We Thrifted Outfits For A Lesbian Bar · Kitchen & Jorn

We took a road trip to San Diego and thrifted some outfits to go to the girlie bar while we were there! It's not Empty Suitcase because we don't own the rights to that!!
Special Thanks To Gossip Grill (gossipgrill.com) and Looks Better On Me (looksbetteronme.com)
Edited by: Kelly Duong

[@kitchenandjorn]

HAPPY FRIDAY!! 1) Jen does not like shopping for clothes on camera. Really hates it. Please don't ask her to do it! 2) I (Kristin) do not identify as a lesbian but that doesn't mean I can't cheer for lesbians! 3) Please watch a lot of this, we want to be able to do more of these!!!! OK bye love ya!

[@mars7143]

love these episodes!! a gentle note: some of my lesbian friends have said they don’t feel comfortable when non lesbians use the word dyke to describe themselves/others. ❤️

[@kitchenandjorn]

​@@mars7143 A gentle response: Your friends' feelings don't dictate what words we reclaim - Jen (certified dyke, lesbian, whatever)

[@ycam1127]

It's a happy Friday NOW... that I get to watch this

[@mars7143]

@@kitchenandjorn as a bi person myself ive had lesbians tell me its not my place to reclaim those words since its not my lived experience! sorry if i made it sound like i was trying to dictate what words yall can say, just wanted to share what ive learned.

[@kitchenandjorn]

@@mars7143 yeaaaah beyond that just being a very ahistorical assumption about the original usage of the term, it's definitely in my lived experience with regards to it being used against me pejoratively. Shouted at me from moving cars, by people in high school, in my hometown, etc. I have no personal qualms about reclaiming this term! --Kristin

[@ollieotty6567]

“I’ve fallen and I can’t fem up” is an underrated line and I will be using it daily for the rest of my life

[@katherinemclean3066]

Yess. This is going in my lexicon. My style started hyper femme and has been a slow slide into masc territory and I... I just can't imagine going back..... (for one, makeup??? 1. takes time, 2. annoying when you sweat or cry, 3. expensive af, Bras??? no. Dresses? my ass is out and i don't like it)

[@kmlameattempt]

You can call it “Outfit For Me, and Outfit for Brie”, which is taken directly from a quote from this episode! Or even “Outfit For Me, Outfit For Brie…Or Should We Just Get Three?” in case you find a few options!

[@aTwistedSista]

I’m definitely into the first title. 👍🏽👍🏽

[@mickysgirl4ever]

Oh my GOODNESS that’s an adorable title and I really hope they use it!! 🥺

[@NuLeafGu85]

Oooh that's so good! What about "Me, Brie, & Outfit Makes Three... ft today's special guest, JEN"! Except Jen is, of course, every day's special guest ☺

[@alexisreve1]

Love this suggestion!

[@Philosopanda]

These are so good!!!

[@rhiannonchiacchiaro6352]

Jen having an ADHD moment and honing in on animals during the outfit reveals was peak perfection.

[@annesofiestisen239]

Kirstin joining in is 100 % the Thing ADHD and/or sleep deprived adults do

[@ShiloVix]

I seriously would have been doing the same. Lol 😆 I also would have found food for the cat.

[@SIMphony.]

“there’s A cat outside” “no sorry I saw Spider”-peak Jen ADHD

[@ytknits4892]

I love that Kristen pointed out that she was reusing things she already had. Normalise rewearing the things that you already own!

[@9206156175]

Especially in content creator worlds

[@Dollopism]

Show title idea “what will I wear when I get there?” Just also wanted to say I am so bloody happy to see this show format back where it belongs. You are all so amazing and a real inspiration to my young gender fluid pansexual daughter.

[@kitchenandjorn]

cute title!!!!!

[@happygina7]

hearing about how terrible of a time Kristin had while filming the original empty suitcase broke my heart. Seeing them so happy for this re-boot is so so exciting!! I hope all of y’all do more of these episodes!!!

