We're Having Gay Sex w/ Alayna Joy | Episode 71 | Comedy Podcast

Fan Favorite and dear friend of the pod Alayna Joy is back, and the patrons are raving it's one of our best episodes yet. Alayna gets into revisiting things she once tried in bed, but didn't think she liked, and discovers she actually does really enjoy them. Including face-sitting! Ashley has sex with a woman who escaped a cult. Kate thinks the girl she's sleeping with has two cl*ts
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[@samanthamerritt1718]

My favourite t shirt says “heterosexuality is a cult” and my grandpas name is Gordon.

[@bryeanarose5753]

Wait, but share where I can get one?

[@shelbyminer8105]

Long time subscriber of Alayna Joy's youtube channel, saw Ashley Gavin as a guest on one of her videos, started following Ashley, and now here I am watching this video of the two of them together again featuring Kate. This video had me DYING laughing and brought me pure chaotic gay joy. Thank you!! 🌈❤🤪

[@rory9718]

really off topic but at first i read "long time subscriber" as "long time survivor of Alayna Joy-" and it was VERY funny to me

[@katrinaevans5030]

That's exactly how I found her as well! This video is so fun! My new favorite podcast!

[@brrrrrrrrit2663]

Same. These three are A+ entertainment

[@solarkel]

I laughed so much at this episode. Kate fucking rules.

[@laniaini]

Thank you so much Kate for talking about questioning gender and being uncomfortable with all pronouns because same. someone called me Chief the other day, and that's my gender now, you may address me as Chief xD

[@ahoileini8645]

Alayna: I don’t like telling details 😇 Continues telling how she sat on a womans Face + what the bed looked like, what her partner said and what her muskels did after she came 😂 Love it

[@alyssabeaty7144]

Two clits up for Kate! My face hurts from laughing after this one. My grandpa's name was Jack.

[@starsgirly9139]

Yesss, Alayna is back on the pod!! I totally agree, as baby gays or just a simple lesbian wanting to level up, you really do need graphic explanations of how to do these things sometimes. Ash, you could come up with some book reccs and set up a booklist somewhere (notes on the pod? Caption on the youtube vid? Idk haha) :D Keep doing you, these episodes with Kate have been great.

[@starsgirly9139]

To add to this...I don't really have any book reccs for good wlw seggs tips. But, I have heard these 2 recommended (and I haven't read them yet, they're on my list): Come As You Are, and The Ethical Sl*t!

[@aadiverma897]

Don’t we all just want to go on a “Roadtrib” ? Genius hilarious comedy on this channel💯💯💀💀

[@Bella-gq6uy]

ashley: i don’t wanna sound like a douche also ashley: “the pod”

[@lottirokopf4910]

I watched/listened to this while cleaning my apartment and having breakfast and multiple times I almost snorted my coffee all over the place. Thank you so much for cheering me up after an anxiety ridden night, this was great.

[@wolfumz]

Man... can we ever hear more about Ashley's computer scientist days? I'm in school, I'm debating switching majors to comp sci, and I've decided Ashley is the only trustworthy source on this topic.

[@SquidgeTastic]

I honestly have not found something that makes me laugh like this for a very long time. I am so grateful to have found you, and so happy I have more than 70 episodes to catch up on. Also, Kate's hair might be the most amazing hair I've ever seen. loads of love xx

[@liamclarke64]

This episode had me laughing from start to finish. Ashley & Kate, look out, Alayna is going to be doing stand up soon!! You all did AMAZING for us - THANK YOU!!!!!!

[@nightjetts]

I just finished watching a bunch of alayna's videos, and I got a notification for this chaotic masterpiece. 🤣 (My grandfather's name is Ralph Albert the 2nd so deal with that info I guess).

[@KA-bv1wc]

Omg I LOVE KATE!!! The energy of this podcast episode was so hilarious and just what I needed!!

[@1Pineapple]

Same!

[@janehilton6235]

Who’s claiming the THERE’S SO MUCH CLIT HERE merch?

