to use medicine to help me when I was ready to start a family. I was honest when I met my spouse and he always said God will make away. Whatever we had to do, he had my back. We always discuss kids and how we want to be parents. Never took medicine but kept the faith, 10 yrs later, I started having heartburn, where I had to get medicine ,which I never experienced. Constipation, I was having light sickness but I thought it was from stress bc I had some things changing in my life at the time. Then I started wanting hot pickles and ice. My husband immediately asked "are you pregnant" and advised me to take a test. Before I could sit the test down it was positive! There was also another surprise but I'm sure this is long enough to read. I just wanted to share my story and hope that anyone who experiences this, may see my story and this can give them encouragement and a reminder to keep your faith and it's always in God hands on his time not our. Stay blessed💜

[@Beonaire]

AMEN

[@marissaj8431]

Twins?

[@marciaburtongordon5028]

@pj2627 we serve a faithful God, without faith it is impossible to please God. God timing and our timing are different. Even when He is four days late, He is still ontime. Hallelujah

[@barbaragibson1964]

@@PDB2627 keeping the faith in this moment as with many beautiful moments…this is a beautiful thing. God provides for those whose faith is filled with love. How He deny such love to be fruitless. That’s why I sing how much I love Him! Many more beautiful moments filled with beautiful blessings. I love you just hearing the love you have in your faith with God. 🎀✝️✝️💤💕👣👣

[@livenowliveright8509]

God is AMAZING!

[@marciaburtongordon5028]

Brent and Mer, dont stress about not having kids, just wait patiently on the Lord, every thing happen the right time. Remember the story of Abraham and Sarai, read Bible stories and see how God works for others, wait on the Lord be of good courage. ❤❤

[@Beonaire]

Mir✌🏿

[@vanessafitzpatrick5635]

Amen

[@ninamuthoni9651]

💯💯 ...may the Lord give them their heart's desires. 😍😍

[@reginagordon4246]

Amen Amen💕💕💕💕💯💯💯

[@forgivebeforeyoupray6053]

God will never fail you guys because you trust him! He knows the perfect timing! I will pray for you guys!

[@RedVelvet714]

Honestly I love how Brent makes Mir laugh….this warms my heart 😊

[@TayCamilla]

sometimes it’s not always the women…….. a man can have issues w reproduction but it’s like everyone skips right over that possibility😢 When I was suffering, I was so stressed & come to find out.. it was actually my husband sperm count. Just make sure both sides are getting checked at the doctor & don’t put the blame automatically on the lady’s womb

[@DG-wr2nm]

Brent and Mir just relax and trust your prayers to God. He's faithful to his children who follows His ways. You two want to move and get settled first. ❤

[@zinzimdiya369]

When you stop trying GOD will start the process….. remember the fruit of the womb is a blessing from GOD . GOD will do it for y’all .

[@reginagordon4246]

This💯💯💯💯💯

[@Sbo_Nokuhle]

Babytime is Gods Time. Let God lead❤❤❤

[@Crystal_Asek]

I love yall….her laugh is so cute :) I’m going through the same thing with fertility but I’ve been married 10 years! Praying for all married couples who are struggling in this issue!❤

[@brentandmir]

Wow thank you for sharing! Just know you’re not alone hun! Praying for you both to conceive soon 🫶🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾❤️

[@Crystal_Asek]

@ thank you all so much 💕💕 same to you all 😍

[@Culture-rn6yd]

Try red clover and wild yam extract. Get organic. ​@@brentandmir

[@Culture-rn6yd]

​@@Crystal_Asek Get organic red clover and wild yam extract. They've worked in extreme cases and mild cases.

[@mandelacolley2892]

Me too, going through it . I am struggling to be strong for myself and my husband. Married for 6 years . Praying and hoping that God bless us all with our own babies inshallah.