[@Tazzie1312]

My favourite thing is that whenever you go shopping for clothes, Jen turns into a supportive boyfriend XD The instinctive urge they have to just carry all the thing is so delightful and cute. I really missed this type of show! I'd love to see more of it with Brie! Kristin has such good fashion advice for her and it's so cute to see her learning all those little tricks, and helpful for a lot of us! Oh my god that polka dot crop top outfit is so cute. I want that one XD Both your bar outfits look great!

[@PokhrajRoy.]

As a fan of ‘The Empty Suitcase Show’, I’m loving this video! Kristin going shopping is one of my favourite things to watch ♥️

[@MagicalMissMikki]

Same!!! It wasn’t until some updates on this channel that I realized how much Kristin hated doing empty suitcase videos but I LOVE seeing Brie exploring styles and having fun, and I think it might help Kristin not feeling like the only one trying stuff on or being restricted to filling a suitcase for multiple looks vs picking an outfit for a specific outing 🥺❤️

[@FlagCutie]

Same! I love a Kitchen in Shopping Spree mode! I was sad to learn that they were under such horrible stress when they used to shoot it.

[@nathetu8520]

I think I liked the Empty Suitcase Show because I too am plus size and that's a huge fear. So I found it comforting that it is possible to find comfortable stuff for plus size ladies around the world. I think my favorite episode will always be Hawaii

[@calebmcintosh1991]

Man I need some friends to do the transmasc version of this with me. I finally got the top chop and can wear clothes that I like, so I'm really trying to find my own style. It seems like Brie is finding hers, that final look is immaculate

[@rabbit6546]

ok calling top surgery the top chop is fucking incredible i'm so stealing this LOL

[@jasminelambert3753]

Yessss that sounds so fun! I would totally love doing this if I were your friend! It’s so fun to see Kristen and Brie getting to explore their identities through fashion :)

[@MorticiaAttoms]

Congratulations on yeeting the yitties! I'm so happy for you!

[@TheShauNanigans]

I wish I was friends with you IRL. I would LOVE to take you shopping. Best of luck while you find your style!

[@jzrth]

saaaaame

[@Kittles927]

I love how Kristin can pick a piece up and immediately see the potential ways to style it 👑 👑

[@wintergirlb8367]

Has Brie thought about bangs? I think they would look great on her! Also that white dress was bomb!

[@MagicalMissMikki]

Yessss every girls gotta get bangs at some point in their life, some of us don’t learn after the first four times. But I honestly think Brie could really pull it off 😭❤️

[@mellie4174]

Ua bangs would be awesome for brie!!

[@adamarisanchez1928]

“It’s my turn b*tches” We love relatable Brie😊❤️

[@deenam2567]

“Jen has a bucket hat on… so you know it’s serious” 😂

[@aliyahpulido953]

Makin' it extra '90s and early 2000s!

[@Mosempai]

I want both Kristin and bri's outfits for me. I thought the dress was really cute with the red coat, and I'm so glad she went with it. The vest and the bag just /make/ the outfit. Also Kristin bless your shade at Dior. Happy Pride :D

[@rawritsataco]

Brie is FEELING that outfit and I love the sass. Kristin, your wife is amazing and I hope everyone else is fawning over her, hoping for more Brie goes shopping videos

[@ameliasparkles13]

Omg we need more of Brie and Kristen dancing together! And of Jen narrowly avoiding the clothes trying to wear them and not the other way around 😆

[@soapstuff6212]

I am loving seeing more of Brie, she is so funny and I love seeing her confidence grow x

[@carriem4596]

Is it just me or is Kristin more smily in videos that have Brie in them? They are so cute together! I needed a happy little moment today! I love ALL of your videos!!

[@maia_gaia]

The unbridled joy in this video 💖💜❤️ also happy pride 🌈

[@jennifer3796]

Brie looked so ele-gay-nt in her final look and though I think Kristin rocks any look I still adored her best in potential outfits 2 and 3! Jen be cute just by existing 🥰

[@oakes226]

The way y'all make gender exploration so fun and accessible makes me want to cry with happiness. Doubly so as you're doing it *now*, in your 30s, because like so many of us (my mid-30s trans nb butt included!) we really never got to HAVE this kind of thing in our lives as kids, not the way cis kids do. I love that you're showing it's never too late to have this, that it can still be fun and silly and *playful*. Love love love.