[@hmmcms1]

Whew! People weren't joking when they said this episode was great!!🤣🤣🤣🤣 glad no one in my office asked why I was trying to not laugh obnoxiously loud!

[@astoldbybianx]

Kate is the fuckin best!!!!!!! Kate has to be permanent!!!! Need more of Kate.

[@cheesecakelasagna]

I've literally just discovered this podcast and the people in it. You mean, Kate isn't in every episode??

[@fionatodeschini9512]

Love those graphic episodes ahah. Thanks for opening up and sharing people! Love love

[@HeatherAlecia]

Great chemistry between the three of you. Awesome episode. Definitely a repeat needed. 😁

[@haydeecastillo4621]

💯🔥

[@mckinleyuntamed]

always ready for alayna content

[@nicohobson5251]

Alayna is the best person, honestly

[@hazell1304]

New listener still catching up on the podcasts but had to jump ahead to this one. it's a top tier episode and I adore Kate as the cancel coach! (my grandad's name was Douglass)

[@mk2_Sateka]

This is my first Podcast of you. I came from Alayna's Channel. I honestly have never laughed so much in my whole life PLUS felt comfortable. I am in a fragile state of sexuality-crisis right now. Loving my Boyfriend but also questioning if i am actually a Lesbian. But i felt sooooo safe here and this is just giving me the comfy-est vibes ever. Thank you so much. I am definitely binge-listening/watching your Podcasts tonight.

[@robynweyeneth1531]

How did things turn out for you? Going through this now and also finding comfort here :,)

[@delaneykeller1389]

Alayna had a similar experience. She was engaged to a man and called it off when she realized she was a lesbian and not bi

[@CertifiedPsychiatrist]

"How do you not know that you identity as a man?!" I need an Ashley Gavin in my life. I always second guess myself even though I know I'm male.

[@patriciadawn7657]

“You’re a man” “Total chaos” I laughed so hard at this episode 😂

[@hrobinson028]

Omg one of the best episodes yet! 🤣🤣 “🙀🤲🏽 there’s two clits” 🤣🤣🤣

[@MonicaAtkins]

Lol I need the bingo cards for this pod, I'd win every time

[@goob6764]

I will pay all the monies for the Road Trib Documentary omfg please make it 😂

[@TheresaFisher-o8e]

Kate’s laugh is literally the best it brings me so much joy

[@worksbywatson9004]

One of my favorite episodes by far! All of you are hilarious people thanks for bringing on the laughter!😂😂

[@Katia.t.t]

I'm not even half an hour in and Kate is so fucking funny I love them already also, that gay thought made me so happy omg i'm gonna look into this (and maybe get a brain scan lol i constantly live in a gender identity crisis)

[@jheneij7514]

"im uhhh really interesting at parties when I'm not nervous.... Uhhhh"

[@SunniBao]

Ashley’s TREMBLING LAUGH while she WHEEZES out of frame at 52:13 is just everything

[@Nat-cu9xg]

Kate is hilarious!! Ashley pls have Kate on the podcast more often

[@jessm.8757]

This was an amazing episode. I love Kate & Ashley’s chemistry. You can see how often they make one another laugh!

[@notforapanpam5602]

This is influencing me to check out more podcasts. I'm dying laughing and it is only the first couple of minutes.

[@maddievstheworld2593]

Okay but bisexual lesbian is a wakeup call for me tho 👀👀👀👀 Attracted to men but would never date them 😂🤣😂🤣

[@GerbenSegboer]

Okay, I’m a 42YO cis hetero white man and I’ve been on a binge of this podcast for the last two days. You are all very funny and I learn a lot about my queer fellow humans. Keep up the good work and you all follow your own path in life! Love u all.

[@anastasiamiroshnikova1007]

OMG. I thought I will never find anything that gayful (gay-joyful), but Ashley/Kate/Alayna is just the thing I needed)

[@fionabyron83]

I am SO glad to have found u Ashley! (Via Alayna) This was possibly THE BEST video I've watched on KZbin, EVER. I laughed so much! Ur the best lesbian trio in history no cap!

