To Top, or Not to Top? Alayna Joy Asks the Question | LGBTQ Dating Advice | We’re Having Gay Sex 104

[@cloudykaley]

not to be gay on main but as a very chubby (& recently out) lesbian, hearing y'all talk about tummy folds with love and enjoyment and respect genuinely healed a little part of me also I do the same thing as Kate to keep my hands warm pfjfkfjdk it's unparalleled, 10/10

[@brennazenon6935]

Same tho like fall asleep like that

[@cindycrawford1912]

Boobs, I keep my hands in my boobs for warmth.

[@chelister27]

That wholesome date is such an unexpected contrast from the intense sexual tension we've seen from the two of you on the podcast 😂 it's adorable, it's nice to hear you so happy about it.

[@xlaurenxsmithx]

I really do love when Alayna is in the pod 😂 I highly suggest having Rachel Ballinger on at some point too

[@Shanellereena]

Absolutely! I feel like Rachel might not be as explicit, but it would be good vibes for sure.

[@thewillow3457]

@@Shanellereena lol she will most likely curse like a sailor

[@crownproductions3637]

holy shit that is genius rachel should deffo be on this lmao

[@millie_drums]

I second this

[@mkennedy6405]

OMG yes please!!!!!!

[@saggguy7]

I’m going thru a rough breakup of a 5 year relationship right now and this pod is really getting me THROUGH. It’s exactly the kind of wholesome and hilarious content my soul needs. ❤️

[@zickkea]

omg same

[@angiewagner9232]

I’m in the same spot - I’ve been binging WHGS

[@zickkea]

@@angiewagner9232 it's the only way!

[@cleosworld9096]

Awe I hope u r doing ok. U will be happy soon I promise. The right thing is always the hardest thing. Stay safe

[@acc45460]

The "just kiss her" thing in Ashley's story reminded me of myself a couple weeks ago where I first told my girlfriend I loved her and a couple hours before we had a really nice long talk and after the talk this thought of "say you love her, you love her, you love her" wouldn't stop leaving my head and my heart started pounding so loudly and in the end it came out as a quick squeak (like "iloveyou") and she laughed and I bet my face was bright red because I felt like I was burning. so, yeah, that's something I was just reminded of.

[@laolsaouce]

Alayna did an amazing job keeping up with the tremendous speed and swirling comedic vortex of the stank engine. This throuple train was on fire. Y'all had me laughing throughout the whole episode.

[@rozinamouz9286]

I'm so glad I'm listening to this in my house cause I've been laughing uncontrollably the entire time. WARNING -do not listen to this in public, you might pee yourself

[@ginakearney4146]

Not me playing this at work laughing my ass off while there are 5 other people in my area.

[@dismurrart6648]

Dude I was listening at work dying

[@jessicam9048]

Alayna is how I originally found you! Love when y’all collab

[@NEIYUWN]

Still one of the greatest episodes. We need more Kate and Alayna

[@lincymoonen228]

OMG Ashley this is what everyone was waiting for, the follow up on you and Casey. Now you HAVE to have her on the pod again

[@alexa-wq1sj]

As a French Canadian/Quebecer I was crying during the poutine part omg

[@robynweyeneth1531]

Same hahahah

[@karolinafarsewicz1490]

Is no one else upset we never heard Ashley's tummy appreciations story in the first segment ?? Also amazing episode!

[@dismurrart6648]

I'm going through admitting I'm gay af to myself and this pod is so validating. A str8 dude the other day asked if he could hide my nipples with tape because he hates piercings and this made me give up on men

[@sebaschanable]

Yo..what the fuck?! Dude must live a boring ass sex life! Definitely missing out Imo.

[@dismurrart6648]

@@sebaschanable THANK YOU! He didn't understand why it offended me either

[@shiv9925]

I have not laughed this hard in a really long time 😂 Also, I am from India 🇮🇳 and I am not offended.

[@Mac-bj6fs]

I discovered this podcast literally yesterday and have already listened to like 12 episodes 😅

[@нрп-ш8х]

same

[@hanquokkasan]

I found this podcast a week ago and I've listened to 20, plus I'm re-listening to this one rn by watching the video because it's just too good xD

[@JMBBrasil]

It is just too good. Too much fun!