[@TiaJoy1372]

Father God may you bless her womb just as you blessed the womb of Sarah and Hannah. Hannah was in so much pain father from wanting a male child and she cried out to you. Lord only you know how these two feel and how bad they want that blessing. Lord bless thier union what you joined together let no man separate. May they become parents and be able to experience the blessing of being a mom and dad in Jesus Christ mighty name of Nazareth hallelujah Amen 😊💛🙏🏾🙌🏾 If you see this read 1 Samuel the whole chapter. Hannah made a promise to God if he blessed her with a male child and the Father gave her exactly what she prayed for. Im just compelled to tell you this. Have a blessed one😊💛🙏🏾🙌🏾

[@euniceolawoyin1041]

As for Hannah the Bible says after pouring her hearts desires to God she felt concerned no more, so my admonition is Brenton and Mirlanda be less anxious ,after having put everything in his hands, He'll surely grant your heart's desires by blessing you with fruits of the womb 🙏

[@GodBroughtUsOut]

I come in agreement with the prayers

[@ImperfectlyNayNay]

Amen Amen Amen!!! 🙏🏽

[@Beonaire]

​@ImperfectlyNayNay Hey NayNay👋🏿

[@ImperfectlyNayNay]

@@Beonaire hey girl hey!

[@Goodisgood324]

I’m 23 and me and my husband have been married for three years and I struggled with infertility the entire time. I thought I had the problem and we went to the doctor and he said both of us are fine. I just found out that I e conceived. Please do not give up, your time will come. Also I realized I had changed my eating habits as a woman. I stopped drinking coffee and started incorporating lots of fruit into my diet, specifically watermelon. I also started prenatals Jan of 2024 and have took it up until October which is when I conceived. And sometimes we do not acknowledge it but it may also be a spiritual matter. For me my sacral was blocked due to years of bullying and self worth, and I spent the entire 2024 meditating and releasing stuck energy. I think that helped me. Everybody is different, these are the tips that worked for me.

[@brentandmir]

Wow, congratulations!! Thank you for sharing your story, it’s so inspiring! 💕

[@Goodisgood324]

@ thank you so much ❤️. Your time will come soon!!

[@chrisania726]

Married couples seem to always have to try and that’s sad ..❤❤much love

[@AmasAuthenticJourney]

That because of all the anticonception that women use alll these years. I'ts been messing with our hormones.

[@ninamuthoni9651]

I've seen this A LOT especially on social media. We need to RELY on God's faithfulness through and through in ALL things

[@TricieeNicole]

When you want to do it the right way, it becomes an spiritual attack for married couples.... God is faithful and it will happen at the right time for all who desires to conceive.😇🙏🏽

[@Ncognito579]

@@TricieeNicole This is definitely something to consider . Great comment I’m struggling as well

[@blackqueen7147]

I’m married 20 yrs and my husband and I have a one yr old! Take the pressure off! It will happen in Gods will! ❤

[@tabbyb3514]

🙏🏿❤️🙌🏿

[@OGPeach75]

I was in the same boat as you guys and the minute I stop focusing on trying for a baby and my failed IVF attempt, I got pregnant within 10 months without any issues or medical interventions. Continue to be patient and things will happen at the right time!

[@kaibethcruz-philippe9592]

If you look at your cycle, a female really only has a handful of days when your chances of conception are highest...its not as easy as you think. I would recommend getting on pre-natals (the ones from your doctor), it helps with the folic acid...at least thats what doc said and it totally helped with both pregnancies.

[@JustFine1.]

It is not annoying when you give us a close-up of the food, Mir!!!💯 Keep doing it!!.... I be like, let me see🤤🤗🙏

[@joycelockett7032]

When Brenton said he was too old to argue and fight, I hollered! (Mir, Moscato d'Asti is the best!!)

[@Navlany17]

Hi, I happened to see your channel on my feed. This must be sign, myself and my spouse had tried to conceive for 9 years. I recalled telling myself I was done trying let me focus on me and I wanted to do! At first, I was craving weird foods I knew I would never enjoy but that always happened when my cycle was on. The day before I found out I was pregnant I was at the gym feeling exhausted in the middle of my workout. The next day, I had major migraines I told my spouse I would go to the urgent care. Lord and behold to found out I was pregnant gaved me the shock of my life. Moral of this, wait on God’s timing it’s the “PERFECT PLAN”

[@tabbyb3514]

❤🙏🏿

[@barbaragibson1964]

Love you guys. Beautiful Blessings upon you both. It is a good thing you got to know each other before marriage. Although I am a pastor and definitely believe purity while dating is the best way. However, I am also a realist. My husband and I started dating when I was graduating from middle school. He was already in HS. It was pure and dedication that kept us all the way through college. Married 51 years and dated 8 pure years. Only death separated us. I will always love him and remain his until the day I pass on. The words until death do us part has no bearing after your love has endured and embraced all that life can send your way. Even death. I’m lonely without him, but my memories keeps me going.