[@kitchenandjorn]

it's never too late!!!! never! I spent so much of my teen years wishing I didn't like women and wishing I could just be normal in every way and it never happened and honestly it worked out! --kristin

[@Ace-jk8mq]

It's the...BARE BAG SHOW

[@kitchenandjorn]

LMAOOOOOO YES Y'ALL WHAT SHOULD WE CALL THIS?!

[@heliagrey]

@@kitchenandjorn Trying it On: (Whatever Location/Destination edition) it’d cover both the clothes and the finds in the thrifting process and whatever place/destination you take the clothes to. Esp if, like this episode, it’s out of one or more of your comfort zones.

[@Ace-jk8mq]

@@heliagrey thats a really cool idea!!

[@niteflitetheknitter]

Thrifty Travels?

[@rebeccat.6134]

@@kitchenandjorn Wardrobe Wanderlust?

[@paulineseibert1379]

Outifit for me, outfit for Brie -new show name

[@terryenby2304]

This was so much fun!! Totally understand Jen not wanting to shop on camera! But could we hear about her look when she is ready to go out too? Or is that not okay? Would be interesting if she is up for that in the future too :) but either way it was a fantastic video!! Thank you all so much for your hard work :)

[@eddisianc8639]

Thank you Jen for being the shopping representation that I needed. Also thank you Jen for externally showing my interior monologue, as an inattentive ADD person. Thank you Brie for being incredibly sexy and very good at puns. And thank you Kristen for being the icon and fluid fashion queen that I need 😭

[@therealmekk]

Thrifting has a place in my heart

[@Uhsheel1515]

Brie in that red jacket/white dress combo needs her own show--*STUNNING*

[@fiberterian]

She was serving talk show hostess and I loved it!

[@jordinburch9466]

"Little cherry butter cookie goin on down there" honestly that sounds like the compliment I didn't know I needed

[@PokhrajRoy.]

Quote of the Day: “Fashion should work for you, you don’t work for fashion.”

[@leeswiggity6162]

In today’s episode of thrifting on location, we see adorable outfits, lgbthrifting, and adhd in action. Which, really, what else could you want? Thank you for the content, and I’m glad that Kristen seems to be way more relaxed about it this go around!

[@ButtonGirl22]

I like the most economical and logical use of things you already have, as opposed to Empty Suitcase where you bought the extras new. I think it could be cute to also do an accessories haul of all of what you brought with you and why you chose it for a specific outfit as you’re getting ready. Only if you’re comfortable with that of course!

[@kitchenandjorn]

OH that is smart!!!! Just so people see what I am working with before hand? This is really good advice thank you. ❤️

[@dawnoneill1773]

Jen constantly scaring herself with clothes etc is cracking me up 🤣 happy pride month love you guys 💜🇮🇪

[@kiman6]

Bri looks SO cute in that dress I loved it when bri walked out in it at the store I’m so glad it was the chosen outfit 💖💖

[@chrissyrk95]

I love that Kristin is wearing her hair natural all the time now, it is so pretty.

[@Christina-hj4hh]

Brie’s initial dress before they put on outfits with the sixties blue floral and polka dots is really lovely. Suits her very well

[@Freya778]

Yes it looks gorgeous on her!

[@kathleenbirrell3222]

Tbh Bri’s voice is so nice, her voice is so soft and she’s so well spoken 😍

[@kristinahenson5437]

The empty suitcase show was probably my all time favorite series. I loved seeing a little glimpse of the past mixed up with the present! Also glad Brie is making more of an appearance in the shows. You all are lovely people!!

[@Katie80-501]

Brie always looks SO HAPPY whenever they do cut aways to show her whole outfit. She smiles so big and radiates such joy and it just fills me with happiness every time I see her!

[@WendieBird]

Brie just keeps getting more beautiful and adorable every time we see her. It makes me so happy!

[@Leggo_greggo]

I would kill to have Kristin design a week of disneybound outfits for me with Bri and Jen providing commentary and also advice. Genuinely would be a dream come true.

[@catbeara]

Lmao, when Jen kept being attacked from above I couldn't stop laughing. 😂

[@catebrooks6779]

Whatever Jen was wearing when they arrived was FIRE. I love that Brie went with the dress then jazzed it up with the vest! And the scarf top is brill. Ty ALL for normalizing GOING OUT IN FLATS!!