[@samanderson2447]

Ashley you describing being on the couch and nervous is me every time and I think maybe it's just because we are scorpios and sexual tension eats us alive

[@ritamiranda8823]

Wow that zoom really showed Ashleys eyes. Beautiful. So gay.

[@a.morujo6073]

I think people tend to confuse a lot top and bottom, and dom and sub... both giving and receiving can feel as a submission or as an order depending on the dynamic, and i feel like that's where the confusion comes from , it's now about WHAT you're doing, it's about HOW you're doing it

[@_gremlinboy]

"Kate that's strike 201" really got me, also just in general you guys are always funny but alayna was firing on all cylinders today. The recurring bits 👌

[@LamAnopro_]

what it means btw

[@AlaynaJoyOfficial]

human stank-ipede took me out

[@Baldrepunzlesssss]

Omg Alayna??

[@themrs9407]

Yay! Love that Alayna is on again.

[@mkennedy6405]

I have never lived SO vicariously through someone else's sexual tension as I have through Ashley and Casey's. Holy shit. I need chapter 2.

[@s0larssystem]

Hey fellow joy babies!

[@shelbystacey2628]

Alayna and Ashly should just have there own pod cast cause I love the episodes when y’all are together it’s so entertaining

[@biscuitanne6770]

"come and make soup in my one room fuck palace" 😭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@lincymoonen228]

OMGGGGG "I keep my hands in there like pockets when i'm meditating naked" Kate you have an amazing soul hahahaha

[@mckinleyuntamed]

“I stick my hands in them like pockets when Im meditating naked” *immediate ad break*

[@rachel_caroline]

i discovered this pod through alayna so im so glad she's back!! this was fucking hilarious i died when kate started doing their italian putin accent adkjfhakjsd

[@jayejaye62]

This podcast is so unhinged I love it.

[@thewillow3457]

I dont think I ever laughed so hard at a video or this podcast before. I am also very happy to hear that the woman that you are obsessed with is getting closer to you lol Hope she is a guest again soon

[@jesicanicole5218]

Listen I'm not gay but holy shit I love these episodes!!!!! My whole face hurts so much from laughing at whatever the hell was happening!! I'm so lost

[@jessicam3555]

How did you find this podcast?

[@ashgavs]

The pod is for everyone! Comedy is comedy and funny is funny. Glad you’re here

[@theembersinside1420]

Aww, the "Gara Era!!" I'd love to see an episode w them! Almost like a reunion/check-in.. This episode was sooo chaotic & I loved it! 🤘🏻☮💜 Edit/PS- The term u were wondering about, one of the surgeries a trans man would go through is called Metoidioplasty (sp?) I believe it's one of two that are offered as of yet. Not a Dr, so that's all I can tell u. 😋🤔

[@victoriapenner4025]

I am LITERALLY so happy I found this pod, it’s hilarious

[@annmarieeeee]

I am not even 10 minutes in and just consistently laughing out loud this whole time 😂 I’ve surely said this multiple times before about multiple guests but this might be my favorite episode already 🤣

[@jacklandismusic]

Kate’s laughter is the most contagious fucking thing

[@ninin11]

I'm ten minutes in and genuinely crying from laughter and coughing my lungs out. Thank you guys. You're all so fucking funny and the three of you play onto each other perfectly. Love the pod and love alayna.

[@alissagren5729]

I listened to this episode when it came out and just randomly watched it today. This is an all time hilarious episode

[@lowkeykoala5389]

oh my gosh my stomach hurts i haven’t laughed this hard in a while this episode was amazing

[@leahbeyer8431]

i listened at the library well doing hw and i literarily had to get up and leave cause i was laughing to hard and people were starting to stare 💀

[@SunniBao]

is anyone still listening? "ALEX, by law he has to" IM SOBBING DKJAFHKLJDSHFKJH POOR ALEX SDFKJGLDFJH LMAO

[@emerson1998]

"we're so on fire right now" - Ashley and Kate, after mumbling about "poutini", "straight puss", "straight vagca", "that's what Putin drinks", "get it, it's vodka", "he's indian"

[@ashgavs]

i stand by it.