[@meganschnabel1001]

Trib/tribbing was said 30 times in this episode

[@ashgavs]

Actually???

[@meganschnabel1001]

@@ashgavs Including “roadtrib” and any other past/present tenses of “tribbing”, yes! But your incredible holy trinity reference - I have no idea how to spell it - was said an additional 3 times

[@jujunew6003]

Kate has me roflmao this episode!!!

[@MeCece347]

My face hurts from laughing so much this episode! Also, I've got two names Alayna can choose from: Howard and Urban.

[@elodielabelle-personal4852]

Howard 100%

[@marym7975]

6:20 6:20

[@quitethenon-binaryfuss8596]

impeccable episode

[@Sue-i3d]

I went to church every single day. A short mass everyday before school,confession on Saturdays and mass again on Sunday. Oh and don't forget the Stations of the Cross on Fridays during Lent!!!

[@Sue-i3d]

This was all through grade school.

[@shivaninegi9779]

This episode is epic 🙌🏻🤪 laughed throughout the episode 😝😂🤣

[@Ashley--L]

Wow! So many insights in this episode. I love when things get graphic, or when there are dating/ relationship details and conversations, in a word when things get real because I feel I am learning and getting rid of some fears.

[@natalietorres6345]

Lets Gooo!! This was awesome!!!

[@Hakdk]

kate and ashley crack each other up so much and it is so funny i love it please don't stop

[@daliareyna2244]

I laughed so hard through this episode!! Kate is awesome and together you are amazing!

[@jenniferchristian8115]

I’m literally howling! Such a funny episode x

[@TheNasteya]

I've been a FAN of the pod and dj AJ for almost a year. How could I see this episode just now?! What's wrong with me?! Loving the vibes, a warm blanket for my soul ❤️

[@kerfufflebus9690]

This had me HOWLing!

[@aprilhubbard3482]

As I start to come to terms that I am also or exclusively? attracted to women, I SO appreciate the honesty about experiences AND some tips. Thank you!

[@liamclarke64]

21:00 - Men have blown their reputation!! Talk about hit the nail on the head for accuracy!!!

[@in.medio.virtus]

25:37 i had to pause, look up for that beach pic and double tap it

[@messlife_]

Laughing a lot at this one! Appreciate Two Clit Kate on the pod and should remain! I am also all for a Roadtrib!! My grandpa was called both Bob and Sam. Have fun with all these options Alayna!

[@morgankovac3632]

Alayna! You can't leave your gal pal!!!!

[@baileylorton8705]

Kate’s laugh is hands down my favorite on this planet! It brought me SO much joy!

[@myrmidryad]

"You might feel like you're torching their life, but they will be better off, and you'll be better off." FACTS. I literally had Alayna's journey, just a couple of years earlier, and yeah, I know my ex is having a better time with a partner who's genuinely enjoying herself.

[@phiatevault2288]

46:43 IM A TRUMPET PLAYER AHAHAHH IM DEAD

[@kaitlynb8854]

I watched Alaynas new Lesbian vs Baby Gay video last night and this just popped up on my recommended videos and holy shit I cried through half this episode y’all are fucking hilarious! Can I please be friends with you three because I want to be involved in these conversations!

[@TheNasteya]

This is EDUCATION!

[@anger101]

Best episode, the laughing has cleared my skin.

[@JennaTellya70]

“Fat in the Chat”... HA! I love it!! I’m a big girl myself (5’1/2”, 245 lbs). The word Fat is just a size, it’s not a bad word! When I call myself fat I’m just describing myself, I’m not downing myself. Stop thinking this is a bad word!

[@samanthahammett9178]

This reminds me of all the fabulous convos I’m seeing on tiktok (lol what is life) about they/them and he/him lesbians. I’m here for it. All the lesbians.