[@catebrooks6779]

Oh, and I NEED THOSE PURSES!!!! SO CUTE!

[@onichols4]

Kristin and Brie dancing and laughing at the end made me tear up, that was so cute

[@peppanotpepper4672]

Its just been one of those days and Jenn singing “hot ladies robots in disguise” made it all ok ☺️

[@hollis7547]

I LOVE getting to see Jen and Bri’s friendship on camera! They’re the dynamic duo I never expected 😂

[@riversongsmelody]

That blue floral dress looks so good on Bre 😍

[@B0952]

We need more lesbian bar footage of you all living your best lives in those amazing outfits!! 🤩

[@DrSageMoss]

I’m so happy Brie went with the white dress. It looks sooooo amazing on her!

[@cynthiawang874]

I love love LOVE the white dress that Bri picked out. It's perfect and can be dressed up and down for so many occasions.

[@jenred5102]

Brie’s smile lights up a room! Happy Pride indeed!, 🥰❤️💜💚💙💛

[@NotTelling]

Well this made my day! I especially get a kick out of seeing Brie's confidence growing and Kristin trying out some more butch clothing options. And of course Jen holding things and detecting cats. Let's go lesbians!

[@zwizh]

As someone who just walked in the door after kind of a shitty road trip, the first minute and a half of this is VERY RELATABLE

[@NothingButGiggles]

The hanger jump-scaring Jen was like a cat with a cucumber

[@TiggerNS]

Kristin's Potential Outfit No. 4 is giving me 90's Girl Guide leader vibes, pretty sure my Mom wore that outfit for our Guide meetings lol

[@LydiaMinahan]

I was in San Diego with friends at the end of April and we stayed in Hillcrest (the neighborhood where Gossip Grill is) and LOVED it. The area is so fun, and I felt so safe and accepted. It makes me happy that you guys visited San Diego and brought attention to a really great area 😊

[@gingeridot]

I totally understand that Brie has a day job and can't be and doesn't want to be in every video, which is why I'm all the more happy to see her here and thriving like Whaddup, b*tches! Her coning out behind Kristin with that entry was so funny and made me so happy! I wish all of you so damn well! xoxoxo

[@MidLa23]

Such a fun and fulfilling video, love the more natural vibes of 3 babes shopping and supporting each other, swapping tips and lovingly nagging each other to "just try it on!" Very excited to see more of this series 💖

[@loverofsleep]

BRIE LOOKS ABSOLUTELY STUNNING OMG LOOK AT THAT BEAUTIFUL LADY😍

[@faeriesmak]

Yas! I love that you brought this back. That dress looks amazing on Brie and I loved the Dior scarf on Kristin! Jen looked super cute as well. I love her striped top!

[@princesskit2267]

it makes me so happy that you guys have been posting more often lately!! you guys have been such a comfort for YEARS. i love seeing you both step more into yourselves and become happier- so much love!! 💗

[@kitchenandjorn]

we've been trying to post every friday this year and we're hanging on by the skin of our teeth but we're making it happen! (except for once a couple of weeks ago)

[@PokhrajRoy.]

The outfits are just absolutely fabulous! 👏🏽

[@jeannerepiton4734]

Happy Pride ! I loved that little dance at the end and congrats to Kristin for finding a way to do the video with the past trauma of the Empty Suitcase by finding a good midpoint

[@mistyautumnryvlin5791]

Cannot put into words just how much I needed the smile this video gave me today. Thank you gorgeous ladies ♥️

[@samr1978]

This was so cute and fun!!! Suuper loved Brie's outfit with the denim over lace! Always a classic combo!

[@meowcenary21]

I love the inclusion of Bri in the videos!!!!! They are becoming so comfortable on camera and the chemistry is so good with you three

[@kellyjenkins2265]

Jen is a babe. Kristin is a babe. Brie is a babe. I’m here for the babes.

[@jessicazielinski1105]

Love that thrifting videos are back and totally appreciate not having to be exclusive to things you find on the road. Bri is also a great addition to the thrifting finds!