[@KJ-ro4ri]

Preach, sis! I'm proud of you because I know it's never easy being vulnerable, especially during trials and tribulations. " And this to Shall pass" 😇🙏🏼💗

[@dennajones6250]

The baby is gonna come when you both are least expected

[@mandak4884]

The only thing you should try for is happiness within yourselves and with each other

[@red143rene]

I'm glad y'all don't take it offensively when people ask about y'all having kids. Especially folks on your channel, as we do mean well. Praying along with y'all for your baby to come soon.😊

[@TheEsotericChild_]

It’ll happen when you least expect it, just continue to be good to one another and it will all fall in place

[@megand8022]

It’s nice that you guys have shared your story with us. I see so many comments with a lot of testimonies from your fans who can relate. I have heard stories of couples who had trouble conceiving, adopted, then got pregnant. Sometimes, they stop trying for a baby and then get pregnant. It seems that some times, once the pressure is removed, the baby comes. I believe you two will make wonderful parents. I look forward to seeing you grow.

[@brianatasheka]

The devil hates marriages and the blessings from God. Definitely reas the word of God and pray according to that!

[@sheshell8165]

Y'all are so cute. Brent your comment that y'all are tired of fighting was hilarious .

[@veemack6056]

Dont think about having kids it will happened when it's your time.Stay Blessed

[@CreativepreneurJourney]

I do not want you guys to stress about children at all. I hate that people ask you guys about kids. I know it’s a very sensitive thing to talk about.

[@OMGShySweet]

Yall Will Get That Blessing When You Least expect It GOD does Things In A Way That We Cant Describe

[@KD-xj2kw]

God's timing is always the perfect timing 🙏🏾

[@trinam383]

I am glad you are enjoying your transition to Dallas and I hope you are pregnant soon! I used the ovulation calculator and it worked for us my first time! Keep that in mind and keep praying 🙏

[@DG-wr2nm]

You're right not to stay in a HOA. You have to get permission to change the color of the house and build anything outside the house . Parking rules even changing a flat tire in your driveway. Not withstanding if you have a neighbor who may not like you. They will give you trouble with the board. Nosey people are very vindictive, which will cost you money, time and frustration.

[@celesteredding1550]

For the most parts, you're right and there's alot more.

[@Beonaire]

Yes, it's much better if you can find a house y'all really like that doesn't have ANY HOA's @ all.

[@damarisrowe9274]

Don’t stress over it, because it puts stress on your body. Enjoy each other❤

[@sylverg8341]

Please build in your own property!☮️💜

[@ib8523]

God is faithful❤️

[@spicykennag]

❤️ Miranda's lil giggles ..loved the suspect challenge...subscribed

[@patriciasmith5082]

You guys are so cute together enjoy each other you don’t have to rush and have kids enjoy your life together and having a baby will happen when you are not even thinking about it but enjoy each other have fun enjoy life first

[@MzLuvLeigh]

Im from Dallas but recently moved to Atlanta so I understand the adjusting blues!! However, Dallas is an amazing city! Corporate during the week and the turn up is amazing on the weekends! I don't really turn up in my big age now, but Dallas offers everything! So excited for your new journey! ❤

[@QueenPeachCobbler]

Don't give up! If you haven't already, you should visit Clear Sky Resorts and please do a video! It's so dreamy.

[@malwandemkhize]

The baby is coming ipromise🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤

[@eveapetor3932]

I think its April born things, we find it difficult to say no, given out our last shirt, money etc; And Brent is right, you don’t know if the person you are helping today will be able to help when you you need it too.

[@Lilkp022]

This was such a great life update!! ❤❤❤

[@brentandmir]

Thank you so much!! I'm so glad you enjoyed it! 🙏🏾

[@kortinanorwood812]

Love you both! Your energy is amazing ❤

[@EstrellaMartinez-ow4wd]

12:15 for baby information!

[@elizabethruth9796]

God will make it happen at he right time. it is well with you both

[@TheKiwiKlick]

Awwh yall are so cute ❤🙏🏽blessings

[@Showtime_BJ]

Boston gang finally I met someone that’s actually came from Boston. We miss you guys out here in Boston but Boston love yall and miss you

[@MissGloria]

Always loving watching you guys 😍 we pray for you guys

[@jaleesagibson4454]

Omg yes thats my favorite...Moscato Di'asti❤🙌🏾 and stella berry..wishing you guys luck with baby!!