[@ashgavs]

All the lesbians!!!!

[@Jojopinapples]

There’s an old scientist in the 15 hundreds that was the first man to discover the clitoris but then found out that women already knew for centuries lmao

[@Kalymnah]

Amazing episode!!! Could we get that book name (the one you mention at about 00:51:00 ? Not “she comes first” but the other one about “frictions” ? I need to get my hands on it 🙃

[@maragaitan-strane3215]

I’m waiting for the ROADTRIB Comedy tour !!! Also my grandpas name was Ralph hahaha 🤣

[@evanwinseck4036]

I adore all of you!! This episode had me cracking up.

[@kawaiivalpal]

honestly gonna have to borrow kate's term "bisexual lesbian" for myself cause I've never found something I identify with more right now than that

[@vikanaz9680]

"I am the face of face-sitting" needs to be merch

[@samferny2767]

I love this episode

[@jujunew6003]

I'm a fan of all 3 of you!!!

[@elizabethhill2420]

I am a new viewer. First video. I'm dying. I have never laughed so hard watching KZbin. I haven't laughed this hard at a comedy club. Thank you for starting my morning off in such an amazing way!

[@Aine_murphy97]

Best Episode Ever !

[@merlereitz3925]

I fucking love yall as a trio. Good luck on your road trib!!

[@katrinaevans5030]

This is amazing! Kate is so funny!!

[@cheesecakelasagna]

I've literally just discovered this podcast and I'm already addicted. Also, my grandpas' name are Pablo and Beddy (idk the latter's un-nickname).

[@ihatemickiegee]

5 mins in and i'm LAUGHING also #roadtrib is NECESSARY and kate is fucking hilarious

[@jameshasagiantpeach]

Annnnnnnnnnnd I've fallen in love with Ashley hahahahahahahahaha

[@jazzyroly]

I’m with alayna, face sitting is a new fave for me too💀 My grandpa’s names are Roscoe and Richard! Take your pick lmfao

[@jujumafoo_]

Love this episode, love Kate, also grandpa name for Alayna: Dennis

[@loupelizzo2399]

Love your podcast and simply love everything about Alana Joy brings us, I enjoyed this podcast a lot and Alayna was a amazing guest. Thank you for the topics you spoke about and made me laugh so hard.

[@zairamacias5515]

omg I shouldn't've watched this while at work, I was choking and also kinda blocking my screen 'cause it was GRAPHIC

[@beckibaker6426]

I want to be YOUNG AGAIN and have FRIENDS like you guys. My childhood would of been soooooo much better!!!

[@doodlerobyn]

You guys are amazing! I haven't laughed this hard in so long!!! Hi Alayna.

[@kyliephx]

Oh my goshhh Kate is a game changer. Please stay 😍

[@sabrina-jo6wb]

guys where's the lesbian books???????

[@brazeduhon3315]

I relate to Kate so freaking much

[@Dance_Creations]

My grandpa's name was Richard, or Dick for short.

[@sarawatkins1086]

I love this! It had me laughing so much. Thank you ❤️

[@geoffgero6081]

I listened to this but came here just to watch Ashley and Alayna's reaction to Kate asking if the girl had two clits. Comedy gold right here

[@Rachel-qz4hj]

Kate is absolutely hilarious, so much fun

[@xlaurenxsmithx]

I fucking love this podcast. I made the mistake of eating while listening to it tho and I legit almost died because I started choking 😂

[@pcastillo6881]

I have to say I am watching this podcast after watching chosen family after Ashley mentioned it so much, so the plugs definitely worked 😂

[@trinaolson7131]

Kate was awesome!

[@savannahbluford3378]

This ep was extra funny lmao love u guys

[@thispastorslife909]

This Pastor is binging your videos 😍and felt so happy listening to this one - I'm dying!! Love all of you soooo much! Also how about you all join my UMC church, just so I can join your conversations 🤣😂🤣

[@skyelovett351]

This episode was quiet entertaining.. Vote to keep kate