[@JuMixBoox]

I just do eyebrow dye for my moustache. I love it because every time I pointed out to people how visible my mustache was, they tried to console me or tell me to wax it, not understanding the positivity I come to it with, so it makes me feel a little rebellious and even more happy there.

[@hannahrosega]

I tell everyone i know about this podcast! It just brings me so much joy

[@daxmonkeyfeet2574]

I took a brake from youtube for a bit and now I'm wondering why I didn't make more time for this podcast . It has everything you could possibly need . I love that I came for Alayna as a guest and got an update on the Casey situation

[@TannosaurusRex13]

Not me almost crying from laughing too hard. Also “Just for Them” C’mon y’all it was right there 😂

[@motherofbears95]

This is, absolutely the most chaotic WHGS ep I've listened to & I'M HERE👏🏼FOR👏🏼 ITTT

[@krigs0910]

Alayna went from Ashley’s son to her ex wife in less than a year. I love our chosen family.

[@othmaniarij7983]

Kate's laugh and smile is beyond precious

[@lezlezzin]

another banger episode with Alayna

[@maggieharper3575]

kate’s likability is ~off the charts! it’s unreal

[@stephanielastname8271]

so glad Alayna’s back again, this is one of the best pods yet i can’t stop laughing

[@jennaozzy6863]

The three of you, across platforms, made the hugest difference for me when I was coming out and dealing with the awful aftermath of that. Thanks so much for just being so funny and awesome. You're the best!!!

[@shannonsalem]

When these 3 get together whatever kind of day I'm having instantly becomes the best day. I could listen to them talk about anything and everything all day long.. also can I just say that I know you all were joking but I am still over here just thinking how it would make me so happy if Ashley and Alayna were to actually get together.

[@chanelmeanor682]

I am laughing so hard that my dog is worried about me. He should have been an asthma service dog rather than mental health. I'm going to need a tank of oxygen to continue to be a fan and watch these episodes.

[@jaehenry]

This is definitely my favorite episode so far. I’ve been binging them all

[@raha704]

I'm in love with this podcast 🥲🥲 love you Ashley Gavin from Iran 🇮🇷 ❤️ 🇺🇸 ❤️ 🏳️‍🌈

[@ananyakallianpur4956]

Nfjfjxjxjdjd just when I start to study for my exam . It's Alayna and Ashley. No way I can resist watching right away!

[@sami_tibbs]

Omg since it's a long weekend, I didn't realize today was Monday and there's a new pod episode!!!! What a nice surprise 🥲

[@benjulesrun9057]

I've been bouncing around the episodes with youtubers but now I HAVE to hear the ones with casey... this is how I get hooked innit

[@alisa4626]

Fuck I loved this so much !! I can't wait for you three to record in the same room together. The chemistry is immaculate!

[@rulynnklapp]

JustForKai was such an under appreciated joke i (a transmasc individual myself) literally SPIT OUT MY FOOD laughing for 5 minutes

[@kenziewenzieasmr9800]

The way alayna says just for men it reminded me of “just for men and Jenna” 😂 took me back

[@StDemi1]

The videos with you and Alayna are always so fun, I love it.

[@theknight3583]

The pod is great, furthermore, it's really interesting to me how you could have such meaningful conversations amid such strange jokes. It makes me wonder where you'd get if you had serious conversations on these topics

[@lowbatterylifestyle7025]

At the very end when Ashley said if you can’t find Alayna I fr thought she was going to finish by saying you are like a cis guy trying to find the c***. 😂😂😂 I laughed so hard throughout this episode that I scared my dog. Great content!

[@thebooksgirl]

Kate's laugh is just SO JOYOUS i absolutely love this episode!!

[@ginakearney4146]

This went off the rails in the best way.

[@katsayle8520]

My body image has just gone through the roof 😂😁

[@bubblekittea6140]

Ive listened to a ton of podcasts and i’m more of a smile if something is funny but i laughed out loud at so many points and it started with kate saying “alaynas poutini”

[@SunniBao]

i'm canadian too and my face during the whole poutini incident was the exact same as alayna's the WHOLE time.

[@user-hx1cp8yc5t]

Definitely one of the best episodes! The chemistry all three of you have is amazing! I laughed just as hard as yall! Keep it up!!