[@fifs4sa]

Watch God step in😊, when you come to the end of yourself(end of doing it in your own strength that is), He always steps in. 😊

[@nubianqueenb]

Hey cousins glad to hear the life updates. Moscato definitely is tasty Mir. I love me some sweet wines too hunny bunny!!🐰 😁 as far as fertility goes God has the final say! Just keep living your BEST life with your hubby! Naturally let things flow is always BETTER love!

[@brentandmir]

I love you guys! 🙏🏾 I appreciate the support and sweet words. 💕

[@nubianqueenb]

@ your SO welcome 🤗

[@selahtv4668]

May God gives you your bundle of joy soon 🙏🙏

[@cierrapennant18]

I was diagnosed with PCOS very young. Told I couldn’t have kids. I went to a fertility doctor and she said stop having segg all the time. It lowers a man’s sperm count. We got pregnant the next month after being together for 5 years.

[@ericalawrence1548]

Put It All In God's Hand and Wait Patiently. Trust and With Anticipation For The Blessing To Come. ❤❤

[@inspiringyoutobecompletely9948]

Love the support from each other ❤😊

[@nickysunshine8734]

Definitely staying away from HOA…the fees are always going Up! Not interested! I don’t want to deal with all the rules! God willing want to buy a house end of 2025 or beginning of 2026. We are just continuing to save!!! These home prices right now in my area is CRAZY 😅

[@shervondavid6882]

Brent is so funny. “ we just tired”🤣🤣🤣

[@mee4084]

I had missed you, I was here looking for your videos ❤

[@sevenstar-ol3tt]

Blessings to you both. 😇😇😇

[@avenabolarinwa4126]

Now we tired🤣🤣🤣🤣💀to funny !!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾❤️❤️❤️

[@beet3469]

What good Cousin! Girl, I will never be mad you showing me my best food in life aka Seafood! Just because of this video now I want some seafood.😂. By the way Brenton reminds me so much of my hubby. Straight forward and to the point guy, calm, very kind and hard working. Have a good weekend guys and enjoy your meal. Love from ATL.

[@Casher2u]

19:24 that’s my favorite wine too!!! it’s sooo good!!

[@brentandmir]

Omg I’m glad I’m not the only one 🤣🙌🏾 I thought I was childish for loving moscato so much 🤣

[@Casher2u]

@@brentandmir well we are childish together😂😂- cheers 🥂✨

[@jennifermayo1872]

My favorite cuzn. So luvn you guys.

[@TheEsterp5776]

I wish you guys the best. Me and my husband been trying for years still no baby it’s put me through a depression state and I’m working on getting out of it taking care of myself and working out and talking about it helps a lot. I’m 39 and I kind of gave up on trying to conceive but so many people still say I have time but I just don’t want to be depressed again. So I just don’t even think about it anymore.

[@audreymitchelljones7688]

Mir and Brent in God's time he will bless you two with a child(ren) enjoy your time with each other. pray over it, and watch God work on your behalf because you two are great people and will be great parents...

[@iaaniceboywat]

I still can’t believe mir is 5’2 she appears so tall

[@sesiemartin6970]

Very soon, you'll come back with your own testimony. Just stop trying and enjoy each other's company, pray, and leave it in God's hands. You'll see how He'll work in your favor. Sometimes, we see things online or see our friends achieving something and ask God, "When will it be my turn?" Give him time. Be patient, cause it will come when you least expect it. I love you guys so much. Much love from Namibia 🇳🇦 ( Africa)

[@auzij4949]

I went to sign up for tennis 🎾 lessons near Rockwall TX. When I got there, they were having a pickleball tournament. That place was PACKED!!

[@bringingshameback]

Your baby is coming.. have you tried a med like ozempic. It helps with pcos too

[@ImperfectlyNayNay]

Heavy on the moscato d’asti 😍😍😍

[@brentandmir]

The best 🙌🏾🤣

[@iniekpo1934]

Yeah don’t think about it . Once yall just be going on your everyday life, trust me the pregnancy will come. Don’t try cuz it won’t work and stressing about it will prevent you from becoming pregnant. Especially for Mirlanda. No stress, eat well, exercise and be happy then pregnancy will come.