[@whenimonmymoon6822]

Brie's blue floral dress is so cute.

[@byrdwyrd3522]

I’m so glad you guys are doing more clothing-related videos! And more travel videos! I loved the final outfits but like group 3 for me really screamed wizard core

[@sydneyrigsby462]

That red jacket on Bri is EVERYTHING👏👏👏 10/10

[@jerrylyncruz8916]

I absolutely loved this video!! I’m always so amazed by the outfits you girls put together, you are all very inspiring 💕 thank you for yet another awesome video! The ones where you get to travel and visit different places are definitely my favorite!

[@halimarie3310]

More of these videos please and thank you, three absolute gems ❤️❤️❤️

[@DeeLynne]

This was so much fun to watch I love when all three of you beautiful ladies are together! Can’t wait to see future adventures with you all 🥰😘💜Happy Pride ❤️🌈

[@annahurlock2021]

Love Bri joining in the videos! I enjoy all your videos, but the ones with the three of you are my favorite!

[@mattcottrell3286]

Y’all always come through for me on rough days. I am really struggling with PCOS symptoms today and I needed y’all’s company. Thanks ❤️❤️

[@therebutforthat]

This is such a wonderful video! Also frankly “what I love about these outfits is that you’re both hot”- Jen as always a relatable and factual monarch

[@laurengamble1817]

Brie looks SO good in her outfit!! And the scarf into a top is such a good idea!!

[@kitchenandjorn]

SHE DOES!!!!!

[@beewitched53]

I’ve never been more excited for a video!

[@michellebusch492]

Ah this takes me back. Travel, shopping, seems very familiar and I'm loving it!

[@natashamia7]

Ahhhhhh!!! Yes!!!!!! I am sooooo glad you have made a video this on the channel! I can’t wait to see more!

[@cassandrang687]

More of this please! Happy pride 💙💕

[@jasminelambert3753]

The clip of Kristen and Brie dancing at the end 🥺 I love seeing such pure joy and love from you two. I hope this can turn into a series where Kristen and Brie can really explore their identities through style and fashion! It’s so lovely watching you guys all encourage each other to try new things and express yourselves to the fullest! Also, you all looked so good! My favorite outfit was Kristen’s because it was so sexy and bold! I’m truly loving the scarf as a shirt trend and it looks soooo good on you!

[@andrineslife]

Bri and Kristin are so darn cute I love them ❤️

[@vyk4753]

The sequins top and neutral skirt Brie moment towards the end was giving Buffy the Vampire Slayer sexy transfer witch from another college.

[@firelily131618]

This is amazing!!! I always love your shopping trip videos ☺️

[@ailliar3287]

Brie's outfit was so cute, I really love her addition to the Not Empty Suitcase Show!!!

[@sarawrsflove]

I just wanted to say that in addition to both of your found outfits being gorgeous, the silhouette/fit of the dress Bri was wearing when you guys were shopping was super cute on her!

[@cuttlefiish]

omg loved this!! both outfits were so fabulous. that bar looked like a really fun spot!

[@morgangilbertsen3152]

I swear to see Bri smile so much now is the most amazing thing ever!!! You look amazing Bri your so bubbly and I am here for it!!!! Kristen and Jen y’all are cool too! 😋 hope y’all had a fun time!!!

[@noellelewis9892]

The dress Brie wears to the first thrift store is so cute! Such great style inspiration!

[@ainsleykirkpatrick5420]

Love this! I love watching you in thrift shops!

[@lvwest8092]

More road trips! You all were having too much fun!❤️

[@kileyeliza]

They are all so stunning in everything, it’s amazing😍

[@Cupidthewingwoman]

Brie going “My time, bitches!” is so hilarious to me🤣😂

[@glamgio_nyc]

Brie was giving royal vibes in that white dress and red coat! I love the outfits Brie and Kitchen chose! I love this series so much! Sending love to you all!

[@catherinejohnson2794]

More of this pls!!! Love y’all

[@bethlovesben]

I love these outfits SO MUCH ♡

[@sonorasgirl]

Yay!! Love this style it’s so fun

[@mskjaer496]

Love Kitchens scarf top! With shorts! 😘 Chefs kiss