[@avantikakulkarni5971]

Wait I don't know if we are bringing this up?!? But I was endlessly excited for Ashley and Casey but it's her birthday and I saw a post with a partner?! Is this us being too nosey?? I hope everything is okay 🥺

[@ashgavs]

I’m good, don’t worry 💕

[@1234heatherlumley]

I know! I was going to bring this up too bc im curious. I know there is a lag between filming the podcast and uploading and now im eager for more updates hahaha

[@thewillow3457]

well thats fucked up

[@AndreaGonzalez-jm5um]

As a little Mexican, you are more than welcome to continue making little Mexican jokes

[@kaitlynb8854]

My favorite WHGS throuple! I’ve been watching Alayna for years so I love getting to watch her on the podcast!

[@zuleimagil8623]

Just got my heart broken and I’m so happy I found them ! Can’t wait to see live in Sacramento !

[@Lextheearthling]

I've never laughed so muuuuch watching an episode! Love when Alayna comes on the pod!

[@MonicaAtkins]

Joy Baby is back

[@8happyperson]

i actually do interject which is me just going on a tangent in my head then having to rewind the video bc i had stopped listening lol.

[@2nd3rd1st]

8:36 OMG comedy opportunity missed for "Creases are increASING"!!! Internet, never let Ashley live this down, it's just too damn shameful

[@violetbrowne5784]

Gods, Alayna has managed to have so many experiences in such a short time. I came out as a lesbian over a year ago and haven't managed to have a single intimate encounter. Obviously I need to get out more! That's totally on me.

[@MariGDEL]

listening to this episode has been one of the most wonderful experiences I've ever had

[@naty58pr]

"PR shouldnt be a Colony of the US" yes Kate, yes. ✊🏻

[@CGA1]

The group of amazing friends I always wanted to have 🥰 maybe someday. But while this doesnt happen I will listen to the pod. Love you all!

[@stitchedscorpio]

Alayna somehow became the cancel coach this episode lol

[@heathersaintonge2039]

So Idk if I’m aloud to make a 2nd comment but I’m so stoked for Ashley and Casey. I just recently commented on a previous video about this relationship. But that was such a great date story! Loving it! I really hope things progress and work out. You two are so cute together, really compliment one another 🥰😁😜

[@ihatemickiegee]

the face alayna is making at 52:18 contemplating existential woes of the queer human experience is me as shit

[@layladlovely]

This episode is FIRE! FIRE! All of you were in top form this day.

[@poplife279]

Folks, just a fyi that Casey posted on her ig today that's she's in love with this woman, I'm assuming her current partner, who isn't Ashley so yeah there's that.

[@ashgavs]

No big! Don’t worry

[@Ladyarchivold]

💕 I love Alayna and this pod 💕... I've been gone for a while so time for a binge watch.

[@ARS0NDEVIL.]

Yalls chemistry is amazing

[@maecrow815]

I’m so mad that you went with “just for Kai” not “just for them” about Kate’s mustache dye

[@ashgavs]

Dude I fucked up

[@jessicam3555]

I mean just for them is more of a legit thing but just for Kai I think it’s funnier

[@cooki3monstrrr]

24:08 Kate's face! They're having flashbacks to the Casey podcast episodes 😂😂

[@SunniBao]

are we ever gonna find out ashley's banger prepared response to alayna's answer to her question about tummy confidence

[@redcherry1002]

LOVE THIS EPISODE SO MUCH, HOLY SH*TE!! Haven't laughed that hard in so long 😂😂 Also in terms of FTM bottom growth, a term that's used can also be a 'Peen/Pean', so a mashup of Penis and Bean! Super affirmative imo while also fun and quirky

[@annemanalisay543]

By far my favorite episode ! Here from the chosen family podcast

[@ZoeMurray]

Ashley saying that every pod is her favorite gives lesbian I think I am in love vibes

[@ePai9e]

Alayna was in top form this episode - so quick with the wit 👌

[@emmawiltfong8912]

This is the international episode, I see

[@juliatitze]

There's also the term clitpen which some trans masculine people use

[@natychocolatee]

Wow. I NEVER been this early for an episode. :O I'm addicted to this podcast... hahaha