[@Rymdoor]

Trust in God❤

[@sabrinathomas9065]

Y'all working too hard.. just let it roll. It's that love making and doin the nasty when baby is made 😂😂❤❤

[@brentandmir]

🤣🤣🤣😅🫣

[@gracemufuzi917]

I'm proud of you ❤

[@SandraMonic-tg2tu]

Just trust in God guys ,I remember when I told God I left everything for you 😢I was so stressed but after a month he did it😊so even you trust God dear he will be with you 🙏

[@brentandmir]

Wow I believe that with all my heart 🙏🏾❤️

[@reginamarseille2494]

I am Happy that you are tired of fighting ❤ I am done!

[@QS0924]

😂 @Brent saying he will NOT go to Canada in the "Winter Time" only.

[@RochelleHarrison-i9l]

Hey my favorite married couple on KZbin Brent and mer when the time is right blessing will have your bundle of joy the food you and your husband eating look delicious 😋 😊❤❤

[@TheLuzytube]

Just live your life. I pray that you guys will have more than 2 kids. Amen.

[@lovelymimi3444]

Yes my nursing license 😊

[@keepingitrealwithnaye8782]

Definitely if you are planning to visit Canada come in summer/spring come to Ontario

[@ThereWasABadKittiFromBmore]

Love you guys💖😊

[@Trusthimonly1]

Hello Beautiful couple. Enjoy your marriage and each other. God will bless you with child when it's time...

[@brentandmir]

We appreciate it!🙏🏾❤️

[@degee]

Lol I love you guys .. I am with you guys. People who have kids like myself swears that God gives them as lessons for us to learn how to deal with people. Most days it’s a struggle 😂with grown kids (people )at work and little kids at home . 😂😂😂

[@antionette321]

Try fish egg capsules and Royal jelly (if you’re not allergic to bees). Above all else, keep trusting God’s timing ❤🙏

[@naiaferrell4203]

May Allah bless you guys with a beautiful healthy baby 🤲🏼😊

[@sharvey2662]

Take geritol supplement.There is a baby in every bottle😅

[@Lovely-ladi]

lol yep

[@Beonaire]

Taking Geritol makes you eat like crazy!!!

[@letsgetalkaline]

Trying to have a baby can be difficult. Y’all need to go to the Doctor and make sure everything is okay. Mirlanda get your fallopian tubes checked get your ovaries checked and get your cervical area checked

[@TayCamilla]

This is the issue, sometimes it’s not always the women…….. a man can have issues w reproduction but it’s like everyone skips right over that possibility😢 When I was suffering, I was so stressed & come to find out.. it was actually my husband

[@simitaiwo4798]

What of the husband ?

[@sharonjohnson8645]

In God's Time, family ❤

[@MissGloria]

Yesss come to Canada 🇨🇦 you guys will be welcome :) come to Banff

[@QuickLee-uv1kh]

All the toxic fumes Cheri. Sè ayisyen nou ye, when it comes to hair and nails, we need someone other than ourselves to do it for us or personally, I'll feel like the maid. It does save money, Brent, do KZbin university and get your girl dwat. I fr fr love you guys. It's like watching my favorite cousins.

[@AvenaBolarinwa]

Have yall made sure everything was ok make the doctor appointments for you and hubby, be sure of everything. There has to be a reason why you haven't gotten pregnant.

[@africangoddes2070]

I lived in Dallas for 5 years and I missed the food in Texas

[@KeshaIsAwakened]

Pooh have you heard of “the Alkalinegoddess” teas ?

[@avenabolarinwa4126]

I love the answers given Guys💪🏾👍🏾most definitely yall will be with child soon ❣️👶🏽👶🏼🤩🥰😘❤️

[@georgettacarvin7593]

Mir, you might want to consider getting your feet into Property Management if you haven't already done that

[@brentandmir]

Hmm, never thought of that! 🤔 I loved being a real estate agent 😩

[@taneishabrown5806]

I’m in my 30s & I never wanted kids, because I always see how hard it was for people, I only wanted kids when I met my husband. Thankfully 2 months after dating I got pregnant because I thought I couldn’t have kids, lol….. when you have kids, it’s a whole new phase, life will never be like before. But not thinking about it, definitely helps, careless, lol

[@t.jhunter5613]

Do your research on MACA ROOT for Balance of hormones and helping in conception for the both of you when you are ready no one in the hospitals is going to tell you this but also wild yam is good too. I suggest the MACA ROOT to another married couple that was having trouble and they have a toddler this day Also Greetings to you both I enjoy watching your channel Brent reminds me of my better half that is a Scorpio and to the same looks😂love and light to you both❤

[@WalkingTestimony222]

Now the baby is about to come. God's Time